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10 Questions On Dating With Matt Chandler Desiring God
10 Questions On Dating With Matt Chandler Desiring God
10 Questions on
Dating with
Matt Chandler
Question 1: Is My Boyfriend
(or Girlfriend) Godly
Enough?
The Bible commands Christians to marry
“in the Lord,” that is, to marry other
Christians (1 Corinthians 7:39; 2
Corinthians 6:14). But in a day when so
much nominalism passes for authentic
maturity, give us a few simple marks of
spiritual growth that a man or woman
should be looking for in a potential
spouse.
“Godliness is sexy to
godly people.”
Question 4: Should My
Church Help Me Get
Married?
What can members of local churches
practically do to help godly marriages
happen, instead of just telling men, “Man
up and get your life together,” and telling
women, “Stop waiting around and be
active in your singleness?” What role
should the church community play in
deciding who and when to marry? Any
advice for inviting others into a
relationship to that end?
Question 6: Should a
Boyfriend “Lead” His
Girlfriend?
Do you think it’s wise for a boyfriend to
“lead” his girlfriend? Should a dating
relationship reflect the complementary
structure of marriage to any degree? It
seems biblically and practically wise, but
it also seems covenantally inappropriate
at this stage. What would you say?