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Is Your Ex Just Using You For Sex?

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Clay Andrews <hello@modernlove.life> 29 January 2023 at 17:30

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Could your ex just be using you for sex?

I know that it can sometimes FEEL like you’re headed in the right
direction with your ex when you’re making that physical connection.

But what are your ex’s true intentions?

Especially if they just end up going right back into their rebound’s
arms?

…Or if they shut down emotionally afterward?

Is It Good to Have Sex with Your Ex or Not?

Okay, so what should you do? Should you have sex, hoping that the
closeness will help bring your ex back? Or should you withhold it until
you know it’s safe to trust them to stick around?

As, is usually the case, the truth is more complicated than a simple
yes or no answer.
Here’s what you need to know before making a choice:

Sex Will Not Save Your Relationship

Don’t think that sex will save your relationship.

And don’t think that sex will keep you out of the “friend zone” with your
ex (you’re not in the friend zone anyway… no matter what your ex
says to you!)

The truth is that if you focus too much on sex, you’re going to
undernourish the emotional connection you have with your ex.

Sure, you might end up having sex.

But if the emotional connection is lacking, don’t expect it to blossom

into anything substantial due to sex alone.

You HAVE to nurture the emotional side too.

That’s why I talk so much about developing a strong emotional

connection with your ex with the Advanced Relational Skills in the
Ex Solution Program.

So, Should You Have Sex or Not?

Here’s the simple answer.

If you have a strong emotional connection with them, sex probably

isn’t likely to hurt anything at all.

If you’re lacking a strong emotional connection, then you should

probably focus more on developing that emotional connection first.
If you need some help strengthening your emotional connection with
your ex, then the best place to start is with the Advanced Relational
Skills in the Ex Solution Program.

You can learn more or sign up over here.

-Clay 

PS: Also, I want to remind you that you should never have sex with
anyone unless you can feel 100% good about it regardless of what
happens afterward.

Don’t have sex just because you think it’ll make your ex come back.

If you choose to have sex do it because you would enjoy it for what it
is and nothing more.
 

Who Is Clay Andrews?

Since 2009, Clay has been helping heart centered

entrepreneurs and professionals going through breakups heal,
connect, and find a new beginning with the people they used to
call their exes.

However, it wasn’t always this way.

Several years ago, Clay found himself in the exact same

situation that you might be going through right now.

The woman he loved left him for someone else.

Through trial and error, and learning everything the hard way,
he was eventually able to get her back.

You can learn more about how Clay did it over here.

Work With Us

There are a lot of ways to work with Clay and the Modern Love
Team.

Connect And Commit - What to say to turn potentially

devastating situations with your ex into opportunities for
connection

Ex Solution Program - Navigate your ex’s emotional world to

build a stronger connection and inspire commitment for lasting
love

Effortless Connection - Develop high-stakes communication

skills to help a struggling relationship thrive.

Emotional Freedom - Overcome the pain of your breakup to

build a new possibility for love with your ex or with someone
new

Authentic Dating - Strategies to navigate the dating world to

find your ideal partner in 5 dates or less.

Private Coaching - Work with us to develop a custom solution

for your current situation

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