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English Persuasive Speech
English Persuasive Speech
forced, coerced, or threatened into sexual activity that they do not want to engage in. And
just like women, any man can be overpowered, outnumbered, or emotionally blackmailed.
The stories of men and boys still remain mostly in these shadows: hidden, unacknowledged
and undiscussed. The lack of awareness and predisposed beliefs about sexual violence is to
think of men as perpetrators and women as victims. Sexual assault stories are everywhere,
but the people telling these stories are almost always girls and women. But this is an
oversimplification that is built on a damaging stereotype about male invulnerability, and it
obscures the truth: Boys can be victims, and boys need our help to break the silence. The
problem is, when a survivor comes forward about their assault, what's there for them to go
to? We have all of these resources for women, but what do we have for men? And even
when men do come forward, they get treated unfairly and labelled as liars and overreactors.
This is the silencing effect that suffocates men until they are too ashamed to come forward
out of the shadows.
Male survivors who have come forward have been pushed to the brink by society’s backlash
causing a ripple effect of silence. This has resulted in reported high rates of fear that they
will not be believed or taken seriously if they report the offence. Boys are less likely to talk
about their sexual abuse to escape the chance of being invalidated, shamed or embarrassed
as between 70-90% of males who have been sexually abused report not telling anyone at
the time. This staggering statistic is an alarm for us as a society to make immediate changes.
For John Doe, after he came forward about his assault, he was invalidated by the people
around him, and went from the victim to the villain. Because of this, he buried his trauma,
and the vicious cycle continues. As a society, we must think about the message we are
sending to men when they come forward about their assault. These victims are at much
greater risk than those who haven’t been sexually assaulted for serious mental health
problems. Sexual assault has a range of consequences for the victim that can extend far
beyond physical injury. They have higher chances of post-traumatic stress disorder,
depression, falling into alcoholism or drug abuse, suicidal thoughts and they often have
problems in their future relationships.
With these devastating consequences of the silencing effect, our society as a whole needs to
break the silence. It starts with the education of consent in schools. The silencing effect and
the impact it has on victims, what consent is and how to be supportive of victims should all
be taught in schools. If this is put into the curriculum in all year levels from primary to high
school, we can address the root of the problem. If you have a kid, a sister, brother or even
just a friend, be aware of what schools are teaching them and expand on this outside of the
classroom. If this curriculum is not followed, be aware and speak up. Let’s set an example: If
your friends come forward to you about any abuse, listen actively and be supportive. Call
out inappropriate behaviour when you see it. Let’s give those male survivors the chance to
come into the light so they know they are not alone. Let’s listen. Let’s break the silence.
Let’s shed a light on this issue.
Eve Huston
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