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CO120-Week 2 - Chapter 2-Communication & Personal Identity - Notes
CO120-Week 2 - Chapter 2-Communication & Personal Identity - Notes
CO120-Week 2 - Chapter 2-Communication & Personal Identity - Notes
04/22/2023
2. PARTICULAR OTHERS
Particular others are specific people that are important in our lives. For example, Our
parents, teachers, peers, coworkers, and our friends. As babes interact with particular
people in their world, they learn how others see them, this is the beginning of a SELF-
CONCEPT!
A. DIRECT DEFINITION
i. Direct Definition- Communication that explicitly tells us who we are by
specifically labeling us and reacting to our behaviors. Usually it first occurs in
families, then in interaction with peers & others.
ii. Family members, etc. Define who we are by telling us who we are or are
expected to be.
iii. Positive (+) - “You’re Smart,” You’re strong.” It can boost or impair our self-
esteem.
iv. Negative (-) - “You’re stupid,” “You’re a troublemaker!” It can demolish a sense
of self-worth.
B. REFLECTED APPRAISAL
i. Reflected appraisal- The process of seeing & thinking about ourselves in terms
of the appraisals of us that others reflect. (Is our perception of another’s view of
us)
ii. This concept is like looking-glass self. (Our mirrors)
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D. Self-Fulfilling Prophecies-
i. Self-fulfilling prophecies are acting in way that embodies expectations or
judgements about us.
E. Identity Scripts-
Identity Scripts is a guide to action based on rules for living & identity. Initially
communicated in families, identity scripts define our roles, how we are to play them,
& basic elements in the plots of our lives. Not the same as a script which is one of the
4 cognitive schemata.
F. Attachment Styles’s-
A pattern of relating instilled by the way a caregiver teaches the child who he or she
is, who others are, & how to approach relationships.
i. Believe the first human bond with a parent is especially important because it
forms expectations for later relations.
ii. It shapes how comfy we feel getting close to others & how secure we feel
accepted & committed to us.
G. Secure attachment Styles-
Is a mode of relating that involves confidence in oneself & in relationships. Like
other styles, the secure mode is instilled by a caregiver who responds in a
consistently attentive, loving way to a child; the most common & most (+) of the 4
attachment styles. People with secure attachment styles tend to be conferrable
forming close bonds with others.
i. Are Comfortable with themselves & are not involved in close relationships.
H. Fearful attachment Styles-
A mode of relating instilled by a caregiver in the 1rst relationship (usually parent-
child) who communicates to the child in consistently negative, rejecting, or even
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abusive ways. People with fearful attachment styles are inclined to feel
apprehensive and insecure about relationships.
i. When the first bond is unavailable or communicates in a negative manner.
I. Dismissive Attachment style-
Is a mode of relating instilled typically early in life by a disinterested, rejecting, or
abusive caregiver, in which the individual later tends to dismiss others as unworthy
& thus does not seek close relationships.
i. Unlike people with fearful attachment styles, those with a dismissive style do
not accept the caregiver’s view of them as unlovable.
ii. May view relationships as unnecessary or undesirable.
J. Anxious/ambivalent attachment style-
Also known as preoccupied. A mode of relating/ attachment style characterized by
preoccupation with relationships & inconsistent behavior toward your partner.
i. Develops in childhood when a caregiver behaves inconsistently toward the
child. Sometimes loving & sometimes rejecting or neglectful.
3. GENERALIZED OTHER
One source of social perspectives that people use to define themselves & guide how they
think, they feel, act; our perception of the views, values, & perspectives that are
endorsed by society. (Meant the general, or overall, society)
4. CULTURE
A. People learn their cultural values in 3 ways:
i. Learn them as we interact with others who have internalized cultural values-
Women & men treat each others as =equals.
ii. We learn broadly shared social perspectives by participating in institutions the
embody Cultural values.- marriage becomes a single unit meaning joint
ownership of property.
iii. We learn culture’s value through media like tv, newspapers, social media. -
Cultural values communicate media to inform, educate, & allow social contact.
5. RACE
A. Race is considered a primary aspect of personal identity.
B. The 3 major racial categories:
i. White
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6. GENDER
A. Girls & Women are expected to care, support others, & be cooperative.
B. Boys & Men are supposed to be independent, self-assertive, and competitive.
C. Women who assert themselves are socially disapproved for violating gender
prescriptions,
D. Men who depart from masculinity and who are gentle & cring are labeled “wimps.”
7. SEXUAL ORIENTATION
A. Heterosexuality is viewed as normal
B. Lesbians, gays, bisexuals, transsexuals, transgenders, intersexual, & genderqueer
people are abnormal.
8. SOCIOECONOMIC CLASS
A. The socioeconomic class affects everything from how much money we make to the
schools we attend, the jobs open to us, the restaurants we patronize. And the cars
we drive.
C. The norms, values, beliefs, & traditions of our culture affect what we consider
positive face & what are considered appropriate responses to the faces that others
present.
B. Online communication has great potention for strategic manipulation & even
misrepresentation.
F. Observe how the other person responds to your communication & what she or he
does with it.