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Worksheet 7
Worksheet 7
Worksheet 7
You can’t understand someone who is talking to you if you don’t listen carefully? Surprise!
Like most of us you probably don’t know how to listen very well. We are usually too busy
preparing our response, judging or making words fit our own paradigms. Usually we use one of
these five poor listening styles:
1. Spacing out
It made me feel:
Made me feel like she didn’t care about was I was trying to tell her, but it’s when I was
younger so I didn’t really care I just told her again when she wasn’t busy
I find myself doing this to someone else often. True or False? Why?
When they tell me to listen to them I do, but when someone is telling me something and am all
busy I don’t listen to them Ignore and ask them what they were saying after.
3. Selective listening
It made me feel:
I didn’t really care, am a person who doesn’t really care about stuff that’s not important.
I find myself doing this to someone else often. True or false? Why?
False, I actually enjoy listening to all the chisme to be honest
It made me feel:
Nothing, never happened
I find myself doing this to someone else often. True or false? Why?
False I know when someone is really stressing when they start moving around or when they are
expressing themselves by moving their hand a lot.
If true, who do you do it to the most?
5. Self-centered listening
What is “self-centered” listening?
Happens when we see everything from out own point of view.
A time when someone used self-centered listening to listen to me was:
When someone was telling me how they would react if they were me, like I don’t need to know
how you would act am just telling you what’s going on.
It made me feel:
Likes if they didn’t care because they told me what they would do, but then don’t know the full
story and how I cannot act how they telling me they would act.
I find myself doing this to someone else often. True or false? Why
No False I don’t do this, because I like to hear other problems they are interesting and then you
feel bad
If true, who do you do it to the most?
1. What is “judging”?
When someone is saying bad stuff about or when ur talking about what you don’t like about
someone, or when someone just keeps on telling other how bad your clothes are, how much u
hate something from someone or when you calling people weird on how they act.
2. What is “advising”?
offer suggestions about the best course of action to someone.
3. What is “probing”?
to search into and explore very thoroughly