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Interpersonal Communication
Interpersonal Communication
How do you define interpersonal communication? Do you consider family, friends, and
significant others as people you can open up to or let your guard down? How well do you
communicate with each other, and what makes your interpersonal relationship unique from the
rest of other relationships? In everyday life, we make special unforgettable bonds with a few
people who can resonate with us in a deeper level. Moreover, in this paper, I will discuss the
interpersonal relationships and critical aspects of maintaining a personal connection with close
ones and making key connections between the author’s video and book.
Video Synopsis
communication and how its description may be misleading and informal regarding its real
meaning when looking deeper into its context. For example, search engines typically define
people” (Alberts, 2018). She further explains that interpersonal communication is a complex
system of critical components that make individuals engage differently in conversations with
loved ones or those close to them. According to Alberts (2018), “In those conversations, we
reveal who we are” (1:33). In other words, we take down what I like to call masks and expose
our deepest intentions and identity without fearing or feeling vulnerable. As mentioned by
Alberts (2018), “We feel comfortable letting those people know our warts and all, the good
things and not so good things” (1:37). On top of that, she describes interpersonal communication
as a way of signifying that one is unique and irreplaceable (Alberts, 2018). Above all,
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interpersonal communication creates a solid foundation for meaningful relationships that strive
Application One
and others. Interpersonal communication builds upon our identity and makes us more effective
disclose information they wouldn’t usually exchange in regular impersonal conversations. For
instance, as stated by Alberts et al. (2018), “Close relationships are distinguished by their
frequency, intensity, and diversity of contact as well as their level of intimacy, importance, and
model (Alberts et al., 2018, 9.2) will give an easier understanding of how personal relationships
develop, which views interpersonal relationships as an up and down staircase (Alberts et al.,
2018). In connection with the video, Alberts conducted a tape record study of 10 married couples
who would demonstrate either similar or different stair levels in their relationship regarding
marital satisfaction and conflict (Alberts, 2018). Some couples illustrated a positive upward
toward commitment, whereas others showcased a downward spiral towards relational dissolution
(Alberts et al., 2018, 9.2). Thus, Knapp’s stage model illustrates the importance of interpersonal
Application Two.
Secondly, to better grasp Knapp’s stage model, it is essential to note the developmental
stages gravitating towards commitment and what steps lead to loss of personal relationships. The
component I will specifically talk about is experimenting (Alberts et al., 2018, 9.2). The
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experimental stage, as said by Alberts et al. (2018), is the “stage of romantic relational
development in which both people seek to learn about each other” (section 9.2). Taking the case
of video connections, Alberts reported that couples made fascinating, lengthy interconnections
during TV time (Alberts, 2018). Furthermore, Alberts continues to explain one particular case of
a couple that watched a tv program relating to death due to a bullying incident (Alberts, 2018).
Then, the husband opens up about an experience relating to being bullied in school and the toll
on his well-being. Immediately, the wife engages in her part. Overall, the couple entered the
experimenting stage, learning something new about each other, whether good, bad, sad, happy,
etc. In keeping with Alberts (2018), “topics are intimate or embarrassing or difficult” (5:20); as a
result, the environmental factors play a huge role, and that can be as simple as doing an ordinary
activity like watching TV with a loved one. On the whole, there are topics where one may feel
hesitant to talk about. Still, once going up the staircase into the experimentation level,
Application Three.
Lastly, maintaining an interpersonal relationship takes a lot of time, effort, and the ability
to do the right thing in the companionship or relationship. Considering the social penetration
theory, a theory that proposes relationships develop through increases in self-disclosure (Alberts
et al., 2018). On the one hand, being able to successfully or practice self-disclosure, including
breadth, depth, and frequency, will bring one another closer in the relationship (Alberts et al.,
2018, section 9.3). On the other hand, relational dialectics will also influence the development
and maintenance of personal relationships. Such as three tensions conforming to Alberts et al.
As an illustration, an individual can spark self-disclosure through a “bid for attention” (Alberts,
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2018) because there is a moment of initiating and bonding in that exact moment. As a result, the
bid for attention increases positive connections and higher exchanges of understanding in
interpersonal relationships.
Conclusion.
individuals expressing themselves with non-verbal or verbal actions. Still, there is a significant
way of adequately communicating under any circumstances. As I have noted, there are
developmental stages one may consider exploring and testing before committing to an
interpersonal relationship. One may also learn about the downward stages of how a relationship
will either fail or need assistance. Soon after, maintaining an interpersonal relationship may not
be easy. Still, it’s not impossible as long as one and the other party involved keep self-disclosure
and balancing or adjusting relational dialectics for the sake of each other’s well-being in the
References
https://asu.instructure.com/courses/88413/pages/module-6-learning-materials-ppts-dr-
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Alberts, J., Nakayama, T., & Martin, J. (2018). Human communication in society (5th ed.,
REVEL). Pearson.