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The Evolution of Dating Throughout Time 1
The Evolution of Dating Throughout Time 1
The Evolution of Dating Throughout Time 1
English 137H
Personally, I have never tried dating apps, but I have gone around
with my friends swiping left and right on theirs. This is now, and swiping
left and right doesn’t do anything; at the end of the day, you make your
own choice. Imagine plenty of years back, however, when your parents
were swiping left and right for you, and you not having a say on your
Now, we may see that as absurd, but back in the day, that was
were marrying for money, power, or land or just marrying someone in your
name or with a good name to have kids and continue your legacy. Dating
is a solo thing, but its surroundings ultimately influence it. For example,
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with the evolution of social media in society, dating has become more of
an online item nowadays; you call, you text, you facetime, and you may
even meet your partner explicitly through the internet. That is a new and
very present thing; people obviously didn’t have this kind of online dating
culture back then when social media wasn’t even a thing. Dating is weird;
I think we can all agree on that, but how it has changed over the years is
(or rights) were not really prioritized at the time. The woman’s family’s
main goal was finding who could maintain their daughter. Most importantly,
keep the family name proud. These times were all about money, power,
standard, and love was not significant; dating wasn’t a thing. In the
beginning, dating was more in the man’s favor. They had more liberty,
could choose whoever they wanted and had fewer rules to abide by. Less
partners. In a way, men still do have a few more liberties in the dating
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world than women do, it’s just not the same as it used to be, and it’s not
“relationships.” It was no longer a “must” that the family man chose their
partner for them. If a woman did not like the man they were being set up
with, they now had more of a chance of having a say in the final decision
on who their “forever partner” would be. Furthermore, men began to fight
over the women they wanted; thus, women had more choices.
During the 1600s, it was all about strategy. This was now the time to
care the most about money and power. People were no longer seeking
love; they were merely seeking partners. In fact, it was a piece of common
advice not to love your partner as much and to not use sweet or endearing
nicknames for them. Women could now choose their men, and money was
the main factor driving their decisions. Love, on the other hand, was more
Dating became more exciting during the 1800s. While courting was
still the leading standard, a woman did not have to marry the first man
that courted her. Women began to have more fun with their dating
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average age for getting married was fifteen or sixteen to early twenties.
The idea of having fun with dating started to become more accepted in
society.
to accept the idea of dating for fun. Society is becoming more open-
marrying for status or the sake of the family name. This was now a time
when a woman going out with a man did not mean she was a prostitute.
became off-limits. However, with things being off-limits, they became even
more exciting. In these periods, young couples began to sneak around into
top of that, the number of people who had cars increased; therefore,
would take a bit of a step back; after all, it did. After World War II, people
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returned to traditional family views. The War pushed people back to solid,
sending their partner home several gifts during their time abroad.
drastic turn. It was during this time that the concept of dating that we
currently know arose. Since women could now work, the man’s status
maintains a woman since now she could maintain herself (if she wanted
to). In these times, women became more interested in their feelings and
partner would contribute to their happiness and a happy family. Also, since
individual freedom rose in these times, if parents didn’t allow certain things
like being with someone, many would just start sneaking around instead
Nowadays, we have so many things that were not seen in the past.
Four important things of the many that have changed throughout the years
are hookup culture, the “talking” stage, dating apps, and divorce. For those
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who do not know what these are, allow me to explain. Hookup culture is
some people, they can end in “situationships,” and those may easily (and
frequently do) end poorly. The “talking” stage is when you send the good
morning, good night, how are you, what are you doing, and I love you
messages twenty times a day but aren’t a thing. Some talking stages may
media, right now, is the most common way to meet people. Whether it be
in a friendly type of way or in a romantic kind of way, this being said, dating
apps have become a huge game-changer. These are very random; you
may meet the love of your life through your phone, even if they live on the
other side of the world. It doesn’t matter where they are in the world, as
long as you have a phone with you. Some people may not be huge fans of
dating apps since they have a bad reputation, but 20% of current
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committed relationships began online, so one could say that they do work
to an extent.
become way easier throughout the years. As society grew and developed,
world situation. In the past, the mere thought of separating from your
married partner was seen as social suicide. But now, it’s an entirely normal
(usually) criticize others for. At least the norm now is that people shouldn’t
different conversation.
Dating has always been a part of society, but it has undergone all
kinds of twists and turns. From marrying for money, having children to
continue the business, and arranged marriages in the same social class to
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online dating and hookup culture. With time and the evolution of social
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