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Too Much of Expectation Is Disastrous For Happiness
Too Much of Expectation Is Disastrous For Happiness
Believing, trusting, hoping and expecting too much leads to disappointment. Being realistic in
approach saves us from disaster and distress.
We often expect from others and create one sided demand to be fulfilled. If this is not achieved, we
develop either sadness around or spoil the beauty of the relations. Too much of everything is
harmful for our body and soul.
Having expectation is no harm but expecting in return and without an acceptance of the giver is a
deadly combination. We often get depressed when we expect certain desires to be fulfilled without
either giving efforts to it or without estimating the capability. Either it is from the self or from the
others. Many of us dream to become millionaires without estimating the sources we have and even
without giving the effort it requires and crib throughout our lives as deprived souls. We don’t realize
about those who are millionaires, how much effort they have given and the amount of struggle they
went through. Nothing comes without the cost and resources. We need to create the resources and
the direction to achieve the results.
We can’t expect to be loved by others unless we love others and pour constant efforts to be loved.
Often in our relationship we expect one sided result and thus brings sadness to our lives. We often
expect higher positions in our job without giving diligent efforts to contribute to the business. There
are hundreds of expectations which kill us if they are unfulfilled.
Wrong expectations are the major cause of distress. Parents expect their children to achieve highest
grades in school, a different career option than of the children’s desire which in most of the cases
bring sadness in our life and depression.
Expectation is a futuristic approach and we build several expectations in our life with hope to
achieve but the question is how realistic those are and how much effort are invested in it.
Without seedlings and watering constantly, we can’t expect the growth in a plant and fruits. We all
need to realize the realistic future of the seedlings in our life. Expecting too much always has a
negative impact in our life.
But truly an expectation is the base of every growth and investment. Without expecting returns we
shall never invest in business, relationships and society.
We expect the returns from others without realizing the fact “what would have I done if in his
situation”. Actually we expect in other ways in return without going into the others’ situation and
builds a negative web of thoughts which leads to distress.
Sometimes we start expecting results from ourselves with a big hope but without planning.
Expectation without the planning of success turns out to be failure in life and that brings
unhappiness, therefore meticulous planning for achieving the goal is the best way of setting up the
expectation.
At the end I would say, never ever set the expectations without investments. Investment in
relationship or job or self or in business is the paramount of