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Mahler 1967
Mahler 1967
O F INDIVIDUATION :
T
HE TERhl SYhlBIOSIS is borrowed from biology, where it is used
to refer to a close functional association of two organisms to
their mutual advantage.
I n the weeks preceding the evolution to symbiosis, the new-
born and very young infant’s sleeplike states far outweigh in pro-
portion the states of arousal. They are reminiscent of that primal
state of libido distribution that prevailed in intrauterine life,
which resembles the model of a closed monadic system, self-suffi-
cient in its hallucinatory wish fulfillment.
Freud‘s (12) use of the bird’s egg as a model of a closed psy-
chological system comes to mind. He said: “A neat example of a
psychical system shut off from the stimuli of the external world,
and able to satisfy even its nutritional requirements uutisticully
. . . , is afforded by a bird’s egg with its food supply enclosed in
Presented a t the Plenary Session of the Annual hfeeting of The American Psy-
choanalytic Association, Detroit, Michigan, Sunday, May 7. 1967.
This Paper represents an overview of and the title chapter of the forthcoming
book: O n Human Symbiosis and the Vicissitudes of Individuation, Vol. I: Infantile
Psychosis and Allied Conditions. New York: International Universities Press.
This work is partly based on research supported by The National Institute of
hlental Health, U.S.P.H.S., Bethesda, hfaryland, Grant hlH-08238, and previously
b y Grant hi 3353; as well as by the Field Foundation. the Taconic Foundation, The
National Association for hlental Health, Inc.. and the Psychoanalytic Research and
Development Fund, Inc.
T h e author is Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, Albert Einstein Medical College;
Director of Research, hiasters Children’s Center, New York, N.Y.
I want to express my profound gratitude to my many co-workers, who have
played such a significant role in my research on these questions. First of all to my
associate, Dr. John hIcDevitt, and also to Emmogene Gamaiko. Anni Bergman.
Laura Salchow, Dr. Ernest Abelin, and many others.
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its shell; for it, the care provided by its mother is limited to the
provision of warmth” (p. 220n.; my italics).
In a quasi-symbolic way along this same line, conceptualizing
the state of the sensorium, I have applied to the first weeks of life
the term normal atitism; for in it, the infant seems to be in a state
of primitive hallucinatory disorientation, in which need satisfac-
tion belongs to his own omnipotent, atttistic orbit.
T h e newborn’s waking life centers around his continuous
attempts to achieve homeostasis. T h e effect of his mother’s minis-
trations in reducing the pangs of need-hunger cannot be isolated,
nor can it be differentiated by the young infant from tension-re-
ducing attempts of his own, such as urinating, defecating, cough-
ing, sneezing, spitting, regurgitating, vomiting, all the ways by
which the infant tries to rid himself of unpleasurable tension.
T h e effect of these expulsive phenomena as well as the gratifica-
tion gained by his mother’s ministrations help the infant, in time,
to differentiate between a “pleasurable” and “good” quality and
a “painful” and “bad” quality of experiences (33).
Through the inborn and autonomous perceptive faculty of
the primitive ego (17) deposits of memory traces of the two pri-
mordial qualities of stimuli occur. We may further hypothesize
that these are cathected with primordial undifferentiated drive
energy (33).
From the second month on, dim awareness of the need-satis-
fying object marks the beginning of the phase of normal symbiosis,
in which the infant behaves and functions as though he and his
mother were an omnipotent system-a dual unity within one
common boundary.
My concept of the symbiotic phase of normal development
dovetails, from the infant’s standpoint, with the concept of the
symbiotic phase of the mother-child dual unity, which Therese
Benedek (3, 4, 5) has described in several classical papers from
the standpoint of both partners of the primary unit.
It is obvious that, whereas, during the symbiotic phase, the
infant is absoEuteZy dependent on the symbiotic partner, symbiosis
has a quite different meaning for the adult partner of the dual
unity. T h e infant’s need for the mother is absolute, while the
mother’s for the infant is relative (4).
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mercy of the toddler’s own mood swings and “ego states” and
dependent on the actual mother-toddler situation of the moment.
In Jay’s case i t seemed there was by far too little neutralized
cathexis available by the end of the fourth subphase of individua-
tion-the subphase of the gradual attainment of libidinal object
constancy.
T o repeat: during the second half of the second year of life,
the infant has become more and more aware of his physical sepa-
rateness. Along with this awareness, the relative obliviousness of
his mother’s presence, which prevailed during the practicing
period, wanes (28).
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end of his third and the beginning of his fourth year, it became
more and more apparent that there was a serious discrepancy in
Jay’s “lines of development” in Anna Freud’s sense (1 1)-both
as to their rate of growth and as to their quality. Thus there
ensued a serious deficit in the integrative and synthetic functions
of Jay’s ego. By that time, the counterphobic mechanism (which
we saw in Jay’s second year)-the impulse-ridden discharge be-
havior-had given way to phobic avoidance mechanisms.
T h e point that I wish to make in this presentation calls for
conceptualization of certain elements of Jay’s faulty individuation.
T h e crucial deficiency was, we felt, Jay’s disturbed body image,
which robbed him of the core of primary identity formation, and
thus of a reliably cathected self feeling invested with neutralized
energy. Furthermore, because the polarizing function of the sym-
biotic dual unity of this mother-child pair failed the individuating
toddler, there was an obvious lack of a frame of reference for per-
ceiving the extrasymbiotic external reality. I n consequence, the
intrapsychic representational world contained n o clear boundaries
between self and object-the boundaries between ego and id re-
mained deficient and so did the boundaries and connections be-
tween the intersystemic parts of the ego. Thus, one might say,
symbiotic confusion has been perpetuated. Two conspicuous be-
havioral signs were Jay’s handling of his body in space and the
disturbance he displayed, in words and actions, in projecting ex-
periences in the dimension of time.
TVhen Jay graduated from our study to nursery school, we
predicted that he would attain a borderline adjustment with
schizoid features-unless corrective emotional therapy in Alpert’s
(1) sense could be instituted. We felt that he had no valid footing
in the formation of his core identity; nor were the boundaries-
between id and ego, between self and object world-structured
firmly enough and sufficiently cathected with neutralized energy.
Furthermore, there was not enough neutralized energy available
for ego development-thus the establishment of libidinal object
constancy was also questionable. T h e possibility of secondary iden-
tity formation, by true ego identifications and internalization, was
greatly reduced.
I n a forthcoming paper I shall elaborate on the findings from
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discrepancy, Charles blamed his mother because she was the one
who had made him believe-in his early childhood-that he was
“a genius.”
I n adolescence, then, Charles displayed a peculiarly affectless
state. H e lacked the charm that Helene Deutsch and others have
found to be one of the characteristics of true “as if” personalities
(40). /
H e repeatedly changed his allegiance to people and to groups,
because he never did feel comfortable when he came close to them
-he could only long for them from a distance. This intense long-
ing was the strongest affect I have ever seen in Charles.
Like Greenson’s patient (IS), Charles was continually seeking
the company of others; he i v a s quite incapable of being alone. But
he was also incapable of being “h deiix” for any length of time!
JVhat Charles kept seeking was experiences that would reunite
him with the lost symbiotic mother, whom he had never renounced
-in the intrapsychic sense. His affectlessness seemed to be a deep
defense against his anxiety-to ward off the feeling of emptiness
at the loss of a part of himself, at a time when the loss of the
symbiotic mother was still equivalent to losing part of the self!
I would like to close with a quotation from material during
Charles’s adolescent analysis. He complained: “I don’t feel like
anything-I start thinking a lot; and when I think, I am not very
happy.” At another time, he said: “I try to find out in how many
ways we are alike with any person-anybody-but particularly
with people I like and respect. First I did this with my parents,
with their older friends, and now I do it usually with girls. I try
to find out what kind of sports and songs they like.”
Charles tried to compensate for the cathectic void by identifi-
cation of the mirroring type. By literally mirroring others, and also
himself, he tried to learn how to feel, how to have emotions. Here
are some of the associations he made in analysis: “XVhen I dance
with a girl, she becomes just like all the other girls. I want to re-
fresh myself that she is the one who dances with me, and yet that
she is still kind and sweet. I put my head back to look at her face,
and into her eyes.” In another analytic hour Charles said: “I dance
around by the mirror-glass door where I can look at my own face
-see what I look like, from the point of view of others; and also
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BIBLIOGRAPHY
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