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Senior Project Essay PDF 1
Senior Project Essay PDF 1
Senior Project Essay PDF 1
It was the summer of 2022, and my sister and I lay on the floor scrolling through the
multitudes of options that Netflix offered to satisfy our boredom. After being stuck in a loop of
checking out various titles, we eventually settled on 1999’s film adaptation of Fight Club, a
novel written by Chuck Palahniuk, three years prior. After the first watch, we weren’t exactly
enamored with David Fincher’s movie, in fact, we were mostly taken aback by the gruesome and
shocking violence depicted by the film. It wasn’t until the second watch a couple of months later
that my sister and I began to debrief and interpret the film’s main message. Amongst the most
popular points that we consistently brought up, anti-consumerist messages and a satirical
Fincher’s critical view of characters like Tyler Durden, the embodiment of all toxic masculine
traits, people were able to misconstrue the purpose of Tyler's pompous personality and
manipulative tendencies as admirable and “cool”, while altogether praising his character traits of
being assertive, domineering, and nihilistic. In the end, Tyler is meant to be a lame guy’s
projection of what the pinnacle of coolness is; nonconformity backed by a league of sycophants.
To me, the term “toxic masculinity” has been a topic that I have caught myself approaching with
great trepidation. I am aware of how its meaning has been skewed over the years and how
polarizing this subject can be. To this, I beg to ask the question: How does the celebration of
toxic masculinity in popular media impact the beliefs and morals of impressionable young
people?
Toxic masculinity, a term stemming from the mythopoetic men’s movement of the 1980s,
has made its way into mainstream terminology and controversy. It highlights the consequences of
the societal pressure on males to encapsulate all the aspects of traditional masculinity. In a survey
determined that: “Most men say men in general face at least some pressure to be emotionally
strong (86%) and to be interested in sports (71%); about six-in-ten (57%) say men face pressure
to be willing to throw a punch if provoked” (Parker, Horowitz, Stapler). While this study in
particular focused on both the biological and societal aspects of masculinity and femininity,
many respondents’ answers pertained to society as the primary determining factor of orthodox
gender roles. As illustrated by Pew Research Center’s survey, a vast majority of male
hypermasculinity. Under these mounting pressures, such trivial things as sports engagement
become a rite of passage, the quintessential way to prove one’s manhood. In relation to the link
between societal expectations and a conservative view of masculinity, The Gender Schema
Theory, proposed by American psychologist Sandra Bem in 1981, states that “a child’s cognitive
development combined with societal influences largely influence the patterns of thought
(schema) that dictate ‘male’ and ‘female’ traits” (Cherry). In her findings, Bem found that gender
schema has an immense impact on not only the ability to process information, it also influences
the attitudes and beliefs directing “gender-appropriate behavior”, With various pieces of media
that perpetrate an idealized image of manliness (television, movies, social media, etc) the Gender
Schema theory affirms external influences, subliminal or not, as a young person’s understanding
of gender roles. Taking Bem’s theory into account, the type of media that a child consumes in
their formative years plays a concerningly major role in what type of person they may develop
into by adulthood. It’s difficult to fully abandon preconceptions and biases, which means that
beliefs in male superiority and female subservience could subconsciously linger in the back of a
person’s head. By conditioning young boys to accept society’s given definitions of masculinity, it
stifles free thought and self-determination. Hannah Ruschen, a policy officer for the UK’s
National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children comments: “Viewing such material at
a young age can shape a child’s experiences and attitudes, resulting in further harm to women
and girls in and out of school and online” (Das). In recent years, “alpha male” influencers have
been exploiting their male audience’s desperation for female companionship to profit off their
fanbase while spreading repugnant misinformation on love, relationships, and how to remain
of the Feminist Research Institute, who provided me with ample information on toxic
masculinity’s pervasiveness within our modern society. In response to my question on how toxic
“There’s two sides, toxic masculinity on the one side being the ideal of being a man,
which involves a lack of emotional connection to one's emotional and spiritual self. The
sort of treatment of women as extensions of you with an ownership quality, but for
women, there’s still problematic body norms and ideals. There’s a flip side to that, toxic
Both sides fall victim to these institutionalized definitions of gender that work to constrict people
from being their most authentic selves. It’s interesting to note that the societal pressures that men
and women face work conversely, meaning that the victims can also be the perpetrators. The
sense of disconnect that some men may feel with their emotions is truly damaging, McCollough
states that with toxic masculinity, there’s trauma. Detachment from one’s emotions frequently
yields negative results. In a study of 402 male respondents, Michael Parent, an assistant
professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and his colleagues linked social
media use with depression. Parent provided a questionnaire that included the three core aspects
of toxic masculinity and concluded that: “men who displayed toxic masculinity…were more
likely to seek out information they disagreed with, peruse negative interactions with others
online and ruminate over these experiences” (Vinopal). Involvement in harmful ideology is
devastating in the long run, as displayed by Parent’s research. One thing that McCollough
highlighted throughout the interview, was the importance of mental health, especially regarding
men’s mental health. Historically speaking, women’s discernable connection to their emotions
has been coined as melodramatic, which explains the imbalance that allows women to be more
inclined to seek mental health support. McCollough pointed out that the stigma surrounding
men’s mental health, particularly in young boys, makes it difficult for them to begin asking for
help. In an article written by Verywell Mind, the writer condemns our culture’s failure to address
the many traumas that males face and how “we often punish behaviors without addressing the
underlying issues that lead to those behaviors” (Sheppard). Ignoring the factors that contribute to
toxic masculinity sets blockades to positive progress that can be made. The phenomenon of toxic
masculinity is layered with complexities, most being concepts that seem irreversibly ingrained
into society’s beliefs. When being asked about ways to create a positive community that coexists
masculinity. On a more communal note, I think one of the best things we could do is to engage
with other people’s humanity”. McCollough advises that by treating people with “compassion
and generosity, even when the things they’re doing may be against your values while
simultaneously holding them responsible”. With this in mind, there will still be retribution, a
become increasingly more feasible. The alpha male mentality endorses a social hierarchy in
which men who do not conform to hypermasculine standards are considered to be emasculated
and therefore are deemed to be “beta males” and are essentially at the bottom of the hierarchy,
which greatly contrasts the high status of self-proclaimed “alpha males”. Content creators who
are adapters of this mentality take advantage of their obsequious fans, and amongst the most
prominent and notorious examples, Andrew Tate, a 36-year-old former kickboxer, now charged
with human trafficking, rape, and organized crime, remains to be one of the most well-known
“alpha males”. Tate, like all of his lesser-known counterparts, has utilized the internet to voice
shamefully long amount of time for social media companies to fully deplatform individuals like
Tate. Delving deeper into the reason why these controversial opinions have become so
widespread, sociological researcher Annie Kelly reports that “the most radical, hardline rhetoric
rises to the top because it drives so much engagement”(Usher). To put words simply, regardless
of public scrutiny and opposition to misogynistic rhetoric and malicious hate speech, media
pieces portraying toxic masculinity are still able to thrive. Kelly’s observations support the point
that problematic and sexist content is easily accessible on the internet. Once someone starts
showing interest in a particular category of content, the algorithm will continue suggesting
related content, and so forth. The predatory nature of the ideals that are reinforced by dangerous
definitions of masculinity is extremely detrimental to young boys. Dr. Lisa Sugiura, senior
lecturer at the University of Portsmouth’s extensive research into technology and gender, notes
that: “young boys may start seeing [harmful content] on TikTok but then go somewhere else for
information. There’s so many unregulated sites and forums where it’s free-for-all; hate speech is
encouraged” (Bond). The more someone is exposed to hateful rhetoric, the more desensitized
they tend to become to it. Suddenly, misogynistic and sexist content gains a place of normalcy
and general acceptance. Sugiura also suggests that the concept of alpha males derives from
societal changes that spur men’s entitlement to play the victim. This further deflects any
courses on becoming self-sufficient in order to achieve the prized alpha male status. The most
harrowing truth is that there will always be a captive audience for these types of content creators.
What comes first to mind is Andrew Tate’s own company: “The [Hustler’s University] course
costs £40 a month and poses as a get-rich-quick scheme with courses in e-commerce and
cryptocurrency. But beneath the surface is a capitalist cult of over 220,000 young men who
worship Tate and are being indoctrinated by the far-right who have infiltrated the online business
course.”(Magee). The alpha male side of the internet seems to be at incessant war with
progressive political views, on top of their extreme traditional views on femininity and
masculinity. Perusing the copious amounts of unironic “alpha male” content on Youtube, it
becomes increasingly alarming how wide of a platform blatant misogynists, bigots, and male
chauvinists have. It’s harrowing to see the thousands of views and engagement this genre of
videos have. How is it that these valid criticisms presented of alpha male culture do little to wane
Birmingham City University in the UK reveals: “[Social media sites] start to feed you more of
the same content…It becomes a dangerous pathway from one form of content that might seem
fairly innocuous to potentially more extremist and more radical content”. To rationalize the
popularity of overtly misogynistic content, Lawson references sociologist Michael Kimmel’s
concept of aggrieved entitlement, which is: “based on the idea that over the course of the last
20-30 years, the world has changed in a way that has decentered primarily young, white men,
and they’ve moved from the center of society to the margins of society” (Artsy). “Alpha male”
forums running under popular social media sites are essentially unhealthy coping mechanisms
for men to use as an outlet to express dissatisfaction with their lives, especially in their romantic
endeavors. Kimmel’s idea of aggrieved entitlement is relevant to the behaviors that are most
commonly associated with alpha male advocates. To them, reclaiming their masculinity is
empowering, it is a noble cause worthy of praise. What Tyler Durden says in Fight Club
summarizes this point: “‘We’re the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We
have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War’s a spiritual war… our Great
Depression is our lives”. Ostensibly it seems like Tyler Durden is referring to his generation as a
whole, yet within the context of the book and film, Tyler Durden is preaching to a room of men
who feel disenfranchised and pessimistic about the future of humanity. Tyler Durden’s call to
action of reclaiming one’s masculinity, under the guise of anti-consumerism and self-liberation,
leads to the obliteration of structure and morality. Other cult-classic films often misinterpreted by
male-centric audiences like American Psycho (2000) and Taxi Driver (1976) explore violent
thoughts and actions as an outlet for repressed anger and a response elicited from societal
malaise. The lead characters of both of these landmark films glorify violence, the latter being
plagued with neuroticism and the delusions of being an altruistic vigilante of the people. Under a
critical lens, it is apparent that the characters of Patrick Bateman and Travis Bickle are
influenced by the values of their respective surroundings. The repercussions of these actions
taken to assert manhood rest heavily on everyone, which in turn, inadvertently impacts men in a
My mentor referred me to Coco Herda, a UC Davis graduate student whose work ranges
from social and environmental justice, cultural studies and above. Herda gave insight into ways
to create positive social change in an effective and constructive way. For instance, Herda
works with incarcerated people to help manage their anger in non-destructive ways. Through this
program, Herda met many imprisoned men, which expanded her perspective on the demanding
expectations for men to put on an aggressive front. This is partly due to the fact that society is
accustomed to women expressing their emotions, which stunts men from being comfortable with
displaying a wider range of emotions beyond what is expected of them. In a 2017 study
conducted by Pew Research Center, 4,753 respondents were instructed to associate specific
unique words to either men or women. The results showed that stereotypically matronly words
like “caring” and “kind” are perceived to be feminine traits, whist “provider” and “strong” were
positive masculine trait and “emotional” being a negative trait for men. (Walker, Bialik, van
Kessel). This supports Herda’s observation that repressed emotions like fear and confusion can
oftentimes manifest into violence. She pointed out how everybody practically strives for the
same goal of being happy and prosperous, stating that: “It does require those who hold power;
the dominant institutions: media and movies to begin communicating something different”.
Writer, historian, and activist, Rebecca Solnit writes: “It isn’t a fact universally acknowledged
that a person who mistakes his opinions for facts may also mistake himself for God. This can
happen if he’s been insufficiently exposed to the fact that there are also other people who have
other experiences” (The Mother of All Questions, page 141). In this quote, Solnit addresses the
hypocrisy of sexist attitudes. She points out misguidance and close-mindedness as a debilitating
strain on society’s progress toward a more equitable future. Throughout the book, Solnit remains
staunchly critical of the tenets of masculinity, particularly on page 98, where she determines that
man’s misogyny is our culture’s misogyny. In relation to effective methods of conflict resolution,
confrontational attitudes for a much softer tone. When confronting or challenging other people’s
notions, it is evident that nonviolent communication is more important to practice than being
flat-out combative. The interview ended on a hopeful note as Herda deduced that: “We have a lot
of work to do, it’s a paradigm shift. It’s not just about increasing the wage, it’s about changing
Upon further investigation, the issue of misogyny does not exclusively afflict women in
of male dominance silencing female voices persists, it almost seems like there’s a reversion back to
boxed-in gender roles with an edgy and idiosyncratic sheen of paint slapped lazily over it. As seen
with the hippies of the 60s and 70s, their disgruntlement with modern society and war caused them
to alienate themselves from it. Despite the total rejection of conformity, traditional female gender
norms were entirely present in hippie communes. Under a rural landscape, many women performed
a disproportionate amount of labor that mimicked conformist gender roles: “Hippies by and large
adopted traditional gender roles in their countercultural movement; that is, until ‘many women
decided that men were not only less committed to this utopian vision but also devalued women’s
work’” (Lemke-Santangelo). Though it can be argued that there was a form of liberation in
performing demanding acts of labor, it still did not “free” women from the expectations of being a
homemaker. In spite of the earnest efforts of the hippie movement, it was not without its flaws. The
patriarchal aspect of their communities and the large focus on the spiritual characteristics of
feminity makes the hippie movement of the 70s uniquely multi-faceted. Traveling 20 years into the
future emerges a group of third-wave feminists mainly from Olympia, Washington. Riot-Grrrl was a
particularly short-lived movement that persisted within the male-dominated punk music scene. The
issue of sexism rampaging through the punk scene compelled women to create a space where they
felt accepted and heard for their music and political messaging: “They wanted to start a girl riot
against a society in which they felt marginalized, unappreciated, and without a voice.” (Barton).
Early punk’s exclusion and hostile attitudes towards women and minorities surpassed its ability to
be truly countercultural. Women saw through the facade of inclusivity and tolerance that instilled
values of masculine energy, forcing them to fight to have female visibility in music a priority.
With every social issue, there are always going to be nuances. There is a certain air of
complexity when it comes to the subject of toxic masculinity, as with any other societal concept.
Even constructs that confront the institutionalization of the patriarchy have their own underlying
issues of lacking racial diversity. It’s been a known fact that society and popular media
immensely enforce the ideals of masculinity, but this should never render people exempt from
taking accountability and receiving criticism. Whether or not people subconsciously accept
societal norms set for them is no longer the question, it’s a question of if we can optimistically
and earnestly work for a more equitable future. You can lovingly and kindly tell someone to
rethink their decisions, but at the end of the day, that person has the autonomy to make their own
judgments. To quote the great Kathleen Hanna, feminist singer-songwriter and early pioneer of
Riot Grrrl: “I'm not going to sit around and be peace and love with someone’s boot on my neck”.