KYAPATIPATNIKEPI

CHLEJANM KARI
SHTAHOTAHAI
?
I
STHEREAPASTLI
FECONNECTI
ONBETWEEN
HUSBAND&WI
FE?

Anant:Par
amshant
iBapuj
i
!Wel
comeBapuj
i
!Today
’st
opi
candr
elat
ed
questi
onisaveryimpor
tantone…Whet
hert
her
eisapastl
i
feconnect
ion
betweenahusbandandwife?
Bapuj i:Seeont het opicofpr evi
ousl i
feconnect ions,wecansayt hatnot
onlyt hi
sr elatest oal lkindsofr elationshipsbutal soi tsspecialsincei t’
s
thequest i
onofapast l
i
febondbet weenamar ri
edcoupl e.Itissaidthatt he
rel
at i
onshipbet weenahusbandandwi f
ei sspeci alsi nceitsnotonl yoft he
presentbutconnect ionsofpr ev
ioussev erallivest oget her.Sot odaywe
willdiscussaboutt hespeci alrelationshipbet weenahusbandandwi fe
definit
elyshar edi nmanyl ives,int heirprev iousi ncar nati
ons.Howev er,at
presentt her ei sl otofdi sor derthathast akenpl aceov ertheagesi n
rel
at i
onshipsl iket hese. Br ahmacr eatedt hef i
rstSupr emeDi v
ineMal e
souls( Par am Pur ush)i nt he f orm oft he sev en Sapt ari
shis. These
Sapt ari
shi
sf urthercr eated manyPar am Pur ush( Angel s)and t herefore
manyPar am Pur ushorSupr emeDi vineangelsoul swer ecreatedandt here
startedcount l
esscr eati
ons.Now t hesedy nastyofsoul sfurt
herbecame
reduced in soulpowerand becameDev tasorGodsand f ur t
herwer e
reducedi nt heirsoul powert obecomehumanbei ngs.
It
st obenot edt hatal way sthesoulwhi chhasamal eat tr
ibutehashis
ori
ginalfemalecount erparti
nv ari
ousf or
msandi ncarnati
ons.Forexampl e
LordShiva’sori
ginalPr akurt
iorSupr emeDi v
inefemaleconsor tisGoddess
Shakti
.Si mil
arl
y,ev erySupr emeMal esoulhasacar dinaltwinsoulcall
ed
ashisShakt i
.Whent heseSupremedi vi
nemal esoulswer ei nthesubtl
e
worldthen,theycr eat edoutoft hemselv essev er
alShakt i
st ocarryout
somet ypeofwor konourEar t
hwhi chweredi ff
erentfordiff
erentShakti
sor
theSupr emeDi vi
nef emaleel ementoft hesoul . Thusmanynumberof
Divi
neFemal esoulshav ebeengener at
edt oexecutesomemi ssi
onont hi
s
Eart
hbyonesi ngleAngelsoul.Soaf termill
ionsandbi ll
ionsofy ears,
these
Shakti
s come i n connection somehow wi tht heircreatorDi vine Male
counterpart
,si
nceany waysKal i
yughasst ar
ted,itisindeedt helastageon
thi
sear thaswel lasonlyverylesst i
mei sleftforallsouls.Sot heFemal e
divi
nesoul sareinsearchunconsci ouslyfortheircreator,theirotherhalf
.
Therefore,t
herearesomanyf emalesoul sforonemal esoulandi npresent
day,comei nconnecti
onwi theachot her
. Thi sist her easonaswel las
answert oyourquesti
on,whyaki nghassomanyqueens.Whydoesaki ng
hassomanywi ves?Because,att hebegi nningofourBr ahmandorSol ar
system, t
heseAngelsoulshadgener atedmanyPr akurti
sorShakt i
soutof
themselves.TheseShakt is(Might)orFemal eangel i
csoul swer eassigned
cert
aintaskstobecar ri
edout.
Ther ef
or e,thisist her easonwhyamal ehadsomanywi ves. Whi lst
comi ngi nt othecy cleofbi rthsanddeat hs,theseShakt i
shadcr eated
plentynumberofconnect ionsandbondswi t
hsomanyot hersoul sandso
therewer emanyf emal esout number i
ngt hemal epopulat
ioni nt heear l
ier
day s. Iti sforthisr easoni near l
iertimes,int heHindureligion,whena
femal ebabywasbor n, peopl ewoul dgivepoisonedmi l
kandputt hef emal e
i
nf anttodeat h.Nowaday st heyki llt
hebabyi nthewombi ftheycomet o
know i t
soff emal egender .Themi ndsetwassuchbecauseoft hehuge
numberoff emalesf rom ear liertimes.TheseShakt i
swer ecr eatedi nthe
subt l
ewor ldtocar r
youtt asksonear thandast i
mewentbywhent hese
Divinef emal esoulscamedownper manentlyonear t
hashumanbei ngs,
theyst artedt osear chf ort hei rcreatordivi
neAngelmal esoulwhohad
createdt hem int hesubt lewor l
d. Onceagai n,Irepeatthatt heDi vi
ne
femal eangelsoul s cr eat edbyoneSi ngl
eMal eangelsoulhadal socome
downonourear thalongwi thhi smanyf emalesoul sfr
om thesubt l
ewor ld,
sonowt hesef emalesoul sint hismoder ndaywoul dbesear chingf ortheir
creatormal esoulont hisear th.
Inthisprocess,someoft hem managet oest abl
ishconnect
ionsar ound
thei
ror i
ginalDiv
inemal ecount er
part.Ontaki
ngmanybi rthsi
nt hisgross
physicalworld,t
heor i
ginalmaleandhi snumer ousfemalesoulsdocome
i
ncl oserelati
onshipsi
ndi f
ferentbirt
hsandthatiswhymanyr elati
onships
aregetti
ngspoi l
tinthepresentday .Inonebir
ththemal esoulestabl
ishes
ar elati
onship wi t
hhi sf emalecr eatedsoulandl ateri nthenextbi r
th
anot heroneofhi sfemalecount erpart.t heseconnect i
onsmayt akepl ace
duet oeachone’ sSankalpsort hought stouchingeachot hersother eforms
aromant i
cr elat
ionshipatt het houghtl ev elal
so.Oneoft hechi efreason
why t herei s so much ofconf usion and di sorderi n close per sonal
rel
at i
onshipsamongstmal esandf emal es, t
odayisduet ot hegener ationat
thesubt l
el evelofsomanyot herfemal eangelicsoulsbyt heor i
ginaldi vi
ne
angelmal esoul ,apartfrom hi smai n,femal ecount er
par t
,alsocal ledas
MoolPr akurti
. Sot hi
sist her eason f ort her apiddecl i
nei nqual ityof
mal esandf emal er el
ati
onshi psi nt oday ’
sage. Thei dealrelationship
between a Pur ush and pr akurtii .
e.bet ween whatwecal ltodayasa
husbandandwi fehascomet oav erysadst atesincet heor i
ginalfemal e
soul counterpartisnotpresenti nl if
eoft heor igi
nalmal esoul.
Sincehehast oliv
ei nacl oser elat
ionshi
pwi t
hhi ssecondort hi
rdor
furt
hercreated f
emalesoul ,whi chhehad cr eated ear
li
er,bil
lionsand
tri
ll
i
onsofy ear
sagot heoriginalangelsoulunder
goesal otofdisharmony
andsadnessi nhispresentlif
e.Ihopey ouunderstoodmypoi nt,thi
sisa
verydeepmat t
ertobeunder stood.

Anant:Inthenearfut
ure,whent
hisi
ssuewil
lbevi
ewedf r
om aspi r
it
ual
per
spect
ive,t
henslowlytherewi
llemergeadeeperunderst
anding.
.you
mayhaveseeninIsl
am therei
sanaccepedandest
abl
ishedpract
iceofa
si
nglemal
ehav i
ngmanywi v
es.

Bapuj
i:Ami ni
mum of4mar
ri
agesbutt
henal
sot
her
ear
eot
heri
l
legal
aff
air
sthatt
heyent
eri
nto.

Anant:That
’sadif
fer
entt
opici
nit
selfbutwhataboutourHi
ndur
eli
gion
whereRaj
aDashr
athhad3wiv
esashisqueens?
Bapuj
i:Raj
aJanakhad10000queens
Anant:I
nsomeofourscr
ipt
uresi
thasbeensai
dthataper
sonname
Janakwasliv
ingi
nthatar
easoiti
sanassumpti
onthathasbeenpr
obabl
y
wri
ttendown.Butwedon’
tknowwhet
herthi
sisatr
uefact.
Bapuji:Howev er,eventhoughRaj aJanakhad10000queenshewasal so
renownedasaRaj rishi,onewhodespi tebeingaKingpracti
cedthel if
eofa
sage.Themai nreasont hatRaj aJanakcoul dbeatsuchanev olvedstate
despit
ehi sr oy
alresponsi bil
i
tieswasbecauseofhi ssoulpower ,powerof
puri
tyandpower sacqui redduet omeditat
ion,soulbei
nginBhav ati
tstage
orabov et heav eragehumanemot i
ons. Thati swhyKi ngJanakwas
famousf orbeingaKi ngandaRi shi(
sage)atthesamet i
me.Onemustal so
remembert hatmanyoft hesageshadmanywi v
essoi twasnotanov el
thi
ngev eni nthoseday sf orexampl eIhav eheardthatonesagehad13
wivesandwehav eal sohear daboutt heMoonGod,Chandr aDevwhohad
27wiveshowev er,het r
ulylovedonl yoneofhiswivesRohinioutoft hem all
.
Fur ther,DakshPr aj
apat ihad27daught erswhower et hewi v esoft heMoon
Godi ncludingRohi ni butduet oChandr adev ’saf
fectionf orRohi nit
heot her
daught ersf el
tignor edanddespi teDaksha’ swar ni
ngt oChandr aDevt o
treatal lhis27daught ersf air
ly ,equal l
ywhenhedi dnotheedwasf inally
cur sedbyDakshat ogr aduallywi t
heranddi e.Soi nt hi
sst oryonecansee
thecur seonChandr aDevaf fect edhi swi vestooandi nt hiswayt heyal so
camei ntokar micbondagef ort hewr ongconductoft heirhusband.One
canal sounder standf rom t heabov eanecdot et hati fitwast heor i
gi nal
Pr akurtioror i
ginalf emal e count erpartt hen i
twi llbe a har moni ous
relationshipbet weent hecoupl eandmar ri
ageswi thfurthercr eat edfemal e
soul swi llonlyleadt opai nandsuf feri
ngf orboth.So,onl yt heor i
ginally
creat edf ir
stf emal edi vi
nesoulbyt heAngel i
cmal esoulwi llbeabl et o
prov idehi mt r
uej oyandhappi ness. Ther estoft her elati
onshi pst ake
placeduet oconnect ionsandf urthercor dsofaf fect i
onest abl
ishedi n
var i
ousl iveswi thot herssuchasi nanci entdaysf oreg. ,aKi ngmayhav e
1000,2000orev en5000wi ves. I nfact,Ihadwat chedapr ogram many
year sagoont el
ev i
sionr egardingt hehi st
oryofChi nawher einitwasshown
aboutaChi neseKi ngwhohad10000queenssayabout2000y earsago.
Thi sisat r
uef actandpar tofhi stor yofChi na.
So,t
her
ehav
ebeensev
eralsuchKi
ngswhohav
ehadmanywi
ves.Ev
eni
n
Hindurel
igi
onmanysuchi nstancesonemayf i
ndandwhichwillbeabett
er
oneotherthantheexampleofKingJanakorevenaboutKingDashrathwho
hadseveralqueens.Thi
swhyt hepract
iceofhavi
ngmanywi v
eshasar i
sen
andthesamer easonincasesofthesages&seershavi
ngmanywi v
es.
Anant: Bapuj
ithi
scl
ear
lymeanst
hatsuchbondswer
ecr
eat
edbyour
kar
mas.
Bapuji:Forexampl etherewasthisgr eatRishi(Kashy apRishi
)If orgethi
s
namesi nceIhav ereadsomanyl i
terat
ur eont heset opics,
anyway shehad
twowi vesDi t
iandAdit
iandal sohad13ot herwi vesapar tf
rom them.Now
theinteresti
ngfactist hatthesesisters,DitiandAdi tieachgav ebi rt
hto
sonswho wer eofdemoni c( Asura)and godl y( Devta)categor ysouls,
respecti
v el
y,f
ather
edbyt hesamesage.

Anant:Yest
hatst
oryormy
thdoesexi
st…
Bapuji:Noi tsnotjustamy thorstorybutar eal
i
ty.TheKingl
ysages
(Raj
ri
shi
s)oft hosedayshadl otofspir
it
ualpowerint hei
rsouldueto
sever
epenancesandauster
it
iesunder
takenbythem.
Anant:Thismeansinthoseanci
entday
s,t
hesoulwassupposedt
obeof
hi
ghquali
ty,
atahighst
age.
Bapuj
i:Yest hesoulwasobv
iousl
yinsuchahi
ghl
yev
olv
edst
ageandhad
st
rongspi
ri
tualpower.

Anant:Thi sshowsthatthesoul
sinthosedayswerenothav i
nganyTamo
gunorofl owquali
ty,f
ullofdesi
resandgreed.InsteadtheywereofSato
guni.e.
,wiseandspiri
tualinqual
it
y.Sduet otheirhighl
yevolv
ednatur
e,
thoughtheyhadsomanyRani sorqueenstheywere…..

Bapuj
i:Yest
hoseday
sther
ewasnoquest
ionofbei
ngi
nBodyconsci
ous
st
ate
Anant:Yesj
ustast
hescr
ipt
urest
alkaboutSr
iKr
ishnaandhi
snumer
ous
queensorPat
rani
s.
Bapuj
i:LordKr i
shnahad16108wi v
es,i
fyoureadtheVishnuPur
ani
thas
beenwrit
tendownt herehowever
,nooneknowst hatKri
shnahadt
aken
16108for
ms( Roop)forthesakeofhis16108wiv
esandt hist
rut
hnoone
i
sawareabout.
Icameacr osst hi
st ruthduet oNar adj i
’
sanecdot eaboutSr iKr ishnawhenI
wasoncer eadingaboutSr iKr i
shna’ sl i
fewhoIusedt ol ikeandador e
becauseofhi shi ghchar act erandbei ngmymostf avourit
eoft heHi ndu
gods. I nthisinstanceNar adjinarr atesabouthi sexper i
encet hatwhenhe
wasv isi
ti
ngSr iKr i
shnahef oundt hat i neachandev erypal ace,Kr ishna
waspr esentwi theachoft he16108wi vesandi twasatt hesamet ime!
SinceNar adjicouldnott rusthi sey eshedeci dedt ot ravelinhi sast r
albody
wher ewi t
hinonesecondhewoul dbeatonepl aceandt heot hersecondhe
coul dbeatsomeot herpl aceandi nt hismat t
erNar adjiwasal way squi te
anex pert
.Soi nhi ssubt lebodyNar adjiobser vedv erycar efullyandf ound
thatindeedSr iKrishnahadt aken16108subt lef ormsandsoonl ywasabl e
tobewi t
heachandev er yoneofhi squeensatt hesamet ime. Thus
Kr i
shna’sdy nastyst artedwi theachof t he16108queensgi vi
nghi m 10
sonsandonedaught erf rom t heirmar r
iage.Thi swashow Sr iKrishna’ s
t
h
dy nastywascr eated.I nt he120 y earofhi sl i
fe,Kr i
shnal efthismor t al
bodyandi tsofut mosti mpor t
ancet oknowt hatSr iKrishnawasanav atar
oft heAl mightyAut hor it
yaswel lasSr iRam al sowasanav at
aroft he
Almi ghtyAuthor i
ty.Sr iKr i
shna’ spr ojectwast ot ransformt heent ir
eEar th
from negat i
vet oat otal l
yposi t
ivel andl i
kepar adiseandhehadal sobui lt
thef amedgol denpal acei nDwar ka( Gujarat)wi tht hesamei ntention.
Howev er,thatSr iKr ishna coul d noti mplementt he intended posi tive
transformationont hisEar t
hi sanunf ortunatefact.
Anant:OkBapuj i
,thi
sfi
nishesmyquesti
ononthepastl
ifebondsshared
byahusbandandhi swife.Now Bapuj
i
,ki
ndlyt
ellusabouttheaspectof
the7incarnati
onsthati
spopularl
ytal
kedaboutinrel
ati
ont heprev
ious
l
ivesofspouses.
Bapuj
i:I nHindurel
igi
on,t
hereisalotofsi
gni
fi
canceandimpor
tance
at
tachedt
othecult
uralpr
act
iceofty
ingthesy
mboli
csevensacr
edknots
duringat r
aditionalHi nduweddi ng. Dur ingt hesol emni zat i
onofHi ndu
weddi ngs,t heBr ahmi npr iestswhoconductt heweddi ngr i
tual sal way s
blesst hecoupl ef orhappi nessandt oget hernessashusbandandwi fef or
thenext7bi rths.I ntheol denday s,itusedt obeacommonpr act icet o
blesst henewl ymar ri
edt oev erbet oget hernotonl yinthepr esentbutal so
i
nt henextsev enbi rt
hs,whenev ert henewl ywedswoul dtoucht hef eetof
theel der sforbl essi ngs.Howev ernowt hisisnotpossi bleint hesepr esent
dayt imesandsot hebl essi ngsof7bi rthsi snotpr evalentany mor ei nfact
themal e,femal ehumansoul shav et r
emendouskar micbur denswi thnot
onlyt hemsel ves butal so wi th ot hers whi ch t heyhav et of ace. The
consequencesofheav ykar masoft hepr ev i
ousbi rt
hent ersi ntot het he
presentbi rthtooandt heyneedt ober epai dassoon.Ther efore,i tisbest
thatonef i
nishesof fones’ skar masandkar micbondagesbybecomi ng
Atmaswar oop orsoulconsci ous byr emember i
ng the Par amat ma,by
connect ingwi tht heAl mi ght yAut hor it
y ,byt akingpowerf rom t hepower
housedi rectl
y. Whenweconnectwi tht hePowerhouse,oursoulget s
chargedwi thspi r
itualpower ,ourcausalbodyget schar gedwi thpower ,
not
onlyt hatoursubt lebodyandphy sicalbodyal sobecomeschar gedwi th
powert hatwegetf rom t heAl mi ght yaut horit
ywhoi st hepowerhouseof
power . Thusal lourv i
kar ms/ sinsget sdest roy edandt hesoulbecomes
l
ighti nnat ure,dest royingi tsbur denofsi nst hroughy og.Fur thert hesoul
entersi ntothepr ocessofbecomi ngKar mat i
twhi chisast ageacqui redby
asoulduet oi tshi ghl ev elofspi rit
ual i
tyandwher eitdoesnotcr eat eany
furt
herkar masev endur ingi tsphy sicalexi stenceonear th.Thusbecomi ng
abov eKar mas,ev ent uallyonef ineday ,thesoulwi l
lgot ot hel andoft he
Supr emeAl mightyAut hor itycal ledasPar amdham.
Anant:OkBapuji
,thankyousomuchf oranswer
ingal
lthequest
ionsso
wonder
ful
l
yandindepth.Onceagai
nthankyouver
ymuch.Paramshanti
Bapuj
i:Par
amshant
i.