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Module 11 Quarter 4 Attraction Love and Commitment PDF
Module 11 Quarter 4 Attraction Love and Commitment PDF
Module 11 Quarter 4 Attraction Love and Commitment PDF
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Every human being has his own way of expressing his attraction, love, and commitment
due to our different life experiences. When attraction between two persons is discussed, it is often
understood as based on physical appearance while this might be true to a certain extent but there
is more to attraction that we already know.
Module Content:
In the biological model of love as proposed by anthropologist Helen Fisher, love can start
with any of these three feelings: lust, attraction and attachment depending on the person. Each
involves different neurochemicals in your brain.
Three Brain Systems of Love or Stages of Falling in Love
Factors of Attraction
a. Physical Attractiveness
It is one of the primary determinants of romantic attraction. Most people prefer whom they
consider physically attractive especially in the early stages of dating.
b. Proximity
People tend to get attracted to people who are geographically closer to them. They are
more likely to develop feelings of mutual familiarity with the people who live close to us or
go to school with us and increased level of comfort when there is regular contact and no
prior negative feelings.
c. Similarity
People pick partners who we have similarities with such as social class, background,
religious beliefs, age and education. The more attitudes and opinions two people share,
especially when they are similar, the more they will want to do the same activities, and
would create a strong bond between them.
d. Reciprocity
People like others who like them back. People feel indebted when someone does
something good for them and tend to reciprocate the action. The more we are liked by
someone they equally like, the more we behave in ways that promote mutual feelings of
liking.
3. Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another
across time and space. It is when long-lasting commitments are exchanged.
4.
Robert Strenberg (1988) suggests that there are three main components of love. Love
relationships vary and it depends on the presence or absence of each of these components.
3. COMMITMENT is the attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something.
It is an act deciding to consistently fulfil and live by agreements made with another person,
entity, or cause, and where the values of integrity and respect serve as a guide to one’s
behaviour and thinking. The easy ways to express your commitment to your relationships is
to show love and loyalty, respect and appreciate others, convey honesty and trust, work as
a team and compromise, and disagree agreeably.
The combination of the three (3) components can produce eight (8) types of love.
It is when you recognize your self-worth and don’t ignore your personal needs. Self-love
begins with acknowledging your responsibility for your well-being.