Quarter 4: Module 1

TEEN-AGE RELATIONSHIPS INCLUDING

EXPRESSIONS OF ATTRACTIONS
 OBJECTIVES:
discuss an
compose a quote demonstrate
understanding of
teenage relationships, or saying acceptable
including the expressing your expression of
acceptable and ways of showing attraction towards
unacceptable attraction, love your relationship
expressions of and commitment circles
attractions;
 Affection is one of human beings' greatest emotions. There is a lot of
passion, but more are conveyed in an intimate partnership with a compatible
partner.
Romantic attachments are one of the most important aspects of life
for these people, and a source of tremendous fulfilment. However, the will to
create a human link seems innate, which develops our ability to build a
healthy and loving relationship.
Some suggest that early childhood begins to develop the capacity
to create a healthy relationship with a nanny who regularly satisfies the
child's food, treatment, comfort, protection, stimulation, and social
interaction needs. Such partnerships are not destinies but are hypothesized
to establish deeply embedded relationship patterns with others. The end of
a relationship is however also a source of significant mental trauma.
RELATIONSHIP
a relation between people; a state of
connectedness between people (especially an
emotional connection)
a connection, association, or involvement.
connection between persons by blood or marriage.
an emotional or other connection between people:
the relationship between teachers and students.
a sexual involvement; affair. (dictionary.com)
WHAT IS PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP?
It is a form of relationship closely linked to a
person and which can only be important to that
person
Even before language was invented humans are
interacting with different behavior.
Survival was the primary reason why we have a
need to belong.
It involves a degree of commitment to another
person.
 ATTRACTION
it is a force that unites people and
can grow into an attachment which
eventually leads to commitment.

PRIVACY and INTIMACY IMPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

are two attributes describing commitment to an organization like
personal relationships and level of a business entity, a principle or
commitment to another person/s purpose.

PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
 KINDS OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
Relationships are not static;
they are continually evolving,
and to fully enjoy and benefit
from them we need skills,
information, inspiration,
practice, and social support.
*Family
The concept of "family" is an essential
component in any discussion of
relationships, but this varies greatly from
person to person.
The Bureau of the Census
defines family as "two or more persons who
are related by birth, marriage, or adoption
and who live together as one household." But
many people have family they don't live
with or to whom they are not bonded by love,
and the roles of family vary across
cultures as well as throughout your own
lifetime.
 KINDS OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

*Friends
A friendship can be thought of as a
close tie between two people that is
often built upon mutual experiences,
shared interests, proximity, and
emotional bonding. Friends are able to
turn to each other in times of need.
Nicholas Christakis and James
Fowler, social-network researchers and
authors of the book Connected, find that
the average person has about six close
ties—though some have more, and many
have only one or none.
KINDS OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
*Partnerships
Romantic partnerships, including
marriage, are close relationships
formed between two people
that are built upon affection,
trust, intimacy, and romantic
love. We usually experience this
kind of relationship with only
one person at a time.
HOW ATTACHMENT ARE DEVELOP?
Here are some of the attractions you
need to remember:
1. Physical attraction is based on instinct.
2. Physical attraction does not
necessarily lead to a good relationship
3. Platonic attraction is important
4. The unattainable is attractive.
 UNDERSTANDING THE ACCEPTABLE AND
UNACCEPTABLE MEANS OF EXPRESSING
ATTRACTIONS TOWARD THE OPPOSITE SEX
 Filipino society has set standards for terribly
unacceptable way to demonstrate someone's attractions
against those who are practically acceptable.

Filipino culture is bound to believe that a decent

display of someone's feeling is also a must to be
accepted by society. It is a major disappointment that
anyone who fails to follow this standard will be
classified as poorly educated by society or the
community, or how one’s parents failed at parenting.
 Republic of the Philippines seriously believed that the
issues of people's means of expressing attractions to the
opposite sex or gender can be legally addressed. The
Republic Act (RA) 11313, otherwise known as the Safe Space
Act, intentionally prohibits indecent and unlawful acts of
expression.
This RA broadens the scope of the RA 7877 or the
AntiHarassment Act of 1995. This law recognizes that sexual
harassment occurs in the workplace, education, and training
environments, and penalizes persons who have authority,
influence, and moral status in those institutions who commit
prohibited acts of sexual harassment. While the Safe Space
Act addresses these gaps in our legal framework by
recognizing that sexual harassment can be committed
between peers.
What Makes a Healthy and
Acceptable Expression of
Attractions? 1. Mutual Respect
2. Trust
3. Honesty
4. Support
5. Fairness/Equality
6. Separate Identity
7. Good communication
10 Things That Are Unacceptable in Any
Relationship

Cheating
Unreliability
Putting you Down
Forgetting Memorable
Not Supporting your
Day
dreams
Self Destruction
Controlling
Not Caring about Friends
Lack of Communication
and Family
Unnecessary Sacrifices
WHY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE
IMPORTANT
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE A VITAL
COMPONENT OF HEALTH AND WELL-BEING. THERE
IS COMPELLING EVIDENCE THAT STRONG
RELATIONSHIPS CONTRIBUTE TO A LONG,
HEALTHY, AND HAPPY LIFE.

1. Live longer
2. Deal with stress
3. Be heathier
4. Feel richer
ON THE OTHER HAND, LOW SOCIAL SUPPORT IS
LINKED TO A NUMBER OF HEALTH
CONSEQUENCES

1. Depression
2. Decreased immune system
3. High blood pressure
 WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE
1. Express gratitude
2. Send flowers
3. Set aside time, gift of listening
4. Keep anger at bay
5. Be thoughtfully generous with
gifts.
6. Offer an act of kindness
7. Write a note
8. Make time
9. Be forgiving