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2 - Not interested but willing to try or do
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3 - Interested/Willing to do it
4 - Like It
5 - Love It
! - Need it

Dynamics
Experience with Interest in partner
Experience Interest in playing
Role partner(s) playing (s) playing this Comments
playing this role this role
this role role
Top
Bottom
Verse
Dominant
Submissive
Switch
Master/Mistress
Slave
24/7 Dom/Master/Mistress
24/7 Sub/Slave
TPE Dom/Master/Mistress
TPE Sub/Slave
Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver
Little/Middle
Brat
Brat Tamer
Masochist
Sadist
Rigger
Rope Bunny

Sex Acts
Experience as Interest as Experience as Interest as
Activity Comments
Top/Giver Top/Giver Bottom/ Receiver Bottom/ Receiver
Anal intercourse
Anal intercourse (gentle)
Anal intercourse (rough/hard)
Chastity/sex denial (long term)
Chastity/sex denial (short term)
Dilation (anal)
Dilation (vaginal)
Dirty Talk
Double penetration (anal and vaginal)
Double penetration (oral and anal)
Double penetration (oral and vaginal)
Edging
Finger sucking
Fingering (gentle)
Fingering (rough/hard)
Fingering (anal)
Fingering (A spot)
Fingering (clitoris)
Fingering (G spot)
Fingering (prostate)
Fingering (vaginal)
Fingering (vulva)
Muffing (fingering the inguinal canal)
Fisting (gentle)
Fisting (rough/hard)
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Footjob
Forced orgasm
Grinding/outercourse/frottage
Intercrurial sex
Gooning
Groping/fondling (arms)
Groping/fondling (ass)
Groping/fondling (back)
Groping/fondling (Breasts/chest)
Groping/fondling (feet)
Groping/fondling (genitals)
Groping/fondling (hands)
Groping/fondling (head and face)
Groping/fondling (hips)
Groping/fondling (legs)
Groping/fondling (nipples)
Groping/fondling (stomach)
Groping/fondling (waist)
Hand job
Hand job (gentle)
Hand job (rough/hard)
Masturbation in front of partner(s)
Multiple orgasms
Mutual Masturbation
Nipple play
Nipple play (gentle)
Nipple play (rough/hard)
Oral sex
Oral sex (gentle)
Oral sex (rough/hard)
Oral sex (with teeth)
Analingus (after anal intercourse)
Analingus (rimming)
Analingus (tossing salad)
Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus (after vaginal intercourse)
Fellatio
Fellatio (after anal intercourse)
Fellatio (after vaginal intercourse)
Fellatio (deep throating)
Fellatio (face fucking)
Orgasm control (long term)
Orgasm control (short term)
Orgasm Denial
Orgasm on command
Pegging
Ruined orgasm
Scissoring/tribadism
Tantric Sex
Tit job
Triple penetration (vaginal, oral, and anal)
Urethra stimulation
Vaginal intercourse
Vaginal intercourse (gentle)
Vaginal intercourse (rough/hard)
Vaginal intercourse (after anal intercourse)
Vanilla sex

Sex Positions
Experience with
Experience with Interest in this Interest in partner
Position partner(s) in this Comments
this position position (s) in this position
position
At the edge of a bed or other surface
Back bend
Bent over
Crabwalk
Hanging off the edge of bed or other surface
Holding partner up
Kneeling on bent knee
Kneeling on both knees
Lying on your back
Lying on your back with legs bent
Lying on your back with legs up in the air
Lying on your side
Lying on your stomach
Lying spread eagle
On all fours
Propped up on forearms
Seated on furniture
Sitting cross legged
Sitting with legs bent
Sitting with legs straight
Squatting
Standing
Straddling partner
Upside down/inverted
With arms behind your back
With legs intertwinned with partner's legs
With legs spread
With legs together
With legs wrapped around partner

Bodily Fluids and Functions

Experience with Experience with Interest in your
Interest in your
Fluid/Function your own your partner(s)'s partner(s)'s Comments
own fluid/function
fluid/function fluid/function fluid/function
Belching/burping
Blood
Body odor
Breastmilk/lactation
Chamberpot/litterbox usage
Cutting hair
Douching
Enema (for cleansing)
Enema (retention)
Farting
Farting (during sexual activity)
Farting (in face)
Female Ejaculation/squirting (in mouth)
Female Ejaculation/squirting (on body)
Female Ejaculation/squirting (on face)
Female Ejaculation (on genitals/groin)
Gagging
Gagging (during oral)
Gaping (anus)
Gaping (vagina)
Menstrual blood (in mouth)
Menstrual blood (on body)
Menstrual blood (on face)
Menstrual blood (on genitals)
Menstruation (cunnilingus during period)
Menstruation (kink activity during period)
Menstruation (sensual activity during period)
Menstruation (vaginal fingering during period)
Menstruation (vaginal intercourse during period)
Menstruation (other sexual activity during period)
Precum (in anus raw/bareback)
Precum (in anus with condom)
Precum (in mouth with condom)
Precum (in mouth)
Precum (in vagina raw/bareback aka creampie)
Precum (in vagina with condom)
Precum (on body)
Precum (on face)
Queefing
Queefing (during sexual activity)
Queefing (in face)
Removing body hair (depilation)
Removing body hair (shaving)
Removing body hair (Waxing)
Shaving genitals
Shaving head
Saliva (used as lubricant for other activities)
Saliva (drooling)
Saliva (spitting in mouth)
Saliva (spitting on body)
Saliva (spitting on face)
Saliva (spitting on genitals)
Saliva (on body as a result of licking/kissing)
Scat/feces/brown showers
Semen (in anus raw/bareback)
Semen (in anus with condom)
Semen (in mouth)
Semen (in mouth with condom)
Semen (in vagina raw/bareback aka creampie)
Semen (in vagina with condom)
Semen (on body)
Semen (on face/facial)
Semen (swallowing)
Snowballing (semen passed from mouth to mouth)
Sweat
Tears/crying
Vaginal fluid (used as lubricant for other activities)
Vaginal fluid (in mouth)
Vaginal fluid (on body)
Vaginal fluid (on face)
Vaginal fluid (on genitals)
Vomit
Watersports/golden showers (in anus)
Watersports/golden showers (in mouth)
Watersports/golden showers (in vagina)
Watersports/golden showers (on body)
Watersports/golden showers (on face)

Sex Toys
Experience using Interest in using Experience with
Interest in this toy
Toy this toy on your this toy on your this toy used on Comments
used on yourself
partner(s) partner(s) yourself
Material (ceramic)
Material (glass)
Material (hard plastic/ABS plastic)
Material (hard rubber)
Material (jelly rubber)
Material (latex rubber)
Material (metal)
Material (stone)
Material (sealed wood)
Material (silicone)
Material (TPE/elastomer)
Airwave/pressure wave toy (clitoris)
Airwave/pressure wave toy (penis)
Anal beads
Anal Hook
BenWa balls/ kegel balls
Buffer rings
Butt plug (large)
Butt plug (small)
Butt plug (inflatable)
Butt plug (prostate stimulating)
Butt plug (tail)
Catheter
Chastity belt
Chastity cage
Cock ring (cock only)
Cock ring (balls included)
Cock sling
Dilator
Dildo (small)
Dildo (large)
Dildo (extra large)
Dildo (abstract shape)
Dildo (animal phallus shape)
Dildo (fantasy creature phallus shape)
Dildo (food/produce shape)
Dildo (hand/fist shape)
Dildo (realistic/human penis shape)
Dildo (tentacle shape)
Dildo (double ended)
Dildo (A spot stimulating)
Dildo (G spot stimulating)
Dildo (prostate stimulating)
Dildo (ridged/textured)
Dildo (smooth)
Dildo (inflatable)
Dildo (strap-on)
Dildo (strapless strap-on)
Dildo (with cum tube)
Dildo (with suction cup)
Pulsator dildo/stronic dildo
Thrusting dildo
Flicking/licking toy
Food as improvised sex toy
Fucking machine
Fuck saw
Gates of Hell
Grinder
Improvised toy (for grinding on)
Improvised toy (for penetration into anus or vagina)
Improvised toy (for penetrating with penis)
Kegel trainers/vaginal weights
Lube (flavored)
Lube (hybrid water and silicone)
Lube (intended for anal)
Lube (numbing)
Lube (Oil based)
Lube (Silicone)
Lube (Simulated cum)
Lube (warming/tingling)
Lube (water based)
Multipurpose toy
Oscillator
Penis extender
Penis plug
Penis stroker/sleeve (hard case)
Penis stroker/sleeve (soft sided)
Penis stroker/sleeve (simulating anus)
Penis stroker/sleeve (simulating mouth)
Penis stroker/sleeve (simulating vagina)
Penis stroker/sleeve (strokes for you)
Penis stroker/sleeve (sucking)
Penis stroker/sleeve (rotating)
Positioning pillows/supports
Pumps/suction toys (clitoris)
Pumps/suction toys (nipples)
Pumps/suction toys (penis)
Pumps/suction toys (vulva)
Rocker/glider
Rotary/tongue wheel
Sex doll (female)
Sex doll (male)
Sex doll (full body)
Sex doll (torso only)
Sex doll (torso with head)
Sex doll (lower half)
Sex doll (masturbator/genitals and/or ass only)
Sex doll (inflatable)
Sex doll (Silicone/TPE)
Sex doll (stuffed/cloth)
Sex doll (realistic appearance)
Sex doll (fantasy appearance)
Sex doll (posable)
Sex doll (life size)
Sex doll (smaller than life size)
Sex doll (robotic)
Sex furniture
Speculum
Sperm stopper
Sybian/saddle
Urethral Sound
Vaginal eggs
Vaginal hook
Vibrator (external)
Vibrator (internal)
Vibrator (buzzy)
Vibrator (rumbly)
Vibrator (anal plug)
Vibrator (BenWa/kegel balls)
Vibrator (bullet)
Vibrator (butterfly/hands free)
Vibrator (cock ring)
Vibrator (dildo)
Vibrator (egg)
Vibrator (glove/fingertip)
Vibrator (inserted in panties)
Vibrator (penis stroker/sleeve)
Vibrator (rabbit/dual stimulation style)
Vibrator (remote controlled)
Vibrator (wand)

Voyeurism/Exhibitionism
Experience as Interest as Experience as Interest as
Activity Comments
Dom/Top Dom/Top Sub/Bottom Sub/Bottom
Exhibitionism (around friends/partners)
Exhibitionism (in sexual contexts ex: at a play party or kink
club)
Exhibitionism (in public)
Flashing (ass aka mooning)
Flashing (breasts)
Flashing (genitals)
Flashing (underwear)
Groping/fondling (in public)
Modelling for erotic photos
Nudity (around others)
Nudity (private)
Nudity (public)
Outdoor Sex
Porn (camming/live streaming)
Porn (recording yourself)
Porn (watching)
Sex with risk of getting caught in the act
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your partner(s) with others)
Walking on leash in public
Wearing bondage (public, over clothes)
Wearing bondage (public, under clothes)
Wearing collar in public
Wearing toys (public, under clothes)

Group Sex
Experience as Interest as Experience as Interest as
Groups Comments
Top/Giver Top/Giver Bottom/Receiver Bottom/Receiver
Threesome
Foursome
Orgy
Daisy chain
Couple swap
Swinging
Gangbang
Harem
Running a train
Multiple Doms, one sub
Multiple subs, one Dom

Bondage
Experience Interest in binding Experience being Interest in being
Activity/Implement Comments
binding someone someone bound bound
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (light)
Bondage for extended periods (hours)
Arm sleeves (aka armbinders)
Bondage board
Bondage chair
Bondage frame
Bondage horse
Bondage table
Bound to bed
Bound to other furniture
Bound to other person
Breast bondage
Cage/kennel
Chains
Clothing used for bondage
Collar
Confined to small space (ex: closet, cell)
Crucifixion
Cuffs (wrists)
Cuffs (ankles)
Cuffs (thighs)
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cuffs (silicone)
Cuffs (other materials)
Handcuffs (police style)
Thumbcuffs
Toe cuffs
Full head hoods
Gag (ball)
Gag (Bit)
Gag (dental rectractor)
Gag (inflatable)
Gag (phallic)
Gag (ring)
Gag (cloth)
Gag (knotted rope)
Gag (rubber)
Gag (silicone)
Gag (tape)
Muzzle
Genital bondage
Harness (chain)
Harness (leather)
Harness (rope)
Hair bondage
Hog tie
Humbler
Immobilization
Intricate rope bondage/Shibari/kinbaku
Leather restraints
Led on a leash
Leg sleeves
Locking bondage
Manacles & Irons
Mummification/saran wrapping
Nose hooks
One bar prison
Pillory
Predicament bondage
Rope (bamboo)
Rope (cotton)
Rope (hemp)
Rope (jute)
Rope (linen)
Rope (polyester)
Rope (silk)
Rope (sisal)
Rope (nylon)
Sex Swing/sling
Spreader bars
Straight jackets
Sleeping in bondage
Sleep Sack
Spanking bench
St Andrews cross
Stocks
Suspension (upright)
Suspension (horizontal)
Suspension (inverted)
Tape bondage
Vacuum bed

Pain Play Targets

Experience Interest in giving Experience Interest in
Area of the Body Comments
giving pain pain receiving pain receiving pain
Pain play (light)
Pain play (heavy)
Anus
Arms
Back
Balls/scrotum
Belly
Breasts
Butt
Calves
Chest
Face
Feet/Toes
Groin
Hands/fingers
Nipples
Penis
Thighs
Vagina
Vulva
Strapping (full body beating)

Pain Play- Impact/Percussion

Experience Interest in giving Experience Interest in
Activity/Implement Comments
giving pain pain receiving pain receiving pain
Impact (light)
Impact (hard)
Impact (stingy)
Impact (Thuddy)
Belt
Bat (padded)
Baton
Blackjack/sap
Bruiser/thumper
Cat o'nine tails
Cane
Club (padded)
Dragon tail
Flogger
Hairbrush
Kicking
Paddle
Punching
Riding crop
Rubber mallet
Rug beater
Ruler
Single-tail whip
Slapping
Spanking with hand
Spanking (over the knee)
Spanking loop
Strap/slapper
Tawse
Wooden spoon

Pain Play - Non-Impact

Experience Interest in giving Experience Interest in
Activity/Implement Comments
giving pain pain receiving pain receiving pain
Pain (light)
Pain (heavy/intense)
Abrasion
Ball Stretching
Biting
Cattleprod/zapper
Chewing
Cigarette burns
Clamps on genitals (adjustable)
Clamps on genitals (clover)
Clamps on genitals (with weights)
Clamps on nipples (adjustable)
Clamps on nipples (clover)
Clamps on nipples (with weights)
Clothespins
Crushing
Figging
Finger claws
Hair pulling
Nipple stretching
Pinching
Pricking (ex: wartenburg wheel)
Rack
Scratching
Shock collar
Stepping on
Squeezing
Vampire gloves
Wax Play (dripped wax)
Waxing (hair removal)

Marking
Experience Interest in making Experience Interest in
Type of Mark Comments
making marks marks receiving marks receiving marks
Hidden by clothing
Visible when clothed
Abrasions
Body Paint
Bruising
Breaking skin
Bite marks
Henna
Hickeys
Lipstick marks
Rope burn
Temporary tattoo
Writing on body (marker)
Writing on body (lipstick/makeup)

Sensation Play
Experience Interest in
Experience Interest in giving
Activity/Implement receiving receiving Comments
giving sensation sensation
sensation sensation
Aromas
ASMR
audio erotica
Blinfolds
Cold shower
ear plugs
Estim (TENS unit)
Estim (Violet wand)
Estim (external)
Estim (internal)
Feathers
Fire cupping
Fur
Hot oil/massage oil
Ice cubes
Kissing
Licking
Massage (body)
Massage (face)
Massage (feet)
Massage (hands)
Massage (head/scalp)
Music
Petting
Playing with hair
Sensory Deprivation
Soft fabric
Suction
Temperature play
Tickling
Voice kink
White noise

Humiliation/Degradation
Experience as Interest as Experience as Interest as
Activity Comments
Degrader Degrader degradee degradee
Degradation (private)
Degradation (public)
Eating from a bowl/on the floor
Forced Hetero, homo or bi sexuality
Forced stripping/nudity
Forced masturbation
Forced feeding
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Licking the floor or other unsavory item/location
Objectification
Public exposure
Sissification/forced feminization
Spitting on degradee
Stepping on degradee
Teasing (verbal)
Teasing (physical/sexual)
Verbal humiliation
Washing mouth out with soap
Wetting oneself
Wetting the bed

Roleplay
Experience as Interest as Experience as Interest as
Scenario Comments
Dom/Top role Dom/Top role Sub/Bottom role Sub/Bottom role
Roleplaying (general)
1950s household
Abandonment
Age Play (as little)
Age Play (as middle)
Age Play (as big)
Age Play (as caretaker)
Alien abduction
Animal
Auction
Blackmail
Boss and employee
Catfight
Doll/puppet
Dungeon
Fireman/rescue worker
Ghost/haunting
Handyman/repairman/plumber
Incest
Infantilism
Initiation rites
Interrogation
Kidnapping
Medical
Military
Mind Control
Monster/teratophilia
Pet play (human pet)
Pet play (kitten)
Pet play (puppy)
Pet play (other type of pet)
Pony play
Primal play
Prison/police
Rape/non consent play
Religious worship or rituals
Rescue/damsel in distress
Robber/home invasion
Schoolroom/teacher and student
Sex worker and client
Unconcious/Drugged person
Vampire
Wrestling

Clothing
Experience Interest in Experience with Interest in partner
Item Comments
wearing wearing partner(s) wearing (s) wearing
Boots
Bustier
Catsuit
Children's clothing
Corset (fashion)
Corset (tightlacing/waist training)
Crossdressing
Fully clothed during sex
Fur
Fursuits/Yiffing
Garter belt
Gas mask
Gimp suit
Gloves
Gloves (medical/latex)
Gloves (opera)
Gothic
Heels
Jockstrap
Latex
Leather
Lingerie
Maid outfit
Masks
Naked apron
One partner clothed while the other is not (aka CMNF/CFNM)
Panties
Pantyhose
Pet play gear
PVC
Ripping or cutting off clothing
Sheer/transparent materials
Silk
Skimpy clothing
Slutty clothing
Spandex
Socks
Stockings
Symbolic jewelry (ex: day collar)
Thigh highs
Torn/ripped clothing
Uniforms (general)
Uniforms (military)
Uniforms (police)
Uniforms (school)
Vinyl
Zentai suit

Service
Experience Interest in giving Experience Interest in
Activity Comments
giving service service receiving service receiving service
Service (general)
Sexual service
Bathing your partner
Bootblacking/shoeshine
Chauffeuring
Cock warming
Findom/me
Homework assignments
Housework/chores
Journaling/diary keeping
Kneeling
Maid service
Manicure/pedicure
Massage
Ladies maid or valet
Serving as ashtray
Serving as art object
Serving as food platter
Serving as furniture
Serving as toilet
Serving others besides Dom/Top as directed
Tributing
Waitservice (waiter/waitress)

Discipline
Experience Interest in
Experience Interest in giving
Activity receiving receiving Comments
giving discipline discipline
discipline discipline
Restrictive rules on behaviour (general)
Assigned daily tasks/activities
Bathroom restrictions
Clothing restrictions or requirements
Clothing chosen for you
Crawling
Eye contact restrictions
Excercise requirements
Food chosen for you
Food restrictions
Hand Feeding
Lectures for misbehavior
Movement restrictions
Orders
Persona training
Position training
Physical Examinations
Punishment (general)
Punishment (additional behavioral restrictions)
Punishment (additional service)
Punishment (being ignored)
Punishment (corporal punishment)
Punishment (orgasm restriction/denial)
Punishment (play restriction)
Punishment (sex restriction)
Punishment (writing lines or essay)
Rewards
Rituals
Schedule chosed for you
Sleep conditions chosen for you
Sleep deprivation
Speech restrictions
Standing in corner/designated space

Other Fetishes/Kinks/Miscellania
Experience as Interest as
Experience as Interest as
Activity Sub/Bottom/ Sub/Bottom/ Comments
Dom/Top/Giver Dom/Top/Giver
Receiver Receiver
Adult Baby Diaper
Anonymous sex
Begging
Body worship
Boot/shoe/heels worship
Breeding/Pregnancy
Car sex
Competition between Doms
Competition between Dom and sub
Competition between subs
Cosplay
Crush fetish
Cuckold/Cuckqueen
Deliberate disobedience
Erotic dance
Feederism
Foot fetish
Food play
Free Use
Glory hole
Hypnosis
Inflation
Kegel excercises
Lap dance
Macrophilia
Microphilia
Mirrors (ie having sex in front of one)
Nursing/Breastmilk
Partialism (put body part in comments)
Phone sex
Pole dance
Praise kink
Revving
Ruined/running makeup
Sexting
Shower/tub sex
Sleep sex
Smoking
Stripping/strip tease
Technophilia
Vore
Wet and messy

Edge Play
Experience as Interest as
Experience as Interest as
Activity Sub/Bottom/ Sub/Bottom/ Comments
Dom/Top/Giver Dom/Top/Giver
Receiver Receiver
Asphyxiation
Blood play
Body modification (temporary piercing)
Body modification (permanent piercing)
Body modification (branding)
Body modification (tattoo)
Body modification (Saline injection)
Body modification (Scarification)
Breaking skin deliberately
Breath control
Choking (airway)
Choking (blood choke)
Cutting skin
Drunk or high while engaging in kink
Fear play
Fire play
Gun play
Knife Play (non cutting)
Needles
Waterboarding
Water torture

Aftercare
Experience as Interest as Experience as Interest as
Form of care Comments
Dom/Top Dom/Top Sub/Bottom Sub/Bottom
Aromatherapy
Blankets
Body self assesment and check in
Changing sheets
Checking in (immediate)
Checking in (hours later)
Checking in (day after)
Checking in (days later)
Cleaning and putting away gear and toys
Cleaning the space
Coloring
Comfort objects
Cuddling
Doing hobbies
Dressing in comfortable, warm clothing
Drink (Gatorade/sports drinks)
Drink (Hot tea)
Drink (juice)
Drink (water)
Drink (other warm beverage)
Drink (other cold beverage)
Eat (chocolate)
Eat (a meal)
Eat (a snack)
First Aid (aloe vera lotion or gel)
First Aid (arnica cream for bruises)
First Aid (disinfecting and dressing any wounds)
First Aid (icing bruises or other inflamation)
Gentler sexual activities
Go for a walk
Go on a date
Go to the bathroom
Grooming one another
Grounding excercises
Having an orgasm
Heating pad/hot water bottle
Journalling
Kissing
Laughing
Lighting candles
Listening to music
Massage
Masturbation
Meditation
Napping
Painkillers
Pillows for cushioning tender/sore areas
Playing a game
Quiet environment
Reading
Returning to safe spaces
Returning to your own space
Rituals to formally end a scene
Safety phone call to friend/trusted third party
Scheduling next session
Self care routines (ie skin care, hair care, personal hygiene)
Showering
Sleeping together
Spending time on activities unrelated to kink, BDSM or sex
Stretching/yoga
Stuffed animals
Taking a bath
Talking (affectionate/pillow talk)
Talking (affirmations)
Talking (praise for performance during the session)
Talking (reassurance if insecurity or shame arises)
Talking (recapping and discussing the scene/session ie what
you liked and what went well, or what didn't go as well)
Talking (small talk)
Talking (telling jokes to break tension)
Talking (validation of feelings)
Third party providing aftercare
Time alone
Touch (affectionate)
Touch (deep pressure)
Touch (firm)
Touch (gentle)
Touch (none)
Touch (petting)
Touch (sensual)
Undressing
Warm environment
Watching comforting media
Wiping off sweat and other fluids
Working out

Safe words and signals

Safe Word Safety Signal
Severity Level Planned response to word or signal Comments
(verbal cue) (non verbal cue)
Good to go
Need to slow down or reduce intensity
Need to stop activity entirely and immediately
Having a medical or psychiatric emergency
Fetishes, kinks, or other interests
not listed above

Medical needs, concerns, or

restrictions

Safer Sex practices and

preferences and known STI risks

Aftercare needs and preferences

not covered above. If you
experience sub or Dom drop, how
would like to address it?

Langauage: preferred forms of

address, pet names, words or
phrases you enjoy hearing, etc.

Langauage: words, phrases, or

forms of address to avoid using

Any other limits? How would you

like to handle limits?

Additional thoughts and comments