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Relationship Boundary Mapping v3
Relationship Boundary Mapping v3
I feel safe sharing intimate things about my life because the relationship is part of my professional support sys-
Mostly Safe
tem—doctor, therapist etc.
2
I feel they have been trustworthy but I haven’t known them long enough to invite them into the inner circle—so
Mostly Safe
I am still deciding how much I want to share but looking good so far
I have just met them or see them regularly but do not or cannot share certain things about myself because the
Moderately
relationship doesn’t call for it
3
I have trusted but it was not reciprocated or who have given me reason not to trust or avoid trusting them but
Moderately
they have not been harmful (thoughtlessness) or inappropriate (such as age)
They have shown they are not trustworthy by their actions and behaviors toward others — or they are
Less Sure
strangers to me personally
My trust has been betrayed and I feel I must protect my feelings and emotions around this person - even of
Broken Trust
they say they did not intend to hurt me
4
I do not know this person and the circumstances feel unsafe for me to extend trust—I am in a new place or situ-
Unknown
ation and I don’t know if it is safe
Someone who has abused me or others—who has deliberately caused me harm or harmed a member of my
Most Unsafe
community, dangerous to me and others. Avoid connection, seek safety and have backup