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Practical Daygame Ebook Rev1
Practical Daygame Ebook Rev1
Contents
Before The Approach ..................................................................................................................................... 3
Step 1 ......................................................................................................................................................... 12
Step 2 ......................................................................................................................................................... 12
Step 3: ........................................................................................................................................................ 13
Step 4 ......................................................................................................................................................... 14
FAQ ................................................................................................................................................................ 30
The beauty of Day Game is that it can happen anywhere! You can be at your local grocery store
buying some eggs and milk or on your 20 minute break grabbing a cup of coffee at the corner coffee
shop. Wherever you are at during the day, one thing must always be a constant—when you see that
1. Body Language: Always look relaxed and confident. Avoid bad body language, since up to
a. Stand up straight, make sure you are not slouched over, roll your shoulders back and
maintain a straight spine. Keep your chin up with your head centered over the
shoulders.
2. Facial Expression: Also a form of non-verbal communication, it conveys your emotional state.
It is a means of conveying social information. Avoid having the typical poker face when
approaching.
a. Smile: By smiling we can increase our attractiveness and likeability almost immediately.
Smiling lets the other person know that we are trustworthy and kind.
b. Eye Contact: The eyes create the most obvious and immediate cues that lead to the
3. Tonality: Speak in a relaxed and slow manner, make sure you enunciate properly. You voice
should have a positive tone, while projecting across to the other person.
As in most things in pick up, there are no hard rules, but simply guidelines that are designed to give
If you are past the hook point, feel free to drop the stack. You can always go back to it if you feel her
Concepts:
1. Opener – This can be any indirect Verbal Opener, Natural Canned, or Direct Opener. All good
2. Input – At each step, you audience will give you some type of input ranging from highly
enthusiastic to bored.
3. Acknowledge – Always acknowledge what they say in order to avoid the appearance of simply
4. BT Spike – These are typically the Cocky Funny lines, banter lines, playful touch, mini games,
and mini cold reads. It‘s the most helpful when you can be funny and playful in order to get her
5. Background Story – A background story is simply there to both ground your opener within the
surrounding social context and guide the initial conversation down the pre-determined path the
will inject an intended emotional response, namely laughter or intrigue. You are simply
6. Keyword Linking – Genuine, spontaneous conversations is like surfing through Wikipedia, You
click one link, then another, then another, until you find yourself on some random, but
interesting webpage that you had no intention of going to. Every Opener/Background has an
array of open topics and possible subject threads to continue the story, while making it more
natural, congruent, and avoiding the sensation of a random and weird conversation. So simply
link one of the many possible Keyword Links from the Opener/background to one of the
7. Story 1 (sense of humor) – Following the path of all possible Keyword Links, you want to aim
for an upbeat, interesting, funny, and/or energetic story that is somewhat related to the
Opener/ Background but not entirely. After all, you are trying to move beyond the opener.
8. Story 2 – Use keywords from your story to continue onto another story with newly opened
threads, you now have an open playground to come up with another linked story, that‘s is at
9. Comfort Leading Question – At the end of the stack, you want to give her the opportunity to
explore the conversation and relationship with you further. She may be intensely interested
and attracted to you, but you simply haven‘t given her room to talk. So know you ask a semi-
Closed ended questions can be answered with a single one or two word response. They are often
a yes or no question and don‘t leave much room for elaboration, interpretation or opinion.
Open-ended questions, on the other hand, are questions that cannot be answered with one word
responses. They require some thought and some details to reasonably answer the question.
Opener:
―Hey Girls , quick question, what do you think it means when a girl will only say….‖
―I…Love…You…‖
―I know…‖
[Emphasize]
―Been dating for a couple of weeks. I told him he shouldn‘t …Freak Out Yet…YET.‖
―Unless she pops out the bushes at night with his name tattooed on her butt trying to get him to go on
Maury (Povich).‖
Keyword Links:
1. Texting
2. Relationships
3. Dating
4. T. V Shows
Opener:
―Hey, quick question, I am meeting up with a buddy in a bit and was wondering if it is ok to wear jeans
to a wedding?‖
―You see he just flew in from out of town and according to the airline they ‗MISPLACED‘ his luggage.‖
[emphasize ―misplaced‖ with tonality and a playful roll of the eyes.] ―He has a nice sports coat and
really nice jeans.‖
―I told him worst case scenario, I still got my tux from prom. It still has the fluffy ripple front, but I‘m
sure he can fit into it.‖
Keyword Links:
1. Fashion
2. Wedding
3. Travel
4. Shopping
5. High School
Purpose: Direct Game (i.e., Direct Openers) Requires higher levels of Inner Game, Emotional
Intelligence as well as being at least competent in other non-verbal attributes like Tonality, Body
GUIDELINES/DEFINITIONS:
8. Direct Game is FASTER and will get you into C – Comfort significantly faster than indirect.
9. Background Positive Qualifier – Let her know that while you are interested in her, you still want
to get to know her and have her live up to certain positive qualities. Select a single quality
about her (other than her looks) and qualify her in a positive manner.
Direct Openers
―I was walking by and saw you, I had to come by and say ‗Hi I‘m curious about you.‘‖
―I was on my way to X and totally love your style. I had to find out a little bit more about you.‖
―I was just coming back from Y and you have such a warm charming energy. I‘d love to get to
―I know this is random, but you look adorable. I had to meet you.‖
―I saw you from across the way, Hey, you‘re cute. Wanted to find out if you‘re the friendly type.‖
Pre-Frame the interaction with a statement that shows you are doing something, just did something, or
is random. This way she knows you have things to do and are not just bumming around.
Approach Exercises
The Key here is to start off small and work your way up. Day game can be a challenge to some and a
Keep in mind that this is a learning process; you are in the process of understanding, applying/taking
During the day you might encounter certain limiting beliefs that might turn into excuses and prevent
Step 1
If you are completely new and are not used to talking to strangers or find it difficult to talk to women
Step 2
Once you are comfortable talking to random strangers/women, it‘s time to get over the fear of actually
Ask them if they know where there is xyz food place or any other place similar to it.
Now wait for them to answer your question. They will usually give you a place that is similar. Or
they will give you their opinion on a place that is similar or just as good. Either way, after this
you will launch into a brief story about eating/food/restaurants/being lost. Pick one and deliver
For example:
You: Know a good Italian place around here where I can get some good pasta?
Her: Well there is this one place around the corner, their pasta is ok. It‘s up the street at the
You: Have you tried it? What‘s your honest opinion of it?
Her: I have and it‘s ok; the prices are ok also. The spaghetti and meatballs are good.
You: Thanks, I tried ordering my food thru the internet for the first time today and after
spending a while registering, I placed my order and it said ―thank you, your order will be
Step 3:
Start to talk to everyone! Begin to incorporate conversations with everyone you encounter. If you are
pumping gas greet the clerk and ask him how it‘s going. If you are at the grocery store r egister, ask
the cashier if it‘s been busy today. Begin to incorporate small chit chat with everyone you run into.
Step 4
Opener Exercises
Indirect Openers
It is important to note that every time you approach a set, your opener must include a disarming
This allows you to comfortably transition to your opener in a socially acceptable manner during the
day.
Step #1:
Choose 2 of the listed common conversation topics that women are interested in below:
1.) Fashion
2.) Celebrity Gossip
3.) Relationships
4.) Fitness
5.) Food
6.) Travel
7.) Social Etiquette
Step #2:
Take the topic that you chose and make a list of specific and relevant sub-topics and write them
below.
_________________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________
Step #3:
Choose one of your sub-topics and create a question that is relevant to the topic you chose. An
Example: Fashion – Skinny Jeans – “Hey, this is a bit random… but do you think that skinny jeans
make a man less masculine?”
Keep in mind that you should come up with something that stimulates thought. Avoid questions that
are too logical during the day time because it will telegraph that you are not interested in getting to
Example: Fashion – Skinny Jeans – “Hey, this is a bit random…but how much do skinny jeans cost?”
Step #4:
Establish a reason for why you are asking the question in 2-4 sentences. An example is provided
below:
Example: Fashion – Skinny Jeans – “Hey, this is a bit random…but do you think that wearing skinny
jeans make a man less masculine?”
At this point, you will hear a response from the girl. You should listen to what she says and
acknowledge her input in one sentence and proceed to continue with your back-story or reason for
Example Cont‘d: (Acknowledgement of her comment). “Well, the reason why I ask is because I like
the way they look, but I understand that appearance is important and I don’t want to give anyone the
wrong idea.”
There are certain situations that you will encounter while you are out and about during the day. Two
1. She will be stationary and not moving. Depending on where you choose to have your
This might occur if you are walking around a grocery store and she is standing looking
at an item. Also, it can occur if you are at your local coffee shop and she is waiting for
her order.
This situation can occur if you choose to have an interaction with a beautiful woman
after she has got her order from the coffee shop and she has sat down. If you choose
to look for women on a college campus, you commonly find that most are sitting while
If she is sitting, it is very important to sit as soon as possible in order to avoid that awkward situation
2. She is moving from point A to point B and you must stop her momentum. This can be towards
you or away.
a. She is moving away from you: Here you will catch up and pass her, turn your head and
open over your shoulder as you walk roughly 1 to 2 feet ahead of her.
b. She is moving towards you: Here you will open her from the appropriate social space.
If you start you interaction too late when she is walking towards you, her momentum will carry her past
you, creating enough space where she won‘t feel socially obligated to stop and engage you.
Moving Set
Storytelling Exercises
The art of storytelling has been shared by every culture. It is has been used as a means of
entertainment, education or to instill moral values. For the purpose of Day Game we are going to use
storytelling to get across traits about ourselves and to move the conversation forward while we find out
Keep in mind that your storytelling should convey positive traits. Always avoid talking about:
Politics
Death
Problems at work
Religion
Money
Too many details i.e., Numbers and fancy terms.
Take some time to write down some positive qualities that you have
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Take some time to write down some interesting things that happened to you. These stories can
include situation that you encountered, places you have been with friends, or favorite memories with
family.
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
If you are having trouble, here are some attractive qualities that you might have.
Humor Exercises
It is important to have a sense of humor when interacting with women during the day time. It is the
most socially acceptable way of raising a woman‘s buying temperature so that she will be more
attracted to you. Humor comes from observation and honesty. Being honest and light hearted will give
a true insight into your personality that women want to know more about.
Step #1:
You have to be able to make fun of yourself to lower the guard of those around you. It shows that you
are comfortable with yourself and not judgmental towards other people who may feel insecure in the
presence of others. Make a list of 4-5 of your noticeable insecurities. Try to keep them superficial. An
Example: I’m short, I think I’m a bad driver, I tend to make bad jokes, etc.
1.)__________________________________________________________________
2.)__________________________________________________________________
3.)__________________________________________________________________
4.)__________________________________________________________________
5.)__________________________________________________________________
Step #2:
Make one observation for each of your listed insecurities. An example is provided below:
Example:
I’m short - I’m so short that I have to tippy-toe to reach high cabinets.
I think I’m a bad driver – People never ask me to drive on long road trips because they tell me they
want to live.
I tend to make bad jokes – People tend to look at me funny after I make a joke.
1.)__________________________________________________________________
2.)__________________________________________________________________
3.)__________________________________________________________________
4.)__________________________________________________________________
5.)__________________________________________________________________
Step #3:
Make a list of 4-5 attributes of yourself that you are proud of. An example is provided below:
Example: I have a great job, I’m an amazing piano player, I dance well, etc.
1.)__________________________________________________________________
2.)__________________________________________________________________
3.)__________________________________________________________________
4.)__________________________________________________________________
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5.)__________________________________________________________________
Step #4:
Make one observation for each of the things you are proud of. An example is provided below:
Example:
I have a great job – I find myself in a better mood knowing that I do something I love.
I’m an amazing piano player – I can play most contemporary songs by ear.
I dance well – I feel the rhythm when I dance so well that I never have a problem finding a dance
partner.
Step #5:
Take your observations and re-word them by using the literary technique of metaphors. Metaphor is
the concept of understanding one thing in terms of another. A metaphor is a figure of speech that
constructs an analogy between two things or ideas; the analogy is conveyed by the use of a
Example:
I’m short – I’m so short that I feel like a child reaching for a box of cereal above the refrigerator.
I’m an amazing piano player – I’m such an amazing piano player that I could play a song back to you
Another literary technique you can use is exaggeration. Exaggeration is a representation of something
in an excessive manner. When you exaggerate, it is meant to infer your original observation, not
Example:
I think I’m a bad driver – My friends think my driving is so bad that they stage an intervention for me
Homework:
Make a list of 4-5 observations from people in your daily life that you know. From that list, start
1.)__________________________________________________________________
2.)__________________________________________________________________
3.)__________________________________________________________________
4.)__________________________________________________________________
5.)__________________________________________________________________
Lifestyle Exercises
Your lifestyle determines what women you will attract and include into your life. Here are some ways
to improve the quality of your lifestyle and to maximize the compatibility of the women you meet during
Step #1:
List and organize your priorities from most important to least important. An example is provided below:
Example:
1.)__________________________________________________________________
2.)__________________________________________________________________
3.)__________________________________________________________________
4.)__________________________________________________________________
5.)__________________________________________________________________
Step #2:
Assign a time limit for each of the activities you listed using 24 hours as the maximum amount of time
used in a day. Additionally, assign which overall priority group that activity falls under (This is not
Example:
Personal Relationships/Leisure – Wine tasting with a girl I met during a daytime approach – 2 hours
Total: 24 hours
Use the space below to list your activities. Keep in mind, the list you create must align with your
priorities.
Step #3:
Make a list of activities which you have not tried and would like to do in the future. Make one for each
Example:
Spirituality – Go to church.
Step #4:
Do those activities listed in step #3 and make a SPECIFIC time for when you will do them. Keep in
mind, your priorities are not dictated by the time you spend. Your priorities dictate how your time will
be spent when those activities coincide.
FAQ
o Fix yourself 1st: This is one of the techniques we teach—always be attractive 1st then
approach. It is one of the easiest ways to improve yourself before you go out and
Grooming
Fashion
Hobbies
o Set Goals: Setting goals gives you long-term vision and short-term motivation. It
focuses your acquisition of knowledge, and helps you to organize your time and your
resources so that you can make the very most of your life. This will allow you to
Start Small: Everyone has to crawl before they walk. If you have trouble talking to
random strangers, then finding a conversation starter that works might not be the best
step to start at. Take some time and greet random strangers and women during your
day.
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It depends on the situation. Keep in mind how you are going to make her feel when you
approach with your surroundings/environment being a factor. For example, it is one thing to
start a conversation with a beautiful girl in line at a busy grocery store and another on a
beautiful girl alone on a grassy lawn on a college campus. If you go direct on the girl who is in
line, always be aware of the social pressure that you are bringing to her when she notices
Lets you know rather quickly if she is interested. This can cut to the chase and
This can start an interaction most of the time and creates very little social
pressure.
Can be time consuming and might not be effective due to time constraints.
This all depends on what you plan on accomplishing and how much time you have. If you are a
busy person with limited time and a busy schedule, get your game in where you can. If you are
a college student, a great time to meet Beautiful women would be during your lunch break
since there usually is a nice gap between classes. If you have some time on your hands I
would pick a place that can offer some good foot traffic, such as a mall. This gives you the
option to walk around, meet someone and the possibility of incorporating an insta date in your
approach. Just make sure you go to one of the higher end malls with fancy stores like
Channel, Gucci, and Prada. Chances are there will be less jail bait and hotter well-established
women.
There are some key points to remember here. There are a couple of situations where you
might want to avoid making the approach due to your level of game or certain time or social
constraints transpiring.
o Level Game: Here are some situations where you might want to level up your game
Bus stops: Here your game will have to rapidly adapt to the unknown time
constraints that you have. You ability to judge her attraction and improve come
into play.
Classroom transitions: If you are on a college campus you might see a beautiful
girl going from one class to another. Here you have another situation where you
o Social Constrains: Any time you have people dealing with money or other important
personal security.
Cash registers: Avoid Approaching Women while they are in a cash transaction
at cash register. It is better to just wait and approach a couple of minutes later
ATM: Once again here it is best to approach when the transactions are done.
The need for personal safety is going to put her in a defensive mode.
o Just carry on. Do not worry about people watching or judging you. It is very common
for someone who is not comfortable making approaches during the day to come up with
the outcome. Keep in mind the goal that you are trying to accomplish. Focus on
accomplishing the steps that you have decided to practice for that day, instead of
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