The document discusses the importance of small talk and mingling at social events. It notes that people now expect guests to introduce themselves rather than waiting for the host. It encourages readers to introduce themselves to others by extending a handshake, making eye contact, and smiling. It also discusses how organizations aim to retain members through fellowship, but new members often feel left out if others do not make an effort to include them.
The document discusses the importance of small talk and mingling at social events. It notes that people now expect guests to introduce themselves rather than waiting for the host. It encourages readers to introduce themselves to others by extending a handshake, making eye contact, and smiling. It also discusses how organizations aim to retain members through fellowship, but new members often feel left out if others do not make an effort to include them.
The document discusses the importance of small talk and mingling at social events. It notes that people now expect guests to introduce themselves rather than waiting for the host. It encourages readers to introduce themselves to others by extending a handshake, making eye contact, and smiling. It also discusses how organizations aim to retain members through fellowship, but new members often feel left out if others do not make an effort to include them.
The document discusses the importance of small talk and mingling at social events. It notes that people now expect guests to introduce themselves rather than waiting for the host. It encourages readers to introduce themselves to others by extending a handshake, making eye contact, and smiling. It also discusses how organizations aim to retain members through fellowship, but new members often feel left out if others do not make an effort to include them.
holiday open house hosted by an important client. The
client greets you, takes your coat, visits for a minute, and shows you to the food. Your client departs to greet an- other guest, and you are left standing next to the shrimp cocktail, not knowing a single person in the room. If you wait for the host to come back and properly introduce you to some of the other guests, chances are your only new encounter will be with the shrimp. Times have changed. People expect you to mingle on your own, introduce yourself, and take the initiative to get acquainted. As Babe Ruth said, “Don’t let the fear of striking out get in your way.” Remember, even your clos- est confidante was once a stranger. Take the risk. Walk up to someone and introduce yourself. Extend your hand, make eye contact, and smile saying, “Hello. My name is Deb Fine. It’s nice to meet you.” If you are a member of an association, chamber of commerce, fraternity or soror- ity, church or synagogue, you are probably aware of these organizations’ constant challenge of retaining member- ship. We join such organizations seeking out fellowship; we often leave or quit because we don’t find it. Instead, we perceive others as members of groups or cliques that won’t let us join. get over your mom’s good intentions . 15
I think most of us can relate to the following poem,