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REVIEW

Sex After Prostate Cancer in Gay and Bisexual Men:


A Review of the Literature
Meghan K. McInnis, MSc, and Caroline F. Pukall, PhD

ABSTRACT

Introduction: Prostate cancer (PCa) is the most commonly diagnosed cancer among males globally, and it has
one of the highest 5-year net survival rates of all cancers. Most diagnosed individuals, therefore, must live with
the consequences of the disease and its treatments, including sexual side effects. Unfortunately, little is known
about the sexual outcomes of PCa in individuals who identify as gay or bisexual.
Objectives: To highlight the unique concerns, experiences, and needs of gay and bisexual men with PCa by
reviewing the literature on sexual outcomes in this patient population.
Methods: A literature review through June 2019 was conducted, with a focus on sexual outcomes in gay and
bisexual men with PCa; comparisons of sexual outcomes between heterosexual and gay and bisexual men with
PCa; and the health care experiences of gay and bisexual men with PCa, specifically with regards to discussing sex
with health care providers.
Results: Gay and bisexual men with PCa report a number of unique sexual concerns compared to their het-
erosexual counterparts. They face heteronormative biases and homophobia in the health care system and are
frequently dissatisfied with the information they receive with regards to PCa and sexuality.
Conclusion: There has been limited research on the experiences of gay and bisexual men with PCa; additional
research to replicate and extend upon the findings of previous studies is warranted. Research on the experiences of
PCa patients and survivors should be inclusive of participants of all sexual orientations and gender identities.
Research results must be translated into clinical practice, so that health care providers can communicate specific
and relevant information to their gay and bisexual patients. McInnis MK, Pukall, CF. Sex After Prostate
Cancer in Gay and Bisexual Men: A Review of the Literature. Sex Med Rev 2020;XX:XXXeXXX.
Copyright  2020, International Society for Sexual Medicine. Published by Elsevier Inc. This is an open access article
under the CC BY-NC-ND license (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/4.0/).
Key Words: Prostate Cancer; LGBTQ Persons; Sexual Function; Sexual Health; Health Care

INTRODUCTION instead, they must live with the consequences of the cancer and
Among males, prostate cancer (PCa) is the second-most its treatments.2
commonly diagnosed cancer globally, the most commonly Treatments for PCa can negatively impact multiple areas of
diagnosed cancer in 105 countries (including the United States, patients’ mental and physical healtherelated quality of life.
Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom), and Common negative side effects include issues related to sexual
the fifth leading cause of cancer death.1,2 At 98% (in the United functioning and satisfaction. Given these side effects and the
States), PCa has one of the highest 5-year net survival rates of all prevalence and high survivorship of the disease, recent research
cancers; this rate is nearly 100% for early-stage diagnoses.2 Ac- on PCa has focused on improving the quality of life of diagnosed
cording to the American Cancer Society, 90% of PCa diagnoses individuals. Unfortunately, a subset of the PCa patient and
in the United States are at a local or regional stage, meaning that survivor population is underrepresented in this literature: gay and
most diagnosed individuals are not dying from the disease; bisexual men. Much of the previous research on the experiences
of individuals diagnosed with PCa has either been restricted to
samples of heterosexual, cisgender (ie, felt gender matches the
Received July 18, 2019. Accepted January 27, 2020. sex/gender assigned at birth) participants, or else has neglected to
Department of Psychology, Queen’s University, Kingston, ON, Canada collect and report data on sexual orientation and gender identity.
Copyright ª 2020, International Society for Sexual Medicine. Published In 2016, a review of the literature on PCa in gay and bisexual
by Elsevier Inc. This is an open access article under the CC BY-NC-ND men revealed a mere 30 studies that had been conducted since
license (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/4.0/).
https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sxmr.2020.01.004
the year 2000; most of these studies were case studies and

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commentaries, and 4 were quantitative.3 14 of these 30 studies onset and worsen over time.5,6 Although radiotherapy does not
were part of a single special issue of the Journal of Gay and cause retrograde ejaculation, it can decrease the volume of ejac-
Lesbian Psychotherapy. To quote the editors of this special issue, ulate.6 External beam radiation may penetrate the rectum,
“If prostate cancer, in general, is off most people’s radar screen, causing soreness, diarrhea, and sometimes bleeding; these con-
then gay men with prostate cancer are a truly invisible species.”4 sequences can make receptive anal intercourse painful.6
The purpose of the present review is to provide a summary of the Finally, ADT can be used independently (particularly in pa-
literature on the sexual outcomes of PCa in gay and bisexual men. tients diagnosed with metastatic PCa), or in conjunction with
To this end, after a brief overview of PCa treatments and their surgical and/or radiation treatment.5,7 One form of ADT is
sexual side effects, the following sections will review research in 4 bilateral orchiectomy, which involves the surgical removal of
broad areas: (1) sexual outcomes in gay and bisexual men with PCa; both testicles. Medical forms of ADT include luteinizing
(2) direct comparisons between the sexual outcomes of hetero- hormone-releasing hormone agonists or antagonists, estrogens,
sexual and gay/bisexual men with PCa; and (3) the health care and antiandrogens.5,7 ADT can also cause erectile dysfunction,
experiences of gay and bisexual men with PCa, specifically decreased libido, and decreased penile length and volume.5,7
regarding discussions about sex. The primary goal of this review is Other hormonal side effects, such as gynecomastia (ie, enlarged
to highlight the unique experiences, concerns, and needs of gay and breasts), weight gain, and body hair loss, may also impact pa-
bisexual men with PCa, with a specific focus on sexuality. tients’ sex lives.7

TREATMENT-RELATED SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION IN


A BRIEF OVERVIEW OF COMMON PROSTATE GAY AND BISEXUAL MEN WITH PROSTATE
CANCER TREATMENTS AND THEIR SEXUAL SIDE CANCER
EFFECTS
Reduced sexual functioning has been found to be one of the
Common treatments for PCa include observation, radical most prevalent and distressing side effects of PCa treatment.8 In
prostatectomy, radiotherapy (ie, external beam radiotherapy, previous research, men have described how the loss of sexual
brachytherapy), and systemic therapies including androgen functioning and the changes it brought to their lives negatively
deprivation therapy (ADT), chemotherapy, and immunotherapy impacted their masculinity and left them feeling that they were
(for a recent overview of PCa treatments and outcomes, see no longer “a whole man.”9 This perceived loss of manhood has
Weiner & Kundu, 2018).5 Observation includes watchful been echoed by participants in other studies, including in in-
waiting and active surveillance. Watchful waiting involves dividuals who had not yet started treatment.10,11 Although
symptom monitoring, with treatment only to relieve symptoms. erectile aids, including injections and devices, exist, men have
Patients with low-risk disease may opt for active surveillance, expressed that using such aids can feel unnatural and remove
which involves monitoring symptoms with the option of un- spontaneity from sex.9,11e13 When choosing a treatment for
dergoing active treatment if the disease progresses.5 PCa, men have discussed a perceived trade-off between living and
Every active treatment for PCa has the potential for sexual side maintaining their sexual functioning.11 However, given that sex
effects, with the specific side effects varying by treatment mo- is an important part of living, it is not a simple, straightforward
dality. Radical prostatectomy involves the surgical removal of the trade-off. Indeed, for many men, treatment-related sexual
prostate and a portion of surrounding tissue.6 This surgery dysfunction was one of their most pressing fears.11
commonly causes erectile dysfunction, as the nerves that stim- As devastating as the sexual side effects of PCa and its treat-
ulate erections are located close to the prostate gland.6 Further- ments may be, there have been few studies on the sexual out-
more, this surgery causes retrograde ejaculation (ie, orgasm comes of PCa treatment in gay and bisexual men. Research that
occurs, but the ejaculate travels backwards into the bladder has focused specifically on PCa in this population has suggested
instead of out of the penis).6 Nerve-sparing surgical techniques that they may have different sexual concerns than their hetero-
may result in improved long-term erectile functioning, but the sexual counterparts, as the sexual side effects of PCa treatments
use of such techniques depends on the location and aggressive- may impact them differently. For instance, firmer erections are
ness of the cancer.5,6 The use of medications for treating erectile required for anal penetration than for vaginal penetration.6
dysfunction may also result in more positive long-term out- Therefore, treatments that work for erectile dysfunction in het-
comes.5 In the United States, most radical prostatectomies are erosexual men may not be as effective in men who have sex with
robot assisted; compared to open surgeries, there is evidence that men (MSM). In one online study of gay and bisexual men with
robotic surgeries may result in improved erectile functioning at PCa, only 27% of participants had had an erection firm enough
12-month follow-up.5 for anal intercourse in the past 4 weeks.14 Treatment-induced
In external beam radiotherapy, radiation is produced outside erectile dysfunction, therefore, can force gay and bisexual men
the body and targeted at the prostate, whereas in brachytherapy, either to change their sexual role (ie, from insertive to receptive
radioactive seeds are implanted directly into the prostate gland.6 anal intercourse partner) or to no longer engage in penetrative
The sexual side effects of radiation therapy may have a gradual sexual activities.

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One study of gay men with PCa found that only approxi- an important aspect of the gay male identity. For some men,
mately 40% of participants who were always the insertive partner erectile dysfunction led to a sort of identity crisis, while others
before treatment remained in that role after treatment, with less described no such impact on their identity. Still other men
than 20% reporting always being the insertive partner.15 In a described a re-evaluation or transitioning of their gay identity
more recent study of gay and bisexual men with PCa, only in the face of erectile dysfunction.14
approximately 8% of participants reported currently being the Gay and bisexual men’s view of aging in the context of
insertive partner, compared to 42% in the year before treat- treatment-induced sexual dysfunction varies greatly. Some gay
ment.16 Changing sexual role depended on treatment modality and bisexual men attributed erectile dysfunction to aging rather
in one study of MSM with PCa.17 Among those who had than to PCa; this attribution helped these men to accept the
received surgical treatment, one of 4 participants who reported change.14,22 For other men, less frequent sex after PCa treat-
being the insertive partner before treatment remained in that role ment, as well as other side effects such as incontinence and
after treatment, and zero of 3 participants who reported being the weight gain, led to them feeling older.22 Some men, on the other
receptive partner before treatment remained in that role after hand, felt that by maintaining their sexual activity, they could
treatment. By contrast, all 7 participants who had undergone maintain their sense of youth.22
radiation therapy maintained their pretreatment roles after
Treatment-induced erectile dysfunction can also impact gay
treatment. Anecdotally, in a personal account of his experiences
and bisexual men’s relationships. Men have reported feeling
with PCa, one gay man recounts how he formed a focus group
“sexually inferior” and lacking sexual confidence after treat-
for other gay men with PCa; over the 3 years that the group ran,
ment; they may abstain from sex with new or casual partners,
no participant was able to be the insertive partner in anal
leading to feelings of social and sexual isolation.12,14 During
intercourse.18
partnered sexual activity, erections are important visual in-
For MSM, changing sexual role is not necessarily an ideal dicators of pleasure and desire; although men in long-term
solution to the sexual side effects of PCa treatments because relationships could develop other ways to communicate their
sexual role can be an important part of one’s identity (ie, being a pleasure and desire to their partners, this was more difficult to
top vs being a bottom).15,19,20 In one study of gay and bisexual accomplish during casual sexual encounters.14 Many men did
men with PCa, men described it being difficult to switch from not want to have to explain the reason for their erectile
being a top to a bottom, and especially so if their partner was dysfunction to casual partners.12 Some men and their partners
already a bottom.14 The treatment concerns of insertive and focused on reframing and adapting their sexual practices,
receptive anal intercourse partners would likely differ, with engaging in more nonpenetrative activities, or changing the
insertive partners being more concerned about erectile length and intensity of their sexual encounters; participants
dysfunction and receptive partners being more concerned about described how this reframing led to a more intense sexual
anal pain and discomfort.19 Indeed, one receptive partner connection and feeling of closeness with their part-
described how post-treatment erectile dysfunction was not dis- ners.12,14,21,22 Men and their partners have emphasized the
tressing to him, as erections were not important to his sex life.21 importance of open and honest communication and nonsexual
Although MSM may opt for different treatment types depending touching to maintain intimacy in their relationships.21 Partners
on their sexual role, some men can be versatile and take on described focusing more on patients’ sexual pleasure than on
either sexual role.19 Therefore, discussing patients’ sexual role their own.21 Being in a relationship could help to lessen the
may be an important aspect of treatment planning in this impact of the sexual side effects of PCa treatment; on the other
population. hand, single men with PCa had difficulty finding casual part-
Sexual dysfunction in gay and bisexual men with PCa is ners or a relationship.12 Gay and bisexual men without a PCa
predictive of worse mental and physical quality of life.16 As diagnosis also felt that finding a partner would be very difficult
reported by heterosexual men in previous research, gay and for single gay men with PCa, and even more so for men who
bisexual men with PCa have described a perceived loss of already had an HIV diagnosis.19
manhood as a result of treatment-induced erectile dysfunc- Turning to receptive anal intercourse, anal pain and discom-
tion.14 However, there may be ways in which the emotional fort have been commonly reported by gay and bisexual men after
impacts of erectile dysfunction differ between heterosexual and PCa treatment; in one study, over half of participants reported at
gay and bisexual men. In one previous study, participants least one painful receptive anal intercourse experience.14,16
described how gay and bisexual men tend to remain more Furthermore, stimulation of the prostate during anal penetra-
sexually active as they age compared to heterosexual men; they tion is an important source of pleasure for receptive partners;
expected to have a long sex life and felt that PCa had interfered many men described a significant decrease in pleasure as a result
with that expectation.14 This interference was perhaps espe- of the surgical removal of their prostate.14 On the other hand, a
cially devastating for men who had not come out as gay or minority of men described discovering other sensitive areas of
bisexual until much later in life.14,22 Sexual activity was seen as their body that could bring them pleasure during sex.14

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Lack of, or reduced, ejaculation may also be especially outcomes between heterosexual and gay/bisexual men with
devastating to gay men, as semen can be an important visual, PCa.24 The researchers found that gay and bisexual men reported
tactile, and oral erotic stimulus for this population.6 In one significantly greater ejaculatory bother compared to heterosexual
personal account, a gay man explained that the sight of his own men. They found no group differences in terms of whether
semen was a visual cue that he had orgasmed; it was difficult for participants were sexually active, nor in erectile difficulties or
him to adjust to no longer having this cue available to him after orgasm satisfaction.
his prostatectomy.23 Similarly, one gay man in an online study The second study asked heterosexual and gay and bisexual PCa
referred to ejaculation as “visible evidence of pleasure,” and patients about how often they engaged in anal sexual intercourse
partners of PCa patients reported missing it.14 For some men, before and after PCa treatment, and what role they took (ie,
lack of ejaculation was associated with a decreased sense of insertive only, receptive only, or both).25 Before treatment, men in
pleasure.21 Focus group participants in Ascencio and colleagues’ both groups reported engaging in anal intercourse, in all roles,
study expressed concern over the possibility of not being able to although the proportion was greater in gay and bisexual than in
ejaculate, as their own or their partner’s semen is arousing to heterosexual men. For both groups, there was a reduction in anal
them.19 They believed that problems with ejaculation would intercourse frequency after treatment. There was a proportion of
have a negative impact on their sexual satisfaction, as well as on insertive partners who changed to being receptive partners, but no
their relationships. On the other hand, men who took the receptive partners changed to being insertive partners. Interest-
insertive, or “top” role, in anal intercourse have expressed less ingly, there was a small number of both heterosexual and gay and
concern about the lack of ejaculate, as it normally would not be bisexual men who reported engaging in anal intercourse for the first
visible to them or their partners.14 Along with lack of or reduced time after PCa treatment.
ejaculation, men have described orgasms that are shorter and less
A third study compared heterosexual and gay and bisexual men
intense than before treatment, and needing more stimulation to
diagnosed with PCa on various outcomes, including sexual
achieve orgasm.12
changes.26,27 Gay and bisexual men reported greater concerns over
Gay and bisexual men have described how PCa treatment has ejaculatory function. Interestingly, gay and bisexual men reported
impacted their libido, leading to a decreased sexual interest.21 In better sexual functioning and confidence than heterosexual men.
one study, approximately half of participants reported experi- However, it is important to note that participants in both groups
encing little or no enjoyment in sex.14 For some men, loss of had worse sexual functioning, sexual confidence, and sexual in-
libido led to them remaining abstinent; for others, it led to them timacy compared to age-matched population norms. Therefore,
having sex in the absence of sexual desire in an effort to maintain results showing that one group fares better than the other on
their sexual functioning.14 In some cases, this loss of libido led to certain outcomes does not mean they are faring well.
a change in identity.14
Finally, a 4th study compared the use of assistive sexual aids
Gay and bisexual men, therefore, experience a number of (eg, oral medication, penile injection, penile implant, vacuum
negative sexual side effects as a result of PCa treatment. Some gay pump) in heterosexual and gay and bisexual men diagnosed with
and bisexual men without PCa felt that remaining sexually intact PCa.13 Compared to heterosexual men, gay and bisexual men
would be more important to them than aggressively treating the were more likely to have tried assistive aids, and more likely to
cancer.19 In individuals who have already undergone treatment, have tried multiple types; however, there were no significant
the sexual dysfunction they experience may cause them to regret differences between groups in terms of satisfaction with the aids.
their treatment decision. For example, in one online study, a gay Interestingly, gay and bisexual men who used sexual aids re-
patient with PCa stated that, if he had the chance to make a ported significantly lower sexual functioning than those who did
different decision, he “would take [his] risks with the cancer, and not use any aid; the opposite was true of heterosexual men. This
not have the operation.”14 Health care providers need to be pattern of results may be explained by the fact that gay and
knowledgeable of the unique impacts of PCa treatment on gay bisexual men were more likely to use sexual aids to reframe their
and bisexual men, so that they can provide their patients with sexual practices, in particular for activities that did not require
relevant information and help them to make a treatment decision erections or involve anal intercourse. With regards to seeking
that is best suited to their life circumstances. information on sexual rehabilitation (whether online, through
counseling, or in support groups), gay and bisexual men were
more likely to seek this information than heterosexual men.
COMPARISONS OF SEXUAL OUTCOMES
BETWEEN HETEROSEXUAL AND GAY/BISEXUAL
MEN WITH PROSTATE CANCER HEALTH CARE EXPERIENCES OF GAY AND
There has been a small number of studies that have investi- BISEXUAL MEN WITH PROSTATE CANCER:
gated sexual outcomes in men diagnosed with PCa by making TALKING ABOUT SEX
direct comparisons between heterosexual and gay/bisexual men. As reviewed in the 2 previous sections, there is clear evidence
The first investigated differences in diagnosis and treatment that gay and bisexual PCa patients have somewhat different

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sexual outcomes and concerns than their heterosexual counter- discuss the impacts of radical prostatectomy on sexual func-
parts. Ideally, health care providers should address these unique tioning.18 It was this former patient who informed him about
concerns with their gay and bisexual patients and provide them retrograde ejaculation, something his urologist had not explained
with information specific to their needs. However, not all pa- to him. Emphasizing the importance of ejaculation in the sexual
tients choose to disclose their sexual orientation to their health experiences of gay men, he found the lack of information on this
care providers, and not all health care providers ask. In a study of side effect to be “a gross disservice.”18 Harris joined a support
LGBT (ie, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) cancer pa- group, which he described as “gay-tolerant, but not gay-
tients, 79% of individuals reported having disclosed their LGBT friendly.”18 Unlike Jackson, he was not able to find a support
identity to at least one cancer care provider and were most likely group specifically for gay PCa patients, and so he formed his
to disclose to their primary care physician.28 Bisexual individuals own. MSM with PCa have reported not feeling comfortable
were the least likely to disclose; however, those with same-sex disclosing their sexual orientation in support groups, a reality
partners were more likely to disclose than unpartnered in- that further emphasizes the need for specific support groups for
dividuals. Of those patients who disclosed their LGBT identity, gay and bisexual PCa patients.12
just over half did so by bringing it up themselves to correct health Additional studies of gay and bisexual men with PCa provide
care providers’ assumptions that they were heterosexual; only further evidence that health care providers may not be prepared
15% disclosed their LGBT identity in response to providers’ to discuss the sexual concerns of this population.12,14,31 Partic-
specific questions on the subject. ipants felt that health care providers were so focused on defeating
In an interview study consisting of 2 gay men with PCa, the cancer that other issues, including those related to sexuality,
neither participant disclosed their sexual orientation to their had a much lower priority.31 Approximately 80% of participants
doctor.29 Both expressed sentiments that the health care system in one study discussed sex with their health care providers, but
displays a heteronormative bias (ie, the assumption that the the majority expressed dissatisfaction with the level of informa-
heterosexual orientation is the norm). One participant was tion they received.14 Many men reported needing to educate
assumed to be both heterosexual and married by his doctor, who themselves, frequently attempting to apply material aimed at
asked if his wife would like to attend his appointments. heterosexual men to their own situations.12 Participants across
Thomas, Wootten, and Robinson conducted a study using an studies reported that health care providers frequently assumed
online focus group methodology.20 The participants were 10 that they were heterosexual; whether it was providing them with
Australian gay and bisexual men who had been diagnosed with sexuality-related information aimed at heterosexual men or
PCa in the past 7 years. Participants felt that their urologists were assuming they had a female partner, such interactions left par-
not properly prepared to treat gay patients and did not seem to ticipants feeling “invisible.”14,31
understand how their needs may be different from those of In terms of disclosing their sexual orientation to health care
heterosexual patients. Multiple participants changed specialists providers, in one study of gay and bisexual men with PCa, 20%
over the course of their treatment. Generally, participants found of participants avoided doing so completely, 60% did so hesi-
their health care providers conservative and heteronormative, and tantly, and the remaining 20% were candid and open about their
even homophobic in some cases. Participants stressed the need sexual orientation, and undeterred by potential consequences of
for health care providers to better address their emotional needs coming out.31 Health care providers’ responses to participants’
and the psychological side effects of cancer and treatment, as well disclosure of their sexual orientation varied. Some health care
as the need for post-treatment support. providers refused to talk about issues related to gay sexuality,
even stopping participants when they tried to bring it up. Other
In an account of his personal experiences with PCa, one gay
health care providers had no knowledge on how the experiences
man recounts how attending a PCa support group specifically for
of gay and bisexual men may be different from those of het-
gay men was more helpful for him than a general support group,
erosexual men. However, there were some health care pro-
as it allowed him to discuss his sexual concerns more openly and
fessionals who engaged in open discussions with patients to
without fear of judgement.30 He also expressed concerns with the
better understand their specific needs, seeking additional re-
information he received from his health care providers. To quote
sources when they themselves did not have the knowledge to
him, “I consistently have to remind all my doctors that I’m a gay
immediately answer patients’ questions.31
man and that means a veritable host of different circumstances
with which to contend.”30 As an example, after receiving
brachytherapy, his nurse provided him with safety warnings CONCLUSIONS AND RECOMMENDATIONS
against impregnating women or allowing children to sit on his In conclusion, gay and bisexual men diagnosed with PCa have
lap. When he asked for information on the safety of activities unique experiences and needs compared to their heterosexual,
more relevant to him, such as masturbation, oral, and anal sex, cisgender counterparts. Sexuality and sexual roles are often
she did not have any to give. important aspects of gay and bisexual men’s identities, and
In another gay man’s personal account, Harris explained how treatment-induced erectile dysfunction may lead to identity crises
he was put in touch with a gay former patient of his urologist to or transitions. Relationships can also be affected, particularly for

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single men seeking casual sexual encounters. Receptive anal in- It is important that research on the experiences of those
tercourse may become less pleasurable if the prostate has been diagnosed with PCa, as well as other patient populations, be
removed, and even painful depending on treatment. The lack of inclusive of participants of diverse sexual orientations and gender
or reduction in ejaculate, an important erotic stimulus, may be identities. At a minimum, this inclusivity would involve col-
difficult for gay and bisexual men and their partners to accept. lecting information on participants’ sexual orientation and
Unfortunately, research on this patient population has been gender identities, allowing them to self-identify with the labels
limited, and many of the studies discussed in this review consist that best fit their experiences. Even in research studies without a
of case studies and small qualitative studies involving interviews goal of making comparisons between sexual orientation or gender
or focus groups. Although these anecdotal and qualitative studies identity groups, this inclusive practice will allow for better
provide rich data on the personal experiences of gay and bisexual characterization of research samples.
men with PCa, the results obtained from these small samples Perhaps most importantly, the knowledge gained from
may not generalize to the broader patient population. In recent research studies needs to be translated into clinical practice. Gay
years, there has been an increase in large-scale quantitative studies and bisexual PCa patients have described a lack of information
of this population, including comparison studies between gay/ relevant to their specific needs. Health care providers need to be
bisexual and heterosexual men with prostate cancer, and this aware of existing research on the unique concerns of gay and
increase is a positive sign. Additional research to replicate and bisexual patients and be able to communicate this specific and
extend upon the findings of these studies is warranted. Specific relevant information to their patients. Future interventions can
areas for future research are suggested below. be specifically tailored to address the concerns of gay and bisexual
In conducting research on gay and bisexual men with PCa, it patients, with the ultimate goal of improving cancer care and
is important to ask about participants’ sexual role in anal inter- quality of life. At the very least, health care providers should be
course (ie, insertive, receptive, or versatile). No research to date careful not to make assumptions about their patients’ sexual
has directly compared the treatment concerns and sexual out- orientations or relationships. By asking about patients’ sexual
comes between men with different sexual roles, and this infor- orientation and showing a willingness and openness to talk about
mation would likely be an important component of treatment sexual concerns, health care providers can hopefully help their
planning in this population. For many gay and bisexual men, gay and bisexual PCa patients to feel less invisible in the cancer
switching sexual roles in the face of treatment-induced care system.
dysfunction is difficult; still, some men are capable of versa- Corresponding Author: Caroline F. Pukall, PhD, Department
tility. Previous qualitative research has demonstrated that some of Psychology, Queen’s University, 62 Arch St., Kingston,
men are able to adjust their sexual activities to maintain their sex Ontario K7L 3N6, Canada. Tel: 613-533-3200; Fax: 613-533-
life. Future research should investigate how such flexibility in 2499; E-mail: pukallc@queensu.ca
sexual practices might influence patients’ sexual satisfaction, and
how the ability to be flexible in one’s approach to sex may differ Conflict of Interest: The authors disclose no conflicts of interest.
between gay/bisexual and heterosexual patients. One particularly
Funding: This work was supported by a Prostate Cancer Canada
interesting finding in this area of research is that gay and bisexual
Movember Discovery Grant (grant number D2017-1850).
men with PCa report better sexual functioning than their het-
erosexual counterparts.26 Potential reasons for this difference
should be further explored in future research. STATEMENT OF AUTHORSHIP
Gay and bisexual men with PCa have described receiving Category 1
irrelevant or poor-quality information from their health care (a) Conception and Design
providers, including information about sexual outcomes. Addi- Meghan K. McInnis; Caroline F. Pukall
tional research on the specific information that gay and bisexual (b) Acquisition of Data
PCa patients want and receive from their health care providers, Meghan K. McInnis; Caroline F. Pukall
whether they must ask for this information, and the quality of (c) Analysis and Interpretation of Data
the information they receive could help to inform standards of Meghan K. McInnis; Caroline F. Pukall
practice for treating this patient population. Category 2
Finally, few studies have included the partners of gay and (a) Drafting the Article
bisexual men with PCa. PCa is often referred to as a “couple’s Meghan K. McInnis; Caroline F. Pukall
disease”, and there is an existing body of research on the partners (b) Revising It for Intellectual Content
of heterosexual men with PCa. Similar research on the experi- Meghan K. McInnis; Caroline F. Pukall
ences of the partners of gay and bisexual men will help to further Category 3
illustrate the impacts of PCa and its treatments on patients’
(a) Final Approval of the Completed Article
sexual and relationship satisfaction. Meghan K. McInnis; Caroline F. Pukall

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