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Unit 1 3
Unit 1 3
Lesson 1: PHILOSOPHY
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Discuss the different representations and conceptualizations of the self from the philosophical perspectives.
2. Compare and contrast how the self is examined from the philosophical views.
3. Demonstrate a reflective thought by defining the self-based on these views.
B.) PLATO
Brief Background and Significant Events
• The death of Socrates was a turning point in the life of Plato because he elaborated on Socrates’ ideas
after the former’s death.
• He contributed original ideas on a wide range of issues such as morality, politics, metaphysics and
epistemology.
Definition of the SELF: The self is an immortal soul which exists over time
Definition of the SELF: The self is an immortal soul which exists over time
Relationship of body and the soul
• He considers the body as a “slave” to the soul
• Then he alters his view that “the soul makes war with the body”
• He changed it again into “the body as the spouse of the soul” with both attached to one another by a
natural appetite.
• He finally concluded that “The body is united with the soul so that man maybe entire and complete”.
▪ MODERNIZATION has significantly changed society, and this has affected how individual builds and
develops his/her “identity”. It also caused the destruction of the traditional way of life “delocalized” the self
(Mannheim, 1950). The self is dislocated and deracinated from its traditional attachment to the community.
- PREMODERN SOCIETY- centered on survival, people behaved according to social rules and traditions.
- MODERNIZATION- has improved people’s living conditions; a person in the modern society is free to
choose where to live, what to do, and who to be with. In modern societies, individualism is dominant and
developing one’s self- identity is central.
DELOCALIZATION- the self is released from time- honored traditions and communal attachments and faces
infinites possibilities (i.e. free to seek its own identity).
Note: The self as a product of modern society is free to seek its own identity and free from customary
constraints.
KEY CHARACTERISTICS OF MODERNITY:
1. Industrialism- the social relations implied in the extensive use of material power and machinery in all
processes of production. (ex. people are more and more dependent on machines)
2. Capitalism- a production system involving both competitive product markets and the commodification of
labor power.
3. Institutions of surveillance- the massive increase of power and reach by institutions, especially in
government.
4. Dynamism- the most evident characteristic of modern society. Dynamism is characterized as having
vigorous activity and progress. In modern society, it is a society that is full of possibilities, everything is
subject to change (nothing is permanent; living in times of uncertainty)
Sources:
Quinatocan-Pestaňo, A.E. & Almerez-Wong, M. (2018). Understanding the self. Cebu: University of San
Jose Recoletos.
Salvacion L. villafuerte (2018). Understanding the self. Nieme publishing house co, ltd.
Villafuerte, S.L., Quillope, A.F., Tunac, R.C., & Borja, E.I. (2018) Understanding the self. Quezon City:
NIEME Publishing House, Co. LTD.
CLICK THE LINK BELOW TO UNDERSTAND MORE ABOUT THE EASTERN AND WESTERN CULTURE.
Me or We? https://youtu.be/78haKZhEqcg
Eastern Philosophy vs. Western Philosophy https://youtu.be/Eu3oIVuvbJg
Do ASIANS think differently? https://youtu.be/aEd7msMYLgU
UNIT 2: UNPACKING THE SELF
LESSON 1: The Physical Self
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Explore the physical development of self.
2. Identify the different factors that impact the development of self.
Prenatal Stages
1. Germinal Stage
• begins when the ovum is penetrated by a sperm in the fallopian tube and begins its journey, as a zygote (the
single-celled organism formed from the union of the egg and sperm)
• the zygote travels down to the uterus where it gets implanted, happens during the 1st two weeks together with
the formation of the placenta (the sac which envelopes the developing baby allows nutrients, oxygen, and
waste materials to pass from the mother to baby via the umbilical cord)
2. Embryonic Stage
• occurs during the 2nd-8th week of pregnancy and the developing cell is now called and embryo
• major organs and body systems begin to develop: respiratory, digestive, and nervous system
• this is a critical stage in prenatal development because teratogens can harm the developing embryo
• teratogens are external agents such as radiation and drugs which can harm the embryo
Illegal drugs
Cocaine Marijuana
Heroine Methadone
Addictive substances
Alcohol caffeine
Amphetamines
Diseases Viruses
AIDS Influenza
Chicken pox Mumps
Rubella (German measles)
Bacteria
Chlamydia Syphilis Malaria
Gonorrhea Tuberculosis
Other complications
Diabetes
Hypertension
Environmental Mercury radiation nicotine
pollutants Polycarburs lead
3. Fetal Stage
• covers the 9th week to the 38th week of pregnancy
• end of 12th week all the are already formed and in proportion to the fetus, though some organ systems are
still not fully functional
• 12th week: increased activity in the womb such a slight kicking and fluttering of the infant known as
quickening
Genes
• the basic biochemical units of heredity. Genes are reproduced and passed along from parents to their
children.
Chromosomes
• are threadlike structures found in every cell of your body, except in red blood cells.
• All chromosomes contain strands of the molecule deoxyribonucleic acid, or DNA.
c. Changes in Proportion
• Cephalocaudal development begins during the prenatal stage, in humans, large brains relative to body size
must continually develop to promote survival
• Proximodistal development is focused toward the center of the body (from the chest to arms and legs)
Psychological Consequences of Physical Growth During Adolescence
a. Changes in Body Image
• Definition: it refers to one’s mental picture of one’s physical body as well as one’s attitude towards the
physical body
• Body image is influenced by culture, media, and interactions with family members
• Each culture develops social ideals or standards in relation to body image and these often have a profound
impact on an adolescent
• Looking good and being beautiful is simply not limited by physical looks but also inherent personal
characteristics
b. Some findings
• Body image dissatisfaction is correlated with eating disorders (Furnham, Badmin @ Sneade, 2002 as cited
by Pestano & Wong, 2018) such Anorexia (characterized by selfinduced weight loss) and Bulimia (eating
excessively and then forcing oneself to vomit)
• Filipino youth have a healthy body image (YAFS, 2014)
• If you are female, babies will gaze longer (Slater et al., 1998)
• Smell is an important part of the attraction to certain women. (Karremans, 2010 a cited by Bergner, 2010). In
a similar research by National Geographic, women were asked to smell the sweaty shirt of males and were
asked to indicate which scent they were most attracted to.
c. A healthy body image starts with
• an awareness about the good things about one’s body
• acceptance that bodies come in different shapes and sizes
• feeling good about the body by engaging in a healthy lifestyle: exercise, balanced diet, enough sleep, and
maintaining a positive attitude towards the body
Sources:
Alata, E.J.P., Caslib, B.N.Jr.; Serafica, J.P.J. & Pawilen, R.A. (2018) Understanding the self. (1st ed.). Manila:
Rex Publishing Company.
Bjorklund & Blasi, (2012). Child and adolescent development: An integrated approach. USA: Cengage
Wadworth Learning.
Hegelson, V.S. (2012). The psychology of gender. (4th ed.). USA: Pearson Education, Inc.
Hogg, M.A & Vaughan, G.M. (2010). Essentials of social psychology. England: Pearson Education Limited
Medical News Today. (2019). Sexually transmitted diseases. Retrieved October 2, 2018 from
www.medicalnewstoday.com.
Quinatocan-Pestaňo, A.E. & Almerez-Wong, M. (2018). Understanding the self. Cebu: University of San Jose
Recoletos.
Singh, S. (2008). The concept of physical self in psychology. Retrieved September 19, 2018 from
https://www.all-about-psychology.com/
Sternberg, R. Duplex theory of love: Triangular theory of love and theory of love as a story. Retrieved
September 24, 2018 from http://www.robertjsternberg.com/love/
UB Psychology Department. General psychology manual. (2014 ed). Baguio City: University of Baguio.
Villafuerte, S.L., Quillope, A.F., Tunac, R.C., & Borja, E.I. (2018) Understanding the self. Quezon City: NIEME
Publishing House, Co. LTD.
Vinluan, M. (2012). Adolescent and youth health program. Retrieved October 1, 2018 from www.ncpdc.gov.ph.
UNIT 2: UNPACKING THE SELF
LESSON 2: THE SEXUAL SELF
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Discuss the physical and sexual changes of a person and other factors that influences growth and
development.
2. Examine how sexuality influences a person in shaping his/her identity.
3. Demonstrate critical, reflective thought in identifying a healthy sexual self.
• Love can be understood into three components that interact with each other:
a. Passion – refers to the drives that lead to romance, sexual consummation, strong liking or desire
b. Intimacy – refers to feelings of familiarity, “bondedness” or connectedness with another
c. Commitment – refers to the decision to love another to maintain that love; connotes responsibility
Types of Love
Liking friendship due to the presence of intimacy only.
Infatuation one night stand or hook-ups where only passion is present.
Empty Love the presence of commitment alone like arranged marriages
Romantic Love likened to ‘Hollywood’ relationships where emotional and sexual bond is apparently
established due to the presence of intimacy and passion but would later break up
because of the absence of meaningful and lasting commitment.
Fatuous Love whirlwind courtship and marriage that later faces compatibility problems because of
the existence of passion and commitment but without genuine intimacy
Companionate love distinguished by deep affection and dedication to the relationship due to the
Love presence of intimacy and commitment without passion. It also describes the ideal love
between family members and very strong platonic friendship.
Consummate an ideal and encompassing relationship where all the three elements of love are
Love present.
**nonlove- absence of the three components
Violence: Sixteen percent (16.6%) of women age 15-19 have experienced physical violence at least once in
their life and 4.4% are survivors of sexual violence. Seventeen percent (17%) of Young Adult Fertility and
Sexuality Survey in 2013 (YAFSS) adolescent respondents have experienced violence in the past year, and 23
% have been aggressors of violence between the aged 15 – 24 years old. Almost half (47.7%) of 13-15 year
old schoolchildren in the 2013 Global Scholl Health Survey (GSHS) have experienced bullying and 4.8% of
YAFSS adolescents have been harassed using technology.
Alcohol, Tobacco, and Illegal Substances: In the 2013 National Nutrition Survey (NNS), 6.8% of
adolescents are current smokers and 5.7% are former smokers. Fifteen percent (15.6%) of YAFSS (2013)
respondents are current smokers and 2.6% have ever used drugs. In YAFSS, 8.1% of adolescents 15-19
years old have ever passed out drunk. The 2015 Global Youth Tobacco Survey (GYTS), together with Global
School Based Health Survey (GSHS) and YAFS describe other risk behaviors. In 2015, GSHS found that
18.2% of schoolchildren 13-15 years old have experienced being really drunk at least one drinking alcohol
once one or more days during the past 30 days. According GSHS, 11.0% have smoked cigarettes in the past
month. In 2015, GYTS analyzed that a total of 16.0% of the respondents currently use any tobacco product
(smoked tobacco and/or smokeless tobacco) and 28.1% of students are ever tobacco users.
Malnutrition: It is a double burden with 12.4% of adolescents wasted and 8.3% overweight or obese. The
latter is somewhat expected given that 42.2% consume soft drinks one or more times per day while only 13.9%
were physically active for a total of at least 60 minutes daily on five or more days during the past week. On the
other hand, one in three (37.2%) pregnant adolescents are nutritionally at risk (based on weightfor- height
classification, P<95).
Sexual and Reproductive Health: While General Fertility (GF) has significantly decreased since 1970, Age
Specific Fertility Rates (ASFR) of adolescents has changed little. The 2017 National Demographic and Health
Survey (NDHS) places adolescent ASFR at 47 livebirths per 1,000 women 15-19 years old, up from 57 in the
2013 NDHS. According to YAFSS 4, data shows that in the Philippines, an increasing proportion of
adolescents and young people have early sexual encounters. In 2013, 1 in 3 young people report having
premarital sex. The prevalence of early sexual encounters has increased over the last 20 years. Males are
more likely to report having premarital sex than females. In 2013, 36% of males reported having early sexual
encounters compared to 29% of females. The highest levels of early sexual encounters are reported in NCR
(41%) & Central Luzon (31%) regions. Also, many young people marry young, and it is important that they
have good information before they are married so that they can make healthy, informed decisions.
HIV and AIDS: In April 2017, there were 629 new HIV antibody sero-positive individuals reported to the HIV/
AIDS & ART Registry of the Philippines (HARP). More than half were from the 25-34 year age group while
30% were youth aged 15-24 years. 33 adolescents aged 10-19 years were reported. All were infected through
sexual contact (8 male-female sex, 19 male-male sex, 6 sex with both males & females). From January 1984
to April 2017, 1,606 (4%) of the reported cases were 19 years old and below. Seven percent (111 out of 1,606)
were children (less than 10 y/o) and among them, 108 were infected through mother-to-child transmission, 1
through blood transfusion and 2 had no specified mode of transmission. Ninety three percent (1,495 out 1,606)
were adolescents. Among these, 1,359 (91%) were male. Most (93%) of the adolescents were infected through
sexual contact 185 male-female sex, 843 male-male sex, 367 sex with both males & females), 85 (6%) were
infected through sharing of infected needles, 8 (<1%) through mother-to-child transmission, and 7 had no
specified mode of transmission.
Sources:
Alata, E.J.P., Caslib, B.N.Jr.; Serafica, J.P.J. & Pawilen, R.A. (2018) Understanding the self. (1st ed.). Manila: Rex
Publishing Company.
Bjorklund & Blasi, (2012). Child and adolescent development: An integrated approach. USA: Cengage Wadworth
Learning.
Hegelson, V.S. (2012). The psychology of gender. (4th ed.). USA: Pearson Education, Inc.
Hogg, M.A & Vaughan, G.M. (2010). Essentials of social psychology. England: Pearson Education Limited
Medical News Today. (2019). Sexually transmitted diseases. Retrieved October 2, 2018 from
www.medicalnewstoday.com.
Quinatocan-Pestaňo, A.E. & Almerez-Wong, M. (2018). Understanding the self. Cebu: University of San Jose
Recoletos
Singh, S. (2008). The concept of physical self in psychology. Retrieved September 19, 2018 from
https://www.all-about-psychology.com/
Sternberg, R. Duplex theory of love: Triangular theory of love and theory of love as a story. Retrieved September 24,
2018 from http://www.robertjsternberg.com/love/
UB Psychology Department. General psychology manual. (2014 ed). Baguio City: University of Baguio.
Villafuerte, S.L., Quillope, A.F., Tunac, R.C., & Borja, E.I. (2018) Understanding the self. Quezon City: NIEME
Publishing House, Co. LTD.
Vinluan, M. (2012). Adolescent and youth health program. Retrieved October 1, 2018 from www.ncpdc.gov.ph.
UNIT 2: UNPACKING THE SELF
Lesson 3: The Material Self
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Explore the different “material” aspects of self and how it affects one’s identity
2. Examine one’s self against these different “material” aspects of self
6. Attachment is Multi-Faceted
• Attachment is a multi-faceted, relatively complex concept. It portrays the extended self (including
attachments) as being comprised of different layers from the private inner self-core to the outermost collective
layer. Special possession objects vary in their symbolic purposes and identify. Various motivations for
attachments, suggesting multi-faceted person-possession ties. Each self is associated with different kinds of
possession attachments that reflect specific self-developmental tasks.
8. Attachment is Dynamic
• The meaning associated with a possession and the intensity of attachment to it does not remain static
but evolves as the person’s self evolves and the autobiographical function of the object change. It has been
observed that material possessions bring happiness that is very short lived. This is also known as “instant
gratification”, which soon fades away and once it does, a person no longer feel attached to the things he
wants. At times it can start a feeling of depressed or gloomy.
There can be many types of possessions from things that serve to change our lifestyle to things that
boost our confidence and make us more self-assured. There is a need to categorize things as important and
unimportant so that a person can experience happiness in its true sense rather than feeling pleased or blissful
for only some time. At the same time, there are some material possessions have an important place in an
individual’s life.
When a person distinguishes needs from wants, then he or she find out that the things that brings
happiness is not desires but those that makes a person self-assured, important and valued. Materialism is
also discouraged because it harms our environment and makes people less sensitive to those around them.
Sources:
Beker, S. & Kleine, S. (2004). An Integrative Review of Material Possession Attachment.
https://dsef.org/articles/an-integrative-review-of-material-possession-attachment/
Belk, R.W. (1988) The journal of consumer research, 15:2, pp. 139-168 USA: The University of Chicago Press
Stable retrieved October 9, 2018 from URL: http://www.jstor.org/stable/2489522
Kimmel, A.J. (2015). People and products: Consumer behavior and product design. USA: Routledge.
Van Boven et al. (2010). Stigmatizing Materialism: On Stereotypes and Impressions of Materialistic and
Experiential Pursuits. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2010; 36 (4): 551 DOI:
10.1177/014616721036279
UNIT 2: UNPACKING THE SELF
Lesson 4: The Digital Self
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Explore the different aspects of the digital self.
2. Identify and situate the self in the use of digital technology and how it affects one’s Identity
DIGITAL SELF
• The self that is constructed online is generally called the digital self (Otig et al., 2018).
• The term online identity implies that there is a distinction between how people present themselves online and
how they do offline. But any split between “online” and “offline” identity is narrowing, for two reasons:
1. In contrast to the Internet of the 1990s, people today use social media primarily to communicate with people
they know in “real life” contexts (e.g., home, work, school, etc.); and
2. Wireless networking and portable devices like smartphones and tablets make it easy to access social media
as part of day-to-day life, rather than having to formally “log on” to the Internet (Marwick, 2013 as cited in
Villafuerte et al., 2018).
I. ONLINE IDENTITY AND ‘SELF’ IN CYBERSPACE: I, Me, Myself and My User ID Online Identity
Your online identity is not the same as your real-world identity because the characteristics you
represent online differ from the characteristics you represent in the physical world. Every website you interact
with has its own idea of your identity because each one you visit sees you and your characteristics differently
(InternetSociety.org, 2011 as cited in Villafuerte et al., 2018)
FEAR OF MISSING OUT (FOMO) (Przbylski, Murayama, DeHaan, & Gladwell, 2013)
• “...the uneasy and sometimes all-consuming feeling that you are missing out – that your peers are
doing, in the know about, or in possession of more or something better than you.”
SOCIAL MEDIA = SOCIAL COMPARISON
• SOCIAL MEDIA ENVY is a moderate significant predictor of symptoms of depression among Filipino
high school students (Ocampo & Lee-Chua, 2017).
Just as Goldilocks in the fairytale Goldilocks and the Three Bears finds that moderation (in porridge -not
too hot, not too cold), and beds (not too hard, not too soft)) is “just right”, so too would it seem to be for screen
time.
The study, which involved 120,115 English 15-year old and was conducted in 2016, looked at the link
between digital screen time (smartphone, computer, consoles and TV) and wellbeing as measured by the 14
question Warwick-Edinburgh Mental Well-being Scale*.
The study, led by Andrew K. Przybylski (University of Oxford) and Netta Weinstein (Cardiff University)
found that high levels of daily screen-time (e.g. 2+ hours of smartphone use) particularly on weekdays was
linked to lower levels of wellbeing. But the study also found that extremely low (or no) daily screen time was
also linked to lower levels of wellbeing (e.g. no smartphone use has the same negative outcomes as 2hrs per
day). For smartphones, optimum wellbeing was associated with just under one hour’s use per day.
The authors call this curvilinear relationship between digital screen time and wellbeing the ‘digital
Goldilocks hypothesis’, and suggest that it should replace a simplistic ‘displacement hypothesis’ – the idea that
digital screen use is intrinsically harmful because it displaces (replaces) activities that would otherwise
contribute positively to wellbeing.
The authors conclude that their findings support the Goldilocks hypothesis and refute the displacement
hypothesis. The data suggests that moderate digital screen use may be contributing positively to
wellbeing by enabling and empowering people to pursue their goals, be more active, feel connected with
others and enjoy life. Any detrimental impact of screen time may be small and limited to extensive screen time
that displaces activities that promote wellbeing (as cited by Masden, 2018).
Why is the digital self so important for your future career? The simple reason is that once you go online
as your real self, using your own name or appearance, you have an online presence that can be traced back to
you in the real world. Your online presence is hard to hide, difficult to control, and easy for recruiters and hiring
managers to find. Because of this, it’s important to manage your online identity carefully, to ensure that your
public image is presented in the best possible light.
CONCLUSIONS
Not that online identity transforms identity but that it makes us more aware that offline identity was
already more multiple, culturally contingent and contextual than we had appreciated. Given that your online
behavior makes a huge impact on how you present your digital self, it’s important to always use social media
with care and consistency—always aware of how your personal brand can be affected by what you say and do.
Always assume that potential employers in the future will perform an online search, so make sure that
everything they find is positive and professional.
Sources:
Frith, E. (2017). Social media and children’s mental health: A review of the evidence. United Kingdom: Education Policy
Institute.O’Keefe, G., Clarke-Pearson, K., & Council on Communications and Media (2011). Clinical report: The impact of
social media on children, adolescents, and families. Pediatrics. doi: 10.1542/peds.2011-0054
Otig, V. S., Gallinero, W. B., Bataga, N. U., Salado, F. B., & Visande, J. C. (2018). A holistic approach in
understanding the self: A workbook-textbook for college students. Malabon City, Philippines: Mutya
Publishing House, Inc.
Przbylski, A.K., & Weinstein, N. (2017). A large-scale test of the Goldilocks hypothesis: Quantifying the relations between
digital screen use and the mental well-being of adolescents. Psychological Science, 28(2),
204-215.
Przbylski, A.K., Murayama, K., DeHaan, C., & Gladwell, V. (2013). Motivational, emotional, and behavioral
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UNIT II: UNPACKING THE SELF
Lesson 5: The Political Self
Objectives:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Explore the political self.
2. Examine one’s involvement in the society and how it affects the development of one’s identity.
2.Filipino by naturalization which is the judicial act of adopting a foreigner and clothing him with the
privileges of a native-born citizen. It implies the renunciation of a former nationality and the fact of entrance into
a similar relation towards a new body politic
DEGREES OF PARTICIPATION
1) Manipulation. Happens where adults use young people to support causes and pretend that the causes are
inspired by young people. This rung of the ladder reflects adultism.
2) Decoration. Happens when young people are used to help or "bolster" a cause in a relatively indirect way,
although adults do not pretend that the cause is inspired by young people. This rung of the ladder reflects
adultism.
3) Tokenism. When young people appear to be given a voice, but in fact have little or no choice about what
they do or how they participate. This rung of the ladder reflects adultism.
4) Assigned but informed. This is where young people are assigned a specific role and informed about how
and why they are being involved. This rung of the ladder can be embodied by community youth boards.
5) Consulted and informed. Happens when young people give advice on projects or programs designed and
run by adults. The young people are informed about how their input will be used and the outcomes of the
decisions made by adults. This rung of the ladder can be embodied by youth advisory councils.
6) Adult-initiated, shared decisions with young people. Occurs when projects or programs are initiated by
adults but the decision-making is shared with the young people. This rung of the ladder can be embodied by
participatory action research.
7) Young people-initiated and directed. This step is when young people initiate and direct a project or
program. Adults are involved only in a supportive role. This rung of the ladder can be embodied by youth-led
activism.
8) Young people-initiated, shared decisions with adults. This happens when projects or programs are
initiated by young people and decision-making is shared between young people and adults. These projects
empower young people while at the same time enabling them to access and learn from the life experience and
expertise of adults. This rung of the ladder can be embodied by youth/adult partnerships.
DEMOCRACY - a government in which the supreme power is vested in the people and exercised by them
directly or indirectly through a system of representation usually involving periodically held free elections.
Sources:
Yates, Miranda and Youniss, James, (1998) "Community Service and Political Identity Development in
Adolescence"
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Explore the different aspects of religion and spirituality.
2. Examine the meaning of spirituality and its influence on one’s identity.
Spirituality Religion
Can be practiced individually Often practiced in a community
Doesn't have to adhere to a specific set of rules Usually based on a specific set of rules and customs
Often focuses on a personal journey of Often focuses on the belief in deities or gods,
discovering what is meaningful in life religious texts, and tradition
There are many different types of spirituality. Some examples of how people get in touch with their own
spirituality include:
✓ Meditation or quiet time
✓ Prayer
✓ Service to their community
✓ Spending time in nature
✓ Spiritual retreats
✓ Yoga
Other people express their spirituality through religious traditions such as Buddhism, Christianity,
Hinduism, Islam, Judaism.
One potential pitfall of spirituality is a phenomenon known as spiritual bypassing. This involves a
tendency to use spirituality to avoid or sidestep problems, emotions, or conflicts. For example, rather than
apologizing for some type of emotional wound you have caused someone else, you might bypass the problem
by simply excusing it and saying that "everything happens for a reason" or suggesting that the other person
just needs to "focus on the positive."
While Freud believed that religious belief was a form of pathological wish fulfillment, other researchers
have proposed that how the human brain works often predisposes people to believe. The human mind looks
for patterns, purpose, and meaning, which may influence why people turn to religion to guide their belief
systems.
Parenting and cultural influences also play an important role since people tend to belong to the religion in
which they were raised. The human need to belong, combined with the desire for social connection, also
contributes to the desire to be part of someone larger than the self.
Purpose:
a. religious ritual is the means through which people relate to the supernatural, (Haviland et. al, 2007 p.297)
b. rituals serve to relieve special tensions and reinforce a group’s collective bonds
c. rituals serve as a means of marking important events and lessening social disruption such as personal
suffering, crisis and even death
Rites of Passage – is a type of ritual which marks important stages in an individual’s life cycle such as
birth, marriage, and death. Rites of passage follow the process of separation (removal of the individual from
society)
B. Will of meaning
The will of meaning and the self-transcendence that characterizes humans are closely related. Man
always points beyond himself, towards a meaning he must first discover and whose fullness he must achieve.
The will to pleasure (Freud) and the will to power (Adler), lead man to immanence. However, these concepts
oppose self-transcendence and would frustrate our existence. From the perspective of logotherapy, pleasure
and power are consequences of reaching an end, but not the end itself. Hence why people who pursue only
pleasure or power live in frustration. They feel pulled into a great existential vacuum. The will to meaning does
not seek power or pleasure. It does not even seek happiness. Its focus is the finding a reason to be happy.
C. Sense of life
The two principles that we mentioned speak of a person willing to take a stand before the
circumstances of life, with total freedom, based on a meaning that conveys it. This is the profile of man in
search of meaning. Life has meaning. That meaning is unique to each one of us. Thus, our duty as conscious
and responsible beings is to discover our own version of this meaning.
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UNIT3: Managing and Taking Care of the Self
Learning Outcomes:
At the end of the lesson, the student should be able to:
1. Examine the importance of goals and its application to one’s life.
2. Discuss some theoretical underpinnings on how to develop a positive self in order to achieve one’s goals.
A. Bandura’s Self-efficacy
• Students’ goal can be achieved only if they are worthy of believing these goals can be achieved. As
Gandhi perfectly understood the essential role of self-belief in the students’ lives: “Your beliefs become your
thought. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your
habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny.”
1. Mastery Experiences - It is also known as personal performance accomplishments; are the most effective
way to create a strong sense of efficacy.
Positive example: If an individual performed well in a previous job assignment, then they are more likely
to feel confident and have high self-efficacy in performing the task when their manager assigns them a similar
task. The individual’s self-efficacy will be high in the particular area, and since he or she has a high self-
efficacy, he or she is more likely to try harder and complete the task with much better results.
Negative example: If an individual experience a failure, he/she will most likely experience a reduction in
self-efficacy. However, if these failures are later overcome by conviction, it can serve to increase self-motivated
persistence when the situation is viewed as an achievable challenge (Bandura, 1977).
2. Vicarious Experiences - These are done through observance of social models that also influence one’s
perception of self-efficacy. The most important factor that determines the strength of influence of an observed
success or failure on one’s own self-efficacy is the degree of similarity between the observer and the model.
Increase in self-efficacy example: Mentoring programs, where an individual is paired with someone on
a similar career path who will be successful at raising the individual’s self-efficacy beliefs. This is even further
strengthened if both have a similar skill set, so a person can see firsthand what they may achieve.
Decrease in self-efficacy example: Smoking cessation program, in which, individuals witnessing several
people’s failure to quit, may worry about their own chances of success, leading to low self-efficacy for quitting;
or a weight – loss program in which others do not achieve the results you are hoping for.
3. Verbal or Social Persuasion - It is a “way of strengthening people’s belief that they have what it takes to
succeed.” When it is effective in mobilizing a person to action, and their actions lead to success, the enhanced
self-efficacy may become more permanent. It is influenced by encouragement and discouragement pertaining
to an individual’s performance or ability to perform.
Positive example: A teacher telling a student: “You can do it; I have confidence in you.” Using verbal
persuasion in a positive light generally leads individuals to put forth more effort; therefore, they have a greater
chance at succeeding.
Negative example: A teacher saying to a student; “This is unacceptable! I thought you could handle this
task”, can lead to doubts about oneself resulting in lower chances of success.
4. Emotional and Physiological States--The state a person is in will influence how he or she judges self-
efficacy. Stress reactions or tension are interpreted as signs of vulnerability to poor performance whereas
positive emotions can boost confidence in skills.
Some examples of physiological feedback are: giving a speech in front of a large group of people,
making a presentation to an important client, taking an exam, etc. All of these tasks can cause agitation,
anxiety, sweaty palms, and / or a racing heart. Although this source is the least influential of the four, it is
important to note that if one is more at ease with the task at hand he/she will feel more capable and have
higher beliefs of self-efficacy.
People with growth mindset see their qualities as things that can be developed through their dedication
and effort. They are brainy and talented, but that is just the starting point. They understand that no one has
ever accomplished great things without years of passionate practice and learning. This is based on the belief
that their basic qualities are things they can cultivate through their efforts. Although people may differ in every
which way, in their initial talents and aptitudes, interests, or temperaments, everyone can change and grow
through application and experience (Dweck, 2006).
People with a growth mindset are also constantly monitoring what’s going on, but their internal
monologue is not about judging themselves and others in this way. Certainly, they’re sensitive to positive and
negative information, but they’re attuned to their implications for learning and constructive action as reflected in
the questions: “What can I learn from this? How can I improve? How can I help my partner do this better?”
(Dweck, 2006).
Your fixed beliefs about you will hold you back from making positive change. If you have a trait that you
believe cannot be changed, such as your intelligence, your weight, or your bad habits, you will avoid situations
that could possibly be uncomfortable or that you think that are useless.
MAIN PROPOSITIONS:
a. Showing up: Although talent and luck play a part in success, when it comes to facing a wide variety of
challenges, the most successful people display a large amount of grit.
b. Effort counts twice: Many times, talented people are not the highest achievers; instead, people who work
incredibly hard can be more successful.
c. Duckworth feels that although tests of talent are imperfect, the real problem is that the focus on
talent distracts people from focusing on effort, which is more important to success.
d. Duckworth created two equations to explain how people can transition natural talent into achievement:
talent x effort=skill and skill x effort=achievement.
To be successful, a person should set a top-level goal and then ensure that he is working towards that
goal and not wasting time on things that are distracting.
e. Grit grows: Grit may be partially genetic but it can also grow through maturity and life circumstances. There
are four things that the grittiest people have in common: interest, practice, purpose, and hope.
f. Interest: It takes time and diligence to discover and deepen one’s interest. According to research, people
are happier and perform better in their careers when they are doing something that they enjoy. Many
successful people who love their careers did not always have a singular passion for their work; they
experimented with other things before arriving to their true passion.
g. Practice: The most successful people not only practice longer than others, but they also deliberately
practice on improving their weaknesses. Deliberate practice begins by setting a stretch goal, which refers to a
particular weakness that the person is trying to improve. Once the person sets the goal, he focuses solely on
improving that weakness by practicing and getting feedback from others on how he can improve. Then the
person practices continuously until he can easily do the thing that he once found difficult. Once he has
mastered the stretch goal, he sets another. Mastering many small goals leads to great success.
h. Purpose: Purpose is the desire and aim to help others. The passion of a gritty person is comprised of both
interest and purpose. Most people begin with a self-oriented interest, hone that interest through practice, and
finally find a way to bring purpose into their work.
i. Hope: Gritty people embrace an optimistic growth mindset that helps them overcome setbacks. Rather than
passively waiting for things to get better, people with grit believe that they can develop a better future for
themselves.
j. Parenting for Grit: Wise parents who are equal parts supportive and demanding and who model grit in their
own lives are far more likely to have gritty children.
k. The Playing Fields of Grit: Students who participate in an extracurricular activity for at least two years are
more successful later in life because extracurricular activities teach discipline and persistence.
l. A Culture of Grit: Culture has the ability to shape our identity, so if we are part of a gritty culture, we can
become grittier people. A culture is comprised of a group of people who have the same values. There are
sports teams, businesses, and schools that qualify as a culture. After a while of belonging to a certain culture,
people will begin to assimilate that culture’s values into their own identities. Gritty people will sometimes live
their lives in ways that are confusing to others because the rewards for what they are doing are so far off, but
their culture and identity can explain why they make hard choices.
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UNIT 3: MANAGING AND TAKING CARE OF THE SELF
a. Physiological (or physical) stressors are those that put strain on the body (i.e., very cold/hot temperatures,
injury, chronic illness or pain).
b. Psychological Stressors are events, situations, individuals, comments, or anything we interpret as
negative or threatening (i.e., not being able to review your notes for the exam as you are taking care of your
sick parent in the hospital).
Moreover, scientists are now proposing that stressors can be further divided into:
Absolute Stressors – those to which everyone exposed would interpret as being stressful. These are
objective stressors that are universal (ie.: earthquakes, a tsunami, or events of September 11th 2001).
Relative Stressors are those to which only some persons exposed would interpret as being stressful.
These are subjective stressors that cause different reactions in different people (i.e.: time pressure at work and
school traffic, paying taxes or bills, writing or taking exam).
Types of Coping
- Task Oriented consists of efforts aimed at solving the problem.
- Emotion Oriented coping that involves emotional reactions.
- Avoidance Oriented coping that involves activities and cognitions aimed at avoiding the stressful situation and
can be of a distraction or social diversion nature.
Stress is mediated through culture: from the very nature of the stressors, to the ways we respond to the
stress. Understanding this local context might help us develop more culturally appropriate, and therefore more
effective, ways to deal with stress. Culture adapts to circumstances and we are only one of many countries
with large dense populations that have learned to live with the maddening crowds, complete with the “some
odors are so bad, they cause a stomachache”. We sniff everything, from food to lovers, and if we find the
smells good, we tend to indulge to an excess. No wonder aromatherapy’s taken off in the Philippines, as did
those terrible car fresheners and deodorizers.
Filipinos do face many sources of stress, around work and livelihood mainly. Farmers worry about
drought and typhoons; urbanites go berserk with tyrannical bosses and vicious gossipy office-mates. Rural or
urban, we all face the stresses of family; extended Filipino family can be stressful too, with all its obligations.
Overseas workers have a particularly difficult time with all the expectations family members have back home.
The poor migrants who go from impoverished rural areas to work in big cities face even greater stress from
family relations, who can easily contact their now “rich” urban cousins for a share of the pittance these earn in
the city.
But the scenes of smiling and laughing Filipinos, singing and dancing (and drinking) away can be
deceptive. Quite often, we deal with stress by trying to be “happy” – masaya, which is really more of an
externalized merriment. “Pagsasaya” is social camaraderie, it’s making cheer and quite often we do it
precisely because there have been unhappy events, stressful events. The best example can be that of death –
our wakes are notorious for its merry-making, but that, precisely, is part of our stress-coping mechanism.
We warn people about excesses as a cause of illness, and that includes the excessive emotions
generated by stress. The word dalamhati is graphic, describing an inner sadness (from the Malay ‘dalam’,
inside and ‘hati’, the heart or the liver, believed to be seats of our emotions) that slowly consumes the person.
Filipino women are actually more prone to dealing with stressful situations through ‘tiis’ (endurance) and
‘kimkim’ (repression). Check out the local scenes of merriment: it’s usually the men having a good time,
bringing out the beer and toasting their problems away, while the women look for ways to make ends meet.
Many Filipinos express their stress by complaining about recurring headaches, or abdominal pains,
accompanied by dizziness, nausea, or fatigue. Doctors used to dismiss these as being all in the mind, but it
has become clear the physical pain and distress may be quite real, that the pent-up stress is expressed
through the body. Culturally, too, people may attach labels that don’t quite reflect the actual part of the body
that’s affected, as when they say that they’re suffering from nerbyos or “nerves.” Nerbyos doesn’t necessarily
mean being nervous; it’s often hypertension or high blood pressure, for example, and a health professional or
caregiver may miss the problem.
Then, too, there’s the intriguing bangungot, those sudden deaths, usually at night associate with
nightmares. The term itself is derived from bangon, to rise, and ungol, to moan. The medical world remains
stumped, attributing the deaths to everything, from pancreatitis to congenital defects in the heart, but too little
has been done to explore the stress angle.
The Filipino is so attached to home and hearth that we even have a term namamahay, missing home,
to describe a range of symptoms, from insomnia to constipation that plagues us when we are away from home.
That’s stress too. And with men, given the cultural imperative of suppressing their distress, we might expect
nightmares, some with fatal endings.
The manghihilot can be “reinvented” so his or her skills with therapeutic massage can be applied not
just for sprains, but also for broken hearts and weary spirits. Filipino-style, such spaces need not be totally
quiet, but they do give some sense of safety, of sanity in a mad world. Filipino-style, too, we need to think of
how these therapeutic spaces might work out as places where people can engage in social activities, without
becoming more agitated. Alternatives could be offered: gardening, cross-stitching, bingo… anything that calms
the mind.
What we see today around us magnifies the reality of Dr. Tan’s work. How Filipinos deal with stress is a
trademark of orientation they had with the social world, dictated by the stringent cultural compliance they were
exposed to while growing up. In the end, Filipinos are still proud of how unique these manners of coping are;
what makes them ultimately happy in the end is the one that matters much.
2.) If you must stay at home, maintain a healthy lifestyle - including proper diet, sleep, exercise and social
contacts with loved ones at home and by email and phone with other family and friends.
3.) Don’t use smoking, alcohol or other drugs to deal with your emotions. If you feel overwhelmed, talk to a
health worker or counsellor. Have a plan, where to go to and how to seek help for physical and
mental health needs if required.
4.) Get the facts. Gather information that will help you accurately determine your risk so that you can take
5.) reasonable precautions. Find a credible source you can trust such as WHO website or, a local or state
public health agency.
6.) Limit worry and agitation by lessening the time you and your family spend watching or listening to
media
7.) coverage that you perceive as upsetting.
6.) Draw on skills you have used in the past that have helped you to manage previous life’s adversities and
use those skills to help you manage your emotions during the challenging time of this outbreak.
Taking Care of the Self: The Need for Self- Care and Compassion
Generally speaking, self-care is engaging in activities and behaviors that have a positive effect on one’s
mental and physical health (Greene, 2017). She adds that there’s a bit of “reverse golden rule” aspect to the
practice; that is to treat yourself as compassionately as you treat others.
Reasons why self-care is necessary:
• It increases sense of self-love, allowing appreciation and acceptance of who a person is
• It promotes feelings of calm and relaxation, serving as a way to refocus and come back to daily life refreshed
and ready to take on anything
• It improves both physical and mental health by reducing the effects of prolonged stress on mind and body
To take care of the self is also to delve into compassion, for the self needs to seek its deeper meaning.
Everyone has had that share of loving-kindness; meaning wishing happiness for another person. Compassion
is wishing for that person to be free from suffering (Germer, 2009). Compassion literally means “to suffer
together.” Among emotion researchers, compassion is defined as the feeling that arises when you are
confronted with another’s suffering and feel motivated to relieve that suffering (Greater Good Science Center,
2017).
Compassion is not the same as empathy or altruism, though the concepts are related. While empathy
refers more generally to our ability to take the perspective of and feel the emotions of another person,
compassion is when those feelings and thoughts include the desire to help. Altruism, in turn, is the kind,
selfless behavior often prompted by feelings of compassion, though one can feel compassion without acting on
it, and altruism isn’t always motivated by compassion (Greater Good Science Center, 2017).
There are various forms of compassion and why they are so important. Paul Ekman (2010)
enumerates:
• Familial Compassion is the seed of compassion, planted through the caregiver – offspring bond. It raises
very interesting questions about people who were brought up without a sing caregiver, or were brought up with
a parent who had a very distant attachment. What is their capacity for compassion? Without the seed, the
flower won’t grow.
• Global Compassion was exemplified by the response to the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami. People around the
world extended assistance to the strangers, or different races and skin colors. Now, that not everyone has it, a
lot of people acted, and a lot of people didn’t. how does one cultivate global compassion? Consider the survival
of children and grandchildren, because planet earth won’t survive without global compassion.
• Sentient Compassion is when one extends feelings of compassion towards cockroaches, toward any living
being. When people got sentient, they also got global; sentient is the highest moral virtue.
• Heroic Compassion is like altruism with a risk. It has two forms: Immediate Heroic Compassion is when,
without thought, one jumps onto the MRT tracks to rescue someone. It is impulsive. Considered Heroic
Compassion isn’t done impulsively; it is done with thought, and it can be maintained for many years.
The most significant contribution of self-compassion is the attention given to the “self,” which is always
associated with the body, and the bodies are built for survival. Self is needed to make progress on the path of
self-compassion. People can cultivate a kind, gentle attitude, not rejecting, not overly prizing, toward the self
until it no longer suffers and has no reason to assert itself. The more compassion one gives to the suffering
“self,” the more flexible it becomes. Compassion from others or from within oneself helps him/her accept
himself in his/her discomfort (Germer, 2009).
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