You Think You Are Different!!!

“In your actions, don’t procrastinate. In your conversations, don’t confuse. In your thoughts,
don’t wander. In your soul, don’t be passive or aggressive. In your life, don’t be all about
business.” – Marcus Aurelius

According to Darwin’s law of evolution, we all evolved from a monkey, and the theory of
evolution says “All life on Earth is connected and related to each other” but when you think
about yourself you think you are different. It is our nature that we always want to be different
from other people. We always want to stand out in the crowd. Considering the fact that we all
have the same origin you feel you are different from others. Yes, we all are different in many
aspects of our life, and that difference is created by the thoughts that we gathered. All
thoughts that we have gathered are stored in our memory and whatever we think we think
concerning our memory, beyond that it is rare and hard to think about something.

You got the education in one field, your parents or siblings may be educated in another field
and as we go forward in our life, we never try to come out of our fields, we got trapped in the
judgments which are generated from our past experiences. Those experiences are stored in
your memory are related to your field of education. When they say about something they say
from their own experiences and we associate it with our past incidents. Comparatively, you
both are correct in your own opinion. The reason behind it is we think and judge the
situations based on our knowledge. As per your Understanding, you are right in your own
terms and your parents are also rights in their own terms, even if your opinions contrast with
each other.

Thinking is a process and we rarely think in the right direction! It requires a lot of effort to
think in the right direction. Whenever you think most of the time you feel you are thinking in
the right direction. But when you really consider the opinion of another person you will
realize that you do not resemble each other.

Right now, you may be alone and thinking about being with your family, there may be
another person who is surrounded by many people and thinking about being alone. Someone
may be married and thinking about getting separated, there may be someone who is
struggling to find a life partner. Someone is struggling to lose weight; another may be
underweight and trying to gain some. These are few but still, you think you are different. We
are separated by our thoughts and our opinions. What are your thoughts may not be similar to
another person, your circumstances don’t match with anyone because we all grown up
differently? It doesn’t matter what is your surrounding just think why it is like that. Ask this
question to yourself consider their opinion and try to be in their shoes for the moment, and
when you start doing you will find the answer and you will stop blaming and begging to
consider the opinions of other people.