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Young Adults Symptom Reduction-Week-1-Values
Young Adults Symptom Reduction-Week-1-Values
Young Adults Symptom Reduction-Week-1-Values
Week One
- Values -
- Roy E. Disney
Topic(s):
- What are values?
- The Bull’s Eye
- One Garden Exercise
- Identifying and Clarifying Values
- Practice the Values in Action Log
Homework:
- Values in Action Log
Materials adapted, and parts taken from:
Mind and Emotions: A Universal Treatment for Emotional Disorders, Matthew McKay, Patrick Fanning, Patricia
Zurita Ona. (2011). Oakland, CA:New Harbinger Publications, Inc.
ACT Made Simple, Russ Harris. (2009). Oakland:New Harbinger Publications, Inc.
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Your values are your chosen directions in life. They’re what you want your life to
be about. Your values give your life meaning, vitality, power, inspiration, and
motivation. They help activate you to break out of life-restricting patterns caused
by anxiety and shame, or the torpor and withdrawal that fuel depression.
Example
Long-term cost: You may not find that companion you desire. Your life becomes
constricted over time
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Values Goals
Values are a direction Goals are specific destinations or
checkpoints
Values are a process Goals are a product
Tend to be expressed as basic, Are specific, measurable, time-
intrinsic, and abstract principles (ie oriented (ie I will walk 30 minutes a
love, truth, trust, fidelity) day on M, W, F)
Example: Honesty is a value. Example: Returning something you
stole is a goal.
The Compass Metaphor: Values are like a compass. A compass gives you direction
and keeps you on track when you are traveling. And our values do the same for
the journey of life. We use them to choose the direction in which we want to
move and to keep us on track as we go. So when you act on a value, it’s like
heading west. No matter how far west you travel you never get there; there is
always further to go. But goals are like the things you try to achieve on your
journey: they are like the sights you want to see to the mountains you want to
climb while you keep on traveling west.
If you want to be loving and caring, that is a value—it’s ongoing; you want to
behave in that way for the rest of your life. And in any moment you have a choice:
you can either act on that value or neglect it. But if you want to get married,
that’s a goal. It is something that can be completed or achieved, crossed off the
list. And you can achieve that goal of marriage even if you completely neglect
your values of being caring or loving (of course your marriage may not last that
long).
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4. Leisure: (how you play, relax, or enjoy yourself; activities for rest, recreation, fun, creativity)
Mark an X in each area of the dartboard, to represent where you stand today.
Work/Education Leisure
I am acting very
inconsistently
with my values
I am living
fully by my
values
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First, imagine you had to let go of half of these areas. Put an X through half of
the areas.
Eyes closed and Pause for Six Breaths on Purpose….
Second, imagine a world where you had to cross out half of the ones that are
left.
Cross out three more.
Eyes closed and Pause for six mindful breaths
Third, imagine a world where you had to cross out one more, leaving only two.
Cross out one more.
Eyes closed and Pause for six mindful breaths….
Fourth, and finally, imagine you had to cross out one more, leaving only
one. Cross out one more!
Eyes closed and Pause for six mindful breaths….
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1. Intimate relationships. This domain is about your relationship with your significant other
(spouse, partner, lover, boyfriend, girlfriend). If you aren’t with anyone right now, you can still
work on this domain in terms of your ideal relationship with some future person. Typical terms
for values in the domain of intimate relationships are “love,” “openness,” and “fidelity”
2. Parenting. What does being a mother or father mean to you? You can answer this question
even if you don’t have children. In the domain of parenting, many people use terms like
“protecting,” “teaching,” and “love.”
3. Education, Growth and Development. Whether or not you’re in school, there are many
times in your life when you’re learning something new. Attending this class is a good example.
Terms for values related to learning might be “truth,” “wisdom,” and “skill.”
4. Friends and social life. Who is your closest friend? How many good friends do you have?
What would you like to be doing with your friends, or how many new friends would you have, if
your fear, sadness, anger, or shame didn’t get in the way? Values that underlie friendship
might be expressed with words like “loyalty,” “trust,” and “love.”
5. Physical and health. What kinds of changes would you like to see in your life in terms of
diet, exercise, and preventive measures? In the domain of the physical, values are expressed
with words like “strength,” “vitality,” and “health.”
6. Family of origin. Consider the importance of your relationship with your father, mother, and
siblings. How would you like these relationships to be? Many people speak of their values
related to their family of origin with terms like “love,” “respect,” “acceptance,” and
“boundaries.”
7. Spirituality. Are you aware of or connected to something larger than yourself? Spirituality is
wide-open. It can take the form of meditation, mindfulness, participation in organized religion,
walks in the woods, or whatever works for you. People’s values in this area usually involve
having a certain relationship to God, a higher person, power, chi (energy), or the universe.
8. Community life, environment and citizenship. Do your negative emotions keep you from
charitable work, serving your community, or political action of some kind? Values in the public
area are often expressed with words like “justice,” “responsibility,” and “charity.”
9. Recreation, fun and leisure. If you could get past your anger, sadness, guilt, or anxiety, how
would you spend your leisure time? How would you recharge your batteries and reconnect
with family and friends in fun and games? Recreation values are expressed with terms like
“fun,” “creativity,” and “passion.”
10. Work and career. What would you like to accomplish at work? What kind of contribution
would you like to make? What do you want to stand for in your workplace? What intentions
did you have when you started working that you still haven’t put into action? Typical terms for
values related to work and career are “livelihood,” “excellence,” and “stewardship.”
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Parenting
Education and
Development
Friends and
social life
Physical self-
care & health
Family of
origin
Spirituality
Community
life &
citizenship
Recreation
and leisure
Work and
career
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