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Kahn - 2015 - Cast Out Gender Role Outlaws Seeking Asylum in
Kahn - 2015 - Cast Out Gender Role Outlaws Seeking Asylum in
Sarilee Kahn
To cite this article: Sarilee Kahn (2015) Cast Out: “Gender Role Outlaws” Seeking Asylum in the
West and the Quest for Social Connections, Journal of Immigrant & Refugee Studies, 13:1, 58-79,
DOI: 10.1080/15562948.2014.894169
SARILEE KAHN
School of Social Work, McGill University, Montreal, Quebec, Canada
RATIONALE
Social support from family and coethnic community members has long been
considered a critical protective factor for refugees against the stressors inher-
ent in forced migration (Birman & Tran, 2008). Social relationships assume
heightened significance for certain stigmatized groups.
Whereas all refugees may be subject to prejudice and bias (Porter &
Haslam, 2005), Muslim refugees resettled in the West in the midst of the “War
on Terror” are arguably among the most vulnerable. Anti-Islamic prejudice,
Address correspondence to Sarilee Kahn, McGill University School of Social Work, 3506
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and even violence, has been well documented in the West, especially since
the terrorist attacks in the United States in September 2001, and the increase
in refugees to the West in the aftermath of the U.S. invasions into Afghanistan
in 2001 and Iraq in 2003 (Cainkar, 2006). For Muslim refugees, bonds with
families and coethnic others represent not only vital sources of support and
validation of sociocultural practices but may serve as a protective shield
against anti-Islamic sentiments (Yip, 2004).
However, as with all refugee populations, Muslims seeking refuge in the
West are not a uniform group. For example, among Muslims seeking refuge
in the West are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered (LGBT) persons
as well as heterosexual women resisting harmful cultural practices—both
groups fleeing persecution in their homelands for transgressing societal
norms governing gendered behaviors. Since 1994, U.S. immigration law has
allowed applicants who can prove their persecution was due to gender,
gender identity, or sexual orientation to claim asylum in the United States
(Musalo, 2007); the details of this policy follow later.
Homophobic violence and patriarchal practices are by no means ex-
clusive to any specific religion, cultural tradition, or society. Across all so-
cieties, women and sexual minorities are raped, beaten, forced into early
marriages, subjected to honor killings, or otherwise abused by both state
and nonstate actors for their gender, gender identity, or sexuality (World
Health Organization [WHO], 2012). Predominantly Christian countries, such
as Jamaica and Brazil, have gained notoriety for waves of brutal communal,
culturally sanctioned violence against LGBT persons, often perpetrated by
authorities, communities, and family members (International Gay and Les-
bian Human Rights Commission [IGLHRC], 2013). Homophobia was stirred
to a fever pitch by a group of American Evangelicals in Uganda (Gettelman,
2010) and Christian missionaries from the United States and the United King-
dom in Ethiopia, agitating for those countries to adopt the death penalty
for consensual same-sex acts (Nelson, 2013); at this writing, seven countries
impose capital punishment for, and 76 criminalize, same-sex sexual intimacy
between adults (International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission,
2013).
Similarly, in Christian as well as Islamic societies around the globe, the
ancient gendered practice of female circumcision, or female genital muti-
lation, as it is called by some human rights activists, persists. Despite its
inception in pre-Christian and pre-Islamic animist traditions, the belief that
female circumcision is mandated by religion contributes to its perpetuation
in some Muslim communities in Africa and the Middle East (United Nations
Children’s Fund [UNICEF], 2013). Indeed, the ritual endures even in countries
that have officially outlawed the practice, such as Guinea, Cote d’Ivoire, and
Burkina Faso. Although such host countries as the United States and Canada
have also prohibited female circumcision (FC), some migrant families in the
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West send their daughters back to the homeland, where the circumcision
ritual can be carried out with impunity; women who refuse circumcision
for themselves or their daughters can be met with severe punishment by
their families and communities for resisting normative gender role practices
(United Nations Children’s Fund, 2013).
Ultimately, gender role nonconforming persons can be persecuted, and
banished from their societies, for transgressing cultural expectations. This
may occur even in countries where formal laws are set up to protect them,
as well as in those contexts where gender role nonconformity is considered
a crime. For those thus persecuted because of their refusal to conform to
traditional norms regarding sexual and gender role behaviors, fleeing to a
host country where they can petition for asylum may be the only recourse to
ensure safety and autonomy. While persons seeking asylum for these reasons
hail from societies around the globe, the increasing proportion of refugees
and asylum seekers from Islamic societies resettling in Western countries over
the past decade (United Nations High Commissioner on Refugees [UNHCR],
2013) calls for not only a thoughtful analysis of structural anti-Islamic bias
lurking in individuals, communities, and bureaucratic structures, but also
for increased attention to sociocultural dimensions and diversity of migrants’
experiences. This study contributes to the very limited empirical research that
challenges the view of Muslim refugees as a monolithic bloc by shining a
light on the nature of social support for gender role nonconforming Muslims
and considers how their experience differs from that of their more culturally
traditional compatriots. Ultimately, the findings will encourage future studies
of gender role nonconforming persons from across religious and cultural
systems.
Existing Research
All asylum seekers endure separation from their cultures, families, and kin-
ship networks. For some from interdependent non-Western societies, family
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social costs of being gender role outlaws? How do those costs or benefits
express themselves throughout the asylum-seeking experience?
METHODOLOGY
Recruitment and Sampling
Participants were identified through outreach via private immigration attor-
neys and social service agencies in New York City, northern New Jersey,
and Washington, DC. The study utilized purposive sampling (Padgett, 2008)
for recruitment of circumcised African women fleeing the threat of FC to
their daughters and of gay men from Islamic societies in the Middle East
and Africa, as exemplars of gender role outlaws. Further inclusion criteria
included (a) subjects were granted asylum in the United States at least 1
but not more than 6 years prior to interview; (b) they were adults at least
18 years of age at the time of the asylum grant; (c) they described themselves
as comfortable speaking English; and (d) they had no history of hospitaliza-
tion for mental illness. Regarding the required time span since the asylum
grant (i.e., 1–6 years), the goal was to recruit participants for whom the event
was not so fresh as to risk retraumatization, but not so long after the asy-
lum grant that wide disparities in adaptation among participants would be
likely.
Eight men and eight women qualified and agreed to participate. Of
these 16, one male and one female served as participants in pilot interviews;
the remaining 14 made up the total sample. The sample size was considered
large enough for this preliminary inquiry into the experiences of a virtually
unstudied population, enabling the collection of a diversity of experiences
over the course of two in-depth interviews per participant. Data collection
proceeded in accordance with protocols approved by the New York Univer-
sity Human Subjects Committee.
From two pilot interviews, each with persons who met the inclusion
criteria but were not included in the sample, an in-depth semistructured
interview guide was developed (Padgett, 2008). Multiple data sources were
utilized (Glaser & Strauss, 1967), including verbatim transcripts as the primary
data source and observational notes to document use of language, nonver-
bal behaviors, anecdotes, actions, and descriptors of the setting (Charmaz,
2006).
Data analysis followed grounded theory protocols put forward by Char-
maz (2006). Analysis included open coding, axial coding, and development
of themes; 683 pages of transcripts of 28 interviews were analyzed. Strate-
gies for rigor to enhance data trustworthiness involved prolonged engage-
ment (i.e., two interviews per participant); multiple data sources; a peer
debriefing group for co-coding to reduce researcher bias; member check-
ing (i.e., follow-up phone calls and review of emerging findings with study
Social Support for Gender-Dissident Muslim Asylees 65
FINDINGS
Age
20–25 0 1 1
30–35 3 4 7
35–40 2 0 2
45–50 2 2 4
Length of Time Since Asylum Grant
6 years 3 1 4
4 years 3 1 4
2 years 1 2 3
1 year 0 3 3
Country of Origin
Afghanistan 1 0 1
Egypt 2 0 2
Iran 2 0 2
Iraq 1 0 1
Senegal 1 0 1
Guinea 0 1 1
Burkina Faso 0 3 3
Gambia 0 2 2
Chad 0 1 1
Highest Level of Education
University 4 2 6
Professional school 0 1 1
High school graduate 1 2 3
Middle school graduate 0 1 1
No formal education 2 1 3
Employment Status
Homemaker 0 2 2
Unemployed/seeking 0 2 2
Hairbraiding/nurse/taxi driver 3 2 5
White collar professional 3 0 3
Full-time student 1 1 2
Community-Sanctioned Gender
Practices (Women Only)
Female circumcision 7 7
Forced marriage 3 3
Domestic violence 3 3
Community-Sanctioned
Persecution (Men Only)
Bullying/ostracism 6 6
Sexual assault/attempted sexual 5 5
assault by peers
Childhood sexual abuse by 3 3
clergy/nonfamily adults
Sexual exploitation by 2 2
authorities
Arrest or threatened arrest for 2 2
same sex-sexual relations
Communal violence 1 1
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Because in my community it’s like a circle, right? When you first come
to the U.S. they’ll tell you what’s happening, what’s going on . . . And
sometimes it’s not true.
One thing is for sure, 100% sure: Even if I knew there was [a psychosocial
support program], I never would have gone by myself .
declare in the public forum of the asylum process, defined them as gender
role outlaws in their own families and communities.
You cannot believe how I love her, how I respect her . . . I never talk
to anyone . . . that way. I don’t feel shy when I talk to her. I just tell her
everything. And . . . and I listen to her, I believe in what she say, I trust
in what she say.
Finding helpers in the host country who could create a safe space in
which to tell their stories was particularly meaningful to these participants;
in their home countries, simply being themselves elicited persecution and/or
societal expulsion.
Yeah, because they say that I don’t follow their rules. Some of them they
don’t talk to me. Even now they don’t talk to me . . . They want me to
take [daughter’s name] to do the same thing to her.
to be circumcised. A woman from Burkina Faso, who hid the reason for
leaving her home country, relates:
For men in the study, family relationships varied. In their more “liberal”
families, three male respondents reported that a parent might ignore the
participant’s homosexuality:
And my dad never asks me, you know, like a typical Middle Eastern
father, or any father when their son’s 38, “So when are you getting
married.”
You know you sit there with your sisters, and feel guilty, you know,
because my lifestyle is different. So it’s very hard for me to communicate
with my relatives, with my own brothers . . . It’s just like a completely
cut-off, between, between us.
That’s why I always try to stay alone, far from the African people, because
the African people are never trust . . . I appreciate it more American
people, I prefer with American people.
You know, I am Muslim. I told you I am Muslim but people who pray
in the Mosque they don’t like me. They don’t like me because they say
I am not Muslim . . . I say, “why?” but they say because I always wear
pants and I . . . don’t use veil, I don’t use this.
They like if I’m coming dancing, singing for them. They like that, but
they don’t like who I am . . . They don’t like gay people.
I like people from other cultures, to be honest with you . . . I don’t have
no Afghani friends . . . No, you will not see on any telephone I have that
I communicate with any Afghani.
While Bhui (2012) has noted that displaced persons accessing support
from their coethnic cohort experience reduced trauma-related mental health
symptoms and improved social mobility through coethnic affiliation, persons
in this sample clearly had difficulty connecting with their diaspora communi-
ties and, thus, may be at a disadvantage when compared with those whose
asylum is based on other categories.
Most people go through the initial phase of, “Oh, this is so cool.” But it’s
not—it’s not cool. It’s them trying to look cool, you know, like to prove
to themselves that they are open-minded . . . like you’re exotic animals
and we want to come visit you in the zoo, and then it’s like, okay, now
it’s time to go home [Laughs].
I’m not a person that go out with the gays. No, I have to respect my
brothers, I have to respect my family.
DISCUSSION
Being aware of such realities, service providers can strive to establish special
avenues for economic survival for gender role nonconforming women.
For all gender role nonconforming persons seeking asylum, psychoso-
cial services should be available throughout the asylum process and continue
to be available after asylum is granted. Social isolation persists, along with
challenges navigating kin and community relationships, and may intensify in
the months and years following the attainment of asylum status.
Ultimately, this study adds empirical evidence to support observations
that gender role nonconforming migrants, regardless of religion or country
of origin, may face ostracism from coethnic diaspora communities in exile
(Potocky-Tripodi, 2003) and racism in gay-affirmative communities (Han,
2007).
It not clear that such insights have yet translated into practice and pol-
icy approaches. Further research with these groups and with the range of
providers who serve them is indicated to better inform practice and policy
initiatives aimed at addressing the complex needs of gender role outlaws in
resettlement.
SUMMARY
This study challenges received knowledge that affiliation with family and
coethnic community is a protective factor for Muslims against the stressors
of resettlement and structural anti-Islamic prejudice in the West. Gender role
nonconforming asylum seekers may be banished from kinship and com-
munal networks in home and host countries, and may experience durable
social ruptures, negating access to traditional sources of positive support
in resettlement. Whereas relationships with compassionate service providers
may serve as kinship proxies, providing spaces to explore hitherto “secret”
aspects of the self and one’s experiences, those relationships are temporary.
Thus, gender role nonconforming asylum seekers are at risk of long-term
social isolation, lacking critical resources known to mitigate stressors asso-
ciated with asylum seeking and resettlement. When planning psychosocial
interventions for this vulnerable group, providers should be sensitive to po-
tential barriers to social connections with familial and/or coethnic networks,
as well as to mainstream communities in the host country.
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