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Gratitude is an emotional state and an attitude toward life that is a source of human
strength enhancing
in one's
personal and relational
well-being. In this
we article,
first the of as a virtue to be cultivated in the
explore theological origins gratitude
major monotheistic traditions of Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. Each tradition
emphasizes the development of gratitude as a path to a good life, and prescribes ap
proaches for practicing. Gratitude is explored further in the context of psychologi
cal theory and research. Empirical research linking gratitude with well-being and
goal attainment is presented and discussed. Finally, future research questions and a
tentative research agenda are presented.
What is gratitude? What is the context in which it occurs? What are the
consequences of experiencing and expressing it? What does it mean to
be a grateful person? Gratitude has been conceptualized as an emotion, a
virtue, a moral sentiment, a motive, a coping response, a skill, and an at
titude. It is all of these and more. Minimally, gratitude is an emotional re
sponse to a gift. It is the appreciation felt after one has been the
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If Iam
grateful to my parents for feeding me, changing my diapers,
introducing me to God, holding me when I was afraid, comforting
me when I was
distraught, and housing and educating me for 20 or
more years, then I acknowledge gladly that there is no way I can give
back to them in the measure that they have given to me. If I nurse mv
father for the last two weeks of his life, or do a few repair jobs around
the house for my mother, these acts can only be by some grotesque
distraction of mind be considered repayment of their gifts... they are
ways of saying "I gladly admit that my debt to vou is unrepayable."
(p. 329)
HEBRAIC CONCEPTIONS
cry to God is met with deliverance from the situation. Within Judaism,
the proper response is a public proclamation praise and thanksgiving
for God's steadfast love and faithfulness (Anderson, 1991; Miller, 1994).
The Jewish prayers begin with the Shema in which the worshipper recites
from the Bible, "You shall love the Eternal, your God, with all your heart,
with all your soul, and with all your might" (Deut. 6:5), and the concluding
prayer the Alenu, thanks God for the particular destiny of the Jewish people
(Kertzer, 1993). In addition to these daily prayers, the observant Jew recites
more than one hundred berakhot (blessings) throughout the day.
Thankfulness for everything is appropriate in Judaism because all things
come from God in the Hebrew worldview, and Jewish life is filled with
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CHRISTIAN GRATITUDE
praise and thank the source of their life. Roberts (1991a) and Meilaender
(1984) have argued that gratitude molds and shapes the entire Christian
life, thus being inextricably connected to mental, physical, and relational
well-being. An indebtedness to others enables followers of Christ to
share a common bond, which shapes not only emotions and thoughts,
but actions and deeds. In Christian gratitude, God becomes the giver of
all good gifts, the ultimate foundation for thankfulness. Gratitude is a
state of well-being and righteousness, these stem from a profound sense
pressed to God for the benefits that the person has received, whereas
gracious gratitude has its source in the knowledge of the goodness of
God independently of favors received. The "gracious stirrings of grate
ful affection to God" (Edwards, 1959, p. 247), in which love flows from
the heart as a
response to the divine, differs greatly from all other forms
of gratitude. These insights containimportant practical implications for
the contemporary concern of measuring religious spirituality. Items as
Catholic nuns and priests, out of 50 emotions, love and gratitude were
the most frequently experienced emotions toward God. A qualitative
studv by Griffith (1998) documented the ecstatic experiences of "pious
emotion" in American Pentecostal women in the first half of the 20th
century. Common in the narratives analyzed were heartfelt and lively
expressions of joy, gratitude for every aspect of life, and a blissful sense
of peace.
GRATITUDE IN ISLAM
The Holy Koran, which is divided into chapters called suras repeatedly
asserts the necessity for gratitude and thankfulness to God throughout
the chapters. For instance, in Sura fourteen it is written "If vou are grate
ful, I will give vou more" (14:7). A traditional Islamic saying states that,
"The first who will be summoned to paradise are those who have
prophet Mohammad also said "Gratitude for the abundance you have
received is the best insurance that the abundance will continue"
(Fadiman & Frager, 1997, p. 178). True gratitude, it is taught, draws more
abundant graces upon the believer.
The performance of the daily Islamic prayers is considered to be one of
the "pillars" of the religion. The essence of the prayer is not to ask nor pe
tition God, but to show everlasting praise and adoration to God for life
and mercy. This is apparent in the opening lines of Sura Fatehe (the open
ing chapter) of the Koran, which begins each of the five daily prayers
(1:1-5).
complete the prescribed period and to glorify him that He has guided
be grateful" (Koran, 2:185).
you, and perchance ye shall
In Sufism, the mystical tradition of Islam, entire book chapters have
been devoted to developing gratitude. Gratitude often is divided into
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different ranks or
gratitude for the gifts received from
stages. First is
God, for one should be grateful for receiving any gift. But an even higher
state is attained when one becomes grateful for not receiving gifts or at
Within psychology, gratitude most often has been studied by social psy
chologists (e.g., Baumeister & Ilko, 1995), and by emotion theorists tak
ing a cognitive-appraisal approach to emotional experience. Among the
latter group are Lazarus (Lazarus & Lazarus, 1994), Weiner (1986) and
Ortony, Clore, and Collins (1987). Interestingly, the term gratitude
rarely appears in the emotion lexicon (Shaver, Schwarz, Kirson, &
O'Connor, 1987), and most psychologists of emotion, with the exception
of the trio identified, have ignored the concept. Gratitude does not ap
pear in the index of the Handbook of Emotion (Lewis & Haviland, 1993).
Ambiguity and uncertainty concerning its status as an emotion appears
to be the rule. For example, although Lazarus and Lazarus (1 994) discuss
the concept at some length, in his earlier comprehensive monograph,
Lazarus (1991) remarked that, "I have ignored gratitude though with
some
misgiving, because in some instances, it
may be a
strong emotional
state" (p. 265). In his structural theory of the emotions, de Rivera (1977)
gratitude is and is not likely to occur, and calls attention to nuances that
might be missed in other analyses of gratitude. For example, felt grati
tude may reflect the potential desirability of an event independently of
the outcome, such as the case where someone aids in the unsuccessful
search for a lost child. Twenty years before Ortony et al. (1987) published
their theory, Tesser, Gatewood, and Driver (1968) demonstrated that the
recipient's judged intention of the benefactor, the cost to the benefactor,
and the value of the benefit together influenced felt gratitude, thereby
of the recipient. Lazarus and Lazarus (1994) describe the "many faces of
gratitude" (p. 118), and suggest that the personal meanings attached to
giving and receiving influence the experience of gratitude within an in
terpersonal transaction.
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truism, Trivers (1971) argued that gratitude serves to reward others' acts
of altruism; in creating an obligation, gratitude motivates the recipient
of an altruistic act to reciprocate. Gratitude thus serves as a type of an in
surance
policy for future cooperation. Tiger and Fox (1971; as cited in
Weisfeld, 1980) proposed that gratitude not only enabled social ex
change, but provided a way of trading a resource of little value for one of
greater value. Gratitude presumably evolved relatively recently
(Weisfeld, 1980), concomitantly with the development in higher mam
mals and humans to actively assist others. Weisfeld further speculates
that the main transitional event from animal dominance hierarchies to
human social systems was the evolution of
gratitude.
Taken as a whole, the
philosophical, theological, cognitive-emotional,
and biosocial perspectives on gratitude provide guidelines for examin
ing the structure of gratitude, its ultimate and proximal sources, and the
intra- and interpersonal functions of its expression. They offer a fertile
theoretical base for the generation of testable hypotheses.
the outcome measures. Relative to the hassles and events group, partici
pants in the
gratitude condition felt better about their lives as a whole
and were more
optimistic regarding their expectations for the upcoming
week. The thankful group reported fewer physical complaints overall
than the hassles group, and spent significantly more time
exercising
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than did subjects in the other two groups. This finding suggests that the
emotional and mental benefits of a thankful focus are associated with in
creased feelings of
physical vitality. Participants who had been in the
larly if one is grateful for having been forgiven by God or by others for
one's transgressions. In our study of gratitude in everyday life, when
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itude may be one means by which tragedies are transformed into oppor
tunities for growth, being thankful not so much for the circumstance but
rather for the skills that will come from dealing with it. In Latin America,
Nouwen (1983) noted that among the poor and the hungry, the sick
even
and the unemployed, the homeless and the destitute, all of life was cele
brated as
thanksgiving.
(g) What form does the expression of gratitude take in instances where
it is trulyimpossible to repay one's debt? This might occur either be
cause the debt is too
big or the benefactor cannot be personally thanked.
It might be enlightening to study special populations, where these two
factors coalesce, such as in organ donor recipients.
As the science of gratitude develops, these and other questions await
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