Introduction

It was in the 1700s that a series of revivals in the American colonies

led to an awakening. The movement began in the middle colo-nies
and soon spread north into New England and, shortly thereafter,
south into the Carolinas and Georgia.

The leaders were many: Jonathan Edwards, George Whitefield,

Gilbert Tennent, and several other well-known preachers, not to
mention the Wesley brothers in Great Britain. They delivered strong
messages of the Cross, stirring the hearts of thousands. The exciting
movement came to be known as "The Great Awakening." What
remarkable changes occurred as a result of God's working!

None can deny that there is the need for yet another awakening
among God's people ... a renewed appreciation for and acceptance of
His grace. As grace sweeps over us, the freedom Christ promised will
return and the joy of His Spirit will become evident.

The Grace Awakening is a study about freedom.

I have never delivered a series of messages that prompted more

response than this one. Without question, the subject of grace—
God's amazing, liberating grace—is one that people everywhere
hunger to hear. Long enough has legalism held sway over God's
people! There is an awakening of grace spreading across our land ... a
movement whose time has come.

What is it that causes our Lord to stoop and reach out to us in love?
Grace. What is it that frees us to be all He means us to be? Grace.
What is it that permits others to be who they are, even very different
from us? Grace. What allows us to disagree, yet stimulates us to
press on? Grace. What adds oil to the friction points of a marriage,
freeing both partners from pettiness and negativism? Grace. And
what gives magnetic charm to a ministry, inviting others to become a
part? Again . . . grace.

Grace will conquer the things that steal the Christian's motivation:
guilt and shame, legalism and negativism, petty fighting and
small-minded intolerance, as well as others' expectations and self-
imposed restrictions, to name only a few.

The Grace Awakening is not a series for the fainthearted. It is a bold

and needed declaration for pastors, for Christian leaders, for
missionaries, for young and old believers alike. I am so glad you will
be traveling with us through this delightful journey. My prayer is that
each study will be used of God to break the shackles, that all who
listen and learn may be "free indeed." May the Spirit of God use the
Word of God to show us the beauty and necessity of the grace of God.

Chuck Swindoll

Putting Truth into Action

Knowledge apart from application falls short of God's desire for . His
children. He wants us to apply what we learn so that we will change
and grow. This study guide was prepared with these goals in mind.
As you go through the following pages, we hope your desire to
discover biblical truth will grow as your understanding of God's
Word increases, and that you will be encouraged to apply what
you've learned.

To assist you in your study, we've included a section called 22^

Living Insights at the end of each lesson. These exercises will Y
challenge you to study further and to think of specific ways to put
your discoveries into action.

There are many ways to use this guide—in personal devotions, group
studies, discussions with friends and family, and Sunday school
classes. And, of course, it's an ideal study aid when you're listening to
its corresponding "Insight for Living" radio series.

To benefit most from this study guide, we would encourage you to

consider it a spiritual journal. That's why we've included space in the
Living Insights for recording your thoughts and discoveries. We hope
you'll return to those sections often for review and encouragement as
you continue to grow in your walk with Christ.

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race scales the wall and refuses to be restricted.

Grace lives above the demands of human opinion and breaks free
from legalistic regulations.

Grace dares us to take hold of the sledge of courage and break

through longstanding stones.

Grace invites us to chart new courses

and explore everexpanding regions,

all the while delighting in the unexpected.

While others care more about maintaining the wall

and fearing those who guard it,

grace is constantly looking for ways to freedom.

Grace wants faith to fly,

regardless of what grim-faced officials may

say or think or do.

Grace is the demonstration of Jesus' words:

"If therefore the Son shall make you free,

you shall be free indeed."

—Charles R. Swindoll The Grace Awakening

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Chapter 1

Grace-Its Really Amazing

Selected Scripture

In his book The Vital Balance, Dr. Karl Menninger discusses the
negative personality. Essentially, it is a personality whose first
response is to say no to everything.

To contrast this negative outlook with a positive one toward life,

Menninger tells this story. One day President Thomas Jefferson and
a group of other men were fording a swollen stream on horseback. A
man on the bank of the river waited until several of the men crossed.
Then he waved to Jefferson and asked to be taken across, and the
president gladly obliged.

When the wayfarer reached the other side, one of the men asked,
"Tell me, why did you select the President to ask this favor of?"

The man replied, "I didn't know he was the President. All I know is
that on some faces is written the answer 'No' and on some the answer
'Yes.' His face was one of the latter." 1

That illustration holds a powerful insight: As the face of the moon

reflects the sun, so the face of a person reflects grace. Sometimes that
grace is eclipsed by the sin in our life. Other times it beams full and
radiant. At such shining moments we reflect a glimmer of the Lord
Jesus. That's what the poorest of the poor in India's streets see when
they look up at the wrinkled face of Mother Teresa. They see the eyes
of Jesus, the tears of Jesus, and the smile of Jesus. They see a
reflection of grace.

1. Karl Menninger, with Martin Mayman and Paul Pruyser, The Vital
Balance, Viking Compass ed. (New York, N.Y.: Viking Press, 1967),
pp. 204-5.

What do people see when they look at your face? Do they see the
worries of the world etched in a wrinkled forehead and knitted brow?
Do they see the harshness of the dog-eat-dog business world chiseled
in a stone jaw? Do they see the frazzle of depression and fatigue
scribbled in bloodshot eyes?

If they do, maybe it's time for a face-lift. Maybe it's time for God's
grace to do a mighty work in your life. Grace is really amazing, for it
will not only change the way you look at others but the way others
look at you.

Grace: A Plea for Understanding

When people looked at Jesus, they saw a "y es " f ace > a f ace radiant
with grace and truth (John 1:14, 16).

For the Law was given through Moses; grace and truth were realized
through Jesus Christ, (v. 17)

With the Law came bondage, but with grace comes freedom. In
Christ we see grace incarnate. In every sermon He preached, in every
person He healed, we see the different nuances of this glorious word
grace.

Explanation of the Term

Nowhere in Scripture is a specific definition of grace given. The
Hebrew term is chen, meaning "to bend or stoop." It came to mean
"condescending favor." It is the kindness "shown by a superior to an
inferior, and there is no obligation on the part of the superior to
show this kindness." 2 This meaning is illustrated in God's speaking
to Moses about Israel's inheritance of the Promised Land in Exodus
33:14-19.

And He said, "My presence shall go with you, and I will give you
rest." Then he said to Him, "If Thy presence does not go with us, do
not lead us up from here. For how then can it be known that I have
found favor in Thy sight, I and Thy people? Is it not by Thy going
with us, so that we, I and Thy people, may be distinguished from all
the other people who are upon the face of the earth?"

2. Norman H. Snaith, "Grace," in A Theological Word Book of the

Bible, Macmillan Paperbacks ed., ed. Alan Richardson (New York,
N.Y.: Macmillan Co., 1962), p. 100.

And the Lord said to Moses, "I will also do this thing of which you
have spoken; for you have found favor in My sight, and I have known
you by name." Then Moses said, "I pray Thee, show me Thy glory!"
And He said, "I Myself will make all My goodness pass before you,
and will proclaim the name of the Lord before you; and I will be
gracious to whom I will be gracious, and will show compassion on
whom I will show compassion."

As this passage indicates, grace is favor that is undeserved and

unearned. It is extended fully and freely to those who won't ever be
able to repay it.

Extent of the Truth

The term grace covers a wide range of meanings. But the common
tone that resonates in them all is that of pleasantness. Grace
describes the coordination and fluidity of a dancer or an athlete, a
ballerina as well as a quarterback. Grace can describe a person's
manners and gentility. Grace is the soothing balm that gives comfort
to the downtrodden. Beautiful words are said to be words of grace.
And it is upon this great theological word that our eternal destiny
hangs, for the undeserved favor of God is our only hope of being
accepted by Him.

Interestingly, Jesus never used the term grace. Instead of mouthing

the word, He modeled the reality. The best definition of grace doesn't
come from a dictionary, but from the pages of His own life.

Grace seeps through the text of the woman caught in adultery. It can
be read between every line of every story He told. From the Good
Samaritan to the story of the Prodigal Son, grace can be rubbed off
the pages like newspaper ink. Even in His rebukes, grace softens
every word. When He tells Martha that she is worried and bothered
about so many things, we can hear the plaintive tone of tenderness in
His voice (Luke 10:41).

As we align ourselves to the smooth, gilded pages of the Gospels, the

rough and tattered edges of our lives stand out with glaring
irregularity.

How quick we are to speak the truth, but not in love. How ready we
are to rebuke, but not to restore. How eager we are to barter gossip,
but not to bestow grace.

If this is true of your life, our Lord has something He wants to tell
you.

"Do not judge lest you be judged. For in the way you judge, you will
be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to
you. And why do you look at the speck that is in your brother's eye,
but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say
to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' and behold,
the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of
your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of
your brother's eye." (Matt. 7:1-5)

How haunting are the words of Peter at the end of his second letter:
"but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus
Christ" (3:18a). Don't write this off as a breezy "best wishes" ending,
hastily scribbled before he sealed the envelope. It may be easy to
grow in knowledge—any book or Bible college could help you do that.
But Peter knew that to grow in grace is a graduate school
assignment. Small wonder that Timothy, the freshman pastor, was
instructed by his tutor to "be strong in . . . grace" (2 Tim. 2:1), for it is
the only major that matters when it comes to church work.

Several Scriptural Examples

The Bible is replete with examples of God's grace, not only in the
New Testament but also in the Old.

The idea of grace more than any other idea binds the two Testaments
together into a complete whole, for the Bible is the story of the saving
work of God, that is, of the grace of God. Without grace, there would
never have been any chosen people, any story to tell at all. 3

In the Old Testament

When we think of the Old Testament, we think more about the

justice of God than we do about His mercy. The images we conjure
up are ones of fire and brimstone falling on Sodom and Gomorrah,
rather than sweet manna falling from heaven to feed the children of
Israel in the wilderness.

And yet, the first time the term grace appears is in Genesis 6:8. Here
the Hebrew word chen is rendered "favor."

3. Snaith, "Grace," p. 101.

But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord.

In many of the Old Testament stories grace is so central to the drama

that it resounds in every scene like a strong musical score. Consider
Joseph's treatment of his jealous and ruthless brothers in Genesis 42
—50, especially 45:1-15. Reflect on the gracious way that God dealt
with the Hebrews on their way from Egypt to Canaan in the books of
Exodus and Numbers. Meditate on the deliverance God repeatedly
offered the Hebrews throughout their cycles of rebellion in Judges.
Remember David's gracious treatment of his adversary Saul, even
when he had a golden opportunity for revenge in 1 Samuel 26. Add to
that David's bounteous grace in dealing with Mephibosheth, Saul's
relative in 2 Samuel 9. And then there is God's gracious deliverance
of the recalcitrant prophet Jonah from drowning in Jonah 1:17 and
2:10. Not to mention the grace He showed in the face of the prophet's
anger in chapter 4.

In the Neu> Testament

Gather almost any handful of verses in the New Testament, take a

deep whiff, and you'll find them redolent with grace. Look at
Matthew 9:10-12, for example.

And it happened that as He was reclining at the table in the house,

behold many tax-gatherers and sinners came and were dining with
Jesus and His disciples. And when the Pharisees saw this, they said
to His disciples, "Why is your Teacher eating with the tax-gatherers
and sinners?" But when He heard this, He said, "It is not those who
are healthy who need a physician, but those who are sick."

The seed that Jesus planted in His disciples' minds in Matthew 9

finally took root in Peter's life in Acts 10:28.

And he said to them, "You yourselves know how unlawful it is for a

man who is a Jew to associate with a foreigner or to visit him; and
yet God has shown me that I should not call any man unholy or
unclean." 4

Just like the stuffed-shirted, straight-laced Pharisees in Jesus' time,

there will always be people who do not want you to enjoy

4. See also verses 9-16.

the liberty of God's grace. They will attempt to pour you into their
mold. If you refuse, they'll criticize you. Watch out for them. Their
favorite method is to intimidate you. Their favorite response is to get
you to imitate them. Their favorite objective is to destroy your
freedom by bringing you into subjection.

Some Practical Expectations

Living by grace is our only defense against legalism. And here are
four things you can expect if you live according to the "grace
principle." First, you will have a greater appreciation of the gifts God
has given you. Second, you will spend less time and energy
preoccupied with other people's choices. Third, you will become
more tolerant and joyful while becoming less prejudiced and
judgmental. Fourth, you will take a giant step toward maturity.

Live by grace and, before you know it, your face will begin to show it.
Live by legalism and your face will eventually show its effects too.
The real question you have to ask yourself is this: Do I want to look
like a Pharisee or do I want to look like Jesus?

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Livin g Insi ghts study one

Meditate on the following words by the renowned British theologian

Malcolm Muggeridge.

In the face of a Mother Teresa I trace the very geography of Jesus's

Kingdom; all the contours and valleys and waterways. I need no
other map. . . .

... In the dismal slums of Calcutta a Mother Teresa and her

Missionaries of Charity go about Jesus's work of love with
incomparable dedication. When I think of them, as I have seen them
at their work and at their devotions, I want to put away all the books,
tear up all the scribbled notes. There are no more doubts or
dilemmas; everything is perfectly clear. What commentary or
exposition, however eloquent, lucid, perceptive, inspired even, can
equal in elucidation and illumination the effect of these dedicated
lives? What mind has conceived a discourse, or tongue spoken it,
which conveys even to a minute degree

the light they shine before men? I was an hungred, and ye gave me
meat; 1 was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye
took me in: naked and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: 1
was in prison, and ye came unto me —the words come alive, as no
study or meditation could possibly make them, in the fulfilment in
the most literal sense of Jesus's behest to see in the suffering face of
humanity his suffering face, and in their broken bodies, his. 5

Describe what people see when they look into your face.

What do they see of Jesus' face in yours?

Living Tnsi ghts studytwo

In the windswept harbor of New York City stands a stately lady robed
in the verdigris of weathered copper. Her left arm is wrapped around
a tablet signifying our Declaration of Independence. Her right arm
proudly holds a torch. At her feet lies a broken shackle.

5. Malcolm Muggeridge, )esus: The Man Who Lives (1975; reprint,

New York, N.Y.: Harper and Row, Publishers, 1987), pp. 73, 71.

At the base of the august Statue of Liberty is a bronze tablet inscribed

with these words:

Give me your tired, your poor,

Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free. 6

Lady Liberty echoes Christ's call to the downtrodden two thou-sand

years earlier:

"Come to Me, all you who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give
you rest." (Matt. 11:28)

Are you tired of trying to measure up to someone else's rigid rules for
living life? Do you yearn to be free from all that? Are you weary from
the load some legalistic teacher has placed on your back? Are you
ready for a rest?

If so, listen to what the Savior has to say in the two verses that follow
Matthew 11:28.
"Take My yoke upon you, and learn from Me, for I am gentle and
humble in heart; and you shall find rest for your souls. For my yoke
is easy, and My load is light."

• Is the yoke you're living under one that's been placed there by

□ Your parents? □ A Bible teacher?

□ Your past? □ Jesus?

□ Your church?

• Describe it.

6. Emma Lazarus, "The New Colossus," in Poems That Live Forever,

comp. Hazel Felleman (New York, N.Y.: Doubleday, 1965), n.p.

How can you break free from that yoke?

• From Matthew 11:28—30, what are the responsibilities in following

Christ?

• What are the rewards?

If legalism has kept you on a short leash with a chafing collar, why
not break out of that constricting way of life and learn about grace
from He who was grace incarnate. Remember, He died to set us free,
not to enslave us, as Paul affirms so emphatically in Galatians 5:1.

It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing
firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery.

Chapter 2

The Free Gift

Genesis 11:1-9, Romans 4-5, Ephesians 2

Satan's favorite philosophy filters down to humanity and pollutes the

way it thinks. This philosophy has become the theme of a plethora of
political speeches and the topic of countless commencement
addresses. It is rooted in the academic community 7 . It flowers in
the furrows of prideful minds. And it reaches fruition in the
immaculately manicured gardens oi many writers and poets.

One such poet, William Ernest Henley, represents this philosophy in

his poem "Invictus."

Out oi the night that covers me,

Black as the Pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be

For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance

I have not winced nor cried aloud. Under the bludgeonings oi chance

My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place oi wrath and tears

Looms but the Horror of the shade, And yet the menace oi the years

Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,

How charged with punishments the scroll,

I am the master oi my fate:

I am the captain of my soul. 1

What is this philosophy? The myth oi human self-sufficiency, one oi

the grand illusions oi our time . . . and one oi the greatest heresies.

1. William Ernest Henley, "Invictus," in The Best Loted Poems of the

American People, comp. Hazel Felleman (Garden City, N.Y.: Garden
City Publishing Co.. 1936), p. 73.
Warning: Heresy on the Loose

The seed of this enticing heresy was first sown in the Garden of Eden
by Satan himself. Beguiled by the promises of the serpent, Adam and
Eve took the fruit of the forbidden tree and ate. And the world has
been suffering from food poisoning ever since.

What is this heresy of self-sufficiency? It is an emphasis on what we

do for God instead of what God does and has done for us. It may
sound harmless, but if you feed on that philosophy very long, it will
satiate you with yourself, and you'll become so full you won't feel any
hunger for God.

How does this heresy think? Genesis 11 provides an excellent

example. In ancient times, before there were languages and dialects
and before people were divided into tribes and nations, humanity
was one, indivisible mass. By unanimous vote, this prodigious union
embarked on an equally prodigious building project.

Now the whole earth used the same language and the same words.
And it came about as they jour-neyed east, that they found a plain in
the land of Shinar and settled there. And they said to one another,
"Come, let us make bricks and burn them thoroughly." And they used
brick for stone, and they used tar for mortar. And they said, "Come
let us build for ourselves a city, and a tower whose top will reach into
heaven, and let us make for ourselves a name; lest we be scattered
abroad over the face of the whole earth." (vv. 1-4)

Note the emphasis on human effort and reputation: "let us make

bricks and burn them ... let us build for ourselves a city, and a tower
... let us make for ourselves a name."

The Living Bible calls this tower "a proud, eternal monument to
themselves." It was to be a tower whose top would reach into heaven
(v. 4). The verse literally says, "with its top in the heavens." 2
Somehow the upper part of this tower would be accompanied with
the heavens. But what is the meaning of this cryptic description?
Archeology may have unearthed the answer.
A number of years ago, extensive diggings were conducted in the
region of Shinar (v. 2) that uncovered several ziggurats—cone-

2. U. Cassuto, A Commentary on the Book of Genesis, pt. 2, From

Noah to Abraham, trans. Israel Abrahams (Jerusalem, Israel: The
Magnes Press, The Hebrew University, 1964), p. 242.

shaped towers with spiral staircases wrapped around them. One of

these ziggurats stood out above all the rest. In the uppermost stones
were etched signs of the zodiac and astral figures. This mural was a
representation of the heavens and formed something of a religious
shrine. For those star worshipers, it was a way they could cling to
religion without emptying their hands of their works. It was a way
they could give nodding assent to a higher deity without having to
abdicate the throne of their hearts.

What was the Lord's reaction to this high-handed heresy?

And the Lord came down to see the city and the tower which the sons
of men had built. And the Lord said, "Behold, they are one people,
and they all have the same language. And this is what they began to
do, and now nothing which they purpose to do will be impossible for
them. Come, let Us go down and there confuse their language, that
they may not understand one another's speech." So the Lord
scattered them abroad from there over the face of the whole earth;
and they stopped building the city. Therefore its name was called
Babel, because there the Lord confused the language of the whole
earth; and from there the Lord scattered them abroad over the face
of the whole earth, (vv. 5-9)

Due to the babbling incoherence of the workers, the construction

project lurched to a halt. It's interesting, though, that God did not
destroy the tower. Instead, He left it as a mute reminder of the
futility of that heresy and as a towering indictment against a religion
of human works.

Defending: Truth on the Scaffold

To warn of the heresy of human works is not enough. We must also
defend the truth that has been dethroned. James Russell Lowell, a
contemporary of William Ernest Henley, speaks of dethroned truth
in a poem of hope.

Truth forever on the scaffold, Wrong forever on the

throne— Yet that scaffold sways the future, and, behind the

dim unknown,

Standeth God within the shadow, keeping watch above his own. 3

At the heart of defending the truth of God's sufficiency is a single

word, pulsating with life— grace.

One of the most compelling examples of grace in the Bible is

Abraham. If ever there was a man who could have pulled himself up
by the bootstraps of his own works, it was Abraham. He was wealthy,
well-respected, and had a wonderful wife. Yet he was still completely
without hope of ever earning God's favor.

Then, out of the clear blue sky, God reached down and sovereignly
chose him. A choice that was made not on the basis of works but
grace.

What then shall we say that Abraham, our forefather according to the
flesh, has found? For if Abraham was justified by works, he has
something to boast about; but not before God. For what does the
Scripture say? 'And Abraham believed God, and it was reckoned to
him as righteousness." (Rom. 4:1-3)

Qod's Work . . . Not Human Effort

What was it that justified Abraham before God? His social standing?
His sincerity? His service? No, none of these even moved the scale so
much as a millimeter, as Donald Barnhouse notes in his
commentary.
The day came when, in the accounting of God, ungodly Abraham was
suddenly declared righteous. There was nothing in Abraham that
caused the action; it began in God and went out to the man in
sovereign grace. Upon a sinner the righteousness of God was placed.
In the accounting the very righteousness of God was reckoned,
credited, and imputed. The Lord God Himself, by an act of grace
moved by His sovereign love, stooped to the record and blotted out
everything that was against Abraham, and then wrote down on the
record that He, God, counted, reckoned, credited, imputed this

3. Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 15th ed., rev. and enl., ed. Emily
Morison Beck (Boston, Mass.: Little, Brown and Co., 1980), p. 567.

man Abraham to be perfect even at a moment when Abraham was

ungodly in himself. That is justification. 4

The next two verses in Romans state it even more clearly.

Now to the one who works, his wage is not reckoned as a favor, but
as what is due. But to the one who does not work, but believes in
Him who justifies the ungodly, his faith is reckoned as righteousness,
(w. 4-5)

Our earthly economy is built on a system of rewards for work

rendered. You work, you earn a wage. The harder and longer you
work, the more wages you earn. God's economy is built on the
opposite premise. Grace is not something you work for. It's not
something you earn. It's a gift (Eph. 2:8-9). Consequently, there's no
room for boasting, all the credit goes to God.

The thief on the cross is a classic example that God's grace is not
based on effort. Not only did the thief do no work, he couldn't have if
he tried. All he could do while he was hanging on that cross was
believe (Luke 23:39-43).

Free Qift . . . Not Earned Wage

Continuing the discussion of grace in Romans 5:1, Paul leaves the

example of Abraham and makes an application to us.
Therefore having been justified by faith, we have peace with God
through our Lord Jesus Christ.

The verse affirms that we are justified by faith—not works. The result
is that we have "peace with God." The means is "through our Lord
Jesus Christ."

And why do we need this "peace with God"? Because Adam's fall was
the Pandora's box that released sin into the world, infecting every
man, woman, and child.

Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and
death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned
—for until the

4. Donald Grey Barnhouse, God's Remedy; God's River (1954, 1959;

reprint, Grand Rapids, Mich.: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co.,
1973), vol. 2, p. 208.

Law sin was in the world; but sin is not imputed when there is no
law. Nevertheless death reigned from Adam until Moses, even over
those who had not sinned in the likeness of the offense of Adam, who
is a type of Him who was to come. (5:12-14)

As a microbiologist isolates and classifies a vims to differentiate it

from healthy cells, so the Law isolates and classifies sin. It shows sin
to be a deadly transgression against God's will. In doing so, the Law
intensifies our guilt and adds insult to our already injured
consciences. Just as a Keep Off the Grass sign increases our desire to
trespass, so the Law stimulates our desire to sin (v. 20a).

But the good news is that there's a cure to this deadly epidemic.

So then as through one transgression there resulted condemnation to

all men, even so through one act of righteousness there resulted
justification of life to all men. For as through the one man's
disobedience the many were made sinners, even so through the
obedience of the One the many will be made righteous, (vv. 18-19)
The Law was never meant to be a ziggurat of moral steps to climb our
way to heaven. It was meant to be a light to reveal the sin that
cowered in the dusty corners and dark closets of our lives. But the
Law could only reveal. It couldn't rescue.

Seeing us in bondage to our sin and shackled to our selfish ways,

grace came to the rescue. Grace was the key in the hand of God that
unlocked our prison door and set us free.

But where sin increased, grace abounded all the more, that, as sin
reigned in death, even so grace might reign through righteousness to
eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. (vv. 20b—21)

No matter how formidable the stone walls of sin that surround us,
God's grace is more formidable. No matter how stalwart the iron
cells that imprison us, God's grace is more stalwart. No matter how
sure the shackles that bind us, God's grace is surer still.

Explaining: Grace for the Sinful

The final passage we want to look at today is Ephesians 2, which both

diagnoses our condition and dispenses a prescription.

Our Condition

If you embrace a humanistic philosophy of life, Ephesians 2 will

come as a bracing affront.

And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, in which you
formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to
the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in
the sons of disobedience. Among them we too all formerly lived in
the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the
mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest. (vv. 1-
3)

Not a very flattering picture, is it? Skip down to verse 12 and the
picture gets even bleaker.
Remember that you were at that time separate from Christ, excluded
from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers to the covenants of
promise, having no hope and without God in the world.

Separated . . . excluded . . . strangers ... no hope. What a desperate

condition. Hardly something you'd find in The Humanist Manifesto.

Qod's Solution

Our condition is bad news, like a doctor telling us we have a terminal

disease. But the gospel is good news, and that's found beginning in
verse 4.

But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which
He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us
alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised
us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the heavenly places, in
Christ Jesus, in order that in the ages to come He might show the
surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.
For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of
yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, that no one
should boast, (vv. 4-9)

We are not invincible captains of our souls as William Henley says.

We cannot strut through the stanzas of "Invictus" with our heads
held high. Our salvation is a gift of God, not of works, and we have no
room to boast. Instead we should bow our heads in homage to the
One who is the true captain of our souls—Jesus Christ.

Out of the light that dazzles me,

Bright as the sun from pole to pole, I thank the God I know to be

For Christ the conqueror of my soul.

Since His the sway of circumstance,

I would not wince nor cry aloud. Under that rule which men call
chance
My head with joy is humbly bowed.

Beyond this place of sin and tears

That life with Him! And His the aid, Despite the menace of the years,

Keeps, and shall keep me, unafraid.

I have no fear, though strait the gate, He cleared from punishment

the scroll.

Christ is the Master of my fate,

Christ is the Captain of my soul. 5

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The cornerstone of the American work ethic is a reliance on our own

effort, on pulling ourselves up by our own bootstraps. Our favorite
verse is: "God helps those who help themselves."

The only problem is that this verse isn't found in the Bible. It's found
in Poor Richard's Almanac, written by Benjamin Franklin. 6

5. Dorothea Day, "My Captain," in Best Loved Poems of the

American People, pp. 73-74.

6. The saying is not original with Franklin but is an echo from one of
Aesop's fables, "Hercules and the Wagoner." Further research
indicates that Aesop cribbed it from the Greek philosophers.
Aeschylus (525-456 B.C.), for example, said: "God loves to help him
who strives to help himself." Euripides (485-406 B.C.) voiced a
similar philosophy: "Try first thyself, and after call in God; / For to
the worker God himself lends aid." See Bartlett's Familiar
Quotations, pp. 347, 66.

Let's turn to some genuine Bible verses to find out what God has to
say about Franklin's creed. As you look up the following passages,
summarize what each has to say.

1 Corinthians 1:26-29

Galatians 2:16

2 Timothy 1:9

Now use those passages to articulate a response to Poor Richard's

philosophy.

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If the grace of God comes to us apart from human effort, does that
mean we are justified in becoming "couch-potato" Christians?

• Look up Ephesians 2:8-10, and describe "works" in their proper

context.

• What is the purpose of good works (see Matt. 5:14-16)?

What is the source of our good works (see John 15:1-5, Phil. 2:13)?

What is the motivation for our works (see Matt. 25:14-30, 2 Cor. 5:9-
10, Col. 3:23-24)?

Chapter 3

Isn't Grace Risky?

Romans 6:1-15; 14

Sermons about salvation by grace alone often open a can of

theological worms that wriggle their way into our minds. Isn't the
gospel of grace risky? we ask ourselves as we squirm in our pews.

Certainly it is. Martyn Lloyd-Jones, pastor of England's Westminster

Chapel for thirty years, noted this risk in his commentary on
Romans.
If it is true that where sin abounded grace has much more abounded,
well then, 'shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound yet
further?'

First of all let me make a comment, to me a very important and vital

comment. The true preaching of the gospel of salvation by grace
alone always leads to the possibility of this charge being brought
against it. There is no better test as to whether a man is really
preaching the New Testament gospel of salvation than this, that
some people might misunderstand it and misinterpret it to mean
that it really amounts to this, that because you are saved by grace
alone it does not matter at all what you do; you can go on sinning as
much as you like because it will redound all the more to the glory of
grace. That is a very good test of gospel preaching. If my preaching
and presentation of the gospel of salvation does not expose it to that
misunderstanding, then it is not the gospel. 1

If a pastor preaches legalism—a message of salvation based on the

merits of one's works—no one will ever bring that charge against
him. But if he preaches grace—salvation by faith alone—then that is
risky homiletical business.

1. D. M. Lloyd-Jones, Romans: An Exposition of Chapter 6, The New

Man (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Zondervan Publishing House, 1972), p.
8.

The Reality of the Risk

In order for anyone to stand before a just and holy God, that person
must be righteous. Hence the need for justification.

Therefore having been justified by faith, we have peace with God

through our Lord Jesus Christ. (Rom. 5:1)

Justification is a theological word we often take for granted with-out

taking the time to define. It refers to the sovereign act of God
whereby He declares righteous the believing sinner while he or she is
still in a state of sin. It doesn't mean that the believing sinner stops
sinning or that the believing sinner is made righteous, in the sense of
being perfected. It means the person is declared righteous. It is a
judicial pronouncement made on the basis of Christ's righteousness
and His substitutionary death on the cross.

To believe by grace and to live by grace include the reality of risk.

Most people find this uncomfortable. Most want some moral report
card that objectively measures their progress. Works provide that.
But if works are not the basis of our relationship with God, then
there is no external proof of salvation or spirituality. If, on the other
hand, grace is the basis of our relationship with God, then the reality
of our faith is internal It can be seen—and judged—only by God.

To be sure, there are those who abuse this doctrine, saying they have
truly believed when they have not. And some live on the edge, flirting
with the world and squandering their spiritual inheritance in
prodigal indulgence. But abuse is part of the risk that grace has
chosen to take.

The fear of its abuse is what causes many ministers to refrain from
emphasizing grace. As a result, they emphasize works, provide
performance lists for people to live up to, leave no room for gray
areas, and cultivate judgmental attitudes toward those who may not
agree with them.

Such constricting yokes are often an attempt to keep their

parishioners in line. But the line is not one marked by Scripture. It is
a legalistic line drawn more from the personal preferences of the
pastor or from the congregation itself.

That is not the yoke the Lord Jesus offers (Matt. 11:28-30). He said,
"You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. ... If
therefore the Son shall make you free, you shall be free indeed"
(John 8:32, 36).

All of this newfound freedom comes to us by grace. God gives us

grace to believe—a faith that is not deserved; and He gives us grace
to live—a lifestyle that is not dictated.

The Inescapable Tension

Because of grace we have been freed from sin's slavery, from
bondage to sinful attitudes, urges, and actions. But that creates a
tension. Once we become free in Christ and live by grace, we can take
our liberty to an extreme and live a life of license. Paul addresses this
tension in Romans 6:1-15.

What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace might
increase? May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in
it? Or do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into
Christ Jesus have been baptized into His death? Therefore we have
been buried with Him through baptism into death, in order that as
Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so
we too might walk in newness of life. For if we have become united
with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall be also in
the likeness of His resurrection, knowing this, that our old self was
crucified with Him, that our body of sin might be done away with,
that we should no longer be slaves to sin; for he who has died is freed
from sin. Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall
also live with Him, knowing that Christ, having been raised from the
dead, is never to die again; death no longer is master over Him. For
the death that He died, He died to sin, once for all; but the life that
He lives, He lives to God. Even so consider yourselves to be dead to
sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus.

Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body that you should
obey its lusts, and do not go on presenting the members of your body
to sin as instruments of unrighteousness; but present yourselves to
God as those alive from the dead, and your members as instruments
of righteousness to God. For sin shall not be master over you, for you
are not under law, but under grace.

What then? Shall we sin because we are not under law but under
grace? May it never be!

The freedom we have in Christ is not a freedom to do anything we

want to do, but to be everything God created us to be. Before our
conversion we were enslaved to sin. Since then, we've become
emancipated—not to run riot through the dead-end alleyways of self-
indulgence, but to serve a greater master . . . righteousness (see v.
18).

Maybe an illustration would help bring the concept down to earth.

Suppose you were given the keys to a new car whose speedometer
went to 120 mph. Does it follow that you have the right to race
through the streets with reckless abandon? To go on a joyride that
jeopardizes the safety of everyone you go speeding past? No,
certainly not. That's why Paul warned the Galatians to steer their
freedom in another direction.

For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your
freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one
another. (Gal. 5:13)

Joyous Benefits of Being Liberated

With our freedom in Christ come several exciting benefits. We are no

longer bound by our fleeting impulses or our flaming desires. We are
free to make good, objective choices. We are able to think
independently without the tyranny of needing to compare ourselves
with others. And we are able to grow toward greater flexibility and
maturity into the person God created us to be.

Telltale Signs of Being Irresponsible

Freedom—whether we're talking about it in the political realm or in

the moral realm—doesn't imply freedom from responsibility. Some
Christians, however, have interpreted their freedom in Christ to be
absolute, without restraint and without responsibility to others.

These libertarians are easy to spot. They have a lack of love and
concern for others. They rationalize sin. They are unwilling to be
accountable. They resist anyone getting close enough to give them
advice. And they disregard new converts and those weak in the faith.

Essential Necessity of Balance

Romans 14 talks a lot about responsibility to those with a weaker

faith. It also has a lot to say about balance. The important thing
is not to adopt someone else's convictions, but to work out your own
convictions (see vv. 1-5, 13-14, 19, 22-23).

How do you do this? Picture grace as a tightrope. It's risky stepping

out. Understandably, you're afraid. Especially since there are very
few hard-and-fast rules to follow. Really, there are only two. The first
is to get over the fear of heights, of walking without the safety of well-
traveled ground underneath you. The second is to maintain your
balance.

God wants you to be sensitive to other people's convictions, but He

doesn't want you to be blown off the high wire by the strong winds of
other people's opinions. Balance is the only way to survive. And to
maintain balance, you have to have a strong center of gravity. To
keep that center of gravity in place, you constantly need to think
about your life in light of these questions:

Is this my conviction before God (Rom. 14:22a)? Do I have an inner

peace and pleasure in it (v. 22b) ? Am I free of doubt (v. 23)?

Practical Suggestions for Guarding against Extremes

Legalism and license lie on opposite extremes. In the middle is love—

love for God and love for other people. To live your life in that middle
ground of grace, you need balance. Here are three suggestions to
help you strike that balance in your life.

First: Enjoy the freedom grace provides. You may have difficulty at
first stepping beyond the No Trespassing signs some legalists have
put in your way. But there's no reason to feel guilty or afraid. Simply
give yourself the permission to be free, to walk without the fear of
someone looking over your shoulder (compare Gal. 2:4).

Second: Treat grace as an undeserved privilege rather than an

exclusive right Live gratefully, not arrogantly. Have fun, but don't
flaunt it. It's all in the attitude, really. It has little to do with what we
buy or how we dress or what movies we allow ourselves to see.

Third: Remember that while grace came to you freely, it cost the
Savior His life. There was no cheap grace that flowed from the veins
of Christ on the cross. Each drop was of incalculable value to the
Father. And if you so value that gift, you will never have to worry
about abusing grace. Remember, He died that you might live . . . and
that you might live free.

Living by grace is risky. At first the tightrope looks like a thin thread
stretched in front of you. You look down, and the height makes you
light-headed. You step out on that rope, and your legs wobble like a
newborn colt, with gusts of wind making you teeter.

How do you conquer that fear of walking by grace? You conquer it

one step at a time. Practice, won't you, on the tightrope that runs
through Romans 14.

• What two controversial issues are addressed in the passage?

1.

2.

• Can different convictions be equally acceptable before God?

Support your answer from verses in the passage.

What is important to God about your convictions i

• How should the more mature believer respond to the believer who
is still struggling to get a firm footing in the faith?

• What danger does the stronger believer face in focusing on the

weaker believer's opinions?

What danger does the weaker believer face in focusing on the

stronger believer's opinions?

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What should the guiding principle be in your relationship with all
believers, even if their convictions are diametrically opposed

to yours?

Why is passing judgment on another person's opinions

presumptuous?

List some gray-area issues that might be mentioned in Romans 14 if

the letter were written today.

Which of those issues causes the most controversy between you and
other believers?

In light of Romans 14, what adjustments should you make in your

attitude toward other believers who stand on the opposite side of the
fence?

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People come up with lists for a number of reasons. Sometimes a list

is merely for organizational purposes. Sometimes it's to keep us from
harm, like the list of precautions on a bottle of medicine. Sometimes,
however, the list is written as a kind of yardstick that we're required
to stand under so that others can measure our spiritual progress.
This list of "Thou shalts" and "Thou shalt nots" may be written,
spoken, or simply communicated with a raised eyebrow. But
whatever form the list takes, it's legalism—and it's lethal to your
spiritual life.

Let's take a few minutes to reflect on any legalistic lists that may have
controlled your life in the past. Write down the lists of binding but
nonbiblical constraints that you were forced to conform to as you
were growing up.

From Your Parents

From Your Peer Group

From Your Church

From Your School

From Yourself

Of those you wrote down, which ones still follow you around and wag
a finger when you don't measure up?

Which one most limits your freedom in Christ and keeps you from
growing in grace?

Take a moment now to listen to Christ carefully and prayerfully,

asking Him what you need to do to free yourself from that chafing
wooden yoke of legalism. Write down any liberating thoughts He
may bring to mind.

Chapter 4

Undeserving, Yet Unconditionally Loved

2 Samuel 9

To many people, grace is little more than something said before

dinner. To others, the word is applied to a coordinated gymnast who
moves through the air with fluid ease. Sometimes it's used as a verb
to describe the presence of nobility at a gathering: "The queen graced
the meeting with her presence." Other times it refers to a genteel
quality. And at still other times it's used as a name for a baby girl. All
of these usages, however, pale by comparison to the richness and
splendor of the word as it's used in Scripture.

Biblically, grace means "unmerited favor." It is our only hope as

sinful human beings. And it is the method we are to use when
relating to others.

Listen to the words of the apostle Paul as he described the very

transformation of his life brought about by God's grace.
For I am the least of the apostles, who am not fit to be called an
apostle, because I persecuted the church of God. But by the grace of
God I am what I am, and His grace toward me did not prove vain;
but I labored even more than all of them, yet not I, but the grace of
God with me. (1 Cor. 15:9-10)

Grace transformed Paul from an archenemy of the Christian faith to

its staunchest defender; from a rigid, legalistic Pharisee to a
compassionate, Christlike person. God's grace can do the same for
us. There is no heart so hard that His grace cannot soften it, no life so
low that His grace cannot lift it to exalted heights.

Reaffirming the Truth of Grace

If we were to sum up Paul's credo on grace, we could do so in three

single-syllable statements:

1. God does what He does by grace.

2. I am what I am by the grace of God.

3. I let you be what you are by the grace of God.

Isn't that generous? Who couldn't flourish in soil like that?

We, however, unlike our Lord, prefer to give people what we think
they deserve rather than going beyond that and giving what may be
undeserved. We like the sermon from Sinai rather than the Sermon
on the Mount. We like the idea of "an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a
tooth" rather than turning the other cheek (Matt. 5:38-39). And we
like performing moral make-overs on people, which are little more
than cosmetic in nature. Take the example cited by Elisabeth Elliot in
The Liberty of Obedience. She writes about a young man eager to
follow Christ. Here are the worldly things he was told to forsake in
order to follow Christ.

"Colored clothes, for one thing. Get rid of everything in your

wardrobe that is not white. Stop sleeping on a soft pillow. Sell your
musical instruments and don't eat any more white bread. You
cannot, if you are sincere about obeying Christ, take warm baths or
shave your beard. To shave is to lie against Him who created us, to
attempt to improve on His work." 1

Sounds absurd, doesn't it? Even comical. But hold onto your hair,
lest this blow you away: this was the list given in the most acclaimed
Christian schools in the second century!

Before we roll on the floor howling with laughter, what do you think
our own list of legalistic rules will sound like to those who are a few
generations in the future? What list of do's and don'ts have we
concocted? What merit badges must others earn to be accepted into
our circle of conditional love? A more trenchant question: Who gave
us the right to give to someone else the rules to live by?

We need a grace awakening, don't we?

For there to be genuine growth, people must be given space, even

room to fail. If they are to ever walk by grace, they must be allowed
the freedom to fall on their faces. For it is in stumbling that we learn
to walk safely. Grace must be risked, or we'll produce Christians with
stunted growth who can't think for themselves and who are forced to
live under the tyranny of another's expectations and demands.

1. Quoted by Jackie Hudson in Doubt: A Road to Growth (San

Bernardino, Calif.: Here's Life Publishers, 1987), p. 105.

Considering an Example of Grace

It's one thing to talk about grace; it's another thing to see it enfleshed
in a person's life. One of the greatest examples of grace can be seen
in the Old Testament in the kindness that David showed to
Jonathan's son, Mephibosheth.

In a brutal era when deposed monarchs and their families were

exterminated, David would soon be given the throne of King Saul. In
what was to be their final battle with the Philistines, both Saul and
his son Jonathan were killed. This grieved David greatly, since
Jonathan was David's closest friend. The chaos that followed in the
wake of that battle caused the family of Saul to flee like frightened
field mice. This is the tragic account of one of those who fled.
Now Jonathan, Saul's son, had a son crippled in his feet. He was five
years old when the report of Saul and Jonathan came from Jezreel,
and his nurse took him up and fled. And it happened that in her
hurry to flee, he fell and became lame. And his name was
Mephibosheth. (2 Sam. 4:4)

A Question Asked

In 2 Samuel 9 the story continues. Mephibosheth is now an adult,

crippled in both feet. David is not only reigning in all the land, but he
is reigning in the hearts of the people. His kingdom has been blessed
by God, both on the battlefield and in the fields of the nation's
farmers. While reflecting on the abundance of God's blessing, he
remembers another blessing God has given him— Jonathan.

Nostalgic about his friendship with Jonathan, the king recalls a vow
that the two of them made many years ago.

Then Jonathan said to David, . . . "If it please my father to do you

harm, may the Lord do so to Jonathan and more also, if I do not
make it known to you and send you away, that you may go in safety.
And may the Lord be with you as He has been with my father. And if
I am still alive, will you not show me the lovingkindness of the Lord,
that I may not die? And you shall not cut off your lovingkindness
from my house forever, not even when the Lord cuts off every one of
the enemies of David from the face

of the earth." So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David,

saying, "May the Lord require it at the hands of David's enemies."
And Jonathan made David vow again because of his love for him,
because he loved him as he loved his own life. (1 Sam. 20:12-17)

That memory flashes across David's mind, prompting him to ask:

"Is there yet anyone left of the house of Saul, that I may show him
kindness for Jonathan's sake?" (2 Sam. 9:1)

The Hebrew word translated "kindness" is chesed. In the Old

Testament it's often rendered as "mercy," "lovingkindness," or
"grace." Basking in the kindness that God has shown him, David is
moved to pass along the undeserved favor. When he looks around for
a beneficiary of that kindness, he doesn't look for someone who is
deserving, qualified, or worthwhile. He looks for anyone in Saul's
house.

Now there was a servant of the house of Saul whose name was Ziba,
and they called him to David; and the king said to him, 'Are you
Ziba?" And he said, "I am your servant." And the king said, "Is there
not yet anyone of the house of Saul to whom I may show the
kindness of God?" And Ziba said to the king, "There is still a son of
Jonathan who is crippled in both feet." So the king said to him,
"Where is he?" And Ziba said to the king, "Behold, he is in the house
of Machir the son of Ammiel in Lo-debar." (vv. 2-4, emphasis added)

The word Lo-debar comes from two Hebrew words, lo, which means
"no," and debar, which means "pasture." It refers to a barren,
desolate place, a wasteland.

A Cripple Sought

This wasteland was the last place Mephibosheth ever thought he

would hear from a king. But one fine day David's royal summons
shows up at his doorstep.

Then King David sent and brought him from the house of Machir the
son of Ammiel, from Lo-debar.

And Mephibosheth, the son of Jonathan the son of Saul, came to

David and fell on his face and prostrated himself. And David said,
"Mephibosheth." And he said, "Here is your servant!" (vv. 5-6)

This helpless cripple fell on his face in the trembling awareness that
all descendants of previous dynasties were customarily exterminated.
He most surely thought that he would never get up from that floor
alive.

A Privilege Provided

The words that reach Mephibosheth's ears are not ones of judgment
but of mercy. David had not come to kill but to be kind.
And David said to him, "Do not fear, for I will surely show kindness
to you for the sake of your father Jonathan, and will restore to you all
the land of your grandfather Saul; and you shall eat at my table
regularly." (v. 7)

Notice that there's no mention of individual merit on

Mephibosheth's part that he should deserve such kindness. Then it
wouldn't be grace. Grace is acceptance without reservation,
forgiveness without condemnation, pardon without probation. It is
unconditional, unrestrained love.

The result of this outpouring of grace? Check out verses 8-13.

Again he prostrated himself and said, "What is your servant, that you
should regard a dead dog like me?" Then the king called Saul's
servant Ziba, and said to him, 'All that belonged to Saul and to all his
house I have given to your master's grandson. And you and your sons
and your servants shall cultivate the land for him, and you shall
bring in the produce so that your master's grandson may have food;
nevertheless Mephibosheth your master's grandson shall eat at my
table regularly." Now Ziba had fifteen sons and twenty servants.
Then Ziba said to the king, 'According to all that my lord the king
commands his servant so your servant will do." So Mephibosheth ate
at David's table as one of the king's sons. And Mephibosheth had a
young son whose name was Mica. And all who lived in the house of
Ziba were

servants to Mephibosheth. So Mephibosheth lived in Jerusalem, for

he ate at the king's table regularly. Now he was lame in both feet.

Initially, Mephibosheth recoils from the generosity of the king,

thinking himself too worthless a creature to receive such favor. But
David lifts the crippled man from his prostrate position and seats
him at the royal table, a table of uninterrupted provisions and
continual nourishment.

Imagine the seating arrangements years from then. The dinner bell
would ring and in would come the king to sit at the head of the table.
Seated to his left was Amnon . . . next to him, the lovely and gracious
Tamar . . . across from them Solomon, intelligent and inquisitive . . .
Absalom with his flowing black hair cascading down his shoulders . .
. the muscular, bronzed Joab, commander of the troops . . . then
hobbling in on a pair of crutches is Mephibosheth, clump, clump,
clump.

Amazing grace, how sweet the sound . . . and nobody knew that
sound better than Mephibosheth.

Seeing the Analogies of Grace

There are at least eight analogies between the grace that David
showed to Mephibosheth and the grace that God has extended to us.

1. Once Mephibosheth had enjoyed fellowship with his father, and so

had humanity in the Garden of Eden.

2. When disaster struck, fear came, and Mephibosheth suffered a fall

that crippled him for the rest of his life. Similarly, when sin came,
humanity suffered a fall, which has left us permanently crippled.

3. Out of unconditional love for his friend Jonathan, David sought

out anyone to whom he might extend his grace. In a similar manner,
God, because of His unconditional love for His Son and acceptance of
His Son's death on the cross, continues to seek anyone to whom He
might extend His grace.

4. The crippled man was destitute and undeserving. All he could do

was accept the king's favor. So, also, we sinners are undeserving and
without hope. In no way are we worthy of our King's favor. All we can
do is humbly accept it.

5. The king took the crippled Mephibosheth from a barren wasteland

and seated him at the royal banquet table in the palace.

God, our Father, has done the same for us. He rescued us from our
own personal Lo-debar, from a moral wasteland, and He seated us in
a place of spiritual nourishment and intimacy.
6. David adopted Mephibosheth into his royal family, providing him
with every blessing within the palace. We also have been adopted
into a family—God's family. And He gives us full privileges within
His household.

7. Mephibosheth's limp was a constant reminder of David's grace. So

also, our moral feebleness keeps us from ever forgetting that where
sin abounds, grace abounds that much more.

8. When Mephibosheth sat at the king's table, he was treated with

the same respect and given the same privileges as David's own sons.
And when we one day attend the great wedding feast of the Lamb,
the same will be true for us as well. We will sit with prophets and
priests, apostles and evangelists, pastors and missionaries. We will
dine with everyone from Peter to Corrie ten Boom. And we will be
there with them because that same tablecloth of grace covers all our
feet.

When we, as cripples, sit at that royal banquet table in heaven, we

will have so much to be thankful for. And all our praise will go to the
Lord Jesus, who is grace incarnate.

Thou Son of the Blessed! what grace was manifest in thy

condescension! Grace brought thee down from heaven; grace
stripped thee of thy glory; grace made thee poor and despicable;
grace made thee bear such burdens of sin, such burdens of sorrow,
such burdens of God's curse, as are unspeakable! O Son of God!
grace was in all thy tears! grace came bubbling out of thy side with
thy blood! grace came forth with every word of thy sweet mouth! . . .
grace came out where the whip smote thee, where the thorn pricked
thee, where the nails and spear pierced thee! O blessed Son of God!
here is grace indeed! unsearchable riches of grace! unthought of
riches of grace! grace to make angels wonder, grace to make sinners
happy, grace to astonish devils! 2

2. John Bunyan, Saved by Grace (Philadelphia, Pa.: American Baptist

Publication Society, 1852), p. 33.

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STUDY ONE

The whole idea of legalistic lists sounds silly when we read them out
loud:

• Give up colored clothes.

• Give up sleeping on a soft pillow.

• Give up taking warm baths.

Yet just such stringent standards form the increments on the

yardstick that many people use to measure their commitment to
Christ. If those standards had been acceptable to God, the Pharisees
would have been spiritual giants. But it is not what we give up for
Christ that matters; it is what we give. And what we are to give is our
hearts—completely and passionately.

Look up Luke 7:36-50. Contrast the Pharisee with the repentant

woman.

Pharisee Repentant Woman

Which person was the most respected in the community?

Which one was most revered by Christ? Why?.

Describe the relationship between love and forgiveness.

From James 4:6, why is grace shown to the repentant woman but not
the Pharisee?

For another example similar to the one of the Pharisee and the
repentant woman, see Luke 18:9-14. Which of the two people was a
legalist?

Which one gained the approval of God?

Which one best describes your life?

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STUDY TWO

Describe an incident in your past where someone showed you

undeserved kindness.

How did it affect your feelings toward that person?

Now describe an incident in your past where someone judged you

harshly by a rigid set of legalistic standards.

How did it affect your feelings toward that person?

Has there been a time when God showered you with kindness the
way David did Mephibosheth? Describe it.

If so, how did that act of kindness affect your relationship with God?

To conclude your study, meditate on a few passages of Scripture that

highlight God's kindness: Psalms 103 and 136, Romans 2:4.

Chapter 5

Squaring Off Against Legalism

Galatians 1-2

tberty is worth fighting for. Just ask Patrick Henry, whose fiery /
rhetoric ignited the Virginia Convention on March 23, 1775, and
inflamed the American Revolution.

If we wish to be free ... we must fight! I repeat it, sir, we must fight!
An appeal to arms, and to the God of hosts, is all that is left us. . . .

... It is vain, sir, to extenuate the matter. The gentlemen may cry,
Peace, peace! but there is no peace. The war has actually begun! . . .
Our bretlv ren are already in the field! Why stand we here idle? ... Is
life so dear or peace so sweet as to be purchased at the price of chains
and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God. I know not what course others
may take, but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!'

Ninety years later the fight for liberty continued as the United States
found its swords drawn in a civil war over the issue of slavery. On
November 5, 1864, Charles Sumner drew the battle lines be-tween
the two warring sides.

Where Slavery is, there Liberty cannot be; and where Liberty is, there
Slavery cannot be. 2

What is so clear with regard to our country, however, is not always so

clear with regard to our Christianity. S. Lewis Johnson, Jr., helps
bring the threat to our faith's freedom into focus.

One of the most serious problems facing the orthodox Christian

church today is the problem of legalism. One of the most serious
problems facing

1. Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 15th ed., rev. and enl., ed. Emily
Morison Beck (Boston, Mass.: Little, Brown and Co., 1980), p. 383.

2. Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, p. 539.

the church in Paul's day was the problem of legalism. In every day it
is the same. Legalism wrenches the joy of the Lord from the
Christian believer, and with the joy of the Lord goes his power for
vital worship and vibrant service. Nothing is left but cramped,
somber, dull and listless profession. The truth is betrayed, and the
glorious name of the Lord becomes a synonym for a gloomy kill-joy.
The Chris-tian under law is a miserable parody of the real thing. 3

If that last sentence describes you, it's time to square off against
legalism. Because if you want to be free, you're gonna have to fight!

Defining Two Significant Terms

So that the distinction between liberty and legalism won't get

blurred, let's sharpen the focus even further by defining terms.
Liberty

Liberty is freedom—freedom from sin's slavery to enjoy the abundant

life made possible by Christ's sacrifice. It is freedom from the
bondage of sin's power and guilt and from God's wrath. It is
liberation from the curse of the Law and its relentless demands. It is
emancipation from the fear of condemnation and an accusing
conscience.

This freedom allows us to revel in Christ's finished work on Calvary

and empowers us to become all He means us to be, regardless of how
He leads others.

Legalism

Legalism is an attitude that is lawlike in nature. It is an obsessive

conformity to a standard for the purpose of exalting self. It is an
effective motivator because it uses guilt, which leads to a negative
emphasis on what we should not be and things we should not do.

It is incomprehensible that people who have tasted the fresh water of

liberty would ever want to return to the stagnant pools of legalism.
But they do. They defect from liberty because the heresy of legalism
is so enticing, promising to quench their thirst for acceptance from
their peers. But the promise is like an ocean of salt water

3. S. Lewis Johnson, Jr., "The Paralysis of Legalism," Bibliotheca

Sacra, April-June 1963, p. 109.

to a parched tongue. Paul chastised those in Galatia who had lowered

their cups into legalism's saline waters.

You were running well; who hindered you from obeying the truth? . .
.

You foolish Galatians, who has bewitched you, before whose eyes
Jesus Christ was publicly portrayed as crucified?. . .

I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by
the grace of Christ, for a different gospel. (Gal. 5:7, 3:1, 1:6)
Identifying Three Subtle Adversaries

As we dip into the book of Galatians to sample what's said, a sharp

taste grates over our tongues. Paul dilutes no words when it comes to
legalism. He comes on strong and straightforward.

In the first two chapters of the book, three adversaries rear their ugly
heads. The first is a doctrinal heresy. The second, ecclesiastical
harassment. And the third is personal hypocrisy.

Those Who Disturb and Distort through Heresy

Paul wastes no time getting at the heart of the heresy. After five
verses of introduction, he rolls up his sleeves and gets right to work.

I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by
the grace of Christ, for a different gospel; which is really not another;
only there are some who are disturbing you, and want to distort the
gospel of Christ. But even though we, or an angel from heaven,
should preach to you a gospel contrary to that which we have
preached to you, let him be accursed. As we have said before, so I say
again now, if any man is preaching to you a gospel contrary to that
which you received, let him be accursed. For am I now seeking the
favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were
still trying to please men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.
(1:6-10)

The heretical message of the legalists was that the Galatians must let
Moses finish what Christ had begun. Theirs was a theology rooted in
the Law rather than grace. It appealed to human works, not to the
finished work of Christ on the cross.

The good news of the Cross is that salvation begins with the gracious
love of God, is carried out by the death and resurrection of His Son,
is effected by the Holy Spirit. The results add up to praise for God.
But whenever human works is factored into that equation, it distorts
the truth. Why? Because it steals some of the glory that rightfully
belongs only to God.
Paul felt so strongly about preserving the purity of the gospel that he
thought anyone tampering with this pristine truth should be
accursed. 4

These accursed legalists prey on the weak and the compliant, on

people pleasers who let themselves be victimized by guilt games that
are played against them. The only way to gain victory over those
games is to seek to please God alone and to stop striving to please
people—to become invincible within and unintimidated without.

Those Who Spy and Enslave through Harassment

As we wade into the second chapter of Galatians, the swamp of

legalism grows deeper and thicker, threatening to suck us under into
the morass.

Then after an interval of fourteen years I went up again to Jerusalem

with Barnabas, taking Titus along also. And it was because of a
revelation that I went up; and I submitted to them the gospel which I
preach among the Gentiles, but I did so in private to those who were
of reputation, for fear that I might be running, or had run, in vain.
But not even Titus who was with me, though he was a Greek, was
com' pelled to be circumcised. But it was because of the false
brethren who had sneaked in to spy out our liberty which we have in
Christ Jesus, in order to bring us into bondage. But we did not yield
in subjection to them for even an hour, so that the truth

4. "The Greek word twice translated 'accursed' is anathema. It was

used in the Greek Old Testament for the divine ban, the curse of God
resting upon anything or anyone devoted by Him to destruction. The
story of Achan provides an example of this. God said that the spoil of
the Canaanites was under His ban—it was devoted to destruction.
But Achan stole and kept for himself what should have been
destroyed.

So the apostle Paul desires that these false teachers should come
under the divine ban, curse or anathema. That is, he expresses the
wish that God's judgment will fall upon them." John R. W. Stott, The
Message of Galatians (Downers Grove, 111.: InterVarsity Press,
1968), p. 24.

of the gospel might remain with you. But from those who were of
high reputation (what they were makes no difference to me; God
shows no partiality)—well, those who were of reputation contributed
nothing to me. (2:1-6)

Some background material will help illuminate the conflict in the

above verses.

In the decade or so surrounding the year A.D. 50, the infant church
was drifting by degrees and at times almost unnoticeably toward its
first great doctrinal crisis. When the gospel was being preached
primarily to Jews by Jews, the development of the church progressed
smoothly. But as the ambassadors of Christ pushed out into largely
Gentile communities and the gospel began to take root there,
questions arose regarding a Christian's relationship to the law of
Moses and to Judaism as a system. . . .

. . . Was it necessary for a Gentile believer to observe the law of

Moses in order to become a Christian? Should a Gentile be
circumcised? Questions like these must have been raised with
increasing force throughout the Roman Empire, wherever the church
of Jesus Christ camped on Gentile soil. 5

Galatians 2 is a record of a summit meeting that occurred in the early

history of the church. Paul went to this gathering with two of his
colleagues. One was Barnabas, a circumcised Jew, who was well
known and respected. The other was Titus, an uncircum-cised
Gentile, who was unknown.

The legalists had prompted the meeting, after carrying out their own
covert investigation. 6

That same form of creeping legalism is at work today, surreptitiously

pervading every corner of the sanctuary so that not even a

5. James Montgomery Boice, "Galatians," in The Expositor's Bible

Commentary, ed. Frank E. Gaebelein (Grand Rapids, Mich.:
Zondervan Publishing House, Regency Reference Library, 1976), vol.
10, p. 409.

6. The Greek word kataskopos means to "spy, to reconnoitre, to

make a treacherous investigation." Archibald Thomas Robertson,
Word Pictures in the New Testament (Nashville, Tenn.. Broadman
Press, 1931), vol. 4, p. 284.

church mouse is safe from its suffocating effects. Eugene Peterson

writes:

There are people who do not want us to be free. They don't want us
to be free before God, accepted just as we are by his grace. They don't
want us to be free to express our faith originally and creatively in the
world. They want to control us; they want to use us for their own
purposes. They themselves refuse to live arduously and openly in
faith, but huddle together with a few others and try to get a sense of
approval by insisting that all look alike, talk alike and act alike, thus
validating one another's worth. They try to enlarge their numbers
only on the condition that new members act and talk and behave the
way they do. These people infiltrate communities of faith "to spy out
our freedom which we have in Christ Jesus" and not infrequently
find ways to control, restrict and reduce the lives of free Christians. 7

Those Who Lie and Deceive through Hypocrisy

The heresy of legalism that led to the harassment of Gentile believers

also revealed the hypocrisy that existed within the very highest
echelons of the leadership of the church—Peter himself!

But when Cephas came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face,

because he stood condemned. For prior to the coming of certain men
from James, he used to eat with the Gentiles; but when they came, he
began to withdraw and hold himself aloof, fearing the party of the
circumcision. And the rest of the Jews joined him in hypocrisy, with
the result that even Barnabas was carried away by their hypocrisy.
But when I saw that they were not straightforward about the truth of
the gospel, I said to Cephas in the presence of all, "If you, being a
Jew, live like the Gentiles and not like the Jews, how is it that you
compel the Gentiles to live like Jews?" (vv. 11-14)

7. Eugene H. Peterson, Traveling Light: Reflections on the Free Life

(Downers Grove, 111. InterVarsity Press, 1982), p. 67.

Through a revelation recorded in Acts 10, Peter learned of God's

acceptance of Gentiles into the family of God and of the abrogation of
Jewish dietary laws. As a result, Peter was in the habit of eating
meals with the Gentiles. 8 But when a group of rigid Jewish brothers
arrived at the scene, Peter knuckled under to their overpowering
presence and backed off from his associations with Gentile believers.
And once Paul saw that the hypocrisy had run rampant through the
church, he hit the roof.

Hypocrisy is a treacherous thing—acting like you believe one way

with a certain set of people, then acting like you believe another way
with another group. Legalists are notorious for their hypocrisy. They
lack openness, honesty, and vulnerability. They are not real but
speak from behind a mask that hides their true identity. 9

The best way to confuse children is for parents to rear them in a

tight, legalistic context of outward religious duty, faking an inward
faith and devotion. Our children deserve better than that, don't they?
They deserve parents who aren't two-faced hypocrites. They deserve
parents who are real, who don't have to hide behind a mask of pious
platitudes and religious ritual.

Specifying Four Strong Defenses

Don't ever forget that you are free and that this freedom is worth
fighting for. To relinquish it is to give back hard-fought territory to
the enemy—the enemy of legalism.

You don't want to live your life behind a fence of false feelings, do
you? You don't want your relationship with Christ to be relegated to
a rigid set of religious rules. You don't want the new wine that flows
so freely from the Lord to be closed up tight, in some old, cracked
wineskins. Certainly you don't. You want to live free. You want to be
everything God created you to be—not poured into someone else's
plastic mold.

8. The imperfect tense of the verb "to eat" in Galatians 2:12 indicates
continued action, implying that this was Peter's habit pattern.

9. The Greek word for "hypocrite" is hupocrites. It refers to an actor

playing a part within a play. "In Greek drama the actors held over
their faces oversized masks painted to represent the character they
were portraying. In life, the hypocrite is a person who masks his real
self while he plays a part for his audience." Lawrence O. Richards,
Expository Dictionary of Bible Words (Grand Rapids, Mich.:
Zondervan Publishing House, Regency Reference Library, 1985), see
"hypocrite."

If you're determined to live free, you must be equally determined to

dig in and fight for that freedom. Here are four bits of advice to help
you shovel out a spot for yourself in the trenches.

First: Keep standing firm in your freedom. If the group you're in is

giving you grief for not living up to their convictions, get out of the
group. It's wrong to subject yourself to a group that doesn't respect
your convictions and that violates your conscience.

Second: Stop seeking the favor of everyone. Seek the favor of God
alone rather than looking to other people for approval—no matter
how spiritual they may seem.

Third: Start refusing to submit to bondage. There is no system of

slavery as dictatorial and devastating as legalism, for it enslaves our
attitudes as well as our actions. It embalms our feelings for Christ
rather than emancipating them.

Fourth: Continue being straightforward about the truth. Live

honestly. When you fall on your face, admit it. When you drop the
ball on some responsibility delegated to you, admit it, shoulder the
blame, take your consequences like an adult. And remember, no
matter how much egg you get on your face, people will usually let you
wipe it off. . . if you're honest about it and don't try to cover it up.
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Jiving Insi ghts

STUDY ONE

The letter to the Galatians is to Christians what Lincoln's

Emancipation Proclamation was to Civil War slaves. It is an official
document that proclaims: "You are free!" (see 5:1).

What the Galatians were freed from was the Old Testament Law, a
chafing set of leg irons that impeded their walk with Christ. Look up
the following references in Galatians, and summarize what is said
about the Law.

2:16

2:21

3:2

3:19

3:21

3:23-25

5:4

5:18

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T Aviu g Insi ghts study two

It's hard to imagine why people once freed from the constraints of
the Law would ever want to go back to such a rigid way of life.

The reason for the defection is peer pressure. Even as adults we

buckle under the pressure exerted on us by our peers.

Whether buying certain clothes to fit in with a country club or saying

certain cliches to fit into a church, we're all subject to living under
other people's sets of rules.

Let's look in the mirror for a moment as we try one of Paul's

questions to the Galatians on for size: Are you striving to please
people or are you seeking to please God (1:10)? That's the issue, isn't
it? The bottom line: Who are you really living to please?

47

Look up these passages and answer the following questions. Matthew

6:1-18. What was the problem the Pharisees had?

What is the key to liberating yourself from that form of bondage?

Reconcile 6:1 with 5:16.

2 Corinthians 5:9-10. As new creatures in Christ, what should our

goal be?

Why?

Colossians 3:22-23. How can we try to please God in a position

where demanding people are constantly looking over our shoulder?

It has been said, "Love God and do what you please." Do you agree or
disagree?

Explain your answer.

Chapter 6
Emancipated? Then Live Like It!

Romans 6:1-14

Slavery was one of the main issues over which the swords of the Civil
War were drawn. It was a bloody conflict, the bloodiest in United
States history. The president of the Union, Abraham Lincoln, said of
the war in his second inaugural address in 1865, only weeks before
he was assassinated:

Neither party expected for the war, the magnitude, or the duration,
which it has already attained. . . . Each looked for an easier triumph. .
. . Both read the same Bible, and pray to the same God; and each
invokes His aid against the other. 1

At that point the gaunt, war-worn president's voice cracked. He

regained his composure, saying how strange it was

that any men should dare to ask a just God's assistance in wringing
their bread from the sweat of other men's faces. 2

On New Year's Day, 1863, the Emancipation Proclamation was

publicly stated, but it wasn't until December 18, 1865, that the
Thirteenth Amendment to the Constitution was officially adopted,
abolishing slavery in the United States.

Though the slaves in the South were legally freed, many continued to
live as slaves. Shelby Foote, in his three-volume work on the Civil
War, documents this unexpected reaction.

[Most slaves] could repeat, with equal validity, what an Alabama

slave had said in 1864 when asked what he thought of the Great
Emancipator whose proclamation went into effect that year. "I don't
know

1. Quoted by Carl Sandburg in Abraham Lincoln: The Prairie Years

and the War Years, one-volume edition (New York, N.Y.: Harcourt
Brace Jovanovich, Publishers, 1982), p. 664.
2. Quoted by Sandburg in Abraham Lincoln: The Prairie Years and
the War Years, p. 664.

nothing bout Abraham Lincoln," he replied, "cep they say he sot us

free. And I don't know nothing bout that neither." 3

Precious blood was spilled to set those slaves free, yet many of them
never left the plantations. Many stayed because they feared that life
as freed slaves would be more cruel than life on the plantation. But
how tragic not to take the risk in order to live free.

Even more tragic is the precious blood spilled at Calvary to set people
free spiritually, while Christians still remain enslaved. And they
remain enslaved on a sprawling plantation known as legalism.

Reviewing Some Thoughts on Slavery

In this lesson we want to focus on the emancipation proclamation in

Romans 6:1-14. But before we do, let's examine the preamble to that
proclamation found in chapter 3, verses 10-20.

As it is written, "There is none righteous, not even one;

"There is none who understands,

There is none who seeks for God;

All have turned aside, together they have become useless;

There is none who does good,

There is not even one."

"Their throat is an open grave,

With their tongues they keep deceiving,"

"The poison of asps is under their lips";

"Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness";

"Their feet are swift to shed blood,

Destruction and misery are in their paths,

And the path of peace have they not known."

"There is no fear of God before their eyes."

Now we know that whatever the Law says, it speaks to those who are
under the Law, that every mouth may be closed, and all the world
may become

3. Shelby Foote, The Civil War: A Narrative (New York, N.Y.:

Random House, 1974), vol. 3, p. 1045.

accountable to God; because by the works of the Law no flesh will be

justified in His sight; for through the Law comes the knowledge of
sin.

The book of Romans holds at least three analogies regarding slavery.

The first one is based on the above-quoted passage: AW of us were
born in bondage to sin. Although this first analogy is grim, the
second is glorious: A day came when Christ set us free. That day of
redemption is shouted from the rooftops of verses 21-22.

But now apart from the Law the righteousness of God has been
manifested, being witnessed by the Law and the Prophets, even the
righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all those who
believe; for there is no distinction.

"No distinction." Don't those words sound wonderful? Redemption is

an impartial gift given freely, regardless of our race, sex, age, color,
or national origin (v. 24; see also Gal. 3:28, Col. 3:11). Why? Because
we are all in the same sinking ship of sin (Rom. 3:23). Christ saw
every one of us manacled to that hull, straining futilely at our oars,
while the waters of judgment came rushing in through a hole in the
bow. Moved with compassion at our plight, Jesus paid the price for
the keys to unlock the leg irons that bound us to destruction.
The third analogy to slavery in Romans is tragic: Many Christians
still live as though they are enslaved. Though emancipated, some
Christians don't live like it. They are enslaved to sin and either
rationalize it or cover it up or live in defeat. This is the theme o{ our
passage for today—Romans 6:1-14.

Understanding the Themes of Romans 6

Romans 6 is the Christian's emancipation proclamation. It is the

foundational document declaring our freedom from Satan's
intimidation and sin's domination. It is where we learn how to live
free from fear, guilt, shame, and defeat.

What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace might
increase? May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in
it? Or do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into
Christ Jesus have been baptized into His death?

Therefore we have been buried with Him through baptism into

death, in order that as Christ was raised from the dead through the
glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. For if we
have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly
we shall be also in the likeness of His resurrection, knowing this, that
our old self was crucified with Him, that our body of sin might be
done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin; for he who
has died is freed from sin. Now if we have died with Christ, we
believe that we shall also live with Him, knowing that Christ, having
been raised from the dead, is never to die again; death no longer is
master over Him. For the death that He died, He died to sin, once for
all; but the life that He lives, He lives to God. Even so consider
yourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus.

Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body that you should
obey its lusts, and do not go on presenting the members of your body
to sin as instruments of unrighteousness; but present yourselves to
God as those alive from the dead, and your members as instruments
of righteousness to God. For sin shall not be master over you, for you
are not under law, but under grace, (vv. 1-14)
Two groups of people are highlighted in Romans 6. One: those who
dont claim their liberty and continue to live like slaves (vv. 1-14).
Two: those who take their freedom too far and take advantage of
liberty (vv. 15-23). The first group nullifies grace. The second group
abuses it.

To both of these groups Paul stands up and protests: "May it never

be!" (vv. 2, 15). The very thought of grace being treated this way
horrifies the apostle. He recoils and says, in essence, "Perish the
thought!" Then he poses a question to them: "How shall we who died
to sin still live in it?" (v. 2). Or in the language of our analogy, "Why
would an emancipated slave ever want to stay with a harsh
plantation owner?"

Claiming Our Freedom over Sin

The point of Romans 6 is that the old sinful nature that once ruled
over us has been ousted from office. But we must learn how

to keep it from regaining power over our lives. Paul presents three
techniques on how to do just that—something we must know,
something we must consider, and something we must present.

Know

Let's begin with what we are to know.

Or do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ
Jesus have been baptized into His death?. . . knowing this, that our
old self was crucified with Him, that our body of sin might be done
away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin; . . . knowing
that Christ, having been raised from the dead, is never to die again;
death no longer is master over Him. (vv. 3, 6, 9)

The baptism referred to in verse 3 is not water baptism but a dry

baptism, not a physical one but a spiritual one (see 1 Cor. 10:1-2).

The word baptism comes from the Greek term baptizo, primarily
meaning "identification." It was a term used in the first century for
dipping a garment into dye. The act of dipping, which changed the
identity of the cloth, was called baptizo.

When Christ died on the cross and arose from the tomb, He was
dipped or baptized into death (Luke 12:50). As a result of the
Resurrection, His perishable body changed to an imperishable one (1
Cor. 15:42-47). When we trusted in the Savior for eternal life, we
became dipped into His death and resurrection. Similarly, our
identity changed (2 Cor. 5:17). We didn't see it, we didn't hear it, we
didn't feel it. But it changed nevertheless. His death to sin became
our death to sin; His awakening to a whole new realm of life became
our awakening (Rom. 6:8-10). A victorious walk begins with knowing
this fact. And whether you live as a victor or a victim is determined
by how well you know it and believe it.

Consider

Besides something to know, there is also something we need to

consider.

Even so consider yourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in

Christ Jesus, (v. 11)

The word consider comes from a Greek term meaning "to calculate,
to take into account, to figure." It is an accounting term that

means to enter figures into the ledger. And what is it we are to enter
in the credit column of our thinking? We should record that since we
are in Christ, we are dead to sin's power; and being in Christ, we are
alive with God's new power.

The bottom line of such calculations is found in verse 12.

"Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body that you should
obey its lusts."

The Pacific Coast Highway is a picturesque stretch of road that

ribbons its way over the craggy California coastline. A few of the
curves and drop-offs are treacherous. But they add both danger and
grandeur to the journey. The state could offer two options to trav-
elers along these dangerous mountain roads. They could either build
well-equipped trauma centers at the bottom of the precipitous drop'
offs, or they could plant warning signs at the critical junctions:
Danger! Curve Ahead . . . Drive Slowly.

Romans 6 abounds with road signs: Danger Ahead! . . . No Need to

Crash . . . Slow Down. And if we carefully consider them, our
spiritual journey will be safe and scenic. But if we do crash through a
guardrail, there is a trauma center called forgiveness at the base of
the hill (1 John 1:9).

Present

This brings us to our third crucial term: present.

And do not go on presenting the members of your body to sin as

instruments of unrighteousness; but present yourselves to God as
those alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of
righteousness to God. For sin shall not be master over you, for you
are not under law, but under grace. (Rom. 6:13-14)

Not only must we make intelligent calculations based on the truth we

know, we must also make a conscious presentation of ourselves to
God. Paul spells this out in two commands—one stated negatively,
one positively.

Negatively: "Do not go on presenting the members of your body to

sin as instruments of unrighteousness." Why? Because we're no
longer slaves. We're no longer living on the plantation. We've been
emancipated.

Positively: "Present yourselves to God as those alive from the dead . .

. for sin shall not be master over you." Since our old master

has been run off, it's ludicrous that we should run after him to
indenture ourselves to his service again. Instead, we should present
ourselves to our new Master and embrace Him for the freedom He
has given us.

Taking a Necessary Warning to Heart

In spite of the fact that the plantation economy was part of a
civilization gone with the wind of the Civil War, plantation owners
were determined to keep their newly freed slaves. Satan has that
same determination, in spite of the victory won at the Cross.

In order for you to leave the security of your old way of life, you will
need courage to walk into freedom's fields, into the amber waves of
grace. You will need an inner resolve to walk tall, to walk free, and to
never look back in longing for that old way of life. You will need a
grace awakening.

Shortly after Congress passed the Emancipation Proclamation in

1863, Abraham Lincoln warned:

We are like whalers who have been on a long chase. We have, at last,
got the harpoon into the monster, but we must now look how we
steer, or with one "flop" of his tail he will send us all into eternity. 4

With those words, the president proved himself a prophet. His

proclamation led to an escalation in the war. The impaling of
freedom's harpoon brought a flailing response from the gray whale of
the Confederacy. Many of you who have just plunged your iron barb
into the breaching whale of legalism know the feeling. Suddenly you
find the rope coiled at your feet spinning wildly over the bow of your
boat. And now you find yourself towed relentlessly through the water
by this leviathan of the deep.

A parting word of advice. Defeating legalism is going to be a rough

ride, so hold on . . . and watch out for that tail!

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Romans 3:10-20 describes the squalor of our enslaved condition

before Christ came into our lives and proclaimed us free. That

4. Henry J. Raymond, The Life, Public Services, and State Papers of

Abraham Lincoln (New York, N.Y.: Darvy and Miller, 1865), p. 752.
description, however, is for humanity in general. In the space
provided, describe the conditions of your own personal slavery
before Jesus set you free.

Like Lot's wife, we sometimes look back on the Sodom and

Gomorrah that lies over our shoulder. In spite of the fire and
brimstone we see raining from the sky, we occasionally mourn the
loss of those city sins that enslaved us.

Be honest now, is there anything you have walked away from when
Christ called you out of Sin City that you're now looking at over your
shoulder, regretful to have left it behind?

Unless your goal in life is to become a salt lick, you need to stop
looking back and longing for that old way of life.

Read Ephesians 4:17-32, and write down any advice that applies
specifically to those things in your life that should be left behind.

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STUDY TWO

List some specific sins or legalistic tendencies that you are en^
slaved to.

Now paraphrase Romans 6:1-14 in a personal way by writing a letter

to yourself that urges you to give up those things. We'll start you off
by doing the first two verses for you. You're on your own for the rest.

Dear .

(fill in your name)

What are you doing? Are you trying to show how gracious God is by
griming up your life with sin? Do you have the mind of a pig, or
what? Why would you want to wallow around in the mud when you
just got out of the bath?. . .
Chapter 7

Guiding Others to Freedom

Romans 6:15-23

During the 1988 presidential election an unexpected shift of

attention occurred. Instead of the evening news focusing on the
candidates, all eyes were on three gray whales that were cut off from
their migratory route by a frozen sea of ice.

At first, only a few Eskimos with chain saws attempted to rescue

them. But when the media brought the whales' plight into our living
rooms, volunteers flocked to the scene with heavy machinery and a
determination to set those stranded whales free.

But the volunteers' ingenuity and energy were soon exhausted. Enter
the National Guard. Their helicopters dropped a five-ton concrete
basher to break up the ice. Then, in a cooperative effort with the
United States, the Soviet Union dispatched two of their ice-breaking
ships to facilitate the rescue.

After three weeks and an expenditure of one-and-a-half million

dollars, the whales were freed. The heroic and noble rescue sparked a
sense of compassion throughout the world. But it did something else
too. By showing how willing we were to save a couple of ocean-going
mammals, it underscored how hesitant we are to join hands in rescue
efforts that involve mankind.

How many people would have pitched in to help some homeless

couple stranded on the icy streets of Chicago? How many would have
dug into their pockets to free a family from a New York ghetto? How
many would have opened their homes to an unwed mother?

So willing to save the whales. So reluctant to save our fellow human

beings.

Unfortunately, that same reluctance can be found within the family

of God. Many people are quick to want to free some heathen halfway
around the world from the shackles of sin, yet they are pathetically
slow to raise a finger to loose other Christians from the chains of
legalism.

Wonderful Truths regarding Freedom

What these shackled people need is a helicopter to come and drop

some five-ton concrete bashers to break up the ice that hems

them in. They need to be liberated from legalism—so they can

breathe. Here are a few passages of Scripture that help do just that.

It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing
firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery. (Gal. 5:1)

For he who has died is freed from sin. (Rom. 6:7)

For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from
the law of sin and of death. (8:2)

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is
against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up
for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things? (vv.
31-32)

'And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. ... If
therefore the Son shall make you free, you shall be free indeed."
(John 8:32, 36)

These breathing holes in Scripture give us the air we need to stay

alive spiritually. In 1 Corinthians 10:25-30, Paul breaks open another
hole in the cold, hard, legalistic ice that would entrap us.

Eat anything that is sold in the meat market, without asking

questions for conscience' sake; for the earth is the Lord's, and all it
contains. If one of the unbelievers invites you, and you wish to go, eat
anything that is set before you, without asking questions for
conscience' sake. But if anyone should say to you, "This is meat
sacrificed to idols," do not eat it, for the sake of the one who
informed you, and for conscience' sake; I mean not your own
conscience, but the other man's; for why is my freedom judged by
another's conscience? If I partake with thankfulness, why am I
slandered concerning that for which I give thanks?

In Paul's day Christians didn't wrestle with questions about dancing

or going to movies. They wrestled with whether or not they should
eat meat that had been offered to idols.

In pagan worship, portions of meat were sacrificed to idols, and the

part of the animal that was left over was sold to a meat market. Many
Christians had reservations about eating the leftovers from

these pagan rituals—especially those who had just converted from

idol worship to Christianity.

How did Paul handle this situation? Did he ice up the harbor with a
lot of rigid, pharisaical instructions? No. He broke open a breathing
hole. He said they were free to eat (vv. 25-27). The only time he
limited that freedom was when there was a risk of violating someone
else's conscience (vv. 28-29, 32-33).

God has given His children a wonderful freedom in Christ, which

includes not only freedom from sin and shame but also freedom from
living under a legalistic lifestyle imposed by other Christians.

Yet that doesn't imply that we are to run footloose and fancy-free,
trampling over the garden in someone else's backyard. No. There are
some fences that limit our freedom. And two of those fences are
found in Romans 6, erected in the form of questions.

First Fence to Freedom

Earlier in Romans 5:20 Paul said, "Where sin increased, grace

abounded all the more." Romans 6:1 poses the question that would
logically flow from that assertion.

What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace might
increase?

The people who would raise this question are those who have failed
to live in freedom. They live their lives overly sensitive to sin. As a
result, sin dominates their lives and a sense of shame binds them.
Paul answers their question with the good news that they've been set
free from their old master. All they have to do is step out of the
shackles that Christ has already unlocked.

Talk about opening up breathing holes! With words of grace like that,
we should be out in the expansive ocean, swimming free and
unhindered.

Second Fence to Freedom

The second question looks the same as the first, but on closer
inspection this fence is really quite different.

What then? Shall we sin because we are not under law but under
grace? May it never be! (v. 15)

In other words, if there are no policemen lurking behind the speed

limit signs, why not rev up the RPMs and go full throttle? But that
would be abusing grace, and it really wouldn't be living in

freedom either. Liberty without limits is like an elementary school

parking lot without speed bumps. If we live by grace, we should not
be drag racing in wanton disregard of the safety of school children.
We should drive conscientiously, always having our foot ready to hit
the brakes should a pedestrian step into our way.

Careful Warnings to All Who Are Free

Even those who live in a free country need warnings. So we shouldn't

be surprised that God gives a few warnings of His own, lest we abuse
our privileges as people under grace. These warnings are set forth in
Romans 6:16-23. But first we want to look at an overall principle that
is woven throughout this section, and which is specifically found in
verse 16.

Do you not know that when you present yourselves to someone as

slaves for obedience, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either
of sin resulting in death, or of obedience resulting in righteousness?
The principle is this: How we live depends on the master we choose.
Before our relationship with Christ, we were all trapped under the
ice. Breathing free wasn't an option. There was no way we could find
freedom, no way to enjoy the crisp air of righteousness. But grace
freed us from the requirement to serve sin, allowing us the
opportunity to follow Christ's directives voluntarily. So as long as we
do this, we will not sin. Though we may lapse into sin, we don't have
to let it dominate our lives on a day-to-day basis, because grace has
given us the freedom to obey.

But thanks be to God that though you were slaves of sin, you became
obedient from the heart to that form of teaching to which you were
committed, and having been freed from sin, you became slaves of
righteousness, (vv. 17-18)

When someone deliberately decides to disobey, that person isn't

living free. In fact, those defiant decisions do just the opposite. They
bind and constrict.

His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with
the cords of his sin. He will die for lack of instruction, And in the
greatness of his folly he will go astray. (Prov. 5:22-23)

So our first warning is: Never hide behind grace as a cover for
disobedience. Any prodigal can excuse life in a pigsty by saying, "It
doesn't matter how much mud I wallow in; it's all under grace." But
grace doesn't mean we're free to live any way we want. It means
we're free to become everything God created us to be. Under grace,
we're free to choose what path we take—the path of righteousness or
the path of disobedience. But if we make too many of the wrong
choices, the path can become dark with regret and overgrown with
the tendrils of thorny consequences.

William Barclay writes about that dead-end path.

Sin begets sin. The first time we do a wrong thing, we may do it with
hesitation and a tremor and a shudder. The second time we do it, it is
easier; and if we go on doing it, it becomes effortless; sin loses its
terror. ... To start on the path of sin is to go on to more and more. 1
Another writer describes this dark, downward path in greater detail.

One lie had to be covered by a dozen more. . . .

The downward cycle of sin moved from a problem to a faulty sinful

response, thereby causing an additional complicating problem which
was met by an additional sinful response. . . .

. . . Sinful habits are hard to break, but if they are not broken they
will bind the client ever more tightly. He is held fast by these ropes.
... At length, he becomes sin's slave. 2

What if that describes you?

What if you've strayed from the path of righteousness? What if

you've wandered down the primrose path of your passions only to
find that it leads to a briar patch? What then?

Grace doesn't prevent you from falling and breaking your leg as you
walk down that path. Neither does it keep you from becoming
entangled in some thorny situations. But grace will let you repent of
the wrong and help you find your way back to the right path.

1. William Barclay, The Letter to the Romans, rev. ed., The Daily
Study Bible Series (Philadelphia, Pa.: Westminster Press, 1975), pp.
90-91.

2. Jay E. Adams, Competent to Counsel (Phillipsburg, N.J.:

Presbyterian and Reformed Publishing Co., 1970), p. 145.

And that's good news to people who have fallen headlong down the
wrong path, people with skinned knees who are trying to pick
themselves up, tears streaming down their faces.

Which brings us to our second warning: We cannot live by grace

without guidance. Even though our nature yearns to be free, the
indisputable fact is, we need a master. We need someone to guide
our steps down the paths of righteousness (Ps. 23:3). We have such a
guide, such a master, in Jesus, whose costly death gave us the option
of living free.
I am speaking in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh.
For just as you presented your members as slaves to impurity and to
lawlessness, resulting in further lawlessness, so now present your
members as slaves to righteousness, resulting in sane-tification. For
when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to
righteousness. Therefore what benefit were you then deriving from
the things of which you are now ashamed? For the outcome of those
things is death. But now having been freed from sin and enslaved to
God, you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification, and the
outcome, eternal life. For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of
God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom. 6:19-23)

These verses say two things. First: Make the right choice (vv. 19-21).
Second: Focus on the benefits of your current position in grace (vv.
22-23).

Because of God's grace we are free from sin's mastery. By God's grace
we are enslaved to God. Through God's grace there are benefits to be
derived. And what are those benefits? At least three come
immediately to mind: (1) the exciting process of growing to maturity
as a Christian, (2) a guilt-free lifestyle characterized by creativity and
freedom, and (3) the joyful outcome of eternal life.

Contrast those benefits with the wages that the harsh taskmaster of
sin doles out: (1) an instant breakdown of fellowship with God (Isa.
59:2), (2) the removal of God's blessing (Deut. 28), (3) the misery of
a guilty conscience (Ps. 32:3-4), (4) loss of personal integrity (2 Sam.
12:1-12, 16:5-8), (5) sudden stoppage of spiritual growth (1 Kings
11:1-4), (6) strained relationships with fellow Christians (1 Cor. 5:9-
13). The payoff from sin's outturned pockets looks pretty depressing,
doesn't it?

Helpful Reminders That Keep Us Balanced

As we conclude this lesson, we want to tie a couple of strings around

your finger as reminders of the balance that is necessary to walk with
Christ.
First: Abusing grace stagnates us. It dulls our spiritual taste buds to
the sweetness of God. It causes us to live casual, indifferent lives,
instead of committed ones. What's worse, when we live stagnated
lives, we lead others astray. As a result, our lives become an
embarrassment to the kingdom rather than an exemplification of its
King.

Second: Living in freedom motivates us. It motivates us to let go.

When we're not free, we want to control others and the
circumstances around us. But when we're operating in a grace state
of mind, we release others to make their own decisions about their
life and lifestyle, and we free ourselves to accept each day as it
comes. The following poem says it best.

To "Let Go" Takes Love

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring, it

means that I can't do it for someone else. To "let go" is not to cut
myself off, it is the realization that I can't control another. To "let go"
is not to enable, but to allow learning

from natural consequences. To "let go" is to admit powerlessness,

which

means the outcome is not in my hands. To "let go" is not to try to

change or blame

another, it is to make the most of myself. To "let go" is not to care for,
but to care about. To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive. To
"let go" is not to judge, but to allow another

to be a human being. To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging

all the outcomes but to allow others to effect

their own destinies. To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit

another to face reality. To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept. To

"let go" is not to nag, scold, or argue, but
instead to search out my own shortcomings

and to correct them.

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To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my

desires but to take each day as it comes, and

to cherish myself in it. To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate

anybody

but to try to become what I dream I can be. To "let go" is not to regret
the past, but to grow

and to live for the future. To "let go" is to fear less and to love more. 3

Living Jnsi ghts study one

Our study for today shines a light on the two paths that stretch
before us: the path of sin and the path of righteousness. The former
belongs to our old taskmaster. The latter belongs to our new master,
the Lord Jesus.

Look up Job 18:5-11; Proverbs 3:13-26, 4:10-19 and 26-27; and

Isaiah 26:7; and describe what you can expect somewhere down the
road on these respective paths.

The Path of Sin The Path of Righteousness

Which road do you find yourself on?

3. "To 'Let Go' Takes Love," quoted by Margaret J. Rinck in Can

Christians Love Too Much? (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Zondervan
Publishing House, Pyranee Books, 1989), p. 157.

If you're on the path of sin and want to get back to having fellowship
with God, read Luke 15:11-24 to find directions for the way home.
If you're on the path of righteousness but are taking pride in how
you've kept on the straight and narrow, read Luke 18:9-14 to get your
bearings.

If you're on the path of righteousness and walking humbly behind

your Master, turn to the compass reading in Micah 6:8 and use it to
keep your bearings straight.

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Living Insi ghts studytwo

Take the poem at the end of the lesson and turn it into a prayer list
for your personal needs. For example, the theme of the poem is
letting go, so begin your prayer something like this: "Dear Lord,
please teach me how to let go . . ."

The first line of the poem is: "To 'let go' does not mean to stop caring,
it means that I can't do it for someone else." Turn this into a petition
to God by praying something like this: "Please help me to realize
what it means to let go — and what it doesnt mean. It doesnt mean I
stop caring. It means 1 cant crowd other people's lives and do
everything for them. "

Now, take it a step further. Make the prayer specific. Take that same
thought in the first line of the poem and apply it to someone that
you're having a hard time giving freedom to. For example:

"Lord, help me to let go of . I know Ym crowding 's

life and trespassing in areas that I shouldn't be. Help me to care for

in such a way that I dont tread upon 's self-respect.

Specifically, Lord, help me to back away from doing ..."

Chapter 8

The Grace to Let Others Be

Romans 14

T) cover this expansive subject of grace sufficiently, we need to

address both vertical and horizontal grace . . . the amazing grace that
holds out hope to sinners and the charming grace that gives people
room to breathe. In our first several lessons we took the time to
examine God's unmerited grace toward us. Today well look at grace
as it flows toward one another.

How are you at demonstrating God's grace to others, at giving others

breathing room? Do you lessen other people's guilt, or do you add to
it? Do you promote liberty, or do you restrain it?

These questions have to do with attitude, don't they? Depending on

whether our attitude is gracious or rigid, liberty or legalism will be
the result. Dr. Viktor Frankl talks about the importance of attitude in
his book Man's Search for Meaning.

We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who

walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last
piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer
sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one
thing: the last of the human freedoms —to choose one's attitude in
any given set of circumstances. . . .

And there were always choices to make. Every day, every hour,
offered the opportunity to make a decision, a decision which
determined whether you would or would not submit to those powers
which threatened to rob you of your very self, your inner freedom;
which determined whether or not you would become the plaything of
circumstance, renouncing freedom and dignity to become molded
into the form of the typical inmate. . . .

. . . Even though conditions such as lack of sleep, insufficient food

and various mental stresses may sug-

gest that the inmates were bound to react in certain ways, in the final
analysis it becomes clear that the sort of person the prisoner became
was the result oi an inner decision, and not the result of camp
influences alone. 1

It is those inner decisions, more than outer influences, that mold us

into the people we are. In today's lesson we want to uncover those
attitudes that keep us from living out the promise oi grace. And we
want to discover the attitudes that will help us extend the kind of
grace that lets others be whoever and whatever God is leading them
to be.

Two Strong Tendencies That Nullify Grace

Located in one of the great doctrinal books of the Bible is a series of

commands that, if obeyed, would turn us into some oi the most
affirming people imaginable.

Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil; cling to what is

good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to
one another in honor; not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in
spirit, serving the Lord; rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation,
devoted to prayer, contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing
hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and curse not.
Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Be of
the same mind toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but
associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own estimation.
Never pay back evil for evil to anyone. Respect what is right in the
sight o{ all men. (Rom. 12:9-17)

In a nutshell, these words represent the essence of authentic

Christianity. But why don't we live authentic lives? Why do we love
with such hypocrisy? What keeps us from being devoted to one
another, from honoring one another, from contributing to each
other's needs?

1. Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning (New York, N.Y.:

Pocket Books, 1963), pp. 104-5.

The inescapable fact is that, more often than not, we nullify grace
rather than magnify it. We resist it more often than we release it.
What is it within us that hinders an attitude of free-flowing grace?

Most of us fall short of letting others be themselves because of two

strong and very human tendencies: We compare ourselves with
others, which leads us to criticize or compete with them, and we
attempt to control others, which results in our manipulating and
intimidating them. Let's dissect and examine both of these
tendencies that keep grace from awakening in our lives.

To Compare

Most people tend to prefer sameness, predictability, and common

interests. As a result, if someone thinks differently, prefers different
entertainment, wears different clothes, or enjoys a different lifestyle,
we get a little nervous. This is especially true of Christians.

Our problem is one of eyesight. We tend to see things only on the

surface, and therefore, we put too much weight on externals. We
judge by appearances rather than actualities.

But the problem is deeper than that. It goes beyond the need for an
eye exam. We need an attitude adjustment—because comparison
knocks our attitude out of alignment. It makes us prejudiced people.
And it counteracts and opposes the work of grace.

God never meant for the church to be a religious industry designed to

churn out cookie-cutter Christians and paper-doll saints. On the
contrary, His church is supposed to be a celebration of diversity (see
1 Cor. 12).

Unsure of this? Look at the people in the Bible. They are as different
as Rahab and Esther, the one an ex-prostitute and the other an
exquisite queen.

Variety honors God. Uniformity bores Him. Consider how variegated

are the threads woven through the genealogy of God's Son in
Matthew. Cup your ears in the marble hallways of faith in Hebrews
11 and hear the echoes of diversity. Page through church history and
read about the great differences in the men and women who shaped
the world.
Legalism requires that we all be alike, unified in convictions and
uniform in appearance. Grace finds pleasure in our diversity,
encourages individuality, and leaves room for differences of opinion.
But before we will be able to demonstrate sufficient grace to let
others be who they are, we'll have to get rid of this legalistic tendency
to compare.

To Control

Another attitude we need to change is the desire to control others.

This tendency is especially prevalent among those who find their
security in religious rigidity. They manipulate by using fear tactics,
veiled threats, and oblique hints to get their way. Controllers win by
intimidation. Whether physical or verbal, their ways are those of the
schoolyard bully.

Whatever the method, controlling, like comparing, nullifies grace.

Some Biblical Guidelines That Magnify Grace

But we don't want to dwell on those things that nullify grace. We

want to discover those things that magnify it.

Further on in his letter to the Romans, Paul goes into great detail
regarding the issue of personal freedom. In the fourteenth chapter,
for example, he sets forth four practical guidelines to help us release
others in grace. The first guideline is found in verses 1-4-

Now accept the one who is weak in faith, but not for the purpose of
passing judgment on his opinions. One man has faith that he may eat
all things, but he who is weak eats vegetables only. Let not him who
eats regard with contempt him who does not eat, and let not him
who does not eat judge him who eats, for God has accepted him. Who
are you to judge the servant of another? To his own master he stands
or falls; and stand he will, for the Lord is able to make him stand.

Guideline one: Accepting others is basic to letting them be. The

problem in Romans 14 was not a food problem. It was a love
problem, an acceptance problem. It still is. How often do we restrict
our love by making it conditional? How often do we make our
acceptance dependent upon how others measure up to our own set of
expectations?

Whether it's the meat sacrificed in a heathen temple or the movie

showing in a Hollywood theater, the principle is the same: Accept
one another.

When we don't accept one another, conflicts arise, and Paul

pinpoints the two most common ways that people react to these
conflicts. First he says, "Let not him who eats regard with contempt
him who does not eat" (v. 3a). The words regard with contempt mean

"to regard as nothing, utterly despise, to discount entirely." Second

he says, "Let not him who does not eat judge him who eats" (v. 3b).
The word judge means "to criticize, to view negatively, to make
assumptions that are exaggerated, erroneous, and even damaging to
character."

No matter how strongly we may feel about a certain cultural taboo,

judging another who disagrees with us or looking down our nose
with contempt is wrong.

Why? Because, as verse 4 indicates, another person's convictions are

none of our business. After all, who made us the judge to pass a
verdict on other people's lifestyles? Who made us the judge to mete
out the sentence of condemnation?

It's God's job to direct them. It's our job to accept them.

But what all does acceptance entail?

It means you are valuable just as you are. It allows you to be the real
you. You aren't forced into someone else's idea of who you really are.
It means your ideas are taken seriously since they reflect you. You
can talk about how you feel inside and why you feel that way—and
someone really cares.

Acceptance means you can try out your ideas without being shot
down. You can even express heretical thoughts and discuss them
with intelligent questioning. You feel safe. No one will pronounce
judgment on you, even though they don't agree with you. It doesn't
mean you will never be corrected or shown to be wrong; it simply
means it is safe to be you and no one will destroy you out of
prejudice. 2

Acceptance is basic to letting others be themselves. Consider the next

four verses of Romans 14 as we turn to a second guideline.

One man regards one day above another, another regards every day
alike. Let each man be fully convinced in his own mind. He who
observes the day, observes it for the Lord, and he who eats, does so
for the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who eats not, for the
Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to God. For not one of us lives
for himself,

2. Gladys M. Hunt, "That's No Generation Gap!" Eternity Magazine,

October 1969, p. 15.

and not one dies for himself; for if we live, we live for the Lord, or if
we die, we die for the Lord; therefore whether we live or die, we are
the Lord's, (vv. 5-8)

Guideline two: Refusing to dictate to others allows the Lord freedom

to direct their lives. Do you want to help others grow to maturity?
Here's how. Let them grow up differently. Let them unfold to
blossom at their own pace and in their own way. Let them decide for
themselves. Let them have the freedom to fail and learn from their
own mistakes.

Each of us belongs to the Lord, Paul states in verse 8. When we

realize that, we will stop dictating and start trusting the Lord to
direct the steps of His children.

The third guideline is found in verses 9-12.

For to this end Christ died and lived again, that He might be Lord
both of the dead and of the living. But you, why do you judge your
brother? Or you again, why do you regard your brother with
contempt? For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of God.
For it is written,
4 As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to Me,

And every tongue shall give praise to God." So then each one of us
shall give account of himself to God.

Guideline three: Freeing others means we never assume a position

were not qualified to fill. What keeps us from being qualified to
judge? Several things.

Not being omniscient, we don't know all the facts. Unable to see into
people's hearts, we can't read motives. Being finite, we lack "the big
picture." Having poor spiritual eyesight, we live with blind spots and
blurred perspectives. Most of all, being human, we are imperfect,
inconsistent, and subjective.

Does this guideline mean we must always agree with each other?
Certainly not. But it does mean we should be civil in our conflicts.

The final guideline flows out of verses 13-18.

Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather

determine this—not to put an obstacle or a stumbling block in a
brother's way. I know and

am convinced in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself; but

to him who thinks anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean. For if
because of food your brother is hurt, you are no longer walking
according to love. Do not destroy with your food him for whom
Christ died. Therefore do not let what is for you a good thing be
spoken of as evil; for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking,
but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. For he who in
this way serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men.

Guideline four: Loving others requires us to express our liberty

wisely. In other words, love must rule. Our goal is not to please
ourselves—or others—but the Lord (2 Cor. 5:9, 15). He is the one who
bought us with His blood.

Consequently, we shouldn't act out our lives according to what others

say. Rather, we should act out our lives on the basis of our love for
others because we answer to Christ (v. 10).

One way to show our love for others is by expressing our liberty
wisely. We do that by enjoying our liberty without flaunting it . . .
quietly, privately, and with those of like mind who aren't offended by
the liberty.

A Few Actions That Signify Grace

We want to conclude our discussion today with a few thoughts culled

from Romans 14:19.

So then let us pursue the things which make for peace and the
building up of one another.

On the basis of this statement, consider a few actions that signify

grace.

1. Concentrate on things that encourage peace and assist other s

growth. Filter whatever you do through this twofold grid: Is this
going to encourage peace? and, Is this going to hurt and offend or
help and strengthen?

2. Remember that sabotaging saints hurts the work of God. Paul

warns in verse 20 not to "tear down the work of God for the sake of
food." You sabotage the saints when you flaunt your liberty, knowing
that others have convictions against it. Enjoy your liberty, but enjoy
it discreetly.

3. Exercise your liberty only with those who can enjoy it with you.
That means to keep it private and personal That's not deception. It's
wise and necessary restraint.

4. Determine where you stand and refuse to play God in anyone

else's life. By letting others be, you free yourself to give full attention
to what God is trying to make of you. When you're totally absorbed
with that, you won't have the time or the energy to hold on to
somebody else's life.

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STUDY ONE

Romans 14 is a chapter not about issues central to the faith but about
peripheral things like meat sacrificed to idols and the observance of
religious days. Paul's point is that these peripheral issues shouldn't
cause division.

Like a human body, the body of Christ should have unity and
diversity. It should not only incorporate a diversity of gifts (1 Cor.
12), but it should tolerate a diversity of opinions (Rom. 14).

That principle holds just as true today as it did almost two thousand
years ago. The following is a list of contemporary issues, all
peripheral. What are your convictions about these gray-area issues?
How were these convictions formed in your life—parental influence,
peers, childhood experiences, church teachings?

Movies

Television

Cosmetics

Clothes

Going to a restaurant that sells liquor

Cosmetic surgery

Birth control

Having a daily quiet time

Music

Dancing

Drinking
The lottery

Now search through the Bible to support your convictions with

Scripture.

Movies

Television

Cosmetics

Clothes

Going to a restaurant that sells liquor

Cosmetic surgery

Birth control

Having a daily quiet time

Music

Dancing

Drinking

The lottery

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STUDY TWO

Of the convictions you listed in Study One, which ones cause the
most divisiveness in your relationship with others?

What could you do to demonstrate more tolerance with others whose

convictions are different from yours?
Look up the following references, and jot down some principles
concerning your relationship with those within the body of Christ.

Romans 15:7

1 Thessalonians 5:14, compared with Hebrews 12:12-13

Matthew 5:9, Hebrews 12:14, Romans 12:18

Romans 14:19

Galatians 5:22-23

Chapter 9

Graciously Disagreeing and Pressing On

Acts 15:36-41

One of the marks of maturity is the ability to disagree without

becoming disagreeable. And that takes grace. In fact, handling
disagreements with tact is one of the crowning achievements of
grace.

Unfortunately, it seems that the older we get the more stingy we

become in giving grace to others. This is especially true of those of us
in the evangelical community. You would think that the church
would be the one place a person could find tolerance, tact, open-
mindedness, and plenty of room for disagreement. But it's not. The
doors are most often closed to differing points of view.

And more often than not these differences give rise to dissension.
There are wonderful exceptions, of course; but when most Christians
disagree, they do so in a blunt and tactless way, sometimes even in
an accusatory and sarcastic way.

Ephesians 4:29 offers a bit of corrective advice to such people.

Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a
word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment,
that it may give grace to those who hear.

"That it may give grace to those who hear." What a goal! What an
incentive to clean up our critical attitudes and speak the truth in
love!

Things We Agree on regarding Disagreements

Even if we do pursue peace, and even if we are as positive and as

tactful as we can be, disagreements will still arise. The following are
four things most of us would agree on regarding disagreements.

1. Disagreements are inevitable. Pick any subject and you will find
people perched on either side of the fence. Animal rights. Capital
punishment. Day care. If you're for it, you can bet someone else is
against it. Because we are so diverse, differences are bound

to arise. But that's what freedom is all about—respecting other

people's differences, whether those differences are racial, political, or
ideological. That's what religious freedom is all about. And even
though our theological persuasion may not bend, our involvement
with others must. There must be "wobble room" that allows for
differences.

2. Even the godly will sometimes disagree. For some, it's difficult to
understand how two people who passionately love the Lord and His
Word could stand diametrically opposed on certain issues. But they
can. Consider the confrontation between Paul and Barnabas in Acts
15:36-41, which we will be studying in more detail in our lesson
today. Fortunately, when we get to heaven, we will be a renewed
body of believers living in perfect harmony with each other. But until
then, we will disagree on occasion—even the most godly of us.

3. In every disagreement there will be the same two ingredients: an

issue and various viewpoints. The issue involves principles and is
usually objective. The viewpoints involve personalities and are
usually subjective. Therein lies the source of most every clash—a
disagreement on an issue because of opposing points of view.
Understanding these two simple ingredients will help you keep calm
and collected in a conflict with others. Why? The next fact will
explain.

4. In many disagreements each side is valid. Differing viewpoints are

not so much an "I am right and you are wrong" matter as they are an
"I see it from this perspective, and you see it from that perspective"
matter. Both sides of most disagreements have strengths and
weaknesses, which means neither side is airtight in its logic or
ironclad in its conclusions. Nevertheless, any disagreement can lead
to division; any conflict can create a rift in a relationship.

A Disagreement between Two Godly Leaders

Sometimes God uses a major disagreement between two capable

servants of His to spread the gospel in different directions. That is
exactly what happened with Paul and Barnabas. Two more
dedicated, more godly men couldn't have been found in the first
century. Both were effective and spiritually minded. Neither was
selfish or immature. But what sparks flew when those two men of
spiritual steel clashed!

Let's look now into the biblical account and set the stage for the
tremor that shook those two pillars of the New Testament church. It

all started when they took their first missionary journey together.
Accompanying those two well-rooted men of the faith was a young
man named John Mark, a mere sapling of a saint, who was Barnabas'
cousin.

And when they reached Salamis, they began to pn> claim the word of
God in the synagogues of the Jews; and they also had John as their
helper. (Acts 13:5)

When the team trudged through Pamphylia, they reached an

imposing range of mountains that stood before them like strong-
shouldered giants of stone. To make matters worse, the coastline was
infested with malaria-carrying mosquitoes. Needless to say, when
they reached Perga in Pamphylia, the honeymoon of adventure had
become totally eclipsed. Perhaps he lost heart. Perhaps he grew
homesick. Whatever the reason, John Mark had had enough of
missionary life.

Now Paul and his companions put out to sea from Paphos and came
to Perga in Pamphylia; and John left them and returned to
Jerusalem, (v. 13)

John Mark's missionary dream had turned into a major nightmare.

When the going got tough, he got tired. Just when they all needed to
pull together, he pulled out. His timing couldn't have been worse. It's
very possible that Paul had gone down for the count after a bout with
malaria or migraines from an eye disease. Later on the trip, Paul was
stoned and left for dead.

The Critical Issue

Sometime after returning from that first journey, Paul wanted to see
how those churches were doing, so he planned a return trip. That's
when the disagreement happened.

And after some days Paul said to Barnabas, "Let us return and visit
the brethren in every city in which we proclaimed the word of the
Lord, and see how they are." And Barnabas was desirous of taking
John, called Mark, along with them also. But Paul kept insisting that
they should not take him along who had deserted them in Pamphylia
and had not gone with them to the work. (15:36-38)

Remember what we said earlier? In every disagreement there are two

ingredients: an objective issue and an opposing viewpoint.

The issue: Should a person who defects from a mission and leaves
people in the lurch be given a second chance on a similar mission?
The viewpoints: Paul said no, Barnabas said yes.

The Opposing Viewpoints

Each man was fully convinced he was right, because each viewed the
issue from a different vantage point. Barnabas was people-oriented;
Paul was more task-oriented. Barnabas was a man of compassion;
Paul was a man of conviction. Barnabas was a builder of men; Paul
was a planter of churches.

Paul looked at the issue from the viewpoint of the overall good of the
ministry. Barnabas looked at the issue from the viewpoint of the
overall good of the man.

A close examination of the text reveals the intensity of Paul's feelings.

The Greek word translated "deserted" in verse 38 is a term from
which we get the word apostasized. In Paul's mind John Mark had
done more than jump ship; he had apostasized, he had been
unfaithful.

To some of us, Paul may seem harsh and Barnabas greathearted. But
before we side with Barnabas, let's look at a proverb that
undoubtedly had popped into Paul's pragmatic mind:

Like a bad tooth and an unsteady foot

Is confidence in a faithless man in time of trouble.

(Prov. 25:19) 1

Paul had a point. But we're really not trying to get you to cast a vote
for either viewpoint. We're just trying to get you to see both sides of
the issue. It's hard to do that, though, when emotions are flaring—
which is what was happening in verse 39.

And there arose such a sharp disagreement that they separated from
one another, and Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to
Cyprus. (Acts 15:39)

The Greek word for "sharp disagreement" is paroxysm. Interestingly,

our English word "paroxysm" is transliterated letter for letter.

1. The German scholar Franz Delitzsch amplifies the verse with this
paraphrase: "He who in a time of need makes a faithless man his
ground of confidence, is like one who seeks to bite with a broken
tooth, and which he finally crushes, and one who supports himself on
a shaking leg, and thus stumbles and falls." F. Delitzsch, Proverbs, in
Commentary on the Old Testament in Ten Volumes, C. F. Keil and F.
Delitzsch, trans. James Martin (reprint, Grand Rapids, Mich.:
William B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1978), vol. 6, p. 165.

Webster says paroxysm is "a fit, attack, or sudden increase or

recurrence of symptoms (as of a disease)." 2 It is a convulsion, a
violent emotion. Such a rift resulted from Paul and Barnabas'
disagreement that the torn relationship could not be easily or quickly
mended. The final outcome? "They separated from one another."

The Permanent Separation

The two men went their separate ways and never ministered together
again. If you take out a Bible atlas, you'll find that they trekked off in
opposite directions. Barnabas and John Mark traveled the water
route to Cyprus. Paul and his new partner, Silas, traveled the land
route in a northeasterly direction to Syria, turning westward to
Cilicia and the surrounding cities.

But Paul chose Silas and departed, being committed by the brethren
to the grace of the Lord. And he was traveling through Syria and
Cilicia, strengthening the churches, (vv. 40-41)

Keep in mind that Paul and Barnabas were longtime friends.

Remember, Barnabas was the one who introduced the converted
persecutor of the church to the Christian community (see Acts 9:19b
—27). But in a fireworks display of emotion, their ministry together
blew up in their faces.

Yet just as a violent storm leaves a nourishing rain in its wake, so

also good things can result from a tempestuous falling out. Who
knows what ministries grew up in Cyprus and blossomed in the
regions beyond? Furthermore, it was John Mark who wrote the
gospel of Mark.

Time healed the wounds of that closing encounter between Paul and
Barnabas. Later in his life Paul wrote favorably of Barnabas (see 1
Cor. 9:6). He even wrote favorably of John Mark: "Pick up Mark and
bring him with you, for he is useful to me for service" (2 Tim. 4:11b).
The best part of this story is that both of these strongly principled
men got over their disagreement. In too many cases the battles go on
and on, long after the dust of the original conflict has settled. How
many people today are sitting in a stew of bitterness over past
battles, still licking their wounds?

2. Webster's Ninth New Collegiate Dictionary, see "paroxysm.

Disagreements are discouraging, but they need not be debilitating.

Paul and Barnabas didn't spend the remainder of their lives getting
back at each other. That takes grace.

Modeling Grace through Disagreeable Times

We will all encounter those with whom we disagree. We can't escape

that. But we can learn to disagree graciously. Here are four
suggestions to help you become a model of grace when those
disagreeable times come.

First: Always leave room for an opposing viewpoint. A word for those
of you with teenagers: If you don't have room for an opposing
viewpoint, you're not going to fare well in weathering their
adolescent years. During that time, teens can be quite vocal in their
opposition. And what catches us off guard is that sometimes it's not
rebellion; sometimes they're right! Their different point of view can,
at worst, be challenging. At best, it can change our perspective.

Second: If an argument must occur, don t assassinate. An argument

is one thing. Character assassination is another. If you have to put on
boxing gloves and get in the ring, don't resort to hitting below the
belt. If you must fight, fight fair.

Third: If you dont get your way, get over it and get on with life. If you
wind up on the short end of the stick in a congregational vote, don't
take your ball and pout all the way home. Get over it and get on with
your life. Don't call for a recount or a referendum. Don't filibuster the
congregation, droning on and on about your defeat. Life is too short
to be petty and too precious to piddle it away pouting.
Fourth: Sometimes the best solution is a separation. The situation
with Paul and Barnabas set a biblical precedent for this. They
couldn't come to terms so they took to the road. If separation is the
best solution, do it graciously. How do you know when it's time to
put a little distance between you and the person you're having
problems with? When your disagreements start to outweigh your
agreements. Separation is never easy, but it may be God's way of
moving you on to another dimension of ministry. That ministry may
be the mountaintop experience of your life. Separation is merely the
valley you have to go through to get there.
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Living Jnsi ghts study one

We've learned much from our passage today in Acts 15, which
detailed the disagreement that arose between Paul and Barnabas.
Now let's go further and investigate some other portions of Scripture
that address this difficult issue of conflict.

What is Paul's advice in 1 Corinthians 1: 10 about quarrels that arise

within the body of Christ?

According to 3:1-3, what does strife within a church reveal?

From 11:18-19 what positive result arises out of conflicts?

How can divisions within the body of Christ be eliminated, according

to 12:25?

How do you respond when someone opposes your viewpoint on

something?

How can you disagree with someone without becoming disagreeable?

What three pieces of advice come out of James 1:19 that would prove
helpful when someone disagrees with you?

1.

2.

3.

What advice about conflicts can you derive from these proverbs?
6:16-19

11:14-

12:15
14:29

15:1 _

15:18

17:14

17:27

18:13

18:19

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Livin g Insi ghts studytwo

Jesus said, "Where two or three have gathered together in My name,

there I am in their midst" (Matt. 18:20). But it seems like a modern
paraphrase captures the current condition of many twentieth-
century churches: Where two or three are gathered together in His
name, there is disagreement.

How you handle disagreement will determine whether your

relationships will turn out (destructively or constructively . . .
whether they tear down or build up.

Read through 1 Corinthians 14:1-26. What principle keeps recurring

in the passage that helps minimize divisions?

Let's dissect another key passage and see what we can learn about
this process of building up one another.

Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a
word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment,
that it may give grace to those who hear. (Eph. 4:29)

What would be some examples of things that might be classified as

unwholesome words?
What are some examples of a word that is good for edification?

How are you able to discern what the need of the moment is?

According to Ephesians 4:29, how does God dispense His grace to

others?

What is the Holy Spirit saying to you regarding the specific

application of this verse to your life?

Write Ephesians 4:29 on a three-by-five-inch card and carry it

around with you until you've memorized it. The echo of it in your
thoughts will come in handy when a conflict arises with another
person.

Chapter 10

Grace: Up Close and Personal

Selected Scripture

Perhaps the greatest book ever written besides the Bible was The
Pilgrim's Progress. This seventeenth-century classic, written by John
Bunyan, has touched millions of lives since its publication.

The allegorical story traces the pilgrimage of a man named Christian

as he journeys from earth to heaven, from sin to salvation. Along the
way he encounters such friends as Evangelist and Inter-preter. He
also comes up against such foes as Despair and Legality.

In the earlier part of his journey, Christian travels with a heavy pack
on his back that represents sin. Some of those who worked against
him promised to relieve the burden, but none could—least of all
Legality.

This Legality, therefore, is not able to set thee free from thy burden.
No man was as yet ever rid of his burden by him; no, nor ever is like
to be: ye cannot be justified by the works of the law. 1
Not long after encountering Legality, Christian comes to the home of
Interpreter, who leads him to a large room full of dust. It had never
been swept since the day it was built. Bunyan describes how the
room finally came to be swept clean.

Then he took him by the hand, and led him into a very large parlor,
that was full of dust, because never swept; the which after he had
reviewed it a little while, the Interpreter called for a man to sweep.
Now, when he began to sweep, the dust began so abundantly to fly
about that Christian had almost therewith been choked. Then said
the Interpreter to a damsel that stood by, "Bring hither water, and
sprinkle the room"; the which when she had done, it was swept and
cleansed with pleasure.

1. John Bunyan, The Pilgrim's Progress (Old Tappan, N.J.: Fleming

H. Revell Co., Spire Books, 1977), p. 26.

Then said Christian, "What meaneth this?" The Interpreter

answered, "This parlor is the heart of a man that was never sanctified
by the sweet grace of the Gospel. The dust is his original sin, and
inward corruptions that have defiled the whole man. He that began
to sweep at first is the law; but she that brought water, and did
sprinkle it, is the Gospel. Now whereas thou sawest that, as soon as
the first began to sweep, the dust did so fly about that the room could
not by him be cleaned, but that thou wast almost choked therewith;
this is to show thee, that the law, instead of cleansing the heart (by
its working) from sin, doth revive, put strength into, and increase it
in the soul, even as it doth discover and forbid it, for it doth not give
power to subdue. Again, as thou sawest the damsel sprinkle the room
with water, upon which it was cleansed with pleasure: this is to show
thee, that when the Gospel comes, in the sweet and gracious
influences thereof, to the heart, then, I say, even as thou sawest the
damsel lay the dust by sprinkling the floor with water, so is sin
vanquished and subdued, and the soul made clean through the faith
of it, and, consequently, fit for the King of Glory to inhabit." 2

To cleanse the room of all its defilements it took grace. It still does.
Christian's original name was Graceless. The same thing could be
said today of all of us who have become Christians, for before we
came to know Jesus we were graceless. Having been graceless for so
many years, are we living lives now that are full of grace? Has the
grace of the Lord Jesus so permeated us as to produce a grace
awakening in our lives?

If not, today's lesson will explore the process that can produce the
necessary changes to make us more grace-conscious people.

The Process That Leads to a Grace Awakening

Having cleansed our hearts of the debris of inward corruption and

the dust of sin's domination, God is now daily at work to

2. Bunyan, The Pilgrim's Progress, pp. 31-32.

awaken grace within us. His goal, as the following passages indicate,
is to bring our character to a Christlike completion.

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to
those who love God, to those who are called according to His
purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become
conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the first-born
among many brethren. (Rom. 8:28-29)

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work
in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. . . . who will
transform the body of our humble state into conformity with the
body of His glory, by the exertion of the power that He has even to
subject all things to Himself. (Phil. 1:6, 3:21)

Do not lie to one another, since you laid aside the old self with its evil
practices, and have put on the new self who is being renewed to a
true knowledge according to the image of the One who created him.
(Col. 3:9-10)

Under God's watchful eye, we are all engaged in our own pilgrim's
progress. He is fashioning the clay of our lives into the kiln-baked,
porcelain-finished image of Christ so that we might be like His son,
"full of grace and truth" (John 1:14). This process involves at least
three things.

First: It takes time. Learning anything takes time. Learning to

become models of grace takes years. Like wisdom, it comes slowly.
But God, meticulous craftsman that He is, is in no hurry, because He
is in the business of crafting character for eternity.

Second: It requires pain. As He gouges His fingers into the clay of

our lives, it's uncomfortable at best. When the clay resists and
becomes hardened to His efforts, the pain is even greater, for then
He has to take out His hammer and chisel. Because He loves us and
wants us to be like His Son, He chips away at our lives. His hammer
is wielded for us, not against us. But the process still is a painful one.

Third: It means change. Being graceless by nature, we resist the

hands of God as they try to mold us into what He wants us to be. Still
His hands ever knead our clay to make it pliable. Change is

inevitable because God does not tire nor give up. Remember the
verse? He who began a good work . . . will perfect it, will bring it to
completion.

Some Everyday Examples of Claiming Grace

In C. S. Lewis' Mere Christianity we read:

The real Son of God is at your side. He is beginning to turn you into
the same kind of thing as Himself. He is beginning, so to speak, to
"inject" His kind of life and thought . . . into you; beginning to turn
the tin soldier into a live man. The part of you that does not like it is
the part that is still tin. 3

There are areas in all our lives that are "still tin." Five common ones
are insecurity, weakness, abrasiveness, compromise, and pride.
Maybe by bringing grace up close and making it personal, we'll be
able to oil some of the stubborn tin that still clings to our lives. And
maybe then those rusty spots will become transformed into flesh.

The Tin of Insecurity — Claiming the Qrace to Be What I Am

In 1 Corinthians 15:9 Paul calls himself the least of the apostles and
unfit to even be called an apostle because of his persecutory past. But
instead of sinking in a sea of insecurity, Paul asserts with confidence
that "by the grace of God I am what I am" (v. 10). In spite of Paul's
past, in spite of his unfitness to bear the name "apostle," the grace of
God made him fit.

The Tin of Weakness — Claiming the Qrace to Learn from What I

Suffer

Another struggle we all live with is our own human weakness. A

suffering that medication doesn't relieve. A failure that prayer
doesn't remove. Because we're human, we're subject to all kinds of
maladies and malaises. Paul's thorn in the flesh is a case in point (see
2 Cor. 12:7-10). Prayer didn't remove the thorn. It was grace that
enabled him to bear that thorn with contentment.

3. C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity, rev. and enl. (New York, N.Y.:

Macmillan Publishing Co., Collier Books, 1952), p. 148.

The Tin of Abrasiveness — Claiming the Qrace to Respond to What I

Encounter

This type of grace has to do with our responses to people. The tin in
us tends to be abrasive, to snap back. But Paul instructs us that
speech should "always be with grace, seasoned, as it were, with salt,
so that you may know how you should respond to each person" (Col.
4:6). Our words should be timely, well-chosen, and tactful. Truth
alone can be hard to choke down. Grace makes truth not only
palatable but appetizing. Grace cushions our words so that the truth
can be received without needless offense.

The Tin of Compromise — Claiming the Qrace to Stand for What I

Believe

When strengthened by grace, we can stand firm against

compromising our principles (Heb. 13:9). Our tendency to
compromise stems from trying to appear as something we're not.
Grace strips away the tin and helps us to be ourselves so that when
we speak of our faith it rings true.

The Tin of Pride — Claiming the Qrace to Submit to What I Need

Pride is the stiff, unmalleable tin of our old nature that keeps us
standing erect in the presence of God instead of falling down
prostrate at His feet. If that's our spiritual posture, we will walk away
from His throne empty-handed, because "God is opposed to the
proud, but gives grace to the humble" (James 4:6; see also 1 Pet. 5:5,
Prov. 3:34).

Christ: Our Model of Grace

As pilgrims of faith, we travel a road that is often steep and rocky. It

helps to know that others have gone before us and pioneered the
way. In his book Thoughts for Life's ]ourney, George Matheson talks
about how discouraging the pilgrimage of faith can be and how
essential it is to look beyond that rocky incline to those who have
gone before us.

My soul, reject not the place of thy prostration! It has ever been thy
robing-room for royalty. Ask the great ones of the past what has been
the spot of their prosperity; they will say, "It was the cold ground on
which I once was lying." Ask Abraham; he will

point you to the sacrifice of Moriah. Ask Joseph; he will direct you to
his dungeon. Ask Moses; he will date his fortune from his danger in
the Nile. Ask Ruth; she will bid you build her monument in the field
of her toil. Ask David; he will tell you that his songs came from the
night. Ask Job; he will remind you that God answered him out of the
whirlwind. Ask Peter; he will extol his submersion in the sea. Ask
John; he will give the palm to Patmos. Ask Paul; he will attribute his
inspiration to the light which struck him blind. Ask one more—the
Son of Man. Ask Him whence has come His rule over the world. He
will answer, "From the cold ground on which I was lying—the
Gethsemane ground; I received My sceptre there." Thou too, my
soul, shalt be garlanded by Gethsemane. The cup thou fain wouldst
pass from thee will be thy coronet in the sweet by-and-by. The hour
of thy loneliness will crown thee. The day of thy depression will
regale thee. It is thy desert that will break forth into singing; it is the
trees of thy silent forest that will clap their hands. 4

George Matheson, John Bunyan, and the apostle Paul would all
agree: We on earth are in the "robing-room for royalty." And the
tailor's name is grace.

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Picture yourself as a tin soldier who is gradually turning into a real

one. Every joint that moves, every surface that softens, every hair
that grows is a new and unfamiliar experience.

That picture captures the process of God's grace at work in our lives,
taking us from rigid, lifeless tin to soft, living flesh. But the
transformation is painful . . . and it takes time.

Where are you in the process of transformation?

4. George Matheson, Thoughts for Life's Journey (New York, N.Y.:

Hodder and Stoughton, n.d.), pp. 266-67.

Describe how God is working with the tin of insecurity in your life.

. . . with the tin of weakness.

. . . with the tin of abrasiveness.

. . . with the tin of compromise.

. . . with the tin of pride.

In which area do you most need a grace awakening?

What needs to happen before that awakening can take place in your
life?
What is the proud, "tinny" response to God's transforming work (see
Isa. 45:9)?

What is the humble, pliable response (see Isa. 64:8)?

How can you humbly submit yourself before the almighty molding
power of God's hand (see 1 Pet. 5:6-7)?

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If you were walking a treacherous path, would you rather have road
signs along the way or a personal guide to walk with you hand in
hand, one who knew every twist and turn of the terrain?

Road signs are similar in function to the way the Law directs us. A
personal guide, on the other hand, is the way we are led when we are
guided by grace. Dr. Paul Tournier notes the distinction between the
two in his book Guilt and Grace.

What is so narrowing, oppressive and deadly about the Law or about

a moral code is that it is a thing. To rest upon it is to rest upon a
thing and not upon a person. But the entire message of the Bible is
that God is alive, He is a person, and He calls us into a living and
personal relationship with Himself. A law commands and prohibits—
and prohibits more

than it commands. A person speaks, inspires, directs, understands,

leads continuously to deeper and more discerning perceptions, and
produces a shift from the formal system of acts to the more
penetrating system of motivation. . . .

This, then, is the secret: a personal encounter with God. It brings a

much greater severity with oneself and at the same time a liberation
from morbid scruples. Life becomes a joyous adventure which is
endlessly renewed. 5

Pilgrim, how is your progress? How are you faring on the upward
climb of faith? A little disoriented, wondering which fork in the road
to take? A little discouraged, aching from the burden of legalistic
standards strapped to your back?

You don't need more road signs. You need to take the hand of the
trailblazer of our faith, the Lord Jesus Christ. Won't you spend some
time now praying for a more personal, more intimate encounter with
Him? It will change your life . . . and it will turn your cumbersome
climb into "a joyous adventure."

5. Paul Tournier, Guilt and Grace, trans. Arthur W. Heathcote (San

Francisco, Calif. Harper and Row, Publishers, 1962), pp. 167-68.

Chapter 11

Are You Really a Minister of Grace?

Selected Scripture

This chapter is dedicated to all of you. who serve some segment of

the body of Christ on a consistent basis. Perhaps you're a Sunday
school teacher, an elder, a deacon, or a musician. Whatever capacity
you serve in, this lesson is tailor-made for you.

To begin, we need to ask a crucial question: Are you a minister of

grace?

Many other questions stream from this fountainhead to wash away

the cosmetic exterior that may be hiding your true self: Are the
people you serve given the freedom to be who they are, or do they
feel pressured to live up to your set of expectations? Do you let others
go, or do you smother them with control? Do people you minister to
feel intimidated or relieved in your presence? Are you cultivating
spontaneous, creative celebrants or fearful captives? Do you
encourage those to whom you minister, or do you discourage them?

These surging questions can knock the wind out of you, but before
you catch your breath, we need to ask a few more. Do you model
grace in your own life? Is your work energized by your own strength
and charisma? Is your agenda hidden? Are your motives pure and
proper? Do you exploit those to whom you minister? Is yours a
"grace awakening" ministry?

A Powerful Message from a Spirit>Directed Prophet

To help you appreciate the value of being a minister of grace, we

want to introduce you to one of the most obscure men in the Bible—
Zechariah.

Historical Background

At the time of Zechariah, Jerusalem lay in ruins. Her protective wall

had been reduced to rubble. Her houses had been routed. Her temple
had been razed. After living seventy years in captivity, her citizens
had returned and rebuilt the city wall under Nehemiah's leadership.
But reconstruction of the temple had not progressed beyond the
foundation phase.

With passionate rebukes, the prophet Haggai turned the people's

attention to the unfinished temple. But the blunt words of this
determined prophet, though they had had an effect on the people,
couldn't do the job by themselves.

God then raised up another prophet—Zechariah—to come alongside

and help finish the work that Haggai had started. He shared the
same vision as Haggai, but he spoke in a completely different style.
His approach was one of grace.

A Timeless Reminder

The catalyst to Zechariah's message came in the form of a vision,

recorded in Zechariah 4:1-5.

Then the angel who was speaking with me returned, and roused me
as a man who is awakened from his sleep. And he said to me, "What
do you see?" And I said, "I see, and behold, a lampstand all of gold
with its bowl on the top of it, and its seven lamps on it with seven
spouts belonging to each of the lamps which are on the top of it; also
two olive trees by it, one on the right side of the bowl and the other
on its left side."Then I answered and said to the angel who was
speaking with me saying, "What are these, my lord?" So the angel
who was speaking with me answered and said to me, "Do you not
know what these are?" And I said, "No, my lord."

As Zechariah rubbed the sleep from his eyes, the angel interpreted
this rousing revelation for him. The word was for a weary and
discouraged Zerubbabel, the governor saddled with the task of
completing the temple.

Then he answered and said to me, "This is the word of the Lord to
Zerubbabel saying, 'Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,'
says the Lord of hosts. 'What are you, O great mountain? Before
Zerubbabel you will become a plain; and he will bring forth the top
stone with shouts of "Grace, grace to it!"'" (vv. 6-7)

The reconstruction project loomed before Zerubbabel like the sheer

face of Mount Everest. And he had few volunteers willing to

make the arduous climb. The new generation was simply apathetic,
and the old generation was simply too tired from rebuilding the wall.

The words of grace in verses 6-7 must have come like a cup of cold
water to Zerubbabel's weary soul. It must have taken a big burden off
his back to learn that the responsibility for completing the temple
was not the governor's but God's.

Theodore Laetsch, in his thorough work on the Minor Prophets,

comments on verse 6.

The two Hebrew words for "might" and "power" denote inner
strength, . . . inherent power, courageous bravery, fortitude, as well
as manpower, large numbers of soldiers, riches, leaders, well co-
ordinated organizations, good financial systems, etc. The Lord's
work, the building of His Temple, the inner growth, the expansion of
His Church cannot be properly carried out by mere external means.
Human strength and wisdom alone will fail. My Spirit must do it! 1

God's best work is not going to be done by human might or fleshly

power. Our tendency, however, is to rely on our own strength. After
all, cracking the whip does get results—just ask Pharaoh. But our
blueprint for building shouldn't come from Egypt. It should come
from heaven. From foundation to capstone, the temple was to be
erected by grace, and grace alone.

How about the things that you're building? Are you relying on
human might and power? Or are you relying on God's Spirit? Do you
keep coming back to Egypt for advice when you run into a snag?
What will it take to bring you back to a by-grace-alone style of
ministry?

A Strong Warning

Every project you undertake can be accomplished your way or God's

way. And sometimes only God can see the difference. Externally, it
may look like God did the work; but internally, if it's initiated by your
motives and completed by your strength, it's your work. It stands as a
monument to you, not to God. There is no glory vertically, and there
is no grace horizontally. Nor is there any

1. Theodore Laetsch, Bible Commentary: The Minor Prophets (St.

Louis, Mo.: Concordia Publishing House, 1956), p. 428.

satisfaction. Human strength is impressive, logical, and it works. But

satisfaction is elusive; the only echoes from the hollow ring oi human
success are pride and guilt.

The great pastor of grace, Charles Haddon Spurgeon, says this about
a pastor who operates in the flesh.

A graceless pastor is a blind man elected to a professorship of optics,

philosophising upon light and vision, discoursing upon and
distinguishing to others the nice shades and delicate blendings oi the
prismatic colours, while he himself is absolutely in the dark! He is a
dumb man elevated to the chair of music; a deaf man fluent upon
symphonies and harmonies! He is a mole professing to educate
eaglets; a limpet elected to preside over angels. . . .

. . . Moreover, when a preacher is poor in grace, any lasting good

which may be the result oi his ministry, will usually be feeble and
utterly out of proportion with what might have been expected. 2
Two characteristics—the first concerning projects and the second,
people—stand out in those who operate in the effort of the flesh
rather than in the energy of grace. First, those who operate in the
flesh use human might in order to accomplish visible projects. They
import strategies from the world in order to make an impression;
they adapt secular managerial styles to manipulate things in their
favor.

Second, those with a mighuand-power style rely on personality

power to get their way with people. They rely on charisma rather
than character, schemes rather than service, embarrassing others
rather than setting an example for others to follow.

But when we restrain our own might and power and give the Spirit
room to work, all the glory goes to God, and we get a satisfaction that
nothing else can replicate.

Some Obvious Marks of a Grace^Oriented Minister

Several centuries after Zechariah's prophecy, we come upon the

living temple of the New Testament church. Here we find several
more characteristics of those who are truly ministers of grace.

2. C. H. Spurgeon, Lectures to M\ Students (1954; reprint, Grand

Rapids, Mich.: Zondervan Publishing House, 1969), pp. 9-10, 8.

One of those characteristics is generosity with personal possessions.

In the first century, when the cradle of the infant church was first
rocked, generosity festooned the fellowship hall.

And the congregation of those who believed were of one heart and
soul; and not one of them claimed that anything belonging to him
was his own; but all things were common property to them. And with
great power the apostles were giving witness to the resurrection of
the Lord Jesus, and abundant grace was upon them all. For there was
not a needy person among them, for all who were owners of land or
houses would sell them and bring the proceeds of the sales, and lay
them at the apostles' feet; and they would be distributed to each, as
any had need. (Acts 4:32-35)
This abundance of grace prompted an outpouring of generosity. And
the result? "There was not a needy person among them"! An
atmosphere of grace is characterized by an absence of selfishness.
After all, freely we have received, so freely we should give (see Matt.
10:8b).

A second characteristic of a grace-oriented minister is

encouragement in unusual settings. Grace is what keeps a person
flexible and willing to adapt. One of the adaptations the Jerusalem
church had to undergo was taking the gospel beyond strictly Jewish
racial boundaries to reach the Gentiles. Acts 11:19-23 records the first
baby steps of the infant church in that direction.

So then those who were scattered because of the persecution that

arose in connection with Stephen made their way to Phoenicia and
Cyprus and Anti-och, speaking the word to no one except to Jews
alone. But there were some of them, men of Cyprus and Cyrene, who
came to Antioch and began speaking to the Greeks also, preaching
the Lord Jesus. And the hand of the Lord was with them, and a large
number who believed turned to the Lord. And the news about them
reached the ears of the church at Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas
off to Antioch. Then when he had come and witnessed the grace of
God, he rejoiced and began to encourage them all with resolute heart
to remain true to the Lord.

Instead of an all-Jewish congregation, Barnabas saw a church filled

with Gentiles praising the Savior. He saw grace at work, and he
applauded it. And He modeled grace in his response of adapting and
giving encouragement in what was for him an unusual situation.

A third mark of grace is a life that's lived beyond the letter of the law.
A grace-awakened minister doesn't bash believers with the Bible or
wag a dogmatic finger at the people in the pews. The minister of
grace is one living under the freedom of the new covenant— not
under the constraints of the old.

Not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming

from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, who also made us
adequate as servants of a new covenant, not of the letter, but of the
Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life. (2 Cor. 3:5-6)

The ministry of grace, according to Paul, doesn't depend upon

adequacy (2:16b, 3:5), but upon authenticity (2:17). It emphasizes
personal relationships (3:1-4) and exhibits the importance of a
servant mentality (3:6).

It's important to be committed to the truth of God's Word, but that

must be balanced with grace toward people. Our goal is not to be
faster than a computerized concordance; our goal is to be like Jesus,
full of grace and truth (John 1:14, 17).

The fourth characteristic of a grace-oriented minister is liberty for

creative expression. Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 3:17,

Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there
is liberty.

William Barclay illuminates Paul's words for us.

He means that so long as man's obedience to God is conditioned by

obedience to a code of laws he is in the position of an unwilling slave.
But when it comes from the operation of the Spirit in his heart, the
very centre of his being has no other desire than to serve God, for
then it is not law but love which binds him. 3

3. William Barclay, The Letters to the Corinthians, rev. ed., The Daily
Study Bible Series (Philadelphia, Pa.: Westminster Press, 1975), p.
194.

In your ministry do you really allow the freedom for creative

expression? Do you restrict various forms of expression in worship,
or is your love stronger than liturgy?

The fifth characteristic of a grace-awakened minister is the ability to

release from past failures. A grace ministry doesn't keep dredging up
the past and slinging it in people's faces. Grace, like love, doesn't act
unbecomingly and keep an account of wrongs. Instead, it throws a
blanket of forgiveness over the past. See how Paul dealt with his own
past in 1 Timothy 1:12-14.

I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, because He
considered me faithful, putting me into service; even though I was
formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent aggressor. And
yet I was shown mercy, because I acted igno-rantly in unbelief; and
the grace of our Lord was more than abundant, with the faith and
love which are found in Christ Jesus.

Violence and blasphemy checkered Paul's past, but grace was

available in such abundance that though his sins were as scarlet, they
became white as snow (see Isa. 1:18). Consequently, when Paul talks
about his past, he isn't airing dirty laundry; he's hanging out white
linen for everyone to see the cleansing power of God's grace.

The same is true for us. No matter whether our past is stained with
sexual sin, darkened by divorce, or discolored from addiction, the
detergent of grace is tougher than any stain that soils our lives.

Marching Orders to All Ministers of Grace

Shortly before he died, Paul, the apostle of grace, urged Timothy,

"My son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus" (2 Tim. 2:1).
Model it. Teach it. Demonstrate it.

If we are to build the church that will withstand the heat in this life
and the refining fire of judgment in the next, it can't be built by our
own might and power. If it is, it will ultimately collapse under its own
weight. If it is to stand the test of time and eternity, it must be built—
from foundation to steeple—on truth and grace.

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STUDY ONE

Are you a minister of grace? Let's personalize this question with

which we introduced our topic for today. To help arrive at an answer,
check the boxes below that apply to you.
I believe that . . .

□ Having problems is sin.

□ Emotions are sinful.

□ A compulsive disorder is sinful.

□ Having fun is sinful.

□ Spirituality equals perfection.

□ Sexuality equals sin.

□ Success (or its lack) is sinful.

□ Becoming a Christian fixes everything within me.

□ If I am not healed it is a sin.

□ Problems are a part of my human condition. I can bring them to

God and my fellow Christians.

□ Emotions are neither good nor bad. It's what I do with them. "Be
angry and sin not."

□ There is a difference between a compulsive disorder or disease and

sinful behavior.

□ There are many different ways to delight in God's goodness.

□ We are to live within grace and not legalism.

□ Our sexuality is a part of who we are as people and is to be enjoyed.

□ Prosperity or poverty is not due to deficient spirituality.

□ Accepting Christ in my life enables and empowers me to face

issues.
□ Having illness is not due to my lack of faith. 4

4. From "Shame-based and Healthy Spirituality" by Earl Henslin, as

cited in The Grace Awakening, by Charles R. Swindoll (Waco, Tex.:
Word Books, 1990), chap. 9. All rights reserved.

The more your check marks fell into the column on the left, the
greater tendency you have toward being a legalistic person. If that's
true of you, your spirituality is shame-based, relying on living up to
the standards of others. If, however, your check marks fell more into
the column on the right, you are a more grace-oriented person and
have a healthier spirituality.

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STUDY TWO

The angel's blueprints for rebuilding the temple in Zechariah 4:6 also
give us the pattern whereby we can rebuild the demolished temples
in our own lives.

Maybe you once had a sacred friendship that was razed by some
devastating calamity or some crushing misunderstanding. Maybe
you had a business go bankrupt and saw your dreams for the future
turn into rubble. Maybe your marriage collapsed, and you fell, buried
underneath tons of its debris. Or maybe the temple that was
destroyed was the temple of your own body, ruined by drugs, illicit
sex, overeating, or some other destructive influence.

Whatever the devastation, God can rebuild your life. How? The same
way He prescribed the temple to be rebuilt—"Not by might nor by
power, but by My Spirit."

In the space provided, describe the devastation of a temple of your

own that weighs heavy on your heart, like Jerusalem's temple did on
the heart of Zechariah.

What have you tried to do in your own might and power to rebuild it?
Has it worked?

What was the result?

What specific things could you do to step aside and allow God's Spirit
to do the rebuilding?

1.

2.

3.

4.

Thumb through the pages of your memory to recall some biblical

illustrations of people who tried to accomplish God-given goals by
their own strength and ingenuity.

What were the results?

Now try to recall some examples of people who trusted in God and
accomplished His purposes in the power of His Spirit.

What were the results?

If your task is to trust God to do an impossible construction job in

your life, your family, your job, or some other demolished area,
remember—God delights in rolling up His sleeves for just such
projects, because He "is able to do exceeding abundantly beyond all
that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us."
(Eph. 3:20)

Chapter 12

A Marriage Oiled by Grace

Selected Scripture
^ctress Celeste Holm said, "We live by encouragement and die x\>
without it—slowly, sadly, angrily." 1 No matter if we're the CEO of a
Fortune 100 company or just the night janitor who empties the
wastebaskets, we all need encouragement. It's the oil that lubricates
our soul and keeps it from grinding to a rusting halt.

The lack of encouragement is almost epidemic today. It's the reason

people dread going to work in the morning. It's why kids can't wait to
get out o{ school—and why some people can't wait to get out of a
marriage.

What is it that enables us to give our mates this crucial

encouragement? Grace —the lubricant that lessens the friction in
marriage and keeps the gears of the relationship running smoothly.

No study on the subject of grace would be complete without

addressing its importance in marriage. In today's lesson we want to
focus on the essential value of grace in three areas of the husband-
wife relationship: realities, responsibilities, and roles.

The Grace to Face Marital Realities

Let's turn our attention to 1 Corinthians 7, where we'll find three

realities every married couple must face. The first is that marriage
requires mutual unselfishness.

Let the husband fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife
to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body,
but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have
authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one
another, except by agreement for a time that you may devote
yourselves to prayer,

1. Celeste Holm, Reader's Digest Treasury of Modem Quotations

(New York, N.Y.: Reader's Digest Press, 1975), p. 484.

and come together again lest Satan tempt you be-cause of your lack
of self-control, (vv. 3-5)
Paul writes of "duty" and "authority" and "depriving" of one another.
Contextually, these terms relate to sexual intimacy. But the
application is much broader than that. The underlying principle in
these verses has to do with unselfishness.

What does it take to operate in an intimate relationship unselfishly?

It takes grace. Grace to accept, to overlook, to understand. Grace to
forgive, to respect, to yield. Grace to affirm, to encourage, to give (see
1 Cor. 13:4-8a).

The second reality undergirding 1 Corinthians 7 is that marriage

means a lifelong commitment.

But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the
wife should not leave her husband (but if she does leave, let her
remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that
the husband should not send his wife away. But to the rest I say, not
the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she
consents to live with him, let him not send her away. And a woman
who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, let
her not send her husband away, (vv. 10-13)

The marriage institution was never designed for those whose first
response is to drop out when the course load gets too heavy. So
unless you are ready for a commitment that lasts for a lifetime, don't
marry.

Paul's counsel in these verses couldn't be more emphatic. No less

than four times does he take out his pen and underscore the
permanency of the relationship (vv. 10, 11, 12, 13).

What does it take to form a permanent bond like that? It takes grace.
Grace to go on, to realize that you sometimes aren't all your partner
needs or wants or expected. The more grace there is in a marriage
relationship, the more oil there is available to dissipate the heat
caused by friction between the two partners.

There's yet a third reality that pops off the page of chapter 7:
marriage includes times of trouble.
I think then that this is good in view of the present distress, that it is
good for a man to remain as he

is. Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you
released from a wife? Do not seek a wife. But if you should marry,
you have not sinned; and if a virgin should marry, she has not
sinned. Yet such will have trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare
you. (vv. 26-28)

Every bride who thinks she's married a knight in shining armor had
better stock up on silver polish, because the tarnish sets in quickly.
And every groom who thinks he has married Wonder Woman —the
perfect blend of Mother Teresa, Betty Crocker, Chris Evert, and
Cheryl Ladd—is in for a rude awakening.

Troubles are inevitable. Troubles that range from burnt toast to

bedroom tiffs to big-time tragedies. And any one of these categories
of trouble can capsize a marriage if grace isn't at the helm.

The Grace to Accept Personal Responsibilities

So much for the realities of the marriage relationship; now let's

examine the responsibilities.

The Wife's Primary Responsibility

The wife's primary responsibility is to know herself so well and

respect herself so much that she is able to give herself to her husband
without hesitation, as Ephesians 5:22-24 instructs.

Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the

husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the
church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is
subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in
everything.

Many men have held these verses over their wife's head as a club. But
a closer examination of the verses preceding this passage reveals not
a dictatorial tone but a delicate one, resonant with harmony. There is
an emphasis on being wise (v. 15), being filled with the Spirit (v. 18),
overflowing with joy (v. 19), giving thanks (v. 20), and possessing a
submissive spirit to one another out of respect for Christ (v. 21). If
those things were as present in the marriage as they are in the
context, the wife would have little difficulty giving herself
unreservedly to her husband.

The Husband's Primary Responsibility

The husband's primary responsibility is to love the Lord so deeply

and to like himself so completely that he is able to give himself to his
wife without conditions, as Ephesians 5:25-30 indicates.

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and
gave Himself up for her; that He might sanctify her, having cleansed
her by the wash-ing of water with the word, that He might present to
Himself the church in ail her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any
such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless. So husbands
ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves
his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but
nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church,
because we are members of His body.

Again, grace is essential. It is the catalyst for chemical bonding to

take place. Without it, the mixture of the sexes is at best unstable; at
worst, it is explosive.

Dr. Kevin Leman notes the disparity between the roles that men and
women assume when they marry.

Down through the centuries women have been the pleasers, men the
controllers. . . .

Most women still do the giving, while the men continue to take. The
woman is the one who is more capable of compassion, support, and
being there when needed. Men still aren't in touch with their feelings
the way women are. They are less capable of reaching out to make
emotional contact. But they are very capable of reaching out to take
whatever a woman has to offer, and in so doing, they often take
advantage. 2
The more grace-oriented a man becomes, the less he desires to
control his wife. Grace doesn't crowd or stifle or suffocate; it allows
room for growth.

2. Kevin Leman, The Pleasers: Women Who Can't Say No — and the
Men Who Control Them (OldTappan, N.J.: Fleming H. Revell Co.,
1987), pp. 287-88.

When there is this type of grace-awakened love, the man loves his
wife as he loves himself and the wife respects her husband. Which is
exactly as God planned it.

Nevertheless let each individual among you also love his own wife
even as himself; and let the wife see to it that she respect her
husband, (v. 33)

The Grace to Fulfill Distinct Roles

We live in a day when roles within marriage have become blurred.

The consequences can be seen in the home. Many a child grows up
sexually confused, not knowing the significance of female femininity
or male masculinity.

These blurred distinctions are brought into focus for us in 1 Peter 3.

The Wife's Role

Peter begins chapter 3 by writing to those wives whose husbands are

indifferent about spiritual things.

In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so

that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be
won without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they observe
your chaste and respectful behavior, (vv. 1-2)

Remarkable. She wins her husband "without a word." How? Her life
does the talking. If lived with grace, it speaks to him more eloquently
and more poignantly than words ever could. And it is much more
attractive than any external enticement could ever be. That's why
Peter goes on to say,
Let not your adornment be merely external—braiding the hair, and
wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses, (v. 3)

Be careful not to use this verse in a legalistic way. It doesn't prohibit

wearing jewelry any more than it prohibits wearing dresses. It simply
means not to let your adornment be merely external. Finish the job
by giving the proper attention to internals.

But let it be the hidden person oi the heart, with the imperishable
quality oi a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight oi
God. (v. 4)

The wife's role, then, should be to model true femininity, character

traits that are precious to God and impressive to her husband.

The Husband's Role

In verse 7, Peter turns the spotlight on the man's role within the
marriage.

You husbands likewise, live with your wives in an understanding

way, as with a weaker vessel, since she is a woman; and grant her
honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers may
not be hindered.

The phrase "live with" means to "be at home with." The husband is
not to just flop himself down on the couch, kick off his shoes, and
nod off as he watches the nightly news. That's not the point of the
verbal metaphor. The point is to know each other, to share, to make
your mutual relationship a priority.

In fact, Peter goes further. He says, literally, "live with your wife
according to knowledge." Really get to know her. Climb into her
brain. See what she sees. Feel what she feels. Discover her most
severe hurts and her most traumatizing fears. Uncover her hidden
talents and her deepest joys.

Treat her as a weaker vessel, not emotionally or spiritually, but

physically. Take care of her, help her, and respect the differences
between you. In other words, be a masculine model of grace in your
home. The husband's role, then, should be to model genuine mascu-
Unity, unselfish and sensitive leadership that strengthens the home
and gives dignity to his wife.

On Being Heirs Together of the Grace of Life

We are also reminded in verse 7 that husband and wife are each "a
fellow heir of the grace of life." Each of the key words in this verse
has a special meaning. There is mutual equality—"fellow"; there is
mutual dignity—"heir"; there is mutual humility—"grace"; and there
is mutual destiny—"life."

If more marriages had this type of mutuality, there would be far

fewer partners jumping the marital fence in search of greener
pastures.

The echo of Celeste Holm's words, which began this chapter, comes
back to us: "We live by encouragement and we die without it—slowly,
sadly, angrily." If your marriage is failing, maybe it's

because your mate is dying—from lack of encouragement, lack of

affirmation, lack of respect . . . but most of all, from lack of grace,
grace that only you can give.

T Avin g Insights study one

Dr. Willard Harley, Jr., has written a fascinating book titled His
Needs, Her Needs. During his twenty years of marital counseling, he
has discovered five basic needs women expect their husbands to
meet and five needs men expect their wives to fulfill. By identifying
them, we can more quickly and effectively oil any squeaky wheels
with grace.

Dr. Harley states that the key need for the woman is affection— the
feeling that she is truly prized, loved, and cherished. The key need for
the man is sexual fulfillment.
If you were asked to list your five major marital needs in order of
their importance, what would they be?

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

On a zero to ten scale, ten being best, how well is your mate meeting
need number one?

0123456789 10

3. Willard F. Harley, Jr., His Needs, Her Needs (Old Tappan, N.J.:
Fleming H. Revell Co. 1986), p. 10.

. . . number two?

0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 . . . number three?

0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 . . . number four?

0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 . . . number five?

0123456789 10

What could your spouse do in each of these categories to move those

numbers up a notch?

1.

2.

3.
4.

5.

What do you think your mate's top five needs are?

1.

2.

3.

4.

5.

On a zero to ten scale, how well are you meeting need number one?

0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 . . . number two?

0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 . . . number three?

0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

. . . number four?

0123456789 10 . . . number five?

0123456789 10

What could you do in each of those categories to move those

numbers up a notch?

1.

2.

3.

4.
5.

If you're feeling brave, you might want to consider asking your mate
to complete this exercise separately and then share and discuss your
answers.

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STUDY TWO

The road to happily-ever-aftering together is potted with chuck-

holes. If we don't stop every so often to do a little road repair, we can
knock the marriage out of alignment, blow a tire, or careen off the
shoulder of the road.

What chuckholes do you find pitting your road to a happy marriage?

□ Hurt feelings □ Jealousy

□ Anger □ Self-image problems

□ Resentment □ Laziness

□ Bitterness □ Complacency

□ In-law problems □ Competing interests

Which is the most severe problem?

Describe how this problem first started and how it's widened into the
road hazard that it has become today.

Do you consistently pray about this problem?

After talking with God about it, the next person you need to visit with
is your mate. Sensitive issues like this are sometimes difficult to
bring up, however, and even more difficult to communicate
effectively. If you have trouble communicating about sensitive
feelings, there's a book that you can read to help give you the skill
and the confidence you may be lacking. It's called The Language of
Love by Gary Smalley and John Trent.

A few helpful Scriptures you may want to consult are Matthew 5:23-
24, Romans 12:17-21, Ephesians 4:26-32, and 1 Peter 2:21-23. They'll
provide the road map to help you steer clear of the hazards that total
so many marriages.

Chapter 13

The Charming Joy of Grace Giving

2 Corinth ians 8:1-9; 9:19, 13-15

Despite the elaborate decorations that deck the malls with wows and
gollies, Christmas has a certain magic that manages to survive the
crass commercialism festooning this most festive of holidays.

That magic has the power to soften the Scrooge in all of us, to turn
our hardened "bah humbugs" into heartfelt "Merry Christmases."
The magic of the season is wrapped up in a little package within our
hearts called the joy of giving.

Giving scratches the itch of grace that lies just below our skin. It
satisfies us and gives us pleasure to itch that spot, if only for a
season. For many people, it is the closest they get to the grace of God
—that grace which freely gives without thought of receiving in return.

Unfortunately, that effervescent joy of giving usually loses its fizz the
day after Christmas. That is when we tend to revert to our old
miserly ways and, for the next fifty-one weeks, we zip up our hearts
and become defensive when it comes to giving.

What Makes Us So Dreadfully Defensive?

Whenever a preacher talks about giving, you can almost hear the
groans ripple through the pews. Why? For several reasons, some of
which are legitimate.
One: It seems boringly repetitive. Invariably, fund-raising is
overstated and overdone. After a while, the droning on of the pastor
or TV evangelist becomes monotone, and we block it out of our
minds.

Two: The whole thing has been commercialized. Just as the meaning
of Christmas can be lost among the ribbons and wrapping paper, so
the joy of giving can be lost among the bar graphs and pie charts.
Sometimes the whole fund-raising effort smacks of greed, tinseled
with all kinds of techniques to motivate us to open our checkbooks.
The goal of some ministries seems the same as that of the shopping
malls—getting money from us.

Three: There always seems to be a hidden agenda. Comparisons are

employed to show how much more we have than others ... as

if that should make anyone suddenly generous. The underlying

purpose? Guilt. Frankly, God is not concerned with what we give but
how we give. Guilt as a motivator for giving has a numbing effect
after a while, or else it turns us into compulsive givers devoid of joy.
But once grace gets into your bloodstream, the pleasure of giving
becomes addictive. Then the obligation from guilt will change to a
compelling grace, and the focus will change from the amount of the
gift to the attitude of the giver (see Acts 20:35).

What Makes Giving So Wonderfully Addictive?

The reasons for this healthy addiction are found in 2 Corinthians 8-

9. You may remember the background to these two chapters. Behind
Paul's remarks is a specific need. The mother church in Jerusalem
had fallen on hard times. Unable to help themselves because of the
depressed economy in Judea, the Christians there faced a bleak
future. But that is not the case in Greece. So Paul challenges those in
Corinth to participate in meeting this financial need.

At the beginning of his challenge, he mentions the generosity of the

struggling churches in Macedonia, who gave—and gave gladly —even
when their resources were scant. On the basis of their example Paul
urges the Corinthians to reach into their pockets with the same zeal.
Now, brethren, we wish to make known to you the grace of God
which has been given in the churches of Macedonia, that in a great
ordeal of affliction their abundance of joy and their deep poverty
overflowed in the wealth of their liberality. For I testify that
according to their ability, and beyond their ability they gave of their
own accord, begging us with much entreaty for the favor of
participation in the support of the saints, and this, not as we had
expected, but they first gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the
will of God. (2 Cor. 8:1-5)

Note that the Macedonians "first gave themselves to the Lord," then
they gave their money. They gave during affliction. They gave in spite
of their poverty. And they gave with great joy.

What makes this kind of giving so addictive? Four reasons from

these two chapters stand out.

We Keep a Healthy Balance

But just as you abound in everything, in faith and utterance and

knowledge and in all earnestness and in the love we inspired in you,
see that you abound in this gracious work also. (v. 7)

It's fairly easy to find a church where there is faith, good teaching, a
working knowledge o( the Christian life, zeal, and love. It's not so
easy, however, to find generosity.

Generosity is a gracious work we are to abound in. Since we have

freely received, we are to freely give (see Matt. 10:8b). When we do
that, our lives maintain a healthy balance between what we take in
and what we give out.

We Model the Same Qrace of Jesus Christ

For you know the grace o{ our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was
rich, yet for your sake He became poor, that you through His poverty
might become rich. (v. 9)

The Father didn't twist His Son's arm to leave heaven and come to
earth. Jesus did it willingly. And when He offered Himself up on the
cross, He wasn't prompted by obligation; He was prompted by grace.
And by giving with grace, we more closely emulate the Savior.

We Counteract Selfishness and Covetousness

For it is superfluous for me to write to you about this ministry to the

saints; for I know your readiness, oi which I boast about you to the
Macedonians, namely, that Achaia has been prepared since last year,
and your zeal has stirred up most of them. But I have sent the
brethren, that our boasting about you may not be made empty in this
case, that, as I was saying, you may be prepared; lest if any
Macedonians come with me and find you unprepared, we (not to
speak oi you) should be put to shame by this confidence. So I thought
it necessary to urge the brethren that they would go on ahead to you
and arrange beforehand your previously promised bountiful gift, that
the same might be ready as a bountiful gift, and not affected by
covetousness. (9:1-5)

Sometime in the past the Corinthians had promised to participate in

an offering for Jerusalem. But for some reason they wavered in their
commitment. Consequently, Paul prodded them to make good on
their commitment and not to let covetousness get the best of them.

This grasping and grudging quality can all too easily gain a foothold
in our hearts, can't it? When the raise takes effect or the tax refund
comes in the mail, it's easy to let selfishness veto any previous
pledges we had made. But when grace awakens in our hearts, it
overshadows selfishness and greed.

We Become Increasingly More Qenerous

Now this I say, he who sows sparingly shall also reap sparingly; and
he who sows bountifully shall also reap bountifully, (v. 6)

These words articulate an important principle: The more we sow, the

more we reap (see Prov. 11:24-25). We can't out-give God. We sow a
grain, He blesses with a bushel (see Luke 6:38).

What Makes Grace So Attractive?

As Paul continues his discussion of giving in 2 Corinthians 9:7-14,
four things reveal why grace is so attractive. The first is found in the
first half of verse 7.

Let each one do just as he has purposed in his heart.

The first reason grace is so attractive is that grace individualizes the

gift. Underscore "each one" and "his heart." The emphasis is
individual and personal. In an impersonal world, where individuality
is often lost in the slush pile of statistics, grace giving distinguishes
itself as being creatively fashioned in the innermost recesses of a
person's heart.

The second reason grace is so attractive is that it makes the action

joyfully spontaneous. The latter half of verse 7 says,

Not grudgingly or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver.

The word cheerful is a translation of the Greek term from which we

get our word hilarious. So Paul is actually saying that God loves a
hilarious giver, one who derives great joy from the act of giving, one
who is as spontaneous in generosity as in laughter.

In his article "The Gift of Giving," Calvin Miller creatively illustrates

the point of this verse.

I like the way the Magi gave their gifts, for they presumably returned
"to the East" without expecting Mary and Joseph to give them
anything in return.

Their gifts were meant for the baby Jesus, but there seemed to be no
baby-shower obligation in their giving. . . .

Often at Christmas, gifts become a subtle power play, resulting in

obligation. Such gifts may subtly say, "While my gift appears free,
repay me in kind," or "Enjoy this, Joe, but you owe me one now." . . .

Let me suggest two ways to give a grace gift.

First, be sure it's impossible to measure the cost of your gift. My
daughter's Italian mother-in-law has taught her to cook authentic
Italian foods. So when my daughter wants to please me most, she
fills a bowl with meatballs swimming in her marvelous marinara
sauce, and I am content through long winters. . . .

Her love produces warm grace gifts from her pantry to which I could
never attach a price tag. . . . Their real value is the way they show she
loves and understands me.

Second, realize that non-material gifts are the best way to say, "Don't
try to pay me back." . . .

One friend promised to pray for me all through the Christmas

season. Another friend who knows I am fond of Shakespeare gave me
a book of Shakespearean quotes from his personal library. . . .

. . . These gifts came with the assurance that Christ had prompted the
gift and that it was given through Christ on the basis of our
friendship. It was marvelous to see the Savior so involved in gifts that
were not purchased, but given in the highest name of friendship. 1

Verses 8-9 tell us of a third reason why grace giving is so attractive:

It enables us to link up with God's supply line.

And God is able to make all grace abound to you, that always having
all sufficiency in everything, you

1. Calvin Miller, "The Gift of Giving," Moody Monthly, December

1988, pp. 23—25.

may have an abundance for every good deed; as it is written,

"He scattered abroad, he gave to the poor,

His righteousness abides forever."

When we possess an attitude of grace, we give . . . freely,

spontaneously, generously, and sincerely. We give both ourselves
and our material resources. That type of hilarious giving links us to
the divine bank of heavenly resources. Its supply is inexhaustible.
There is no good deed we can sign our name to that God can't cover
the check.

A fourth reason why grace is so attractive is that it leads to irxcom-

parable results.

Because of the proof given by this ministry they will glorify God for
your obedience to your confession of the gospel of Christ, and for the
liberality of your contribution to them and to all, while they also, by
prayer on your behalf, yearn for you because of the surpassing grace
of God in you. (vv. 13-14)

Three incomparable results drip luxuriantly from these verses. First,

others give God the glory. Second, these others learn by example to
be generous. Third, the relationship that is formed transcends any
gift we give.

What Makes Christ So Superlative?

The apostle of grace concludes this section with the words, Thanks
be to God for His indescribable gift! (v. 15)

When this thoroughly educated man—whose vocabulary was

prodigious—thumbed through his mental dictionary, he found
himself at a loss for words. The only word he could use was—
indescribable. Why? Because it represents God's love gift to the
world (John 3:16)—a gift that not only lies beyond words but beyond
the realm of our understanding. That indescribable gift came
wrapped in swaddling clothes almost two thousand years ago. And
when the young Savior's eyes first opened, grace awakened and
smiled on the world.

But the giving doesn't stop there. He gives us grace upon grace.

He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all,
how will He not also with Him freely give us all things? (Rom. 8:32)

iSjfr Living Insights

STUDY ONE

Look up these passages and jot down the principles about giving that
you derive.

Guidelines for Giving

Proverbs 3:9

Proverbs 3:27

Matthew 6:1-4

Matthew 10:8

Luke 3:11

Acts 20:35

1 Corinthians 16:2

2 Corinthians 9:6

2 Corinthians 9:7

Ephesians 4:28

Benefits of Giving

Proverbs 11:25

Proverbs 22:9

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STUDYTWO

The story of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:30-37 is a study in grace

giving. In the story, the priest and Levite were religious people, yet
they were the least responsive to the plight of the man who lay on the
threshold of death. What was lacking in their lives that enabled them
to look away without a twinge of conscience?

How significant were their lives without this quality (see 1 Cor. 13:1-
3)?

List some of the gracious ways in which the Samaritan gave to the
wounded man.

The application of the story is for us to follow the example of the

Samaritan in showing mercy to those who need it, regardless

of the cost, regardless of whether or not that cost will be reimbursed.

How does living like that reflect God (see Luke 6:34-36)?

The following verses are good motivators for developing a grace-

giving lifestyle. Take some time now to look them up, then write
down the ideas that are helpful to you.

Deuteronomy 15:7-11

Proverbs 14:31

Proverbs 19:17

Proverbs 21:13

Proverbs 28:27

Matthew 25:31-46

Chapter 14

GRACE:

Irs Really Accepting

Selected Scripture
Grace not only gives with joyful generosity, but it receives with
grateful humility. When a person truly experiences a grace
awakening, there is not only a desire to encourage, affirm, and
support others, there is also an accepting attitude that allows others
to reciprocate.

As easy and simple as this may sound, it is neither. It cuts across the
grain of our natural tendency to be independent and invulnerable.
We want to be people who pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps
rather than people who have to reach out for an extended hand to be
helped to our feet.

For many of us, the grace of giving comes naturally; it's the receiving
end of grace that we have difficulty with. If this describes you, today's
lesson should awaken a whole new dimension in your life.

The Flip Side of Several Strengths

Self-reliant people often have a strong commitment to character. But

those who believe so firmly in the pursuit of character often forget
that such pursuits can sometimes have a downside. Four problems
come readily to mind.

First: With a commitment to excellence there can come an attitude of

intolerance. There is nothing wrong with fighting mediocrity, but the
casualties often become the very people within our ranks who are
fighting by our sides. When we make perfection our standard—
instead of accepting another's best—we become unrealistic in our
expectations, forgetting the propensity in all of us humans to err.

Second: With a lifestyle of discipline there can come impatience and

the tendency to judge. Those who have disciplined themselves
against overeating have little patience with those with a Burger King
belt line. And those who exercise diligently have little patience for
those who get winded just trying to bend over and tie their Nikes.

Third: With a broad education and a love for culture and the arts,
there is usually a flip side of exclusive sophistication. If opera, for ex-
ample, is your thing, you probably recoil whenever you hear the
twang of a country-western song. As aesthetically and emotionally
satisfying as the cultural world may be, an air of sophistication and
exclusivity often accompanies it.

Fourth: With an emphasis on independence and high production,

there is often the presence of pride. If you are an independent
worker, an independent thinker, or have become independently
wealthy, chances are good that you have a great deal of pride. There's
nothing wrong with standing on your own two feet, thinking for
yourself, or working hard, but it can lead to an attitude of feeling like
you don't need anyone else or resisting when someone reaches out to
you.

Examples of Resisting and Accepting Grace

The Bible tells several stories of those who resisted grace and those
who accepted it. Let's take a few minutes to examine them.

Two Old Testament Examples: Moses and Samson

Exodus 3 records the account of a man who resisted grace when it

was offered to him. His name was Moses. As we meet him on this
page of Scripture, he's an eighty-year-old man. He works for his
father-in-law as a shepherd in a rugged region of Mount Sinai known
as Midian. It was a place of obscurity, loneliness, stinging sands, and
howling winds. As he gazes into the starlit night and watches a falling
star, no doubt he reflects on his own meteoric fall from the grace of
Pharaoh's palace. He had it all there at the palace —an unequalled
education, unparalleled luxury, and unlimited power.

It was the flexing of that muscle—power—which led to a change in

his fate. While a member of Pharaoh's court, Moses happened upon
an Egyptian assaulting a Hebrew. He intervened and murdered the
Egyptian. Tragically, Moses thought he could deliver the enslaved
Hebrews by his own efforts. But human might was not God's
ordained means to free His people. Fearful, Moses fled for his life.
For forty years he withdrew to the wilderness. And for forty years
God was silent.
Undoubtedly, Moses felt he had disqualified himself by dropping the
divinely appointed baton that had been passed to him. In the desert
he had found refuge from Egyptian revenge, but not from guilt and
remorse. It is there in that guilt-ridden wilderness that the hounds of
heaven finally caught up with him.

Now Moses was pasturing the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the
priest of Midian; and he led the flock to the west side of the
wilderness, and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. And the angel
of the Lord appeared to him in a blazing fire from the midst of a
bush; and he looked, and behold, the bush was burning with fire, yet
the bush was not consumed. So Moses said, "I must turn aside now,
and see this marvelous sight, why the bush is not burned up." When
the Lord saw that he turned aside to look, God called to him from the
midst of the bush, and said, "Moses, Moses!" And he said, "Here I
am." Then He said, ... "I am the God of your father, the God of
Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob." Then Moses hid
his face, for he was afraid to look at God. And the Lord said, "I have
surely seen the affliction of My people who are in Egypt, and have
given heed to their cry because of their taskmasters, for I am aware
of their sufferings. . . . Furthermore, I have seen the oppression with
which the Egyptians are oppressing them. Therefore, come now, and
I will send you to Pharaoh, so that you may bring My people, the
sons of Israel, out of Egypt." (Exod. 3:1-10)

Do you hear what's in that voice, radiating from the fire? It's grace,
coming from God's merciful heart. Like the bush that kept burning,
grace keeps reaching.

F. B. Meyer writes eloquently of this moment.

There are days in all lives which come unannounced, unheralded; no

angel faces look out of heaven; no angel voices put us on our guard:
but as we look back on them in after years, we realize that they were
the turning points of existence. ... It was so with Moses. . . .

. . . Suddenly, a common bush began to shine with the emblem of

Deity; and from its heart of fire the voice of God broke the silence of
the ages in words that fell on the shepherd's ear like a double-knock:
"Moses, Moses."

And from that moment all his life was altered. The door which had
been so long in repairing was suddenly put on its hinges again and
opened. 1

If you think Moses jumped at the chance to return to God's calling,

you don't understand the grip of guilt. Four times he resisted the call:
"Who am I . . . ?" (3:11), "What shall I say . . . ? w (3:13), "What if they
will not believe me . . . ?" (4:1), "Please, Lord, I have never been
eloquent ... for I am slow of speech and slow of tongue" (4:10).

As Moses stammered around, God assured him that He would give

him grace equal to the task. He assured the insecure Moses of His
presence (3:12), His power (v. 20), His provision (vv. 21-22), and His
guidance (4:12).

From Moses' response to God we learn an important thing about

grace: We resist grace when our guilt and shame have not been
adequately dealt with. The past dogged Moses' heels so relentlessly
that he couldn't receive the grace God had offered him. He felt
unworthy.

Oi course, no one is deserving of God's grace. No one is adequate to

receive it. But God gives it anyway. And that's the crowning majesty
of grace.

The next example is of someone who accepted God's grace— Samson.

He was set apart before birth to deliver Israel from the death grip of
the Philistines (Judg. 13:5). If ever there was a life scripted for
success, it was Samson's. His parents were strong believers who
dedicated him to the Lord with the vow of the Nazarite —never was
he to drink alcoholic beverages, to touch the carcass of anything
dead, or to cut his hair.

We read in Judges 15:20 that Samson did indeed become successful:

"He judged Israel twenty years in the days of the Philistines." For two
continuous decades Samson proved faithful to his calling.
But then something went tragically wrong with Samson's life. While
away from the home folks, Samson allowed his lust free rein by
getting involved with a prostitute (16:1). Shortly thereafter, we find
him in the valley of Sorek, Philistine country, his curls being stroked
in the lusty lap of Delilah (v. 4). One night after he fell asleep, the
conspiratorial Delilah motioned to her cohorts to enter the room and
shave his head (vv. 18-19). That's when his herculean strength left
him, and he awoke to find himself at their mercy.

1. E B. Meyer, Moses, the Servant of God (New York, N.Y.: Fleming

H. Revell Co., 1950), pp. 39-40.

Then the Philistines seized him and gouged out his eyes; and they
brought him down to Gaza and bound him with bronze chains, and
he was a grinder in the prison, (v. 21)

Samson was a victim of his own lust, sentenced to live out his life in
hard labor. He was a striking illustration of Proverbs 5:22, "held with
the cords of his sin."

Though Samson reaped what he had sown, God's grace proved even
more abundant than the moral crop failure in this man's life.
Samson's hair began to grow, and with it, his strength (Judg. 16:22).
Once he felt the power of God rippling through his muscles, another
thing returned—the determination to fulfill his call of delivering
Israel from the Philistines. After his captors brought Samson out of
prison for sport, the broken man lifted up his eyes to heaven for
grace.

Then Samson called to the Lord and said, "O Lord God, please
remember me and please strengthen me just this time, O God, that I
may at once be avenged of the Philistines for my two eyes." And
Samson grasped the two middle pillars on which the house rested,
and braced himself against them, the one with his right hand and the
other with his left. And Samson said, "Let me die with the
Philistines!" And he bent with all his might so that the house fell on
the lords and all the people who were in it. So the dead whom he
killed at his death were more than those whom he killed in his life.
(vv. 28-30)
From the story of Samson emerges an important principle about
receiving grace: We accept grace when we release all our
expectations. When we no longer feel we deserve grace, but still
extend our hands toward heaven, grace awakens within us. Samson's
life was a wash-out, eroded by the flood of his torrential lusts. He
didn't deserve a second chance. But that's when God shows Himself
most radiantly, like the sun emerging from behind a dark billow of
storm clouds. And that's when grace comes streaming down to bathe
us in the warmth of its rays—when we least deserve it.

Two New Testament Examples: Peter and Paul

John 13 records a third story. The setting is an intimate one in an

upper room. It is the last supper Jesus will spend with His

disciples before He dies. He has much to tell them, especially about

humility and service. But while He is formulating His sermon, the
disciples are bickering over their respective greatness in the kingdom
(see Luke 22:24-26). Instead of a sermon, Jesus gives them a visual
aid that they would never forget.

[Jesus] rose from supper, and laid aside His garments; and taking a
towel, He girded Himself about. Then He poured water into the
basin, and began to wash the disciples' feet, and to wipe them with
the towel with which He was girded. And so He came to Simon Peter.
He said to Him, "Lord, do You wash my feet?" (John 13:4-6)

The roomful of bewildered disciples sat and watched as the Son oi

God silently stooped to wash their feet. All, that is, except for Peter.
When John recorded the event, the syntax oi his sentence in verse 6
captured Peter's stunned reaction: "Lord, You, my, wash the feet?"
We would smooth out the halting words to read, "Lord, are You
planning to wash m\ feet?" Peter's response in verse 8 is emphatic in
the Greek text:

"Newer shall You wash my feet!" (emphasis added)

In that moment oi refusal we find a third principle about receiving

grace: We resist grace when our pride is still paramount. Each time
grace extends its hand, pride slaps it away. That's why grace and
pride cannot coexist, because pride is resistant to the overtures of
grace.

So far we've looked at three lives. Moses resisted grace because his
guilt was not sufficiently dealt with. Samson accepted grace because
his expectations had been done away with. Peter resisted grace
because his pride was still paramount. Now we come to a fourth and
tmal example—the apostle Paul.

Paul had much to boast about. He was "circumcised the eighth day,
oi the nation oi Israel, oi the tribe oi Benjamin, a Hebrew of
Hebrews; as to the Law, a Pharisee" (Phil. 3:5). Pretty impressive
pedigree—at least in human terms. The list of accomplishments goes
on: 4 As to zeal, a persecutor oi the church; as to the righteousness
which is in the Law, found blameless" (v. 6).

In the galaxv oi the Jewish universe, Paul was one of the brightest
luminaries—a star of the first magnitude. But when God looked at
Paul's life then, all He saw was a black hole. It is God's estimation

of Paul's life that caused the apostle to reevaluate his credentials:

"But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as
loss for the sake of Christ" (v. 7). For years Paul had gone at warp
speed in his zeal for righteousness. Only problem was, he traveled in
the wrong direction, leaving him light years away from his
destination.

What turned him around so that he could say, "Forgetting what lies
behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward
the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus" (vv.
13b—14)? Grace is what steered him in that direction by enabling
him to look at the map he was using in an entirely different light. He
was now able to say that he "put no confidence in the flesh, although
I myself might have confidence even in the flesh" (vv. 3-4a).

This brings us to a fourth principle about grace: We accept grace

when we no longer put confidence in the flesh. By "flesh" we mean
the tendency to achieve something in our own strength apart from
trusting in the empowerment of God. When we put those things
behind us, as Paul did, then we will be able to forge ahead to what
lies before us—the magnificence of the Lord Jesus Christ.

What It Takes to Let Grace In

No matter how hard Jesus knocks on the door of our hearts or how
persistently, that door must be opened from the inside (see Rev.
3:20). For some, that door has been closed for so long that the hinges
have been rusted tight.

What can we do to oil those hinges and swing open that door? Two
things.

First, it takes an admission of humanity. We've got to come to grips

with the fact that we're only human, that we all sin and, sometimes,
we sin greatly (Rom. 3:23). Second, it takes an attitude of humility.
Nothing is so welcomed by grace as true humility, which is nothing
more than a realization of one's true standing before God—that God
is preeminent, that He alone is worthy of glory and praise.

A wonderful road lies ahead for those who really accept grace—a
road that makes the yellow brick road to the Emerald City look like a
footpath to the hay barn. It almost seems too good to be true. When
George MacDonald, the great Scottish preacher, told one of his
children about the glories of the future, the child interrupted and
said, "It all seems too good to be true!" A smile spread across

MacDonald's whiskered face as he answered back, "Nay, it is just so

good it must be true!'

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Living Jnsights study one

Before we can give grace to others, we first have to receive it

ourselves (see 2 Cor. 1:3-4). But that's were the rub comes in. We're
all enamored with being the Good Samaritan and giving grace to
others. But none of us wants to be on the receiving end, as was the
man who fell among thieves and was robbed, beaten, and left for
dead (see Luke 10:30-37). If, however, we're ever to effectively
extend a hand to others, we must first know what it's like to
desperately clutch the hand that's extended to us.

Have you ever been there, on the receiving end of grace? Ever fallen
among gossipy thieves who have robbed you of your dignity, your
worth, your reputation? Ever been corporately dumped by the side of
the road and economically left for dead, taken advantage of, used,
and then crumpled up and discarded?

Describe such an incident in your life.

What form did God's hand of grace take? □ Physical help □ Financial
help □ Spiritual help

Describe it.

2. Greville MacDonald, George MacDonald and His Wife (London,

England: George Allen and Unwin, 1924), p. 172.

Did you receive or reject the hand of grace that God extended

to you?

What was it that prompted you to receive it or reject it?

What did you learn from your experience to better equip you to
extend grace to others?

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Living Insi ghts studytwo

'Amazing Grace" is one of the church's most sacred songs. It was

written by John Newton, a man who knew about grace from
firsthand experience. This is the story of his discordant life, and how
grace reached down, picked him up, and put a new song in his heart.
John Newton's mother, a Godly woman, died when he was not quite
seven years of age. When his father remarried and after several brief
years of formal education away from home; John left school and
joined his father's ship, at the age of eleven, to begin life as a seaman.
His early years were one continuous round of rebellion and
debauchery. After serving on several ships as well as working for a
period of time on the islands and mainland of the West African coast
collecting slaves for sale to visiting traders, Newton eventually
became a captain of his own slave ship. . . .

On March 10, 1748, while returning to England from Africa during a

particularly stormy voyage when

it appeared that all would be lost, Newton began reading Thomas a

Kempis's book, Imitation of Christ. . . . The message of the book and
the frightening experience at sea were used by the Holy Spirit to sow
the seeds of Newton's eventual conversion and personal acceptance
of Christ as his Savior. . . .

In a small cemetery of a parish churchyard in Olney, England, stands

a granite tombstone with the following inscription: "John Newton,
clerk, once an infidel and Libertine, a servant of slavers in Africa,
was, by the rich mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,
preserved, restored, pardoned, and appointed to preach the Faith he
had long labored to destroy." This fitting testimonial, written by
Newton himself prior to his death, describes aptly the unusual and
colorful life of this man, one of the great evangelical preachers of the
eighteenth century. 3

With that background in mind, meditate on your own past

experience with the amazing grace of God. Then pray through the
words of John Newton's song as if it were the new song that God had
placed in your heart.

Amazing grace—how sweet the sound— That saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost but now am found, Was blind but now I see.

'Twas grace that taught my heart to fear, And grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear The hour I first believed!
Thru many dangers, toils and snares

I have already come;

'Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far,

And grace will lead me home.

When we've been there ten thousand years,

Bright shining as the sun,

We've no less days to sing God's praise

Than when we'd first begun. 4

3. Kenneth W. Osbeck, 101 Hymn Storks (Grand Rapids, Mich.:

Kregel Publications, 1982), pp. 29, 28.

4. John Newton, "Amazing Grace," in 101 Hymn Stories, p. 28.

Books for Probing Further

The Great Awakening was a series of revivals that blazed through the
American colonies between 1725 and 1760. One of the men who
fanned those spreading flames was the evangelist George Whitefield,
who was responsible for kindling evangelical Christianity in New
England. He was used of God in a remarkable way. Lives were
dramatically changed. Dead churches were resurrected. Missionaries
were sent out among the Indians. Slavery was denounced. And great
educational institutions, such as Princeton University, were
established to educate a new generation of ministers.

Now it's time for another awakening—a grace awakening. We hope

what you've heard on the broadcast and read in the study guide have
lit a fire in your life. And we hope the fire spreads—to your family, to
your church, and to the nation in which you live.

If this series has sparked your interest for further study, you'll find
some additional fuel for thought in the following bibliography.
Grace—A Biblical Perspective

Chafer, Lewis Sperry. Grace. 12th ed. Grand Rapids, Mich.: Zon-
dervan Publishing House, A Dunham Publication, 1969. This biblical
study on the topic of grace deals not only with the theological aspects
of being saved by grace but with the practical aspects of living by
grace.

Stedman, Ray C. Authentic Christianity. Portland, Oreg.: Multnomah

Press, 1975. This practical exposition of 2 Corinthians 3-4 carefully
distinguishes what it means to live under the new covenant of grace
in contrast to the old covenant of the Law.

Grace—An Ecclesiastical Perspective

Hughes, Kent and Barbara. Liberating Ministry from the Success

Syndrome. Wheaton, 111.: Tyndale House Publishers, 1987. Just as
some people are legalistically put on a performance basis and judged
if they don't measure up, so also are churches. The authors show that
success is not the standard God uses to evaluate a

church, faithfulness is. Therein lies liberation, both corporately and

personally.

Grace —A Psychological Perspective

Tournier, Paul. Guilt and Grace. Translated by Arthur W. Heathcote,

J. J. Henry, and P. J. Allcock. San Francisco, Calif.: Harper and Row,
Publishers, 1962. Though not thoroughly biblical in all his
conclusions, the author does provide us with a warm, personal book
that sheds valuable light on guilt and grace from a psychological
perspective.

Grace — A Personal Perspective

Dobson, James C. Love Must Be Tough. Waco, Tex.: Word Books,

1983. When applying grace to personal relationships, especially the
marriage relationship, many people think that means tiptoeing
around the truth. Best-selling author and noted psychologist James
Dobson says differently. What emerges from his study of marital
conflicts is the principle of a loving toughness that is not only
applicable to families in crisis but to healthy families as well.

Hansel, Tim. When I Relax 1 Feel Guilty. Elgin, 111.: David C. Cook
Publishing Co., 1979. Religious legalists are often so concerned about
living up to the letter of the Law that they are anxiety-ridden. This
takes its toll not only spiritually but physically and emotionally as
well. For those who find themselves enmeshed in this guilt trap,
Hansel offers some practical, grace-oriented advice.

Lutzer, Edwin W Failure: The Back Door to Success. Revised edition.

Chicago, 111.: Moody Press, 1976. Failure is a reality that we all must
face up to if we are to live authentic Christian lives. Lutzer's book
shows us how to embrace our failures with grace and get them
working for us instead of against us.

Seamands, David A. Healing Grace. Wheaton, 111.: SP Publications,

Victor Books, 1988. Many of us live with anxiety and defeat because
grace has largely been a mental experience to us instead of a
meaningful one. This distortion of grace stems from the twisted
messages of a performance-oriented society, home, or church. In this
book the author helps straighten out those distorted messages so
that we can live liberated lives in vital union with God.

Smalley, Gary, and John Trent. The Blessing. Nashville, Tenn.:

Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1986. The authors show how parental
blessing, or lack of it, shapes our lives. They teach us how to forgive
our parents when they have withheld blessing and also how to give it
as a legacy to our own children. With grace as its primary motivation,
the book offers hope for any who have never felt totally accepted and
unconditionally loved.

Smedes, Lewis B. Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don't

Deserve. New York, N.Y.: Pocket Books, 1984. As Jesus forgave us, so
we are to forgive others. For most of us, that's easier said than done.
Smedes helps us work through the sometimes unfair pain of our past
so that we may receive the grace not only to forgive but to forget as
well.
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The Grace Awakening

What is it that causes our Lord to stoop and reach out to us in love?
Grace. What is it that frees us to be all He means us to be? Grace.
What is it that permits others to be who they are, even very different
from us? Grace. What allows us to disagree, yet stimulates us to
press on? Grace. What adds oil to the friction points of a marriage,
freeing both partners from pettiness and negativism? Grace. And
what gives magnetic charm to a ministry, inviting others to become a
part? Again . . . grace.

Grace will conquer the things that steal the Christian's motiva-tion:
guilt and shame, legalism and negativism, petty fighting and small-
minded intolerance, as well as others' expectations and self-imposed
restrictions, to name only a few.

The Grace Awakening is not a series for the fainthearted. It is a bold

and needed declaration for pastors, for Christian leaders, for
missionaries, for young and old believers alike. It is a compelling call
to accept the grace that has been freely given, to enthusiastically
embrace and carefully protect the freedom it provides, and to
experience the joyful and abundant life that God desires for us.

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