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Heartfulness Magazine - August 2023 (Volume 8, Issue 8)
Heartfulness Magazine - August 2023 (Volume 8, Issue 8)
Tune In to the
Present Moment
DAAJI
Womanifesto
VARSHA NAIR
ChatGPT -
Gamechanger or
Hype?
RAVI VENKATESAN
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H eart f u l n es s
Celebrating Life
Dear readers,
In August, our themes are diverse and life-affirming. Daaji offers practical tips on being in the present,
and relaxing our efforts; Ravi Venkatesan asks whether ChatGPT is a gamechanger or hype; Kiffer
George Card shows how crucial social connection is to well-being; and Ruby Carmen shares a practical
approach to dealing with grief.
Babuji gives us a time-honored natural remedy for insomnia; Kaj Hammargren overcomes addiction and
finds purpose through sport and meditation; Ichak Adizes looks at the perils of being too smart; Guy
Shahar experiences the benefits of energy healing; Prasad Veluthanar has a recipe for vibrant health;
Charles Eisenstein provides three priorities for environmental healing; Elizabeth Denley encourages us
to take the consumer challenge and reduce our wants; and Varsha Nair celebrates Womanifesto. It’s a rich
and inspiring edition that will keep you engaged all month.
Happy reading,
The editors
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inside
self-care Finding Purpose environment
Kaj Hammargren
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Tune In to the Present 3 Priorities for
Moment Environmental Healing
Daaji
12
workplace Charles Eisenstein
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BABUJI DAAJI VARSHA NAIR
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contributors
Ruby is a Heartfulness trainer, Prasad did his Ayurvedacharya Guy is an energetic healer who
tutor, mentor, and sometimes medical degree in Kerala. During also wrote Transforming Autism
writer. She has an M.Ed. in his 22 years of professional about how his family enabled
Education and Psychology from practice, he has worked in India, their son to transform from
the University of Cambridge, Mauritius, Malaysia, Russia, and a highly autistic toddler to a
and has worked in community Egypt. He was the first Indian happy six-year-old, living a full
and mental health. She is Ayurvedic doctor to practice and contented life. He proposes
passionate about volunteering, propagate this Indian wisdom in a radical inspiring way to
service, meditation, languages, Egypt. understand autism.He is also a
and finding beauty in the world Heartfulness trainer.
around her.
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The present moment
is the only time
over which we have
dominion.
Tune In to the
Present Moment
DAAJI shares 4 simple practices to tune into the present moment and
bring about a joyful, contented lifestyle. Doing these regularly will
create sustainable peace.
D
ear friends, in the present moment, the only free to download on your phone or
moment there is for us to be alive.” iPad.
Take a moment to review
your day so far. Has your For many of us, being aware in Breathe
mind been busy with thoughts? the present moment is a rare
Were they full of what to do next, occurrence. So, how can we make Left nostril breathing is a simple
or what has happened in the past? it happen more frequently? It takes technique that activates your
Were you rushing from one task to some effort, but once we practice, parasympathetic system. It brings
another, feeling overwhelmed? Did it becomes second nature to us. clarity and calmness.
you spend hours scrolling on your
phone? Were you multitasking Here are a few short exercises to • Relax your body and mind
while eating, unmindful of the help you tune in to the present
food? Did you take time to breathe moment. • lose your right nostril with
C
and feel your surroundings, aware your right thumb
of that moment of stillness, Relax
rejuvenation, joy and gratitude? • lowly inhale through your
S
Turn off your phones and other left nostril and exhale through
As Thích Nhãt Hạnh once said, distracting devices, and sit your left nostril, breathing
“We are very good at preparing comfortably with eyes closed. deep into your abdomen.
to live, but not very good at Relax your body, from your toes
living. We know how to sacrifice to the top of your head, so that • Smile while you breathe
ten years for a diploma, and we pain and tension melt away. The
are willing to work very hard to Heartfulness Relaxation is an • Repeat 9 more times
get a job, a car, or a house, and ideal method and it takes just a
so on. But we have difficulty few minutes. You can also find it
remembering that we are alive on the Heartfulness App, which is
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Eat with awareness from the Source that is woven into promotes physical, mental,
the fabric of Nature, including emotional, and spiritual well-
If you eat at your work desk, every atom of the food that has being.
grab a quick snack while rushing, been prepared for us.
or eat while texting on your Walk meditatively
phone, you probably do not really So, before eating, have the
appreciate what you are eating. thought of being happy to eat in Before walking, clear your mind,
You’re also compromising your constant divine thought whatever focus on your heart, connect with
digestion by multitasking, as there you receive, and hold that subtle your meditative state, and walk in
is not enough blood available for connection while eating. that state.
proper digestion. Most traditional
societies take time to pray or say The subtle vibrations will filter Then, spread that inner state to
grace at the beginning of a meal, down into the food and spread everything you come across, being
allowing us to activate the current throughout your system. This aware that everything around you
is absorbing peace – including
the sky, the oceans, the trees, the
people, the wildlife, the buildings
– and everything is radiating
peace.
Before walking,
clear your mind,
focus on your heart,
connect with your
meditative state,
and walk in that
state.
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Insomnia
Babuji’s
Natural Remedies
W
e all know the This is because Tulsi relaxes the METHODS
importance of a good nerves, tones the central nervous
night’s sleep, and these system, and calms the mind. It is 1. Make an infusion of Tulsi
days scientists have done so much also an adaptogen, which means leaves in water. Leave it to
research in this field that there it helps us adapt to stress, and steep for a few minutes before
is no doubt that sleep hygiene promotes balance and resilience. sipping prior to going to bed
is a vital ingredient of a healthy This in turn supports healthy at night.
lifestyle. But not everyone finds digestion.
it easy to go off to sleep, and we 2. While lying in bed, first relax
often look for pills and potions to Babuji also taught his associates your body, starting with your
give us a helping hand. other subtler methods to help toes (you can try Heartfulness
them sleep, and one of these is Relaxation). Then, make a
In India, Tulsi or holy basil has also shared here. gentle thought that you are
long been known to support sleep. drawing sleep downwards from
your eyebrows to your eyelids.
1
Please note that these remedies are not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please seek
the advice of your physician or qualified health provider. The remedies may be used to complement medical treatment and
support recovery.
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Talking with My Grief
RUBY CARMEN explores the often repressed emotion of grief, and
shares some ways we can accept it, value the meaning behind it,
and integrate it into our being as an expression of love.
“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give,
but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the
lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just
love with no place to go.”
—Jamie Anderson
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on it and we are reminded that Me: (Laughing) You don’t say. This is the conversation thus far.
it is still there, sitting silently, So tell me, grief, what do I do? Grief need not be an enemy or
waiting. How can I get through this “avoided like the plague,” as the
grief that reappears especially English expression goes. Instead,
One approach that came into when I least expect it. at an individual and collective
my field of consciousness was to level, we can embrace it and ask
“talk” to the grief and, in doing so, Grief: Get through? how we can allow ourselves to feel
recognize that it exists rather than grief and grow from it rather than
pretending it is not there, that it Me: Yes. be overwhelmed by it. And we can
has been dealt with, processed in consider reaching out to empathic
whatever way we might explain Grief: You know about elders, dear ones, therapists,
it away to ourselves. In order to acceptance? counsellors, and support groups
“survive,” our emotions, especially wherever there is a safe space to
big, heavy ones, get stored away Me: Yes. Sometimes this give voice to grief.
under the category of “I will acceptance business is hard to
come back to this later,” or “I actually do. It can happen at
can’t deal with this right now, a mental or intellectual level,
I have a job to do,” and other and then all of a sudden, it is
such rationalizations. In the busy so overwhelming and difficult.
Grief need not be an
modern world, it seems there is no It needs to be at the level of
enemy or “avoided
time or appropriate space to deal the heart.
with grief or loss. like the plague,” as
Grief: Your heart, yes, and also
Talking to grief goes like this: self-compassion. To grieve is a the English expression
natural thing. It tells you that
Me: Oh, it’s you? I thought you are human and capable of goes. Instead, at an
you had gone. loving, of love.
individual and
Grief: No, I am still here, I Me: So, accepting that I feel collective level, we
never left you. grief and that it hurts bad, not
to mention giving myself some can embrace it and
Me: It hurts and I keep compassion, can help, right?
thinking that you might go ask how we can allow
away, and leave me in peace. Grief: That’s right. It can help
release the pain of the loss, ourselves to feel grief
Grief: Well, it doesn’t seem to and it can dissolve in your
work that way, you know. I am tears and in the sharing of
and grow from it
part of you, not separate. In your grieving pains. rather than be
fact, you are holding onto me,
not the other way round. overwhelmed by it.
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Vibrant Health
S ELF- CARE
A
yurveda is one of
the world’s oldest 1. “Healthy” means
systems of medicine. something different to
In Sanskrit, ayur means “life,” everyone
and veda means “knowledge;” so
it means “knowledge of life.” It We all know the fundamental
was developed over 6,000 years rules of eating healthy – stick
ago in India and is still widely to natural clean foods. Simple,
practiced all over the world. The right? So why is there so much
main principle behind Ayurveda debate over diets? Ketogenic,
is that the mind and body are paleo, Whole30, Mediterranean,
inextricably connected. Ayurveda low-carb, raw, vegan, dairy-free
promotes good health through – the options for healthy eating
balancing the body, mind, and are overwhelming these days.
spirit as a preventative to having The debate is probably because
to fight diseases through medicine everyone responds to foods and
and treatment. diets differently, something that
Ayurveda discovered thousands of
Ayurveda is based on the premise years ago.
that we consist of three governing
elements of nature – vata (air), If you’re working on becoming
pitta (fire), and kapha (earth). healthier, eat what’s best
Everyone is a unique combination for your body, knowing that
of these elements or doshas, something different might work
containing different proportions for someone else. Ayurveda tells
of each. The combination dictates you to eat according to your
our eating habits, sleeping habits, dosha, or which of your doshas is
and overall way of living life. imbalanced – warm heavy foods
Symptoms of mental and physical balance vata; cool refreshing foods
illness are signals that one or more balance pitta; and lightly cooked
of the doshas is not in balance. or raw foods balance kapha.
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Sweet: carbohydrates and
natural sugars
Pungent: spicy foods
(promote digestion)
Astringent: legumes, raw or
dry produce
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Digestive problems include Daily routine (Dinacharya), In Ayurveda, the year is divided
Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), seasonal routine (Ritucharya), and into six seasons, and a detailed
indigestion, nausea, stomach pain, behavioral routine (Sadvritta) are dietary regime is prescribed for
weight gain/loss, constipation, measures of an ideal lifestyle in each season:
diarrhea, and bloating; but they the classic Ayurvedic texts. They
also show up as skin blemishes, promote a long, healthy active life, In the spring, a bitter, hot, and
hair loss, and sluggishness. and provide relief from pain and astringent diet is advised, avoiding
Ayurveda suggests that digestive disease. salty, sour, and sweet food.
problems occur because the
digestive fire (agni) is weak, so Daily routine In the summer, due to the heat, a
igniting it before meals is crucial pitta-pacifying cold, liquid, sweet,
to improve digestion, e.g. adding I have described the Ayurvedic and oily diet is advised. Excessively
spices like cumin or turmeric to approach to the daily cycles in hot, spicy, sour, and salty foods are
meals will help; a teaspoon of depth in “Living with Nature’s avoided.
fresh ginger with a few drops Rhythms.”
of lime juice and a pinch of salt
before meals can activate the
salivary glands to produce the
proper amounts of digestive
enzymes. Ayurveda focuses on
proper digestion, as it recognizes
that it’s how our bodies absorb
nutrients.
Ayurveda focuses
on proper digestion,
as it recognizes
that it’s how our
bodies absorb
nutrients.
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Whenever possible,
devote your
services to God, to
the wise, and to
respectable and
elderly individuals.
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The ability to ask
beautiful questions
– often in very un-
beautiful moments
– is one of the great
disciplines of a human
life. And a beautiful
question starts to shape
your identity as much
by asking it as it does by
having it answered.
DAVID WHYTE
THE WISDOM BRIDGE SERIES
The Art of
Relaxed Efforts
In September 2022, DAAJI released his latest bestseller,
The Wisdom Bridge, and throughout 2023 we are sharing
highlights from the various chapters to give you a taste of
the wisdom the book offers. This month the excerpt is from
chapter 10 on Principle 5: Early Childhood Is the Foundation.
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Relaxed Efforts Go a Long begun to complete without It goes by too fast.” They are
Way interfering. Just as we sow a right.
seed and then wait. We put the
Saint Kabir wrote a couplet that potatoes on to boil, and then we If you need to drop something
goes like this: wait. We teach children good to get more time with your
habits, and then we wait. We child, then do it. If you both
Dheere dheere re mana, offer a prayer, and then we wait. enjoy cuddling and poring over
dheere sub kucch hoye If you analyze it, life is nothing a book together more than the
Mali seenche so ghara, but waiting interspersed with piano class or the taekwondo
ritu aaye phal hoye moments or bursts of activity. training, go ahead and do that.
Waiting takes up a large part of If you feel like taking the day
Slow down, dear mind, slow our life and not activity. Waiting off and going for a picnic with
down. Everything happens in its comes from the faith that the children, then do that. Our
own time. actions done well will yield the fondest memories are usually
The gardener may pour a hundred right results. It is waiting that is of childhood. There is no need
buckets of water, the art. to rush children through their
but only when the season is right childhood. Don’t force your
will the trees yield fruit. As parents, there is hardly children to grow up fast. Your
anything more important to son is being clingy and wants
In a few words, Saint Kabir you than the well-being of your to spend more time with you?
shares the wisdom behind doing children. So, you do everything Great, spend time with him.
things at the right time and you can to help your children Your daughter doesn’t feel like
waiting patiently for the results. succeed. All the sleepless nights reading the story book on her
and ferrying your children from own? No problem, read it to her.
Parents know about doing one activity to another is to Let them take their time.
things at the right time. And prepare them for their life ahead.
even if they don’t, they can read Each child is unique. Some
about it and learn. But waiting I commend the efforts parents learn math fast, while others
for the results is an attitude one put in these days in raising their create wonderful art. Some
needs to develop. Especially in children. I do have a suggestion. love helping in the kitchen,
today’s world of FOMO (fear Once in a while, relax. Do less. while others like to spend
of missing out) and instant You are already starved for time, time running around the park.
gratification, waiting can be a don’t try to squeeze more into Children’s minds are like flower
tough exercise. your day. Less is more. One buds. Do not force them to
advice new parents often get bloom. Be patient, be present,
What do we mean by waiting? from parents with grown-up and be loving.
In its real sense, waiting means children is, “Spend as much time
allowing a process that has as you can with your little ones.
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heart. Keep listening with your Daily Dilemma Please introspect and see if
eyes and ears, and your heart will that’s what is happening in your
speak its guidance more clearly. Q: My child seems to lack case. Also, positive suggestions
confidence. She hesitates in and indirect advice work well
While our life circumstances asking the teacher about her over time. Be patient and keep
can be unique, a common factor doubts and even when I remind me posted on how things come
that unites all parents is a her, she doesn’t. What to do? along.
perennial dearth of time. So, be
kind to yourself. Learn to wait Daaji: Some children are From Chapter 10 of The Wisdom
and understand that everything shy. It’s part of their make-up. Bridge.1
happens in its own sweet time. Parents often remember their To be continued.
Enjoy the journey because the own so-called shortcomings and
destination is a moving goal are over cautious about such Illustrations by ARATI SHEDDE
post. tendencies in their children.
1
Patel, K.D., 2022. The Wisdom Bridge: Nine Principles to a Life that Echoes in the Hearts of Your Loved Ones. Penguin,
India.
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Finding KAJ HAMMARGREN is an
athlete who turned his life
around from a very dark
Purpose
place in his twenties to
serving others and bringing
joy, all through a spiritual
awakening and the practice
of meditation. His story is an
inspiring one!
I
shouldn’t be able to run, not
even walk, and especially not
pole vault. In fact, I shouldn’t
be alive at all.
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Workplace
The ability to shift from
reacting against the
past to leaning into and
presencing an emerging
future is probably the
single most important
leadership capacity
today.
C. OTTO SCHARMER
Illustration by LEMBERGVECTOR
JUST THINKING AND FEELING
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A
fascinating Sephardic right from wrong from a values rapidly than a human ever could.
expression states, “It’s standpoint. Truly distinguishing To me, that's being “too smart.”
not good to be ‘too right from wrong calls for But where is the heart in all
smart’.” One might question something more than cerebral this? There is no intuition, no
this sentiment; after all, it seems cognition. One must feel the judgment beyond pure intellectual
to contradict conventional situation and judge the merits of analysis. Imagine the potential for
wisdom, doesn’t it? The standard the choices in front of them. That erroneous lethal decisions.
assumption is: the smarter the is where the heart speaks.
better. Making decisions involves more
Sometimes, it’s crucial to than just processing information.
But let’s think about how we momentarily suspend thinking and To handle uncertainty and risk, it
process information. A profound listen to the heart about what truly takes more than logical thinking.
relationship exists between the makes sense. I have solved some of When all information processing
brain and the heart. The more we my most complex problems during has been exhausted, the last
employ our mental faculties, the meditation. When the meditation source of uncertainty and risk
less we tap into our emotional was over, I had an answer. needs to be addressed. One must
ones, erroneously believing that pause, and intuition, judgment,
employing the brain is sufficient In meditation, you stop thinking and experience play a role. For
to arrive at the best decision. So, if or getting attached to thoughts. that, it is not enough to just be
a person is extremely smart, they You just calm your mind, which smart. One needs to be wise, for
are likely to be utilizing primarily enables the heart to open. And which listening to the heart is
their brain, which can hinder their ideas, judgments that the brain did indispensable.
heart’s engagement. not process, emerge.
Just thinking and feeling,
Not all decisions can be I recently came across a newspaper
made based solely on tangible article about a robotic police
information that the brain can officer in San Francisco with lethal
analyze. “Too smart” individuals capabilities. This robot, leveraging
might not harness their intuition. artificial intelligence, assesses ichak@adizes.com
They might over-intellectualize threats and decides whether lethal https://www.ichakadizes.com/post/
risks and fail to sense the nuances force is necessary. It’s a machine the-perils-of-being-too-smart
of a situation, fail to discern that processes information more
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ChatGPT
Gamechanger
or Hype?
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P
art of my job as the CEO 1950 landmark paper with what There was a lot of hype at that
of a technology company is now popularly known as the time about how AI would change
is to keep track of trends Turing test. In simple terms, if the world and dominate fields as
and technologies that could be you interact (perhaps chat) with a diverse as predicting the weather,
incredibly transformational. This computer, but are unable to tell the to picking winning stocks, to
knowledge is critical to formulate difference between this experience automating architecture and
strategies for our business. To use and chatting with a real human design for buildings. However,
a hockey analogy from Wayne being, then the electronic brain has very little of this came to pass.
Gretzky, it is to “stake to where the passed the Turing test. Funding dried up when people
puck is going.” realized that too much expensive
So, what is AI? The fundamental computing power was needed and
Artificial Intelligence (AI) is building block of AI, or an the economics just did not work
definitely a major trend today “electronic brain,” is a neural out.
and has probably had more network that mimics the kinds of
historical cycles of being sold as neural networks our brains have, The next generation of AI came
transformational and not living up and in essence has a “learning in the late nineties when IBM
to its promise than any technology mechanism.” I remember writing developed Deep Blue, which beat
in the last century. It all started neural networks in languages like the reigning world champion
with early neural networks in Prolog and C as a student. The Garry Kasparov at chess. In
the 1940s and 50s that looked to fundamental difference between 2005, a Stanford robot drove
make a computer mimic a human this type of computer program autonomously for 131 miles in
brain and its mental functions. and other purely computational the desert. These developments
In other words, the endeavor was programs or software, was the revived interest and funding
to construct an electronic brain. aspect of being able to learn, again. So far, AI still needed very
The benchmark for success was potentially predict, and come to large-scale computing power and
established by Alan Turing in a conclusions. bespoke computing equipment –
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translation, a lot of money. This is called generative AI. It has So, is the promise of AI finally
generation of AI can be called the quality of not just arriving being delivered? It is safe to say
purpose-built AI. It was still in upon a result but also explaining that AI has finally reached a point
the domain of large companies or the derivation of the result. It where many applications have
governments. is thus far the closest to human become economically feasible and
intelligence that AI has reached. hence will scale. Autonomous
The next big move was Google’s Carrying out a conversation with driving, facial recognition,
DeepMind, which beat the ChatGPT feels like talking to improved customer service
reigning world champion at the a very intelligent and articulate by scanning knowledge bases
GO game, much more complex human being. With computing and using chatbots, authoring
than chess, and used “deep costs continuously decreasing, marketing content, writing code
learning” techniques such as deep and “big data sets” to train the AI for software programs, etc., are
neural networks. This generation becoming more easily available, some of the applications that
of AI can be called “deep learning the improvement in AI with ChatGPT is already doing
general AI.” ChatGPT has been accelerated. successfully. It is the only
technology that has been adopted
The current generation of AI, To summarize these generations, by 100 million users in just two
with ChatGPT as a prominent look at the graph below that plots months after launch.
example, is way more general Purpose and Cost:
purpose or multi-purpose and
Very Now
Generic
Somewhat 2000s
Generic and 2010s
PU RPOS E
Somewhat
80s and
Specific
90s
Very
Specific 40s and
50s
COST
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7 Tips that Show
How Crucial Social Connection
Is to Well-being
Could public health guidelines help stop loneliness? KIFFER GEORGE CARD shares both
research and his perspective on how we can address the pandemic of loneliness. He
advocates coming together in a whole-of-society response, which means addressing the
very problem he is seeking to solve.
U
nited States Surgeon outcomes, ranging from HIV to While everybody’s vulnerability
General Vivek Murthy substance use. to loneliness and social isolation
recently called loneliness differs, we all need social
an epidemic, and issued a public For example, my colleagues and connection. Perhaps just as
health advisory on the healing I have previously shown that importantly, Harvard research
effects of social connection and social isolation is associated with from the longest-running cohort
community. a 48 percent increase in odds for study ever conducted suggests
premature death, and that lonely that warm social relationships are
The report warned of the people have 71 percent higher the most important predictor of
considerable adverse effects of odds of reporting fair or poor happiness across the life course.
loneliness and social isolation – health. In other words, people who are
comparing it to other leading risk disconnected lead sicker, sadder,
factors for premature death such Other researchers have also and shorter lives.
as smoking, obesity, elevated blood documented the havoc that
pressure and high cholesterol. loneliness wreaks on individuals, Public health guidelines
showing that lonely and isolated
Loneliness and social people have poorer immune In response to this epidemic
isolation can be harmful function, experience higher levels of loneliness, my team at the
of inflammation, and are at greater Canadian Alliance for Social
In my work as a social and risk for heart disease, cancer and Connection and Health has
behavioral epidemiologist, I have diabetes. engaged experts from across
studied how social and community Canada and globally to develop
connectedness shapes health
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the world’s first public health social connection is associated connected, but sometimes we get
guidelines for social connection. with poorer well-being. While trapped by it.
everybody’s vulnerability to
Similar to the nutrition, exercise loneliness and social isolation Public health guidelines can help
and alcohol use guidelines differs, we all need social raise awareness of the importance
promoted by many national connection. Yet, people generally of social connection and provide us
governments, social connection underestimate the benefits of with a road map for better social
guidelines have the potential to connecting with others and health. But what should these
improve our health and happiness overestimate the costs, which guidelines look like?
by helping us all prioritize social include the emotional labor and
connections in our daily lives. mental energy needed to manage This is exactly what my team
They can also raise awareness relationships and your self- has set out to understand as
among healthcare providers presentation. part of a multi-phased, mixed-
and policymakers to ensure method study funded by and
these experts are taking actions Regardless of levels of introversion conducted in partnership with the
consistent with the latest evidence or extroversion, insufficient Canadian government. So far, we
highlighting the importance of social connection is associated have identified a few promising
social health. with poorer well-being. This is approaches that each of us can act
because social connection is a on right now:
Promising guidelines for biological imperative. We evolved
better social health in close-knit communities. For
ancient humans, social exclusion
Regardless of levels of introversion was a death sentence. Loneliness
or extroversion, insufficient is our body’s way of keeping us
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REL AT IO N SH I P S
48 H eart f u l n es s
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relationships provide different social reserves and meet your own This article is reprinted with
types of support. personal needs. permission from the author and
The Conversation under Creative
5. Recognize the risks of Following these and other Commons license from https://
living alone. strategies can improve your theconversation.com/could-
health and well-being. However, public-health-guidelines-help-
People who live alone are at addressing loneliness, like many stop-loneliness-7-tips-that-show-
increased risk of loneliness and of the big problems we face today, how-crucial-social-connection-is-
studies have shown that living will require a whole-of-society to-well-being-205358.
alone, particularly for men, is response. Public health guidelines
hazardous to your health. That for social connection can provide I ll u st rat io n s by A R ATI S H EDDE
means that if you live alone, the foundation for such an
prioritizing social relationships approach.
may be especially important to
you.
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GUY SHAHAR embarked on a career in
Energy
energy healing with little understanding
of what it entailed, after experiencing
Dr. Bradley Nelson’s method, The
Emotion Code. The results spoke for
Healing
themselves. After becoming certified
as a healer, Guy is now watching with
wonder how the method is unfolding
and evolving, and how he is growing
through the process.
R ELAT IONSHIPS
I never gave energy healing The Emotion Code people how to do it. It includes
any serious consideration until a chapter on how to muscle
after my first visit to Kanha But having heard the voice, I test. I had zero confidence that
Shanti Vanam Ashram in 2020. couldn’t ignore it. So I half- a written chapter in a book
The idea of sitting in a room heartedly looked up the method would enable me to learn this
and being able to heal another I’d been receiving, The Emotion important new skill, but I picked
person in another town or Code. It is based on the idea up a copy and by the end of the
on another continent seemed of releasing “trapped emotions” chapter, doing the exercises he
interesting but fantastical to me. that come up at various points suggested, I was surprised to get
in our lives but are not fully some reasonably clear answers.
A few years before that, I’d had processed. Perhaps it is because
a health breakdown following we are too overwhelmed or So I persisted with learning
a long difficult situation at triggered at the time, and the method, using it on myself
work. I was housebound for 3 instead repress them, so they and my family, without any
months, and one of the things lodge as excess and disruptive expectation of results. None
I’d been doing was receiving energy in our system, and lead to came until one day when I was
online energy healing with a all sorts of physical and mental suffering from severe back pain
practitioner. I didn’t really know issues. and inflammation, and my wife
what it was or how it worked, suggested I try The Emotion
but I figured it was worth a try. I discovered that it was actually Code to help. I wasn’t hopeful
a very simple method, and but had nothing to lose, so I
It was during one session after very easy to do, but required went upstairs and released a
that visit to Kanha that I heard an ability that I didn’t think I number of trapped emotions. By
a voice in my own head saying, had – “muscle-testing” to obtain the time I had finished, I was
“You should do this!” I almost clear yes or no answers from the surprised to find that the pain
dismissed it because energy subconscious mind of the person had halved, and it continued to
healing was so far from anything being treated. diminish as the day went on.
I ever thought I’d do, or would When I told my wife, she took a
be able to do. The man who created The look at my back and exclaimed
Emotion Code, Dr. Bradley that the inflammation had also
Nelson, has written a book of gone down. That was the first
the same name which guides time I genuinely felt there was
something in energy healing.
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REL AT IO N SH I P S
1. Connect to a Higher
Power
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REL AT IO N SH I P S
3. Positive intention
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Environment
MIRABAI
T H R E E P RIOR IT IE S F OR
Environmental
Healing
ENV IR ONME NT
A
ll is not lost. There is in fact a way to “save Priority 1: Protect Ecosystems
the world.” I put it in quotes, because
ultimately the choice we face is not about The first recalls traditional conservationism. We
our survival, it is about what kind of world we must absolutely protect any remaining intact
choose to live in. One vibrant with life? Or a ecosystems from development, whether it is for oil
gigantic strip mine/waste dump/parking lot? So and gas, minerals, lumber, ranching, suburbs, dam
let us say there is a way to regenerate a world reservoirs, industrial-scale fishing, or biofuels.
vibrant with life. The way is to enact a reverence The few remaining intact organs of Gaia are
for life in all its forms. This translates to three its reservoirs of biodiversity and its memory of
priorities for environmentalist attention and health. Note well that to “protect” does not usually
funding. mean to fence off and keep humans away. In fact,
right human participation can enhance the health
of ecosystems when those humans have intimate
understanding and reverence for the places where
they live.
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EN V I R O N M EN T
Priority 2: Regeneration
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ENV IR ONMENT
common source: denial of The inner desolation mirrors the outer. The
ecological crisis and the spiritual crisis that we
the Earth as a living being call “mental health” share a common source:
denial of the Earth as a living being worthy of
worthy of love, worthy of love, worthy of service. The conservationist draws
service. from a well of truth: that the purpose of a human
being is to participate in the flourishing of life.
To serve with. Sundered from that purpose, we
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EN V I R O N M EN T
inevitably become sick. That inner sickness, Reprinted with permission by the author
that soul sickness, reflects the outer sickness of from https://charleseisenstein.substack.
ecosystems. Could there ultimately be any doubt com/p/how-the-environmental-movement-
that the global climate reflects the social climate, can#footnote-1-110660236
the political climate, the economic climate, and
the psychic climate?
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Take the Consumer
Challenge
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ENV I RO N M EN T
F
or most of us, the cost of
living is going up month
by month, and it is not
matched by an increase in our
incomes. We are being squeezed,
and while that is challenging,
it is also forcing us to live more
creatively and more sustainably on
less! We can no longer justify the
consumerist throw-away culture,
even though all the advertising
we see thrives on selling us the
latest and most trendy goods. Our
current economy is built that way,
and it will take a bigger shift in
consciousness to transition to a
truly sustainable and regenerative
way of living.
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ENV I RO N M EN T
Why do we want Here are a few that have served Outer tips
things? me well:
• ake the contentment
T
Wants play into our need to Inner tips challenge! Don’t buy any
belong. If all your friends ride non-essential items for a
bicycles, you will want a bicycle. If It is how we respond to the ups month.
your neighbors all wear a certain and downs that determines how
brand of jeans, or cook with a well we navigate life, and that’s • ake a list of what you are
M
brand of rice cooker, you will be where Heartfulness helps. grateful for every week, and
tempted to buy that brand. If let it replace your list of
someone says something is good, • I n Heartfulness Meditation, wants.
it is natural to be curious about we learn to dive deeper into
it. We are social learners, and that the center of our being, • hen shopping for food,
W
has many survival benefits. But it where the ups and downs take your own shopping
also leaves us open to suggestion don’t affect us; like the eye bags, stick to a prepared list,
from advertisers, and sees us of a tornado, it’s perfectly buy in season, eat vegetarian,
succumbing to peer pressure, and still. ditch the takeaway, and buy
that is not so healthy. generic rather than branded.
• I n the Heartfulness
Wants also play into our wish to Cleaning, we remove
feel happy and avoid pain – our the complexities and The truth is that the
likes and dislikes. Likes and heaviness in our system, so
dislikes drive so many of our we don’t hold emotional
world we live in is full
choices, even leading to addiction entanglements and sources of dualities – with
and other avoidance behaviors of angst. Each new day is
when we are struggling. The a fresh start where we feel health comes illness,
media tells us to be happy, healthy, content within ourselves,
successful, beautiful, intelligent, with fewer wants. with pleasure comes
and the list goes on. What
happens when we fail, when we • I n the Heartfulness Prayer, pain, with happiness
are sad, lonely, ill, or when we we build our resilience and
don’t feel beautiful? We don’t like self-mastery, so that our
comes sadness, with
those painful feelings, so we try to inner life is stable and not good comes bad. It’s
avoid them and fill our lives with so easily swayed by outside
external distractions and pleasures. pulls and pushes. unavoidable. So best
The truth is that the world we
live in is full of dualities – with • These three simple daily is to face life as it is
health comes illness, with pleasure practices provide a natural
comes pain, with happiness comes antidote to the lure of wants. and come up with
sadness, with good comes bad. It’s
unavoidable. So best is to face life
simple solutions to
as it is and come up with simple reduce wants and
solutions to reduce wants and
wishes. wishes.
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I ll u st rat io n s by A N A N YA PATEL
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Creativity
Creativity arises
out of the state
of thoughtless
presence in which
you are much more
awake than when
you are engrossed
in thinking.
ECKHART TOLLE
Womanifesto
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CR EATIVITY
Q: The Womanifesto collective what led to that artwork and how conversations about running
has members who are artists, we arrived at that point. It has Womanifesto.
poets, writers, and activists, also been very much about the
with the outcome based on ethos of caring for and supporting We don’t ask our members to
shared experiences and dialogue each other. For the second event, register; no one has to pay money
exchanges. So, has it been one artist was short of money and to belong. We don’t exclude
more about the gathering and everyone pitched in to support her. people. If somebody reaches out
feeling of community that it to us with interest, we engage
has engendered rather than the With funding for projects from with them and invite them if
creative work produced? sponsors, we have retained our there is an exhibition coming up.
autonomy for decision-making, Also, we don’t limit ourselves to
VN: Yes, absolutely. Always, we e.g., how big their logo is on exhibitions; we have diverse ways
have brought what we would like posters and catalogues, and where of engagement.
to present, to exhibit, to talk about it is placed. These are important
– it was never curated. It was not decisions that came out of our Our first project was on a farm,
only about the artwork, but about involving the local community; the
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second was a very big exhibition in Q: How is Womanifesto different We want to involve as many
a public park. We didn’t want to be from other artists’ platforms? women artists, and also have a
based in the center and limit our cross-generational approach,
output to having exhibitions only. VN: In the mainstream art world, because that’s the other thing
there’s a way of looking at things about the art world – age
Q: How often did you gather for top down. Whenever there is a discrimination, especially for
these collaborative events? big show with a lot of funding, women. What we emphasize is
the big names in the art world are conversations with elders. They are
VN: Every two years. As artists invited to participate, and then the ones who have lived through
we are also the organizers, and we they reach out to minor players, many experiences and gained
have our own lives. After an event, almost as fillers to complete the wisdom and knowledge. That’s
there’s a lot of follow up. Then curation. The funders have a stake where the interest is; that’s where
you need another year to realize in it, and the curator has to keep the real conversations can happen.
another event. them happy, so it all becomes a big And we now set up projects that
game. are pointedly cross-generational.
We soon realized that we didn’t
Womanifesto is the opposite; it is want to just do exhibitions, and
inclusive and representative. We that we enjoyed the gathering of
We want to involve invite men into thematic projects women artists.
to talk about human issues and
as many women to listen, because in the art world We have tried to look at
it’s a known reality that we’re everything through a different
artists, and also always talking from the male lens; for example, in a residency,
have a cross- perspective. So, one idea is proper do we have to produce and display
representation. work at the end of it? Can we have
generational a workshop without a “work” to
Q: Apart from gender, in what take away from it? That was the
approach, because other ways does Womanifesto idea behind the 2001 workshop
encourage representation? on the farm: even though it was a
that’s the other workshop, we didn’t have to make
VN: In our second event, we had work. It was inter-generational,
thing about the art
artists from Japan, Indonesia, we were going away on a picnic,
world – age Singapore, Croatia, America, all living together, cooking, eating,
and many other places. And we and spending time together.
discrimination, are open to the idea of anyone And this brought about a lot of
organizing projects under the exchange, sorrow, and fun.
especially for Womanifesto banner and adhering
to what it stands for. Suppose you The focus was on conversation,
women. have an idea of doing a workshop exchange, and working with
in Indonesia, you could involve us children on an educational
in the organization and set it up program. All the artists came up
however you wish. with workshop models that we
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could run with children from the We hosted everything on the farm well. But the exchange, another
age of 7 up to senior students from so that the community members level of creativity, awakened both
a local technical college. At the would come to the farm every sides. In many ways it was the
end we had an open day, which day and show us how they made artists who learned more – we
was a great celebration with local various things, talk about it, spend gained knowledge of materials,
music and lots of food. the day with us, and food would be the locality, the skills, and how to
cooked for everybody. scout things out.
Everybody from the surrounding
villages was involved; we put Q: So they shared the arts and For example, one of the artists
contemporary artists with local crafts of their everyday life – not running a workshop asked the
traditional craftspeople and necessarily something to hang kids to lead her through the farm,
artisans, who were making fishing on the wall or display. which had a little creek running
baskets, mats, woven cloth – through it, a forested area, and
everything that they still continue VN: Exactly, it’s an integral part of rice fields. In the forested area, she
to use in their day-to-day life. their life. asked them, “Show me what you
These were agrarian communities know about the plants growing
and there’s a real rhythm to their We also talked about new forms. here: which are good, for cooking,
existence. During the rice planting For example, they were interested for eating, and why?” She wanted
season, everybody is in the fields. to see an artist make a fishing to determine how much of that
Once the rice is planted, and basket with a slightly different traditional knowledge was being
they’re waiting for it to grow, the look. Already the object is faultless handed down. They were asked,
weaving and the dyeing of yarn in that it’s been used to track fish “What has your grandmother told
happens. for centuries, and it works very you?” “What has your grandfather
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told you?” “Has your mom told you One recent project was a
anything?” There was an emphasis publication, Procreation
on keeping that knowledge at the Postcreation, which went out as
forefront, because the gaze is so an open call globally for artists to
much turned towards cities for participate. We had an amazing
employment. response with people from
Mongolia to St. Vincent and the
It reinforced the richness of the Grenadine Islands sending us
rural environment and honored their work. The idea was that you
our codependence with Nature. procreate, and then what happens
There is immeasurable wealth in after you’ve created? Those are
It reinforced the community living and the handing very widely interpreted in many
down of the tiniest of details. One ways. One response was from a
richness of the rural girl said, “If you touch that flower, man who had recently become
don’t put the finger to your mouth a grandfather, writing about his
environment and or it will make you sick.” From experience of being in a hospital
childhood, she’d been made aware waiting for his daughter to give
honored our of all of those little things. birth. Another person documented
codependence with children’s textiles. We had really
We’re planning a similar workshop diverse contributions. In this way
Nature. There is in a couple of months, which will we’ve set up projects to bring in
be included in the next exhibition new people.
immeasurable later this year.
Womanifesto is very agile. We
wealth in Q: Is that to celebrate any frequently change format, and
we tend not to decide on the
community living particular milestone of
Womanifesto? next project while one project
and the handing is coming to an end. It’s never
VN: We started in 1997, which preconceived. One is a stepping-
down of the tiniest was a milestone already because stone to the next. We went from
we did it against many odds a community-based workshop,
of details. and with a lack of funding. We to a publication, to a web-based
have managed to sustain this project, to establishing a residency
format over the years with some in the same community where we
core members who were there did the workshop.
from the beginning. In terms of
organization, we did everything Our next project, the workshop
inhouse, from write-ups to residency, is a bit more thematic.
accounting. We’ve always had We’re concentrating on ceramics
other artists joining, and doing and earthenware pottery, because
projects that involved a lot of it’s close to a UNESCO World
artists. Heritage site called Ban Chiang.
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Their pottery is well known VN: We don’t always realize We don’t
and valued, and there’s still a how valuable it is to gather our
community of mostly women material, our documentation. differentiate
potters. So we’ll probably only While working with the archive,
bring in four or five outside artists, I’ve realized that every single bit of between those
and mainly invite potters from paper created from 1997 onward
the local community. We don’t is so valuable. It was a fantastic
who’ve been brought
differentiate between those who’ve process to archive it, and we did in as contemporary
been brought in as contemporary it mostly during the pandemic
artists and those from the local lockdown. At Womanifesto, we’ve artists and those
community. We are all partners. always had to talk about ourselves,
so as not to become invisible, and from the local
Q: Recently, Womanifesto had this has helped us do just that.
its work included in the Asia Art These days, you cannot talk about
community. We are
Archives in Hong Kong, which is a art in Southeast Asia without all partners.
huge deal. How significant is this mentioning Womanifesto.
for the collective?
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We’ve kept meticulous records, Q: So the next big thing for This anthology project was
and beautiful photo albums with Womanifesto is the exhibition spearheaded by the Power Institute
hand-stitched covers that are coming up in September at the at the University of Sydney.
works of art in themselves, lovingly Bangkok Art and Culture Center. And in the meantime, we were
put together. We have every slide, approached by the Bangkok Art
every negative, every project VN: Yes, and simultaneously and Cultural Center to showcase
proposal, every application for there is an online anthology Womanifesto in what they call
funding – we’ve kept it all. Already of Womanifesto, called the their Master Series of exhibitions.
there are researchers who’ve Womanifesto Way. Now there It’s a massive project.
reached out, for example, the is a recognition of our “way,”
Cooper Gallery at the University which is to be hospitable, caring, There was a hiatus for 10 years,
of Dundee. We were part of a open, engaged in community from 2008 to 2018, because of
project called the Ignorant Art conversations, and with the various personal challenges for the
School, which is looking at artists capacity to be agile. team members. Early on we had
engaging in alternative modes of decided that we would would not
education. push ourselves beyond our limits
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to ignore all the other things that Berlin, Sydney, Basel, and London.
we needed to take care of in life. And we realized what it meant to
And ironically, just when things have this connection during the
started to revive, and we planned lockdown, to be able to gather and
a physical gathering, we were to be able to exchange our stories.
hit by Covid. During that time,
we came up with the idea of the www.varshanair.studio/
Digital Courtyard, where a team www.womanifesto.com/
of artists from multiple locations blog.womanifesto.com/
had small gatherings. We met over
Zoom from Bangkok to Baroda,
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