the hidden psychology behind getting your partner to meet your needs.

Imagine if I
act like I only care about my concerns, my fears, my feelings, my thoughts, and
my wishes and my needs. As soon as I do that, my husband would get the message
that he better do the same because clearly I don't have him in mind at all.
Quickly we both square off, defend ourselves and our own needs and wants. And all
of a sudden we're adversaries. That is game over for a loving relationship. We
both feel defensive, frustrated, and angry. Now imagine if I always act in my
husband's best interests. If I genuinely care about his feelings,

address his fears, listen to his wishes and meet his needs. He will get the
message that we're a team, that I have his back and that I'll sacrifice myself and
my needs for him and the good of the relationship. He would trust me wholly and
completely. And our relationship would benefit from the type of intimacy that can
only be had when that level of trust is established. So if you want your partner
to meet your needs, then meet theirs, it's really that simple. Follow for more
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