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Dedication
Jesus, you save me. You got me out of the slimy pit
and give me a firm place to stand. You keep putting
a new song in my mouth. I pray that whoever reads
the words of this devotional will be touched my
your love. Thanks for rescuing me from all the sit-
uations I talk about in these pages. You are every-
thing to me, Lord.
Caleb, you are the love of my life. I thank God ev-
eryday that He put you in my path. Thanks for your
forgiveness, patience, kindness and love. Thanks
for wanting to work and grow on our marriage ev-
eryday. Thanks for allowing me to dream with you.
You’re my best friend and my hero.
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Contents
Dedication 3
A Special Note To You 5
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A Special Note to You
Dear Sister,
I’m sitting here thinking and praying for you. I remember going to
bed every night lonely, longing for someone kind to do life with.
After my broken engagement I was so confused. On paper, every-
thing looked perfect in our relationship. The list of all the things
I thought that mattered in a relationship were all checked off my
list. But May 23, 2009 was supposed to be my wedding date. The
wedding was planned and mostly paid for… by my parents. But he
dumped me on Valentines Day that year. My life was flipped up-
side down. What did this mean about my “list” of what I wanted for
marriage?
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A Special Note to You
had known the information I now have I could have saved myself a
lot of heartache. As I’ve continued to be inquisitive and work with
some of the best in the relationship business, I’ve learned so much
more that I don’t want to just keep for myself.
In this 5 day devotional, I hope to give you a few of the keys that
helped me meet Caleb. Of course I can’t fit all the goodness in a
short devotional, but have more resources for you too.
So bestie, this one is for you. I’m spilling some of my secrets; 5 lies
that hindered me from recognizing a relationship that wasn’t right
for me, and 5 truths that helped set me up to meet and marry the
love of my life.
Love, Stefanie
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Day 1
“The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew
and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had
its foundation on the rock.”- Matthew 7:25
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Day 1
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
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Day 2
“No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one
and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and de-
spise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”
- Matthew 6:24
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
It’s so easy to let our dependency on earthly comforts come
before the unending, unshakable eternity comfort that is in
you. We admit to struggle with putting material things in front
of eternal things. Help us to put you first, and put money in its
rightful place. Amen.
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Day 3
“Speak up, judge righteously, and defend the cause of the op-
pressed and needy. Who can find a wife of noble character?
She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her hus-
band trusts in her, and he will not lack anything good.”
-Proverbs 31:9-11
Liking someone for the way the look can also prove to be
a snare. Attraction I believe is an important aspect about re-
lationship. But just liking someone for their body or the way
they look will hinder you from learning who they really are.
God has been helping break these lies in me. Social media fol-
lowers, their job title, status, only go so far. These things are
fleeting. What is eternal is having our worth in Christ. Defend-
ing the cause of the needy. Feeding the hungry. Helping those
in need. Loving others out of the love of Christ. These qualities
are much more important for eternity.
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Day 3
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
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Day 4
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord,
“plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you
hope and a future.” - Jeremiah 29:11
You might have a very different story than me, but all of
us face areas of shame over our lives. Those areas of shame,
not healed by God, can really distort God’s truth for our lives.
You could have areas in your life that you’ve been willing to
settle for less than God’s best for you based on the lie “I don’t
deserve it” or “this is my punishment.”
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Day 4
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
Thank you that you have made your daughter white as snow.
You no longer hold anything from her past against her. You
have great plans for her life. Plans to prosper her and not to
harm her. Plans to give her a hope and a future. Help her to
walk in purity, integrity, purpose and truth today father. In Je-
sus’ name, Amen.
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Day 5
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your
own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he
will make your paths straight. -Proverbs 3:5-6 n (NIV)
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Day 5
Prayer
Dear Jesus,
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Looking for More?
Congrats sister, you finished this 5 day devotional. Putting these challenges to ac-
tion produce results! After reading this, if you’re still longing for more; Caleb &
I have created a 8 week online course that takes all the most tangible information
we’ve found to thrive in relationships. We teach how myself and my clients are
much better prepared to be able to meet the right person and cultivate a thriving
relationship over time. We love our online community of people, with the same
goal of learning how to be healthy in relationships and be able to meet and culti-
vate lasting relationships.
Prayer: Dear Jesus, allow your daughter to experience your unending love for her.
Let her be able to soak in your presence & grace. You have great plans for your
daughter, Lord. Help us to know that with all our hearts, put our trust in you. We
pray that you would help prepare her to continue to walk more into the woman
you’ve planned her to be each day. Help her future husband to seek you first, and
to grow in character and his relationship with You.
Stefanie
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