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Unit 2 Negotiation
Unit 2 Negotiation
Unit 2 Negotiation
► What is Negotiation?
► Negotiation stages
► Negotiation strategies
► Tactics
► Theory v Reality
What is it?
► Whilst there is no set definition, it could broadly be understood
as trying to get a good, or the best deal possible in a given
situation
► Think of all the possible situations that you have to/have had to
apply some negotiation on a daily basis
► More often than not, in those circumstances you are/were
striving towards an arrangement that is self serving only
► Equally, the other negotiator also had their own interest at
heart…
► The point of a negotiation is not to win. It’s to get the best
possible deal.
► The fact the you have entered into a negotiation in the first
place means you are open to settling for less than what you
initially wanted
What is it?
► If you are negotiating for a third party’s interest(on
behalf of), you need to be more flexible in your
approach
► Focus on problem solving and trying to satisfy the
parties' interests without shifting the blame to
either/any side (determining who is right and who is
wrong)
► The process should involve informal and unstructured
discussions through which, by the end, you should have
reached a mutually satisfactory agreement
► As you engage in your dialogue, some points to consider
are that:
► Identification of the issues in contention
► Disclose parties’ needs and interests
► Identification of possible settlement options; and
► Negotiate the terms and conditions of your resolution
How to go about it
► Every negotiation you will encounter is different
but each will generally require you to address the
substance of the conflict as well as the procedure
dealing with it
► In order to do this you will have to listen twice as
much as you speak, this is particularly when
addressing the substance
► because
► Is it possible to change someone’s mind if you don’t even
know what they are thinking??
► Make an effort to listen to the other side so that you can
understand them. This will be the cheapest concession in
your entire dispute resolution
Two ears to listen twice as
much
► Successful negotiators listen more for their own benefit and
not necessarily the other party - self preservation
► Human beings respond more to emotion than they do logic and
if the situation escalates, negotiations may quickly become
hostile. You are then in a position where you lose your ‘cool’
and everything goes downhill from there
► Assume control through self accountability
► That means:
▪ If you feel you are becoming overwhelmed with emotion:
▪ Pause (Pause for as long as you have to)
▪ Breathe
▪ Then speak
▪ In real time, it won’t always be possible to hold your temper.
This is a skill that can only be acquired over time
Preparation for the
negotiation
► There are certain situations in which you may have an
opportunity to prepare yourself for negotiation, take
advantage of the situation and do your homework
► If the opposing party is of another cultural background,
find out their culture, speech, personal style, body
language etc.
► Don‘t criticise or reject their position out of hand or
turn
► This will allow you to be in control and to be able to
listen effectively
► Remember, through listening you can adequately
address the substance of the conflict
Talk that talk
► What you need to do is:
❖ State your position- LISTEN- exchange -LISTEN- and the cycle continues
❖ Don’t concede without exchange, you should have some sort of satisfaction in
the end
❖ In the game of negotiations you need to be witty, try to use party B’s
objections to support your case, or start with an unreasonable offer and then
make concession
❖ Let silence and patience do the work for you
❖ Act confident and wait
❖ Remember to listen twice as much as you speak
Negotiation stages
► Negotiators must broaden the options on the table rather than looking
for a single answer
► Furthermore, negotiators must look for options for mutual gain:
(a) identify shared interests:
(b) Shared interests lie hidden in every negotiation;
(c) shared interests are opportunities;
(d) Stressing shared interests can make the negotiation smoother
► Make their decision easy:
(a) without some option that appeals to other side there will be no agreement;
and
(b) option must be viewed as legitimate.
Use objective criteria
(b) Step to their side. Stepping to their side means doing four things:
(i) Listen Actively; (ii) Acknowledge their point; (iii) Acknowledge their
feelings; and (iv) Agree whenever you can
(c) Reframe. Every message is subject to interpretation. Some reframing
techniques are: to ask problem solving questions- “Why?”; “Why Not?”;
“What If?”
(d) Build them a golden bridge. Instead of pushing the other side toward
an agreement, reframe and retreat from their position- start from where
other side is in order to guide him toward eventual agreement. In doing
so, involve the other side, satisfy unmet needs, help other side save face
and don’t rush to the finish
Getting past “No”
► Also, remember that despite the fact that there are some
generally accepted guidelines for negotiating .i.e.
(i)predetermined goal;
(ii)understanding why you are negotiating
(iii)etc.…
► There are also some of the universally accepted strategies to
negotiation which are accepted with regards (and tailored
to) a specific context i.e.:
► Business (e.g. corporate mergers) Don’t be the first one to walk
away
► Criminal justice (e.g. hostage situations) If you want to reject
an offer, question the plausibility of the other party’s
objective
Theory v reality