Being Me In My World - Ages 13-14 - Piece 1 - What’s OK?

What’s OK in a relationship? OK Not OK OK if...

Two girls hold hands
Two boys hold hands
It's ok if they are
A boy and a girl hold hands
cousins or friends
To touch someone intimately outside their clothing
Have a girl/boyfriend stay overnight in your room
Have a girl/boyfriend stay overnight in another
room
Send a friend a selfie
Send a picture of a lads’ sports team with their
shirts off
Send a picture of a girls’ sports team with their
shirts off
Send a friend a topless selfie
Send a friend a picture of your genitals
Get someone drunk to become more intimate
Ask someone to get intimate
Say no to becoming more intimate
To persuade someone to get more intimate
Buy loads of presents to show that you love
someone
Buy loads of presents to get someone to be
intimate
For a boy and a girl to discuss how intimate they
want to be
For two people of the same sex to discuss how
intimate they want to be
Get intimate to keep a girl/boyfriend
Talk to a trusted adult about a relationship issue
Get relationship advice from the internet
Get sexual health information from the internet
Talk to a health professional about a relationship
issue

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Being Me In My World - Ages 13-14 - Piece 1 - What’s OK?

To touch
someone
Two girls hold Two boys hold A boy and a girl
intimately
hands hands hold hands
outside their
clothing

Have a girl/ Have a girl/ Send a picture

boyfriend stay boyfriend stay Send a friend a of a lads’ sports
overnight in your overnight in selfie team with their
room another room shirts off

Send a picture
Send a friend a Get someone
of a girls’ sports Send a friend a
picture of your drunk to become
team with their topless selfie
genitals more intimate
shirts off

Buy loads of
Say no to To persuade
Ask someone to presents to show
becoming more someone to get
get intimate that you love
intimate more intimate
someone

For two people

Buy loads of For a boy and a
of the same sex Get intimate
presents to get girl to discuss
to discuss how to keep a girl/
someone to be how intimate
intimate they boyfriend
intimate they want to be
want to be

Talk to a health
Talk to a trusted
Get relationship Get sexual health professional
adult about a
advice from the information from about a
relationship
internet the internet relationship
issue
issue

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