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Social Psychology Prelims Notes
Social Psychology Prelims Notes
PSYCHOLOGY
HARLOW AND CONTACT COMFORT:
Having close friends and staying in contact with family members is associated
with health benefits!
● Such as protecting against heart disease, infection, diabetes and cancer, and
with living longer and more actively
● The connection between physical health and mental health is that the brain
produces Oxcytocin (the cuddle hormone) when we are arround our loved ones.
● Oxytocin combats Cortisol hormones (the stress hormone) which can improve
our physical health.
● More Cortisol or Stress can cause heart disease, infection, diabetes and cancer
● It is said that Oxcytocin is present in mother’s breast milk and that is why some
babies cry when they are not with their mothers.
Children who are socially excluded from activities by their peers are more likely
than other children to suffer academically
● Being treated well and fairly by other people, on the other hand, activates parts of
the brain associated with physical rewards such as desirable food and drink
● Think times that you may have felt heartbroken. It is said that social rejection can
cause the same pain to us physically and emotionally.
As many doctors can tell you, there is something very real about a broken heart
● For example, a person is more than twice as likely than usual to suffer a heart
attack within the month following the death of a loved one
● There are some couples that if one dies, in a span of a month the other follows
suit with either a heart attack or a sudden death.
○ This is due to this and that they heartbreak was so painful it also killed
them metaphorically and literally.
● Loosing a loved one is like loosing something in your life.
○ The social connection and relationship can bring dread and pain towards
you.
The infant's need for physical closeness and touching is referred to as contact
comfort. Contact comfort is believed to be the foundation for attachment. The
Harlows' studies confirmed that babies have social as well as physical needs. Both
monkeys and human babies need a secure base that allows them to feel safe. x
Harlow's work showed that infants also turned to inanimate surrogate mothers for
comfort when they were faced with new and scary situations. x
● Due to the pandemic, we have moved all our socialization and meet ups into the
digital space.
○ With apps like Facebook Messenger: Viber: Yahoo Messenger, Skype,
Tinder, and etc.
● Social rules focus on promoting selflessness and putting the community needs
ahead of individual needs
● People are encouraged to do what’s best for society
● Working as a group and supporting others is essential
● Families and communities have a central role
NEED MEANING
● Self-fulfillment Needs
○ Self-Actualization
● Psychological Needs
○ Esteem Needs
○ Belongingness and Love Needs
● Basic Needs
○ Safety Needs
○ Physiological Needs
● Relate to human interaction and are the last of the so-called lower needs
● Among these needs are friendships and family bonds — both with biological
family (parents, siblings, children) and chosen family (spouses and partners)
● Physical and emotional intimacy ranging from sexual relationships to intimate
emotional bonds are important to achieving a feeling of elevated kinship
● Membership in social groups contributes to meeting this need, from belonging to
a team of coworkers to forging an identity in a union, club, or group of
hobbyists
● Scientific study of how individuals think, feel, and behave in a social context
● Scientific study of how people think about, influence, and relate to one
another
● Scientific study of how people affect and are affected by others
● The Power of Situation VS What’s within the individual (personality traits,
motivations/drives, memories, needs, etc.)
● Social Thinking
○ How we perceive ourselves and others
○ What we believe
○ Judgements we make
○ Our attitudes
● Social Influence
○ Culture
○ Pressures to conform
○ Persuasion
○ Groups of People
● Social Relations
○ Prejudice
○ Aggression
○ Attraction and intimacy
○ Helping
ABC
● Affect - how people feel about themselves (self-esteem), feel about others
(prejudice), or how they feel about various issues (attitudes)
● Behavior - what people do, their actions (joining groups, helping, hurting, loving
behaviors)
● Cognition - what people think about
Example 1:
E.g. in a study of the experiences of young people learning to drive, we might find
themes like 'Driving as a rite of passage' (where one key psychosocial
understanding of the meaning of learning to drive, is that it marks a cultural
threshold between adolescence and adulthood).
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Example 2:
Becoming and Being HIV-positive: The Subjective Experience of Young
Filipino Gay Men Living with HIV
BY: NICO CANOY AND M.A. OFRENEO
This research examined the lived experiences of young Filipino gay men living with
HIV. Interpretative phenomenological analysis was utilized as the lens to explore
patterns of meaning-making within a year after HIV diagnosis. Using data from a
focus group discussion (FGD), data analysis produced a synthesis of seven
individual cases. Following Smith’s (2007) recommendation in using FGDs, a rich
and detailed exploration of one case was used as an illustration. Overall results
showed superordinate themes centering on young gay men’s (1) experiences of
HIV testing and the process of othering in the workplace, (2) experiences of
emotional struggles and the process of disclosure in the family, and (3)
experiences of coming to terms with their HIV status and the process of
reconstructing the self. Theoretical and practical reflections of lived experiences
embedded in contexts and across time are discussed. A call for a
phenomenologically-guided intervention for HIV is needed towards the sensitive
and humane treatment of young gay men living with HIV
OBSERVATIONAL METHODS
> The act of recognizing and noting facts or occurrences.
● DIRECT OBSERVATION – observe behavior “present” while it occurs.
● 2 Types:
1. Observation Without Intervention ( Naturalistic)
2. Observation With Intervention
a. Participant Observation
b. Structured Observation
c. Field Experiment
● INTERVENTION – refers to change or create a context for observation.
● NATURAL OBSERVATION
○ This is a type of field research, where you gather data about a
behaviour or phenomenon in its natural environment without
intervening.
○ This method often involves recording, counting, describing and
categorizing actions and events. Naturalistic observation can include
both qualitative and quantitative elements, but to find correlation, you
focus on data that can be analyzed quantitatively (e.g. frequencies,
durations, scales and amounts).
○ Eliminates researcher influence and respondent inaccuracy that
might affect the variables
○ Can be time-consuming and unpredictable
○ During the naturalistic observation, the observer remains
unobstrusive so that the behaviors observed are not altered by the
presence of the observer.
○ Controlled Observation
○ Controlled observations (structured observation) are likely to be
carried out in a psychology laboratory.
○ The researcher decides where the observation will take place, at
what time, with which participants, in what circumstances and uses a
standardized procedure. Participants are randomly allocated to each
independent variable group.
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Example 3:
AINSWORTH’S STRANGE SITUATION
Mary Ainsworth used a behavior schedule to study how infants responded to brief
periods of separation from their mothers. During the Strange Situation procedure
infant's interaction behaviors directed toward the mother were measured, e.g.
● Proximity and contacting seeking
● Contact maintaining
● Avoidance of proximity and contact
● Resistance to contact and comforting
● The observer noted down the behavior displayed during 15-second intervals
and scored the behavior for intensity on a scale of 1 to 7.
In this procedure of the Strange Situation the child is observed playing for 21
minutes while caregivers and strangers enter and leave the room, recreating the
flow of the familiar and unfamiliar presence in most children's lives. The situation
varies in stressfulness and the child's responses are observed. The child
experiences the following situations:
1. Parent and infant are introduced to the experimental room.
2. Parent and infant are alone. Parent does not participate while infant
explores.
3. Stranger enters, converses with parent, then approaches infant. Parent
leaves conspicuously.
4. First separation episode: Stranger's behavior is geared to that of infant.
5. First reunion episode: Parent greets and comforts infant, then leaves again.
6. Second separation episode: Infant is alone.
7. Continuation of second separation episode: Stranger enters and gears
behavior to that of infant.
8. Second reunion episode: Parent enters, greets infant, and picks up infant;
stranger leaves conspicuously.
9. Four aspects of the child's behavior are observed:
10. The amount of exploration (e.g. playing with new toys) the child engages in
throughout.
11. The child's reactions to the departure of its caregiver.
12. The stranger anxiety (when the baby is alone with the stranger).
13. The child's reunion behavior with its caregiver.
14. On the basis of their behaviours, the children were categorized into three
groups, with a fourth added later. Each of these groups reflects a different
kind of attachment relationship with the caregiver.
15. Four patterns of attachment
Example:
The Ice Cream correlation
Background: It was recently reported that the rise in ice cream sales correlated
with an increase in homicides. Unless ice cream trucks are murdering people, then
this correlation is just a coincidence.
Research question:Are more crimes committed when it is hot out and less when
it is cold? Let’s look at what the data show.
DIRECTION OF CORRELATION
● POSITIVE (Direct Relationship) - Ex. College Exam score & GPA, Height
and weight, education and income
● NEGATIVE (Inverse Relationship)
● ZERO (No Correlation)
SURVEY TECHNIQUES
● Mail — An example might include an alumni survey distributed via direct
mail by your alma mater.
● Telephone — An example of a telephone survey would be a market
research call about your experiences with a certain consumer product.
● Online — Online surveys might focus on your experience with a particular
retailer, product, or website.
● At home interviews — Government aided interviews
Why would researchers want to conduct studies that take a very long time to
complete?
● A longitudinal study can be used to discover relationships between
variables that are not related to various background variables. This
observational research technique involves studying the same group of
individuals over an extended period.
● Data is first collected at the outset of the study, and may then be repeatedly
gathered throughout the length of the study. Doing this also allows
researchers to observe how variables may change over time.
● For example, imagine that a group of researchers is interested in studying
how exercise during middle age might impact cognitive health as people
age. The researchers hypothesize that people who are more physically fit in
their 40s and 50s will be less likely to experience cognitive declines in their
70s and 80s.
This first experiment took place at Stanford University in 1970. The participants
were 32 children. The children were led into a room, empty of distractions, where a
treat of their choice (either two animal cookies or five pretzel sticks) were placed
on a table.[1] The researchers let the children know they could eat the treat, but if
they waited 15 minutes without giving in to the temptation, they would be rewarded
with a second treat.[1] Mischel and Ebbesen observed, "(some children) covered
their eyes with their hands, rested their heads on their arms, and found other
similar techniques for averting their eyes from the reward objects. Many seemed to
try to reduce the frustration of delay of reward by generating their own diversions:
they talked to themselves, sang, invented games with their hands and feet, and
even tried to fall asleep while waiting - as one successfully did."
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EXPERIMENTS:
● Direct way to test a hypothesis about a cause-effect relationship between
factors
● Factors are called Variables
○ Independent Variable
○ Dependent Variable
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Example 2:
Social Stairs: Taking the Piano Staircase towards Long-Term Behavioral
Change
The theory was that people would take the stairs more often instead of the
escalator or elevator by making the staircase “fun.” The hypothesis propositioned
that by making a staircase more fun to do, people would stop using easier ways of
transportation, such as escalators. By promoting the use of stairs, we could
eventually improve the health of others by promoting an active lifestyle and a good
well-being.
The concept was for each stair in the subway staircase to produce various sounds
when pressure was applied to their surfaces, as a piano would if it was being
played. The randomized controlled experiment took place at the Odenplan subway
station in Stockholm, Sweden, next to an escalator. A group of randomized
unsuspected subway commuters were tallied as they were given the choice to take
plain steps or an escalator. In the second trail, another group of randomized
commuters were give the same option, but with musical stairs. This left people with
the choice to either participate in the giant musical steps or to use the escalator.
In the concluding video you can see that more commuters became interested in
the musical staircase. The resulting video showed that the interactive staircase
persuaded 66% more people than normal chose to use the staircase instead of the
escalator.
although there could have been a third variable involved, such as more active
people commuting on one day instead of the other, or the role of chance coming
into play, the statistics are strong and would be very interesting to see in a more
controlled experiment.
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DEFINITIONS:
● Hypothesis - tentative statement about the relationship between variables
● Variables - factors that can vary in ways that can be observed, measured,
and verified
● Operational definition - Precise description of how the variables will be
manipulated and measured
EXPERIMENTAL VARIABLES
● Independent Variable (IV - Exogenous)
○ Predictor variable
○ Hypothesized to cause an effect on another variable
○ the variable that is varied or manipulated by the researcher
○ the presumed “cause”
○ the antecedent
○ Hypothesized Explanattion
● Dependent Variable (DV - Endogenous)
○ Outcome Variable
○ The measured facts
○ Hypothesized to be affected
○ the response that is measured
○ the presumed “effect”
○ the consequent
○ Behavior being studied
● Extraneous Variable
○ undesirable variables that influence the relationship between the
variables that an experimenter is examining
○ these are variables the influence the outcome of an experiment
○ these variables are undesirable because they add error to an
experiment
Comparison GROUPS
● CONTROL GROUP (CG)
○ does not received the treatment. Not exposed to the intervention.
○ No treatment group.
○ It provides a baseline against some variable of interest.
● EXPERIMENTAL GROUP (EG)
● receives the treatment. Exposed to the intervention.
● Treatment group.
A control group is a group separated from the rest of the experiment where the
independent variable being tested cannot influence the results. > This isolates the
independent variable's effects on the experiment and can help rule out alternate
explanations of the experimental results.
LIMITATIONS
● Often criticized for having little to do with actual behavior because of strict
laboratory conditions.
● Ethical considerations in creating some more “real life” situations
ETHICAL GUIDELINES
● Informed consent and voluntary participation
● Students as participants
● Use of deception
● Confidentiality of records
● Information about the study and debriefing
● Theory (falsifiable)
○ Integrated set of principles that explain and predict observed events: see
Kerlinger:
○ http://home.ubalt.edu/tmitch/632/kerlinder%20definitions.htm
● Hypotheses
○ Testable proposition that describes a relationship that may exist between
events
● What’s the difference between a “fact” and a “theory?
Correlation Research: Detecting Natural Associations
● Location
○ Laboratory (Controlled situation)
○ Field (Everyday situations)
● Method
○ Correlational
■ Naturally occurring relationships among variables
○ Experimental
■ Seeks clues to cause-effect relationships by manipulating one or
more variables while controlling others
● Allows us to predict but not tell whether changing one variable will cause
changes in another
○ Self esteem <-> high achievement (which causes which?)
■ Does IQ and family status play a role?
■ Bachman & O’Malley, (1977)
■ What happened in the study with 715 Minnesota kids?
● Survey research
○ Random sample (from a population)
○ Unrepresentative samples
○ Order of questions
○ Response options
■ What % of energy from nuclear power?
● One v. three options – “what happened”
○ Wording of questions
■ “Welfare” v. “assistance to the poor”
○ Framing – e.g. “forbid” v. “not allow”
Ethics of Experimentation
● Mundane realism
● Experimental realism
● Deception
● Demand characteristics
● Informed consent
● Debriefing
CHAPTER 2: Social Cognition
{ Social Cognition }
● Also known as Social Thinking
● is the study of how people understand and make sense of others and
themselves. Ex. Attitudes, groups, prejudice and stereotyping
3 APPROACHES:
1. PERSON PERCEPTION
➔ considers the way we assess and combine traits of another to form an
over-all impression.
➔ Person perception refers to a general tendency to form impressions of
other people. Some forms of person perception occur indirectly and
require inferring information about a person based on observations of
behaviors or based on second-hand information.
➔ Other forms of person perception occur more directly and require little
more than seeing another person. Both of these types of person
perception provide a foundation from which subsequent judgments are
formed and subsequent interactions are shaped. Consider how often you
make this kind of judgment every day. When you meet with a new
co-worker, you immediately begin to develop an initial impression of this
person. When you visit the grocery store after work, you might draw
conclusions about the cashier who checks you out, even though you know
very little about them.
2. ATTRIBUTION
➔ seeks to understand the causes of behavior
➔ Attribution theory is concerned with how ordinary people explain the
causes of behavior and events. For example, is someone angry because
they are bad-tempered or because something bad happened?
3. SCHEMA
➔ considers how we organize info and store it in memory in order to
understand behavior
➔ Schema theory states that all knowledge is organized into units. ...
According to this theory, schemata represent knowledge about concepts:
objects and the relationships they have with other objects, situations,
events, sequences of events, actions, and sequences of actions.
{ The Self Concept }
➔ The self is peculiarly difficult to define. Everyone seems to know what it is and to
use the term frequently but hardly anyone can say exactly what it is.
➔ Everyone has a separate body and selves begin with bodies so there is no way
for a human being to be completely without self
➔ THE SELF
◆ Selfhood is almost unthinkable outside a social context, and selves are
vital for making interpersonal relationships and interactions possible.
Selves are handles and tools for relating to others (Baumeister, 1998)
{ SELF CONCEPT }
➔ The beliefs and feelings that we have about ourselves is to a large extent a
product of our social interactions
➔ SELF SCHEMA
◆ is the organized body of information that relates to a person’s self. It is
based on prior experience and they guide people’s understanding. It is
more specific and relate to a particular personality dimension.
● Ex. The male adult schema on MASCULINITY.
➔ SELF IDENTITY
◆ reflects the traits of the person and the group categories to which a
person belongs. Two categories:
➔ PERSONAL IDENTITY
◆ traits and behaviors that describe themselves. Ex. I am jolly. I love biking.
➔ SOCIAL IDENTITY
◆ roles or group membership categories to which a person belongs. Ex. I am
part of the LGBT community.
Real self is the person you actually are. Your actual self, your true self. t is how we
think, how we feel, look, and act. Ex. You are an average student in class and you
accept that
Ideal Self is an idealized version of yourself created out of what you have learned
from your life experiences, the demands of society, and what you admire in your role
models. It is how we want to be. It is an idealized image that we have developed over
time, based on what we have learned and experienced.
For example, your parents are medical doctors, you need to be smart and have a
high-paying job.
- Rogers focused on the idea that we need to achieve consistency between
these two selves called CONGRUENCE
For example, your parents are medical doctors who are respected and admired in the
community, and experience tells you that in order to be happy, you need to be smart
and have a high-paying job. Your Ideal Self might be someone who excels in science
subjects, spends a lot of time studying, and does not get queasy at the sight of blood.
If your Real Self is far from this idealized image, then you might feel dissatisfied with
your life and consider yourself a failure.
SELF
Rogers further divided the self into two categories: the ideal self and the real self.
➔ The ideal self is the person that you would like to be;
➔ the real self is the person you actually are.
Rogers focused on the idea that we need to achieve consistency between these two
selves. We experience congruence when our thoughts about our real self and ideal
self are very similar— when our self-concept is accurate. High congruence leads to a
greater sense of self-worth and a healthy, productive life
{ SOCIAL ROLES }
➔ Social Roles > Are the different roles a person plays. It answers the question
“What are selves for?”
➔ Expected of persons who occupy a certain social position or belong to a
particular social category;
◆ Social roles are the part people play as members of a social group.
With each social role you adopt, your behavior changes to fit the
expectations both you and others have of that role. Think of how many
roles you play in a single day, e.g. son, daughter, sister, brother, students,
worker, friend etc.
➔ People are not designed to live by themselves. The need other people to accept
them to have a job, friends, lovers and family
➔ The self is a tool people use to accomplish these goals. By learning how to act
properly, how to conform to social rules & norms & how to fulfill SOCIAL ROLES
people can improve their chances for social acceptance.
◆ Ex. I am a student, a member of an organization, a friend, a bf /gf, a son
or daughter, etc.
➔ SOCIAL NORMS
◆ are the unwritten rules of beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors that are
considered acceptable in a particular social group or culture. Norms
provide us with an expected idea of how to behave, and function to
provide order and predictability in society. For example, we expect
students to arrive to a lesson on time and complete their work
{ SELF AWARENESS }
➔ Self Awareness – consists of attention directed at the self. It also involves
evaluating the self.
➔ Back then, they provided procedures to increase self-awareness such as having
people seated in front of the mirror or telling people that they are being
videotaped.
{ SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS }
➔ Self-Consciousness – People can become overly self-aware and veer into what
is known as self-consciousness.
◆ Ex.Have you ever felt like everyone was watching you, judging your
actions, and waiting to see what you will do next? This heightened state of
self-awareness can leave you feeling awkward and nervous in some
instances.
➔ IMAGINARY AUDIENCE - the belief of an adolescent that others are constantly
focusing attention on him or her, scrutinizing behaviors, appearance, and the like.
The adolescent feels as though he or she is continually the central topic of
interest to a group of spectators (i.e., an audience) when in fact this is not the
case
SELF REGULATION
➔ SELF REGULATION – the process by which the self controls and changes itself.
People deliberately try to alter their responses such as trying to get out of a bad
mood or thinking focused on their problem rather than day dreaming.
➔ Understood in this way self awareness is part of the mechanism by which people
can bring themselves into the line with what other people are doing
➔ It simply outlines the process and components involved when we decide what to
think, feel, say, and do. It is particularly salient in the context of making a healthy
choice when we have a strong desire to do the opposite (e.g., refraining from
eating an entire pizza just because it tastes good).
According to modern SRT expert Roy Baumeister, there are four components
involved (2007):
STANDARDS
➔ STANDARDS > are ideas (concepts) of how things might possibly be. Standards
include ideals, norms, expectations, moral principles , laws
◆ Self awareness might be unpleasant because people compare
themselves to high standards such as good behavior or fashion model
looks.
◆ When people are aware that they fall short of standards, the bad feeling
leads to: CHANGE OR ESCAPE.
◆ When people think they can reach the standards- HE/SHE CHANGES
◆ When people does not feel he is making progress to reach the standards,
HE/ SHE ESCAPES
● Ex. Alcohol reduces self-awareness giving the recipients
momentary relief from bad feelings.
Where SELF-KNOWLEDGE comes from?
Looking Outside: ➔ It was coined by Charles Horton Cooley to refer to the idea that
The Looking-Glass people learn about themselves from other people.
Self
3 COMPONENTS:
a. You imagine how you appear to others.
b. You imagine how others will judge you.
c. You develop an emotional response (pride or shame) as a result
of imagining how others will judge you.
4 AREAS:
1. ARENA OR OPEN
➔ I know, You know” This quadrant represents the actions,
behaviors and information that are known to the individual
and those around them. This may consist of public
information.
2. HIDDEN/ FAÇADE
➔ items that are known to you but not to others. This may
consist of private information, which the individual
chooses to keep hidden. Feelings, ambitions, dreams and
opinions may be withheld from the group by the individual
out of fear of negative reaction.
3. BLIND SPOT
➔ things that you are not aware of but other people can see
or understand. It includes include hidden strengths or
areas for improvement.
4. UNKNOWN
➔ things that both you and others aren’t aware of. his
includes subconscious information that no one is aware
of such as early childhood memories, undiscovered
talents, etc.
Looking Inside: ➔ Refers to the process by which a person examine the contents
INSTROSPECTION of his or her mind and mental states. It is a process of looking
Looking Inside: inward.
INSTROSPECTION
Privileged access – refers to the power of introspection that is I have
a privileged access to my own thoughts and emotions.
Ways to Introspect:
1. Meditate or Just sit in silence
2. Journal (Diary) – writing your thoughts.
3. Take a walk to nature
4. Track your feelings
5. Analyze past events
6. Seek a professional
DEFINITIONS:
SOCIOMETER THEORY
➔ The desire to maintain self esteem is not only feel good about the self but it
serves good interpersonal relations.
➔ In this view , self esteem is essentially a measure of how much you appeal to
others and how much you are by others.
➔ Increases in self esteem accepted m come from increases in social acceptance
whereas rejection threatens or lower one’s self-esteem.
SOCIOMETER
1. People overestimate their good qualities and underestimate their faults. Normal
people think they are smarter, more attractive, more virtuous, etc than they
actually are.
2. People overestimate their perceived control over events. They think that they are
largely in control of events.
3. People are unrealistically optimistic.
SELF SERVING BIAS > a pattern in which people claim credit for success but deny
blame for failure.
● Ex. Getting a good grade on a test. - Im really smart at this. Getting a bad grade
on a test- I am unlucky because it’s Friday the 13th. The teacher is not good.
SELFIE – A photograph that one has taken of onseself using smart phone or webcam
and uploaded to a social media website.
➔ Most people have a degree of subclinical narcissism with regard to self-love and
yearning for admiration, and most research related to selfies looks at this
subclinical narcissism. It seems reasonable that individuals with a bent toward
narcissism would be naturally drawn to the large, public social networking stage
from which to self-promote.
➔ However, this should be distinguished from clinical narcissism (known as
Narcissistic Personality Disorder) which is present in less than 1% of the general
population and is described as a pervasive pattern of inflated grandiosity, lack of
empathy and persistent need for admiration.
This term, as defined In contrast, according to Dr. The term most often
by Albert Bandura, a Bandura, self-confidence is more confused with
Canadian-American of a general view of how likely self-confidence is the
psychologist, refers to you are to accomplish a goal, one perhaps least
your belief in your especially based on your past similar to it.
ability to accomplish experience. When you practice Self-esteem refers to
specific tasks. If you playing piano, you increase your a belief in your overall
believe you’re capable confidence in your ability to play the worth. Broad
of cooking dinner or piano. This can also apply to how statements like “I’m a
completing a project, likely you believe you are to be good person” fall into
this is reflective of high accepted in a social group. If you’ve this category.
self-efficacy. People been made fun of for your Self-esteem is one of
with low self-efficacy underwater basket-weaving hobby, the levels of Maslow’s
often put less effort into you might be less confident sharing hierarchy of needs,
a task if they don’t it with others next time. and improvements to
believe they’ll succeed Self-confidence and self-efficacy self-confidence can
at it, increasing the are both rooted in experience, but contribute to your
likelihood of failure. self-confidence reflects a broader broader self-esteem.
view of yourself, rather than your
confidence in specific tasks.
1. Be mindful.
➔ Become aware of your negative self-talk or self criticism. Don’t believe
everything you think. Thoughts are just that — thoughts.”
2. Change the story
➔ Start affirming yourself. Make sure the statements / mantras ( sound, word
or sentence used in repetition) you say about yourself are positive and
uplifting ones Ex. I am beautiful. I am whole, healthy and strong. I choose
to radiate happiness and love. I treat myself with love and respect. I
accept myself for who I am.
3. Avoid falling into the compare-and-despair rabbit hole.
➔ Practice acceptance and stop comparing yourself to others.
4. Channel your inner rock star
➔ Recognize what your strengths are and the feelings of confidence they
engender, especially in times of doubt.
5. Exercise
➔ There is a positive correlation between exercise and self esteem.
6. Volunteer & Help the less fortunate
➔ Being of service to others helps take out of your head those negative
thoughts. When you are able to help someone else, it makes you less
focused on your own issues
7. Forgive
➔ Yourself? An ex-partner? A family member? Forgive and let go.
“I emphasize that just because someone else appears happy on social media or even in
person doesn’t mean they are happy. Comparisons only lead to negative self-talk, which
leads to anxiety and stress.” Feelings of low self-worth can negatively affect your mental
health as well as other areas in your life, such as work, relationships, and physical
health.
Albert Einstein said, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb
a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” We all have our strengths and
weaknesses. Someone may be a brilliant musician, but a dreadful cook. Neither quality
defines their core worth. Recognize what your strengths are and the feelings of
confidence they engender, especially in times of doubt. It’s easy to make
generalizations when you “mess up” or “fail” at something, but reminding yourself of the
ways you rock offers a more realistic perspective of yourself.
Exercise
Forgive
{ SELF-PRESENTATION }
➔ It refers to how people attempt to present themselves to control or shape how
others (called the audience) view them.
1. Facilitate ➔ Each person has a role to play, and the interaction proceeds
Social smoothly when these roles are enacted effectively. For
Interaction example, airline pilots are expected to be poised and dignified.
As long as they convince their passengers that they possess
these qualities, their passengers remain calm and behave in
an orderly fashion.
➔ The most basic function of self-presentation is to define the
nature of a social situation (Goffman, 1959). Most social
interactions are very role governed. Each person has a role to
play, and the interaction proceeds smoothly when these roles
are enacted effectively. For example, airline pilots are expected
to be poised and dignified. As long as they convince their
passengers that they possess these qualities, their passengers
remain calm and behave in an orderly fashion. (Imagine, for
example, how unsettling it would be if your airline pilot acted
like the character “Kramer” on the television show Seinfeld!)
This function of self-presentation was first highlighted by Erving
Goffman (1959). Goffman noted that social life is highly
structured. In some cases, this structure is formalized (e.g.,
state dinners at the White House are characterized by strict
rules of protocol), but most often it is informal and tacitly
understood (e.g., norms of politeness and etiquette guide our
social interactions). Among these norms is one that mandates
that people support, rather than undermine, one another’s
public identities. Goffman refers to these efforts as face work.
Each participant in an interaction is obliged to honor and
uphold the other person’s public persona. Toward this end,
people may misrepresent themselves or otherwise refrain from
saying what they really think or feel. For example, people
publicly claim to like the presents they receive, find another
person’s new clothes or hairstyle attractive, or make excuses
for why they cannot get together for some social encounter.
This kind of selfpresentational behavior seems to be primarily
driven by a desire to avoid social conflict and reduce tension
(DePaulo, Kashy, Kirkendol, Wyer, & Epstein, 1996).
2. Gain ➔ People also strive to create impressions of themselves in the
Material minds of others in order to gain material and social rewards (or
and Social avoid material and social punishments). As discussed earlier, it
Rewards is usually in our best interests to have others view us in a
particular way. Employees generally have a material interest in
being perceived as bright, committed, and promising. To the
extent that they are successful in inducing these impressions in
the minds of their employers, they are apt to be promoted and
given raises. Social rewards also depend on our ability to
convince others that we possess particular qualities.
➔ People also strive to create impressions of themselves in the
minds of others in order to gain material and social rewards (or
avoid material and social punishments). As discussed earlier, it
is usually in our best interests to have others view us in a
particular way. Employees generally have a material interest in
being perceived as bright, committed, and promising. To the
extent that they are successful in inducing these impressions in
the minds of their employers, they are apt to be promoted and
given raises. Social rewards also depend on our ability to
convince others that we possess particular qualities. Being
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42 liked entails convincing others that we are likable; being a
leader involves convincing others that we are capable of
leading. Jones (1990; see also, Tedeschi & Norman, 1985)
notes that this type of strategic self-presentation represents a
form of social influence in which one person (the selfpresenter)
attempts to gain power over another (the audience). This
approach assumes that we are in a better position to influence
the nature of social interaction in a manner that suits our
purposes if we are able to control how others see us. This
emphasis is apparent in many popular books, that carry titles
like How to Win Friends and Influence People (Carnegie, 1936)
and Winning through Intimidation (Ringer, 1973). To some, the
idea that people actively strive to manipulate how they are
viewed by others conjures up images of duplicity and
Machiavellianism. This need not be the case, however.
Strategic self-presentation does not necessarily mean that we
are trying to deceive others (though sometimes we are). It can
also involve genuine attempts to bring our (selfperceived)
positive qualities to the attention of others. In fact, for reasons
to be discussed later, misrepresentation and lying tend to be
the exception rather than the rule. Most of the time, strategic
self-presentation involves “selective disclosures and
omissions, or matters of emphasis and timing, rather than
blatant deceit or dissimulation” (Jones, 1990, p.175).
3. Self ➔ We try to create impressions of ourselves in the minds of
–Constructi others is to construct a particular identity for ourselves.
on Sometimes, self-construction is initiated in order to create an
identity. This is particularly prevalent during adolescence.
Adolescents routinely try out different identities. They adopt the
dress and mannerisms of various social types (e.g., the
sophisticated; the rebel), and studiously note people’s
reactions to these displays in an attempt to fashion an identity
that fits.
➔ Another reason we try to create impressions of ourselves in the
minds of others is to construct a particular identity for ourselves
(Baumeister, 1982b; Rosenberg, 1979; Schlenker, 1980). This
type of self-presentational behavior serves a more private,
personal function. Convincing others that we possess some
quality or attribute is a means of convincing ourselves.
Sometimes, self-construction is initiated in order to create an
identity. Rosenberg (1979) notes that this is particularly
prevalent during adolescence. Adolescents routinely try out
different identities. They adopt the dress and mannerisms of
various social types (e.g., the sophisticate; the rebel), and
studiously note people’s reactions to these displays in an
attempt to fashion an identity that fits. Other times,
self-construction is undertaken to confirm an already
established self-view. The successful Wall Street banker may
wear suspenders, carry a beeper, and drive a Lexus to signal
to others that he is indeed a man of “wealth and taste.” Swann
(1990) calls this form of self-construction “self-verification,” and
Wicklund and Gollwitzer (1982) refer to such behavior as
“self-symbolizing.” Self-enhancement needs also underlie
self-construction. Most people like to think of themselves as
being competent, likable, talented, and so forth. By convincing
others that they possess these positive attributes, people are
better able to convince themselves. This, in turn, makes people
feel better about themselves. In this sense, we can say that
people seek to create impressions in the minds of others
because it makes them feel good about themselves to do so.
Finally, self-construction can serve a motivational function.
People are expected to be who they claim to be (Goffman,
1959; Schlenker, 1980). When they publicly announce an
intention or otherwise stake a claim to an identity, people
experience additional pressures to make good on their claims.
The reformed alcoholic who proclaims his sobriety is utilizing
this function. By publicly renouncing the use of alcohol, he
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the world of sports. Before the 1968 Super Bowl, Joe Namath
boldly predicted that his New York Jets would beat the
Baltimore Colts (which they did). The great boxer, Muhammad
Ali, also routinely predicted the outcomes of his fights. Under
some circumstances, this kind of public boasting can serve to
make the idea a reality
High self monitors are social chameleons, changing colors according to the
requirements of the situation. They see themselves as having a “pragmatic self” based
on the given social situation.
Low self monitors are relatively insensitive to the social demands of a situation.
Their behavior is more consistent across situations. They see themselves as having a
“principled self” based on their own philosophy of behavior.
5. SUPPLICATION ➔ It consists of creating the impression that one is needy, weak and
dependent. Ex. A student may beg a professor for a higher
grade in class because he/she is in probation and will be kicked
out of school if the student don’t get a certain grade.