HOMEROON GUIDANCE WK 4

I. LET’S TRY THIS

PROUD, FRUSTRATED/ STRESSED

PROCESSING QUESTIONS:
1. THE OTHER ONE IS PROUD AND HAPPY, WHILE THE OTHER ONE IS FRUSTRATED AND
STRESSED.
2. YES, I ALWAYS CONSIDER DIFFERENT FACTORS THA MIGHT AFFECT MY DECISION FOR A
BETTER JUDGEMENT.
3. WRONG DECISIONS, I CAN CONCLUDE THAT THE DECISIONS I MADE THIS PAST 2
MONTHS WERE NOTHING THAT COULD HELP ME IN ANY ASPECT OF MY LIFE. I FULLY
REGRET WASTING THE TIME I HAD SPENT DOING MEANINGLESS THINGS.

II. LET’S EXPLORE THIS

I WASN’T THINKING CLEARLY AND MY THOUGHTS WERE CLOUDED BY MY EMOTIONS. I WAS

THINKING RATIONALLY AND CONSIDERING ALL THE POSSIBLE OUTCOMES MY DECISION
WOULD BRING.

I REGRET THAT AND KNEW THAT I COULD’VE MADE A MUCH DESIRABLE DECISION HAD I
NOT MADE IT WHILE THINKING IRRATIONALLY. I FELT PROUD FOR CHOOSING THE BEST
OPTION.

I CONSIDERED IT AS A LESSON LEARNED THAT WILL HELP ME MAKE GREATER DECISIONS IN

THE FUTURE. I THANKED MYSELF FOR SEEING AND JUDGING OBJECTIVELY.

EVERY WRONG DECISION IS ALMOST TRAUMATIZING A I CAN NEVER TURN BACK TIME AND
CORRECT THOSE MISTAKES. EVERY RIGHT DECISION MAKES MY HEART HAPPY AND
THANKFUL.
 PROCESSING QUESTIONS:
1. I LEARNED THAT I SHOULD BE WISE AND LOGICALLY BECAUSE DIFFERENT THINGS
COULD AFFECT MY DECISION MAKING.
2. IT MADE ME WISE IN DECISION MAKING. IT GAVE ME LESSONS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO
THE NEXT TIME I ENCOUNTER THE SAME SITUATION.
3. YES, BECAUSE THOSE DECISIONS HELPED ME BECOME WHO I AM NOW, IT HELPED ME
BECOME WISER IN LIFE.

III. YOU CAN DO IT

WHEN I DECIDED ON WHETHER I SHOULD DO AND FINISH MY SCHOOL WORKS OR
PROCRASTINATE MORE AND POUR MY ATTENTION ON USELESS THINGS. HAD I BEEN MORE
DISCIPLINED ABOUT MY ACTIONS, I COULD’VE BEEN A BETTER VERSION OF MYSELF NOW.

IV. WHAT I HAVE LEARNED

CONSIDER WHAT I AM DECIDING FOR - IS IT BENEFICIAL FOR ME IN THE FUTURE?
CONSIDER FACTORS THAT MIGHT AFFECT MY DECISION.
KNOW ALL THE POSSIBLE OUTCOMES OF MY DECISION.
ASK OTHERS’ INSIGHT ABOUT MY PROBLEM.
RESEARCH ON HOW IT’LL AFFECT ME AND OTHER PEOPLE/ THINGS.

V. SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS

A RIGHT DECISION FOR ME IS A DECISION THAT MADE ME GROW, IMPROVED ME, AND THE
DECISION THAT MADE ME MOST HAPPY.
IT IS OK TO MAKE A WRONG DECISION AS LONG AS I ACKNOWLEDGE THAT WHAT I DID WAS
WORNG AND I THAT I LEARN FORM MY MISTAKES.
FROM NOW ON, I WILL OWN MY DECISION BY BENG A RESPONSIBLE PERSON THAT IS
MINDFUL OF WHAT SHE IS DOING.
 PROCESSING QUESTION:
1. I FELT THE IMPORTANCE OF RESPECTING PEOPLE’S INSIGHTS. SO THAT PEOPLE WOULD
FEEL THAT THEIR VOICE IS HEARD AND THAT THEIR PRESENCE MATTER.
2. WHEN PEOPLE LISTEN AND GIVES US FEEDBACK ON WHAT WE SAID, BE IT GOOD OR
BAD, THE IMPORTANT THING IS THAT THEY CONFIRM THAT OUR OPINIONS ARE WELL
ACKNOWLEDGED. IT’S WHEN PEOPLE DISMISS OUR BELIEF AND THEY KEEP THEIR
CLOSE-MINDED ATTITUDE, NOT ACCEPTING OTHER’S POINT OF VIEW.
3. YES, IF PEOPLE WOULD LISTEN MORE AND CONSIDER THAT THEIR JUDGEMENT IS NOT
ALWAYS THE RIGHT ONE, THEY MIGHT’VE MISSED SOMETHING THAT THEY COULD FIX
BY LISTENING TO OTHERS.

VI. LET’S EXPLORE THIS

1. I TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT SOMEONE IS TELLING ME.
2. I LISTEN ATTENTIVELY TO THEIR INSIGHTS.
3. I CONSIDER FACTORS THAT MAY HELP US COME TO A DESIRABLE CONCLUSION.
4. I ANSWER THEIR QUESTIONS, AND SHOW THAT I PAY ATTENTION.
5. I GIVE FEEDBACK ON WHAT SOMEONE SAYS.

1. WHEN I DON’T PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR WORDS.

2. I THINK OF SOMETHING ELSE WHILE IN A CONVERSATION WITH THEM.
3. DISTRACTED OF SOMETHING OUT OF THE TOPIC.
4. DISMISS THEIR IDEAS AND PUSH MINE THROUGH.
5. I OPEN ANOTHER TOPIC WHILE THEY ARE STILL SAYING SOMETHING.

PROCESSING QUESTIONS:

1. I RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE, BUT I ALSO DISCRIMINATE THEM.

2. WHEN THEY ALSO GIVE BACK THE SAME ENERGY I GIVE THEM.
3. BY RESPECTING THEM, AND MAKING SURE THAT THEY FEEL INCLUDED.
VII. YOU CAN DO IT
RESPECTING OTHERS’ DIFFERENCES SHOWS THAT YOU RESPECT YOURSELF. YOUR ACTION
DEPENDS ON HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF.

VIII. WHAT I HAVE LEARNED

1. WHEN I RESPECT THEIR PRIVACY AND ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR PRESENCE.
2. BY RESPECTING EVERYONE AND ACCEPTING THAT DIFFERENT OPINIONS EXISTS
 3. THIS PANDEMIC SHOWED ME THAT PEOPLE HAVE A REASON FOR THEIR ACTIONS, AND
THAT I SHOULD UNDERSTAND, BE OPEN, AND RESPECT HOW THEY CAME UP WITH
SOMETHING.

IX. SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS

YOU ARE VALID, YOU MATTER.

1. IF RESPECT IS SHOWN, I WOULD THANK THAT PERSON FOR ACKNOWLEDGING MY
PRESENCE. IF DISCRIMINATION IS SHOWN, I WOULD STAND UP FOR MYSELF AND FIGHT,
ASKING THEM THE POINT OF THEIR ARGUMENT.