Given the imperativeness for both parents to secure livelihoods
for the family in contemporary society, it is opined that extra incomes may do wonders for youngsters from such households. Another sentiment, however, points to the lack of assistance for latchkey children. In my view, both opinions are justified on multiple grounds. Having said that, I maintain that a prodigious amount of children’s upbringing should involve parental figures so as to ensure the former’s proper development.
On the one hand, both parents shouldering financial
responsibilities, which is synonymous with greater earning, confers multiple merits to their offspring. For one, these youth are likely to embark on a promising academic career. Indeed, relatively affluent households can send children to prestigious institutions for high-quality education, in addition to affording one-to-one tutoring tailored to the young’s specific learning pace and needs. In turn, this will significantly spurs their academic advancement and, hence, guarantee a better future for them. For another, children from high-income families may enjoy healthy physical growth. Alongside a daily supply of nutritious food, they are also recipients of execellent medical services. Accordingly, not only are they well-nourished on a constant basis, but they are also protected against severe diseases such as rickets. It is evident, therefore, that should both parents assume the role of a breadwinner, their offspring will benefit academically and physically.
On the other hand, neglecting a child could entail grievous
repercussions on its development. To begin with, inadequate attendance from parental figures can give rise to numerous psychological problems in the long run. Undoubtedly, caregivers are indispensable to children's psychological development, offering them affection and appreciation. The absence of them, hence, may breed feelings of isolation, fear, and distrust, which can translate into lifelong psychological consequences such as low self-esteem, and depression. Moreover, latchkey children may grow up to be ill-mannered individuals. Without sufficient guidance from parents towards morality, youngsters acquire a skewed understanding of the surrounding world. Understandably, as they interact with the real world, such a perception can negatively influence their demeanors, which, if not properly adjusted, can turn into incorrigible habits in adulthood.
To conclude, without denying the advantages of both parents
working for livelihoods, children should be well catered for by both caregivers throughout their formative years, in order that they can grow up to be morally and psychological mature adults.
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