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Solution Manual For Understanding Human Sexuality 14th Edition Janet Hydejohn Delamater
Solution Manual For Understanding Human Sexuality 14th Edition Janet Hydejohn Delamater
Chapter 9
Sexuality and the Life Cycle: Childhood and
Adolescence
Lecture Outline
Questions are posed regarding sexualization of children, effects of media on attitudes and
behavior, rates and age of teen intercourse, and sexting.
Introduction
• Scientists think about human development as a process that occurs throughout the life
span.
• This life span development approach informs this chapter on the study of sexuality.
I. Data Sources
• The data on childhood sexual behavior may be subject to errors when they result from
adults being asked to recall things that happened when they were children.
• The studies of child and adolescent sexual behavior have mostly involved surveys, which
have used either questionnaires or interviews.
• The capacity of the human body to show a sexual response is present from birth.
• The mother–infant relationship involves a good deal of physical contact and engages the
infant’s tactile, olfactory, visual, and auditory senses.
• In psychological terms, an attachment (or bond) forms between the infant and the mother,
the father, or other caregiver.
• Infants have been observed fondling their own genitals. Generally, between 6 and 12
months of age, infants discover their genitals by unintentionally touching them.
o Orgasms from self-stimulation are possible even at this early age, although before
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• Freud used the term latency to refer to the period of childhood following the resolution of
the Oedipus complex.
• Adrenarche, the maturation of the adrenal glands, occurs around 8 to 10 years of age (as
early as 6 for some) and leads to increased levels of androgens in both boys and girls.
• Generally, boys start masturbating earlier than girls, a trend that is even more pronounced
in adolescence.
• There is generally little heterosexual behavior during childhood, mainly because boys and
girls divide themselves into groups rigidly by gender.
• Same-gender sexual activity is a normal part of the sexual development of children. In
childhood, children have a gender-segregated social organization.
• A study of lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth found that the participants reported their first
experience of same-gender sexual attraction at age 10 or 11 on average.
• Children learn very early that male–female pairings are the norm. That is, they learn
heteronormativity, the belief that heterosexuality is the only pattern that is normal and
natural.
• A major concern of some parents, educators, and researchers is the sexualization of girls
and boys in the U.S. society.
o Sexualization refers to the process by which a person becomes valued only for sex
appeal or behavior, is held to a standard that equates physical attractiveness with
being sexy, is sexually objectified, or has sexuality imposed on the person as a child.
o Experts are concerned that sexualization may lead to reduced self-esteem and body
dissatisfaction because one does not meet the cultural standard of sexy appearance.
• A surge of sexual interest occurs around puberty and continues throughout adolescence.
• Udry (1988) proposed a theoretical model that recognizes that both social factors and
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• About 98 percent of the men and 80 percent of the women in our undergraduate human
sexuality classes report that they masturbate.
• Different studies show very different patterns of sexual behavior among college students.
• Hooking up is a broad term referring to a sexual encounter that involves people who are
strangers or brief acquaintances, without an expectation of forming a committed
relationship.
• Beyond hookups, there are other kinds of casual sex.
o Researchers carefully defined four: the one-night stand (or hookup), friends with
benefits (FWB), fuck buddy, and booty call.
o Casual sex is associated with negative mental health outcomes.
• Research in the United States of 20- to 24-year-olds shows that 16 percent of women and 6
percent of men reported same-gender sexual behavior.
Gender and Sex Differences: Most children use outward appearances to tell the difference
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Childhood Sexuality: What did you learn about sexuality during childhood from your parents,
peers, the media, school, and religion? How were sexual curiosity and sex play treated? Each
generation has a form of sexual play. For some it was “playing doctor.” List forms of sexual play
from your childhood and examine how it has changed or not from the days of “playing doctor.”
Consider how changes may reflect changes in societal attitudes or media influences. What were
you taught about sexual pleasure? Include these thoughts in your gender/sexual identity paper.
How “Normal” Is Sex Play in Children?: According to many psychologists and developmental
experts, children begin to engage in sex play during the 3- to 7-year age range. Kinsey and
colleagues (1948) reported that by age 5, 10 percent of all boys and 13 percent of all girls had
experienced childhood sexual exploration and play. Keep in mind that would indicate that 90
percent of boys and 87 percent of girls had not engaged in these activities.
Child and Infant Self-Stimulation: People are often uncomfortable about the idea of infants
and children masturbating. Why might we be uncomfortable with this concept? What do we
think of when we think of an adult masturbating? What do we imagine they are thinking about?
What do you think an infant or child is actually thinking about as they masturbate?
Children and Sexuality: Is children’s sexual curiosity about their bodies accepted? In what
ways are children either allowed or forbidden to express their sexuality? What is it about
children and sexuality that makes us uncomfortable?
Parenthood and Sexual Development: Highly physiological and emotionally charged first
encounters of mother and infant play are an indispensable part in one’s development process.
How might the interactions of parent and child help a child’s sexual development? What kinds of
things might a child learn from such interaction? What evidence suggests that the interaction is
important for a healthy sexuality? What does our culture say about children, sexuality, and
parents that might make us uncomfortable with this idea?
Note to the instructor: You may wish to bring up the information about masturbation and the
relationship.
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Teaching Masturbation: Studies show that women who masturbate to orgasm during their
childhood or adolescence have more satisfying sex lives as adults. Is this a compelling reason to
allow masturbation in children and adolescents? If you were a parent who wanted to allow or
encourage it, how would you accomplish that? What sort of teaching is involved?
Body Image Transition: As girls and boys begin to physically mature, there may be a discord
between how they feel and how they are perceived by others as increasingly sexual beings. How
did you feel about yourself and your body during this transition period between childhood and
adolescence?
Parents and Adolescents: What did your parents do to encourage or restrain your sexual
activities during junior high school, high school, and college? How did your parents’ actions
differ during each particular period? Did parental rules differ depending on whether you were
female or male?
Causes of Heterosexuality: Identify the causes of heterosexuality. Are they biological or social?
(Most will argue that heterosexuality is rooted in biology.) What evidence do you have? (Usually
none except biological inferences.) What is the significance of people expressing great interest in
the origins of homosexuality but little in the origins of heterosexuality?
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At What Age Should You Start to Talk About Sex?: After puberty, which may be long after
some young people have started exploring their sexuality in behaviors, parents and caretakers
turn their attention to teaching sexuality education, but it is often too little and too late. Perhaps
this is because our culture continues to treat young people as if they have no sexual interest and
experience or their sexuality is dangerous to themselves, their family, and society. At what age
do you think discussions about sex should occur? Are there individual differences in kids that
might lead to an earlier or later discussion? What kinds of factors would those be?
Religion and Adolescent Sexual Relationships: Few researchers have examined the effect that
religious belief has on sexual health, but an important study sheds light on how much religion or
deeply held spiritual beliefs affect teens’ sexual relationships (Regnerus, 2007).
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Sex Education: What do you think are the most important sex education issues for young teens
to understand? Why?
Goals of Sexuality Education: What did you learn about sexuality in your sex education
courses in school? Should sex education teach abstinence and the use of condoms to prevent
pregnancy and STIs/HIV, or only abstinence? Should sex education be expanded beyond
pregnancy and disease prevention to include discussions of sexual pleasure? What should be
taught about homosexuality?
Discussing Premarital Sex: Imagine that you are the parent of a teenager. If your child
approached you and asked you to talk about when a person knows it is the right time to have sex,
what would you say?
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Yes:
• If young people feel more relaxed about natural bodily pleasures, they may feel less
pressure to engage in sexual activity against their will or engage in sexual activity in ways
that make them feel uncomfortable.
• Allowing students to discuss sexual pleasure can help them discern their own desires for
sexual fulfillment and prepare them for experiences that can happen when they are alone
(i.e., masturbation) or with a partner.
• Arranging small group discussions, moderated by an adult, may allow individuals at the
same stage of sexual development and experience to discuss deeper and personally relevant
issues (Ingham, 2005).
No:
• Teaching children about sexual pleasure may be more than most parents can handle or
desire to communicate with their children about.
• For sexual educators, sexual pleasure can be a touchy subject. Many professional educators
have significant fears about saying something that could be harmful to a child (especially a
child who has previous experience with sexual abuse), jeopardize a sexuality education
program, or cost them a job and a career (Fay, 2002).
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Masturbation: It may seem peculiar today, but in the late 1700s, masturbation was widely
viewed by doctors as a serious mental illness, and it was suspected of being spread like a disease
from one person to the next, requiring isolation, restraints such as straight-jackets, and other
severe treatments. According to psychiatrist Thomas Szasz (2000), doctors believed that
masturbation was the cause of blindness, sexually transmitted diseases, constipation,
nymphomania, acne, painful menstruation, suicide, depression, and untreatable madness.
There was no objective evidence for any of these claims, but countless children who were
found to be masturbating were shackled and mistreated at the hands of parents, teachers, and
doctors whose actions, by today’s standards, would be called “child abuse” (Hunt, 1998). These
beliefs were highly sex-negative and especially oppressive of childhood sexuality right up to the
mid-20th century (Herdt, 2009). Nevertheless, medical researchers published hundreds of papers
into the 20th century about masturbation as a disease, calling for circumcision for males and
cauterization of the clitoris for girls to prevent masturbation. In the 20th century, progressive
baby doctors such as Benjamin Spock (Spock & Needleman, 2004), whose work was read by as
many as 50 million people, helped to change these attitudes.
Masturbation Rate Reversal: Data suggest that the frequency of masturbation for boys
decreases when they are having sexual intercourse with a partner, but the frequency of
masturbation for girls increases under the same circumstances. Why might the relationship
between sexual intercourse and masturbation be opposite for girls and boys? What does this
suggest about gender socialization?
Ethnicity and First Intercourse: Age of first intercourse tends to differ by ethnicity. What
cultural factors might be involved in these differences? What stereotypes are used to account for
ethnic differences? What are the underlying messages of these stereotypes?
Is Oral Sex Considered Sex?: Extensive research shows that oral sex is increasing in
adolescence (Regnerus, 2007), as it is in the general population (Sanders & Reinisch, 1999).
Some researchers think that adolescents consider oral sex a safer activity than intercourse in
terms of social, emotional, and health consequences. Consequently, adolescents often do not use
protection, which puts them at risk for STIs that are easily transmitted through oral–genital
activity.
Many STIs have no apparent symptoms, and for most STIs, you cannot tell by looking at
your partner(s) what they might have. You can contract an STI from unprotected oral sex. Many
people don’t protect themselves during oral sex with contraception because it is not possible to
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Teenage Sexuality and Privacy: Do teenagers have a right to privacy? Is it okay for parents to
snoop around in their children’s rooms? Read their diaries? Access their medical records? If we
were to give teenagers a right to privacy, what would it look like? How should parents’ rights to
know be limited? What limitations on teenagers’ right to privacy are fair?
Teen Experiences: Do statistics about teenage sexual activities match your perception as a
teenager? If not, do you think your friends may have been slightly untruthful about their sexual
encounters? Do you think they were claiming more experiences than they actually had, or fewer?
Why?
Teenage Pregnancy in the United States and Around the World: How does the rate of
teenage pregnancy in the United States compare to the rate in other Western nations? What
differences between our culture and others might account for the rate of teenage pregnancy in the
United States? What do you think is the most influential difference? What is the most effective
thing the United States could do to decrease the rate of teenage pregnancy?
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Adolescent Mothers: Outcomes for adolescent mothers can be significantly improved. What
three factors contribute to a good outcome? What political obstacles do programs for adolescent
mothers face? What is the range of possible benefits of such programs for society? Who would
benefit the most from such programs?
Access to Contraception and Abortion Services for Minor Adolescents: The question of
whether contraception should be freely available to adolescents without parental consent has
been a hot topic for years for parents, teachers, health practitioners, and health educators. In fact,
many states allow adolescents to acquire contraceptive care without parental consent. However,
many states do not allow minor adolescents to undergo an abortion without the consent of a
parent or legal guardian. It appears that even though many lawmakers agree that minors should
have privacy for contraceptive care, they want parents involved in an adolescent’s decision about
abortion. The question we consider, then, is this: Should minor adolescents have access to
contraceptive and abortion services without parental consent? How might we strike a balance
between parents’ desires to be involved in their minor teen’s health care while ensuring safe
options for sexual health care for them?
Media and the Sexualization of Girls: In 2007, an American Psychological Association (APA)
task force released a report on the impact of media on girls. The report asserted that the
sexualization of girls occurs when four conditions are present:
1. A person’s value comes primarily from her sex appeal or behavior, to the exclusion of other
characteristics.
2. A person is held to a standard that equates physical attractiveness with being sexy.
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The task force determined that it is unnecessary for all four conditions to be present to create
sexualization. The inappropriate imposition of sexuality is most problematic and damaging to
children.
Evidence of the sexualization of children, and girls in particular, has been found in
virtually every form of media that researchers have studied (Burns, Futch, & Tolman, 2011).
Examples of this kind of sexual portrayal include being dressed in revealing clothing with facial
expressions or bodily postures that indicate sexual readiness. Other evidence communicates the
sexual objectification of women and the unrealistic standards of physical beauty and
attractiveness that the media heavily promote. These models of beauty and femininity are
rampant in our culture and provide young girls and women with unrealistic expectations to
imitate. How are young girls affected by sexualization?
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This APA report presents a gloomy view of the media effect on sexualization. The silver lining,
though, is that if we become aware of how sexualization occurs, we can collectively move away
from its negative influences toward a more wholesome and healthy sexuality.
Polling Questions
In the past hundred years, the media have helped to break down taboos and have created new,
shared visual imagery. How many of you think that the media have gone too far in terms of sex
in advertising? What about sex in movies? What about sex in literature? How many of you read
Fifty Shades of Grey? How many of you think that reading that as a teen might shape the way
you think about sex? Is this a good thing?
A recent study suggests that just as there was a decline in comprehensive school-based sex
education in the United States, adolescents’ use of the Internet became nearly universal. A high
percentage of young people may somehow relate what they see online to their own feelings and
experiences. This is a challenge to healthy sexuality, because they may pick up ideas about sex
that may be grossly inaccurate (e.g., seeing images of anatomy or bodies in sexual ways that are
weird or abnormal for their age group or forms of sexual practice that are atypical). How many
of you learned about sex from your parents? From movies? From TV? From the Internet? From
your peers? Which of the following exerted the greatest influence on or yielded the greatest
information for your learning about sex: A for parents, B for peers, C for Internet, D for other
forms of media?
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According to many psychologists and developmental experts, children begin to engage in sex
play in the 3- to 7-year age range. Kinsey and colleagues (1948) reported that by age 5, 10
percent of all boys and 13 percent of all girls had experienced childhood sexual exploration and
play. Keep in mind that would indicate that 90 percent of boys and 87 percent of girls had not
engaged in these activities. How many of you think that it is “normal” for kids to engage in
sexual play? If you found your 6-year-old daughter playing doctor with a little boy, would you
be OK with it? Even after what you have read in the text, and what we have discussed in class,
how many of you would be concerned if you saw your 4-year-old child engage in frequent
masturbation?
The question of whether contraception should be freely available to adolescents without parental
consent has been a hot topic for years for parents, teachers, health practitioners, and health
educators. In fact, many states allow adolescents to acquire contraceptive care without parental
consent.
1. Do you believe that teenagers should have access to contraceptive care without parental
consent? What about access to abortion services?
2. Do you believe that granting teenagers confidential contraceptive and reproductive care
encourages sexual activity and promiscuity?
The United States today is in the midst of an epidemic of sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Of all industrialized countries in the world, the United States has the highest rate of STIs. In fact,
every year, approximately 19 million Americans contract an STI (CDC, 2011e). In addition, it is
predicted that one in every two Americans will contract at least one STI in their lifetime
(Guttmacher Institute, 2007). Research shows that among teens 14 to 18 who do get STIs, many
don’t adopt safer sex practices later on (Hollander, 2003). In fact, of the 522 participants in one
key study, 5 percent tested positive for having two or more STIs at the same time. How many of
you have been tested in the past 6 months? How many of you would say you are tested for STIs
regularly?
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Note to the instructor: Any classroom activity requires careful ethical reflection by the instructor
before assigning the exercise. Some of these principles parallel those in human subject research.
Students should have a basic right to privacy about their own sexuality. They should not be
coerced into revealing private information if it is identifiable.
Childhood Sexuality Quiz: Pass out Handout 3: Quiz on Childhood Sexuality. Have students
answer the quiz questions as individuals and discuss as a group.
Studying Children: One of the biggest problems in studying child sexuality is designing a
study. Ask your students to work in groups to design an ideal study for researching children and
sexuality. What would be the best way to collect data? How do your students address concerns
about harming the children? How would your students explain the study to concerned parents (or
a human subjects board) to assuage their fears?
Value Statements and Sex for Young People: Share the following activity with students,
starting by reading this script:
Before we can discuss issues of sexuality with our children in a positive way, we first
need to consider our own values relating to early sexuality and childhood. We have talked
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Note that your values might change as you encounter new experiences, such as having children
or grandchildren or going through a divorce and forming a new family. This is to be expected.
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Source:
Some questions adapted from Haffner, D.W. (2008). From diapers to dating: A parent’s guide to
raising sexually healthy children from infancy to middle school. New York: Newmarket Press.
Guest Speakers: One of the most powerful experiences in a classroom can be when the students
have the opportunity to listen to and talk with a person who embodies the facts and issues at
hand.
• Contact a local (perhaps university-affiliated) day-care organization and arrange a speaker
or panel of speakers to talk about their perspective on child sexuality.
• Invite a supporter and an opponent of comprehensive family life education to debate sex
education in your community’s schools. Invite an early childhood educator to discuss
childhood sexuality. Invite a health-care professional to discuss the role of school-based
clinics in the public schools.
Participant Observation: Ask your students to spend some time observing at a childcare center.
As they watch, they should write down how the children display gender-consistent and gender-
inconsistent behavior. Have them answer the following questions: What sorts of games do the
boys and girls play? How do they interact together? What sort of behavior is rewarded by other
children or their caretakers? Can you see them learning? If the class is multi-racial, students may
also observe whether children segregate by race, and how they interact across the racial
boundary.
Age and Level of Sexual Activities: Ask students to write, anonymously, on 3 × 5 cards, at
what age the following sexual activities are acceptable for females and males: kissing, sexual
intercourse, oral sex, holding hands, masturbation, petting, and anal sex. Then distribute the
cards in small groups. Ask each group to arrive at a consensus for each activity. Are some
activities never acceptable? Why? Are there different ages for females and males? Is level of
commitment or marital status important?
Defining Adolescence: A good way to discuss the problem of defining adolescence as a stage or
period in life is to ask students to identify the formal signs or markers that signify that
adolescence has begun or ended. You may want to have students prepare for the discussion by
answering the following question either as an out-of-class assignment or as an in-class writing
exercise:
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Adolescent Brain and Risk-Taking: Have students ask themselves the question, does the
adolescent brain make risky behavior in teens an inescapable consequence? Ask them to start by
reading Steinberg, L. (2007). Risk taking in adolescence: New perspectives from brain and
behavioral science. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 16(2), 55–59 (see
http://cdp.sagepub.com/content/16/2/55.short?rss=1&ssource=mfc for abstract). Ask them to
find one other article on the topic as well and then answer the following questions:
1. Briefly describe the Steinberg article and the implications of this perspective.
2. Briefly describe the article that you found. Is the perspective in line with Steinberg’s, or is it
different? Does the article argue semantic differences or theoretical?
3. What qualifies as risk-taking behavior in adolescence?
4. Are these age-related differences, as Steinberg argues?
5. Is this the same argument as blaming adolescent behavior on hormones or teenagers being in
a stage? Or is this a different argument?
Popular Myths Discussion: Have students discuss popular myths about adolescent sexuality.
Myths may include “Raging hormones lead to preoccupation with sex,” “Girls get pregnant to
snag a guy,” and so on.
Risk-Taking: Scientific Foundations: David Elkind suggests that adolescents feel they are
special. He calls this feeling the “personal fable.” Adolescents often think that what happens to
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Health Considerations:
• Ask how students would handle a young adolescent with gynecomastia who came to them
with his father. The boy is afraid he is becoming a girl. How would they handle such a
situation?
• Ask students to imagine they were working in a school-based health clinic and a girl came
in, concerned because she was bleeding from the vagina. She did not know she was having
her first period. How would students counsel the girl?
Discussion on School-Based Health Clinics: Former Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders has been
a long-time proponent of school-based health clinics that would provide, among other services,
birth control counseling and the availability of condoms to prevent pregnancy and STI/HIV
transmission. Have students discuss the pros and cons of providing birth control counseling and
condom distribution.
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Sex and Popular Culture: Have students compare how child and adolescent sexuality are
treated in popular TV shows geared toward adolescents. Ask them: What stereotypes are
presented about adolescents and their parents? Does ethnicity have an impact?
Sexuality in Advertising: Have students bring in a collage of at least eight different images
from print advertisements that depict sexuality; four images should be blatant and four more
subtle. Have them document where the ads were found and who the target audience is for that
publication (magazines can be found for free typically at your local library once they are past
date). Have students then write up a brief one- to two-paragraph analysis of how sex is portrayed
and how adolescents or tweens might interpret these messages.
Film Analyses:
• American Beauty (1999) offers a dramatization of teen sexuality and conflict generated by
discrepancies in age and sexual orientation. Have students watch the film independently
and then discuss in class.
• Mean Girls (2004), starring Lindsay Lohan, Rachel McAdams, and Tina Fey, is a comedy
that examines bullying and popularity in high school. Have students watch the film
independently and then discuss in class.
The Secret Life of the Brain—The Teenage Brain (2001): This is a PBS five-part series that
tracks brain development from conception through old age. The third episode covers adolescence
and how hormones and the development of the prefrontal cortex affect behavior. It also covers
sleep and schizophrenia. It can be purchased from PBS or Amazon but is also on YouTube.
Explaining Different Patterns of Masturbation: Have students form small groups, and ask
them to try to explain the different patterns of masturbation for women and men. Specifically,
ask them to brainstorm biological reasons and sociological reasons why there might be a
difference in the frequency and techniques used. Then, have them agree on a particular
explanation and defend it. Have each group present its explanation to the class.
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Deciding to Have Sex: Pass out Handout 4: Deciding to Have Sex. Have students complete the
handouts as individuals, then discuss them as a group. Which questions seemed to be the most
important to the students? The least?
Parental Decision-Making: Using Handout 5: Parental Decision-Making, pass out one scenario
to each of six groups. Ask each group to debate the questions posed for their scenario. When
discussion has settled down, have each group read their scenario and report their discussion. Did
it matter if the groups were considering the case from a parent’s or a child’s point of view?
Pros and Cons of Premarital Sex: Have students brainstorm the benefits of premarital sex and
the benefits of waiting till marriage. Have them consider: Is one option clearly good and the
other clearly devastating? Can either option work out well? What does it depend on? How does a
person decide?
Britney, a student at State U, has been seeing Pat for one month. At a house party, she sees
Shelley flirting with Pat and starts to worry that Shelley will steal Pat. Back at the apartment,
Britney tries to decide what to do to keep Pat. They have not had intercourse yet but have
done just about everything else. Britney thinks maybe the thing to do is sext Pat a nude photo
to stimulate Pat’s interest and appear to be hot. What should Britney do?
Common Questions Youth Ask About Sexual Identity: Common questions that youths ask
about sexual identity and orientation help to anticipate such discussions (Levkoff, 2007):
• Do gay men want to be women? Do lesbians want to be men?
• What is it called if someone has two moms or two dads?
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Ask students to consider what factors might affect how these questions get answered.
Contraception: Check with your campus student’s services or student health to enquire if they
do lectures to classes on campus on contraception use. Many campuses not only talk about
contraception but also provide free condoms, lube, and dental dams to students. Check with
student health services to see if they will come to your class and demonstrate proper use of
contraception.
How to Lower the STI Rate in the United States: The United States has the highest rates of
certain STIs in the industrial world. Reasons include inadequate sex education and sexual health
education, and the absence of honest dialogue about sexual pleasure and risk among young
people today. Ask students, either individually or in groups, to design a program to reduce STIs
in teens. What kinds of techniques do they think could be useful? Have either present to the
class, write a short paper on their campaign, or post as a discussion board topic.
Panels:
• Form a panel with students from diverse ethnic backgrounds, if possible, to discuss their
childhood learning experiences involving sexuality. What messages were given to them by
their family, peers, and media?
• Form a panel of students of diverse ages to discuss the significance of sex in their lives at
different ages. How does sexuality change as they age?
• Invite a panel of pregnant adolescents and adolescent mothers (and if possible, their
partners) to discuss experiences, myths, problems, and strengths involved in adolescent
parenting. (Speakers may be found through social workers or local school programs for
pregnant adolescents or mothers.)
• Invite a panel of gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgendered individuals (including
class members if they are out) to discuss their social lives and the role of the
gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender community in supporting them.
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Taking Action: Taking action is more than organized projects. It includes everyday participation
in society in a way that promotes positive and healthy behaviors. Encourage students to
transition from bystander to participant. Have them try to speak up against homophobic
statements like “that’s so gay” or interrupt a younger sibling’s comments that are media or peer
influenced. This works well as a project that can be done over a break. Students come back and
share what they noticed and what they did. Students can brainstorm on how they might handle
different scenarios that are shared by their peers in class.
Suggested Media
Boyhood (2014, feature film, 165 min). Unique drama follows the life of Mason, from early
childhood to his arrival at college. Starring Ethan Hawke and Patricia Arquette, this was filmed
over the course of 13 years to provide a decades-long perspective of growing up.
Gay Youth (2006, 30 min, DVD, New Day Films). “Gay Youth is a powerful and accessible
educational video for high schools and colleges that breaks the silence surrounding adolescent
homosexuality. Across the nation this award-winning video and its 16-page study guide are
being used by educators and organizations that care for young people.”
Going on 13 (2009, New Day Films). Chronicles the developmental experiences of four girls
starting at age 13.
Let’s Talk About Sex (2009, NR, 1 hr 2 min, Documentary). Takes a revealing look at how
American attitudes toward adolescent sexuality impact today’s teenagers; looks at teen
parenthood, sexuality orientation, HIV/AIDS, and sexual education around America; and
compares ideals and practices to other sex-positive cultures.
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Period Piece (1996, 30 min, VHS, Jay Rosenblatt Film Library). A film that celebrates
menstruation as a rite of passage in a girl’s life. An entertaining, informative, and poignant film
that incorporates stories of how women felt they were or were not prepared for their first period.
Portraits in Human Sexuality: Human Development (2006, 35 min, DVD, Films for the
Humanities and Sciences). This DVD focuses on early influences on sexual development
including peers, parents, media, and school.
Internet Resources
Adolescent Sexuality
http://www.siecus.org
The section under information and education contains extensive resources on adolescent
sexuality.
APA
http://www.apa.org/
CDC
http://www.cdc.gov/teenpregnancy/
The CDC’s site on teen pregnancy
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PBS
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/teenbrain/work/adolescent.html
“Adolescent Brains Are Works in Progress”
Planned Parenthood
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/resources/implementing-sex-education-23516.htm
The Planned Parenthood site for teaching sex education. Includes pamphlets and videos that you
may find useful.
Additional Readings
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In addition to reading assignments and quizzes, you will find the following chapter resources
within McGraw-Hill Education’s digital learning platform, Connect.
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Name of show:
Description of content:
What underlying message or stereotype about child and adolescent sexuality did the show
present?
Did it present its message or stereotype visually or verbally? How? Was it effective?
Comments:
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Please write an answer to each question. Do not write your name on the survey.
1. Do you remember your original belief about “where babies come from”? What was it?
2. How did you first find out about the differences between your genitals and those of the other
gender? What is your first memory of seeing the other sex’s genitals? Was it in person, a
picture, movie, or other source? What was your reaction?
3. What kinds of sex-related interactions did you have with members of the same and the other
gender (e.g., playing doctor, comparing genitals)?
4. When did your parents first talk to you about sex? What did they tell you?
5. What kinds of interesting information about sex did you acquire from your siblings and
friends?
6. What is the funniest or most unusual idea you had about sex as a child?
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2. Baby boys are sometimes born with True False Don’t Know
erections.
3. Male fetuses can have erections before True False Don’t Know
birth.
6. Many infant boys appear to fondle their True False Don’t Know
own genitals for pleasure.
7. Many infant girls appear to fondle their True False Don’t Know
own genitals for pleasure.
10. As children, boys can have orgasms. True False Don’t Know
11. As children, girls can have orgasms. True False Don’t Know
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Here is a self-assessment quiz to help you decide whether or not to have sex.
2. Does having sex make me feel different about myself? Will it make me feel good or bad?
3. Am I letting myself be pressured into having sex when I don’t want to?
6. Do I know which sexual activities I enjoy and which activities I don’t want to engage in?
7. Am I able to tell a partner which sexual activities I enjoy and which activities I don’t want to
engage in?
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10. Am I able to talk about using contraception and condoms with this person?
12. Do I really care about this person, and does this person really care about me? Does that
matter to me?
13. Do I respect this person, and does this person respect me? Does that matter to me?
14. Do I trust this person, and does this person trust me?
15. Does this person want to work on having a committed relationship? Does that matter to me?
*Adapted from PPFA, All About Sex: A Family Resource on Sex and Sexuality (Three Rivers
Press, New York, 1997), p. 24.
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1. Would you provide condoms to your son or daughter? Why or why not? If you said you
would provide condoms, how exactly would you do it?
2. Imagine you have a boyfriend or girlfriend but are not yet sexually active. Should your
parents give you condoms? Why or why not? If you had to get them yourself, how would you
do it? Would you rather have them available at home?
3. Would you allow your son to be alone with a girl in his room with the door shut? Your
daughter, with a boy? Why or why not? Does it become appropriate at a certain age? What
age? Is it “safe” for you to let your daughter or son close the door with a same-sex peer?
4. Imagine you are a teenager living at home and you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Should
your parents allow you to be alone with your friend with your bedroom door shut? Why or
why not? How would you feel if your parents insisted that the door stay open?
5. If you discovered your son or daughter was having sex, would you tell the parent of the
partner? Why or why not? Does it matter if your child is the boy or the girl?
6. If your parents found out you were having sex, would it be fair for your parents to tell the
parents of your partner? Would you be horrified?
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