7 STEPS TO

SAVE YOUR
MARRIAGE
7 Steps That Can Instantly
Transform Any Marriage

By Cody Butler

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SPEAKING FROM
EXPERIENCE
Hi, my name's Cody Butler and I help couples transform relationships from broken and
failing, to wildly successful…In a very short period of time!

If you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re experiencing some or all of the following…

Broken down communication

Constant fighting
Poor intimacy
Cold and distant spouse
Brink of divorce or separation

The great news is that all of these problems can be eliminated and turned around
virtually immediately.

I’ll be sharing with you our 7-Step Framework that works every single time.

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WHAT IF THE NEXT

10 YEARS WERE THE
SAME AS THE LAST?
It's time to decide what the NEXT 10 Years of your life is going to
look like...Are you going to create a life of ABUNDANCE, Joy, and great
RELATIONSHIPS...Or are you going to repeat the past decades and
remain in CHAOS?

You can literally have anything you want...But you have a limited
window of opportunity in which to claim it. This Short Guide Is The
Start Of That Journey

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Transforming Your
Marriage Begins
With The Simple
Belief...

IT'S POSSIBLE...

So Let's Get Started

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TRANSFORMATION IS
POSSIBLE...
Many Have Done It

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STEP 1
IS WHAT YOU’RE
DOING WORKING?
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If the answer is NO, then step 1 is to simply say “what we’re doing
isn’t working and we need to try something new”.

This opens the door to the possibility of something new coming into your
marriage :)

Transformation doesn’t need to take a long time, but it does need an

INVITATION!

Invite transformation into your marriage now.

Change is at your door knocking right now.

What you do next is up to you :)

In fact…

I can tell you after working with 100’s of couples now, that when
something works, it works instantly.

"INVITE TRANSFORMATION
INTO YOUR MARRIAGE NOW"
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Let me share with you another big secret here…

What works is TOTALLY COUNTER INTUITIVE!

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Think about it…Why are the vast majority of relationships unsuccessful?

It’s because pretty much everybody follows their instincts and intuition…
And that will get you into trouble!

Intuition doesn’t work.

Following what’s comfortable doesn’t work.

You’ve got to throw out what you think you know and replace it with
things you’ve never thought to try!

I’m telling you…

If you can do that it works every time!

"SEEK WHAT IS
UNCOMFORTABLE"
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STEP 2
UNDERSTAND HOW
CHANGE HAPPENS
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Change doesn’t come from finding out new information…

Change comes from aggressively seeking out and radically

implementing NEW BEHAVIOR!

People respond to behavior…

Not you telling them something new!

If you want to transform your marriage…

You NEED to TRANSFORM your behavior in your marriage, NOTHING

ELSE will work.

That’s why ONE PERSON can transform a marriage.

Think about it…

Can you change somebody's response toward you simply by changing

your behavior?

"CHANGE COMES FROM AGGRESSIVELY

SEEKING OUT AND RADICALLY IMPLEMENTING
NEW BEHAVIOR!"
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Of course!

Let me demonstrate.
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Take a total stranger…

If you behave in a friendly and helpful way towards them…What

response will you get?

If you behave rudely and aggressively…What response will you get?

The response you get is based on YOUR behavior, NOT theirs!

The same is true in your marriage.

If you want your partner to behave in a certain way, all you need to do is
BEHAVE in a way that will bring about the desired response with
MATHEMATICAL CERTAINTY!

That’s what we focus on in our “Marriage Recovery Program”!

It’s all about giving you the behavior you need to transform your
marriage.

About sharing with you what behaviors produce what responses.

"CHANGE COMES WITH

MATHEMATICAL CERTAINTY"
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ONE DECISION
Away From A
Totally
Transformed
Marriage!
-
Cody Butler

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STEP 3
STOP THE FIGHTING
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You’re probably thinking Duh…But how?

I wouldn’t be here if I knew how to stop the fighting!

But the reality is stopping the fighting is actually very simple.

I think we can all agree…

Nobody wants to fight.

Nobody wants to be walking around on eggshells.
Nobody wants to be afraid to speak for fear of starting a fight.
Nobody want to live with the awful atmosphere after a big
fight.

So let me ask you a very simple question :)

Of the last 50 fights you’ve had with your spouse…

How many of them did you actually need to have?

How many were over something important, that it was actually worth
fighting over?

"DISAGREEMENTS ARE INEVITABLE, SUFFERING

IS OPTIONAL"

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Starting to see my point?

I ask my clients this all time, and the answer is almost always ZERO!
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99.9% of all fight are over absolutely nothing!

It’s all loss and no gain!

So why have them?

Fighting is pointless, it’s painful, it’s destructive, and it does not serve you
at all.

So how do you stop the fighting?

I want to go into more detail on that because it’s really important, so I

share how to do that in my FREE WORKSHOP…”How To Stop The
Fighting”

https://go.bettermarriage.com.au/communication-class

"FIGHTING IS ALL LOSS AND NO

GAIN"

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An Exceptional
Marriage By
Design, But It
Won't Happen By
Accident...You
Just Have To
Choose It.

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STEP 4
LEARN THE HABITS
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OF SUCCESSFUL
COUPLES
There are 4 Habits that ALL SUCCESSFUL and HAPPY couples do…

The speed at which your marriage will transform will be directly

proportional to the speed at which you can adopt these habits
(behaviors).

If you can adopt these habits, your success is virtually guaranteed!

"SUCCESS IS NOT AN ACCIDENT...IT'S A HABIT"

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Habit #1 - De-Escalation

Most couples are masters at ESCALATION. This is why we fight over

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nothing!

We take NOTHING and Turn it into something very skillfully!

What if you could take something, and turn it into nothing?

How would that change your marriage?

You see MOST of us can take a VERY SMALL comment or issue and
escalate it into an international event threatening the start of WW3!

Imaging how nice it would be, if instead of fighting over the smallest
things…You could just walk away and not have another knock down, drag
out fight?

Learning how to De-Escalate is your #1 tool to NO MORE FIGHTS!

We cover in detail how to develop this habit in our marriage recovery

program.

"ARE YOU A FIREFIGHTER OR A

FIRE STARTER?"
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Habit #2 - Validation

Imagine what it would feel like to feel, heard, understood,

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appreciated, and loved all the time :)

That’s validation!

What if instead of fighting with your spouse all the time, (which is the
ultimate invalidation by the way) you were constantly validating them
and building them up.

What if they behaved towards you like that?

Do you think your marriage might change?

I don’t think so…

I KNOW SO!

Happy couples have learned how to replace fighting with

validation.

Are you in the habit of building up, or tearing down?

"ARE YOU BUILDING UP OR

TEARING DOWN?"
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Habit #3 - Positive Interpretation

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How many of the fights you’ve had in the past have started because
of misunderstanding, misinterpretation, or miscommunication?

Let me ask you...was it worth it?

Successful and Happy Couples CHOOSE to think the BEST of EACH

OTHER.

When I start working with new clients, I always ask the question…

“Have you ever woken up in the morning and said I’m going to
hurt my spouse today”?

Or…“I’m going to start a big fight today”?

NO…Of course not.

Have YOU ever woken up and thought that?

NO...

"A FIGHT WITH YOUR SPOUSE

REQUIRES YOUR CONSENT"
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So can we all just agree, that any fight is just a

misunderstanding?
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Can we CHOOSE to interpret what was said in a POSITIVE WAY?

The answer to that question is going to have a DRAMATIC IMPACT on

the quality of your marriage and life in general!

"CHANGE HOW YOU SEE THE

SITUATION AND THE
SITUATION YOU SEE WILL
CHANGE"
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Habit #4 - Presence
DAY

Happy couples are there for each other.

They’re on the same team and they behave like it.

How are you behaving right now, like your spouse is on your team or
on a team opposing you?

You’re in this together and until you start to behave as a team…

There are ONLY losers.

"WHY MAKE AN OPPONENT

WHEN IT'S JUST AS EASY TO
MAKE A FRIEND?"
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You What You
Want...It Gives You
What You're
Willing To Settle
For.
It's Time To
Demand More...

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STEP 5
UP YOUR
COMMUNICATION
DAY

GAME
Most couples really just don’t know how to communicate
effectively.

And to be honest…

Why would they?

Where is this stuff taught?

Nowhere!

The sad part is that effective communication is the easiest thing in

the world…

Once you know how!

But until you know how…

You may as well be speaking to your partner in a foreign language.

"MEN AND WOMEN SPEAK DIFFERENT

LANGUAGES"

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Here’s the sad part for most couples…

They will never seek out the framework of EFFORTLESS

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COMMUNICATION.

They’ll never learn how to ask their spouse for what they want, in a
way that allows their partner to provide it.

It’s unfortunate because your partner actually wants to meet your

needs, they just need to be asked in a very particular way.

But instead of learning how to ask…We just keep doing what we’ve
always done, hoping something will change.

The smart question to ask yourself is…

"Is what I’m doing now working?".

If the answer is NO…

Things are NOT GOING TO IMPROVE until you do something

differently!

"IF YOU ALWAYS DO WHAT

YOU'VE ALWAYS
DONE...YOU'LL ALWAYS BE
WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW!"
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Divorce Is Harder

Choose Your Hard

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STEP 6
COMMON
COURTESY
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This is CRAZY…But life-changing!

Treat your spouse with the same courtesy you would give to a
TOTAL STRANGER!

Sounds silly, but often we don’t extend the basic courtesy we would
give to a stranger to our soul mate.

This step alone can be enough to transform your marriage!

When I bring this up with clients…You can see the lightbulbs going on :)

People have just never viewed their behavior in this light!

“I treat my spouse with less courtesy than a stranger?”...

And you wonder why things are not going great?

Doesn’t take a genius to figure this stuff out :)

"IF YOU WANT AN EXCEPTIONAL MARRIAGE,

YOU MUST BE WILLING TO TAKE EXCEPTIONAL
ACTION"

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Experience...
Requires Doing
What Most People
Will Never Do!

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STEP 7
GET BETTER
QUICKER
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I do a lot of interviews and media appearances on the topic of

marriage, and one of the questions I get asked a lot is…

“What would you do differently if you could start your marriage

again?”.

The answer to that is…

“I would get better quicker so I didn’t have the pain of all the
wasted experiences, the unnecessary fights, and wasted years”.

You see…

Robbery is taking place in your home right now.

You’re being robbed of…

Happiness
Peace
Love
Joy
Experience life has to offer
And much more…

"GET BETTER QUICKER SO YOU CAN ENJOY THE

BENEFITS LONGER"

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And it’s taking place right in front of you!

It happened to me for far too long, and I had a lot more stolen than
needed to be!
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You can stop the robbery too…

This is it…This is your life.

This isn’t a practice run.

Every day that goes by is an opportunity lost that isn’t coming back.

I’m here to tell you…Fixing what you have is a SIGNIFICANTLY

BETTER deal than starting over.

And Success is MUCH EASIER and MUCH CLOSER than you might think.

You can be happy, and you can be in love again…

All it takes is a few skills.

"IF YOU ALWAYS DO WHAT

YOU'VE ALWAYS
DONE...YOU'LL ALWAYS BE
WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW!"
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More Effort To
Have A BAD
Marriage Than
It Does To
Have A GOOD
One!

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MAKING A
DECISION WAS
THE
EASIEST PART?

Decisions shouldn't be hard. In fact, making a decision that can (and will)
change your life should be one of the easiest things you'll ever do.

I encourage you to consider the path you're on and make a

decision...right now.

Decide to take control of your marriage and start experiencing the love
you deserve.

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WANT STARTS WITH A
SIMPLE DECISION TO
TAKE ACTION

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THE CHANGE
NOW
JUMP THE
QUEUE...
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