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Personal Integration Paper
Personal Integration Paper
throughout this course in order to pull out and perfectionate these abilities in all aspects
works in masculine and feminine relationships and what the needs of the individuals are
and what I want to attaint into my personal life. First of all, knowing the pillars on why
we form relationships will help to have a better and a general overview and
understanding. Disclosure and proximity, both are main characteristics in which I find
valuable and look for to form and build up a relationship. As closeness not only
physical is important to me, acts of services, quality time and words of affirmation. Find
someone who I can be my authentic-self, being real and my own self, feel that I am
listened to and validated, with supportive and agreement responses, promptings instead
of discredit the other person perspective. This will pull off a special connection and a
solid integrating bond. Furthermore, reciprocity which means the mutual sharing, going
back and forward within individuals, may help thrive good feelings, make them happier
and feel self-fulfilled. Thus, this will lead into an intimate relationship. The latter term
is often described as the motivation of one individual to share the own privacy with
another one. For me, an intimate relationship doesn’t always mean intercourse, but
when I identify my companions as the most involved, committed, deepest and the
closest. Then, I can tell why I did form an intimate relationship with this individual. I
can recall maybe a significant other, a family member or some other close friend, a co-
worker and perhaps a pet. Talking about intimate relationships opens a whole world of
new possibilities and dimensions. I call it dimensions of intimacy. These domains are
information and feelings in which I appreciate and value the utmost because the person
is showing openness, a quality that might seem difficult for many people if they are not
supporting response and active listening would build up trustfulness. Putting oneself
in another´s person shoes and knowing what is going through. The second more
important stage is, intellectual, which is the exchange of ideas in a relationship, I agree
within two different arguments or statements. Finally, shared activities, when I get to
experience mutual interest or hobbies with someone who is intimate and we enjoy doing
it together, creating lovely memories and releasing oxytocin, which is the hormone that
triggers happiness.
In the second section of my personal integration paper. I would like to look up elements
from Chapter 2, which refers to communication and the self. As mentioned before,
communication is always important in all aspects of life and even more in relationships.
The way we perceive life through our senses causes immense changes within our
perceive there is no absolute truth. So that, talking about who you are, your moods,
feelings like: happiness, sadness. Appearance, the way you look with virtues and
defects, my social traits such as easy going, friendly, etc. Do they really matter and
describe my real self? One thing I have learn throughout this course is to know myself
better, self-concept explains it wider. It is the perception I hold for my own self, my
beliefs, my thoughts and inputs into the environment surrounding me. Sometimes it is
hard to find who you are if you are when trying to fit into a new group. Trying to look
for our identity management, how this can influence me directly and in order to fit. I
just do what everyone else does taking as clear example the nearest reference groups,
learn their costumes, traditions and culture. It is good to also share with others and it is
nice to have people that can have a positive concept about me. For me, my presenting
saying is your outsides is the mirror of your insides and people will notice it, when you
are vibrant, full of life, so brightly coloured, you attract and vibe in high energy. That
being said, doing activities like working on myself, doing exercise, reading, feeding my
spirit, writing, taking therapy, gardening are things that I enjoy doing for myself and
help me grow as a person. In addition, a neat image just bathed, perfumed and using
nice clothes is when I feel the utmost comfortable. When I invest and take care of
myself, I am implying that I am valuing, loving, nourishing and this could also be
described as self-love. If one doesn’t love themselves, who will do that for you, right?