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Non-Verbal Communication
Non-Verbal Communication
They are regarded for their peerless style of pantomime, moving audiences without
uttering a single word. They are the kings of silent movies and were known to the world
as “the master of silence.”
They create and perform original that incorporate their nonverbal communication skills
such as facial expressions, hand gestures and body movements, etc.
They do not stop at the conceptual stuffing, but rather provoke the emotional thinking
of the viewers. Thus, the best communication is the art of expressing one’s thoughts
without restraint and staying tuned.
Additionally, Humans are highly sensitive beings and are constantly looking for novel
sensory experiences to communicate more than anything. We use our senses to perceive
and understand the world around us.
Highlights of Non-Verbal Communication
The usage of non-verbal cues initiates from an early age. Babies use this medium of
communication to express their emotions and needs due to their lack of language skills.
By paying attention to subtle gestures, one can gain a lot of insight into the minds of
others.
People constantly communicate through their bodily cues, a plethora of messages that
they might hesitate to share verbally. Non-verbal cues have the power to expose the
intention behind the spoken words. What may seem like a subtle gesture may have a
deep-seated, well-thought-out purpose.
Although Peter assured him that things were fine, Zayn knew that every time Peter was
stressed or anxious, he would fidget his fingers.
For example, angry people, usually express themselves more non-verbally than through
words.
For example, it is easy to identify that someone is in deep remorse when they put their
head down and cast down their eyes.
To discover the underlying truth: Mouth lies, the body doesn’t. Understanding the
nuances of non-verbal communication can serve in identifying whether a person is
truthful or not. This hack is especially used by crime agencies where officials have the
strenuous task of sieving criminals out of innocent ones.
For example, a person who lies is more likely to avoid eye contact and have a stressed
body posture when lying.
2. Body posture: The way a person holds their body can say a lot about their
intentions. The sitting or standing posture, the subtle body movements, the hand
positions and leg positions etc. are very defining during a conversation.
For example, when someone has a closed body posture that includes folding their legs or
hands in front of their chest or crossing their legs over when sitting on a chair, this can
indicate that the person is nervous or experiences social anxiety.
3. Gestures: It refers to the conscious or unconscious body movements during
communication which can have an inner meaning. One of the most commonly used
body gestures during any conversation is hand movements. People move their hands
excessively when communicating. The nature of the movement would determine the
hidden emotional meaning behind it. People usually move their hands when talking to
emphasize a point. Sometimes people take their hands to their faces, and it could have a
plethora of meanings.
A nervous person usually takes their hand unconsciously to their face as if they’re
wiping something off the face or they touch their forehead and gently scratch it.
4. Vocal intonations: Extent of power that intonation holds is more than that of the
words used during communication. Intonation refers to the vocal modulations when
speaking. Each voice intonation communicates different emotions and intentions. The
emphasis placed on some words over others can give a whole new meaning to the
sentence.
For example, the sentence “I didn’t give him the pen” although seems to have only one
meaning, based on the intonation, can give many different meanings to the sentence. “I
didn’t give him the pen” and I didn’t give him the pen”.
The tone and the volume of the speech also play a key role during conversations. The
volume of speech is always kept on a moderate pitch during general conversations.
However, as emotions fluctuate, the volume of the speech has the propensity to go
higher or lower.
For example, Shawn was watching two people conversing with each other. What seemed
like a friendly interaction earlier was suddenly escalating as both the parties started
raising their voices. Here, Shawn could predict the change like the conversation based
on the tone and the volume of the people.
5. Proxemics: It refers to the physical closeness of a person. The amount of space a
person prefers during a conversation also has a meaning to it. However, there are a few
cultural factors in this concept that must be taken into consideration. In cultures such as
Latin America and Arabia, physical proximity is considered normal, and they prefer to
be physically close during interactions. However, the same behavior might deliver a
different message in other cultures such as Asia.
For example, in a country like India, people wish each other by pressing both their
hands together in front of their chest with a subtle bow. This is a sign of respect and
reverence for the people they interact with. Generally, in many cultures, physical
closeness would be perceived as either aggression or sexual interest.
On the other hand, too much of a distance would mean disinterest and hostility.
However, a healthy amount of closeness from a known person or a seemingly harmless
stranger can mean warmth and acceptance from them.
6. Silence: One of the loudest forms of communication could come in the form of
silence. Silence can disclose a thousand words although it isn’t necessarily dependent on
words. Stephen Robbins, in his book “Fundamentals of Organizational Behavior”
beautifully gives the example of a Sherlock Holmes episode where Holmes solves a
mystery with just the silence of a dog at night. This imparts how not just presence, but
absence of things is also capable of conveying substantial messages.
During therapy sessions, silence can be favorable for the therapists to encourage
disclosure from the clients. During interactions, silence can mean many things. It can
mean agreement, or a subtle disagreement and it could also mean that the other person
is contemplating, depending on the context and other cues.
7. Signals and signs: Every culture gives a home to a different set of signs and the
cultural exclusivity of each sign is what segregates one culture from another. That may
mean in one culture may not mean the same elsewhere.
Although this picture seems like a man doing a harmless hand gesture, in a country like
Peru this gesture is considered highly offensive and could be an indicator of the start of
a fight.
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8. Oculesics: It is the study of the communicative role of the eyes in non-verbal
communication. This deals with four important aspects such as eye movements, gaze,
eye contact and pupil dilation. People adopt different eye behaviors based on their
moods, emotions and feelings.
For example, Rachel feared her school teacher. So, every time she met the teacher, she
would avoid eye contact and her pupils would dilate every time her teacher comes
forward to talk to her.
9. Chronemics: It is the study of the use of time in the context of communication. This
deals with how people respond to time and how that communicates certain messages
about them. Time can say a lot about someone, their status, level of patience, lifestyle,
punctuality and also their interactions. Time can be an important determinant in
understanding the nature of a relationship.
For example, when Martin invited Sam to watch a baseball match together, Sam put it
down because he preferred spending more time with Regan as he valued his relationship
with Regan more and wanted to nurture it. People do not mind spending more time,
waiting for them, neglecting other priorities despite time constraints and many such
instances when it comes to close ones.
For example, Joseph can easily identify if his mom is angry with him or not just by the
tone in which his mom addresses his name. When she’s calm, she calls him with
softness in her voice and if she’s angry, the pitch of her tone raises.
11. Olfactics: This refers to the study of smell and its role in non-verbal
communication. This involves scent, body odor, the usage of perfume and things like
that. Of all species, humans are the most scented and they try to hide their scent the
most because it is considered unpleasant. Sometimes the smell of a person can reveal a
person’s status, power and profession etc.
Mark strongly believed that smelling good was important for him to feel confident and
that it created a good impression about him in front of other fellow professionals. So, he
always made sure he took a shower and wore his best perfume before his presentations.
12. Haptics: It refers to the use of touch during communication. Researcher Knapp
proposes that touch is the most primitive form of communication. Many studies reveal
the essence of touch in human growth; it shows that children who experienced more
physical contact with parents and guardians grew healthier and with fewer deficits
compared to their no-contact counterparts. Haptics varies concerning different cultures,
age, sex and other variables.
There are contact cultures and non-contact that prefer and avoid touch during
conversations. Western cultures prefer more contact and touch when interacting
compared to Asian cultures where any form of touch during social interactions and in
public places is frowned upon.
Observing such non-verbal cues during interactions can help us understand the
thoughts and emotions of individuals. However, it isn’t fitting to say that just the mere
observation of these cues will give us the whole insight into the minds of other people.
Although they should be observed, high emphasis shouldn’t be placed on one or two
signs as the reason behind those cues could be many other factors. Therefore, the
contextual factors, psychological factors and the environment etc. must be contemplated
and taken into consideration.
Audio signals communicate messages. In the olden days, the entire community will
retire for the day when the curfew tolls. The curfew is a signal given by the ringing of a
bell that signaled the approach of the night.
Prayer time is communicated by the ringing of the bell in temples and churches. During
the World war in major cities, dome-shaped bunkers were built. The blaring of a siren
called the ARP (Air Raid Precaution) is a warning signal about an air raid or
bombardment. It would convey the message to the people to take shelter in the bunkers.
The telephone bell, the calling bell, buzzers, alarms, and beating of drums are all audio
signals that convey messages.
They are easy to operate, quick to communicate and can reach a large section of the
audience, scattered over a large area. But audio signs as non-verbal tools of
communication have only a limited scope.
One signal only can be employed at a time. Supposing the closing bell of the school is
rung by error earlier, there can be no corrective step. The children would have run
home!
Visual signs are employed as a substitute for verbal communication. Posters, drawings,
and cartoons are all employed as substitutes for verbal communication since they arrest
the attention. They carry a universally accepted meaning cut across linguistic barriers.
During an interview, recruiters are intensely scrutinizing the candidates to assess if they
precisely fit the role that they offer. Even before uttering a word, they’ve already made a
certain assumption about the candidate. So what are the most important things to be
remembered when attending an interview?
Conclusion
Using non-verbal gestures can be a great way for various reasons like emphasizing your
point, putting across a strong argument, complementing your verbal message,
appearing confident and collected and so. But during some instances, this smart hack
also has the potential to go wrong. The non-verbal cues we send across might convey the
wrong meaning sometimes. Slouchy body posture, fidgeting and overuse of hand
gestures might be perceived as rude, distant or offensive due to some of the negative
cues we give out.