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CHILD GUIDANCE
SESSION 1
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As caregivers, whether parent or teacher, we are sometimes quick to
judge the behavior of a child without first thinking of the underlying
cause of the behavior.
We should consider that a young child could be woken out of a sound
sleep in the morning, forced to dress and have breakfast, loaded into a
car or bus and trundled off to daycare.
There he spends his time basically doing what the caregiver wants him
to do.
If someone did this to us, I wonder how we would feel. Personally, I’m
not a morning person to start with, so if someone woke me up early I
think I’d be pretty cranky.
So, let’s take a look at some of the behavior a child may exhibit and
why.
The first thing to look at is development. How old is the child, and
how much can he handle?
A toddler for example may bite another child…obviously he’s not doing
it because he’s hungry. Much of the time it’s because he cannot
communicate verbally, and so it’s easier to grab a chunk of flesh in his
mouth than try to verbally communicate.
The next thing we need to find out about is the child himself.
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RESPECTING CHILDREN IN OUR CARE
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I allow reasonable transition time
I listen to a child’s problem and realize how upsetting the situation can
be for him/her
I respond sarcastically
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I call them rude names e.g., stupid
I ignore them
I don’t allow a child to explain why or how a friend got hurt, or how an
accident occurred.
Take for example the story of the mom that had just finished cleaning
her living room to shiny perfection.
Along comes her three-year-old son, who had been playing in the
garden, and proceeds to dump a jar of soil and worms on her sparkling
coffee table.
It turns out he was so excited with his worms he wanted to share them
with his mom.
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Some children demand attention. They feel that your full attention
should be directed to them. If you are talking on the phone chances
are that the child who demands attention will be constantly
interrupting you. The child will also demand that you do things for
them that they are quite capable of doing themselves, such as putting
on shoes, clothes etc.
Some examples are children that will not go back inside when you
want them to, or refuse to clean up the toys, insist that they have ice
cream before lunch, will not get their shoes on when asked to do it,
and the child that tells you that you are not the boss of them, and
many others.
This is where we get into a power struggle, as you and the child are
determined to win.
Then there is the child that feels inadequate, and just gives up. If a
child is given a puzzle and she cannot do it or has things done for her
that she cannot do herself, or is criticized for not doing it right, then
the child feels she might as well give just give up.
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Sometimes the environment itself can cause misbehavior. In a child
care setting a child care that has too few toys, or too little to do, can
cause a child to be bored and misbehave. Transitions from one activity
to another in a child care setting can also cause stress and
misbehavior. Toys and equipment that is developmentally
inappropriate can also cause concern.
Children are unique, and all develop at a different pace. One child may
be advanced in speech, and behind in cognitive skills. Another child
may be an over achiever in physical development, but have a language
impairment. It is important therefore to make sure that a misbehaving
child has no other underlying cause to their misbehavior.
2. Sometimes you may need to remind them what will happen if they
don’t respect the limits. “Deb, if you don’t put your toys away, I’ll have
to do it for you, and you won’t be able to play with them again today”
3. If the child is old enough ask them to come up with a solution for
the problem, or if he is frustrated help him think of a solution. Always
remember to encourage and praise the positive.
4. Make sure the child is developmentally able to cope, before you set a
limit.
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Dayton goes to the teacher and asks for help in writing his name, a few
minutes after this he is back again asking you to help him tie his shoe.
Then five minutes later he knocks down another child’s block
structure, and then he wants you to read him a book.
Now what about the child that engages you in a power struggle?
All the children are playing outside, and it is time for lunch. Robbie
decides he is not going to go inside and tells you “You can’t make me”.
First reaction is to pick Robbie up and carry him inside screaming and
kicking. This will allow one person to “win” and get what they want,
but what about the next time it happens will the behavior get worse?
The teacher could have given Robbie a choice. She could have said
“Robbie you have the choice of helping me pick up some toys and
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coming inside with me, or you can go inside now with Rachel.” If
Robbie still insists on staying outside, he is told “that is not one of the
choices”
Another thing could have been to tell Robbie that she needs his help,
and would he like to go and tell Andrea that it is time to come
in…thereby distracting him from the power struggle.
Ryan won’t join in circle time, but stands back watching the other
children enjoy themselves. When encouraged to join in he just shakes
his head and keeps watching.
The other children were playing with musical instruments, but Ryan
again refuses.
After a while the teacher takes two maracas over to him and holds one
close to his hand and helps him shake it. She tells him that it took a lot
of courage for him to take the maraca, and that she is proud of him for
trying.
If we can focus on small positive things that the child does, and
encourage him, then step by step he will gain confidence to try other
things.
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When toys are not developmentally appropriate for children, they may
become frustrated and misbehavior may occur.
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*Two children want the same item
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My parents had to have full control, and had the idea of “spare the rod
and spoil the child”, so I got smacked frequently. In my school days if
you misbehaved at school you were sent to the headmaster’s office to
get caned. Today if a teacher were to lift a hand to a child it would be
considered child abuse. The philosophy today is that children could
learn that aggression is OK…if we spank, we are telling him that it is
OK to hit. Was I aggressive because I was spanked…no, I don’t think
so, but it did make me take a totally different approach to bringing up
my own children, as I did not believe in spanking.
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Children as young as two or three years of age are consulted about
menus…what they want to eat, when they want to sleep, when and if
they want to take a bath, toilet training, choice of caregiver, and so on.
It’s not unusual with the permissive parent to ask a three-year-old
child whether she would like to go out for lunch or eat at home, and
then which restaurant she would like to go to, and when she is there
what she would like to eat…where we might hear a child ordering a
vast amount of food, which the parent orders for her, only to have her
show no interest in eating it. We also notice that the parent will do her
best to accommodate any demand made by her child and be apologetic
if unable to meet the demand no matter how unrealistic it may be.
The parent does not know how to say “no” to her child. We know from
the work of Rene Spitz that the appearance of “no” marks that a new
level has been obtained marking the beginning of abstract thinking,
autonomy and inner regulation in the child. When these
developmental milestones fail to take place
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an example, the choice may be to wear a blue or red shirt, or choose
between an apple, orange or banana.
So, some of the things we need to look at is that each child is unique so
there is really no one way to discipline, also different children respond
in different ways to discipline.
Set Limits
Make these limits that you can live with, and are age appropriate to the
child. Also, be consistent if you are setting limits. How many times
have I seen a parent tell her child not to climb on the furniture, and
five minutes later when he is again climbing on the furniture, she
totally ignores it. If you are not going to carry it through then don’t set
the limit in the first place. The whole idea is to help children develop
self-control and self-direction. Also remember as your child ages so
should your limits. An appropriate limit for a three-year-old child may
not be appropriate for a five-year-old child. Another thing we need to
do is to set a good example for our children and that means things like
washing our hands after we go to the toilet or before eating. Telling the
truth is a big issue with me, as how many times do we hear parents
giving their child heck for not telling the truth, and five minutes earlier
mom was telling Aunt Ethel that she had to go somewhere, that’s why
she couldn’t meet her, and of course the child knows that mom was
home all the time and didn’t actually have to go anywhere and is
fibbing to Aunt Ethel. So, it’s important if we want our children to
learn good habits, we don’t use the old saying “Don’t do as I do, do as I
say”
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Sometimes children learn from a natural consequence. A natural
consequence of a child not putting his bicycle away at night and
leaving it out on the street could be that the bike gets stolen.
When nothing seems to work you could use the- who, what, where,
when, why and how method.
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WHERE is it happening…outside where people are watching and
commenting, or in the privacy of your own home? Would you handle
the problem differently if you were at home, or maybe it wouldn’t
happen if you were at home?
HOW can I prevent the behavior, what other approaches could I use?
Many times, I also hear parents consistently saying “no” and “don’t”. If
we could only use these words if our child is getting into danger so we
could shout “NO” or “DON” T” and he would actually listen would be
wonderful. Children hear these two words so frequently that many
times they shut them out, and when we really need to use them then
they don’t hear us.
Don’t climb on the chair…instead use “Keep your feet on the floor”
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The aggressive child may not have the vocabulary to express the
intense emotions which he feels and thus he often resorts to physical
actions.
*Try and establish the root cause for the aggressive behavior.
*Realize that the cause of aggression may not be the present situation-
it may be fatigue, excitement, or feelings brought from home, school
or playground.
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*Help the child verbalize his feelings.
Teachers, who shout and scold a great deal, often have a higher-than-
average number of aggressive children in their classes.
Many parents and caregivers worry that society in general has grown
more violent and fear the effects of violence in the media and the
marketing of toys relevant to aggression.
Kids have always played with toy guns and as kids we watched cowboy
and Indian movies and played with toy guns, and we didn’t grow up to
be killers.
It’s true that children have been watching violent cartoons and movies
for years, but children today live in a dramatically different World
from that of past generations. Years ago neighborhoods were free of
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drive by shootings, and no one brought illegal weapons or drugs to
school. Our grandparents played cops and robbers when they were
children. They used plastic cap pistols. Everyone knew the cops were
the “good guys” and the robbers were the “bad guys”. Those days have
long passed. Children do not necessarily perceive cops as “good guys”
and they regard an assortment of disreputable, aggressive characters as
heroes. Even worse, many children witness violent acts in their homes
and communities
Some are the victims-or perpetrators of violent crimes. All children are
affected, regardless of their race, religion, income, age or gender.
Some people would point out that there are potential benefits to
aggressive play. They suggest that it offers children the opportunity to
feel strong, confident and in control. (Is this where our bully comes
from?) It also allows them to express feelings of hostility and
frustration, and to experiment with behaviors that may not be
appropriate in most social situations. While this may be true, others
believe that such play reinforces many negative behaviors and social
skills.
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What about the toys, games and shows that use violent material
created specifically for children…Superheroes, toy weapons, movies,
TV shows, software, games and clothing, all related to violence? This
material also teaches children that violence is entertaining, guiltless
and rewarding. In addition these toys can be dangerous in misleading a
child to think that aggressive behavior, mainly guns and weapons are
harmless and do not really hurt or kill people.
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*To equate violence and aggression with fun and entertainment.
*To admire and emulate characters who use aggression to get what
they want.
*That real strength, confidence and control come from learning new
things
1. Show children that they are admired for being themselves and doing
the things children do naturally.
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*Have reasonable expectations for children. They are not little adults,
they need time and practice in everything from learning to talk to
throwing a ball.
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does the child learn from this? Does it promote cooperation, or does it
promote aggression?
*Set simple rules such as “We don’t hurt ourselves or other people” Be
consistent in enforcing the rules. If the child states that another adult
allows him to play something that you do not allow you can respond
“you play by her rules when you are with her and you play by my rules
when you are with me” It’s not just good enough to say “No” or that
certain kinds of play are “not allowed”, as children do not always know
a different way to behave. We are responsible for teaching them other
ways by modeling, creating and consistently reinforcing positive,
appropriate play and behavior.
*Turn potentially dangerous negative play into safe, positive play. For
example, suggest that if Derek is going to be a superhero, he has to
find ways to help others. Have him help his friends to clean up toys off
the floor.
*Help children understand that they do not always need to fight for
what they want, to win at the expense of someone else, or to win all
the time. Show them that by working together they can frequently
accomplish much more.
*Avoid resorting to the old saying “Boys will be boys”. There is more to
being a boy than being aggressive, despite what the toy companies and
media often lead us to believe. Little girls also play aggressively. Help
children choose appropriate non-aggressive characters to emulate.
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able to control what happens in the World as a whole, we can often
control what happens with the children in our care if we pay attention.
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LEARNING THROUGH PLAY
SESSION 2
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PLAY
Play is the natural way that children learn. It should be fun, because
play is how they acquire, practice and master skills.
Helps the child’s fitness level by exercising, and helps him develop a
strong and healthy body
Through play the child learns to communicate with others and share
his ideas
Helps children reason and organize their thinking, and helps them to
concentrate
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CREATING THE RIGHT ATMOSPHERE FOR LEARNING
From the child’s point of view, play is something you don’t have to do
well, it is just fun (Caldwell 1985) Children at an early age are more
interested in what they are doing, rather than how it turns out.
A child that feels safe and secure both at home and at school will be
able to develop a positive self-image and begin to feel good about his
self.
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Value of Play How Children Play Stages of Play
Intellectual Exploring Solitary Play
Playing helps children Children learn by exploring Very young children play on
concentrate, to reason and and discovering new things. their own. They do not
organize their thinking. In In the beginning they learn relate to other children
doing so they learn to by touching, tasting, seeing, when playing. It takes time
problem solve feeling and hearing. and a certain amount of
Later they learn by taking maturity to learn to share
Social things apart and looking at toys and to understand that
The child learns to give and the component parts. there may be rules which
take, to take turns, to share must be followed while
and co-operate. During Learning Skills playing. There are certain
social play the child reveals Playing enables children to times when older children
his personality strengths practice skills and to learn want and need to play on
and weaknesses. to master them. their own. These times
A child may spend hours should be respected. If
Emotional coloring in a picture, kicking however, the child
Play helps the child to a football or skating on continually chooses to play
develop a positive self roller skates before he alone, professional help
image. becomes proficient at these should be sought
It provides a way for him to activities.
express his emotions. Play Parallel Play
should be a pleasurable Building and In Parallel play, two or
experience which helps to Constructing more children play together
relieve tension. Stacking blocks leads to the but without any social
development of much interaction.
Physical language, spatial, They are usually doing the
Play helps to get rid of perceptual and same thing but each on is
excess energy. It enables the mathematical concepts. playing on his own.
child to relieve tension and
express himself through Fantasy Play Social Play
movement. It helps him Fantasy play gives the child Social Play is play where
exercise his muscles, and the opportunity to exercise children interact with one
develop a strong and his imagination in a creative another in a game.
healthy body way. In playing together,
Through fantasy play the children learn such social
Language child is able to control skills as co-operation,
Through play, the child situations in which he would taking turns, waiting for a
learns to share his ideas and normally be powerless. turn, following rules,
communicate with others. Fantasy play helps children winning and losing.
explore problems and act
out solutions. Some children
simply need a word, a
picture or some other
“spark” to help them go on a
trip to the moon, explore a
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jungle, or discover an
undersea cavern.
The imagination of the child
is as limitless as we allow it
to be.
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THE TEACHER AS THE INVOLVED FACILITATOR
The days when the teacher, as the purveyor of knowledge and learning
stood, chalk in hand, in front of the class and imparted of knowledge
to a passive group of children is long gone.
Today’s teacher has a very different and more difficult role to play. She
should be seen as the involved facilitator of learning. Her function is to
structure the learning material in such a way that it captures and holds
the interest and attention of each child, making learning a pleasurable
and lasting experience. The child is encouraged to participate in a
variety of “hands on” learning activities which lend themselves to
interaction and exploration and which lead to the acquisition of
knowledge
STRUCTURE
In our society we are often in a big hurry to impose the rules of the
game, or a goal on young children, insisting that they do it the
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“correct” way before they have had a chance to explore and enjoy the
means to the end.
Adults can keep the play light by suspending “rules” patterns giving
children opportunity for flexibility and spontaneity.
CREATIVITY
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A great way to encourage creativity is to start a story and let children
finish the story and then maybe act it out.
A quantity of puppets could help them express feelings. Start asking
them open ended questions such as what is your puppet doing, what is
he saying, what would happen if……?
Help the child feel the texture of the toy, whether it is rough or
smooth, warm or cold.
Let him throw, hit, push, pull, move, bang toys (Safe ones of course) to
aid in his motor development.
Let him smell certain things.
Many people feel that with all the high-tech toys and structured
activities that children are losing their natural creativity.
Many children have problems functioning without the use of
television, computer or video games. Regimented play activities can
have negative consequences on the social and emotional development
of the child because it is too structured and takes away the child’s
initiative to think and choose.
Children learn by doing as opposed to being told.
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A child that is allowed to make his own choices learns to demonstrate
individual preferences, make decisions, and discovers and learns about
his own body.
Traditional building blocks and play dough are far better for children
than high tech educational toys and videos…psychologists are warning
that expensive games may actually restrict children’s progress by
stifling their creativity and hindering their social skills.
FINE MOTOR
Several arts and play activities involve fine motor skills. To encourage
fine motor development in infants, have available busy boxes, mobiles,
nesting containers, rattles, dangling objects. For toddler’s blocks,
crayons and paper, cutting and pasting shapes, nesting containers,
hammer toys, pegs and pegboards, shape sorters, simple puzzles, and
books, for preschoolers the list is much larger but some items could be
beads, books, lacing cards, lotto cards, paper, pencils, puzzles, games,
scissors etc.
Some other items could be puppets, paints, play dough, water, tinker
toys and construction toys, musical instruments, housekeeping toys,
puzzles.
TOYS
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3-6 months-Baby play gyms, rattles, squeaky rubber toys, colorful
teethers, socks with bells,
6-9 months-Textured books, soft blocks to knock down, activity
boards, toys that pop up when baby pushes the button, balls(Throw
the ball and encourage baby to crawl after it)
9-12 months-Walker, rocker, toy telephone, shape sorter, books,
bucket and spade for natural sand play (baby will love the texture…just
make sure he doesn’t eat it)
12-18 months-Simple puzzles such as cut out circles and squares,
stacking toys, pull toys for confident walkers, washable non toxic
crayons; ride on vehicle, toy buggy.
18-24 months-Musical instruments such as keyboards, drum, plastic
tea set, play house, shopping buggy, plastic gardening tools, building
blocks
23-36 months-Illustrated books, dress up clothes, child sized
household equipment, construction toys, e.g. Duplo, wooden puzzles,
dolls
36 months+-Memory games, jigsaw puzzles, clay, bats and balls etc
Of course, all children love puppets.
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4. Is it large enough and easily manipulated. Toys can be a source of
frustration for a child if they are too small, as their muscle co-
ordination may not be developed enough to handle the smaller shapes.
5. Is the toy within the developmental level of the child? A three-year-
old child given a 100-piece puzzle in most cases would suffer a lot of
frustration trying to complete it. If a child repeatedly fails to complete
something because the level of difficulty is too much for him, then he
may lose his self confidence and not want to play with the toy again.
So, make sure toys are safe and appropriate for the developmental level
of the child.
PLAY AREAS
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areas are safe is to get down on your hands and knees and see the area
from the child’s viewpoint, noticing everything that children may get
into, and then make it safe.
Make sure your centers are flexible enough to accommodate children’s
varying interests and abilities, also make sure they can be used with
the minimal adult guidance.
VIOLENT PLAY
Years ago, children could go out into the street or parks and play
unattended.
How often now days do we remember our play when we were young.
I grew up in the Welsh Valleys and was allowed the freedom to climb
the mountains, go pick bluebells, and blueberries, play on the street
with my friends and have the freedom to roam, play whip and top,
hopscotch, ball against the wall, giant steps (One child would turn his
back and call out orders…you take one giant step or three baby steps
etc.…the first child to reach the wall was the winner) piggy in the
middle, follow the leader. Now we unfortunately are unable to allow
our children the freedom that we had. Also, with the intervention of
TV, and computer, and video games, a lot of the old games and
physically exhausting games are gone. We even have organized sports.
In many cultures their daily routine is in a war zone, and guns and
violence are a normal part of life.
Even in our own culture there is violence on TV, and many video
games are violence orientated.
In childcare centre’s we tend not to allow guns or violent toys. Then
children build guns with Lego, and when questioned by the teacher if
it is a gun, tend to describe it as a fire house instead. Should we be
surprised however, that children are focused on playing with guns
when the violence is all around them. Go into a toy store and see how
many toy guns are on display. We use dramatic play for children to act
out, sometimes scenarios which have bothered them…even violence.
Typically, the children that are obsessed with war play have been
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exposed to the most violence and have the greatest need to work it
out. The children that user play to feel powerful and safe are the
children who feel powerless and vulnerable.
Play with violence usually tends to end up with children out of control,
scared and hurt. Managing aggressive play and keeping everyone safe
can feel like a never-ending struggle. Many veteran teachers say that
the bans they impose on war play no longer work. Children deny the
play is really war play (they learn to lie) or they sneak around
conducting guerilla wars that the teacher does not detect (they learn to
deceive)
At the same time children do not think of the violence they bring into
play in the same way adults do. They focus on one thing at a time and
see the bad guy as one dimensional without thinking about what
makes him bad. Children think that good guys or superheroes can do
whatever hurtful things they want because they are good.
The “bad guys” are after control and power. Who will win the good
guys or the bad guys? Preschoolers sometimes have difficulty figuring
out what is real and what is pretend. Are super heroes’ real people and
are they indestructible?
Do we feel that in dramatic play the child playing the super hero can
experience a sense of control? If we do allow the power play children
should be closely monitored, especially if they are totally immersed in
their pretend role.
Sometimes the same child could get to be the “bad guy” over and over
again. Is this because he or she is not as sociable as the children
playing the “good guy”? So, you may want to step in and tell the
children that the bad guys can be imaginary and all of them can be
good guys.
There is no perfect approach for dealing with children’s violence. The
best strategy is to reduce the amount of violence children see…which
means adults vastly reducing the amount of violence children see. This
is of course impossible in war torn countries, but given the state of the
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World children now more than ever need to find ways to work out the
violence they see.
LEARNING STYLE
Everyone seems to have a learning style. As an adult have you
considered what your learning style is?
Are you the type of student who learns more from visual images, or are
you more prone to learn from auditory learning such as lectures and
speeches, or maybe you learn more from kinesthetic hands on where
you learn more by doing.
Have you observed the children you work with to see what style of
learning they have?
What about many years ago. How did a child learn?
In archeological exploration dating back many centuries’ toys, rattles,
balls, dolls and miniature animals have been recovered from ruins.
Many of the toys reflect the nature of the time. During the French
revolution children played with toy guillotines, much the same way as
children play with guns and planes. What are children learning from
them? Are they learning to fight a war or rob a bank? By allowing our
children to play with pretend weapons are we giving them the message
that this is an OK part of our culture and everyday life?
Years ago, in Wales for Christmas if you were lucky you received a
stocking full of little treats, nuts, candy, and usually if you were really
lucky one toy. I remember getting a bride doll for Christmas one year,
another year a doll house, and another a doll pram…of course you only
got one toy a year, but you played with them for hours on end. Not like
children today who have so much that they usually don’t play with the
toy but right away want to open up the next.
In our modern generation should we be providing our daughters with
trucks, cars tools, super heroes and weapons to play with, and our sons
with dolls, dishes and “girl toys”
Would this not teach our sons to be good fathers, and allow them to
overcome any awkwardness of not knowing any home skills, especially
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if they are bachelors Also it would teach our daughters how to fix a
bicycle chain or toilet, or go to war, and allow them to grow up feeling
confident about their abilities.
Computers
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allowing them to explore, teaches them they can operate the computer
successfully. If you are allowing the children access to the web, then
they should be monitored as to what sites they are allowed to access.
Software should be selected to emphasize thinking and problem
solving. The computers should be placed to foster shared learning and
interaction, where children can talk about what they are doing and
cooperate in solving problems and helping one and other.
Child care regulations in their active play document state:
“All licensed child care programs must limit screen time (TV,
computers, electronic games) to 30 minutes or less a day.
Programs where children are in attendance for 3 hours or less
should not include screen time activities into the daily routine.
Screen time is not offered to children under 2 years of age.”
CURRICULUM
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patterns, and when they name the connections between these
experiences and early literacy, mathematics, science, social studies,
music and art, they are constructing early learning curriculum with
young children and making the curriculum visible to others.
Children are unique individuals with their own social and personal
skills and their own attitudes and likes and dislikes. Some children are
quiet and some outgoing. Some are followers and some leaders. Many
children will have already learnt a great deal by the time they are three
years old. Many have already attended pre-school programmes or child
care. Many have already learned a great deal from their families.
Children of this age are constantly encountering new experiences and
seeking to understand them in order to extend their skills, develop
confidence, and build on what they already know. They deepen their
understanding by playing, talking, observing, planning, questioning,
experimenting, testing, repeating, reflecting, and responding to adults
and to each other.
The curriculum may include using the thematic approach for planning,
for example for stories, poems and songs.
The practitioner should ensure that all children feel included, secure
and valued. They must build positive relationships with parents in
order to work with them and their children. The Early Years should
build on what children already know and can do. It also encourages a
positive attitude and disposition to learn and aim to prevent failure.
No child should be excluded because of culture, ethnicity or religion,
home language, family background, special education needs, disability,
gender, or ability.
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There should be opportunities for children to engage in activities
planned both by adults and those they initiate themselves. Children do
not distinguish between “play” and “work” and neither should
practitioners. For the children to have rich and stimulating experiences
the environment should be well planned and organized. It provides the
structure for teaching within which children explore, experiment, plan
and make decisions for themselves, which enables them to learn and
develop.
Good curriculum planning also involves routine for the children that
both fosters learning and engagement through repetitive and
predictability, but also is flexible depending on what actually engages
the children on a day to day basis
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THE ROLE OF THE TEACHER.
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OUTDOOR PLAY
SESSION 3
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Play is the children’s first method of engaging with the World and
other people. Increasingly studies on child development are
demonstrating that open-ended, self directed play is vitally important
for children’s wellbeing and development.
The great thing about using the cheap recycled “stuff” is that it doesn’t
come with instructions or a set of directions, or a “right way” to use it.
It is all up to the child’s imagination. The playground becomes rich
with possibilities for play as children can decide to transform a
cardboard box into a castle, or a lion’s cage, all in one afternoon.
You can introduce bamboo poles that can be tied with thin strips of
cycle inner tubes or pieces of rope or fabric, and children can set up
bamboo houses. Give them old saucepans, spoons and mixing bowls
and provide some soil and water that they can make a feast for
everyone in the mud kitchen.
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One school had an old climbing frame that the children had got bored
with. The children also spoke many languages at this school and were
not playing together.
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PROVIDE LOOSE PARTS
Natural
Crates, plastic bottles and caps, Cardboard boxes and tubes, Pieces of
rope or string, Clothespins, Tires, Wooden spoons, Mixing bowls, Old
Cooking pots, Old sacks, old pieces of wood.
Once you start looking for “Stuff” you’ll start seeing it everywhere. Ask
friends and community members for what they don’t need any more.
Ask local business especially lumber yards that have cut offs. These are
especially nice to paint on. A restaurant may have empty pails or
bottles, or a garage has old tires they can donate. Ask parents for
things that they don’t use anymore. Ask yourself when providing
material if it is flexible can it be re-used without breaking or becoming
a hazard. Is it something that you can give children to do whatever
they want with, even if that means using it and destroying it? Is it
something that you can gather up afterwards relatively easily, or
something you can leave out all the time? If your setting will have
limited supervision, think carefully about the materials you supply and
whether that will be safe for the children to use.
MAINTENANCE
However you store the material set up a regular time for maintenance.
See what is popular and what is ignored. Does anything need
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replacing? What forms of play are the children particularly interested
in? If children are building houses with cardboard, what could you
provide to help them expand or decorate them further? Are there
materials that have been all used up, or which the children clearly
don’t use? Are there items that have been broken? Remove anything
that does not seem to be working and replace it with something else.
In one school with mixed ages the adults bought a shipping container
and filled it with tires, crates, buckets, rope etc. At the end of play
children quickly gather the materials and place them back into the
container which is locked.
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SAFETY
Hazards on the other hand are potential sources for harm which offer
no benefits to children’s play, and which they may not notice and so do
not consider. For example children may decide to risk climbing on a
piece of old wooden equipment. If they are unaware the wood is
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rotten, that is a hazard. We work to increase opportunities for risk
taking by removing hazards. This creates an environment in which
children are safe to take risks.
Commonly setting with very young children would not set out
containers of water which could be a drowning hazard. In areas where
children have had little experience playing with recycled material thin
ropes may present strangulation risks. Children who are not usually
allowed to play with sticks will struggle at first to know how hard is
“too hard” and so play fights may turn real at first. So if you are
uncomfortable with the thought of the children plays fighting then
don’t provide them with sticks. The material that might be considered
appropriate depends greatly on the age and the children you work
with, and their previous experiences.
Playing with recycles and natural “stuff” can look messy. Playing this
way often suits a child’s aesthetics but not an adult. As well as small
parts themselves, dirt and water and paint have a tendency to go
everywhere. It’s important to emphasize the freedom and joy children
experience in these places and say “yes it might be messy but aren’t
they having a wonderful time” The children can also get dirty. Hands
may become black from rolling tires, and clothes may get covered in
dirt from digging. In some cases encouraging parents to send the
children in old clothes is very helpful. In some settings maybe an old
shirt can be placed over the child’s clothes to help keep them clean.
Many third World countries do not have the resources and money to
provide playgrounds for their children. So over the years they have
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developed simple outdoor games that can be played with no monetary
outlay.
For example:
In Bosnia….Snail
In Mexico…Little Plane
In Hungary…Chapel
In Somalia…Gris/grille
In Korea…..Gongghi
This game is played with pebbles and either a shallow hole in the earth
or a chalk circle. Its goal is to throw one pebble in the air and gather
more pebbles quickly before it hits the ground.
In UK…Grandmother’s footsteps
In this game one person stand at the front with their back turned and
everyone else lined up at a distance. In some versions the person at the
front calls out the name of an animal and number of steps that the
children can take towards them, while pretending to be that animal. In
other versions, the one at the front looks away while the other children
try to “steal” steps forward before they are seen.
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In Somalia…. Fah
In Philippines…Tapatan
In Ghana….Achi
Two players have counters or pebbles and draw a grid. The grid may be
many different sizes but players either place or move pieces across the
board. Some versions of this game can be played alone.
Sound Safari
Take an egg carton of Ice cube tray and place different colours in the
bottom either with construction paper or paint. Let children search for
things in nature with that colour. It can be used as a race to see who
fills up their tray first.
Dinosaur Dig
Bury some plastic dinosaur bones in the sand and let the children dig
for them.
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Mud soup making
Circle Toss
They pick a colored circle from the bag and have to throw a bean bag
or ball into that color circle. Helps them with color recognition.
Have children quack like a duck, hop like bunny, or jump on one foot,
walk like an elephant.
Hopscotch
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Sponge Darts.
Draw a large dartboard on the floor. Wet some kitchen sponges and
have children try to hit the target from a distance.
Line up baskets, some further away than others. See who can throw
the most balls into the baskets.
Balloon Tennis
Attach a Popsicle stick to a paper plate. Blow up the balloons and see
who can keep them in the air the longest by using the paddles.
Relay Race
Skip, run backwards, hop, Dance while walking, bounce a ball, March,
frog hop, crab walk, run/walk sideways, toss ball in the air while
walking.
Play Badminton
Play Frisbee
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Use 2 tubs and fill one with blocks. Let children use a spoon to ladle
blocks from one tub to the other. Time them to see who moves all the
blocks the fastest.
Sensory Bin
Fill a large tub with water. Put in measuring cups, bowls, blocks, ladles
or anything with a shape. Blindfold child. Let them reach in and find a
shape. Then put the shape back in the water and take off the blindfold
and see if they can find the shape.
Hide the treasure, maybe chocolate coins, and lay a trail and let
children look for the treasure.
Camp Out
Bean Bags
Take a pair of knee high socks and cut them in half around the ankles.
Turn inside out and tie the one end tightly. Turn back to the right side.
Place 1 cup of beans in each sock. Tie the top off and trim. Use them to
play toss.
Attach string to a pine cone. Cover it with peanut butter and roll it in
bird seed.
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Make a mobile
Attach pine cones, acorns, pieces of drift wood with string to make
your mobile.
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CHILDREN AND DIVERSITY
SESSION 4
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We are different, we are the same:
Teaching young children about diversity
At about age 2 years, children begin to notice gender and racial differences.
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At 2 ½ or so, children learn gender labels (boy/girl) and the name of colors
– which they begin to apply to skin color.
At about 4-5 years, they start to display gender appropriate behavior and
become fearful of differences.
Ability
Appearance
Culture
Gender/Gender identity
Race
Spirituality/ Religion
Age
Class
Family Grouping
Language
Sexual Orientation
Newcomer status
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education prepares children to live effectively within the complexity of our
communities and helps them:
Ability
Appearance
Culture
Gender
Race
Spirituality/Religion
Age
Class
Family grouping
Language
Sexual Orientation
Newcomer status
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The importance of the extended family
Quality programming:
Uses books that show people from different ethnic groups and different
ways of living in their every day experiences.
Share information with the children about various types of families, houses,
foods and clothing. Always address similarities.
Include topics such as kindness, respect, empathy and peace. Read books
that address these topics and use puppets to role play these concepts.
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Diversity concepts children can understand
Everyone is lovable
Everyone is equal
Everyone is important
Dress up items made of ethnic fabrics and various types of shoes, hats
and accessories.
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Various cooking and eating utensils such as chopsticks, tortilla press
and baskets
Music from around the World so the children can dance to a variety of
tunes and learn simple songs in other language
Art supplies from various cultures such as origami paper, rice paper,
and various kinds of paint brushes.
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Celebrating Holidays
It is important to learn all you can about the holidays the families in
your program celebrate and how they celebrate them.
Be clear about your goals for each holiday activity, keeping children’s
interests and developmental abilities in mind.
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ANSWER ING QU EST IONS AB OUT DIFF EREN CE
AND DIVER SITY
Young children love to ask questions. “Why is the sky blue?” “Why do
I have to have a bath?” or just responding with “Why?” to
EVERYTHING you say.
As annoying as it can be, especially at this “Why?” stage, it is
perfectly natural for children to question the world around them.
Curiosity and this constant observation help young children to learn,
and as parents and caregivers, we should try our best to answer most
questions in a sensible and practical way.
Remember that your little learner is not posing questions to
embarrass you or to offend anyone. It is human nature for young
children to notice differences and to compare others to themselves
and their own family members. Young children are not born with the
ability to be prejudiced towards others. In fact, now is the perfect
time to teach them a healthy respect for our wonderfully diverse
world
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You look different to them too. We all look different to one another and
that’s a good thing. The world would be very boring if we were all the
same. Animals are all different too. What different animals can you think
of?
People are very interesting; I like that everyone is different. We must
always be polite to other people too. What makes me different to you? My
hair, my eyes?
This sort of response is very unlikely to offend anyone in earshot, and
gently direct your child away from any pointing or giggling, while not
making it into a big deal. If your child has questions about someone
with a disability, you can focus on the positive aspects of what they
have seen:
Yes, that lady uses her stick to help her walk. That’s a good idea, isn’t it?
That’s a wheelchair, they are very helpful for people who have trouble
walking.
It is important for our little ones to know that they will not be “told-
off” for asking these questions, and that they can come to us for
guidance at any time. Sometimes your child’s questions might need
extra or more detailed explanation, and this can be done in private i f
you wish. Just let the little one know that you are very happy to talk
about it later. Make a note of it so neither of you forget.
Remember, you don’t have to wait for the child to ask questions
about diversity. Why not just make it a part of your daily learning
experiences together?
Talk about the differences and diversity in plants and animals,
colours and languages, or even in your own family, and read
together. There are many opportunities in children’s books for
learning and discussing diversity. Childcare can also be a very
valuable experience for meeting new people and learning about our
wonderful differences.
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CHILDREN AND THE WORLD
SESSION 5
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Introduction
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undertaken by any age group and would involve different learning
activities depending on prior knowledge.
– relates learning to themselves, their own lives and the real world
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Development of skills
The following skills are essential to this Area of Learning and can also
be developed across the curriculum.
• Observing
• Comparing
• Sequencing
• Classifying
• Asking/answering questions
• Enquiring
• Investigating
• Thinking
• Listening
• Solving problems
• Making decisions
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• A walk in the local area can be followed by sequencing the
journey using photographs, expressing preferences for particular
features of the environment and drawing a plan of the local area with
symbols to represent particular features. • Children should start
with knowledge and understanding gained from visits in their locality
when comparing and contrasting places such as the beach, town or
country.
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• As children develop knowledge about workplaces and roles of
people in their locality, they will act out roles, be able to listen to
visitors and question them about their roles, record what they find out,
and progress to carrying out a survey enquiring about the occupations
other children would like when they grow up
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• Visitors might be asked to talk about their own childhood or
school days with the children. This will enable children to develop
their knowledge and understanding of ways of life in different times, to
engage in two-way conversations as well as examine photographs and
artefacts and listen to stories. This will help children to interpret
evidence and understand why people did things, why events happened
and some of the consequences.
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• Starting with themselves, action rhymes and songs will allow
children to build their understanding and vocabulary for describing
the main parts of their bodies.
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Myself and non-living things
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Games and experiments with sound will enable children to begin to
understand how sound travels. They will enjoy creating their own
‘telephones’ with recycled materials, making decisions and solving
problems together.
Planning
Progress in learning
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• identifying what they want to find out and how to do it
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• use and make simple maps, to find where places are and how
places relate to other places
• learn about how and why people and places are linked, e.g.
where they work and where they go on holiday, where family and
friends live
• use atlases and globes • investigate how places change, e.g., the
weather, the seasons, buildings, people’s jobs
• recognise that there are reasons for, and consequences of, some
actions
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Myself and other living things
• learn the names and uses of the main external parts of the
human body and plants • observe differences between animals and
plants, different animals, and different plants in order to group them
• learn about the senses that humans and other animals have and
use to enable them to be aware of the world around them
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• understand that there are many kinds and sources of sound, that
sounds travel away from sources and that they are heard when they
enter the ear.
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Mathematical Development
Physical Development
Creative Development
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• learn about distance and how to follow directions and routes
• use and make simple maps, to find where places are and how
places relate to other places
• learn about how and why people and places are linked, e.g.,
where they work and where they go on holiday, where family and
friends live
• use atlases and globes • investigate how places change, e.g., the
weather, the seasons, buildings, people’s jobs
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HELPING CHILDREN EXPRESS ANGER
SESSION 6
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HELPING CHILDREN EXPRESS ANGER
How can parents or Educators help children cope with their anger, and
help them express it appropriately?
5. How do you cope with your anger (if you do) …Lock yourself in your
room, yell, tear wallpaper, throw dishes?
6. How did your parents handle your anger when you were small?
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In the case of a toddler and a temper tantrum it could be lack of
communication skill.
An eight month old baby that picks up an open safety pin, and is about
to “taste it” will howl with anger when the nearest adult takes it away.
He only thinks of it as being prevented from having his own way.
Have you ever been scared, maybe the time your child wandered away
at the mall, and when you found him you were so relieved, and then
the fear turns to anger at him for wandering away. Maybe your
husband was late arriving home from work and you were scared he
could have had an accident. Then he arrives home three hours later
and mumbles he went for a few drinks with the guys, and can’t figure
out why you are mad.
Hurt can also change into anger. Your child comes home with a bad
report card, and at first you are disappointed, and then you feel angry
because your child could have been “goofing off”
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REBELLION
The danger lies in letting a child feel only anger and punishment in
authority(The child only becomes to fear such authority, but not to
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respect it, and it’s hard to accept authority you fear) As soon as he is
able he will free himself from it, and will instead seek an authority that
promises him respect(Peers)
Some people let the air (their anger) build up until the balloon pops.
When this happens there could be an explosive outburst, or a great
deal of anger for a minor reason (The straw that broke the camel’s
back)
After this burst of anger, there is usually a period of control until the
balloon blows up again.
Some people let the air out of the balloon every time it starts to blow
up. These are people that express their feelings at the time they occur.
1. How to help the child express and deal with it (Release air from the
balloon)
A son once said to his mother “Every time something goes wrong, like
you burn the supper, you yell at me” It was true, every time she burned
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the pie crust or roast, she would snap at him, as if he were personally
responsible. She “displaced” her feelings of frustration and failure on
him. Husbands and wives can sometimes take out the resentment they
feel towards each other on their children. You may do something to
make your child angry. She may not say anything to you; instead she
displaces these emotions to a less threatening person or inanimate
object…like a sister, friend or toy. If she is sent to her room she may
break or kick something to release some of the anger. We are more
likely to displace our feelings of resentment and disappointment than
any other emotions. That’s because they are the most difficult
emotions to express directly. It’s hard to let out the anger you feel to a
teacher, or a person in authority, instead you use someone else who
doesn’t dare express open resentment to you. This method of dealing
with anger is likely to cause the child problems with other children or
siblings.
PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE
You go to work and your boss gives you a hard time and tells you what
a lousy job you are doing and you should smarten up.
You feel anger towards your boss, but you know if you show that anger
you will probably be out of a job.
Slow down your work, take a longer coffee break, “forget” to do a few
things he told you to do!
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Now let’s take a look at a child:
You send her to her room and she is angry…but you are the boss…what
can she do.
She can’t slow down or take a coffee break, but she could “forget: to do
a few things you asked her to do. She may say something like “I’m
going to live at grandmas, and you’re unfair, you’re always picking on
me. She could be negative and stubborn. (You say it’s black she says it’s
white) or she could be sassy and mumble intentionally just to
aggravate and have the last word. You get angry and start yelling-the
child has achieved her goal and “gotten back” at you indirectly. This
method of dealing with anger is likely to get the child in trouble with
teachers or parents.
Another child will not give your child a toy, football etc that he wants,
so your child will threaten to hit him or start a fight.
This is where the child lashes out physically at the source of his anger.
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The way we handle conflicts and problems is apt to be imitated by our
children. i.e. if we punch walls, and oppose people , there is a good
chance our children will do the same.
If you are doing a lot of shouting chances are that your child will do
the same thing.
3. We will not ignore, laugh or get upset with children that are angry.
4. We will help you figure out how to tell others you are angry without
hurting them.
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E.g., If John is angry with Sarah we could help him express himself by
saying “Sarah, I’m angry because you pushed me out of the way”
Teach children there are different levels of anger, a little angry or very
very angry.
RANDOM DISCIPLINE
A parent sometimes waits for a child to break a rule before they decide
on a consequence.
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When a parent disciplines at random a child feels insecure. He knows
something is going to happen but he doesn’t know what.
Many times, a child can feel his parents are being unfair and gets
angry.
If you told your child not to ride his bike in a certain area, and later
found out that he disobeyed you, and as a consequence took his bike
away for a week…he could say “If you told me, you would take my bike
away for a week, I wouldn’t have gone on that street” Your child could
feel that you are responsible for him being angry as you did not tell
him what the consequences of his actions would be.
You could also develop guilt feelings if you use this discipline with
your child.
You send your child to his room for misbehavior, and then you think
you were hard on him as you made him miss his favorite TV program.
After some thinking you feel like the bad guy and you go to his room, a
few minutes later he is watching TV, and you’ve eliminated your guilt
feelings, but nothing constructive has been accomplished.
Sit with your child and discuss any conflicts you have. If you have a
reason for not letting him do something in particular, discuss this with
him and give him your reasons. This applies to preschool teachers also.
Also be consistent, and if you are going to set limits carry them
through. How many times have you heard a parent or even a teacher
tell a child not to do something, and five minutes later the same
behavior is ignored?
If you are not going to carry through with limits then don’t set them in
the first place.
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AVOID NEGATIVE-ACCENTUATE THE POSITIVE
A child hits her sister and gets spanked by her parent for doing it.
In addition the way parents often deal with passive aggressive behavior
results in a buildup of anger in the child. E.g., a child asks if his friend
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can stay overnight and mother says “no’. The child could become sassy,
making faces, or becoming defiant.
If a shouting match develops then anger builds up…more air goes into
the balloon. By ignoring the sassiness, the additional build up of anger
can be avoided.
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I HATE YOU TEMPER TANTRUM
A common phrase for an angry child. When adults say “I hate you” it is
usually a deep revulsion for somebody, but when a five-year-old says
the same thing, it just means you’ve done something to make him
angry. When people get angry it’s hard to talk to them because they
have little or no interest in cooperating. They’re busy putting the
energy into getting what they want. This is where we back out of the
power contest and save our words for a quieter time…ignore the
temper tantrum.
Babies cry but don’t really have temper tantrums until they become
toddlers, and then look out.
Toddler get frustrated easily especially when they are hungry, tired or
over excited. Some tantrums are caused by lack of communication
when they are unable to get their demands met verbally.
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Preschoolers on the other hand have better coping skills but can still
become frustrated. Some find that by throwing a temper tantrum
parents may give in to their demands to make it stop.
You could try distracting him and get his attention focused on
something else.
You could try moving him to a safe location for a calming down
session.
If your child is older try ignoring the tantrum, if necessary leave the
room so that he realizes he is not going to get his own way. And that
the tantrum is not working.
You could try holding him if he is totally out of control, and tell him
that you will hold him until he calms down. Once he has calmed down
discuss the situation and reassure him, but he also needs to know that
you do not approve of the behavior.
REVISE ROUTINE
Try to change times when children become frustrated and angry. E.g.,
Morning rush or in childcare a transition.
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If its morning get up earlier and be prepared the evening before, and if
it’s a transition then try to change the transition to be less stressful.
RESPECT
Ask children what they think will help. This works well especially with
children 5-8 years old. Be open to the child’s suggestions, and use them
even if it’s simple.
Sometimes children won’t tell why they are angry-but relate that there
has to be a reason. E.g., another child hitting him and telling him not
to tell!
If you are frequently angry hold a mirror in front of your face and ask
“What’s going on inside me”?
One mother admitted that she had been angry at her children because
she had been deeply disappointed that having children had prevented
her from going to college. She discovered her angry feelings were
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actually resentment because she was disappointed at having her own
career plans interrupted.
Pillow fights with rules not to hit above the shoulder, or stronger
children hold with two fingers only.
Swat flies
If you break up two children fighting and send the children involved
off to separate activities, or punish them both…this will solve the
immediate problem, but will not teach them much about solving their
own problems.
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2. You can provide a solution that is acceptable to both parties.
This doesn’t solve the problem, but is sometimes the best
approach when there is little time and the situation is serious
enough to warrant it.
3. Act as a mediator. Allow each child to tell his side of the story,
and suggest a solution. Set up ground rules i.e. when one person
talks the other person listens, and that each person will get an
uninterrupted time to speak. Use “I” messages to clarify. You can
ask each person what they feel would be a fair way to solve the
problem, and help them agree on a mutually acceptable solution.
4. Have family meetings to solve problems and anger.
Who are the children involved…are they normally friends with each
other and play together, or are they enemies?
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-Removal of privileges
-Warnings
-Time Out
Parents who have high expectations for their children and make
MATURITY DEMANDS on them have children who are:
Parents’ who are WARM and NUTURING have children who are:
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1. At the earliest age the child obeys you because he wants to.
Parents are obeyed because they tell you what YOU want to do.
AT PRESCHOOL
Children that are angry take a lot of time and effort, and many
teachers feel that the time it takes to deal with an angry child is
time taken away from th other children.
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The first thing is to let the child know that you understand what he
is feeling. However, he has to know that you will not let him hurt
his friends.
With angry children pick your battles and try not to sweat the small
stuff, as long as he is not physically hurting anyone.
Problem solve with the child, and try and work out what the trigger
is that is causing the anger. If you can find the trigger then try to
avoid it in the future, or discuss with the child how he feels you can
handle it. If you keep dealing with it as soon as it arises hopefully
the child will eventually learn the correct behavior.
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THE CHALLENGING CHILD
SESSION 7
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THE CHALLENGING CHILD IN CHILD CARE PROGRAMS
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The Behavior Profile was developed to
simplify the procedure:
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Your Observation
Accuracy is Important
A-Aggression to a child.
B-Aggression to an adult.
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C-Throwing objects
D-Inappropriate Language
If these examples do not reflect the child’s behaviour use the letters F
through H to identify your concerns.
The Behaviour Profile has been used for many years. Including
observations for medical purposes...for seizures, falls related to poor
balance etc. The profile will assist you to determine what the behavior
is and when it is more likely to happen.
Then add the Name of the Child and the name of the Program.
To ensure accuracy use exact day of the month even if the observation
starts close to the end of the month.
The left column shows the time of day. In the column under the date
and across from the time record the letter describing the behavior.
When you have determined the times and frequency of the behavior
for 5 days, try to identify the “trigger” or what happened prior to the
child’s inappropriate behavior. You need to ensure that the behavior is
not triggered by the actions of another child or activity within the
program. If the same behavior happens daily on the child’s arrival you
need to talk with the person delivering the child to the program to
pinpoint the cause of this behaviour.
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Examples of high-risk situations would be at:
1. Snack Times
2. Circle Times
3. Changing Activities.
5. Going outside
6. Toileting
7. Washing hands.
8. Using equipment
These are all HIGH-RISK social situations which can be challenging for
many young children especially if they have not been exposed to group
situations.
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Inappropriate behavior in group settings often falls in the following
categories:
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If you have identified problems at Snack or Lunch times you will
need to observe and review what happens. If all the children eat
together suggestions for MTE would be to have activities
available at the table for children who are waiting for other
children to join them. If an additional staff person is available
this would be a good time to use visual aids, pictures or flannel
board, with a theme related to expectation of behaviour at meal
times.
Circle Times
At Circle time look at the length of the session. Guide lines
should be based on the child’s experience in groups, taking into
account his and her temperament and response to following
directions. Adjust the time accordingly. With young children
participation should start by staying in a sitting position,
learning how to move hands, arms, then legs, and to learn
control of the individual parts of the body.
When they can demonstrate the use of the upper and lower
limbs, hands, arms, legs and feet in a fun time activity, it is time
to progress to activities that involve following directions.
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If space is restricted have children take turns two or three at a
time in moving around the room. Choose at least one child who
has the ability to follow directions.
Ensure there is adequate space between the children when
sitting in groups. For children who lack social skills close
proximity to other children may trigger inappropriate reactions.
All activities are based on ways of improving skills to encourage
appropriate behavior.
Changing Activities.(Transition)
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ability to participate in turn taking social play, then the numbers
could change.
You could have the child choose a card from a bag that shows
the activity he should go to. This is a good starting point if you
want to have children choose different or new people to play
with. A combination of verbal will assist in the development of
making independent choices.
Waiting.
Lining up for the bathroom, or putting on clothes to go outside.
Try to reduce the numbers of children in line to three or four.
Try to encourage at least one child who has the ability to take
turns and good self care skills to be part of the line. As you
observe children lacking in the appropriate skills, it is important
to provide a range of program activities that assist children learn
appropriate skills. See if the child can complete the task on his
own. See if the child can have positive interactions with other
children while completing the task (Turn taking)
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If the child demonstrates the ability to use the bathroom
independently the steps, she would use would be a) Take down
pants b) Use toilet paper c) Pull up pants d) Wash hands by
putting soap on hands e) Turn on tap f) rinse hands g) turn off
tap h) Dry hands i) paper towel in the garbage
j) Leave bathroom.
Did the child successfully complete the task? If not identify
where assistance is needed and then guide her through the
activity. The use of “Task analysis “can be a positive tool in
working with children, especially children who have special or
high needs. If inappropriate behaviour continues after
modifications to the environment, and assessment of skills, have
been made then it is important to again review the type of
behaviour needing modification to allow the child to develop
positive social interactions in a group setting.
Unacceptable Behaviors
1. Verbal- Screaming, Yelling, Name calling, Swearing,
Threatening.
2. Physical- Throwing, kicking, biting, punching, pushing,
hitting, pulling hair, spitting.
3. Destructive- Grabbing, not following play rules, scattering
others toys, breaking objects.
Possible Reasons for Inappropriate Behaviour
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You should have enough factual information in order to
determine if you are able to work through the behavior
challenges or need to meet with the parents to ask for their
assistance in order to modify and understand the child’s
behavior. This can be a challenge explaining to parents the
importance for all children to learn socially acceptable behavior
in group settings with children of similar ages.
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during the years. Therefore, it becomes very important to assist
the child exhibiting challenges as early as possible. When you
observe children or adults you will see patterns of behaviour ad
start to identify personal temperaments (The way and individual
responds to situations)
Often the way you organize the child care space can make a
difference in how children behave. If a space is too open you may
find children running wildly. Long narrow spaces...including
open hallways and long aisles in the playroom encourage
running Pay attention to where the behavior problems occur. Set
up shelves and other furniture to divide the room into separate
learning and play areas. Place seating areas or small tables down
the hallway. This will cut down on running and help children
find activities easier. You will have fewer problems if children
can find toys and supplies. Place toys on low shelves and label
the shelves with pictures and words so the child will know where
to put them back.
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more complex equipment that challenges their learning skills
and keeps them interested for longer periods of time.
For this use a simple check list which would relate to his
response to other children, a) taking turns with others b) the
ability to share toys and equipment, c) adjust to new situations,
and d) shows empathy when a child is hurt.
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waiting for the teacher to interact one on one Not every
activity can be teacher directed and children need to learn to
work together.
2. Add pro-social materials such as board books titles “Hands
are not for hitting” and “Feet are not for kicking” and engage
the children in group conversations about keeping their
hands to themselves.
3. Often teachers find themselves saying “No” to a lot of
children. This can create some confusion about just what it is
that are supposed to be doing. So instead try saying “Don’t
run inside” or “Use your walking feet indoors”.
4. Apply different sensory techniques such as allowing a child to
play with play dough if he was having trouble keeping his
hands to himself. Other ideas include small hand-held objects
to hold during circle time or giving him a “wiggle” cushion to
sit on.
5. Provide a nap bag of activities so that if a child has trouble
sleeping he has some specialized activities to occupy his time.
A visual timer is also helpful so that the child can see when
his time on the mat is going to be over.
6. During transition times it is important to give children a
heads up that change is about to occur. A 5-minute warning
and then a 1-minute warning are good opportunities for
children to prepare themselves for change.
7. When helping children build strong social-emotional skills,
use feathers to show the difference between gentle and rough
touch, and show cards with children expressing different
emotions to help him with empathy building.
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REVIEW.
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STRESS IN CHILDREN
SESSION 8
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What is Stress?
Stress is the way our bodies respond to the demands that are
placed upon us by our environment, relationships,
perceptions and interpretations of events and issues in our
lives. When stress occurs, the brain signals the body to get
ready to meet the challenge by stimulating the autonomic
nervous system. This system is the control centre for many
bodily functions including muscle tension, breathing, blood
pressure, heart rate, pupil dilation and temperature control.
The stress response instantly activates the body either to gear
up to flee from danger or stand and fight it. Researchers
believe that humans developed the “flight of fight response”
in prehistoric times, when the main threats to survival were
physical and involved dealing with predators and hostile
environments. Today the threats and challenges we face are
often social and emotional rather than physical, but our
bodies are still equipped with the flight or fight reaction.
Teaching is a stressful and sometimes exhausting occupation.
It is no surprise that even teachers who typically thrive in face
of daily challenges can sometimes be negatively affected by
them. Teachers could become sharp and impatient with
children or co-workers.
They may even take personally things that children, parents
or others say or do, rather than try to understand what is truly
behind their words and behaviors. In the classroom the signs
of excessive stress may appear in the form of present-eeism
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(Being physically present but not performing well due to a
loss of interest in teaching, an inability to concentrate or stay
organized, or feeling depressed or ill) Teachers may also
express their stress through absenteeism (Calling in sick more
often and for longer periods of time). They may even consider
leaving the profession altogether.
Most parents would agree that their child’s teacher or
caregiver plays a significant role in the child’s life. Indeed
some children spend more hours of the week in the care of
their teacher than with a parent. It is important for teachers
to recognize that this can be hard on both the child and the
parent, especially if there is nothing immediate the parent can
do to relieve the situation. For example if a parent is
struggling with a serious illness or an economic problem,
there may not be much they can do to engage with their child
the way they would like. Add this to a language barrier,
learning disability or behaviour issue and some parents may
feel “under qualified” or even helpless and react in unhelpful
or inconsistent ways. Keep in mind that parents and teachers
are on the same team. It may not seem like it, but the vast
majority of parents and teachers have the same goal-the well
being of the child.
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Toddlers starting child care after being at home since birth
experience high levels of stress in the first weeks after
separating from their mothers, and are still showing “chronic
mild stress” as long as five months after their first day in the
new environment, according to a study measuring hormone
levels in young children. The levels fell, but were still
significantly higher, than for the same infants at home five
months later, even though the children (aged between 11 and
20 months when they started childcare) by then appeared to
have settled and no longer showed outward signs of stress.
Even the most nurturing school and home environment can’t
completely protect children from a range of everyday stressors
that can be both challenging and motivating. While stress is a
necessary part of development and learning, experts say that
students now face more stress than ever before due to the fast
pace of modern life, school demands and busy family
schedules. These findings do not mean that childcare is bad
for children, and there is no evidence yet of long term effects
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of raised cortisol levels. However, the conclusions can help
provide pointers to show how parents, care givers and policy
makers can minimise the stress toddlers experience when
they make the transition from home.
One way of controlling the buildup of stress, according to a
paper written by Professor Michael Lamb of Cambridge
University is to minimize the time children spend in care each
day. However, while some parents may wish to do this, the
long working hours militate against parents, who may also
face financial pressures to spend extra time at work.
Children can also pick up anxious behaviour from being
around anxious people. Some children may develop anxiety
after a series of stressful events. They may be able to cope
with one of these events but several difficult events together
may be too much for them to cope with.
Examples are:
*Frequently moving house and school-It can be hard to settle
when you are always expecting change
*Divorce or separation of parents-Especially when there are
new step parents and siblings (Although many children will
adapt to this and settle in time)
*Parents fighting or arguing
*Death of a close friend
*Becoming seriously ill or injured in an accident
*Having someone in the family who is ill or disabled.
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*School related issues such as homework or exams, or
bullying or friendship problems.
*Becoming involved in crime
*Being abused or neglected.
It’s normal for children to feel worried and anxious from time
to time. Anxiety is a feeling of unease such as worry or fear-
it’s an understandable reaction in children to change or a
stressful event. For some children anxiety affects their
behaviour. So how do you know when the child’s anxiety has
reached this level?
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• Being clingy all the time (when other children are OK)
• Complaining of tummy aches and being unwell.
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them into the box. Sort through the box together at the end of
the day or week.
Separation Anxiety
This is common in young children. It means a child is
worrying about not being with his parent or regular caregiver.
If a baby was normally calm when the caregiver left the room
and they were happy to be held by people who care for them,
it may not make sense when they start crying whenever you
are not there or strangers are close, but this is a sign that the
baby now realises how dependent they are on the people who
care for them. As they get more aware of their surroundings
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the baby’s strong relationship with this small group means
they don’t feel safe without you. Their growing awareness of
the World around them also makes them feel unsafe or upset
in new situations or with new people. A parent may feel
distressed when leaving their child at child care because of
their tears. It is only natural for the child to feel anxious,
instead focus on helping the child understand and deal with
their feelings. They will learn if you leave them you will come
back.
To help the transition you can start to leave your child for
shorter periods of time so that they relate to your returning
for them. The caregiver can talk to the child about what they
are going to do when their parent sees them again so that
they have something to look forward to. For example, you
could say “When mommy comes to pick you up you will go
home and have supper”. Have the parent leave something
with the child that they identify with, such as a favourite toy.
Also, however sad the parent is making sure that they smile
and wave “goodbye” confidently and happily, otherwise the
child will pick up on the tension. By giving the child the
experience of saying “goodbye” then having a happy reunion,
you are teaching them an important life lesson. As children
get older, they are more able to understand that people and
things still exist even when they can’t see them.
Children can also experience phobias. This is an
overwhelming fear of an object, place, situation, feeling or
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animal. Phobias are more pronounced than fears. Symptoms
may include
*Unsteadiness, dizziness and light-headedness.
*Nausea
*Sweating
*Increased heart rate or palpitations
*Shortness of breath
*Trembling or shaking
*An upset stomach
There are a wide variety of objects or situations that someone
could develop a phobia about. Phobias can be divided into
two main categories:
*Specific or simple phobias
*Complex phobias.
Some examples of specific or simple phobias:
*Animal phobias-such as dogs, spiders, snakes or rodents
*Environmental phobias -such as heights, deep water, and
germs.
*Situational phobias-such as Dentist, doctor, flying.
*Bodily phobias-such as blood, vomit, or having injections.
The two most common Complex phobias are agoraphobia or
social phobia
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Agoraphobia is often thought of the fear of open spaces, but
someone with agoraphobia will feel anxious about being in a
situation where escaping may be difficult if they have a panic
attack. The anxiety usually results in the person avoiding
situations such as being alone, being in a crowded place such
as a busy restaurant or store, or party, or travelling in public
transport.
Some children become anxious about going to child care or
school, especially if they are nervous about bullying.
Phobias don’t have a single cause. For example, a phobia may
be associated with a single incident or trauma, or it may be a
learned response that a child develops from a parent or
sibling, or even genetics may play a role as there is evidence
to suggest that some children are born with a tendency to be
more anxious than others.
Keep in mind that difficult or annoying behaviour is what we
notice in children as it is visible and often requires a response.
Some children get labeled as “a pain in the neck” or a “bad
kid” but a child’s behaviour is simply their language for
expressing how they are feeling.
Sometimes children are upset by situations and playing the
“what if” game is a fun way to think about certain situations.
You can give children time to think about what they would do
in a “What if” situation. For:
Children under 5
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What if someone is playing with a toy you want?
What if someone takes a toy away from you?
What if your sister changes the TV channel when you are
watching your favourite program?
What if your friend pushes over the tower you have been
building?
What if you break someone’s toy?
What if your friend hits you?
Children 6-9
What if you forget your lunch at home?
What if you are home and someone gets sick or hurt?
What if you are shopping with mom and get lost?
What if someone hits you?
There is lots of other “what ifs” you can use.
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Parents and caregivers are the children’s best teachers. Most
of what children know they have learned from their parents.
To begin to teach the child how to problem solve you need to
set the stage for learning. A child with a problem may be
upset or angry so this is not the right time to try to solve the
problem. A child needs to be calm to think clearly. If he is
unable to calm down leave problem solving for a better time.
Your job is to help the child articulate the problem and come
up with some solutions that might work. The best thing you
can do is ask questions and let the child do the thinking.
Listen to his ideas and give encouragement.
*Do not solve the problem for the child
*Ask questions to help the child think about the problem and
the solution
*Allow the child to come up with a possible solution. Some
might be reasonable and some might be silly.
*Encourage the child to find as many solutions as possible
*Do not criticize the child’s solution
*Listen very carefully to what he says and observe how he
feels
*Offer suggestions if he is stuck and can’t think of any
solutions
*Let the child choose a solution to try.
*Help the child think ahead to see if the solution he chooses
might work.
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When you model healthy coping strategies, children learn by
example. Figure out what the problem is and make it
manageable. If we teach children to identify people who
frustrate them, places where stress usually rises and things
that provoke the intensity of stress, they can learn how to
avoid these stressors.
Some stressors in a child’s life may take the form of daily
hassles that are typically short lived. One example may be
transition times in a childcare center where a child has to stop
the activity he is working at and move to another. If teachers
learn to streamline transition times it would be a lot less
stressful.
A program of the psychology foundations of Canada has some
great ideas for stress reduction in children.
It’s important to know what bothers and upsets your children.
Don’t wait until you think the child is stressed. Ask them
when things are calm, what they worry about. Then listen
very carefully. Try not to finish their sentences or interrupt.
Stop, look and listen.
STOP
Some parents and teachers find that the best time to talk to
the children is when they are doing some everyday activity
together. Any quiet time during the day might work. It is
important to choose the moment. Find a time when you are
relaxed and not feeling rushed and can be together without
interruption. Set the climate...you might say “I know there are
things that upset you sometimes. Can you talk about
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them...give the child time to finish what they are
saying...don’t interrupt? Encourage them to continue by
nodding, and listen to their words and the feeling in the
words.
LOOK
Once a day check the child’s face from the child level or
holding him on your lap. When you look into his eyes does,
he look back at you or do his eyes dart around? Does her jaw
seem tense and tight? Is she smiling and happy? Does she
seem relaxed?
LISTEN
To show you are interested in what he is saying, sit facing him
and look at his face. Listen with speaking. Nod your head and
give other nonverbal encouragement. Remember the tongue
works slower than the mind and it sometimes takes forever
for young children to say something. It can take even longer if
the child is trying to express something difficult, confusing or
upsetting. Don’t finish his sentence, even if you think you
know what he is trying to say, give him time to put it into his
own words
Ways to Solve Problems
It is important to relax before trying to solve problems, so
taking a few deep breaths encourages creative thinking.
Step 1....Ask what is the problem...What are you doing about
it...Is it working?
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Step2...Trace a hand, numbering the thumb and fingers...on a
scale of 1-5, with 1 not much of a problem and 5 a big
problem...how does it make you feel.
Step 3...What could you do to solve the problem? What else
could you do...what other ideas might work.
Step4...Which ideas will you choose? What might happen if
you choose to do it? Will it make things better or worse?
Step5...What happened...Was the problem solved.... If not
what else can you do.
Children learn by example. When adults use their own
positive voice out loud this encourages children to do the
same.
Imagine you have two little people on each shoulder. One is a
friendly buddy who cheers for you, says good things about
you and sticks up for you. The other is a mean, critical bully
who points out all your mistakes and calls you nasty names.
When you hear your buddy, listen carefully and repeat the
words out loud. When you hear the mean bully say things like
“you’re stupid” or you’re lazy” don’t agree with what you hear.
Say. “No that’s not right”
Remember to be your own best friend. Best friends are kind.
Best friends understand. Best friends encourage us when we
have disappointments. Best friends help us celebrate our
successes.
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So, when you are feeling stressed use your good buddy for
instance
*When you do something you are not happy with say “That
wasn’t my best work I can do better, Next time I can try
harder...I can learn from this.”
*If you are not invited to a birthday party, say “Lots of people
like me. I can do something else that is fun even if I can’t go
to the party.”
*If you want a toy your friend has and you can’t afford it say “I
really want a toy like Gareth’s, but I don’t have enough money
to buy one. I’ll ask Lee if we can play with it together.”
You could think of many situations where you can practice
being positive instead of stressed.
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The Lawson Foundation
Denise Marek
Catherine Willinsky
The Psychology foundation of Canada
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HEALTH AND SAFETY
SESSION 9
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Children can injure themselves in a variety of ways both indoors and
outdoors.
Some injuries result from children’s natural curiosity but more often
injuries are caused by simple accidents that could have been avoided.
From slipping on a wet floor to having a hand caught in a door.
We have to ensure that we have all our safety issues covered. We have
to remember that children are at a different eye level than we are and
see things we do not see.
Hopefully this workshop will guide you where typical accidents occur
and what you can do to prevent them.
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• Safety plugs in electrical sockets
• Safety latches on cupboards and drawers.
• Safety latches on fridge and freezer.
• Toilet lid lock.
• Safety gates on stairs. (Check fire regulations)
• Although you have safety latches on cupboards, move all harmful
products such as bleach etc out of reach to a locked cupboard.
• Medicines also out of reach.
• In a childcare centre ensure medications are placed in a locked
box. A permission form for administration of prescription
medication should be signed by the parent, stating how much
and when to administer. The caregiver should sign when the
medicine has been administered
• Baby cribs should be kept away from blind cords that could
choke a baby.
• Keep beds away from windows or glass.
• Never leave a baby bottle propped in a baby’s mouth.
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• Ensure baby cribs are to Canadian government standards. Slats
should be no more than 2 3/8th” The mattress should fit snugly.
The rails should be at least 26” above the mattress, and the sides
should be no less than ¾ height of the child. Do not use plastic
in the crib, and no snugglies, cushions or mobiles that could
suffocate a child.
• To help prevent SIDS (Sudden infant death syndrome) place
infant on his back.
• Ensure toys have no sharp edges and no small chokable parts. No
string attachment longer than 7 inches. Machine washable. No
loud toys that can damage tender ears. Read labels on toys for
safety and age appropriateness.
• Food should be choking free. Some choking foods are popcorn,
hotdogs, and chunks of meat, nuts, and whole grapes. Anything
you think could get stuck in a small throat cut into small pieces.
• Keep pot handles on a stove turned inwards. Better still keep a
small child out of the kitchen when preparing and cooking food.
• Keep electric cords away from tiny hands as they could pull
lamps, electric kettles, toasters, or anything attached to a cord
on top of themselves.
• Matches and barbecue lighters out of reach.
• Hot water can burn, so make sure your hot water heater is no
hotter than 47 degrees Celsius. Fill tub first and test for hot
spots.
• Install special mixers on taps.
• Make sure fire alarms are working
• Practice fire drills
• Never leave a child alone in a tub, paddling or swimming pool.
• If you have swimming pools then fence it in, or a paddling pool
empty when not in use. Treat ponds the same as pools.
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• Hot water tanks, furnaces, and any other type of heater should
be out of reach of a child.
• When changing a baby make sure your change table has a safety
strap and use it. Baby could roll over and fall off even if you are
just reaching for something.
• Keep plastic bags and dry cleaning plastic covers out of reach.
• Keep hot drinks out of reach.
• Never use a barbeque in the house.
• Don’t store gasoline.
• Never run a car inside the garage.
• Have emergency phone numbers next to phone.
• Store knives, scissors and sharp objects.
• Doors can cause pinched fingers, severed fingers. Doors can hit
people. Children can run into the glass in doors. Teach children
to close doors and open slowly.
• Gross motor equipment in front of a window.
• An electric fan to close to children that could be knocked over or
little fingers get to the blades.
• Blocked exits.
• Poison plants. Many plants even edible ones could have some
poisonous parts to them.
Some toxic plants: Apple(seed), azalea, Bone berry, Bittersweet,
Buckeye, Caster Bean, Columbine, Crown of thorns, daisy, devils
Ivy, daffodil, Elder, English Ivy, Hydrangea, Mother in Law plant,
Jerusalem cherry, Peach (seed) Sumac, various mushrooms, Four
o clock, Mexican jumping bean, Philodendron, Tobacco, wild
cheer, Foxglove, Jonquil, Mistletoe, Pokeweed, Tulip, Wild
onion, Holly, Lily of the valley, Mountain laurel, Potato(all green
parts) Wisteria, Morning Glory. This is just a partial list, check
with your poison control for a more detailed list.
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• Ensure ground under outdoor climbers has 9-12 inches of mulch,
wood chips or other soft material.
• Ensure plenty of room between play equipment. A fall zone of at
least 6 foot should be around all.
• Check for slivers, cracks, rust or broken equipment.
• Ensure large equipment is secured to the ground.
• Check any openings to ensure a child cannot get his head or
hands stuck.
• Keep outdoor area free of cigarette butts, rocks, branches,
needles etc.
• Take drawstrings out of children’s clothing outside to ensure
they do not get caught or choked.
• Put locks on the outside of gates so that the child cannot open
them.
• If you have a slide make sure the child slides down the slide and
does not climb up it, as another child sliding down can kick him
in the head.
• If you have swings teach children to keep their distance to avoid
getting kicked.
• If you live in an apartment make sure the windows and balcony
are child safe.
• Have safe shoes when climbing.
• Cover sandboxes when not in use.
• Do not use power tools or lawn mowers around children
Fire Drills
Every home should have a fire escape plan, and every childcare has to
have a fire escape plan. Fire drills should be practiced on a regular
basis; if children are familiar with something it can avoid panic in an
actual emergency.
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A plan of the home or centre should be drawn showing all the exits
and windows.
On the plan show exits from every room. For example, if fire breaks
out in the kitchen follow the exit plan away from the kitchen.
Teach the children what they should do when they hear the fire alarm
or smoke detector alarm. In a childcare situation every staff should be
designated a specific job. One of those jobs should be for one staff to
take the sign in sheet, emergency backpack and cell phone outside
with her to ensure all the children are accounted for.
An outside safe spot should be chosen where everyone will meet when
they evacuate the building.
Earthquake Drill
At the first sign of an earthquake tell the children to Duck cover and
hold.
Count to 60 and wait until the shaking has stopped. Instruct the
children to line up and exit the building, Ensure the staff member
designated takes the sign in sheets, cell phone and emergency back
pack
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Follow the evacuation procedure meeting at a safe place in the
playground or parking lot.
You should have an out of town contact to notify parents where their
children will be, and also have arranged in case of earthquake where
the closest emergency shelter is located.
If you are on low ground and in danger of a tsunami, make sure you
have an evacuation route planned to reach high ground.
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An infectious disease is spread person to person. 3 Factors contribute
to infections
• Viruses
• Bacteria
• Parasites and
• Fungi
Viruses such as colds, chicken pox, and hepatitis cannot be killed with
medication.
Only symptoms can be treated, the body must fight the virus itself.
Bacteria
Are single cell organisms that can only be seen under a microscope.
Most bacteria are harmless, but some cause infectious diseases.
Bacterial infections such as strep throat, impetigo and TB can be
treated with antibiotics. Bacteria grows in rotting matter (such as food)
and in water, air, soil and living bodies. To grow and multiply bacteria
needs three things
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caregiver follow the doctors instructions when administering
medication.
Parasites
Are living organisms that live off a host. Common parasites in children
include pediculosis (Head lice) scabies (body lice) giardia’s (digestive)
and pinworms (digestive) most parasites can be treated and killed with
medication. Some spread easily from person to person such as head
lice, but others are spread only through contact with a contaminated
source (such as in water)
Fungi
Are rapidly growing organisms that live off a host. The most common
is ringworm. Many people think ringworm is a parasite, but it is
actually a fungus that causes athlete’s foot and jock itch. Most fungal
diseases can be treated with medications and ointments.
Direct contact occurs when the body receives germs from the air The
germs can enter into the body through a mucus membrane (eye, nose,
throat etc) or through an open wound. When someone sneezes or
coughs they send thousands of droplets into the air that can go directly
to someone’s eyes, nose, throat or mouth. These droplets may contain
infectious germs.
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• Infectious contact and transmission
The best way to reduce the spread of germs is effective hand washing.
To wash hands turn on the water, use warm running water and liquid
soap. Wet hands and apply a small amount of soap. Rub and lather,
continue for 15 seconds. Remember go between fingers and top of your
hands and under fingernails. Rinse hands under warm running water.
With water still running dry hands with paper towel. Don’t touch
towel dispenser or faucet, Use towel to turn off tap. If necessary open
door with paper towel before exiting. Dispose of paper towel.
Diapering
Dispose of wipes and gloves. Diaper and dress child and wash his
hands. Always maintain contact with the child, and if possible, use a
safety strap. Once diapering is finished place child in play area. Clean
and disinfect diaper surface and wash hands again.
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Cleaning Toys and Equipment.
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• Before sitting or entering food service area (Snacks and Meals)
• After using restrooms and diapering.
• After outside play, or activities inviting hand contact.
• Before leaving for the day.
• Children should be taught to cover their mouths with inside of
elbow or a tissue when coughing or sneezing.
Rub and scrub, rub and scrub, Germs go down the drain. HEY
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tubs and showers, water fountains and cups, kids personal items,
garbage and soiled clothing.
Children should be reminded to wash their hands after each time they
use the water play table. Empty and change water daily, and do not
allow sick children to use water table.
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person to person and these are known as communicable and
contagious diseases.
Immunization
• Fever
• Diarrhea
• Vomiting
• Severe Coughing
• Eye discharge
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A fever is a symptom and it is actually part of the body’s defence
mechanism. Body temperatures rise when white blood cells attempt
to fight off infection.
Sever coughing is a sign of illness if the child’s face turns color( red
or blue) or if the child’s cough makes a high pitched whooping
sound.
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Touch. Gently touch cheek, forehead or neck. If skin is bumpy,
moist or unusually warm or cold, then the child may be sick.
Emergencies.
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If a child has prescribed antibiotics, it is important he takes all of
them, even if he feels better. Although the symptoms may have
cleared the germs that caused the disease may still be present.
Febrile Convulsions
Chicken Pox.
Symptoms
People usually develop an itchy rash of red bumps on the scalp which
spreads to the stomach and then the back.
Duration
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Exclusion from Child Care
Should not be allowed in the child care centre until 6 days after the
rash appears, or until all chicken pox blisters have formed scabs.
Common Cold
Symptoms.
Duration
Croup
Symptoms
Duration
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5-6 days
May return after breathing has improved, and there has been no fever
for 24 hours
Symptoms
Fever and fatigue. Infected people develop a red rash on their cheeks a
few days after fever goes away.
Duration
A person who has the rash can no longer spread the disease, so
children do not have to be excluded from centre.
Symptoms
Duration
7—10 days
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Exclusion from Child Care
24 hours after fever has gone away. Also the child care should consider
excluding children that have mouth blisters, drool, or have open
blisters on their hands.
Hepatitis A
Symptoms
Young children may not show any, but still have the disease.
Symptoms in older children include fever, loss of appetite, dark urine,
and nausea.
Duration
Infectious Mononucleosis.
Symptoms
May not show signs of illness. Older children may experience fever,
swollen throat and tonsils, and enlarged lymph nodes in neck.
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Duration
Until at least two weeks after the fever has gone away.
Symptoms
Duration
Measles
Symptoms
Fever, runny nose, cough and some reddened eyes. Next a rash of
reddish-brown patches begins on the face and covers rest of body.
Duration
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Until 5 days after rash becomes evident.
Mumps
Symptoms
Duration
2 Weeks
Roseola
Symptoms
High fever, swelling of eyelids, fatigue, after the fever breaks the rash
appears on face and body.
Duration
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Rotavirus
Symptoms
Watery diarrhea, severe vomiting, some people may have cough and
runny nose.
Duration
4-6 days
Symptoms
Rash appears first on the face and then spreads to chest and limbs
Duration
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Viral Meningitis
Symptoms
Duration
7-10 days
Bacterial Meningitis
Symptoms
Duration
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Exclusion from Child Care
Escherichia Coli
Most are harmless but 1 strain may lead to illness. E coli infection is
usually a result of eating meat (Especially hamburger) that has not
been cooked thoroughly. The bacteria can be spread by drinking
unpasteurized milk or by contact with infected person’s feces.
Symptoms
Duration
5-10 says.
Until diarrhea has gone away and a doctor has released child to return
to center.
Impetigo
Symptoms.
A blistery rash. The blisters first develop on the face especially on the
nose and mouth, and spread to the rest of the body.
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In most impetigo infections the blisters open and release a thick yellow
liquid that forms a crust on the skin.
Duration
24 hours after treatment begins and the blisters no longer release fluid.
Symptoms
A runny nose and cough which eventually becomes more severe and
may end in vomiting.
Duration
Salmonellosis
Symptoms
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Diarrhea, stomach cramps, nausea, vomiting and fever.
Duration
1 week or longer.
Strep Throat
Symptoms
Duration
Fever may last up to 3 days and sore throat goes away after that.
24 Hours after receiving treatment and 24 hours after fever goes away.
Symptoms
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Duration
1-2 weeks
Head Lice
Small parasitic insects that live on human head and scalp and suck
blood. Can be caught from head to head contact with an infected
person or indirect objects such as brushes, combs and hats
Symptoms
Duration
Varies
Ear Infection
Scarlet fever
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Coronavirus
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PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT
SESSION 10
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Physical development
This Area of Learning relates to the development of children’s body
control and coordination of large movements,
Physical development can be divided into gross motor skills and fine
manipulative skills.
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fine movements will continue to develop and new skills will be
learned.
Children cannot learn a new skill until the muscles are sufficiently
developed, and the activities and resources provided should be suitable
for their developmental needs.
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creative music. The development of children’s physical skills should be
developed holistically across all Areas of Learning.
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e. Opportunities to develop gross and fine motor skills indoors and
outdoors, through activities that challenge and motivate children
f. Creative use of the indoor and outdoor learning environments to
support physical development in all Areas of Learning
g. Sensory areas to develop inner rest and calm through relaxation,
and creative visualization
h. Relevant vocabulary related to movement, and clear use of
positional language when giving instructions in everyday
activities.
i. A range of equipment and resources that promote gross and fine
motor skills in all Areas of Learning and that support children’s
individual interests and development
j. Help and support for the child to move on and develop new
skills
k. Resources that are developmentally appropriate and encourage
progression
l. Sufficient time to develop and practise physical skills
m. Books and posters illustrating parts of the body, explaining how
to perform specific movements, and giving information on
health issue
n. Opportunities and accessible resources to provide for
spontaneous physical play
o. Multi-sensory experiences that can provide a stimulus for
activity or stillness.
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ROLE OF THE PARENT
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b. Be aware of the importance of physical skills to children’s self-
esteem, health and well-being, and for developing positive, healthy
attitudes
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Physical play
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The development of physical skills
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As they become more skillful children should have opportunities to
participate in gymnastics and dance activities in order to:
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Fine motor skills
* dough, clay
* Painting – first with large brushes and then with finer ones
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* Jigsaw puzzles, peg patterns, a range of equipment for threading and
weaving
* Handle items such as sequins, paper fasteners and a large needle and
thread when decorating or joining items they design and make
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Health and safety including healthy eating and well-being
Safety issues
Healthy living
* Recognize that regular exercise makes them feel good and helps the
body to work well
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Healthy eating
* To understand why we need food and water – how our bodies work
* To be able to opt for healthy food choices, for example for breakfast,
lunch boxes and snacks.
Planning
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Relevant learning experiences will enable children to make steady
progress appropriate to their stage of development.
* Play s experimentation
* practice
*Application
* refinement
* Evaluation.
Progress in learning
* Understand how their bodies move, bend and stretch, make a variety
of shapes such as rounded or tucked, piked or straddled, twist and
turn, swing and climb
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* use space that is around them, behind, underneath, below, over and
under, on top of and away from them and adjust their speed and
direction; show fast/slow, high/low or strong/light movements and be
able to stop suddenly
* Understand and apply rules and elements of games play; create and
develop simple cooperative and competitive games and play these
fairly; work out how to win a game; solve problems of dodging others
* Ask for assistance when needed, to know about the dangers in the
home and outside environment and understand that medicines are
taken to make them feel better (and that some drugs are dangerous
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Physical Development across the curriculum
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Language, Literacy and Communication Skills
Mathematical Development
Creative Development
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SOCIAL AND PERSONAL SKILLS
SESSION 11
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Personal skills consist of six sections of skills which are:
• SELF CARE
• DRESSING
• EATING
• TOILETING
• ATTENTION SPAN
• BEHAVIOUR.
These skills are innate to each child and will vary in each child
depending on the opportunity the child has to learn skills of
independence. With the exception of the physical
examination...measurement crown to heel, head circumference,
weight, reflexes, tone, this happens within the first moments of birth.
Also the Apgar test...sensory or muscular, deficits, allergies,
medication.
After the birth of each child information will be sent to the local health
unit post-partum, and Community Health Records. This will include
information if concerns or a handicap has been identified. This will be
followed up by the district health nurse. Encouragement will be given
to mother and child to attend post-natal and wellbeing baby clinic. If
major concerns have been identified a referral may be made to the
Infant Development Program.
Young children enjoy playing with water and will imitate the actions of
washing hands, in and out of the water, rubbing hands and drying
hands. With the very young child, hand over hand to begin with. Wash
hands after diapering, by repeating the action routinely when the child
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is developmentally ready, washing hands will be part of routine. Hand
washing should be incorporated in the daily program after toileting,
before eating, using arts and craft materials and playing with sand or
like materials. Caregivers should model good hand washing and
demonstrate counting to ten.
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DRESSING AND UNDRESSING.
Toddlers learn very quickly how to undress themselves and often not
at the time you would wish them to do so. Undressing comes from
dressing. The type of clothing will play a large part in when a child
starts to dress themselves, as will time and patience, and lots of trial
and error. Good times to practice dressing:
• Dramatic play
• Putting on a smock or shirt before art or painting.
• Putting on clothes after swimming.
Clothing to practice with: shirts with cut sleeves, vests to out over
head, dolman sleeves, capes, shorts with elastic tops. Use big fasteners,
large zippers with tabs on the end (Excellent fine motor skills) large
buckles, large hook and eye. Good finds at local thrift shops with
simple adaptations can end up in a dress up area for minimal cost.
Cognitive and fine motor skills play a large role in assisting a child
master dressing skill.
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to dress independently. Also ask parents to place a small mark on the
left shoe so the child can look for it. By using the same side, the child
will learn the left side, carry this through on art work by putting his
name on the left side, also in circle time and reading.
Task-Eating.
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The infant is dependent on his caregiver for nourishment, and will
progress through many stages of using the muscles, tongue, and lips in
order to suck, swallow, and then progress through the stages of eating.
Task-Drinking.
2 Years has learned chewing and swallowing and can use a spoon
well enough to feed self without accidentally inverting it.
3 Years can feed self with little or no spilling. Can pour out from a
jug into a cup, if it is not heavy. Feeding skills are now learned and
become part and parcel of social skills in accordance with family
standard of table manners.
Feeding
13-18 Months
19-24 Months
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TOILETING
2 YEARS.
By this age the child will tell caregiver she is wet and wants to use
potty or toilet seat. She is generally clean and almost dry at night.
2 ½ YEARS
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A toilet training form is provided on the following page to see if
there is a pattern emerging.
ATTENTION SPAN
For the child who exhibits limited attention observe the following
• Are there any times when the child is able to focus and complete
the activity?
• Responds to directions?
• Is not distracted by background noise or visual stimulation.
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• Has difficulty maintaining pretend play situations or joining a
group and playing with others.
• Can he stay on task when working with an adult?
• When observations are complete review with the parents to
determine if the situation is similar at home.
The definition of socialization is for the child to learn new skills that
enable him to fit into society.
Children who feel loved and secure give back love to others.
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Social development starts with strong bonds to adults and from that
foundation grows to include relationships with children. As caregivers
nourish the roots of social development, the child’s branches will be
strong and reach out to care for and nourish others.
Social Skills
Understanding of others.
Social Interaction
• Waiting
• Snack Time
• Circle Time
• Changing Activities
• Putting on Clothes
• Toilet Time
• Washing Hands
• Dramatic Play area
• Using outdoor equipment(slide)
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• Is not excessively dependent on the teacher, assistant or
other adults.
• Usually comes to the program or setting willingly
• Usually copes with rebuffs and reverses adequately
• Shows the capacity to empathize.
• Has positive relationship with one or two peers, shows
capacity to really care about them, miss them if absent etc.
• Displays the capacity for humor.
• Does not seem to be acutely or chronically lonely
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Early childhood educators have traditionally given high priority to
enhancing young children’s social development. During the last two
decades a convincing body of evidence has accumulated to indicate
that unless children achieve minimal social competence by about the
age of six years, they have a high probability of being at risk
throughout life. “Hartup” suggests that peer relationships contribute a
great deal to the effectiveness with which we function as adults (1992)
He states that:
The risks are many, poor mental health, dropping out of school, low
achievement and other school difficulties, and so forth(see Katz and
McClellan, 1991) Given the lifelong consequences, relationships should
be counted as the first of the four R’s of education.
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outings, it is reasonable to assume that when handled sensitively, the
shyness will be spontaneously outgrown.
Teachers can observe and monitor interactions among children and let
children who rarely have difficulties attempt to solve conflicts by
themselves before intervening. If a child appears to be doing well, and
then it is reasonable to assume that occasional social difficulties will be
outgrown without intervention.
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PRO SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR
The reasons why children keep trying to play with each other in spite
of enormous difficulties are many and varied. Like adult’s children get
great satisfaction and affection from friendships and play becomes
more interesting and varied.
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COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
SESSION 12
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Brain Development.
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remembering, recognizing, abstracting and generalizing which helps
us understand how children perceive the World around them.
COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
Cognition
• Individual Perceptions.
• Visual Auditory Memory.
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• I can solve this problem.
• Concepts.
The role of the caregiver is to provide a range of
developmentally appropriate activities that challenge but do not
frustrate.
• The opportunity for children to practice skills.
• To respond to child’s cues and clues.
• Ask questions that motivate response e.g. what do you think?
What comes next? Where should we put it? Where could it be?
PIAGET’S THEORIES
Sensorimotor Stage
Birth to 2 years
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Largely non-verbal. Muscles and senses help a child deal with objects
and events, experiment, add new to old, trial and error.
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• Starts to symbolize.
STAGE 1
STAGE 2
STAGE 3
STAGE 4
Can choose a goal, direct activities to reach goal, tries new ways,
imitates.
OBJECT PERMANENCE
SPATIALITY
STAGE 5
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Active Experimentation: trial and error-goal can find objects.
STAGE 6
******Red Flags******
• Poor self-concept.
• Difficulty processing information.
• Distractible.
• Poor Visual Discrimination.
• Continue to make incorrect responses.
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SEPARATION ANXIETY
SESSION 13
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Separation Anxiety in a Childcare setting
Children may experience Separation Anxiety for many reasons.
They are often more common on Sunday nights and Monday mornings
with the anticipation of returning to school.
Many Parents are able to recognize that their child is struggling within
the first few weeks of witnessing a repeating pattern of these
behaviors. Teachers are often well equipped to notice and manage SA
kids as it is more expected in early years.
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who are overprotective or intrusive may lead to the disorder. The role
of genetic factors involved has not been established, research does
show that this condition might be inherited.
It can appear in many forms; it may also happen at any time. Some
children may sit alone and not interact with staff or other children,
others may have a complete meltdown, and some may just cry for a
length of time.
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Emotions a child may experience with Separation Anxiety
• Anxiety/worry/fear
• Shame
• Embarrassment
• Helplessness
• Sadness
• Anger
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- Over Protective Parent; In some cases, it may be a manifestation of
stressors or anxiety from the parent.
Anxiety
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Facts
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• Praise the child’s efforts- Reminding the child when they take a
break from being upset that they are doing great can be very
rewarding for the child. Also building their self-esteem.
• Educate yourself about the child who suffers from Separation
Anxiety- learn about what they like, do they have a pet, do they
have siblings.
• Talk about the child’s feelings- reassuring the child that you
understand that they are feeling sad, while reassuring them they
are safe, and they will see their parent/ caregiver soon.
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Communication with the Parent/Caregiver
Be sure to talk to the parent, how the child’s night went and what is
the Child’s mood this morning, and issues that may be going on at
home. Remember to let Parent’s/ Caregivers know when they pick
their child up from daycare, what the Childs highlights and struggles
of the day were.
Departure Ritual
Try to create a departure ritual that you are able to follow each time,
the ritual will become familiar to the child and they will become
comfortable with it. Suggesting this to the Parent is also a good idea.
Let the child know what is going to happen during the day, “we are
going to get ready and go outside for a treasure hunt today” etc.
Goodbye’s
Be sure to make the goodbye from the Parent quick and gentle, let the
Parent’s know that they will need to tell the child to “have fun playing
with your friends today”, ‘I will pick you up after nap”, “I am going to
go to work now”. Kiss goodbye and wave.
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Immediately when the Parent says goodbye, take the child to
something that may distract them (blowing bubbles, painting, water
play), hopefully this will keep their mind from worrying about the
separation. If the child continues to cry, remind the child that mom
will be back after nap to pick her up. While validating her feelings.
Transition Object
You may have the child’s favorite toy ready for them when they arrive,
to help with the transition. You can ask (have the parent) to give the
child a special object example: (hankie with mom’s perfume, a special
goodbye rock that parent kisses and gives to the child to keep in their
pocket).
Depending on the situation, you may ask the parent to read a quick
story or draw a quick picture with the child. Do not let this go on for
more than 10 minutes as the child will expect it every time and will try
to get the parent to stay longer each time. You will need to use your
judgement with asking the parent to stay to read a book or draw a
picture as this could cause worse anxiety for the child.
Working?
What will work? Perhaps the child that is dealing with Separation
Anxiety would like a job.
You can start this by asking the child if they would like to be a helper.
Offering the child, a job can build confidence and alleviate some stress
allowing the child something to focus on.
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Suggestions:
You can encourage children to bring a book or toy from home so they
can share and tell their friends about it. This helps the child with
Social skills and allows for the child to work on building relationships
with peers.
Encourage Friendships
Get to know who you think the child would play well with. Encourage
the child to interact with other children creating friendships.
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What can the Parent do to help the child?
Encourage
Encourage the child to dress themselves, brush their own hair, brush
their teeth. This builds independence and allows the child to build I
CAN DO IT self-esteem.
Allow the child to explore and grow, giving them opportunities to try
new things and encouragement will allow for the child to be successful
and will build on their self-esteem giving them age appropriate
independence.
Minimize
Minimize what your child watches on TV. Don’t allow for scary TV
Shows.
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Do Not Give In
Give your child reassurance that they will be just fine. Set consistent
limits and stick to it, this will help your child’s adjustment to
separation anxiety.
Tell your child you are leaving and when you will return, don’t make
your separation a big deal, be happy and positive.
Severity
If the child seems to have Severe Separation Anxiety and they and you
have tried everything, the parent may want to take their child to a
doctor to get a diagnosis and find an alternative way to treat
Separation Anxiety Disorder.
Talk Therapy- this provides a safe place for children to express their
feelings
Family Counselling- this can help the child counteract thoughts that
may fuel their anxiety and help the child and family learn coping skills
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Medication- Medication may be used to treat severe cases of
Separation Anxiety Disorder and should only be used while in
conjunction with other therapy.
A Few Suggestions
If you are able to send the parent a few text message pictures during
the day while their child is interacting with other children, smiling or
busy with a activity, allows the parent to feel better and lets them not
worry so much.
Encourage the child to tell their parent when they are picked up how
their day went, find the good parts of the day and emphasize on them.
When the parent comes to pick up the child, ask the child to show
their parent their art they did, have it hanging on the wall.
Have the child introduce their parent to the friend the child was
interacting with during the day.
Have the child bring something for show and share, while in circle
have the child walk around and show the other children what they
brought and get the child to explain about it, such as where did they
get it etc.
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry: Facts for Families: the anxious
child.
Anxiety Canada
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STORYTELLING
SESSION 14
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STORYTELLING
Children are naturally good listeners, even when you think they are
not paying attention. Young children learn most of their language and
communication skills through listening. While he listens, he learns
knowledge about the World. If you tell him a story about the stars, he
is learning about the galaxy.
At Birth.
0-3 Months
They learn how to turn, and may smile at the sound of a familiar voice.
They may stop what they are doing and listen to the sound of a new
voice.
4-6 Months
7-12 Months
He turns and looks at you when you say his name. He has fun with
simple games and stories such as Pat a cake and Peek a Boo.
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The earliest stories a child hears will be in the form of nursery rhymes.
The child begins to recognize patterns of sound, and secures a grasp of
language.
Try developing some of your own verses from existing nursery rhymes.
Try adding to:
Try variations with Two Little Dickey Birds, or Peter Rabbit, or Black
Bear Black Bear.
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Developmental appropriateness is the first factor to consider when
preparing to tell a story. All children can listen to stories starting in
infancy. Books for infants and toddlers have very basic storylines and
simple colorful illustrations. A typical infant may have only a few
hardboard or quilt cushioned like pages. The story may be something
like a tour through a farmyard to learn about animal sounds.
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As with speech infants will not understand much of what you read to
them at first, and newborns have fairly poor eyesight, so pictures in a
book are just colourful blurs. As long as infants can sit in your lap
comfortably as you point out details in a book, then good listening
habits and curiosity about books will soon follow.
Toddlers don’t like to sit still, in fact toddlers are very curious and they
are just as likely to be interested in a story or book as they are in other
activities. Once they pass one-year toddlers start to advance in speech
development. Between the ages of 1 and 2 they can point to familiar
pictures in a book if you name them....” Can you point to the house”
Now that they can speak you can ask them to repeat simple directions.
Now is the time to teach them to take turns and not interrupt. They
may get restless if you stretch out the activity too long. Any time a
child is speaking the adult should model perfect listening skills.
(Unless they are being disruptive). Look them in the eye and show
them how eager you are to hear what they have to say.
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Children who have been read to, spoken to, and encouraged to speak
develop advanced language skills. By the late toddler stage they
understand hundreds and thousands of words, but it will take a while
for their expressive language (speech) to catch up with their receptive
language.
Children love to hear the same story over and over again. It doesn’t
matter that they know what is going to happen. They will listen more
closely than ever for favourite details, and wait with eager anticipation
for key moments in the story. They will also start to notice little
variations in the way you tell it. These variations are important as they
make retelling fun and interesting and they show children there are
endless possibilities, and there are no wrong or bad ideas. In time this
helps children to participate and become storytellers.
Stories have been passed down over the centuries, and were the main
vehicle through which knowledge and beliefs, values and traditions
were passed down. Storytelling includes a high level of interaction with
the audience, eye contact, and body language is important. Listening
to a story is different from looking at pictures in a book as it exercises
the imagination and promotes close listening and reflection.
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When telling a story, it should be altered to suit the audience. In the
original Red Riding Hood, the wolf eats the girl and the grandmother,
and the woodsman comes home and cuts open the wolf with his axe
and removes the victims who are miraculously unharmed. For
preschoolers, maybe the wolf could lock her in the closet uninjured
and the woodsman could chase him away.
Communication
Development
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Language
Concentration
Children can experience emotions through the safety of the story and
can discover situations outside their own environment
Good storytelling begins with the effective use of voice, physical action
and descriptive language. A good way to capture your listener’s
attention and clarify meaning is to adjust your voice in order to reflect
the character’s personality-use tone, pitch and volume. Your tone can
be inquisitive, nervous, angry, sinister etc. The pitch can be high or
low. A low pitch can express a sinister or heroic character and a higher
pitch can suggest innocence or kindness. Volume can be effective in
certain places. A sudden rise in volume can show danger or surprise. A
lower volume can increase suspense and force your audience to pay
close attention. As you continue to tell stories on a regular basis you
can reuse the same vocabulary...grand, lush, adorned, lofty etc. Their
language banks will be filling with words they won’t even realize they
know.
Most adults working with children will read books and stories to
children, and they seem to think that the book is a safety blanket in
case they forget the story. But it is not...it’s a barrier. It inhibits the
direct communication between teller and listener. Having permanent
eye contact with an audience creates a bond and togetherness and a
concentration on the story itself. So read the story through and
visualize it. Think of several words in the story that will guide you
through the main points. Try telling yourself the story outline, and
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then try to tell it in your own words. Go back to the book and see if
there is any important detail you have left out. Learn any repeated
phrases or rhymes. Make sure you know how to begin and end the
story. Keep telling the story to yourself, and when you are confident
tell it to the children.
1. Bring in an object that is found in the story and let the children
inspect, feel and talk about the object. Have they ever seen one before?
Would they like to hear a story that contains this object?
2. Get the children involved by offering them a felt board story. Let the
children help you place appropriate felt pieces on the board as they
appear in the story.
4. If the story you want to tell is a little too involved for preschoolers,
don’t hesitate to make up your own version of the story.
6. Preschoolers love stories that are repetitive in nature like the Three
Little Pigs, or the Three Billy Goats Gruff. This enables them to learn
the repeated phrases and repeat them with you as they come up in the
story.
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7. Preschooler’s love hearing the same story over and over again. They
like to know what will happen ahead of time.
8. Any time you can get preschoolers involved in a story, you have a
better chance of getting them to stay focused on the story. Try having
a couple of children at a time act out what is happening in the story.
9. Complex stories are not good for children. Some people say you
should have no more characters in the story than the age of the
children.
10. You can also help children remember the different characters in the
story by introducing them to the characters before you start reading.
You can have cut-outs of the characters placed on a felt board, dolls or
puppets to represent them.
11. Short stories are best for young children. Short fables, folktales and
picture books are best for this age.
12. If you like a folktale or a fable but the plot is too confusing for your
children, don’t hesitate to simplify it to make it more enjoyable. If it
has a surprise ending be sure to keep that in the story.
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Make your room more attractive for storytelling.
Bulletin Boards. Check with the local fire department to see how much
wall space they will let you use.
Have a quiet book centre for children to sit quietly and read.
Keep “Big Books” open around the room and change them periodically
Have a felt board with different story pieces that the child can interact
with.
Using blocks to tell a story may be a new idea for you to try.
Pick up a small cylinder and start telling the story of “Little Red Riding
Hood” With their inborn imagination the children know immediately
which is the grandmother, and which is the granddaughter, and all it
takes to represent the forest is a few tall blocks stood on their end.
Have the children help combine a few blocks for grandmother’s house.
A bridge for the three Billy goats gruff, or try building a giant for Jack
in the Beanstalk. A timid child can be given a block to involve them in
the story. A more adventurous child can become the wolf. Keep the
building simple so that the plot does not get lost. The beauty is that
children really imagine detail, and the same block can be a bear, a bed,
a car, a boat. There is no limit to the number of stories you can tell
with one set of blocks.
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Story Sacks
To make a story sacks find or make a large cloth bag and include any of
the following materials.
Clay
(An activity card lists ideas for how to use the sack.) An example would
be
Find out more about the people and places in the story by looking at
the nonfiction books.
Draw a story map of the plot to help with retelling the story.
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A story sack of the Three Little Pigs
Copy of “the Three Little Pigs” (Of which there are a number of
versions.)
Activity Card.
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Ask the children to go on blowing the straw, twigs and stone across the
floor, and see which moved more easily.
Using the wolf as a prop, children can tell the wolf off and give him
some tips for making friends.
Talk about the dangers of fire and ask children what they would do in
a fire.
Children can draw their own house or a house they would like to build.
Where did the little pigs live before they built their houses?
Who could the little pigs talk to about the wolf being a bully?
Would you like to be a builder when you grow up? Why. Why not?
Felt Boards
Puppets
Everyone knows that puppets are great for storytelling. They can be
purchased commercially and handmade.
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OBSERVING CHILDREN
SESSION 15
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Introduction
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4. Provide a graduated response and specific help to children whose
progress is not adequate and who may be on the continuum of
special educational needs
5. Inform staff, parents/carers of children’s achievements, and next
steps for their learning
6. Identify, monitor and evaluate the effectiveness of the
curriculum provided
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What should be observed?
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3. Mathematical Development
4. Knowledge and Understanding of the World
5. Physical Development
6. Creative Development.
Information on children’s developmental progress and achievements
and attainments should be obtained by observing different situations
and contexts within the setting/ school, such as: -
Observing children completing tasks that have been planned and those
that the children have chosen themselves will give caregivers and
parents a detailed picture of:
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- the children’s involvement in their learning
- Are the children fully involved in the activity – if not, why not?
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Methods for observing
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- planned observation that assesses developmental progress (specific
focus on outcomes or process of learning)
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cooperatively. Caregivers can also observe the child’s/children’s
interactions with the learning environment.
- closed questions, which tend to have a specific focus and usually only
allow for one correct answer.
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When should caregivers intervene?
- need help and/or are struggling with a task and could become
frustrated if support is not provided
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Ways of recording observations
Notebooks
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notebooks to write down/record their observation on children’s
significant achievements and/or important events or incidents that
may have occurred.
Diaries
These can be used on a daily basis and can record children’s responses
and developmental progress, individually and in groups.
Sticky notes
Index cards
Adhesive labels
Used in the same way as index cards, but are transferred directly onto
the children’s records.
Record sheet
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need to be kept for the longer term. It is important that any form of
recording is not burdensome for staff and that the amount of paper is
kept to a minimum.
- personal development
- social development
- well-being/emotional development
- cognitive development
- physical development.
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Personal development
Are they able to resolve conflicts with their peers without adult
intervention?
To what extent are children aware of what they are good at, and to
what extent do they understand how they can improve their learning
and use feedback to improve their work?
Social development
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How do the children interact with their peers and caregivers? Are they
communicative? Do they initiate conversation/play? Do they help
others?
Are they able to form relationships? How confident are they to work
cooperatively?
Are they aware of and respectful of each other, and are they accepting
of individual similarities/differences?
Do the children show respect and care for the natural world? How do
they treat plants/animals, etc.?
Are they able to form relationships? How confident are they to work
cooperatively?
Well-being/emotional development
Are the children aware of their own feelings and do they have the
ability to express them in an appropriate way?
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How do the children respond to the feelings and emotions of others?
Are they aware of dangers within the home and outside environment?
Are they aware that some medicines are taken to make them feel
better and that some drugs are dangerous?
Cognitive development
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How developed are the children’s memory skills? Are they able to
recall? How much prompting and revisiting is needed?
How able are the children in sequencing and ordering? Can they
extend sequences of events in a logical way? How sophisticated are
these skills?
How do the children express their thoughts, ideas, needs and feelings?
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How well are the children’s ideas communicated – are they easily
understood? Are the children confident when communicating?
How fluent are the children when speaking, and how effective are the
children at communicating with their peers and practitioners?
Do the children use facial and body gestures to express needs, etc.? If
so, how often and what type?
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Physical development
Gross motor
How well do the children control their bodies when rolling, jumping,
running, etc.?
Are the children able to use the space that is around, behind,
underneath, below, over and under, on top of and away from them?
Can they adjust their speed and direction, show fast/slow and high/low
movements or strong/light movements, and stop suddenly?
Fine motor
How able are the children in manipulating objects and materials? How
competent are they at completing construction materials and sets? Are
they making progress?
Which hand does the child favour? How well do they use mark-making
materials and equipment such as scissors?
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QUESTIONS
SESSION 16
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This is the test section of you course.
You can place your answers in a word document, and change and send
in pdf form.
You do not have to rewrite the questions just ensure that you have the
Session and question numbers in order,
e.g., Session 2
1.
2.
3.
Session 3
1.
2. etc
Also ensure you have the name required on your certificate and how
many hours it took you to complete the course.
You have had up to 6 months from you order date to complete the
course. If you are sending us the answers after the 6-month period
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then we cannot accept it, as your name will be erased from our data
base at 6 months.
SESSION 1
CHILD GUIDANCE
1. How do you feel your earlier experiences in life affected you, and
how do they affect you now?
6. A new child is not adjusting well to daycare. The child needs a lot
more attention and guidance than expected. The centre is considering
asking the parent to withdraw the child.
Do you agree with the centres decision or what alternate could you see
happening?
7. A parent is angry as the centre has lost a pair of shoes the parent
recently purchased for their child. How would you pacify this parent
and rectify this situation?
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10.Describe three differences between programs serving children birth
through 5 years, and those serving children from kindergarten to 8
years.
17.James is teasing and name calling Mary and other children. How
would you handle the situation?
18. Robbie who is 11 years old swears at you and tells you “you can’t be
the boss of me” What would you do?
20.What is the best way to work with a child that frequently hits or is
otherwise aggressive and destructive in play?
24.Why are some children more possessive over toys, space etc. than
others?
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SESSION 2
LEARNING THROUGH PLAY
1. As a child what do you remember about playing and where did
you play. Were you allowed to play alone or were you
supervised? What games did you play and what did you learn
from these games? In what way if any did your play experiences
differ from play of today?
2. At what age do you think that children should be introduced to
phonics?
3. What are your thoughts on preschool children and computers?
4. What do you consider is good curriculum planning?
5. How would you consider a child’s linguistic and spiritual identity
when planning a Xmas Activity?
6. Why must caregivers of young children be prepared to explain
and defend the value of basing large parts of the curriculum on
play?
7. What would be some of the criteria for selecting safe toys?
8. Many activities can be carried on outdoors. Name 10 of them.
9. A parent is concerned with the amount of playing they have
observed at your center. How would you explain the advantages
of play to this parent?
10. What do children learn from a) Music and Movement b) Sensory
Play c) Books d) Puzzles e) Picking up toys.?
11. What do you think children are actually learning through play?
12. What effect does playing outdoors have on a child’s
development?
13. Tell us about an incident in your childhood that you remember?
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SESSION 3
OUTDOOR PLAY
QUESTIONS
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SESSION 4
CHILDREN AND DIVERSITY
2.What are some of the things you do in your family to combat anxiety
or bad experiences?
4.What would you say to a child that has a problem with a child from a
different culture?
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CHILDREN AND THE WORLD
SESSION 5
3.Give some ideas of how you would make children curious about “The
World”
6.Of all the things you learn about the World what do you think is the
most useful?
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HELPING CHILDREN EXPRESS ANGER
SESSION 6
1. Choose your own child or a child in your preschool and write
down what provokes him to get angry, and how you would help
him/her deal with the anger.
3.Think of an instance in your earlier years when you did not agree
with a decision that your parents had made you comply with, and
what was your reaction to this and your parents. What was the
outcome?
5.James tells you in childcare that you are not the boss of him and
says he hates you. What would you do?
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SESSION 7
THE CHALLENGING CHILD
1. A child kicks another child waiting in line to put on a coat.
How could you modify the environment to lessen the risk of this
happening?
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SESSION 8
STRESS IN CHILDREN
7. How would you respond to an aggressive child when you know the
aggression is caused by stress?
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SESSION 9
HEALTH AND SAFETY
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SESSION 10
PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT
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SESSION 11
SOCIAL AND PERSONAL SKILLS
2. In your early childhood how did you make friends and did you
find it easy.
5.Think of two children you know. List three ways that they tend to
differ from each other socially.
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SESSION 12
COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
1.Identify three aspects of cognitive development
2.What is “accommodation”?
3.What is “assimilation”?
4.What is “organization”?
5.What is “cognition”?
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SESSION 13
SEPARATION ANXIETY
2. Name 3 things that a parent can do to make it easier for the child
to accept coming to daycare.
4. Give 3 ideas of what you may do to try to help a child and family
that are dealing with Separation Anxiety.
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SESSION 14
STORYTELLING
1.Think of a story for a book bag, and tell us what you would
include in the bag.
5.Name a book from your childhood that you still remember and
tell us what it was about.
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SESSION 15
OBSERVING CHILDREN
1.What is “observation” in Early Childhood?
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