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4.1.1 - 4 .2 .10 IPSKILLS-B.Sc-I
4.1.1 - 4 .2 .10 IPSKILLS-B.Sc-I
SKILLS-I
4 -CONFLICT MANAGEMENT :-
What is Conflict management?
Conflict management is the practice of being able to identify and handle
conflicts sensibly, fairly, and efficiently.
If you're dealing with a conflict between two members of your team, it's
important that you get all the facts. Sit down with each individual
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involved and find out exactly what the issue is. How is each individual
perceiving the situation? What needs are not being met? What does
each party see as an appropriate resolution? Make sure that all parties
involved understand that you are acting as an impartial mediator, and
let them know they can feel comfortable to share sensitive information.
Once you've had a chance to talk to all involved parties separately, bring
them together in a meeting so that they can hash out their differences in
a neutral environment. This is a time for brainstorming, active listening,
and being open to different perspectives - the goal is to come to a
common understanding of what the problem is, what role each
individual is playing in the conflict, and what some possible solutions
might be.
4. Identify a Solution
After both parties have had a chance to discuss the situation at hand, it's
time to identify what a satisfactory resolution might be - and how to get
there. Ideally, by this point, both parties will understand the other's side,
and oftentimes the conflict will be resolved just through facilitated, open
dialogue. However, if the situation requires further resolution, you will
need to step in and help them negotiate a reasonable solution. This
phase can require some time and effort, as it requires both parties to set
aside their differences and preferences and find some common ground
to work towards (which may involve not getting everything they want
out of the situation). Then, work with both individuals to come up with a
concrete list of steps that will result in the solution being achieved.
Just because a solution has been identified and addressed doesn't mean
it will just go away. As a manager, it's your responsibility to check in with
both parties to ensure that the conflict has truly been dealt with, and
that the steps identified to reach a solution are being followed. If all
seems to be going well, simply remember to stop and observe from time
to time, just to see if things really are going smoothly or if there are still
lingering tensions under the surface that need to be handled. If it's clear
that the solution didn't work, or wasn't the right resolution for the
situation, make sure to be proactive in working with both parties to
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readjust expectations, identify alternative solutions, and continue their
dialogue to create a positive and healthy work environment.
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projects together and make a plan for how we can work better on the new
project going forward!”
Making Constructive Criticism :- Constructive criticism is clear, direct,
honest, and easy to implement. It provides specific examples and
actionable suggestions for positive change. This type of feedback also
highlights ways the recipient can make positive improvements in their
behavior to minimize future problems.
Constructive criticism focuses on providing constructive feedback,
supported by specific examples, to help you improve in some area.
Constructive criticism should be offered in a friendly manner with good
intentions. Ideally, the person offering constructive criticism should also be
prepared to help brainstorm possible solutions and next steps in order to
serve as a valuable tool in the growth process.
For example: “Every time I ask for a project update from you, you don't get
back to me until two days after our deadline has passed which means we
miss out on potential clients because we didn't deliver on time.” Avoid
judgmental language. For example: “You never meet your deadlines!
You're terrible at this job!”.
Benefits of Constructive Criticism :- Receiving criticism helps you learn
about areas of your work that could be improved but it also helps you
manage your own emotional reactions, helping you improve your
leadership qualities. On top of this, you're also gifted insight into the other
person.
4.1.3:- Explain Counseling at work place :- Counseling is a collaborative
effort between the counselor and client. Professional counselors help
clients identify goals and potential solutions to problems which cause
emotional turmoil; seek to improve communication and coping skills;
strengthen self-esteem; and promote behavior change and optimal mental
health.
workplace counselling can be counselling provided to people for their
problems at their workplace”. Definition. “Workplace counselling refers
to the ability to deal with issues that occur within an organization, such as
conflict, stress-related absence, work-related trauma, and
harassment/bullying” (Hughes & Kinder, 2007).
Counselling helps the employees to come out from the problems, gives a
new way to deal with the problems. Counselling shows how much the
employer care for the employee. Counselling may help to identify the
employee the work related problems and the poor performance.
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An Employee Assistance Program (EAP) is a confidential counselling
service offered by employers to their employees to support their well-
being in the workplace and in their personal lives. Depending on the
employer's arrangement, EAP may also extend to immediate family
members.
Stages of Employee Counselling :-
The process of employee counselling has three phases: rapport
building, exploration and action planning, these are discussed below:
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4.1.4 :-Explain Mediating in work place :- Mediation is a tool to resolve
workplace conflict or disputes. It's often described as a form of alternative
or informal dispute resolution as it's less formal than grievance and
discipline
If two of your team members are having a dispute in the workplace, it can
be helpful to sit them down together in the same room. As a workplace
mediator, it's your role to facilitate their discussion together, rather than
talking to each of your colleagues individually.
The type of situations that are dealt with by the Mediation Service
include:
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The aim of the process is to allow each person involved in the dispute the
opportunity to be heard and to work with the other party to reach a
solution. It is a flexible process which may involve joint meetings or
meetings with the mediator alone, depending on the particular situation.
It's important that they reserve their own judgment and guide people
toward their own resolution, rather than suggesting or ruling on the
outcome themselves. However, they must ensure a fair solution,
guarding against the effects of any imbalance of power between the
participants.
First, meet with each participant separately, to outline what they can
expect from you and from the process. Make sure that they are both
willing to participate – mediation won't work if you try to impose it!
Agree some ground rules for the next stage of the process. These might
include asking each person to come prepared with some solutions or
ideas, listening with an open mind, and avoiding interruptions. It's
important that you build trust with both participants, and make them
feel safe enough to talk openly and truthfully with you and with one
another.
Meeting with the participants individually will allow them to share their
side of the story with you openly and honestly. Use active listening skills
and open questions to get to the root of the problem. Reflect upon and
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paraphrase what your team members tell you, to show that you
understand their points of view.
Then ask each person what they hope to gain from the mediation.
Remind them that it's not about winning, but about finding a practical
resolution that suits everyone who's involved.
Once both sides have had time to reflect, arrange a joint meeting. Open
the session on a positive note, by thanking them for being open to
resolving the conflict. Remind them of the ground rules, summarize the
situation, and then set out the main areas of agreement and
disagreement.
Before you start, agree a platform to use, remind the participants that
the process is confidential, and that they should not record the meeting
or take screenshots.
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Once both sides have given their views, shift their attention from the
past to the future.
Go over the points that were raised in your meetings, and try to identify
areas where they have at least some shared opinions. Resolve these
issues first, as a “quick win” will help to build positive momentum, and
bolster both sides' confidence that a workable solution can be found.
Take notes during all of the meetings that you mediate and, once the
participants have reached a solution, write that up as a formal
agreement. Make sure that the agreement is easy to understand and
that actions are SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant,
and Time-bound).
You might even consider getting each person to sign the agreement. This
can add weight and finality to the outcome, and help to increase
their accountability . But mediation is designed to be a relatively
informal process, and you could undermine this by pushing too hard.
It's time to bring the mediation to a close. Give the participants copies of
the agreed statement, and clearly explain what will be expected from
them once they're back in the workplace.
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them. Summarize the next steps, offer your continued support as a
mediator, and thank both parties for their help and cooperation.
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This is the time for active listening. Put down your differences
for awhile and listen to each other with the intention to
understand.
Separate the naming of interests from the listing of solutions.
3. List the possible solutions (options)
This is the time to do some brainstorming. There may be lots of
room for creativity.
Separate the listing of options from the evaluation of the
options.
4. Evaluate the options.
What are the pluses and minuses? Honestly!
Separate the evaluation of options from the selection of
options.
5. Select an option or options.
What’s the best option, in the balance?
Is there a way to “bundle” a number of options together for a
more satisfactory solution?
6. Document the agreement(s).
Don’t rely on memory.
Writing it down will help you think through all the details and
implications.
7. Agree on contingencies, monitoring, and evaluation.
Conditions may change. Make contingency agreements about
foreseeable future circumstances (If-then!).
How will you monitor compliance and follow-through?
Create opportunities to evaluate the agreements and their
implementation. (“Let’s try it this way for three months and
then look at it.”)
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Effective problem solving does take some time and attention more
of the latter than the former. But less time and attention than is
required by a problem not well solved. What it really takes is a
willingness to slow down. A problem is like a curve in the road. Take
it right and you’ll find yourself in good shape for the straightaway
that follows. Take it too fast and you may not be in as good shape.
Working through this process is not always a strictly linear exercise.
You may have to cycle back to an earlier step. For example, if you’re
having trouble selecting an option, you may have to go back to
thinking about the interests.
This process can be used in a large group, between two people, or
by one person who is faced with a difficult decision. The more
difficult and important the problem, the more helpful and necessary
it is to use a disciplined process. If you’re just trying to decide
where to go out for lunch, you probably don’t need to go through
these seven steps.
key problem-solving skills :-
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4. Communication skills :-Problem solvers should also possess
great communication skills. The ability to effectively relay complex
information thoroughly yet succinctly is a huge benefit for employers
working in fast-paced environments.
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important to the business will lead to better decision-making and
business impact.
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anticipate problems that will arise in the future based on trends,
patterns, experience, and current events.
4.2 :- EMPATHY
4.2.1 :- CARING :-
What does caring mean in the workplace?
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Compassion, which means “co-suffering”, is a positive emotion that
allows people to show that they care and are willing to help. Combining
care, empathy, and love, being compassionate helps alleviate the
suffering of others.
7) Check the motivation behind your decisions, your words, and your
behavior.
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Compassion helps us connect with others, mend relationships, and move
forward while fostering emotional intelligence and well-being.
Compassion takes empathy one step further because it harbors a desire for
all people to be free from suffering, and it's imbued with a desire to help.
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4.2.3 :-DIPLOMACY
Why it is important :-
Diplomacy skills are a highly valued skill for professionals across industries,
as these skills improve workplace relationships and develop mutual
respect among teammates, helping to eliminate workplace conflicts. It
helps boost the team's morale and hone your leadership skills, helping you
advance in your career.
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1)Choose the right time and place for difficult conversations.
2) Start with a positive comment.
3) Emphasize your own perspective.
4) Offer a solution to any problem you raise.
5)Focus on the good of the company.
6) Rephrase negative statements in more positive terms.
4.2.4-DIVERSITY :-
1) Diversity in the workplace means the acceptance and inclusion of
employees of all backgrounds. A diverse workplace is an important asset,
since it acknowledges the individual strengths of each employee and the
potential they bring.
2) Diversity in the workplace refers to an organization that intentionally
employs a workforce comprised of individuals with a range of
characteristics, such as gender, religion, race, age, ethnicity, sexual
orientation, education, and other attributes.
Examples of Diversity :- Examples of internal diversity include race,
ethnicity, age, nation of origin, gender identity, sexual orientation, or
physical ability.
3) Why is diversity in workplace important?
A) Research has found that diversifying your team can boost productivity
by 35%..
B) A diverse workforce is more likely to understand your customers'
needs and come up with ideas to fulfill them.
C) Diversity in the workplace will also increase employee morale and
instill a desire to be more effective and work more efficiently.
4) How do you show diversity in the workplace?
Strategies to Promote Inclusiveness:-
1)Acknowledge Differences.
2)Offer Implicit Bias Training -- for Everyone.
3) Provide Mentors.
4) Let People Learn by Doing.
5) Encourage Personal Evaluation.
6) Ask Questions.
7) Value All Diversity.
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5) How do you promote diversity?
What are the best ways to promote diversity?
1)Educate Managers on the Benefits of Diversity in the Workplace.
2)Create More Inclusive Workplace Policies.
3) Communicate Clearly and Create Employee-Led Task Forces.
4) Offer Meaningful Opportunities for Employee Engagement.
5) Create Mentor ship Programs.
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3) How can we help others in the workplace?
Below are some key ways to give support to your colleagues and make
your workplace a happier place to work.
1)Use strong communication. Strong communication is the foundation
of many successful teams. ...
2)Be aware of obstacles and challenges. ...
3) Be generous with time. ...
4) Build relationships. ...
5) Be kind and inspire positivity.
4) Why is it important to help others in a team?
Research shows that collaborative problem solving leads to better
outcomes. People are more likely to take calculated risks that lead to
innovation if they have the support of a team behind them. Working in a
team encourages personal growth, increases job satisfaction, and
reduces stress.
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1) What does kindness mean in the workplace?
In workplaces where acts of kindness become the norm, the spillover
effects can multiply fast. When people receive an act of kindness, they
pay it back, research shows — and not just to the same person, but
often to someone entirely new. This leads to a culture of generosity in
an organization.
2) Being kind in the workplace creates a ripple effect. It impacts the
general level of positivity, boosts your mood and it's contagious as the
good feelings it promotes make people likely to 'pay it forward'. Plus,
it's officially good for your health.
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Within a busy office environment, it can often be easy for managers to
miss signs of poor mental health in the workplace. According to
the latest Government statistics, 595,000 workers suffered from work-
related stress, depression or anxiety during 2017 / 2018, resulting in
15.4 million lost working days.
Workload – 44%
Lack of support – 14%
Bullying – 13%
Changes at work – 8%
This is a shocking statistic, and shows the critical need for initiatives to
improve mental health in the workplace.
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Encouraging kindness in the workplace
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4)How do you explain patience as a skill?
Patience is the ability to stay calm while you wait. The modern world
provides lots of opportunities to wait - in traffic, in line at the store, for a ride
home, etc. It makes sense to be patient, but it is a skill we have to practice
because the modern world also promises instant gratification.
4.2.8 :-RESPECT :-
1)Respect is the feeling of regarding someone well for their qualities or
traits, but respect can also be the action of treating people with
appreciation and dignity. A respectful attitude should be standard in the
workplace regardless of personal feelings.
2) What respect means in the workplace?
Respect is the act of showing appreciation for someone's traits or
qualities or treating people with dignity and gratitude. An attitude of
respect should come as standard in the workplace regardless of any
personal feelings.
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Respond in a timely manner. ...
Go the extra mile.
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involves learning to be respectful and consider the perspectives of others
while increasing communication.
2) What is the importance of sensitivity and diversity training in the
workplace?
Sensitivity training helps employees to be more sensitive and accepting
of the existing diversity in the workplace. It enhances understanding
between members of the organization and enables building good
interpersonal relationships with other team members.
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2)What is the importance of sympathy?
A)Sympathy keeps the person at a distance, while someone expressing
empathy towards another allows them to really step in and take hold of
the other person's feelings. Some people are better showing empathy
and compassion than others, and there are those who just cannot show
it at all.
B)It allows you to show you value what the other person is feeling and
support them.
C)By expressing sympathy you can help create a more open and
communicative environment where employees feel safe and heard.
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