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RE 2044 Sala
Present Situation
No one just lives in a society.
Work is a very important aspect of our life.
Life at school is very much concerned with work.
The work of many people has made it possible for school to exist.
We pay fees because of work.
Work makes workers to be employed.
Your work is possible because of your past and other people’s work in the past.
Your work helps to decide what you and others will be able to do in the future.
Work enables us live decently and enjoy the benefits and conveniences of modern society.
The work of many people together is needed.
We need each other’s work.
Our work is interdependent.
Pay the labourer his wages before his sweat gets dry.
Work is honourable.
The employer should not act unjustly and unkindly towards his employee.
The master should feed the servant out of what he eats himself and clothe him out of what he
clothes himself with.
He should pardon his servant seventy times every day.
A servant who serves his master sincerely shall have double reward.
The employer should settle the wages with the servant.
He experienced:
the suffering and misery of the labourers.
their low wages and long hour of work.
their inhuman working conditions.
their lack of security and child labour.
He wanted to:
eliminate the causes of suffering and misery of the workers.
improve the conditions of the workers.
use ability to the fullest
develop talents
make full use of the earth
A true Marxist-Leninist is one who believes that:
all progress can be achieved by conflicts.
we can be redeemed from selfishness by abolishing private ownership.
society and nature develop themselves
individuals have little value apart from their contribution to the collective group.
evil is caused by wrong and harmful circumstances around us in class struggle.
revolution is needed to bring about a classless society.
Traditional Zambian attitudes towards work
Work was part and parcel of everyday life.
Work was divided according to sex, age and rank.
Most work was communal.
Work was related to the basic needs of life.
A person decided when to work or when not to work.
Everybody was a worker.
Generally women worked harder than men.
CHURCH HISTORY
Monasteries contributed much to society through work
Monasteries grew up with people who dedicated their lives to God.
They lived a life of prayer and work.
Their example and service to others had a great effect on the society.
Work became something good, honourable and not just a burden.
Contributions of monasteries towards work:
They taught people proper methods of farming,
They offered education to the people,
They cared for the old and the sick.
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Exodus 20:8-11
Keep the Sabbath holy.
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Jeremiah 22:13-17
Shame on the man who builds his house by injustice.
And enlarges it by dishonesty.
Makes his people work for nothing
Does not pay their wages
who says I will build myself a big house
Put windows, panel it with cedar and paint it red.
Do houses with cedar make him better king or finer than those for others?
Your father enjoyed life.
He was always just and fair.
He prospered in everything he did.
He gave the poor a fair trial and all was good with him.
You can only see your selfish interests.
You kill the innocent and oppress people.
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Meaning
Some people in authority make people work hard without paying them.
Such cruel treatment of the workers is not condoned.
Ezra 3:7-9
People gave money to pay the stonemasons
The money was also meant to pay the carpenters.
Stonemasons and carpenters were also given food, drink and olive-oil
To be sent to the cities of Tyre and Sidon
in exchange for cedar-trees from Lebanon,
Which were to be brought by sea to Joppa.
All this was done with the permission of Cyrus.
When they came back to the site of the Temple,
They began to work.
Zerubbabel, Joshua, and their fellow Israelites, priests and Levites started the work.
The work of rebuilding the Temple of Jerusalem.
Joshua, his sons, relatives and Kadmid and his sons were responsible.
Meaning
We should work all together
Cooperation is needed for building the nation.
Matthew 25:14-30
Before leaving for a trip, a landowner puts three servants
in charge of his property according to their abilities …
The first received 5,000 coins, the second 2,000, the third 1,000…
The first servant invested his coins and earned another 5,000…
The second servant did likewise and earned another 2,000…
The third servant hid his 1,000…
The landowner came back and settled accounts…
The first and second servant handed over their money doubled…
The landowner said, “well done good and faithful servants;
be in charge of large amounts; share my happiness…”
The third servant said, “You are a hard man;
you reap when you did not plant;
you gather crops where you did not scatter seed, so I hid your money; here it is.”…
The landowner said, “You are bad and lazy.
You should have banked the money to receive interest…
Give his money to the first servant…
He who has something, more will be given him…
He who has nothing, even the little he has will be taken away…
Throw the third servant in the darkness; he will cry and gnash his teeth.
Meaning
We need to work to develop our talent.
If we fail, we will lose it.
Matthew 25:31-46
When the son of man comes like a king and sits on his throne,
all the nations will be gathered before him…
He will divide them into two groups: goats and sheep,
the righteous on the right and the others on the left.
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Mark 6:30-34
The apostles told Jesus all they had done and taught.
There were many people
Jesus and his disciples did not have time to eat.
Jesus said let us go to some place
Where we can rest for a while
They started out in a boat
Many people saw them leave
They ran ahead by land
And arrived ahead of Jesus and his disciples
Jesus saw this large crowd
His heart was filled with pity for them
He began to teach them.
Meaning
We need rest after work but if people need us, we should work.
EXAMINATION-TYPE QUESTIONS
(i) The institution of the Sabbath and the presence of the prophets help to protect the Israelites
from being exploited. Give the content of two passages from Exodus and Jeremiah
that support this statement.
(ii) Illustrate how a serious respect for the Sabbath and the teaching of Jeremiah might
help develop Christian’s attitudes towards work today.
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Present Situation
It is easier to explain what injustice is.
There are times when we are punished unjustly for things we did not do because of being young or
of not being in authority.
Injustice within Social Systems
Society at times justifies certain practices, which in actual fact are unjust.
The following are some of the injustices that are present in the world today.
Bribery: the offer of money or gift to bring about something illegal or dishonest benefit to the
giver.
Blackmail: a threat to expose information about someone in order to obtain money or a favour.
Abortion: destroy the life of a baby before its birth.
Nepotism: favouritism to relatives by allocating jobs, promotions, loans, scholarships.
Tribalism: favouritism to those belonging to ones own tribe.
Absenteeism: being away from work without good reasons.
The search for Justice demands an INFORMED VISION
If we want to become sincere in our search for justice we must put aside personal feelings and
opinions and work at arriving at an informed vision.
The word informed means to have all the information, details and truth about the subject or problem.
The word vision means the ability to see into the future.
The steps to follow if we are to arrive at an informed vision:
Try to understand how thing really are.
Consider how they could be.
Do something to make things better.
Champions of justice
There have always been people who have seen unjust situations in society and changed them.
DOM HELDER CAMARA
Camara an archbishop of Brazil fought for justice for the poor of his country.
A small percentage of its people owned a big percentage of its wealth.
Camara spoke strongly against the government that seemed to keep the poor poor and seemed to
make the rich richer.
He believed in non-violence.
His views were about to liberate the poor from their misery.
He believed more strongly in the power of truth, justice and love.
He said that violence was not the real answer to violence.
He said the only true answer to violence is to have the courage to face the injustices.
CHIEF ALBERT TUTHULI
He joined the African National Congress Party of South Africa in 1940’s.
He was in his forties at that time.
He was elected president of the Natal Branch of the ANC in 1952.
He worked in the defiance campaign against unjust racialist laws.
He encouraged people to enter doors marked for the racial groups to sit in offices and on benches
for Europeans only.
He was also a believer of non-violence.
He became president General of the ANC in 1961.
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CHURCH HISTORY
Slavery in the Early Church
Slave status no longer counted in Church.
Christians were encouraged to free their slaves.
Several freed slaves became priests and bishops and one a pope.
The church accepted marriage between slaves as valid unlike the Roman laws.
Why slavery was not abolished in the fourth century?
The church was becoming rich and powerful.
When the empire became officially Christian bishops and clergy were given privileges.
It would upset the whole way of life.
Rich people preferred things to remain as they were.
Rich people lived a comfortable life.
Slavery died in the west during the medieval period.
At this time the position of the poorest peasants was little better than that of slaves.
They were unable to move from the land they cultivated without permission.
The peasants had rights which slaves did not.
The disappearance of slavery had to do with Christianity.
The African Slave Trade
Sailors from Portugal and Spain traveled to unknown areas in the 15th century.
The Portuguese went to India and the Far East via the African coast.
The Spanish went westward to the Americas.
Both the Spanish and Portuguese took land in the America’s and settled there.
The Portuguese found gold in Africa and also started the slave trade.
They took the slaves to Brazil and America and made them work on their farms and plantations.
The slaves from West Africa were also taken and sold to the Arabs of North Africa.
St. Peter Claver was a Spanish priest who was the greatest friend of the slaves.
He spent whole his life trying to help them.
He would take medicine and food for them when they first arrived.
He did his best to get the slave owners to treat their slaves well.
He visited the plantations and mines where they worked.
He helped them.
He taught them the Christian faith.
He arranged care for the sick.
He worked like this for forty years.
He met with a lot of opposition from slave owners.
His kindness made many slaves accept the Christian faith.
2Samuel 12:1-13
Nathan said to David, “There were two men,
one rich and the other poor.
The rich man had cattle and sheep.
The poor man had one lamb,
which he treated like a daughter.
The rich man took the poor man’s lamb to feed a visitor.”
David said, “The rich man ought to die
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Amos 5:21-24
The Lord says, “I hate your religious festivals.
I cannot stand them
I will not accept your burnt offerings and your grain
I will neither accept your animals you bring as offering.
Stop your songs; I do not listen to your harps.
Let justice flow like a stream and righteousness like a river.
Isaiah 1:10-17
Jerusalem, you are like Sodom and Gomorrah.
Listen to God’s teaching.
God: “I do not want your sacrifices of sheep,
Fat of animals nor your blood of bulls, sheep and goats.
Who asked you to bring these things in my Temple?
I do not want your offerings, your incense,
I hate your New Moon festivals, your Sabbaths, and your religious gatherings
They are corrupted by your sins.
I will not listen to your prayers
Your hands are covered with blood.
Wash yourself from evil;
Learn to do right;
Be just towards the oppressed, widows and orphans.”
Meaning
People follow the law to the letter forgetting about interior disposition, motives and love.
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Sacrifices offered to God and acts of worship cannot be accepted if not accompanied by just
treatment of others.
Isaiah 58:1-10
The Lord: “Tell Israel about their sins!
They worship me and say they want to obey my laws which they want as just.”
The people: “Why fast if the Lord does not notice?”
The Lord: “As you fast you oppress workers…
Your fast makes you quarrel and fight; can I listen to your prayers, then?…
You bow your heads, wear sackcloth and lie on ashes;
Am I pleased with that kind of fasting?…
Remove oppression and injustice…
Feed the hungry, welcome the homeless,
clothe the naked and help your relatives…
Then I will favour, save and protect you…
When you pray and call me, I will answer…
Then will darkness turn to light.”
Isaiah 11:1-5
A royal line of David is like a tree that has been cut down.
A new king will arise from David’s descendants
like a new branch comes from a cut tree.
The Lord will give him wisdom
and knowledge and skill to rule his people.
He will have wisdom, know the Lord’s will and honour him.
He will obey God
He will not judge wrongly
He will judge the poor fairly
and defend the helpless.
At his command evil people will be punished.
He will rule with justice and integrity.
Meaning
Injustice will still prevail in the world.
But there is always hope, because of wise teachings.
There is need to be friends of the poor and helpless.
Mark 12:38-40
Jesus: Watch out for the teachers of the Law
Who like to wear long robes and receive respectful greetings…?
Who choose reserved seats in the synagogues?
and the best seats at feasts…
They take advantage of widows and rob them of their homes;
make a show of long prayers. Their punishment will be bad.
Matthew 23:1-4, 23
Jesus spoke to the crowds and to his disciples
Jesus: The teachers of the law and the Pharisees interpret Moses’ law…
Obey and follow what they tell you but do not imitate them
Because they do not practice what they preach…
They give people heavy loads but do not help carry them.
You are hypocrites, teachers of the law and Pharisees;
you follow unimportant laws yet are not just’ merciful or honest.
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Meaning
Some religious leaders are hypocrites noted through their actions which are contrary to their preaching.
Luke 18:9-14
Jesus told this parable to people who thought they were good but hated others.
A Pharisee and a tax collector went to the Temple to pray…
The Pharisee stood apart by himself and prayed
Thank you God that I am not greedy,dishonest, or an adulterer like others.
I am not like the tax collector…
I fast two days a week
I give you a tenth of my income…
Tax collector faced down, but beat on his breast
And said, God have pity on me, a sinner…
Jesus: The tax collector was right with God.
Everyone who makes himself great will be humbled;
Everyone who humbles himself will be made great.
Meaning
The exterior laws are more important to some religious leaders than being honest.
They observed laws, prayed and fast, paid church taxes.
Failed to treat people honestly.
Took advantage of the poor widows.
Matthew 5:21-48
Jesus: in the past people said do not murder.
Do not get angry or insult anyone. Offer a gift to God
after reconciliation with your offenders.
Settle a dispute with someone out of court.
It was said: no adultery;
it is better to lose a right eye and hand than have them cause sin.
Those who divorce and remarry commit adultery.
It was said: Keep your vows. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.
I say no revenge. If you are slapped on the right cheek,
present the left cheek. If someone sues for your shirt,
let him also have your coat.
If you are forced to carry someone’s pack for one kilometer,
carry it two. Give and lend when asked to.
I say love your enemies, pray for persecutors.
God gives sun and rain to both good and evil.
You must be perfect just as your father in heaven.
Meaning
We are taught that loving one another can create true justice, not following laws.
James 2:1-19
Do not treat people according to outward appearances…
Do not treat a well-dressed rich man better than a poorly dressed poor man…
If so, you are guilty of making distinctions and having evil motives…
The poor are rich in faith; you dishonour them. The rich oppress you and speak evil of you…
Obey Scripture: “Love your neighbour as you love yourself.”
If you treat people according to outward appearances, you break the law and sin…
It takes only one sin to break the entire law…
Speak and act like those set free by the law (New Covenant);
no mercy from God to those who have not shown mercy…
Faith without good actions is useless…
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If someone needs clothes or food, do not just tell him nice words…
There is no faith without actions…
Demons also believe that there is one God.
Meaning
Justice towards the poor is part and parcel of the church’s message.
A challenge in us is to express our faith in action.
THEME: Life
SUB-THEME: Happiness
Present Situation
All people across the globe want to be happy.
Levels of happiness
People are happy when they:
find themselves in good condition.
Get plenty of food and drink.
Popular in school or society.
Achieve their goals.
Get approval
They are able to achieve what they want.
They are with people they love.
They have trusted friends.
All levels of human development
In our search for happiness there must be a balance of all the following needs.
Material: growth, good health, and clothing.
Cultural: education, language, customs, and tradition.
Moral: freedom, honesty, and responsibility.
Spiritual: worship, faith, and commitment.
Pleasure V Happiness
Pleasure is the satisfaction of needs.
We have many needs and they cannot be satisfied.
Happiness is the sense of inner peace that comes from:
Using ones intelligence to set adequate goals in life.
Satisfying only those needs that help achieve one’s goals.
Sacrificing those needs that go against one’s deepest values.
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Hindu Happiness
True peace comes only when one is liberated from the cycle of rebirth.
This liberation is called Moksha or absolute freedom.
At the end of earthly life an individual soul joins the infinite Brahman.
Not everyone attains Moksha at death.
Only those who have cast away desire, fear and anger.
There are four major paths that lead to Moksha.
The four paths that lead to Moksha
Muslim Happiness
Importance of Mecca to a Muslim:
The climax is to go on a pilgrimage to Mecca. It takes place in the twelfth month of the Muslim
year.
Those who go on this pilgrimage are given the title ‘Hajji’.
Mecca is the religious centre of Islam.
It was the first sanctuary appointed by god.
Abraham and his son Ishmael prayed there.
Hagar found water there when she ran away from Abraham’s home.
It is the only town where The Ka’aba is found, the holiest shrine of the Muslims.
Muslim happiness
All ranks and status are ignored at Mecca.
Everyone wears a long, white garment.
Women wear a veil that covers them completely.
There is a sign of brotherly (and sisterly) equality.
Pilgrims go round the Ka’aba seven times.
They kiss the black stone if possible.
They run to two nearby hills imitating the frantic search of Ishmael’s mother for water.
Most days are spent fasting from dawn to sunset.
All prayers are said to express total submission to God.
Part of the pilgrimage is the celebration of a feast called ‘Id of Sacrifice.’
This is an expression of joy.
A goat or a sheep is killed and offered in sacrifice.
The Imam preaches explaining the duty and the meaning of the sacrifice.
African Traditional
African societies have believed and taught their children that happiness lies in:
Having many wives and disciplined children.
Having land that produces good harvests.
Being in good relationship with ancestral spirits.
Being good warriors and victorious in tribal wars.
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CHURCH HISTORY
What is Salvation?
Jesus helping to fight selfishness, the root of poverty.
Jesus offering happiness after death.
Jesus feeding them and healing their diseases.
Jesus reminding them of their dignity as children of the father.
Jesus’ teaching happiness is serving others.
Cyprian: Bishop of Carthage
I was so entangled by many errors of my former life.
I could not believe it possible to escape from them.
But this stain is washed away by the water of birth.
Light is poured from above in my heart.
I had drunk the spirit from heaven.
The second birth had restored me.
It made me a new man.
Then doubts began to be resolved.
Closed doors to open
Dark places to grow light.
What had seemed difficult was now easy.
What impossible now capable of accomplishment.
Ignatius of Antioch
He was bishop and ex-slave.
He was martyred in Rome.
He was treated cruelly by soldiers who took him to Rome.
But he found time to write letters of greeting and encouragement.
He was jubilant for the church of Magnesia.
He prayed for union in their midst.
A union based on faith and love.
A union with Jesus and the father.
Suffering and Happiness
Some Christians remained faithful to God.
They lived in joyful fellowship with him.
The Ugandan Martyrs
Their executioners mocked them about their faith.
They believed they will rise from the dead.
They continued to sing hymns, singing God’s praise.
Their courage and calmness astonished those who burnt them.
St. Monica
She was able to discuss eternal life before her death.
Her only desire was to see her son Augustine a catholic before her death.
She was very happy now he was a servant of God.
She asked her son to remember her at the table of the Lord.
Traditional ways questioned
The missionaries needed a lot of courage and renunciation.
Because there was no cure for malaria and other disease, many of them died early.
They preached self-sacrifice because they practiced it.
They taught happiness that expressed Christian values.
They did not understand the rituals nor the culture.
Some missionaries acted like colonial government.
Some missionaries was forbade alcohol among their converts.
Others educated people to be moderate and responsible.
The SDA’s made renunciation of alcohol a dogma.
They did not allow their converts to take part in beer parties or any ritual that used beer.
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Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
Nothing can happen without God allowing it
He sets the time for birthdays and deaths.
The time for planting and the time for pulling up.
The time for killing and the time for healing.
The time for tearing and the time for building.
The time for sorrow and the time for joy.
The time for mourning and the time for dancing.
The time for making love and the time for not making love.
The time for love and the time for hate
The time for finding and the time for losing
The time for saving and the time for throwing away.
The time for tearing and the time for mending
The time for silence and the time for talk
Meaning
Life has problems.
There can be unrest and failures
God is at work in our lives.
Working through good and bad actions.
Working through nature and circumstances.
God offer us the fullest possibility of reaching happiness.
We are free to respond to God in love and gratitude
Psalm 37
Seeking Happiness in God
Do not be worried on account of the wicked.
Do not be jealous of those who do wrong.
They will soon disappear like grass that dies up.
They will die like plants that wither.
Seek happiness in the Lord.
He will give you your heart’s desire.
Give yourself to the Lord.
Trust in him and he will help you.
He will make your righteousness shine.
Be patient and wait for the Lord to act…
Those who trust in the Lord will possess the land,
but the wicked will be driven out.
The Lord guides people in the way they should go…
Turn away from evil and do good.
Meaning
The good brings happiness, peace and prosperity.
The wicked will be destroyed and their prosperity will be short lived.
Jeremiah 30:10-22
No full happiness without God
My people do not be afraid.
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Jeremiah 2:1-13
Return to God
The Lord told me to proclaim this message to all in Jerusalem.
I remember how faithful you were when you were young.
How you loved me when we were first married.
You followed me through the desert.
Israel, you belonged to me alone.
I sent suffering and disaster on every one who hurt you.
Listen to God’s message, you descendants of Jacob.
What made your ancestors turn against me.
They worshipped useless idols
They did not care about me, even though I rescued t6hem from Egypt.
I brought them into fertile land.
My own priests did not know me.
My own people have exchanged me for God that can do nothing for them.
They have turne4d away from me, the spring of fresh water.
They have dug cisterns, cracked cisterns, that can hold no water.
Meaning
To be spiritually poor means to admit that we do not have all the answers.
That education and science develop us, but there is someone greater.
To mourn means to admit that we are sinners.
That we contribute to the suffering of others.
We admit that we cause suffering
We come before God and people to ask for forgiveness.
To be humble means to look at others with respect.
We need to seek God’s guidance in our daily life.
We pray to God for wisdom and generosity.
To be merciful means that we need to be friendly
and heal broken relationships.
We also need to encourage the good in others.
To be pure in heart means to be consistent.
To be honest with oneself and others.
To control anger, greed and selfishness.
To be working for peace means fighting against all forms of injustice.
To be persecuted means to be faithful and generous even in times of sufferings.
It means being a Christian at the cost of pain and unpopularity.
John 16:16-22
Gladness after Resurrection
In a little while you will not see me anymore.
And then a little later you will see me.
The disciples asked among themselves what Jesus meant.
Jesus: ‘You will cry and weep,
but the world will be glad.
You will be sad, but your sadness will turn into gladness.
When a woman is about to give birth she is sad
because her hour of suffering has come.
When the baby is born she forgets her suffering.
Now you are sad, but I will see you again.
Your hearts will be filled with gladness.
The kind of gladness that no one can take away from you.
Meaning
Jesus gives hope of the kingdom that will grow after his death.
Suffering and difficulties are a part of following Jesus.
Jesus will give us peace and joy that no one can steal.
Philippians 4:4-7
Attitudes that lead to Happiness
May you always be joyful in your union with the Lord.
Show a gentle attitude towards everyone.
The Lord is coming soon.
Do not worry about anything, but ask God for what you need.
Always ask him with a thankful heart.
God’s peace which is beyond human understanding will keep your hearts and mind safe.
Meaning
The central concern and goal in life is rejoicing in God.
As we grow in Christ, our prayer becomes full of praise and thanks.
In doing so we will be filled with God’s peace.
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Luke 19:1-10
New way of life
Jesus went on into Jericho and was passing through.
There was a chief tax collector named Zacchaeus.
He was trying to see who Jesus was, but was a little man.
So he ran ahead of the crowd and climbed a tree.
Hurry down Zacchaeus, because I must stay in your house today.
All the people who saw it started grumbling.
This man has gone as a guest to the home of a sinner.
Zacchaeus said to Jesus, ‘I will give half my belongings to the poor.
And if I have cheated anyone,
I will pay him, back four times,
Jesus said: Salvation has come to this house today.
The son of man came to seek and to save the lost.
Meaning
Some people have the desire to change their way of living.
Jesus accepted them because they repent.
Salvation comes to their house.
1 Corinthians 13.
Love is the basis for happiness
I may speak the languages of human beings and of angels,
but if I have no love my speech is useless.
I may have all knowledge and understand all secrets.
I may have all the faith to move mountains.
But if I have no love, I am nothing.
I may give away everything I have.
I may give my body to be burnt.
But if I have no love, it does me no good.
Love is patient and kind.
Love is not ill mannered or selfish.
Love does not keep records of wrong.
Love never gives up.
Its faith, hope and patience never fail.
Meaning
The way to happiness is to live the way of love.
The love he talks about is the type of love Jesus lived.
He proved his love by being willing to die
for the happiness of enemies and sinners.
Present Situation
It explores the journey persons take as they pick out another person
With whom they choose to totally share in themselves in faithful love
And with whom they bring forth and nourish new life.
It studies the question of marriage
and the prior steps that lead to the possibility of a successful marriage.
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More Freedom
Today there is more free association between boys and girls.
The young insist on personal choice of a marriage partner.
The younger generation feels that the extended family can be a source of stress and tension.
They also recognise the values of sharing, commitment, community and love.
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Quality of a wife
She is kind and loving
She is obedient.
listens to what the husband says.
Can look after the home and possessions.
She is able to discuss the problems in the house.
Able to keep secrets.
Not quarrelsome.
Welcomes visitors.
Hardworking and preferably employed.
Qualities of a Husband
He has good relationship with everybody.
People like to visit his home
He likes to go out with his wife
He is kind.
He has self-control.
He respects the wife and treats her well.
Has the same religion so that the two are guided by the same values.
He is faithful to his wife.
Has the same interest as his wife.
Shares many things together.
Has true love.
Cares for the family and its needs.
His wife is a partner, not a servant.
Findings of social science regarding the qualities needed to have a good marriage
Physical beauty is important but fragile.
Good character is more important than physical beauty.
Partners must have the ability to communicate with each other.
Should have same values.
Should have love for family life.
Should be responsible, dependable, generous, understanding, attentive, sympathetic.
Both partners need to be honest about their health.
Misconduct or immoral behaviour does not change after a marriage ceremony.
Marriages succeed when both partners are good people.
Marriage problems
Not much sharing
Never pray together
Do not go to church
Sexually rough with the partner
Unfaithfulness.
Polygamy.
Hindu Practices
90% of the marriages are arranged by parents.
Even educated Hindus prefer this kind of marriages because they are safe.
Those who fall in love consult their parents.
Marriage is considered as a very holy ceremony.
It is not a contract between two families.
It keeps morality high in Hindu society.
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Divorce
It is largely unheard of or unthinkable.
Being faithful to one another is the greatest commandment in the Hindu code of ethics.
The bond of marriage can be broken only by death.
If there are problems in marriage the duty of parents is to make children come to terms and start
again.
Most problems arise from the husband’s bad behaviour.
A true Hindu wife will resort to prayer, fasting and sacrifice as a first step.
The second step is Ahimsa – non-violence.
She treats her husband with greater love and devotion.
Muslim marriage
It is commitment to one another and to God.
Couples hope to find mutual self-fulfillment and self-realization, love, peace, compassion,
serenity, comfort and hope.
Man finds comfort and rest in his spouse.
Man is fortunate to choose his wife for piety in preference to all else.
The husband’s obligation
He must treat his wife with kindness
He must maintain her fully and do this cheerfully, without reproach, injury or condescension.
Maintenance includes lodging, clothing, nourishing, and general care and well being.
Respect her need for permanence, for security, and for being respected in her inner feelings.
The wife’s obligations
She contributes to the success and happiness of the marriage.
She is attentive to the comfort and well being of her partner.
She is honest, faithful and trustworthy.
She keeps herself attractive, responsive and co-operative.
The dowry
The woman has a right to demand a dowry.
If she wishes, she may accept him without a dowry.
The right to a dowry assures the woman she is wanted and needed.
It is a way of preventing the man from entering marriage for material motives.
Divorce
Three steps need to precede any divorce.
The two partners must try to settle the dispute between themselves.
If they fail, two arbitrators, one from the husband’s and the other from the wife’s family must try
to make peace.
If this fails, a divorce may take place.
But there is a waiting period of three to twelve months.
The husband continues supporting the wife. Neither can marry during this period.
AFRICAN TRADITIONAL
Tradition marriage
Marriage is a means of bearing children for the family, lineage or clan.
To bear many children was important at a time when there was a high mortality rate.
Marriage was an alliance.
Marriage was within the clan.
It brought together two different families.
It strengthened the bonds in society.
It was not primarily the concern of two individuals.
It was the concern of two entire families.
The bond took time to give the relatives time to know and respect one another.
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CHURCH HISTORY
Genesis 2:18-25
Willed by God
It is not good for man to live alone.
I will make a suitable companion to help him.
So God took some soil from the ground and formed all the animals and birds.
He brought them to man to see what he would name them.
So man named the birds and the animals.
But not one of them was a suitable companion to help him.
Then God made man fall into a deep sleep.
While he was sleeping he took out one rib.
He formed a woman out of the rib and brought her to him.
Then man said, ‘at last, here is one of my own kind.
Bone taken from my bone, and flesh from my flesh.
Woman is her name because she was taken out of man.
That is why a man leaves his father and mother
and is united with his wife and they become one.
Meaning
One of our deepest needs is to escape loneliness and isolation.
No amount of material possession can take the place of companionship.
Only a member of the opposite sex can offer such a companionship.
This relationship must be permanent, faithful and loyal until death.
A man must leave his father and mother and make a lifelong commitment to his wife.
Deuteronomy 24:1
Divorce at first
Suppose a man marries a woman
and later decides that he does not want her,
because he finds something about her that he does not like.
So he writes out divorce papers.
Gives them to her
and sends her away from her house.
Meaning
Learning to love is a slow process.
Malachi 2:13-16
No divorce
You ask why God no longer accepts your offerings.
It is because he knows that you have broken your promise to the wife you married.
She was your partner,
and you have broken your promise.
The promise you made to her before God that you would be faithful.
Didn’t God make you one body and spirit with her?
It was that you should have children who are truly God’s people.
So make sure that none of you break your promise.
I hate divorce.
I hate it when one of you does such a cruel thing to his wife.
Make sure do not break your promise.
Be faithful to your wife.
Meaning
Love can be confused with infatuation.
Real love is to spend one’s life for the other.
It includes keeping of promises.
It demands generosity, courage, and faithfulness.
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Hosea 2:1-3:1
A good marriage relationship
Jezreel will be a great day
so call your fellow-Israelites “God’s people
and “Loved by the Lord.”
My children, plead with your mother
though she is no longer a wife to me,
and I am no longer her husband.
Plead with her to stop her adultery and prostitution.
If she does not, I will strip her as naked as
she was on the day she was born.
I will make her like a dry and barren land,
and she will die of thirst.
The Lord said to me.
Go again and show your love for a woman
Who is committing adultery with a lover.
You must love her just as I still love the people of Israel,
even though they turn to other gods
and like to take offerings of raisins to idols.
Meaning
The love of God for his people is faithful and forgiving
God loves us because God chooses to do so.
Even when we betray, God continues to love us.
He pursues us, leads us to see our illusions.
When we repent he welcomes us back.
It is this kind of love God wants to be present in a marriage relationship.
Love must be true, faithful and permanent.
John 4:16-19
Jesus heals
Jesus: Go and call your husband and come back.
Woman: I haven’t got a husband.
Jesus: you are right when you say you haven’t got a husband.
You have been married to five men.
The man you live with now is not really your husband.
You have told me the truth.
Woman: I see you are a prophet sir.
Meaning
The woman is incapable of true married love.
There is no permanence in her relationship.
Jesus offers the opportunity of healing her relationship with God.
This will enable her in developing a mature and faithful relationship with her husband
John 8:1-11
Be faithful
The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman
who was caught committing adultery.
They made her stand before them all.
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“Teacher” they said to Jesus, “ this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery.
In our law Moses commanded that such a woman must be stoned to death.
Now what do you say”
Jesus bent down and wrote on the ground with his fingers.
He said, “Which ever one of you has committed no sin may throw the first stone at her.”
When they heard this they all left.
Jesus said, “Where are they? Is there no one left to condemn you?”
‘No one Sir, ‘she said, “I do not condemn you either.
Go, but do not sin again.’
Meaning
The law forbids adultery.
Faithful married life leads to happiness.
Ephesians 5:21-23
Genuine love and understanding
Submit yourself to one another,
because of your reverence for Christ.
Wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord.
A husband has authority over his wife
Just like Christ has authority over the Church;
Christ is the saviour of the Church his body.
Meaning
Christian life is about living for the good of the loved one.
Christ brought this fuller life and happiness to the people through his teaching and healing.
He even sacrificed his life.
His love is the model for married couples.
It is the responsibility of the husband to lead by example.
Mark 10:1-12
Ideal of Monogamy
Some Pharisees came to Jesus and tried to trap him.
Tell us they asked, “Does the law allow a man to divorce his wife?
What law did Moses give you?
Moses gave permission for a man to write a divorce notice and send his wife away.
Jesus said, Moses wrote this law for you because you are so hard to teach.
But in the beginning, at the time of creation,
God made them male and female.
And for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife.
And the two will become one.
What God has joined together man must not separate.
A man who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery.
A woman who divorces her husband and marries another commits adultery.
Meaning
A certificate of release was provided for divorce.
Divorce was only allowed if the wife was not a virgin at marriage and was found unfaithful after
marriage
Jesus explained the law: people had still to learn how to love, God did not want divorce and He
wanted the people to have an ideal relationship with each other.
1 Corinthian 7:1-7
Mutual respect and self giving
A man does well not marry.
But because there is so much immorality
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Present Situation
We search for the Supreme Being through:
Prayer: A way to reach the Supreme Being.
Holy books (the holy Quran, The Bible, Vedas…) helping one to find his or her answers.
Nature: impressive mountains, waterfalls,
Religious leaders: priest, pastors, deacons …
Different ways
Human beings are able to reflect on their experiences.
They are able to ask questions.
Such reflections have enabled us to admit the existence of a greater power.
They have tried to understand this mysterious presence.
They have tried to make some contacts.
This is the basis of all religions.
This is our search for God.
Prayer
It is an experiment to meet the living God
A chief way to meet the living God.
It takes many forms.
Common elements of prayer
It is done everyday
In a place which helps
Studying the word of God
It is reaching out to God.
In prayer there may be no:
Physical manifestation of God’s presence
A voice from heaven
Vision, dream
Blinding light
Changes that take place in oneself as God’s silent action
Problems that brought discouragement will become easier to solve.
We will grow in concern for others and their needs.
We will grow in generosity and become courageous.
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Submission to Allah
Islam derives from SLM which means peace, purity, submission and obedience.
It means total submission to the will of Allah
and obedience to His Law.
This submission is the fundamental attitude of a Muslim.
Those who submit to Allah:
believe.
obey
speak the truth
persevere in righteousness
are humble
give alms
fast
guard their modesty
remember Allah
Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and great reward.
African traditional
Some of the qualities attributed to God are:
Nyamvula: the one who secretes rain
Ipokubozya: the one who makes things rot and responsible for the changing of the seasons
Haatwakwe: owner of all things
Katungu: one who can do all things
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Religious Rituals
These are forms of prayer.
They include words, but also symbolic action.
They emerge from within traditions.
They communicate values.
The most important rituals are done as a community.
Community rituals include sharing of food as a symbol of sharing harmony.
Hospitality is also an important part of community ritual.
The Kuoloka Ritual
It is a Lozi ritual meaning eating the first crop of the season.
It is a ritual of gratitude.
A person could get ill if this ritual was not performed before they ate the food.
An elderly woman would go and get the first grain.
It would then be pounded with some leaves and roots.
This can be cooked and eaten.
After eating this, the family is free to eat from the new crop.
Such types of rituals were confined to individual families or villages only.
They helped to mark the beginning and endings of seasons.
Rituals at the time of misfortune
These were performed when a misfortune hits the clan.
It is carried out by the eldest in the family, woman or man.
Age was regarded as privileged closeness to the departed ancestors.
At the time of drought or poor harvest the chief of the Lozi performs a ritual to cleanse the land
from whatever evil the people may have done.
All misfortune is the result of evil done to the land.
The chief would send word to all in his chiefdom.
The ritual can start at an individual level.
Every family will offer sacrifice to the ancestor.
All the sub-chiefs and indunas are convened at the Litunga’s palace.
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CHURCH HISTORY
The Philosophers reject ideology or offer of security. They always ask questions. They believe
that the search for truth has its own reward and only lasting security.
Moral Reformers consider truth to be a luxury, while many are denied justice and dignity.
They want to build a New World where truth of existence and religion will reveal itself.
These three types can overlap. One person may have all three dimensions.
Nevertheless there is a predominant type.
Augustine
The mother was a Christian.
He had little interest in Christianity.
He was interested in a philosophy called Manichaeism,
That allowed him to live fourteen years with a mistress.
His mother prayed for his conversion.
At the age of 33, Augustine realised that what he was doing was wrong.
He accepted baptism.
He broke away from his mistress.
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Types of Knowing
No one type can be claimed to be the only true way of knowing.
Everyday Knowledge: it is often vague, but is also personal. It includes first-hand experience.
Scientific knowledge: It is exact and impersonal. It depends on experiments which can be
repeated anywhere.
Art and Music: Depend on personal preference or taste.
Ethics: It is the study of what people ought to do or avoid. It adds the idea of obligation.
Philosophy: It studies and evaluates ways of thinking used in science, art, morals, religion.
Religion: It adds faith and commitment to each.
Psalm 19
Through Creation
How clearly the sky reveals God’s glory.
How plainly it shows what he had done.
Each day announces it to the following day.
Each night repeats it to the next.
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Isaiah 56:6-8
Life for all
The Lord said to the foreigners
who became part of his people.
I will bring you to Zion, my sacred hill.
Give you joy in my house of prayer.
Accept the sacrifice you offer on my altar.
My Temple will be called a house of prayer for the people of all nations.
Meaning
People are expected to share knowledge with the less fortunate.
Instead they grow suspicious of foreigners.
They separate themselves from them.
The reason often is pride and greed.
Christians have to keep educating them to be respectful to all.
God’s love includes all.
His temple is to be open to all.
Psalm 105:26-43
Through Events
God sent his servant Moses and Aaron .
They did God’s mighty acts
and performed miracles in Egypt.
Then he led Israel out.
They carried silver and gold.
And all of them were healthy and strong.
They asked, and he gave them food from heaven.
He opened a rock, and water gushed out.
So he led his people out.
And they sang and shouted for joy.
Meaning
Freedom is a great event for the all of us.
We know that God is present in helping us.
He is present in protecting us.
He can be trusted to help us in all events.
If we remain faithful we can be a great nation.
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Hebrew 1:1-2
Jesus is the answer
In the past God spoke through our ancestors and prophets.
In these last days
He spoke to us through his son.
He is the one through whom God created the universe.
The one God has chosen
to possess all things at the end.
Meaning
A Christian can learn about God through reflecting on how God works.
The fullest knowledge comes from studying the teaching and the life of Jesus.
Romans 1:18-32
God’s anger is revealed from heaven against all the sin and evil of the people.
God punishes them because what can be known about God is plain to them.
For God has made it clear to them.
They know God but do not give him the honour that belongs to him.
Nor do they thank him.
They say they are wise but they are fools.
They exchange truth for a lie.
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They worship and serve what God has created instead of the creator.
They are filled with all kinds of wickedness, evil, greed and vice.
They are full of jealousy, murder, fighting, deceit and malice.
They gossip and speak evil of one another.
They are hateful to God, insolent, proud and boastful.
They show no kindness or pity for others.
Meaning
We can know God through creation.
We know God but refuse to give him honour.
Our evil prevents the truth from being known.
We often turn to worship created things.
Cruelty, arrogance, selfishness and pride replace the justice and care which God wants.
Luke 11:29-32
To be open
Jesus said: ‘How evil are the people of this day.
They ask for a miracle
not one will be given to them.
Except the miracle of Jonah.
On the day of judgement
the Queen of Sheba will stand up
and accuse the people of today.
Because she listened to King Solomon’s wise teaching
I tell you there is something wiser than Solomon here.
On judgement day the people of Ninevah will stand up
and accuse you because they turned from their sins.
I assure you that there is something here greater than Jonah.
Meaning
We are expected to accept the message of Jesus’ coming to fulfill the law.
Less fortunate often show deeper willingness to trust Jesus.
Acts 17:16-34
Very close
Paul was greatly upset when he noticed how full of idols the city of Athens was.
So he held discussions in the synagogue with the Jews and the Gentiles.
Some of the people asked, ‘What is this ignorant show-off trying to say?’
He seems to be talking about Jesus and the resurrection.
They brought Paul before the council and asked what the new teaching was about.
Paul stood up and said, ‘I see that you are religious.
I have found an altar which is written, ‘To the Unknown God.’
God who made the world and everything in it.
The Lord of heaven and the earth.
The one who gives life and breath and everything else to everyone.
In him we live and move and exist.
He has fixed a day to judge the whole world with justice.
He has given proof of this to everyone by raising a man from the death.
When they heard Paul speak about raising from the death, some of them made fun of him
Some men joined him and believed.
Meaning
Some people admit that they have not yet discovered the real God.
They are in search.
Religious leaders explain what that God is.
God puts the feelings of restlessness in our hearts to keep us searching for him.
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Ephesians 3:1-3
Salvation revealed to all
God in his grace has given me this work to do for your good.
God revealed his secret plan and made it known to me.
In the past no one was told this secret
God has revealed it now to his apostles and prophets.
The secret is that by means of the gospel the gentiles have a part with the Jews in God’s
blessing.
They are members of the same body and share in the promise God made through Christ.
I was given this privilege of taking the Good News to Gentile.
To make people see how this plan is put into effect.
God kept his secret hidden though the past ages to show his wisdom.
He did this according to his eternal purpose achieved though Christ.
In union with Christ and through our faith in him.
We have the boldness to go into God’s presence with all confidence…
Meaning
In all cultures and all past peoples one discovers a belief in God.
Human reason demand that this world did not happen by chance.
There was a creator and designer who ought to be honoured.
However there is a fear of coming near that creator.
Sacrifices were offered, rituals practiced but God was still far away.
People slowly learned that God had come close to them..
The good news of God and Jesus is for all who seriously searched for God