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CF Midtern Lesson 2023
CF Midtern Lesson 2023
CF Midtern Lesson 2023
Christian character
Persons of character are noted for their honesty, ethics, and charity.
A lack of character is moral deficiency, and persons lacking character tend to behave
dishonestly, unethically, and uncharitably.
*A person’s character is the sum of his or her disposition, thoughts, intentions, desires,
and actions.
It is good to remember that character is gauged by general tendencies, not on the
basis of a few isolated actions.
We must look at the whole life. For example, King David was a man of
good character (1 Samuel 13:14) although he sinned on occasion (2 Samuel 11).
And although King Ahab may have acted nobly once (1 Kings
22:35), he was still a man of overall bad character (1 Kings 16:33). Several people in
the Bible are described as having noble character: Ruth (Ruth 3:11), Hanani
(Nehemiah 7:2), David (Psalm 78:72), and Job (Job 2:3). These individuals’ lives were
distinguished by persistent moral virtue.
Character, in turn, influences our choices. “The integrity of the upright guides them”
(Proverbs 11:3a). Character will help us weather the storms of life and keep us from sin
(Proverbs 10:9a).
It is the Lord’s purpose to develop character within us. “The crucible for silver and the
furnace for gold, but the LORD tests the heart” (Proverbs 17:3).
Godly character is the result of the Holy Spirit’s work of sanctification.
Character in the believer is a consistent manifestation of Jesus in his life. It is the purity
of heart that God gives becoming purity in action. God sometimes uses trials to
strengthen character: “we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that
suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope”
(Romans 5:3-4). The Lord is pleased when His children grow in character. “You test
the heart and are pleased with integrity” (1 Chronicles 29:17; see also Psalm 15:1-2).
*We can develop character by controlling our thoughts (Philippians 4:8), practicing
Christian virtues (2 Peter 1:5-6), guarding our hearts (Proverbs 4:23; Matthew 15:18-
20), and keeping good company (1 Corinthians 15:33). Men and women of character
will set a good example for others to follow, and their godly reputation will be evident to
all (Titus 2:7-8).
Character is who we are and it can be learned and built when we are in Christ.
Moreover, real authentic Christian Character is not just a personality or our disposition;
it is a description of who we are as a Christian, what we are called to be in our entirety.
It encapsulates the Fruit of the Spirit from God's love and work in us. A good effectual
foundation of character is "synergistic"(harmonious) as each one hangs and functions
with each other. It is built upon the Fruit of the Spirit which all of the other character
traits are codependent and thus function and rest upon.
Our Character summarizes the essence of our walk with Christ being exhibited back
to Him and then onto others. Our Character can grow or shrivel as our growth and faith
formation in Christ is applied or blocked. Thus, Character is the display case of Christ
and shows others our entire lives as Christians.
*Character is aligning our lives so our behaviors are Christ-like. It is the fruit that the
vine of our abiding in Christ will produce. Thus, we look to the life of our Lord as our
prime example. We seek not so much what Jesus would do, but what would Jesus
have me do! This alignment is what produces "the fruit of the Spirit," that we find in
Paul's letter to the Galatians: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control." (Gal. 5:22-23a)
This fruit of the Spirit is what forms the foundation of true Christian character. Because
Christian character is the result of the Spirit's work, it is forbidden and nonsensical to
boast of it as if it were our own doing (Ephesians 2:9; 1 Corinthians 1:29–31).
Christians are to boast not of our own righteousness, which does not exist, but of the
righteousness of Christ which we have received through faith (1 Corinthians 1:30–31;
Isaiah 64:6; Galatians 3:21–22).
Having said that, we are called to walk in the Spirit and not quench Him (Galatians
5:16; 1 Thessalonians 5:19). Although it is the grace of God that produces good works
in us, we are still called to work with and not against the Spirit. First Corinthians 15:10
says, "But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in
vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I, but the
grace of God that is with me." Because the Spirit of God lives in the Christian and
provides the grace and power that make godly living possible, we are encouraged to
make use of this great power (Philippians 2:12–13).
Second Peter 1:5–8 gives a list of things Christians should pursue that reflect godly
character: "For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue,
and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with
steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly
affection, and brotherly affection with love. For if these qualities are yours and are
increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our
Lord Jesus Christ."
Finally, God uses our life circumstances to exercise the grace and faith He has given to
us, thereby causing us to grow in Christ-like character. One might say that Christian
character is forged in the crucible of experience and affliction. Paul wrote in Romans
5:3–5, "Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces
endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and
hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts
through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." Similarly, in 1 Peter 1:6–7 Peter
wrote, "In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been
grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious
than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and
glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ."
It is a great misunderstanding to think that being a Christian is the same as being a so-
called “pardoned sinner”, implying that he is still bound to continue in sin. In the verses
below, we get a better understanding of what the will of God is for us, with regard to
sin.
“My little children, these things I write to you, so that you may not sin.” 1 John 2:1. “I
write to you, young men, because you have overcome the wicked one.” 1 John 2:13.
“Now thanks be to God who always leads us in triumph in Christ …” 2 Corinthians 2:14.
*A Christian has a good conscience; he has put his past life in order; all his actions
are in the light. All his sins are forgiven; he is grounded in God and has built his life on
the Rock, which is Christ. He is immovable.
Being a Christian does not mean you are a religious “meeting-goer,” someone who
goes to Christian meetings rather than to places of worldly entertainment, but
otherwise is just like other people. Not at all! A Christian is someone who brings his life
into complete harmony with the Word of God and His will. He is righteous where others
are unrighteous; he is patient where others are impatient, diligent where others are
lazy, and exact where others are inexact. He speaks the truth boldly where others
flatter, play the hypocrite, and lie. He is meek, longsuffering, and quiet where others
are hot-tempered and impetuous, etc. (1 Peter 1:15) All these are traits of a true
Christian.
*Characteristics of a Christian – unselfish
*Being a Christian means that that person is righteous in all his affairs. Therefore if he
has stolen anything or committed some other act of unrighteousness, he will make
restitution as soon as he becomes a Christian. If he is in debt, he will make every effort
to pay it back. There is no way around it. In this respect it does not help to appeal to
the atonement. If he does not practice righteousness, he is not a Christian at all, and
he will not enter the kingdom of God. “Everyone who practices righteousness is born of
Him.”
1 John 2:29.
A Christian, because of his progressive victory over his own lust and desires, starts to
enjoy perfect rest in his heart and mind. His life, being purified by the help of his
Saviour, becomes more and more irreproachable and blameless. No one can any
longer point the finger at manifest sin such as outbursts of anger, irritation or any
unrighteousness.
As the Christian appreciates the power of the Holy Spirit in his life more and more, he
naturally becomes stronger and stronger by the same Spirit. The Christian can endure
trials, discomfort, good report and evil report. This he does as he is confident that he
serves a faithful Master. What was impossible for him in the past, he is now able to
overcome. This is especially noticed by those that are themselves in need of
overcoming.
Characteristics of a Christian – A constant development
However, we cannot expect to have perfect victory right away, which is why we read,
“If anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. And
He Himself is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the whole
world.” 1 John 2:1-2.
Nevertheless, it is of the utmost importance that a Christian is not content with suffering
defeat, and so becomes slack and indifferent. He must not lose courage and give up in
his fight against sin, because it takes time to become and to be an overcomer. He must
continue to live in hope and faith, pressing on until he breaks through to a victorious
life. This is all done by the assistance of and obedience to the Holy Spirit of God. It is
especially blessed to be in a fellowship of Christians that has the same desire and will
to overcome. Such people are led by their great Shepherd – Jesus Christ – as they are
following Him in His steps.
A Christian’s reward
*Having been faithful to God by obeying his commandments as given to him by God’s
Son, Jesus Christ, a Christian will be rewarded with everlasting life.
John 3:36. “He who believes in the Son has everlasting life; and he who does not
believe the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him.”
John 4:14. “But whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But
the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into
everlasting eternal life.”
Revelation 20:12-15. “I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books
were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead
were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead
who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then
Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone
not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire”
*The dictionary defines character as "moral excellence and firmness." The highest
standard of character is set forth in Scripture and exemplified in Jesus Christ. All who
are serious about following Christ are exhorted to attain moral excellence through a life
of trusting God and resisting the evil influences that surround us and arise from within
us.
HONOR GOD
The first tenet of righteous character is to honor God. At first blush this is obvious to
Christians. Christians should naturally honor God. The real problem is that we may
know God exists, but we often do not honor Him as we should. Do we really put the
First Commandment first in our lives?
Most people are actually afraid to trust in God, because we cannot see Him or talk to
Him. There has to be a genesis of trust in our lives. Maybe we started our spiritual
journey with a modicum of faith, but time eroded our faith or we got caught up in
"worldly" activities that never allowed us to go on to deeper faith.
This means that the believer must realize that God “allows" us to get our wealth. We
certainly get the education and go to work everyday, but it is God who gives us the
power to do what we do. We have to make a conscious effort to remember God and
His intervention on our behalf. We only see this physical world and the books we read,
the buildings we work in, and the money derived from our labor. God is, in a sense, in
the background. We have the duty to bring Him to the forefront and give Him the
acknowledgement He deserves.
When we forget God, our faith diminishes. When we stay away from Sabbath services,
our faith subsides. "Faith comes by hearing!" said the apostle Paul (Romans 10:17).
Faith is not built in a vacuum. We need activity to develop faith. Abraham is the father
of the faithful because he was willing to travel three days and sacrifice his son because
God asked him to do it.
When unemployment comes our way, then it's time to believe what Jesus says in
Matthew 6:33: "But seek ye first the Kingdom of God…and all these things shall
be added unto you." God will show us how He can care for us as He does the entire
natural world. When we are out of work or terribly sick, we call on God. Why not
practice "seeking" Him before tragedy occurs? Attend church services; remember who
gives us our wealth; recognize God's power to deliver us out of adversity; give thanks
for all we have in our lives.
Christians are appointed to produce fruit. That puts fruit bearing in a category of great
responsibility. Those who do not produce fruit are purged and cast away.
Jesus is also explaining that faithful fruit bearers can ask anything of the Father and He
will answer. Does that mean the slothful and unproductive do not get answers? It would
certainly seem so! Jesus puts a very high value on productivity. He said, "My Father
works, and I work" (John 5:17). Jesus demands that we be productive! He expects a
return on His investment in us. He created us, died for us, and now intercedes for us.
The logical question is, "What are we doing for Jesus in return?"
The One who became Jesus Christ spoke to Moses and others by voice. Moses
pleaded with Him to exonerate the obstinate Israelites, and He acquiesced to Moses'
impassioned plea (Exodus 32). Abraham "bargained" with God over the fate of the
people of Sodom, finally getting Him to agree to hold off destroying the city if ten
righteous people could be found there (Genesis 18). These two men talked directly to
the Member of the Godhead who later became Jesus Christ, and got a response right
on the spot. But we do not have the luxury of personal communication as they did, do
we?
When we pray, we can take the Bible with us and quote from the Bible about God's
promises to us, What about those who are sick? They can go to James and quote
directly to God the promises in that book (see James 5:13-18). Their prayer of faith can
reach God with intensity, because they are pleading with God just as Moses and
Abraham did on behalf of their people. When we quote God's Word in our requests to
Him, He will listen, and He will see that we are serious about our requests.
saved from a fiery furnace. Communication with God is necessary and may save our
lives in certain life-threatening situations.
We have all the reasons in the world to communicate with God. We will grow stronger
spiritually. And when the evil day comes, we will be able to stand!
John tells us that He must increase and we must decrease (John 3:29-30). If we
refuse this vital call, God just may allow those hardships to come our way, breaking us
down so we will yield and grow as His child. Just as a good loving parent will discipline
his child, we, too, will receive discipline. But, this is not a personal attack; rather it is a
way we can grow and be better used by our Lord (1 Cor. 1:30; Col. 1:27; 1 Thess. 4:3;
5:23-24; 1 Pet. 1:5). We have to be willing to be identified with Him no matter what the
cost, as the rewards will be far greater than we could ever imagine! So, are you willing
to reduce yourself to the real you? The person as you are called by Jesus Christ to be?
So that He is greater in character and precepts in your trust and faith, and in your
obedience and application of life? And, so you become less in your will, aspirations,
lust, and sin? If not, what is in the way of God working in you?If not you will not be able
to build effective or effectual Christian Character
In order to exhibit character, the flow from the Fruit of the Holy Spirit must be
accessed and developed (Galatians 5:22-23). A fruit is made up of more than one
substance; it has juice, pulp, segments, and seeds, all held together by a skin or rind,
and attached to the tree by a stem where its nutrients flow in. If you just eat of the pulp
or juice and throw out the rest, how can you use the seeds to grow more? If you take
the fruit off the vine, it will wither and rot; if the vine is not cared for, the tree will die. So
it is with love, Fruit of the Spirit and Character in general. It requires our tending, and it
is more than just one substance; all of its substances combined are greater than the
sum of its parts.
Here is a list of godly characters that He calls us to emulate and put into our
relationships. These are essential to growing a healthy and lasting relationship. You
can examine the descriptions, look up the Scriptures, and then ask yourself these six
questions:
·Love will enable us to appreciate our brothers and sisters in the Lord, and, of course,
our family, and others around us. Love is taking the initiative to build up and meet the
needs of others without expecting anything in return. (John 13:1; 15:13; 1 Corinthians
13:3)
· Joy will allow us to enjoy His creation, others, and our circumstances with an
expression of delight and real, authentic happiness from and with harmony with God
and others. (Proverbs 15:13; John 15:11; 17:13)
· Peace is surrendering and yielding to the Lord's control, for He is our ultimate peace!
It is allowing tranquility to be our tone and to control our equanimity. This will be fueled
by our harmonious relationship with God so we can hand over control of our heart, will,
and mind to Him. Once we make real peace with God, we will be able to make and
maintain peace with others. (Matthew 5:9; Colossians 3:15; Philippians 4:7)
· Patience is showing tolerance and fortitude to others, and even accepting difficult
situations from them and God without making demands and conditions. (Matthew
27:14; Romans 12:12; James 1:3,12)
· Faithfulness is the "gluing" fruit that will preserve our faith and the other characters
of the Spirit as well as identify God's Will so we can be dependable and trusting to God
and others. (Matthew 17:19; 25:21; 1 Cor. 12:9; Hebrews 11:1; 1 Thess. 5:24)
· Gentleness is the character that will show calmness, personal care, and tenderness
in meeting the needs of others. (Isa. 40:11; Phil. 4: 5; 2 Timothy 2:24; 1 Thess. 2:7)
· Self-Control will allow us to have discipline, and restraint with obedience to God and
others. (1 Thess. 5: 22)
We will be studying these characteristics, along with the Galatian fruits and the book of
Matthew in our online Bible study.
· Forgiving is the realization of how much we have been forgiven by Christ. This
enables us to forgive the insignificant things that are done to us. It involves not being
resentful to others, and ignoring the wrongs that we have received so we can heal
relationships by expressing Christ's love. (Luke 23:34; Ephesians 4:32; Colossians
3:13)
· Fairness sees a situation from the viewpoint of each person involved and not just
ours. It seeks the best, just, equable solution, even if it hurts us. (Matthew 7:12)
· Courage realizes that God has given us the strength to face any situation, trial, or
peril. It is the ability to react, knowing that God is in control, that He who is in me is
greater than he who is against me. (Deuteronomy 31:6; 1 John 4:4)
· Friendship is the companionship and closeness we are to have with one another. It
is the commitment to help form the character in others. This is not to be feared but
embraced, even when it hurts! (Proverbs 27:17)
· Honesty & Truthfulness mean being straight and honest with others and doing what
is right. This trait will allow us to earn trust by being accurate with facts and situations.
(2 Cor. 8:21; Ephesians 4:25)
· Gratitude is an attitude of being thankful, even when we do not see what we have.
This is an aspect of worship, expressing to God and others how they have benefited
our lives by showing their support and benevolence. (1 Corinthians 4:7; 1 Thess. 5: 18)
· Responsibility is to know and do what God and others expect. (Romans 14:12)
· Contentment is the attitude of accepting whatever God provides for us, and being
happy with it. It does not seek what we do not need for gratification, and does not find
happiness in the shallow things of life. (Rom. 9:19-21; Phil. 4: 10-13; 1 Tim. 6:6-9)
· Generosity allows us to give to others because God has given abundantly to us. It is
the wise use of stewardship and the attitude that all I have belongs to God and
knowing we are the caretakers for His purpose. (Deut. 16:17; Matthew 10:8)
· Purity & Holiness is being set apart for God's use, which is holiness in action. It
does not allow us to be contaminated nor interfere with others in our growth and
relationship in Christ. (Matt. 5:8; Phil. 4:8; 1 Tim. 1:5; 5:22; James 4:8)
· Confidence helps us rely on the Lord for all things in our life. It will enable us to push
forward in the direction that we are called because He is governing. It makes us realize
we are not responsible for the results--only the obedience. (Philippians 4:13)
· Encouragement will lift, support, and help others up through difficult circumstances,
all from God's perspective. (Psalm 119:28; 143:3; Matt. 3:17; John 14:1; 1 Thess. 5:11-
14)
· Availability is being willing to adjust our own schedule, agenda, and plans to fit the
right desires of God and others. It makes personal priorities secondary to the needs of
God and others. It is to reflect God's priorities so we are always available to Him and
others when we are serving. (Mark 1:17-18; Acts 16:10)
· Attentiveness will recognize the value of other people by giving them listening ears,
respect, courtesy, and total concentration. This means paying attention to others, not
just listening to our own needs and desires, and also giving genuine contemplation to
God's Word. (Hebrews 2:1)
· Wisdom truly desires the knowledge of God's Word and the proper application to our
life. This will enable us to make good judgments and decisions. (1 Kings 3:9; Psalm
119:97-98)
· Compassion will feel the pain and plight of others. It will enable us to convey a deep
feeling of love and concern that moves us to meet their distresses, struggles, and
needs. (Job 29:13; Isa. 40:11; Mark 1:41; Luke 19:4; 1 Peter 3:8)
· Initiative will take the front position to recognize and do what needs to be done
before being asked to do it. (Prov. 22:29; Philippians 3:14; 4:13-15)
· Diligence allows us to operate with our best for His highest with excitement and
passion in order to complete our work and call from the Lord. (Prov. 10:4; Rom. 12:11;
Colossians 3:23)
· Thoughtfulness considers and gives attention and care to others and their feelings
first. (Philippians 2:4)
· Efficient is being well organized, competent, and resourceful so we can make the
most of every situation, doing our best and seeking better ways. (Psalm 90:12;
Ephesians 4:23; 5:15- 16; 1 Pet. 4:10)
· Discretion keeps our minds and focus on sound judgment, giving serious attention
and thought to what is going on. It will carefully choose our words, attitudes, and
actions to be right for any given situation, thus avoiding words and actions that could
result in adverse consequences. (Psalm 112:5; Proverbs 22:3; Rom.12: 2, 9; 14:19,
22)
· Optimism will think the best of and be positive with people and all situations, even if
later proven wrong. (Luke 21:18; John 16:33; Romans 8:25; 28)
· Obedience is submitting to do what God requires of us. It is also recognizing the
authority and direction from others, such as the pastor and church, so we can create
winning situations. (Deut. 13: 4; Prov. 19:16; John 14:14; 15:14; 2 Corinthians 10:5)
· Reverence is recognizing and respecting people, not just because of their position
and authority, but as brothers and sisters in the Lord, regardless of their personality,
knowing He loves them too! (1 Peter 2:13-14)
More Character attributes: These are the further fruits that are produced when
we are following the above principles!
· Agreeable finds Biblical solutions and support for others, without compromising truth.
(Amos 3:3)
· Appreciation gives God our heartfelt thanks as a lifestyle of worship and adoration.
This allows us to give to, and value others with respect. (Romans 12:10)
· Avoiding anger is the knowing of its destructive force and striving to maintain "cool"
and serenity. (James 1:19)
· Being a Good Example is not allowing your relationship with Christ to become
hypocritical, since people see your example as to what a Christian is! (1 Pet 2:21-2; 1
Pet 2:12,15,17)
· Childlike Faith is the wonder and awe of what Christ did for us. It is something that
we should never lose. Let us maintain our enthusiasm and not become just a
subculture or routine! (Mt. 18:2-4; 34)
· Commitment is being dedicated and pushing ahead as well as being satisfied with
what you have. It is vowing to honor and be the best with what God has given of
spiritual and material things. (1 Timothy 6:20)
· Cooperativeness is the support and willingness to work together in peace, unity, and
harmony. (Eph. 4:3)
· Creative is being resourceful and imaginative in using the best of the goods and
talents we have been given to serve the Lord. (1 Timothy 4:14)
· Diligence is the loving of our call and the pursuing of our work, doing our best for His
glory. (Colossians 3:23)
· Determination is the ability to make difficult decisions and accomplish God's goals
based on the truths of God's Word, regardless of the opposition. (Psalms 119:30; 2
Timothy 4:7,8)
· Deference is being willing to bend personal freedom for the respect and esteem of
others. (Romans 14:21)
· Devotion is aligning personal desires, plans, worship, and hope with God.
(Colossians 3:2)
· Discernment is the ability to see people and situations the way they really are with of
neutrality and justice, while also being cautious with right timing and actions. (1 Samuel
16:7; Proverbs 19:2)
· Discreet is the ability to not bully people with our personality or actions, or even with
sound and right opinions. It is giving serious respect, attention, and thought to what we
say and do. (Psalm 112:5)
· Decisive is sticking to right and just decisions based on God's perfect will. (Romans
12:2)
· Endurance is the inner strength to remain in Him with staying power in order to
accomplish God's will. (Galatians 6:9)
· Fearless is facing down peril without being stupid. Sound mind is being bold since
God gives us strength. (2 Timothy 1:7)
· Flexibility is being open to others plans and ideas and willing to be instructed and
challenged to change for the better. (Colossians 3:2)
· Godly Priorities is choosing to follow Scriptural precepts as the primary important
schedule and value for life. (Matthew 6:33)
· Godliness is being pious, which is rearranging our priorities to line up with God's
character. (3 John 11)
· Grace is elegant simplicity and calm that minimizes crudeness. (Psalm 94:11; James
4:6)
· Hospitality is a willingness to share, with discernment, what God has given us,
including our family, home, finances, and food. (Romans 12:13)
· Integrity is the obedience to a moral code of values that have honor, truth, and
reliability. It will allow one to keep his word and do his best even when no one else is
looking. (Psalm 78:72)
· Just is doing what is fair, moral, impartial, and right, according to God's will. (Genesis
6:9)
· Loyalty is remaining committed to those whom God has brought into our lives and
has called us to serve, even in times of difficulty. (Proverbs 17:17)
· Meekness is not about being weak! It is strength under control, which yields personal
rights and expectations to God. (Psalms 62:5)
· Merciful demonstrating more forgiving and gracious kindness than the world
requires. (Luke 6:36)
· Patience is the fortitude to accept from others difficult situations that we do not like.
With God, it is trust of His timing, and not giving Him a deadline. (Romans 12:12)
· Perseverance is not being faint with our call, but being able to persist and continue to
deal with stress so we can accomplish what God calls us to. (Galatians 6:9)
· Persuasiveness advocates God's Word to others so they can be changed in their
thinking and can conform to His will. (2 Timothy 2:25)
· Prompt is not holding others back with our inadequacies; it is respecting the time of
others and being able to act quickly when God and others call on us. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
· Prudence is not being a prude, but implementing and applying good, logical, and just
judgment to situations that will help in avoiding error and problems. (Proverbs 13:6;
22:3)
· Purpose is in knowing who we are in Christ and acting it out with our call. That is,
devoting our life, Spiritual gifts, abilities, and call so it can bring out the best in people
and situations. Our meaning of life will have eternal treasure and results. (John 15)
· Respectful is being polite and courteous to the people, and the civil authorities God
has placed in our life. (1 Thess. 5:13-13)
· Security is trust and reliance upon God for our daily needs. This is not laziness, but
working with God's values, and organizing our life around God's Will with an eternal
outlook in mind for a secure feeling. We are safe because of God's protection.
(Proverbs 29:25; John 6:27)
· Submissive is, with awe and reverence, surrendering and yielding our will and plans
over to God's guidance. (Ephesians 5:21)
· Success is not what the world says is achievement; it is to know and faithfully follow
God's Will and His Word. It is our obedience, not our numbers or measurements!
(Matthew 25:21)
· Suffering is not sought, but when it happens, it is allowing it to turn into a mold to
allow us to be made for the better as "Christ hath suffered" makes us better. It is not a
personal attack, rather it is a means to get our attention to make us better, more useful,
stronger, and to understand what takes place in others. (1 Peter 4:1-19)
· Supportive is to come along side others, sharing our strength and courage in their
afflictions and troubles. (Galatians 6:2)
· Tactful is being considerate, delicate, and diplomatic with other's feelings and ideas,
doing, and saying the right thing. (Colossians 4:6)
· Teach is to share our insights and what we have learned with others, to disciple
them. (Matt. 7:28; 28: 19-20; John 7:16; Mark 4:2; 2 John 1:9)
· Temperate is to have self-control so we do not lose control and give in to lust and
extremes of society's ills. (Titus 2:12)
· Tolerant is being forbearing and patient with others, even when they are different or
weaker. (1 Thess. 5:14)
· Thoroughness is careful diligence that carries out our call with our very best for
God's approval. (Ecclesiastes 9:10; Colossians 3:23)
· Time is the moments in which we either burn or live for His glory. It is the
opportunities we have to live, serve, learn, and grow. In so doing, if we invest wisely,
we will produce eternal treasures. If not, it will go to waste. (Psalm 90:12)
· Virtue is holding onto the principles of moral excellence that calls us to a higher level
where few people desire to go, but as a Christian, we must go! (Col. 3:12-17)
· Zealous is maintaining our enthusiasm for our faith and call, not allowing our church
or us to fall into a rut of meaningless rhetoric. (Luke 2:49; John 2:17 8:29)
• Joy will allow us to enjoy His creation, others, and our circumstances with an
expression of delight and real, authentic happiness from and with harmony with God
and others. (Proverbs 15:13; John 15:11; John 17:13)
• Peace is surrendering and yielding to the Lord’s control, for He is our ultimate peace!
It is allowing tranquility to be our tone and to control our equanimity. This will be fueled
by our harmonious relationship with God so we can hand over control of our heart, will,
and mind to Him. Once we make real peace with God, we will be able to make and
maintain peace with others. (Matthew 5:9; Colossians 3:15; Philippians 4:7)
• Patience is showing tolerance and fortitude to others, and even accepting difficult
situations from them and God without making demands and conditions. (Matthew
27:14; Romans 12:12; James 1:3,12)
• Faithfulness is the “gluing” fruit that will preserve our faith and the other characters of
the Spirit as well as identify God’s Will so we can be dependable and trusting to God
and others. (Matthew 17:19; Matthew 25:21; 1 Cor. 12:9; Hebrews 11:1; 1 Thes 5:24)
• Gentleness is the character that will show calmness, personal care, and tenderness
in meeting the needs of others. (Isa. 40:11; Philippians 4:5; 2 Timothy 2:24; 1 Thes
2:7)
• Self-Control will allow us to have discipline, and restraint with obedience to God and
others. (1 Thes 5: 22)
• Forgiving is the realization of how much we have been forgiven by Christ. This
enables us to forgive the insignificant things that are done to us. It involves not being
resentful to others, and ignoring the wrongs that we have received so we can heal
relationships by expressing Christ’s love. (Luke 23:34; Ephesians 4:32; Colossians
3:13)
• Humility minimizes arrogance and removes pride. It is understanding our fallen nature
and tendency to think we are better than we are, and our striving to lift up ourselves
above others and God. It is admitting that others, and more importantly God is
responsible for our achievements. Humbleness will enable us to be a teachable person
who is willing to have the attitude of submission and servant-hood, one who confesses
sin and remembers how Christ served us! (Luke 22:27; Philippians 2:8; 1 Peter 5:3–5)
• Fairness sees a situation from the viewpoint of each person involved and not just
ours. It seeks the best, just, equable solution, even if it hurts us. (Matthew 7:12)
• Courage realizes that God has given us the strength to face any situation, trial, or
peril. It is the ability to react, knowing that God is in control, that He who is in me is
greater than he who is against me. (Deuteronomy 31:6; 1 John 4:4)
• Friendship is the companionship and closeness we are to have with one another. It is
the commitment to help form the character in others. This is not to be feared but
embraced, even when it hurts! (Proverbs 27:17)
• Honesty & Truthfulness mean being straight and honest with others and doing what is
right. This trait will allow us to earn trust by being accurate with facts and situations. (2
Cor. 8:21; Ephesians 4:25)
• Gratitude is an attitude of being thankful, even when we do not see what we have.
This is an aspect of worship, expressing to God and others how they have benefited
our lives by showing their support and benevolence. (1 Corinthians 4:7; 1 Thes. 5: 18)
• Responsibility is to know and do what God and others expect. (Romans 14:12)
• Contentment is the attitude of accepting whatever God provides for us, and being
happy with it. It does not seek what we do not need for gratification, and does not find
happiness in the shallow things of life. (Rom. 9:19–21; Philippians 4:10–13; 1 Tim. 6:6–
9)
• Generosity allows us to give to others because God has given abundantly to us. It is
the wise use of stewardship and the attitude that all I have belongs to God and
knowing we are the caretakers for His purpose. (Deut. 16:17; Matthew 10:8)
• Purity & Holiness is being set apart for God’s use, which is holiness in action. It does
not allow us to be contaminated nor interfere with others in our growth and relationship
in Christ. (Matt. 5:8; Philippians 4:8; 1 Tim. 1:5; 1 Tim. 5:22; James 4:8)
• Confidence helps us rely on the Lord for all things in our life. It will enable us to push
forward in the direction that we are called because He is governing. It makes us realize
we are not responsible for the results–only the obedience. (Philippians 4:13)
• Encouragement will lift, support, and help others up through difficult circumstances,
all from God’s perspective. (Psalm 119:28; Psalm 143:3; Matt. 3:17; John 14:1; 1 Thes.
5:11–14)
• Availability is being willing to adjust our own schedule, agenda, and plans to fit the
right desires of God and others. It makes personal priorities secondary to the needs of
God and others. It is to reflect God’s priorities so we are always available to Him and
others when we are serving. (Mark 1:17–18; Acts 16:10)
• Attentiveness will recognize the value of other people by giving them listening ears,
respect, courtesy, and total concentration. This means paying attention to others, not
just listening to our own needs and desires, and also giving genuine contemplation to
God’s Word. (Hebrews 2:1)
• Wisdom truly desires the knowledge of God’s Word and the proper application to our
life. This will enable us to make good judgments and decisions. (1 Kings 3:9; Psalm
119:97–98)
• Compassion will feel the pain and plight of others. It will enable us to convey a deep
feeling of love and concern that moves us to meet their distresses, struggles, and
needs. (Job 29:13; Isa. 40:11; Mark 1:41; Luke 19:4; 1 Peter 3:8)
• Initiative will take the front position to recognize and do what needs to be done before
being asked to do it. (Prov. 22:29; Philippians 3:14; Philippians 4:13–15)
• Diligence allows us to operate with our best for His highest with excitement and
passion in order to complete our work and call from the Lord. (Prov. 10:4; Rom. 12:11;
Colossians 3:23)
• Thoughtfulness considers and gives attention and care to others and their feelings
first. (Philippians 2:4)
• Efficient is being well organized, competent, and resourceful so we can make the
most of every situation, doing our best and seeking better ways. (Psalm 90:12;
Ephesians 4:23; Ephesians 5:15– 16; 1 Pet. 4:10)
• Discretion keeps our minds and focus on sound judgment, giving serious attention
and thought to what is going on. It will carefully choose our words, attitudes, and
actions to be right for any given situation, thus avoiding words and actions that could
result in adverse consequences. (Psalm 112:5; Proverbs 22:3; Rom. 12:2, Rom. 9;
Rom. 14:19, Rom. 22)
• Optimism will think the best of and be positive with people and all situations, even if
later proven wrong. (Luke 21:18; John 16:33; Romans 8:25; Romans 28)
• Reverence is recognizing and respecting people, not just because of their position
and authority, but as brothers and sisters in the Lord, regardless of their personality,
knowing He loves them too! (1 Peter 2:13–14)
• Agreeable finds Biblical solutions and support for others, without compromising truth.
(Amos 3:3)
• Appreciation gives God our heartfelt thanks as a lifestyle of worship and adoration.
This allows us to give to, and value others with respect. (Romans 12:10)
• Avoiding anger is the knowing of its destructive force and striving to maintain “cool”
and serenity. (James 1:19)
• Being a Good Example is not allowing your relationship with Christ to become
hypocritical, since people see your example as to what a Christian is! (1 Pet 2:21,22; 1
Pet 2:12,15,17)
• Childlike Faith is the wonder and awe of what Christ did for us. It is something that we
should never lose. Let us maintain our enthusiasm and not become just a subculture or
routine! (Matt. 18:2–4,34)
• Commitment is being dedicated and pushing ahead as well as being satisfied with
what you have. It is vowing to honor and be the best with what God has given of
spiritual and material things. (1 Timothy 6:20)
• Cooperativeness is the support and willingness to work together in peace, unity, and
harmony. (Eph. 4:3)
• Creative is being resourceful and imaginative in using the best of the goods and
talents we have been given to serve the Lord. (1 Timothy 4:14)
• Diligenceis the loving of our call and the pursuing of our work, doing our best for His
glory. (Colossians 3:23)
• Determination is the ability to make difficult decisions and accomplish God’s goals
based on the truths of God’s Word, regardless of the opposition. (Psalms 119:30; 2
Timothy 4:7,8)
• Deference is being willing to bend personal freedom for the respect and esteem of
others. (Romans 14:21)
• Devotion is aligning personal desires, plans, worship, and hope with God.
(Colossians 3:2)
• Discernment is the ability to see people and situations the way they really are with of
neutrality and justice, while also being cautious with right timing and actions. (1 Samuel
16:7; Proverbs 19:2)
• Discreet is the ability to not bully people with our personality or actions, or even with
sound and right opinions. It is giving serious respect, attention, and thought to what we
say and do. (Psalm 112:5)
• Discipline is upholding and continuing a consistent and well-ordered life through godly
obedience, regardless of how we feel. (1 Timothy 4:7)
• Decisive is sticking to right and just decisions based on God’s perfect will. (Romans
12:2)
• Endurance is the inner strength to remain in Him with staying power in order to
accomplish God’s will. (Galatians 6:9)
• Fearless is facing down peril without being stupid. Sound mind is being bold since
God gives us strength. (2 Timothy 1:7)
• Flexibility is being open to others plans and ideas and willing to be instructed and
challenged to change for the better. (Colossians 3:2)
• Godliness is being pious, which is rearranging our priorities to line up with God’s
character. (3 John 11)
• Grace is elegant simplicity and calm that minimizes crudeness. (Psalm 94:11; James
4:6)
• Honest is being truthful and doing what is sincere and right before God and others.
(Heb 7:26)
• Hospitality is a willingness to share, with discernment, what God has given us,
including our family, home, finances, and food. (Romans 12:13)
• Integrity is the obedience to a moral code of values that have honor, truth, and
reliability. It will allow one to keep his word and do his best even when no one else is
looking. (Psalm 78:72)
• Just is doing what is fair, moral, impartial, and right, according to God’s will. (Genesis
6:9)
• Loyalty is remaining committed to those whom God has brought into our lives and
has called us to serve, even in times of difficulty. (Proverbs 17:17)
• Meekness is not about being weak! It is strength under control, which yields personal
rights and expectations to God. (Psalms 62:5)
• Merciful is demonstrating more forgiving and gracious kindness than the world
requires. (Luke 6:36)
• Patience is the fortitude to accept from others difficult situations that we do not like.
With God, it is trust of His timing, and not giving Him a deadline. (Romans 12:12)
• Perseverance is not being faint with our call, but being able to persist and continue to
deal with stress so we can accomplish what God calls us to. (Galatians 6:9)
• Prompt is not holding others back with our inadequacies; it is respecting the time of
others and being able to act quickly when God and others call on us. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
• Prudence is not being a prude, but implementing and applying good, logical, and just
judgment to situations that will help in avoiding error and problems. (Proverbs 13:6;
Proverbs 22:3)
• Purpose is in knowing who we are in Christ and acting it out with our call. That is,
devoting our life, Spiritual gifts, abilities, and call so it can bring out the best in people
and situations. Our meaning of life will have eternal treasure and results. (John 15)
• Respectful is being polite and courteous to the people, and the civil authorities God
has placed in our life. (1 Thes. 5:13–14)
• Security is trust and reliance upon God for our daily needs. This is not laziness, but
working with God’s values, and organizing our life around God’s Will with an eternal
outlook in mind for a secure feeling. We are safe because of God’s protection.
(Proverbs 29:25; John 6:27)
• Submissive is, with awe and reverence, surrendering and yielding our will and plans
over to God’s guidance. (Ephesians 5:21)
• Servant Leadership is exercising real godly leadership as Christ did, by His taking a
towel, influencing, equipping, and empowering people to accomplish God’s purpose
and plan. (Luke 22:26)
• Sincerity is earnest honesty that is readily doing what is right, with pure and loving
intention. (Joshua 24:14; 1 Peter 1:22)
• Success is not what the world says is achievement; it is to know and faithfully follow
God’s Will and His Word. It is our obedience, not our numbers or measurements!
(Matthew 25:21)
• Suffering is not sought, but when it happens, it is d allowing it to turn into a mold to
allow us to be made for the better as “Christ hath suffered” makes us better. It is not a
personal attack, rather it is a means to get our attention to make us better, more useful,
stronger, and to understand what takes place in others. (1 Peter 4:1–19)
• Supportive is to come along side others, sharing our strength and courage in their
afflictions and troubles. (Galatians 6:2)
• Tactful is being considerate, delicate, and diplomatic with other’s feelings and ideas,
doing, and saying the right thing. (Colossians 4:6)
• Teach is to share our insights and what we have learned with others, to disciple them.
(Matt. 7:28; Matt. 28:19–20; John 7:16; Mark 4:2; 2 John 1:9)
• Temperate is to have self-control so we do not lose control and give in to lust and
extremes of society’s ills. (Titus 2:12)
• Tolerant is being forbearing and patient with others, even when they are different or
weaker. (1 Thes. 5:14)
• Thoroughness is careful diligence that carries out our call with our very best for God’s
approval. (Ecclesiastes 9:10; Colossians 3:23)
• Time is the moments in which we either burn or live for His glory. It is the
opportunities we have to live, serve, learn, and grow. In so doing, if we invest wisely,
we will produce eternal treasures. If not, it will go to waste. (Psalm 90:12)
• Virtue is holding onto the principles of moral excellence that calls us to a higher level
where few people desire to go, but as a Christian, we must go! (Col. 3:12–17)
• Zealous is maintaining our enthusiasm for our faith and call, not allowing our church
or us to fall into a rut of meaningless rhetoric. (Luke 2:49; John 2:17; John 8:29)