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“What makes your personality different from others” One of the first objects out there that provides and
infant with oral satisfaction is his mother's breast. The
Human nature is basically DETERMINISTIC. Our mother's breast is a main source of connection
behavior is determined by irrational forces, unconscious and satisfaction.
motivations, biological/ instinctual drives, and certain
events during the first 6 years of life. The first attachment of the infant ay sa mother through
breastfeeding. Hindi masyado na-secure ang attachment
The development of identity and attitudes toward sexual may epekto kaya nagkakaroon ng weaning. If masyado
behavior are formed during early childhood maaga or masyado matagal nagkakaroon ng oral
fixation. Stuck tayo sa oral
By the time na teenager ka, may silip na sa personality Example: Excessive eating, smoking, drinking liquor,
mo too much daldal – sumosobra na ganon
The personality that you live with today, the one that Developmental task/s
charms in order to get you dates, makes lists and never • Weaning
gets anything done, makes sure that your locker is not a Weaning presents the infant with his first
mess was molded in your earliest days conflict between his desire and reality.
• Oral Fixation
According to Freud you were a final product by the time Psychosexual stage: Anal
you hit puberty All babies have to grow up some time, and when
they do they graduate to the erogenous focus of
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the anal stage.
Oedipus Complex – sinasabing mama’s boy tapos
The question at this age is poop.... To Poop or not to sinasabing bakla-bakla
poop? – they discovered na they know how to poop or - if hindi na-satisfy pwede ma-develop
make pigil the poop Electra Complex – papa’s girl
- children will eventually pass that
Developmental task/s
• Toilet – training It’s a stage that we allow other people to go through
- Sigmund said that toilet – training has an effect sa because ma-oout grow rin naman nila. If kayo nasa
personality bahay kayo, magpakasawa na sa mga mahal ng
The central conflict for toddlers if control. magulang. If hindi na-secure ang love sa bahay,
hahanapin sa labas
Some of your adult characteristics may be the
consequence of how your parents handled your toilet Psychosexual stage: Latent
training. Your creativity and productivity are indicators Developmental task – social
of how well you've successfully navigated the anal stage. Kasi more on sa school to kaya mas napapaniwalaaan na
yung ibang tao. Hndi na pamilya ang kanyang mundo
If you're messy, lack self-control, sloppy or careless, it
speaks of an anal expulsive personality Psychosexual stage: Genital
- hindi cinocorrect During this time the person directs sexual impulses
- kapag nagsalita walang preno toward someone of the opposite sex.
- if ang magulang masyado hindi mahigpit, if ang bata
hindi mo tinuruan this person will grow up na “okay Adolescence brings about a reawakening of Oedipal or
lang na marumi may maglilinis naman” Electra conflicts and a reworking of earlier childhood
- disregard consequences kasi may sasalo identifications. The child is now open to learning how to
- if masyado pinaliguan ng parents ang anak ng praises, engage in mutually satisfying relationships
they don’t think na about the consequences kasi may
maglilinis ng kalat nila literally and figuratively Ang mind daw natin ay parang iceberg kasi binubuo raw
ito ng mga different parts
If you're stingy, obsessed with neatness/order, stubborn - konti palang daw nakikita ng mga tao sa atin
and a perfectionist, it may be anal retentive personality
- takot mag-fail, perfectionist, dahan-dahan = bunga ng
strict parents
- madali makapagpalo, magsabi nang masasakit na salita
- if too strict ang toilet – training nagiging sobrang linis
ganon
- kapag masyadong strict ang toilet – training, ang mga
bata makaka-develop ng trauma or ayaw mag-failure
Psychosexual stage: Phallic
• Preschool years
• Begins during the third year of life and may last
until child is 6.
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- seat of intelligence and rationality
Example: add to cart ko nalang muna if meron pera ron
nalang bibili
Denial
- try to close your eyes to reality, or ayaw mo harapin
kasi it’s too painful
- ayaw pa tanggapin sa sarili pero nandyan na sya right
in front of your face
- first stage
- it takes a while to process it, kasi may mga aftermath
- may addiction to something pero dinedeny mo
Repression
ID - repressed emotions in us
- biological component - may mga bagay na di proud sabihin
- operates on the pleasure principle - mamanifest nalang sa ibang bagay
- spoiled brat of the personality - but for people na difficult to forget, iniiwasan nalang
- gusto lagi plineplease nila yon
Ex: may project tapos puyat ka tapos need ng - involuntary removal of something from the
participation mo, pero dahil puyat ka hirap mo kausapin consciousness/awareness
- eto part ng brain na sinasabi na satisfy mo muna Reaction Formation
cravings mo like rest, sleep, food - defense against threatening impulse by actively
- unahin mo sarili mo expressing the opposite impulse
- may na-ffeel tayo pero hindi natin brinobroadcast
Di lahat nanaig si ID, kasi nandyan si super-ego Example: nagpaka-friend ka sa kaibigan na to tapos may
Super-ego sinasabi pala sya sayo na hindi maganda. Upon
- may mga part na hindi napapansin investigation may sinasabi na hind inga talaga maganda.
- social component Tapos nakita mo sa school tapos sinasabi ng isip mo
- works on the morality principle “awayin mo yan” tapos nung lumapit sayo, ang sabi mo
- represents the ideal and strives for perfection hi bes ganon. Kabaligtaran ang sinabi mo. We were
- alam ang tama sa mali trained na hindi basta-basta nag-rreact sa emotions
- sya nag-aano kay id Projection
- marami nag-ccontribute dito like church, parents - attributing to another person one's own unacceptable
Example: bumili kana ng shoes, deserve mo yan desires, motives, or impulses
regaluhan mo sarili mo, birth month mo na. tapos - you may hate someone, but your superego tells you that
papasok si super-ego sasabihin huy meron kapa shoes such hatred is unacceptable. You "solve" the problem by
don na di pa nasusuot tapos diba magbabayad kapa believing that they hate you
school bus ng anak mo - meron mga beliefs na motibo na gusto mo gawin or
Ego thoughts pero di mo maamin sa iba kasi 1) nakakahiya 2)
- psychological component ayaw ma-judge
- works on the reality principle
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Example: Babae ka pero crush mo young teacher mong mapabayaan ko” “Hindi naman ako masyado tinutukan
babae pero hindi mo maamin sa mga kaklase mo kasi di ng teacher ko”
mo ma-out. Because you think it’s embarrassing and
may confusion. Tinatago mo, kinikimkim mo. Habang Sweet lemon
naglalakad ka tapos narinig mo mga kaklase - nagbibigay ng excuses pero di ka naninira sa
pinaguusapan crush mo tapos sabi mo “crush nyo sya experience, nag-ffocus ka sa positive side
ne” tapos prinoproject mo sa iba yung ikaw naman Example: di nanalo sa news writing “Hindi ko nakuha
talaga nakaka-feel. You project it to other people kasi it’s not for me, baka may better plan sya for me”
because you are still afraid and shy. These are Sublimation
unpleasant feelings. - similar to displacement, diverting energy into other
- hindi mo tanggap sa sarili mo kaya kapag nakakakita channels that are usually constructive/ acceptable/
ka ng ganon nabubusit ka admirable
Displacement - Many great artists and musicians have had unhappy
- redirecting energy/ impulse toward a powerless lives and have used the medium if art and music to
substitute when original target is unaccessible express themselves
- someone who is frustrated by his teacher may go home - Sports
and kick the dog or get mad at a family member - divert sa productive and constructive doing
- present na sya kaso you have this impulse and negative Example: si taylor swift kapag sa mga lalaki nya ganon
feeling tapos gagawa nalang sya kanta
Example: Saturday morning walang pasok, tapos nakita Regression
ng nanay mo na magulo yung kwarto mo tapos nagalit. - coping with anxiety by clinging to immature/
Syempre kakagising mo tapos ganon sasabihin so uminit inappropriate behaviors
na ulo mo. Tapos di mo naman masigawan nanay mo. - movement back in psychological time when one is
When you displace because you cannot hit or make ganti faced with stress. when we are troubled or frightened,
sa tao that make your anxiety so you will take an inferior our behaviours often become more childish or primitive
move. Sa iba mo na ddisplace yung galit mo nun - a child may begin to such his thumb again or wet the
(something inferior) Kunwar isa kapatid tapos sakanya bed
ka nagalit e wala naman sya ginawa - step back
- pwede ring positive emotions - when you regress, you use your childhood behavior
- whenever our emotions are high, wag ka magbibitaw such as crying
ng salita or action baka pagsisihan mo Compensation
Rationalization - masking perceived weakness or developing certain
- we become more logical, reasons, excuses positive traits to make up for limitations
- explaining away failures/ losses or justifying specific - compensate from what you lack or insecurities but
behaviors. we do it often enough when we provide hindi natin napapakita agad kasi nahihiya tayo
ourselves with excuses Example: sa inyong magkakapatid, hindi ikaw lagi ang
- Sour-graping, Sweet lemon (2 types) napapansin. May ate ka na laging napapansin “pwede
- we do something pero binibigyan ng dahilan not just to beauty queen” tapos ikaw naghihintay na ikaw naman
convince other people but also convince yourself kasi di ang mapuri kaso wala they compensate, try to find saan
mo nakuha ang gusto mo sila magaling. And baka balang araw ron ka naman
puruhin
Sour-graping - it also happens sa mga magulang, kapag may guilt sila
- may fox daw na pane abot nung grapes kaso di na - ayaw mo pakita ang pagkukulang na ito, so kakambyo
maabot tapos sabi maasim-asim naman ang grapes ka para hindi mo mapakita
- binibigyan ng excuses mga kawalan natin, goals natin Humour
- sabihin na natin may goal ka tapos di mo nakuha, you - sometimes when faced with triggers or anxiety
say something negative about the experience. “di naman inducing situations, tinatawanan nalang
to okay, okay lang na hindi napunta sakin” - di rin sya maganda kasi nagpapatawa kahit di na akma
Example: Sumali sa newswriting, tapos hindi nakakuha sa situation
ng place. Kaso pagdating sa contest hindi mo nakuha. - anything too much is not good
“Alam mo okay lang na hindi ko nakuha, lagi naman na Example: sa isang lamay, may isang nalulungkot. Tapos
wala ako sa school baka miss na ako ng mga kaklase ko. di comfy ang isa so magpapatawa or alleviate the
Extracurricular lang naman to baka yung academics ko
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situation by cracking a joke about sa namatay. It
becomes a coping mechanism
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