ISLAMIC CIVILIZATION AND

CIVILIZATION ASIA

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SEPTEMBER 2023
VIRTUAL INTERVIEW SESSION

MAJLIS PERKAHWINAN
PELBAGAI KAUM DAN BANGSA

PREPARED BY:

NO NAME MATRIX ID PICTURE COURSE

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AMEERAH IWANI BT MOHD SOFIAN 012023091841 BCM

2

MUNIRAH ZAHIAH BT MOHD AFENDI 012023091842 BCM

3

NURUL KHOLILAH BINTI MOHAMAD SUKRI 012023090373 BGD

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CHEAH YENG JIE 012023070086 BVM

5

MAISARAH BT SAIFUDIN 012023070299 BGD

6

A'LIYAH NATASHA BT ZUL AFIZI 012023070046 BGD

7

AMILA FARHANA BT AZMAN 012023091433 BGD

8

NURHUDA HURAIYAH BT ABD RASHID 012023070042 BGD

9

ANIS SYAHFIQAH BT MOHD ZAINI 012023070177 BGD

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RUTHRAATHEVY CHANDRAN 012023020226 BVM

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Link Pautan: https://youtu.be/nX1v5OV2tv0?si=Gt3zeWceMkiJtZFL

Peranan Ahli Kumpulan

Pengerusi Majlis Ameerah Iwani Bt Mohd Sofian

Juruacara Amila Farhana Bt Azman

Forum Penceramah ● Nurul Kholilah Binti Mohamad Sukri

● Cheah Yeng Jie
● Maisarah Bt Saifudin
● A'liyah Natasha Bt Zul Afizi
● Nurhuda Huraiyah Bt Abd Rashid
● Anis Syahfiqah Bt Mohd Zaini
● Ruthraathevy Chandran

Editor Munirah Zahiah Bt Mohd Afendi

Biodata Panel Jemputan

Panel jemputan bernama Cik Kirsten Michelle Groen. Beliau

berumur 25 tahun dan berasal dari Amerika Syarikat. Beliau tinggal
di Amerika Syarikat sehingga berumur 21 tahun. Beliau sedang
menetap di Macau, Hong Kong sudah hampir 5 tahun. Beliau
berpindah negara kerana mempunyai keinginan untuk mempelajari
bahasa Mandarin di negara tersebut. Bukan itu sahaja, beliau juga
berminat dalam bidang pengajaran dan sedang bekerja sebagai
seorang guru.
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Soalan:
Pusingan pertama:
- Adakah bangsa anda menyediakan wang hantaran kepada kedua-dua belah pihak, atau
satu pihak, atau tiada?
Pusingan kedua:
- Bagaimana pengaruh moden mempengaruhi pakaian tradisional yang dipakai oleh
pasangan pengantin perempuan dan lelaki?
Pusingan ketiga:
- Apakah peringkat awal proses perkahwinan?
Pusingan ke-empat:
- Adakah terdapat upacara atau adat yang perlu dilakukan selepas menjalankan proses
perkahwinan?

Skrip

Pengenalan
EMCEE:

Assalamualaikum and a very good evening to everyone and welcome Miss Kirsten to our forum
discussion. Thank you very much for attending the forum for today. Our topic for this evening is
“Wedding ceremonies of various races and nationalities”.

Isi
EMCEE:

First of all let me introduce to all of you about our speakers for this morning. We have Ameerah,
Munirah, Aliyah, Maisarah, Lila, Huda, Nicole, Anis, Rutraa and also me Amila as your
moderator for this morning. Let’s start the discussion with our panel. The first question is does
your nation provide remittances to both sides or one side, or none?

PANEL:

America Depends on white Family: - If they have money, they would give you a house (HIGH
CLASS). If they can't afford it, even a small gift they will give small little things / gifts (LOW
STANDARD) as a couple not as individually.
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SPEAKER 1:

The traditional Malay marriage is a colorful and vibrant celebration that combines Malay culture
with Islamic marriage rites and can often last for several days, and has distinct ceremonies.

Gift And Dowry

Groom offering gifts to the bride’s family is typical in Malay culture. As a sign of the beginning of
a husband’s commitment to his wife in providing for her daily needs, gifts presented by the
groom to the bride are required. However, marriage can go forward even without it.

Once the proposal is accepted – this may take up to a week – the engagement date is
determined. During bertunang (engagement ceremony), gifts are exchanged between the
couple, and the amount of mas kahwin (dowry) agreed upon. The engagement period may last
between six months and three years.

SPEAKER 2:

Before I explain about the remittance issue of who provides it, allow me to introduce myself. My
name is Nurul Kholilah Binti Mohamad Sukri with matric number 012023090373.

Okay, for the question posed to the panel, that is, does your country provide remittances to both
parties, or one party, or neither? Answered by our panel, Kirsten for american culture in
marriage. With that, I unraveled the issue from the point of view of the Indian in Malaysia in the
marriage customs here about dowry.

In the past, dowry was requested by almost every family of the groom from the bride's family.
The dowry that is requested will sometimes burden the bride's side and this causes them to be
unable to marry. Nowadays, Indian society where Dowry is no longer required not to burden the
bride's family.

They are more willing to cooperate and bear the marriage together. This is a positive change
and this change gives respect to women because they are no longer considered a burden. In
conclusion, the Indian community in Malaysia has various marriage customs that have been
passed down from generation to generation, but due to the passage of time, there have been
some changes.

But there are a few Indian communities who still try and try to maintain their traditional wedding
customs to this day. The continuation of the marriage customs of the Malaysian Indian
community needs to be maintained through so that they do not lose their identity and
self-identity. That's all from me , thank you.
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EMCEE:

Thank you to our panel and speakers for the answers. Now we move on to the next Question.
How have modern influences impacted the traditional clothing worn by the brides and grooms?

SPEAKER 3:

Fusion of Traditional and Contemporary Styles:

Bridal Lehengas: While the basic silhouette of a bridal lehenga (a long skirt, choli or blouse, and
a dupatta) remains traditional, modern influences have led to the incorporation of contemporary
elements. This can include experimental cuts, unconventional color combinations, and the use
of non-traditional fabrics.

Sherwanis and Suits: Grooms' attire, particularly sherwanis and suits, have seen a modern
twist. Designers now experiment with different cuts, fabrics to create outfits that blend traditional
elegance with a contemporary flair.

Color Palette:

Traditional colors like red, maroon, and gold remain popular for brides, symbolizing
auspiciousness and prosperity. However, modern influences have introduced a wider range of
colors for both brides and grooms. Pastels, jewel tones have become more common.

Fabric Choices:

Modern textile technologies have expanded the range of fabrics available for wedding attire.
Brides and grooms now have more options in terms of material, which can influence the overall
look and feel of the outfit. While silk remains a staple for bridal wear, there's a growing trend
towards lighter fabrics like georgette, chiffon, and net. These materials are preferred for their
comfort and ease of movement, especially for destination weddings or events with a more
relaxed atmosphere.

Incorporation of Western Elements:

Western influences, such as corsets, off-shoulder blouses, and contemporary cuts, have been
integrated into traditional bridal and groom attire. This blend of Eastern and Western styles
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creates a unique, modern look.

Embellishments and Embroidery:

Traditional sari work and intricate embroidery techniques continue to be popular, but modern
influences have brought in new forms of embellishments. Sequins, crystals, and even 3D floral
are now commonly used to add a touch of contemporary glamor.

Accessories:

Jewelry styles have evolved with modern influences. Brides may opt for minimalist designs,
statement pieces, or a mix of both, depending on their personal style and the overall look they
want to achieve. Grooms are also experimenting with accessories like lapel pins, brooches, and
unique turban ornaments.

Global Trends and Fashion Weeks:

Exposure to global fashion trends through fashion weeks, social media, and international
designers has influenced Indian bridal and groom wear. Designers often incorporate elements
from international fashion into their collections, giving traditional outfits a modern edge.

Customization and Personalization:

With the rise of bespoke and designer wear, couples now have the opportunity to work closely
with designers to create outfits that reflect their individual tastes and preferences. This allows for
a more personalized touch, incorporating modern elements that resonate with the couple and
creativity in wedding attire.

PANEL:

America got influence from Europe actually. Europe originally made up the traditions, some
culture (colorful dresses). In 40s, 80s. Queen Victoria wore a white dress to her wedding so
woman take that as a fashion trend in that era and Queen Victoria: successful marriage and had
many children. Wedding dress color black also used by women in the past.

Instead of 1 dress, they have more. 1 for ceremony dress and I for party dress.
● Accessories (western culture)
- In China, they have veil.
- Western culture, they have see through veil and white color to match with their wedding
dress.
→ If the woman had a scar, they have to cover up / hide
so the man couldn’t run away.
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→ veil, tiara, earings. (Accessories )

SPEAKER 4:

Fabric and Materials: Traditional fabrics like silk and songket are still popular choices for
wedding attire. However, modern influences have introduced a wider range of fabric choices,
including more affordable options. Brides and grooms may opt for lighter, more comfortable
materials to suit the Malaysia weather.

Design and Style: Modern fashion trends have influenced the design and style of traditional
wedding attire. While the basic elements of traditional Malay wedding attire remain intact,
designers often incorporate contemporary elements, such as modern silhouettes, embroidery
techniques, and color combinations, to create a fusion of traditional and modern aesthetics. In
multicultural Malaysia, it's not uncommon for couples from different ethnic backgrounds to
incorporate elements from each other's traditions into their wedding attire. This fusion of cultures
can result in unique and modern interpretations of traditional wedding attire.

Tailoring and Fit: Modern tailoring techniques and technologies have improved the fit and
comfort of traditional wedding attire. Brides and grooms may now have their outfits custom
-made to ensure a perfect fit, and modern innovations have made it easier to achieve the
desired look while maintaining comfort. Modern lifestyles often require convenience and
practicality. Some couples may opt for wedding attire that is easier to put on and move in,
especially if they have multiple outfit changes throughout the wedding celebration.

Color Choices: Traditional Malay wedding attire often features colors like white and gold Modern
influences have introduced a broader palette of colors, allowing brides and grooms to choose
from a wider range of hues that suit their personal preferences and reflect their individuality.

Accessories: Accessories play a crucial role in traditional wedding attire. Modern influences
have seen the introduction of new accessories and the incorporation of modern jewelry designs
to complement traditional outfits. Brides, for example, may wear statement necklaces, earrings,
or hairpieces that blend traditional and contemporary elements.

EMCEE:

Thank you speaker Alya, speaker Maisarah and our panel for the answer. We move on to the
next question. What is the initial stage of the marriage process?
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SPEAKER 5:

Thank you, Miss Amila.

Hello and a very good evening to all the speakers and to our panelist, I’m Anis Syahfiqah Binti
Mohd Zaini. so based on our topic today, the marriage ceremony of various ethnic and nations,
and the question is What is the initial stage of the marriage process? From my research about
first stage in Indian wedding

Traditionally, the process begins with families of the grooms or, process of kundali in other
words is horoscope matching which is to analyze the birth chart to ensure similarity between the
couple than the groom families will decide whether the woman is suitable for their son's life
partner or not.

The time to visit the woman's house is also kept as a secret from the groom. In Indian culture,
the concept of proposal has few of levels, and factors that need to be focused on include ethnic,
economic, social position, and general features such as level of education and type of jobs.
After getting approval from both sides, the groom family will come at the bride house in an odd
number carrying many goods such as coconuts, betel nuts, and others.

The groom-to-be will say the vows to declare his willingness to marry the bride, and the
marriage will be officially announced. As a symbol of their relationships, the two partners are
going to exchange the betel nuts the couple will do niccayam ritual, which is generally the
exchanging of flower ring, after discussing the wedding day and shopping for decoration,
invitation cards, and so on.

SPEAKER 6:

I want to share some insights about the first stage of marriage among the Malay ethnic group.

So, in Malay culture, the first stage of marriage is called "Merisik." It's when the guy's family
visits the girl's family to see if they're a good match. The primary purpose of Merisik is to
introduce the families and assess whether the woman is interested in the proposal. During this
phase, a family representative (Wakil) plays a crucial role in assessing the girl's background and
initiating discussions with the girl's family about their intentions. If there's a positive response, it
may lead to further investigations.

The next stage is known as "Bertunang" or engagement. Once Merisik has been successful and
there's a positive connection between the two families, the man's family will pays another visit.
During this visit, the guy's family visits again to discuss when the engagement will happen, what
gifts and money they'll give to help with the wedding expenses, and the wedding date. The
engagement is also where both families sit down and plan the wedding and talk about the
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wedding arrangements or the consequences if one side wants to cancel the engagement.

PANEL:

Western culture - Family Tradition

→ Proposal = diamond ring as traditional nowadays because it has an issue in terms of woman
think that diamond is really big in the 90th century.

- After engagement, they have engagement party (normally family or closed friend) mostly
just a small party.
- After engagement party, you have a gap between and actually when you get married.
- Depends on the couple.
- Depends on the family too, if they help/ contribute the couple to make ceremony
wedding.
- Cost more then 100,000 dollars.
- Expensive.

EMCEE:

Thank you speaker Anis, speaker Huda and our beloved panel for the answer. Now we move on
to the last question. Are there any rituals or customs that take place after the wedding
ceremonies? For this slot I’m opening the question to any of our speakers and panel.

PANEL:

Actual wedding

- where the bride and the groomers lead by the religious that they are following members
community.
- bride walks on the aisle, then have another party which is "Reception" where the bride
will change their wedding dress outfit into dancing outfit.
- Traditional: Bride will dance with the father for one last time.9NOBODY ALLOWED TO
DANCE AT THAT TiME)
- After ceremony, they have a bouquet of flowers to throw it to the back and whoever
catches it, is supposedly to get married next.
- cut the cake party.
- wedding Night.
- Wedding Day is such along dan even the couple cant have the welding night.
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SPEAKER 7:

Rukhsat – The Goodbyes

After the traditional Muslim wedding has been brought to an end by the Arsi Mushraf, the first
post-wedding ritual begins. This is known as Rukhsat. Here, the bride is given the opportunity to
bid her family goodbye.

After the wishes and farewells, the father of the bride hands her over to the groom and asks him
to take good care of his daughter. The bride then leaves the wedding venue with her groom and
heads to his house. On her arrival at her new home, she is welcomed by her mother-in-law who
then places the Holy Quran on her head to symbolize her duties as a wife.

Walimah – The Grand Celebration

The Walimah, also known as Dawat-e-dalimah, is the second post-wedding ritual of a Muslim
wedding. It is a lavish wedding banquet that is usually hosted by the groom’s family. Immediate
and distant relatives, friends, and even neighbors are invited to the feast. It is a grand wedding
reception that is organized for the newlyweds to wish them a happy married life.

This reception allows the couple to unwind a bit and also be introduced to extended family
members and friends. The couple is treated like royalty and they are showered with more gifts
and blessings. Walimah is the final public declaration of the marriage, in the presence of loved
ones, to the whole community.

Chauthi – Visiting bride’s house

The last post-wedding ritual is called Chauthi. This happens four days after the wedding. The
bride and groom set out to visit the bride’s family. On their arrival, they are greeted by the bride’s
family with lots of gifts and love. After the greetings and pleasantries, the family moves to the
dining room for a hearty meal.

The meal marks the end of the long but exciting wedding ceremony and rituals between the two
families. The bride and groom are once again showered with gifts and prayers before they
leave.

SPEAKER 8: Hi, first of all I would like to introduce myself, I'm Rutraathevy Chandran from
course BVM. Yes, there are rituals and customs that take place after the wedding ceremony in
Indian Culture.

One of the common ceremony is Griha Pravesh ceremony, is a traditional Indian ritual that
marks the bride's entry into her new home after her wedding. The ceremony us performed on
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the first day that the bride and groom arrives at their new home together. It is a joyous occasion
that symbolizes the bride's new beginning as a wife and a member in her husband's family.

The ceremony typically begins with the bride and groom being welcomed at the doorstep of their
new home by the groom's parents and other family members. The bride's mother-in-law then
performs aarti, a Hindu ritual that involves waving a lit flame before the bride and groom they
step into the home. The bride and groom led to prayer room, where they perform a pooja (
prayer ceremony) to seek blessings of the God.

After the pooja, the bride and groom are served a Indian sweet dish, such as laddo as a symbol
of sweetness and prosperity. The bride is them given a tour of the house and introduced to the
relatives. In some regions of India, there are additional rituals that are performed during Griha
Pravesh ceremony. For example, in some communities, the bride is asked to kick a pot of rice at
the entrance of the house. This is believed to bring good luck and prosperity to the new couple.
That's all from me. Thank you.

EMCEE:

Thank you to our panel, speaker Nicole and speaker Rutraa for answering the question. Now,
we move on to the free session question and answer.

SPEAKER 9:

If you were given a choices, would you like to marry someone of the same race as you or
another race?

PANEL:

I don’t have the preferences. Personally, I don’t see myself getting married. I don’t care, I would
follow the traditional weddings if I'm getting married.

EMCEE:

Thank you speaker Munirah and our panel for the question and answer.

Penutup

EMCEE:

I’d like to close this forum by thanking all of the speakers and our beloved panel Miss Kirsten for
your participation in our forum discussion. Thank you and have a good day.
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Mesyuarat

● Mesyuarat perbincangan tentang topik forum. Kehadiran adalah penuh.

● Mersyuarat sebelum tarikh forum iaitu 12/10/2023. Kehadiran 3/10 kerana atas sebab
beberapa ahli kumpulan mempunyai hal masing-masing

● Forum sedang dijalankan. Kehadiran adalah penuh.


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