Crises can be developmental, situational, existential, or ecosystemic in nature. Grief crises involve an inability to manage feelings after a death. The counselor listens empathetically and allows the client to share memories. Suicidal crises indicate a desire to escape an unbearable situation. The counselor explores their own feelings to understand the client's despair. Rape crises are traumatic and victims face stigma, so counselors provide support immediately after and in the weeks and months following to help deal with physical, emotional, social, and legal impacts.
Crises can be developmental, situational, existential, or ecosystemic in nature. Grief crises involve an inability to manage feelings after a death. The counselor listens empathetically and allows the client to share memories. Suicidal crises indicate a desire to escape an unbearable situation. The counselor explores their own feelings to understand the client's despair. Rape crises are traumatic and victims face stigma, so counselors provide support immediately after and in the weeks and months following to help deal with physical, emotional, social, and legal impacts.
Crises can be developmental, situational, existential, or ecosystemic in nature. Grief crises involve an inability to manage feelings after a death. The counselor listens empathetically and allows the client to share memories. Suicidal crises indicate a desire to escape an unbearable situation. The counselor explores their own feelings to understand the client's despair. Rape crises are traumatic and victims face stigma, so counselors provide support immediately after and in the weeks and months following to help deal with physical, emotional, social, and legal impacts.
• Each one of us has gone through a crisis at one time or another.
• What we all are going through is no less. • There are at least 4 types of common crises : • 1. Developmental : These take place in the normal flow of human growth & development under circumstances that are considered normal ( e.g., child birth, marriage, retirement). • 2. Situational : Uncommon & extraordinary events occur that an individual has no way of predicting or controlling ( loss of a job, road accident) • 3. Existential : This includes “inner conflicts & anxieties that accompany important human issues of purpose, responsibility, independence, freedom, & commitment” (James,2008). • 4. Ecosystemic – In this, some natural or human-caused disaster overtakes a person or a group of people who find themselves, through no fault or action of their own (James,2008) (e.g., earthquake, tsunami, act of terror, corona virus pandemic). • Grief Crisis • An individual is unable to manage his feelings following the death ( sudden or natural) of a loved one or some significant members of the society or family. The person just cannot cope with this difficulty & painful situation. • The person may recall or want to talk about the person lost - share the memories, etc. • While the client is speaking the counsellor listens & tries to experience the client’s painful feelings along with him. • The duration of a grief reaction depends on the success with which a person does the grief work – adjustment to the environment in which the loved one is missing, forming new relationships, etc. • One barrier to grief work could be the avoidance of the expression of emotion necessary for it ( Lindemann,1944). • The grieving person is in bondage to the deceased. • To free the person from this bondage, the counsellor must be willing to experience along with the client the profound sense of loneliness, guilt, responsibility , etc. ( survivor’s guilt). • To do this, the counsellor , must have his feelings well in control. • Factors in Working Through Grief • A number of factors play a part in how well or poorly a grief crisis can be resolved: • First, the suddenness of the death is of much practical importance. Then there is a qualitative difference between our loved one suddenly dropping dead & a loved one lingering on for a period of time, wasting away with illness. • Rubin’s Model – Rubin has proposed a 2-track model of bereavement, similar to Lindemann’s, but particularly applicable for understanding our complex adjustment process. • This model refers to the bereavement response both from the perspective of the bereaved ’s emotional bond with the deceased & the bereaved’s personality change as a result of the grief. • The task of the grief response is to re-establish functioning in all areas, even if it does not necessarily reach the pre-loss levels of functioning. • Rubin has outlined 3 main stages: • Acute grief period - First stage requires the bereaved to accept the reality of the loss & to begin the loosening of emotional attachments to the deceased . It is marked by dramatic changes in behavior & pronounced personality modification. • Mourning period – The second stage is marked by a more subdued process of detachment from the deceased & more subtle changes in personality. Some personality variables may have stabilized, while others are still influenced by the continuing process of affective detachment from the loved individual. • The final stage – A resolution has been achieved. The detachment process has reached its conclusion & personality changes have also stabilized. Equilibrium has been achieved. At this stage, the affective relationship to the deceased & the presence/ absence of persisting personality changes can be discussed objectively. The bereaved is more rational. • COMPARE IT TO THE INDIAN SITUATION: THE MOURNING PROCESS CARRIED OUT(FIND OUT FROM YOUR PARENTS& GRANDPARENTS) • Suicidal Crisis • In this situation, the client expresses to the counsellor either a specific or vague intention of committing suicide. Usually such a client is suffering from a feeling of overwhelming helplessness & futility, the belief that nothing can help, nothing can make a difference. • The person feels closed in, confined in an unbearable situation from which there is no escape. • The fact that the suicidal client is speaking to someone about these feelings , is seeking help, indicates a desire to prevent it though he does have suicidal ideation. • In dealing with the suicidal client, the counsellor must be willing to listen to the client & recognize that depression is overcoming the client. • It, however, gets difficult if the counsellor himself starts feeling anxious because of the subject of suicide. • Hence, to help others, counsellors must resolve their own anxiety about the issue to elicit pertinent information from clients. • Therapeutically, the counsellor can do is, to tell the client that things are not as bad as they seem & that things will improve & that he (the client) has several reasons to go living. The client on the other hand may feel that he is not being understood. • Hence, the counsellor should put himself in the shoes of the client & also be willing to explore in himself those feelings of despair & emptiness that he (counsellor) personally tries to avoid. The counsellor should – • Ascertain whether the method of destruction has been arrived at. The more specific the client’s plans, the closer he is to carrying out the act. • Its not advisable to have the client “look at the bright side” of the situation. If he could see the bright side, he would not be in this situation. • To take all suicidal threats seriously. • Rape Crisis (Sexual abuse) • Rape victims are being recognized as those who are special & have suffered a trauma of a unique nature. • Hence, the need for providing counselling services for such victims is on a rise, either immediately following the rape trauma or in the days, weeks, & months thereafter. • According to Nass (1977), the stigma attached to the victim of rape which is traceable to cultural sex role stereotypes & irrational popular judgments of female complicity that discourages the woman in crisis to reach out for help. • Public ridicule & scorn is attached to the victim sharing her experience. The rape victim is isolated from the supports available to victims of other types of misfortunes. • Police authorities, court, peer, family & other groups may also pose a problem. • Specific counselling interventions depend, to a large extent, on the setting. E.g., in the hospital setting where the victim is first brought, a different type of approach is required, at the police station yet different as compared to the individual counselling setting some weeks after the traumatic event (Williams & Williams,1973). • Broadly speaking, the post rape counselling can be divided into 3 periods: • 1) the hours immediately following the rape • 2) the weeks thereafter, & • 3) long range considerations. • During the hours immediately following the rape, the victim is likely to be either at the police station or the hospital. • The goals of any counselling endeavours will be influenced in these settings by the need to obtain information about the crime, the circumstances, the victim, & about the perpetrator. • The efforts to reduce the victim’s state of distress & relax her ought to be made. • It may be essential at this time to obtain relevant medical information necessary for treatment. Information like is the woman on a contraceptive, is pregnant, has some gynaecological problems , injuries incurred during rape, etc. need to be collected. • Assessment of reactions of family members, e.g., violence against the victim by them. • The rape trauma syndrome ( Holmstrom & Burgess,1975) comprises of the following phases: • 1) Acute phase – It includes many physical symptoms, esp. gastrointestinal irritability, muscular tension, disturbances in sleep,a wide range of emotional/behavioural responses. Many of these problems are dealt with by the physician himself , soon after the attack. • 2) Long term phase – The counsellor plays a vital part in helping the victim get through this phase, which includes life-style changes, changing residence, seeking family support, dealing with PTSD (nightmares,etc.). • Weeks after the rape, counsellor should aim to find out the total effect upon the client’s life, e.g., if her sex- life has been affected, her relations with men post rape, relations with the spouse , other family members. • Also, the physical complaints, adverse comments &/or behaviour at work-place, community , etc. need to be monitored & taken care of. • In some cases there may be a delayed shock response. So, keeping this in mind it’s a good idea to schedule an appointment 6-10 months following rape to see if the immediacy of trauma has subsided. • Movies to be watched : GHAR, ARTICLE 376, FOLLOWED BY A DISCUSSION.