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The Process of Creating A "Self" - Clinical Psychology Associates
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March 24, 2014
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DIFFERENTIATION
The process of creating a “self”
A relationship, by definition, requires more than one person. It
is the state of being related to another. If two persons become
emotionally and functionally one, there is no relationship. For
us to relate in an effective and satisfying way to one another,
we must first know who we are as individuals. This, in turn,
informs us about what we bring to a relationship. If we cannot
stand on our own, buoyed by a strong sense of our own
identity, we cannot stand together with any strength or
integrity.
Murray Bowen, a psychiatrist and pioneer in the field of Family
Therapy, has heavily influenced my thinking in this regard.
Bowen’s work centered on the concept of “differentiation” as a
critical goal in human development. Bowen stressed the
importance of creating a well-differentiated sense of “self”; a
clear idea of who we are and who we choose to be in protected by reCAPTCHA
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relationship to others. Once we are clear about who
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