Step 1.

Confirm "3 Right Things"

Estimate the guy you are talking to if he is the right person and worth your time to
talk to.
📣Confirm the "3 Right things": Confirm he is the right person in the right
place and the right timing is super important before sexting!

The Right Person:

1. Time waster
● The guy who is looking for a serious relationship.
● The guy is not interested in sexting or refuses to sexting.
● Disinterested in talking, short responses.
● Ask for Snapchat/other platforms fast.
● Boring answers, and zero interest in you.
● The guy who swears at you, or says you are fake.

2. High probability prospect

● Haven't had sex in a long time
● Single
● Super chatty, uses a lot of emojis
● Always obey what you say
● Overall great communication
● Shows dick pics only when you ask
The Right Place:

Always make sure the subscriber is at home or a place he is alone and ready to sext before you
start sexting.
Why? Because if he's at work or somewhere around people, there's a high probability he will get
distracted and/or lose interest. You need his FULL attention.

The Right Time:

It's best to be aware of what the user is doing when you want to initiate. If they're out to lunch
with the family, or having their weekly meeting with the boss — not the best time to roll out a
steamy sext.
So always confirm the timing, make sure:
He is ready to sext with you now, and he is available at least for the next 30 minutes.

📣Do not send private content or start sexting in the following situation:
● When you just start a new conversation with the user.
● When the male user refuses to talk about sex.
● When the chat topic isn't sexually involved.
Step 2. Escalate flirting into sexual talk
This is where we step up the flirting into actual dirty talking. During this initial part of dirty talking,
we want to get them engaged.
📣You can flirt while you are confirming the "3 right things", so it looks more natural.
● What would you do to me if I were there right now?
● I can't think of anything but kissing you. Are you alone now?
● I am in my bed now. I hope you are here with me. what are you doing now?
● Too bad you’re not here right now.
● FYI: I just got out of the shower.
● I just thought you should know I love your body.
● I had an amazing dream about you last night.
● I would invite you to come over, but I don’t know if I could control myself.
● BTW… I'm naked right now.
● Nothing turns me on more than thinking about you.
● Do you know how sexy you are?
● If we were in the same room right now, what would you want me to do?
● I’m imagining what would happen if you were here right now.
● I think about your lips a lot. The way they look and the way they feel.
● What would you say if I asked you for a naughty pic?
Step 3. Start sexting
When the convo gets sexual, get them to send dick pics. If they are sending short
responses, 📣 ask them to describe in detail what you want them to do to you.
This part of the convo should pretty much always have them sending a dick pic or a
long detailed sexual message.

Remember you’re playing a role

When initiating sexting you must remember that you are in control and you are playing a role.
Your role is that of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Your
words, photos, and videos can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to
the point of satisfaction.

Script/scene selection (depending on your model profile

pics)
 1. Kinks: If the guy ever told you about his kinks, google it, learn it, and

use it for sexting.

● BDSM (bondage, discipline/domination, submission/sadism, and masochism)
● Roleplay (Boss and employee, The classic maid or butler, A stranger, Pilot/captain,
Professor, and student, Neighbors, Doctor and patient)
● Nipple play
● Hosiery (wearing pantyhose or having a partner wear hosiery)
● Age play (being called baby, little boy/girl, Mummy, or Daddy in bed)
● Pet play
● Threesome
● Piss play/Golden showers

And more...

2. Scenes: Be creative, pick a scene to visualize everything. He will

expect another scene next time.

While sexting might, in some people’s minds, mean going straight for the genitals, you can
actually talk around it in a creative way.
Sexting example: “Tell me what you’d do to me if we were together in a room with just whipped
cream, one candle, and no mattress in sight.”

● A nightclub or concert. Pumping and grinding plus low lights and sexy music allow you
to make bold moves without making it obvious that you're not just dancing.
● The movie theater. A movie theater hand job is fun, but try sitting in the last row and
really getting it on.
 ● Public transportation. Late at night and you're alone in the subway car with your
sweetie. Make it a quickie and have exciting oral sex, or intercourse, before the next
stop.
● In the backyard. Pitch a tent, but first, actually pitch a tent. Move the sex outside after
the kids go to sleep and get romantic under the stars.
● On the kitchen counter. Gives a whole new meaning to eating in.
● On a washing machine during the spin cycle. Think of it as one big sex toy.
● On a boat. As long as you don't get seasick.
● At the office. Before, or after, work hours, when your co-workers aren't around.
● Love in an elevator. doesn't only refer to a popular Aerosmith song. Going down?
● A parking lot. In or out of the car. Your choice. I'd just stay away from those large
floodlights if you aren't looking for extra attention.
● On a roof, or on a roof deck. The sky's the limit.

Use the “emoji sex code.”

Send sexting guidance before sending private content
Use more descriptive words and express the process clearly through language
Examples:

1. Draw the scene:

● I wonder if you can work my body like you’re working your keyboard.
● I was just thinking about you too. Would love to see what you're wearing right now.
● I watched this movie last night where the woman got tied up, and it made me so horny.
● I was reading this article about pet play, and I want to tell you about it.

2. Ask him to do something

● I want you to be gentle with me.
● Just lie back and let me make you feel good.
● Will you grab my [insert body part here]?
● Bend me over your knee and spank me.
 ● OMG, you look so hot right now, but I have a client call in five minutes. Can we rain
check ASAP

3. Encourage him to say something

● Mmmm, that sounds so hot. Tell me more.
● What would you want me to do next?
● Tell me every dirty thing you want to do to me.
● If I've been bad, will you punish me?
● I love it when you talk dirty. Do you?
● You're so good at sexting. Can you keep going?
● Do whatever you want with me tonight.

4. Talk about your feelings

● I unbuckled your belt and I could feel the heat of your bottom…
● I love the sound you make when you cum for me
● I love the feeling of you filling my throat
● You're so naughty, I love it.
● I've soaked three pairs of panties today and just want you ……
● I want your cock between my breasts.
● I'm going to run it slowly across your lips and massage them gently. Then I'm going to
kiss you …… from your lips …… to your neck …… to your chest …… to your penis. But
I'm not going to put it straight into my mouth. I will keep kissing it until you beg me for
more.

(Use selfie sexting images at key action points to make sexting further tangible)

Step 4. Keep sexting (Maximize the

unlocks)
One dirty message one private content
After they buy the first image and send a dirty text back, keep sending the rest of the locked
images and videos each with a dirty message beneath them (preferably responding to the last
dirty thing they said).

During sexting, keep talking about how you want to cum and how you want them to cum with
you. If at any point they stop buying images or videos make sure to call it out and talk about
how bad you want to cum.
Then wait for them to reply, do not send tons of messages.

It's all in the details

The more specific you are in your sexy details, the better you and your partner will be able to
visualize what you’re fantasizing about, and the easier it will be to keep the conversation going.
📣 What can you describe?
1. Feelings 💓
● I can't believe I get to kiss you/taste you/touch you/fuck you.
● I love when you tease me like crazy without letting me come.
● I'm so turned on right now.
● I miss having you inside of me.
● It feels so amazing to be inside of you.
2. Your actions/orders ❤️🔥
● I want you to push me up against the wall and pin me back slowly undressing me.
● I'd love to bend you over. I want you to feel every inch of me as I rub your clit.
● I'm going to make you come so hard.
● Bend me over your knee and spank me.
3. Your wishes 🌟
● I want you in my mouth.
● I wish I could see you masturbating.
● I wish you could feel me inside of you. I want you to ask me for more.
4. Compliments 🎊
● The way your body looks when you're on top is so sexy.
 ● You're making me so wet.
● I love it when you talk dirty.
● You're so good at sexting. Can you keep going?

Get all five senses involved

“Your sexting partner isn’t there with you, so they only have your words (and their imagination)
to figure out what’s going on,” Corrado says. “If you’re describing to them the ways that you’re
touching yourself, make it a sensory experience.” According to Corrado, you want the person
you’re sexting to feel as if they’re right there, seeing, feeling, hearing, smelling, and tasting it all.
Sexting example: “The leather chair I’m sitting in feels so good on my skin right now.”

Ask questions, keep him engaged, call his name

Don’t be afraid to ask your partner questions during sexting, This is a sexual conversation, after
all. Asking sexy questions can be an easy way for you to know what your partner is thinking.
The questions can also assist you in painting a vivid image of their fantasies within their
imagination.
These sample questions:

● What part of me do you want to see?

● Are you turned on right now?
● Did you like it when I ____?
● I learned a new blowjob technique. Can I practice with you?
● Have you ever had anal sex? Want to?
● I got whipped cream all over me. Can you lick it off?
● How loud do you think you can make me scream before the neighbors complain?
Step 5. After they cum
After a user cums do not just disappear.

Tell him how you feel, give him compliments

After they cum tell them how good it was for you and how you want to talk to them again soon.
Basically, you make them feel good and make them feel like you are satisfied.

● You are so good at doing this…

● Nobody can make me feel the way you do.
● We fit so well together.
● You get me going in all the right spots.
● I love it when you get hard for me.
● I love your penis.
● That was the best I’ve ever had.

Ask him the next sexting time

Don't forget to ask when you can sexting with him again!
 ● Can we talk at the same time tomorrow?
● Are you free tomorrow at this time?
● Do you want it again?

Sext with him on a new day, but don't know how to start
sexually?

Examples for you to start the next conversation

● I'm getting wet sitting at my desk right now because all I can think about is how you
touched me last night.
● I've been distracted all day. All I can think about is putting my mouth on you tonight.
● I miss having you inside of me.
● Remember when we did [insert sexual activity here]? It was so hot.
● I can't get you out of my head.
● I miss making you come.
● Can't stop thinking about the view while I was looking up at you with my face between
your legs.
● Remember that time we _____? Let’s try that again.
● Remember when we had sex ___ times in one day? Let’s see if we can beat our
personal record.

QUIZ:
1. Which of the following isn't the "3 right things" to confirm before you sext?

A. The right place

B. The right person
C. The right scene
D. The right timing

2. (Multiple choice) What are the steps you need to take after the sexting is over?

A. Give him compliment

B. Confirm the next sexting time
C. Keep sending private photos/videos
D. Ask him how he feels

3. Which emojis below represent "orgasm"?

A. 😝
B. 🍑
C. 🍆
D. 🎇

4. When is the good timing to start sexting with the user?

A. When he is out for dinner.

B. When he is alone at home.
C. When he is at a party.
D. When he is at work.

5. (Multiple choice) When is not the right time to start sexting?

A. When he is talking about his family.

B. When he refuses to talk about something sexual.
C. When he wants to see your nude photos.
D. When you just start a new conversation with him.

6. (Multiple choice) What are the right things to do if you try to maximize the private
unlocks?
A. I will describe in detail how much I want his body.
B. I will keep leading him to follow my order.
C. I need to ask him to unlock if he stopped unlocking.

7. (Multiple choice) Which description below is correct?

A. I should always guide and lead the conversation.

B. I don't need to sext anymore if the user already unlocks some private content.
C. I should send more private content when the user is getting hyped.
D. It's important to understand the user's sexual needs and habits.