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Death As An Ontological Infidelity
Death As An Ontological Infidelity
Death As An Ontological Infidelity
The philosophical study of death must face the difficulty that death, as a problem, cannot be
reduced to a given phenomenon. On the contrary, if the epicurean thesis about the nothingness of
death is sound, the first obstacle that philosophy in general must get over is how to access the
phenomenon itself. For phenomenology this is especially complicated. As Levinas says, “[d]eath is
the reversal of appearing [lapparaitre]. Contrary to what appears, death is like a return of being in
itself, where that which beckoned turns back into itself, and can no longer respond. It is a movement
opposed to phenomenology.”1 Hence, if philosophy pretends to talk about death, the analytical
thinking needs to take a detour in order to get access to the phenomenon itself, even if it is sneakily.
For example, Levinas has stated in this regard that, “phenomenology seems to make possible the
thinking of nothingness thanks to the idea of intentionality as an access to something other than
oneself, and an access that can be had in a non-theoretical manner.”2 However, if death is the
opposite of the appearance of being, if all of it is what withdraws back into itself, what
understanding can we have of it? What question can we ask about death? What thought is that
which goes towards death? And even what does this going consist of?
In a recent article dated January 19th, 2014, it is argued that the ontological state of patients
declared in a permanent vegetative state (PermVS) is at least ambiguous. Especially interested in
the ethical implications that a clear determination of such status could have in their treatment, the
authors ask, “What, then, is the situation of a patient in PermVS: alive, dead, or some other state?”;
and they conclude that, “it is neither directly alive nor simply dead.”3 What is interesting about the
article is not so much its conclusion, as it rather seems not to reach any, but the methodology
followed which, in itself, shows a turn in its focus: before questioning the meaning behind the states
of living or dead, the authors try to discern the feelings, emotions and beliefs that the relatives of
these patients held. This opens the possibility of interpreting death, not as a determining episode in
the historical existence of an isolated subject, but as a necessarily intersubjective phenomenon and
whose nature, perhaps, we can only access from this intersubjectivity. However, in this respect the
words of Celia Kitzinger and Jenny Kitzinger resonate with even greater importance in stating that:
“Studying the ontological state of patients in PermVS is useful when thinking about the
philosophical implications of possible treatments. However, in another sense, such an approach to
the problem has few uses for family members who daily face the obligation to have a loved one in
such a condition - trying to make sense of both their own experiences and feelings, such as the
confrontations with the present laws and practices that take place while patients are moved through
different diagnostic categories.” 4
Thus, the philosophical study of death not only has to deal with the limitations that the
problem itself imposes on its practice, but also with the urgencies prompted by the new advances in
medical achievements that require in themselves a solution, even if approximate. The article below
1 Levinas, Emmanuel (1993), God, Death, and Time, Princeton University Press, p. 50.
2 Ibíd., p. 68.
3 Holland, S., Kitzinger, C., & Kitzinger, J. (2014). Death, treatment decisions and the permanent vegetative state:
evidence from families and experts. Medicine, health care, and philosophy, 17(3), 413–423. doi:10.1007/
s11019-013-9540-y
4 Kitzinger, Celia and Kitzinger, Jenny, This In-between: How Families Talk about Death in Relation to Severe Brain
Injury and Disorders of Consciousness (“The Social Construction of Death: Interdisciplinary Perspectives”, Eds. Lee
Van Brussel and Nico Carpentier), Palgrave Macmillan, 243.]
is set within this problem. Beginning with a reconstruction of the phenomenon as stated in the
thought of Kierkegaard, Scheler and Heidegger, we seek to develop the concept of death as an
“ontological infidelity” introduced by Paul Louis Landsberg in 1937. In what sense should we
understand this infidelity, and how can this understanding shed light onto the ontological states of
patients in PermVS is the objective of the following pages.
Landsberg refers to death as an "ontological infidelity" for the first and only time through
the following words:
“There is in this decisive experience of the death of a friend something like a sense of tragic
infidelity in his departure, just as there is an experience of death in our own rejection to infidelity.’I
am dead to you, he is dead to me’, is not a figure of speech, it is the abyss.”5
This quote must be analyzed in parts. To begin with, Landsberg compares what, in principle,
we can determine as two different states of being: on the one hand, we are faced with the death of a
friend by which we experience (or “Experience” [Erfahrung], if the movement from the ontic to the
ontological is allowed) a "tragic infidelity." On the other, our rejection to infidelity harbors in itself
an experience of death. However, although in both cases the term "infidelity" seem to be equivalent,
they do not share the same meaning, nor stand for the same function. The same applies to the
concept of death that Landsberg uses in the phrase. To some extent, death reveals a sensation of
"tragic infidelity", and yet, to another, it is death itself what is discovered in our own rejection to
infidelity. That is, in the death of a friend, death seems to be held in a non-thematic way, thus
providing the possibility of accessing something other than itself: the feeling of infidelity. But still,
it is in our rejection to infidelity that we are opened to an experience of death.
Now, in the death of a friend, and by extension of any loved one, it is worth asking who the
unfaithful is, if there is one, and if not, where does this state come from. Therefore, it is necessary to
determine to what extent one experiences an infidelity if the dead person, we suppose, is not guilty
of having died. Moreover, it should be noted that in this first case, death is what is immediately
given and what discovers something that is ontologically prior, while in the second case, the
relationship is exactly the opposite. It is this second type of infidelity what receives closer attention.
Landsberg says that the expression, “I am dead to you, he is dead to me” is not a mere saying, but
that ti is the abyss. But then, how or what is this abyss? Let’s suppose that the origin of this
infidelity lies on the other, then why does Landsberg make it explicit that death is at both ends of
the relationship? What exactly is that which is dead? The relationship, perhaps? Not likely. On the
contrary, the relationship feels more alive than ever in the form of resentment. Nor can we count the
parties as dead either since, properly speaking, they are the agents of the relationship. However, is
that abyss, which is a decisive experience, the same as in essence, Landsberg has seen, underlies the
loss of a loved one? A peculiar relationship prevails in this analysis then: death which reveals an
infidelity, and an infidelity that reveals death. Yet, neither of the terms can be reduced to one
another. We may ask, then, if the source of the experience lies, not so much in the feeling of
infidelity itself, but in that towards which it rises in respond.
It is by precisely understanding death as an answer, what leads Landsberg to strongly
criticize the characterization of human existence as essentially directed toward death [Sein zum
5 Landsberg, Paul Louis (2009), The Experience of Death, United Kingdom, Living Time Digital, p. 18.
Tod]. His criticism will focus mainly on the thanatology of Scheler and Heidegger, whom, of the
first Landsberg will reject the possibility of an intuitive knowledge of death from the experience of
aging; and of the second, that anxiety [Angst] is an original state of being that would reveal an
essential going towards the end. Landsberg emphatically affirms that, “[d]eath considered as a
finality […] is only the reflection of a despairing unbelief, a negation of the person by the person.”6
Nevertheless, both critics appear to be poorly founded. This, however does not undermine the
novelty of Landsberg’s proposal. But the lack of a detailed theoretical development, added to, we
understand, a critical theory that suffers from certain precariousness, makes of the concept
somewhat vague. But, since Landsberg’s theory builds upon his critics of Scheler and Heidegger,
we consider that it is through these authors from where to start any attempt of reconstruction of the
concept.
In the following sections we will present both conceptions of death, Scheler's and
Heidegger's respectively, and the reasons why we believe Landsberg is mistaken in his criticism.
However, prior to this, we consider adequate to make a stop at the analysis that Søren Kierkegaard
has developed of it. We understand that the idea of despair as hopelessness, that is, as the
experience of dying death without death itself ever arriving, together with Scheler’s, Heidegger’s
and even Landsberg’s view of the phenomenon, will gives us the right tools to approach the
question of death as an ontological infidelity.
In The Sickness unto Death, Kierkegaard says that the mere “possibility of this sickness
[despair] is man's superiority over the animal, and this superiority distinguishes him in quite another
way than does his erect walk, for it indicates infinite erectness or sublimity, that he is spirit.”7 For
Kierkegaard, despair opens man to a unique experience, that is, the act of dying death without
death, being the spirit eternal, could arrive effectively.8 As such, human existence is in fact revealed
in a continuous state of tension. On the one hand, his spirit, eternal, is faced up to an experience of
death that perpetuates in time infinitely. On the other, the actual mortal of subjectivity, which is
moving towards death, is revealed in the spirit that experiences it. Between the two extremes there
is a synthetic relationship that remains un-finished: the infinity that inexhaustibly experiences
finitude, and the finitude that is endlessly announced in the infinite. Within this tension, which is a
gerund, remains the possibility of the sickness unto death, this is, despair. Thus, it seems that
Kierkegaard's subjectivity is made up of three elements, the finite, the infinite and the eternal. Now,
what is the eternal in Kierkegaard? The author says that the spirit, the self. But in what sense is the
spirit eternal? Is it in time? No, because time is the relationship in which the synthesis, — the self
— is ”a relation that relates itself to itself.”9 The eternal is eternally on a return-to-itself. Here lies
an existencial dialectic: thesis, antithesis, synthesis; Infinity, finitude, the self. The tension in the
thesis-antithesis couple, —infinite-finite—, is the relationship, —time—, that the self, —synthesis
—, is properly by way of relating. The eternal is a constant re-affirmation of the tension which is
the relationship tensing.
From the very beginning, Scheler states that, "we have to reject with the greatest energy this
idea that makes of the idea of death a generic, purely empirical concept.”14 Death is not the mere
cessation of vital functions, nor the impassable wall against which, eventually, every living thing
crash. Death is not a dark force that reaches existence from a strange and alien sphere, so as in
Landsberg, but it is "already in every ‘phase of life’, however small, and in the very structure of
how we experience it.”15 We have seen through Kierkegaard that despair (hope-less-ness) opened to
an experience of death, without this experience defining what death properly was. We defended the
16 Ibíd., p. 41.
17 Ibíd., p. 27.
18 Ibíd-, p. 37.
death.19 But the relationship with the other is already discovered alienated as a first and original
alienation of the self with its own death prevails; death, which due to its ontological significance,
Scheler understands, is condition for all experience.
Now, how does man manage to achieve knowledge of his own mortality if not through
experiencing the other? Where can man deduces the certainty of his own death from if not from
empirical observation? And hence, what access can knowledge have to its intrinsic ontological
structure if any attempt to do so presupposes an essential impossibility?According to Scheler, that
man is spirit entails that he has a special relationship with the background if the universe. Scheler
calls this metaphysics.20 Scheler understands philosophy as an “loving act of participation between
the core of human being with the essence of all things”.21 Philosophy is not a love that lacks [eros],
but one that opens world in harmonious communion with the essential. It is an openness that pushes
the subject out of himself, to absolute value, to infinity, and, above all, that is not motivated by
domination and manipulation. In this sense, philosophical action is rather an act of surrender that
lets things speak themselves as they are.
This act of renunciation reveals life as a "closed totality, on whose background all the
experiences and special destinies appear”22 The parallelism that Scheler refers when thinking about
the universe and thinking about life is pertinent23 . In as much as communion is participation in the
whole, there is a revealing lack that comes forward, not from the whole, but from within. To use a
Levinas quote: “It the totality there is nothing to think”. Nothingness shows itself as an intuition to
the subject that goes side by side with the affirmation of the self. Thinking being is inseparable from
thinking non-being. Because, the thought that goes towards itself and objectifies this selfness, even
aware of the cardinality of its object in time and space, apprehends it whole but not in its entirety.
Scheler deduces from this the "going towards death" that essentially constitutes existence, and for
which aging is only an empirical and second-order manifestation.
Paul Louis Landsberg has misunderstood the access to death Scheler grants to the subject.
He accuses him for having confused it with the experience of aging. That's why, Landsberg claims
expressly, “the human experience of the necessity of death reaches beyond biology, just as it
reaches beyond the data provided by the feeling of growing old.”24 Schumacher, in the same wake
as Landsberg, also senses that the access to death goes through an analysis of the aging process that
reveals the reality of death as an existence’s a priori.25 In both cases, the critic loses the kind of
understanding philosophy truly is for Scheler, and what it can provides. The modern man, who has
denied death, has first and foremost denied himself. He carries a guilt that pursues him. Man, who
has objectified time on the clock, lives mired in the immediacy of life's most elementary impulses.
Time is not the frame of possibility, but pressure and coercion. From the bottom of the analysis, it
19 Schumacher rejects “the possibility that a consciousness that is defined as a monad, closed to others, could know
with absolute certainty that it is mortal"” [In: Schumacher, Bernard N. (2018), Muerte y mortalidad en la filosofía
contemporánea, Barcelona, Alianza Editorial, S.L., p. 113 “la posibilidad de que una conciencia que se define como una
mónada sin ventanas, cerrada a los otros, pudiera conocer con absoluta certeza que es mortal”. Translation is mine.
20 Scheler, Max, Man’s place in the Cosmos.
21 Scheler, Max (1980), La esencia de la filosofía y la condición moral del conocer filosófico, Buenos Aires, Nova, p.
14. “[la] filosofía es la posibilidad del hombre de “participar en lo esencial de todas las cosas
posibles”(Translation is mine)
22 Scheler, Muerte y supervivencia, p. 28.
23 Ibíd
24 Landsberg, Paul Louis (2009), The Experience of Death, United Kingdom, Living Time Digital
25 Schumacher, Ibíd., p. 107.
pushes up to the surface the idea of an authentic death, which will ultimately be nothing more than a
true way of being.
In the first pages of Being and time, Heidegger already warns us that, “[e]very idea of a
‘subject’ still posits the subjectum ontologically along with it. [Therefore] the point of departure
from an initially given ego and subject totally fails to see the phenomena content of Dasein.”26
Heidegger understands that the history of philosophy, in relation to its questioning about being, is
marked by the attempt to either objectify the subject in being, or to subjectivate being into the
subject. He understands that the question about being cannot start from the security provided by the
ego because it, as it is, is also included in the interrogation.27 However, Heidegger attends that
being, in its being given, it’s shown [Anwesen] thrown [Geworfenheit] "in the world" [in der Welt],
there [Da]. The way in which being is revealed is through a question that does not float in a
vacuum, but that is rooted, taking care of circumstances, a question whose mere enunciation is
already a first answer. But then, who asks? What subject is Dasein? And if Heidegger say none28,
this must be understood in the double sense of the anonymity of an existence governed by the
impersonal One [das Man], and as a particular moment in the history of Being [Seyn]. This is why
Levinas would state that, “Dasein’s privilege resides in the fact that it exists ontologically. All that is
man, all his modalities, are adverbs: not properties but manners of being.”29 But if Dasein is no
subject, who is this that can die? And even more, in what sense are we to understand death as
Dasein's "most proper possibility", the "possibility of all impossibility"30, if Dasein does not attend
to any given identity? Why is death the "possibility of all impossibility" and not, as Sartre would
say, the "impossibility of all possibility”31 ?
To understand this possibility of absolute impossibility, first we need to understand what all
possibility consists of. First, Heidegger prefigures being-thrown [Da-sein] in a state of original
impropriety. But this may lead us to ask whether there is a possible state of property metaphysically
antecedent to the impropriety of being-thrown, or on the possibility of arriving at the property of the
"self" from the mere recognition of one’s own impropriety. This idea lies behind Mauricio
Gonzales’ affirmation that, “the drama of our daily coexistence consists on how to ‘take distance’ to
become properly ‘myself’; how to ‘singularize one self’.32 But none of these options seems correct.
Being-thrown is already and can only be improperly. That is, there is no being-thrown
metaphysically prior to the ontological impropriety of "being there" [Dasein]; and there is no being-
thrown that can overcome the improperly of the gerund through the reaffirmation of “self” “me”
"in the world”. That is why Heidegger says that, “[t]he One is an existential and belongs as a
26 Heidegger, Martin (1996), Being and Time, USA, State University of New York Press, p. 43.
27 Heidegger, Martin (2016), What is Metaphysics?, Jovian Press, p.
28 Being and Time, §25, p. 108-1110.
29 Levinas, Ibíd., p. 58.
30 Being and Time, p. 232.
31 Sartre, Jean Paul (1978), Being and Nothingness, a Phenomenological Essay on ontology, Colorado, Pocket Books,
p. 537.
32 Gonzales, Mauricio (2005), Fuera de casa o de la existencia impropia - Hacia otra lectura de Ser y tiempo, Bogotá,
Universidad de los Andes, p. 223. “el drama de nuestra coexistencia cotidiana consiste en cómo “tomar distancia” para
llegar a ser propiamente “yo mismo”; cómo singularizarse.” [Translation is mine].
primordial phenomenon to the positive constitution of Da-sein.”33 Or in other words, in the
impropriety of being-thrown, being is properly "being there”.
In this sense being is always "away from home" [als Un-zuhause], but existence is as in the
familiarity [Vertrautheit] of the house. His house is everyone’s, There, being “one self" is the act of
being like everyone else; and rejection always has within sight what it rejects, because its sense of
distancing comes from a sharp re-affirmation of what it flees from [die Flucht]. Hence Heidegger
says that,
“The they [das Man] maintains itself factically in the averageness of what is proper, what is
allowed, and what is not. Of what is granted success and what is not. This averageness, which
prescribes what can and may be ventured, watches over every expectation which thrusts itself to the
fore. Every priority is noiselessly squashed. overnight, everything primordial is flattened down as
something long since known. Everything gained by a struggle becomes something to be
manipulated. Every mystery loses its power. The care of averageness reveals, in turn, an essential
tendency of Da-sein, which we call the leveling down of all possibilities of being.” 34
Two ideas seem clear from this quote. First, every possibility is referential, that is, every
possibility of being [Seinsmöglichkeit] references the averageness of existence
[Durchschnittlichkeit] and is referred to it. Yet this statement does not fall into any kind of ethical or
moral judgment. Here, the ontology of throwness [Geworfenheit] is prior to all value, and reaffirms
the publicness of existence as its factual [faktum] facticity [Faktizität]. Second, one must avoid any
idea that substantiates Dasein into an idea of subject. Dasein is the revelation of being as fallen
[Verfallenheit], that is, being-thrown. This throwness responds to a determined structure that
Heidegger calls "care" [Sorge], and that reveals an inexhaustible and original fault; a lack that is, at
the same time, the very being of possibility.35
Now, having analyzed the idea of possibility against the background of existence’s
averageness allows us to understand that that Heidegger characterizes death as the possibility of all
impossibility, and even more, as the “ownmost, nonreferential and unable to bypass potentiality of
being”36 is indeed loaded with a certain value. The possibility of absolute impossibility is the real
possibility, a possibility that does not come from the publicness of existence, nor it refers to it, and
neither can be overcome by it, in this double movement of affirmation and rejection in which the
self tried to distance itself from Them [das Man]. But nonreferential does not mean a-referential;
however, its reference is not to the averageness of existence, but to the event [Erignis] of being as
Enowning37 , that is, as a beginning and as an achievement, but at the same time as its ownmost true
self conclusion. If Heidegger's notion of death is seen on the horizon of his entire work, a strong
messianic sense seems to prevail, one that heralds a new beginning, a new coming. The
38 “The person in his uniqueness and ipseity, which is authenticity (the ownmost or proper) itself, is traced back to this
epic of being [la geste d’être”; Levinas, Ibíd., p. 63.
40 Han, Byung-Chul (2018), Muerte y alteridad, Barcelona, Herder Editorial S.L., p. 75. Translation is mine.
Throughout the analysis of the three authors, Kierkegaard, Scheler and Heidegger, a
constant has been maintained: the spiritual reality of man. In Kierkegaard, the self was understood
as spirit in the sense of a synthesizing action between the finite and the infinite; it was eternal in as
much as an eternal re-affirmative return to itself. In that return to itself, of which time was both the
necessary and the possible condition, a particular experience was opened, that of dying death
without death being able to effectively arrive. This experience was recognized in hope-less-ness.
On the other hand, for Scheler the self was recognized as spirit in the light of a particular
communion that man was able to maintain with the whole. Properly, the spiritual was a relationship
based on renunciation and surrender, which we called love, and from which things were given word
and speech on their own. The finite was subsumed to the infinite, and one and the other were able to
recognize itself on each other in what Scheler understood was philosophy. This special relationship
opened man to the reality of his own death as an original constitutive of himself. To think of oneself
was to cope with one’s own cardinality, granting access to the self as whole though not in its
entirety. This revealed an essential and constitutive nothingness.
Finally, in Heidegger the spirituality of being was only intuited in the responsibility of
being-thrown [Dasein] on the horizon of its own history; the finite was subsumed to the infinite as
the latter sheltered the former. The spiritual was shown through the special relationship between
man and his own death as a redemptive potentiality in the epic of being. Death, as an individual act,
referred to everything and everyone, thus providing the possibility of a new beginning and a new
referentiality. This way, the authenticity of death drew the idea of a messianic heroism that,
although without references, did not remain a-referential.
Only if we accept man’s spiritual reality can we understand Voltaire’s statement that, “the
human race is the only one that knows that it must die.”44 It is this reality what reveals death as a
unique and characteristic phenomenon of human being. That's why these three elements, —
hopelessness as an act of dying death, love as a renouncing and surrounding communion, and the
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Artículos
Holland, S., Kitzinger, C., & Kitzinger, J. (2014). Death, treatment decisions and the permanent
vegetative state: evidence from families and experts. Medicine, health care, and philosophy, 17(3),
413–423. doi:10.1007/s11019-013-9540-y