Why girls are not interested in guys??

Many a times we guys think that the girl we love is just being selfish or shrewd, but most of us guys may not be aware of a single existing fact, that there are mainly 3 types of girls existing in this world: 1. 2. 3. 4. Dose who are after guys for money. Dose who are after guys for love. Those who are after guys for love and money both. Dose who are not interested in any guy.

These are the main three types in which girls fall under and den there are sum other variables which cum under each of the three which are: Care, looks, attitude, nature, style, etc. After considering one of the three main types they usually select a combination of the variables which fall under each.

Chapter 1: Girls Who Are After Guys For Money.

1st I will tell guys about the girls who are after money. As we all know that there are also girls who are just after guys for money. Sometimes we might have observed at times that a bombshell babe may be with a guy who is darker than the night or may lack in many qualities like smartness, looks, style, attitude, etc. but just coz he has got money the girl would like to be with him. It is like a smear on our culture and our Indian believes that in a country where women are considered to be divine there exists girls like this also. But sum girls may not be doing it for fun, for e.g. sum girls may be good looking but they may belong to lower class or middle class families and their colleagues or friends may be from high level society, so they might be watching them spend money and enjoying lives and they might want to have all dose things or want expensive gifts, cars, jeweler, etc. as it is economics that human wants are unlimited and humans are never satisfied beings. But den there also sum other girls who may belong to high society but their wants are like a sewer, no matter how much u throw in it, it is always emptied somewhere and it is always ready for more. They might be getting enough money from their family but as they are never satisfied, they keep a hold of rich and affluent guys who have all the never exhausting money for them. So if a middle class guy, who might be in love with such a girl, will definitely not get her coz she is not interested in his love or care but all she longs is for money. So no matter how much such guys keep on trying. Such guys should not get themselves deeply involved in such girls and should try to know and face the reality of what such girls are and to wait and find for d

right kind of girl and not get impatient and select another wrong girl. I know it is not an easy task to do but den trying is better den getting heartbroken.

Chapter 2: Girls Who Are After Guys For Love.

Now lets move to the most complicated topic of this literature and the longest topic of girls who are after guys for love. Let me 1st of all clear the possibilities included in this chapter: 1. 2. 3. 4. A guy may love a girl who doesnt love him but sum1 else. A guy may love a girl but she is already committed to sum1 else. Both love each other but may not know it as havent told each other. A guy loves a girl and the too loves him but may just be playing around with the guy or just wanting the guy to grovel sum more.

Case 1: it is seen many times that a guy may be after a girl for two reasons, 1. He loves her
and 2. He is after her for tp. Suppose a guy is seriously in love with a girls but she might not talk to him or doesnt become friends with him, or even if they are friends might not show him any signals as she might be in love with sum1 else who might not be loving her. In such a case its kind of a love triangle and the guy who loves the girl should make some inquiries and ask others if that girl loves sum1 else and if she does den he should let her go as forced love is no love. I know this choice is also tough but time is such an ointment it heals things itself. But it is a common practice that if u want to have a dinner on a particular table and that table is already reserved, there is least u can do. There is only 1 way in such a case that u need to talk to the girl and let her know that u really love her and let her know what is in your heart, and if she realizes the amount of love u have for her there is always a silver line of lighting. But there is also a possibility that u are not friends and she is not ready to listen to u or doesnt wants to talk to you, only one way is left and that is u have to befriend her best friend and pass a message through her about how u feel and see if things work out. You also have to be careful while taking such steps that as you dont want to hurt the girl u love or lose your friendship with her friend. Take advice if your friends and her friends, consider all the possibilities and things will work.

Case 2: this is the worst situation for a guy and there is the least that can be done here and I
myself dont have any suggestions in this case. Because if a guy loves a girl who is already committed to sum1 else den u cannot force her or tell sum1 else to force her to forget that guy and love you just because you love her. It is very complicated case and there is hardly anything anyone can do. But there is just one light in a dark cave like this and that is if that guy who your girls is committed to is cheating on her or is not treating her properly for his personal reason, u have to show her how special she is and show your love for her and show her and make her believe that u are nothing like her ex- guy and that u will always treat her like your queen, but den u too have to work hard on your nature if u are short tempered or

possessive because she has already been through worse and expects a better person out of you.

Case 3: this case is really funny or to some people it is really the saddest. Here a guy might
be loving a girl and she also loves the same guy but they might not have told each other for one of the following reasons: 1. Maybe both think that the other doesnt love him/her 2. Both are good friends and fear to lose friendship with each other 3. One of them might be afraid due to reasons of caste, family, conservativeness of society and thus might not have given any signal 4. Both are resistant and shy to express their feelings and so not taken initiative. In such a case one of them should take the initiative by themselves or tell a friend or sum1 else to tell the other person and to make that other person aware of the feeling. Because if none of them take any initiative den they might not know each others feeling and may repent it in future when they cum to know it.

Case 4: again than there are girls who might be loving the guy who loves her and expressed his
feelings for her but the girl may just want to play around with that guy, i.e. to just make that guy wait sum more to see if his feelings are true or that are her feelings true or to know if there is a possibility of better future. And in the other case the girl might just want the guy to grovel sum more, i.e. she might want the guy to flatter her more and just make her realize all the melodramatic stuff about what he can do for her and what he had be without her. In such a case the guy should just hang on sum more if he believes that the girl is not of the 1st type that is for money and should make her girl flatter sum more to get her confidence and to make her aware her that she is the only person and the only jewel who shines in his life. Patience is the only virtue which a guy has to cling on to if he really loves his girl and has confidence and trust on that girl.

Chapter 3: Girl Who Is After Love And Money Both.

The 3rd type of girls are those who are with a guy for love and money both. Lets consider an example coz many people think that this is not a possibility and this is just fictitious. Suppose a girl and a guy are going out and the guy is a rich brat and both love each other, but it is obvious that it may be shown in movies but love doesnt pay your bills, money does. So the such type of girls are rally into the guy but will also consider their future security, lets be practical but if she belongs from upper middle class or high class den she is not going to spend her life in some 4 by 4 attic. She will need money, big flat or bungalow, car, servants, etc. it is a practical issue. But den again if the girls main motive is money and not love den it is not the good thing for the guy to hold on to her and let her go as he is sure to get a better person than her and who he

deserves. But if the girls more than 90% motive is love, den we can always neglect the other 10%. As we are not going to select a girl completely by nature, we ourselves will accord for looks so it is best to be practical. In such a case my only advice to a guy who is in love with such a girl is to get aware of her main motive by telling her that he will not take over his fathers business and consider doing job, or that he doesnt want his fathers name and wants to do something on his own or even live sum time with that girl as if he has left everything and stop spending money towards her and he is sure to get to know of her true motive.

Chapter 4: Girls Who Are Not Interested In Any Guy.

This is the last case where a guy maybe interested in a girl who is not at all interested in any guy maybe because: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. She is career oriented and wants to concentrate on that. Her parents has high expectations from her. She might believe in old ways of arrange marriage. She might want to first become something den maybe look for sum1. She might have already been hurt in love and may not want to get hurt again. She is reserved and narrow minded to all these things.

In all these cases there is only little a guy can do and that is just wait and be patient to let the girl complete her carrier, or wait for her wounds to heal, or to approach for arrange marriage and such. He has to know what that girls true motive in life is maybe directly or through common friends or through her friends and such sources. Here too patience and self-trust is the main thing which a guy must not lose.

In all the three types described by me, it is in the best interest of a guy to know her girl first of all, den search for alternative ways to reach to her and to express his feelings. But he should see that he has to be calm and patient at all steps and should not rush into things because that will only worsen the case.