Change Insecure Into Grateful

I’m sure many of you are often insecure. Feeling dissatisfied with yourself, feeling the worst, or
even feeling that you are useless. I think all feelings are normal. If anyone asks why is it
reasonable? Of course the answer is because everyone always wants the best for themselves, and
everyone also wants to make the people around them proud. But ave you ever realized that
insecurity is our biggest enemy. Insecurity will not make us move forward, but quite the
opposite. We will remain at our current stage. We want to move forward, but that insecurity
always gets in the way. He always keeps us on, on, and on thinking about our shortcomings,
mistakes, and all the bad things that are in us. When we are insecure we will also find it difficult
to move. Because of what? Because every time we take action, no matter how small the action,
we always compare it with other people.
Now let's think about it, God has created humans with all the shortcomings and advantages that
exist. No human is perfect, all must have flaws. Maybe he is good at art, but maybe he is weak at
business. Maybe you and I are good at the same thing, but maybe I am not able to do what you
have done. Life is really simple. We are quite grateful for what God has given. In my opinion, all
that is more than enough. Everything in this world is actually a scenario from God. God has
arranged everything, and we are just puppets that can only move if the puppeteer is willing to
move them. In the eyes of the dalang, all puppets are the same, they are all inanimate objects that
cannot possibly live alone. In the story, the puppeteers determine the parts, advantages and
disadvantages of each the puppeteers in their role. So, it's not surprising that we as humans also
have our own ability to develop.

As human beings, the thing we really need to do is we have to be able to

recognize and love ourselves. Both of these are very simple things but in
reality they are not easy to do. It takes a long time for us to recognize
ourselves. When we can recognize ourselves, we will automatically
know what abilities and strengths we have. When we already know it, of
course we will also be moved to develop it into a competency. In the
course of self-knowledge, of course we will also know more about our
weaknesses, but don't let us just think about our shortcomings so that we
ignore the potential that exists. Weaknesses in ourselves need to be
directed as life lessons, but don't let us get lost in that situation. After
knowing ourselves, then we must learn to love ourselves. Loving
ourselves means we have to strive to be ourselves in order to develop.
Don't let us want to be "him" So that we can develop our potential.
Making someone as a role model is very necessary. However, don't let
us develop by positioning ourselves as the "he" we idolize. Make "him"
as a motivation in life, take positive messages or actions from "he" who
is idolized and apply these habits to our lives without us having to be
"him". So, "Turn your insecurity into gratitude by processing it as
ourselves"