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Communication Skill Guide
Communication Skill Guide
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7 Noor Zuleika Zulkipli
noorzuleika.zulkipli@qiup.edu.my
LEARNING OUTCOMES
By the end of this topic, you should be able to:
1. Explain the essence of communication in our daily lives;
2. Discuss the functions of verbal and nonverbal communication;
3. Demonstrate on how to be an effective communicator; and
4. Identify the barriers of effective communication.
INTRODUCTION
Effective communication is not only confined to the ability to speak fluently.
Many people did not realise that to be an effective communicator, one must not
just know how to speak, but also to listen. Also, communication has become
one of the key component to acquire in 21st century learning. According to the non
profit organisation in the United States, The Partnership for 21st Century Learning,
P21 (www.p21.org/index.php), communication involves mediated and digital
communication, interpersonal, written and oral communication. This topic will
assist you to gain communication skills and also how to become an effective
communicator.
ACTIVITY 7.1
Have you ever played a game called „The Telephone Game‰? This is how
it goes; as many people as possible will stand in a straight line. All the
players must be close enough as the player in front has to whisper a
„message‰ to the next person behind him/her, but not too close that
players can hear each other whisper. The whispering will continue until
the last player in line, and the last player will say the message out loud
so everyone can hear how much it has changed from the first message
uttered at the beginning.
The situation above indicates that in life, „One cannot not communicate‰. This
axiom was coined by Paul Watzlawick (1967) in his theory of interpersonal
communication, called Interactional View. This axiom basically says that even
if you are not actually talking, or perhaps not doing anything, you are still
communicating. Communicating, including non-verbal communication plays a
huge part and even when you are not speaking, you are still expressing non-verbal
ques, such as facial expressions, the way you are standing and also your silence.
Maybe we are aware that we are communicating, but do you realise that you are
actually going through a process? One of the best ways to understand the
communication process is to understand the model as depicted in Figure 7.1. This
model depicts the process of communication.
From this model, there are several elements that need to be introduced to you as
follows:
(b) Messages: what are the information that the senders want to transmit to the
receivers. Messages could be written, spoken, non-verbal, graphics or visual.
(c) Encoding: a process of transforming a series of words and symbols, also non-
verbal signals into a message or content.
(f) Noise: anything that distorts the message or creates barriers to communication
e.g. sounds or noise, hearing impairment, mispronunciation etc.
(g) Feedback: response from message recipient, turning one-way into two-way
communication.
(h) Context: is the situation or which event that communication took place.
ACTIVITY 7.2
(a) Sender/Receiver
(b) Encoding/Decoding
(c) Noise
(d) Context
Once you understood the process of communication, and also which types of
communication, you can begin to understand why communication does or does
not work. At this juncture, it is only appropriate that we discuss the functions of
communication in our daily life.
Paynton & Hahn (2018), have outlined several functions of verbal communication
as follows:
(d) Verbal Communication Helps Us Shape Our Attitudes About Our Worlds
The way you use language shapes your attitude about the world around you.
When you label, describe, or evaluate events in your life, you use the symbols
of the language you speak. Your use of these symbols to represent your
reality influences your perspective and attitude about the world. So, it makes
sense then that the more sophisticated your repertoire of symbols is, the more
sophisticated your world view can be for you.
ACTIVITY 7.3
Do an observation for three days on your friend or your colleagueÊs
verbal messages and nonverbal cues. Your observations must include all
the nonverbal cues as mentioned in this module. Then, write a report
and suggest ways to improve the communication behaviours of your
friend/colleague.
There are a few types of nonverbal communication but we are not going to discuss
in detail here, as you will learn in other modules throughout your study, such as
ABCC1103 Introduction to Communication and OUMH1303 English for Oral
Communication.
Paynton & Hahn (2018) has listed seven types of nonverbal communication such
as follows:
(a) Kinesics
The study of how we use body movement, facial expressions and eye
contact. Facial expressions are a primary method of sharing emotions and
feelings, and in some countries, eye contacts shows respect and honesty
while interacting or delivering messages.
(b) Haptics
Touch is the first type of nonverbal communication we experience as humans
and is vital to our development and health. We use touch to share feelings
and relational meanings such as hugs, handshakes or while kidding or
playful.
(d) Proxemics
The study of how our use of space influences the ways we relate with others.
Have you realised in some workplace, they provide big rooms for top
management positions while, middle and low positions workers are placed
in cubicles or compartments? It shows power and hierarchial structure
within the companies. On the other hand, there are also spaces we use to
form and maintain relationships. We use intimate space with those whom
we are close (family members, close friends and intimate partners) which
consists of spaces that ranges from touch to eighteen inches. Other than
intimate space is personal space, social space and public space.
(e) Chronemics
The study of how people use time. Are you the type of person that give high
value to time or not? Are you always punctual or really cherished someone
who are punctual to deal with? The way you use time actually depicted the
person you really are.
(f) Paralanguage
Involves vocal qualities such as pitch, volume, inflection, rate of speech and
rhythm. How we say words often expresses greater meaning than the actual
words themselves.
(g) Silence
When we do not use words or utterances to convey meanings. Silence is
powerful because the person using silence may be refusing to engage in
communication with you.
However, these skills of listening is becoming more important every day because
nowadays, we rarely listen and talk anymore, since the advancement of social
media and most of the communication processes focused around it (refer to
Figure 7.6 for Global Time Spent on Media, reported by World Economic Forum).
Referring to the chart above, a total of 61% of social media usage recorded
involving 15% of it through social networking. Social media also included talking
and listening online. Various quality of verbal, nonverbal and listening skills are
not there when experiencing through online.
Source: thequotes.com
(c) Listening to Others will Allow Them to Solve Their Own Problems
Management by listening: a term coined by Iuppa (1986) in Eunson (2016)
defined listening as allowing others to reach their own solutions by talking
through their problems. Most of us thought that listening to others is a waste
of our time, because the solution to their problems is pretty clear to us, but
this is a serious misconception that need to be changed.
SELF-CHECK 7.1
The more communication skills and knowledge you master, the more versatile you
will become as a communicator, and the greater will be the likelihood that you will
be able to communicate effectively in a range of situations. Communicating
differently not only gives you the opportunity to reinforce you message, but also
demonstrates your versatility and competence (Eunson, 2016).
ACTIVITY 7.4
Do you know that you are free to access Open Educational Resources
(OER) in Communication? You can search in www.google.com and it
will show you thousands of such access provided by various universities
around the globe.
SELF-CHECK 7.2
Discuss the barriers to effective communication. Provide relevant
examples.
There are five questions that you must asked yourself in order to be an effective
communicator. It is also important to identify and be aware of the barriers that
impede effective communication.
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