CHEATING

(reason) Cheating is a destructive habit that undermines communication, trust, obligations, emotional
health, and well-being. It can also have long-term effects on relationships.

(effect) Cheating causes profound emotional distress, erodes trust, and can have long-lasting negative
impacts on both individuals and the relationship.

(reaction) Possible reactions to cheating include feelings of betrayal, anger, sadness, loss of trust, and the
decision to either end the relationship or seek resolution through communication or counseling

(advise) Cheating is harmful; prioritize open communication, address relationship issues, and seek
counseling if needed to rebuild trust or make decisions about the future.

ONTROLLING
(reason) Controlling behavior in attraction is unacceptable as it infringes on personal autonomy,
undermines mutual respect, and hinders the development of a healthy, balanced relationship.

(effect) Controlling behavior erodes personal freedom, damages trust, and impedes the development of a
healthy and equitable relationship.

(reaction) Possible reactions to controlling behavior include feelings of frustration, resentment, a sense of
diminished autonomy, and the recognition that it's detrimental to a healthy relationship.

(advice) Reject controlling behaviors, prioritize open communication, and foster mutual respect to
maintain a healthy and balanced relationship.

UNRELIABILITY
(REASON) Unreliability in attraction is unacceptable as it undermines trust, creates uncertainty, and
hinders the development of a stable and dependable relationship.
(EFFECT) Unreliability breeds insecurity, disrupts trust, and undermines the foundation of a stable and
healthy relationship.

(REACTION) Possible reactions to unreliability include frustration, disappointment, and a diminishing

trust in the reliability and stability of the relationship.

(ADVICE) Address unreliability through open communication, set clear expectations, and prioritize
commitment to foster trust and strengthen the foundation of the relationship.

LACK OF COMMUNICATION SKILLS

(REASON) Lack of communication skills in attraction is unacceptable as it hinders understanding, fosters
misunderstandings, and impedes the development of a healthy and connected relationship.

(EFFECT) Lack of communication skills leads to misunderstandings, emotional distance, and a weakened
connection in relationships.

(REACTION) Possible reactions to lack of communication skills include frustration, feelings of neglect,
and a growing sense of disconnect within the relationship.

(advice) Improve your relationship by cultivating effective communication skills, actively listening, and
expressing your thoughts and feelings openly to foster understanding and connection.